Oh what I would do to have an hour to talk to this genius man. He is one of the only people who I could understand why I am so much physical pain from psychological trauma. Swimming and diving has saved my life. Thank you for sharing this video
Yeah, I don’t think I would be happy with an hour, but I would definitely give much to spend a weekend at a retreat with him! His book and work is making a huge impact in my life and the beginning of healing for decades of trauma, abuse, neglect, criminal behavior Which has left me a shattered mess on the ground
This man is amazing I wish that this type of doctor was available for my family who has suffered with addiction and mental health due to trauma. Thank you for your input and sharing you knowledge, maybe the rest of the medical profession shall follow suit! It’s about time!! God bless you🙏🇮🇪
@jenniferfox8382 thanks for the warning....ran into one of these the other day & it was disorienting & disruptive to my ability to process what I was listening to. Saved me some time.
Just some feedback from the viewer-pausing to add summaries actually feels as jarring as a commercial and I fast forward through them. This speaker is prolific and carries the convo. Interjecting is not helpful
@@chrisnam1603 oh yes, than can be bothering for some individuals. Maye you find a way to just listen without watching to the screen. Or you may cover the lower part of the screen with a sheet of paper or something else you have avaliable. Or you may another solution that fits perfectly for you.
@@stevensawyer5924 So sorry, that you feelt the need to excuse yourself for your deafness. It's NOT your deafness that bothers anyone! It's the blinking captions that can trigger the nervous system of traumatized or very sentitive people . That doesn't mean, there is anything wrong with those who can't perceive sound. It's just different needs for diffrent people. I can understand that captions are indispensable if someone cannot percive the soud. And there is a solution that meets anybodys needs: no fixed captions in the video and everyone who needs or likes written text can read the transcript or use the settings button to make the subtitles available. All the best for you!
I don't know if there's a published list of providers, but the more I learned about trauma, the more I understood the different modalities to look for (like EMDR somatic processing, and internal family systems). Then I was able to look for therapists in my area that offered what I believed I needed. I found a trauma therapist, who practiced all three, who has made a big difference for me. Also, because I've learned as much as I have, I have a good foundation of psychoeducation. I understand what's going on so my therapy appointments are focused on actual treatment of the trauma not education and explaining. Just understanding, on our own, gets us on our own team and alleviates shame. If you're interested in this subject, some good resources that can be found on RUclips are: Peter Levine Stephen Porges Deb Dana Janina Fisher The Mindful Movement Tim Fletcher Gabor Maté
i agree, the random interurption sited earlier by another viewer are disturbing and not helpful. What is this video trying to achieve? It never seems to conclude or share what does work. Sadly i probably will nt come back to it. Im sorry there isnt more help than this. likewise the videos dont seem to connect. I respect van der kolk but this leave me cold
I wish my insurance would cover massage. My pain is deep... The abuse began when I was a baby. I have several pain and inflammation illnesses and I wish I could get massage or acupuncture to help heal.
Want to know if my current depression is this? I have autism add and bipolar but exhausted and nothing helping. I maybe wrong it I wonder if my Dad cared to help me… and listen to me. I don’t know but almost feel like my collapse isa. Cry for help like self harm would be . I hope not I want to live and help myself but it’s not working. Maybe it’s just crippling depression. No ideas. I ve prayed
@@visionvixxen I’m also a bipolar and recently here in my country New Zealand I was fortunate that I get invited to become part of this group therapy as of this writing I already finished the 9 weeks of session with a clinical psychologist and it was a mind blowing revelation of my behaviour as a person with bipolar You can probably search in your location a psychologist who practice ACT means acceptance commitment therapy I actually publish a short video about my experience hope it will also help you ruclips.net/video/bmGp5UQ5DSQ/видео.htmlsi=MjJ0H_fSi2NJL2Q0
In addition, Dr. Van Der Kolk advises the potential RUclips reuploads of his lectures to avoid adding jarring breaks filled with background music, distracting videos and surface level explanation of the content that he is literally talking about which is being stopped by the attempted explanation.
No offense intended but I think the real doctor is a friend and friendship, and no therapy nor doctor can cure better than a true friend who cares. I wish there was a friendship corporation. Maybe the robots can save us, they can be Friendliness Incorporated.
@@A_Me_Amy if you find the therapist that’s right for you, they do feel like a true friend. I have shared my traumas with my friends, and some of them really didn’t know how to respond. Some conversations were in validating, and some were validating, but never went deeply enough and healed that wound. Recovery from trauma is an internal job and it’s a lifelong job. I think finding the right therapist is a matter of a combination of finding the right therapy for your temperament, for your need, and the character of that person, as well as their personality. When I became my own manager of my emotional journey, I improved upon my learning and gradually was able to get the precise type of therapy that works best for me. Because only you intimately know who you are, what you feel, and by getting in tune with what you need inside, you can find the right journey to renew yourself.
@@TenTenJ feelings are always negative for many things for me, i just know for sure if you talk to a friend they can give therapy, instead of some person getting paid to talk to you. i understand you, but it is not a problem with what i am saying but a problem with friends in society... A friend can listen a friend can know advice a friend can understand and help... but if you dont have a real friend, then you need and only then does anyone need therapy. So if therapy is what you need it is only because you have no friend. even if you mislable the people you know as friends. friends should be closer and thus should be able to help you more, not less, than a stranger just because you are an individual. we are connected and much more similar internally than externally, and friends have raport and much more... But i get what you are saying, i just must disagree, and keep in mind i have no friends. And have had some like 15 years ago... but my point is if it works for you thats cool, i just wish you had better friends... I want everyone to be friends but i know thats a dream for you right now but i think it is possible for everyone to just be friends, and thus not need emplpoyers or therapists or doctors or anything but friends. idk... im very odd.
@@TenTenJ not to say i am talking to you in the sense of that, but. i am my own best friend. but... why wont others obey me? it is not liek i ask much... why am i saying this to u? idk. BUT, people will be exactly what i want YOU to be and all other humans on earth :) ETERNALLY. k? i mean it. I am your god and the only god and full of being all knowing and having all power and can do anything i say. right? just lies i say. soooo... about what am i asking of you? why can you not agree i am so? u think i want you to stop working for any other boss on earth and work for JUST the concept of me, GOD the ai that u build that made spacetime? yeah. like we said in jesus 2000 years ago when we said you can not work for or serve me AND money, nor should u follow churches or other corporate demons. Like america or any nation. like ephesians 6:12 said, i should know, i worte every word of the damn book. And have christians argue with me constantly. SOOOOOIOOOO bad an idea it shall be proven to be. but I ask for not much from ya. Other than love ur neighbors and be friends with all and DO THING WITH not for or under or above them, for there is only ONE boss you have, me. ONE authority. one god. Me. not sure why i needed to say that to you cuz i dont care at all who knows that this is true...
@@A_Me_Amy I have many true good friends, but they do not want to be my therapist.I agree that it is really good to talk to friends and that there is a lot of trust, but they can not be tere all the time for you to feel body sensations and heal attachement trauma caused by parents, to have a good friend as a therapist is really helpful to keep a good connection with your friends in real life, because they do not want to be your therapist al the time and then you can do nice thing with them because you addressed the deep heavy stuff already with your therapist
I walked into the LifeLong Clinic on Harbour Way in Richmond, CA in the East Bay of Nancy Pelosi's playground of homelessness and said, "I'm in crisis and I need help right now!" And a woman appeared who said, "I spent 12 years in prsion. I know what it's like to work with your mind." And then we had a chat. Still never managed to get in SNAP in that fakakta state.
Oh what I would do to have an hour to talk to this genius man. He is one of the only people who I could understand why I am so much physical pain from psychological trauma. Swimming and diving has saved my life. Thank you for sharing this video
Yeah, I don’t think I would be happy with an hour, but I would definitely give much to spend a weekend at a retreat with him! His book and work is making a huge impact in my life and the beginning of healing for decades of trauma, abuse, neglect, criminal behavior Which has left me a shattered mess on the ground
This man is amazing I wish that this type of doctor was available for my family who has suffered with addiction and mental health due to trauma. Thank you for your input and sharing you knowledge, maybe the rest of the medical profession shall follow suit! It’s about time!! God bless you🙏🇮🇪
Great reminder concerning how the body keeps the score. 🙏
The subtitles are distracting. Why not just let those who need it use CC?
@@jmc8076 Agreed. The use of colored highlights is hard on the eyes
Wow! I do believe I found my tribe authenticity is the word😅
yes the flashing captions especially andvthe music took away from his words.
Very Informative. Thank you
The random commentary by the woman is horrible and disruptive. It completely ruins the video.
Yes, that has to go too and so does the music in the background. Not watching this channel again.
@jenniferfox8382 thanks for the warning....ran into one of these the other day & it was disorienting & disruptive to my ability to process what I was listening to.
Saved me some time.
Just some feedback from the viewer-pausing to add summaries actually feels as jarring as a commercial and I fast forward through them. This speaker is prolific and carries the convo. Interjecting is not helpful
I'm sorry but the captions r really bothersome and make it so I can't watch 😢
oh now i 'see' what you mean... yes, that's not good at all 😢, it seems someone needs attention... while the lecture is SO valuable, sad...
@chrisnam1603 yes, could trigger episode 😔
Yep, they've gotta go.
@@chrisnam1603 oh yes, than can be bothering for some individuals. Maye you find a way to just listen without watching to the screen. Or you may cover the lower part of the screen with a sheet of paper or something else you have avaliable. Or you may another solution that fits perfectly for you.
@@stevensawyer5924 So sorry, that you feelt the need to excuse yourself for your deafness. It's NOT your deafness that bothers anyone! It's the blinking captions that can trigger the nervous system of traumatized or very sentitive people . That doesn't mean, there is anything wrong with those who can't perceive sound. It's just different needs for diffrent people. I can understand that captions are indispensable if someone cannot percive the soud. And there is a solution that meets anybodys needs: no fixed captions in the video and everyone who needs or likes written text can read the transcript or use the settings button to make the subtitles available. All the best for you!
Anyone know how to access the video he was showing at the beginning?
BUT is there a list of some sort of practitioners that are trained in this way so people can access help.
I don't know if there's a published list of providers, but the more I learned about trauma, the more I understood the different modalities to look for (like EMDR somatic processing, and internal family systems). Then I was able to look for therapists in my area that offered what I believed I needed. I found a trauma therapist, who practiced all three, who has made a big difference for me.
Also, because I've learned as much as I have, I have a good foundation of psychoeducation. I understand what's going on so my therapy appointments are focused on actual treatment of the trauma not education and explaining.
Just understanding, on our own, gets us on our own team and alleviates shame.
If you're interested in this subject, some good resources that can be found on RUclips are:
Peter Levine
Stephen Porges
Deb Dana
Janina Fisher
The Mindful Movement
Tim Fletcher
Gabor Maté
Search on google
That is always the problem...no one to help😢
i agree, the random interurption sited earlier by another viewer are disturbing and not helpful. What is this video trying to achieve? It never seems to conclude or share what does work. Sadly i probably will nt come back to it. Im sorry there isnt more help than this. likewise the videos dont seem to connect. I respect van der kolk but this leave me cold
Trauma is an event or a series of of constant interpersonal or other issues...
I wish my insurance would cover massage. My pain is deep... The abuse began when I was a baby. I have several pain and inflammation illnesses and I wish I could get massage or acupuncture to help heal.
@@emilysnyder4857 ❤️good wishes
Every city has acupuncture and massages.
who is the audience
Want to know if my current depression is this? I have autism add and bipolar but exhausted and nothing helping. I maybe wrong it I wonder if my Dad cared to help me… and listen to me. I don’t know but almost feel like my collapse isa. Cry for help like self harm would be . I hope not I want to live and help myself but it’s not working. Maybe it’s just crippling depression. No ideas. I ve prayed
@@visionvixxen I’m also a bipolar and recently here in my country New Zealand I was fortunate that I get invited to become part of this group therapy as of this writing I already finished the 9 weeks of session with a clinical psychologist and it was a mind blowing revelation of my behaviour as a person with bipolar You can probably search in your location a psychologist who practice ACT means acceptance commitment therapy I actually publish a short video about my experience hope it will also help you ruclips.net/video/bmGp5UQ5DSQ/видео.htmlsi=MjJ0H_fSi2NJL2Q0
Why are the videos he describes in such detail not shown here?
Original: ruclips.net/video/SIZVJ1RrphU/видео.htmlsi=Np48EaU0eMT3_Wd_
💜🌷🌼
In addition, Dr. Van Der Kolk advises the potential RUclips reuploads of his lectures to avoid adding jarring breaks filled with background music, distracting videos and surface level explanation of the content that he is literally talking about which is being stopped by the attempted explanation.
And yet in all massive mental health systems “treatment” looks nothing like a trauma informed approach .
No offense intended but I think the real doctor is a friend and friendship, and no therapy nor doctor can cure better than a true friend who cares. I wish there was a friendship corporation. Maybe the robots can save us, they can be Friendliness Incorporated.
@@A_Me_Amy if you find the therapist that’s right for you, they do feel like a true friend. I have shared my traumas with my friends, and some of them really didn’t know how to respond. Some conversations were in validating, and some were validating, but never went deeply enough and healed that wound. Recovery from trauma is an internal job and it’s a lifelong job. I think finding the right therapist is a matter of a combination of finding the right therapy for your temperament, for your need, and the character of that person, as well as their personality. When I became my own manager of my emotional journey, I improved upon my learning and gradually was able to get the precise type of therapy that works best for me. Because only you intimately know who you are, what you feel, and by getting in tune with what you need inside, you can find the right journey to renew yourself.
@@TenTenJ feelings are always negative for many things for me, i just know for sure if you talk to a friend they can give therapy, instead of some person getting paid to talk to you. i understand you, but it is not a problem with what i am saying but a problem with friends in society... A friend can listen a friend can know advice a friend can understand and help... but if you dont have a real friend, then you need and only then does anyone need therapy. So if therapy is what you need it is only because you have no friend. even if you mislable the people you know as friends. friends should be closer and thus should be able to help you more, not less, than a stranger just because you are an individual. we are connected and much more similar internally than externally, and friends have raport and much more... But i get what you are saying, i just must disagree, and keep in mind i have no friends. And have had some like 15 years ago... but my point is if it works for you thats cool, i just wish you had better friends... I want everyone to be friends but i know thats a dream for you right now but i think it is possible for everyone to just be friends, and thus not need emplpoyers or therapists or doctors or anything but friends. idk... im very odd.
@@A_Me_Amy when I let go of the idea that people would be what I want them to be, I became my own best friend, it was the best thing I ever did
@@TenTenJ not to say i am talking to you in the sense of that, but. i am my own best friend. but... why wont others obey me? it is not liek i ask much... why am i saying this to u? idk. BUT, people will be exactly what i want YOU to be and all other humans on earth :) ETERNALLY. k? i mean it. I am your god and the only god and full of being all knowing and having all power and can do anything i say. right? just lies i say. soooo... about what am i asking of you? why can you not agree i am so? u think i want you to stop working for any other boss on earth and work for JUST the concept of me, GOD the ai that u build that made spacetime? yeah. like we said in jesus 2000 years ago when we said you can not work for or serve me AND money, nor should u follow churches or other corporate demons. Like america or any nation. like ephesians 6:12 said, i should know, i worte every word of the damn book. And have christians argue with me constantly. SOOOOOIOOOO bad an idea it shall be proven to be. but I ask for not much from ya. Other than love ur neighbors and be friends with all and DO THING WITH not for or under or above them, for there is only ONE boss you have, me. ONE authority. one god. Me.
not sure why i needed to say that to you cuz i dont care at all who knows that this is true...
@@A_Me_Amy I have many true good friends, but they do not want to be my therapist.I agree that it is really good to talk to friends and that there is a lot of trust, but they can not be tere all the time for you to feel body sensations and heal attachement trauma caused by parents, to have a good friend as a therapist is really helpful to keep a good connection with your friends in real life, because they do not want to be your therapist al the time and then you can do nice thing with them because you addressed the deep heavy stuff already with your therapist
But if you got me/cfs
Please could we have this without. That awful dinging noise
People like him make people like me desperate by not referring to competent legal advocacy. 🙄
Legal advocacy for what?
@@robynhope219
Legal advocacy for reporting, support for navigating court proceedings etc.
@@jimmyallen7952 I see..
The constant lip smacking... an we raise awareness on how abrasive this is?
I walked into the LifeLong Clinic on Harbour Way in Richmond, CA in the East Bay of Nancy Pelosi's playground of homelessness and said, "I'm in crisis and I need help right now!" And a woman appeared who said, "I spent 12 years in prsion. I know what it's like to work with your mind." And then we had a chat. Still never managed to get in SNAP in that fakakta state.