this is why mamalynn isn't talking to her. Also the "stopped drinking" bullshit it's because Emily isn't taking her on dates and apparently you can't get alcohol delivered to your home on Wisconsin
drinking, getting high then eating all night, sleeping until late afternoon can't be the problem, fortunately for amber we still watch her and she can continue on this love herself journey
ALR hasn't been properly dx'd for anything since she was a kid. She picks the symptoms and grabs a condition that they apply to. ALR doesn't follow treatments, because she knows she doesn't have the conditions. Gun to my head, her ADHD dx with situational depression and underlying anxiety is probably accurate. Too bad she won't do anything but blame her disorders for her bad behaviors.
Seeing how she's settled in at Tommy's, makes me think about the fact that she'll move wherever she has to for a caretaker. I wonder why she refuses to show Twinkie, spite?
Oh god..reading this, my brain just gave me an involuntary image of a nipple eating 😂🤢 But yeah the way she talks makes me wanna hug a wall with my skull lol
the first time i heard her say this on live last year made me roll my eyes so effin hard they could’ve got stuck. lol my annoyed grunt was probably heard by the dinosaurs
Amber wanted to move in thats why she brought all that crap and the pets (this is her MO visit and just say). Her last video was not to the audience but her way of explaining to Emily why dhe was being overbearing. Im sure she bugged Emily all the time and she broke Emily down so Amber can stay now. Look how frigging happy she is now, she broke Emily down. Thats what Narcassists do. Amber got her way THATS why shes beaming and suddenly out of her depression. She wasnt depressed, she wasnt getting what she wants.
It's what I think too. I bet she was drinking, mask slipped, Emily said ok you can go now! And she probably came out with this. Worked on her.. so she probs thinks it will work on us too 😂
Absolutely. As someone with BPD therapy is a must for me. I go once or twice a week depending on my needs , and honestly I couldn't survive without therapy
Home girl looks like she’s been crying all day… that’s how it was eventually with her and wifey…. Something is definitely going on behind the scenes. They’re probably physically fighting…
I suspect that if she tried to hit Tommi like she hit others then she's been told that's once and the next time you're out. Sounds like she's on an ultimatum to sort herself out or ship the heck out.
@@gh0stpuppi333 Then why did the allergy appear only now when she’s had cats around since Destiny? That doesn’t make any sense at all. Why would you get a cat if you’re allergic (I can understand if your partner had a cat prior to you meeting them) but to actively get a cat on your own just doesn’t make any sense at all.
Let's be clear, she would have voted for him. She shares the vindictive streak and admires his professional level gaslighting. ALR would tell everyone she didn't, but she would have.
Hope I'm wrong, but the fact they used to go out drinking so much at the beginning, then ALR disappeared one day for weeks, came back looking awful and talking about "Tommy has to stop drinking", has me thinking somthing bad/altracation maybe took place... Lexi already said Tommy isn't what she seems etc. As I said hope I'm wrong but somthing is off.
She and Tommy might be having drunk fistfights. I'm sure Amber is horrid when drunk and offline. Maybe Tommy beat her ass and apologized by promising she will stop drinking. Amber is a huge liar so we never know. She's already lied in this video.
If they break up she’ll be happy to spill about Tommy’s abuse unless it will incriminate herself. But until then, she’ll absolutely never admit anything like that. For sure.
Until this girl says that she says that she has an official appointment with a psychiatrist, I won’t believe a damn word. Nor shall I pitty her. As an adult you should be taking accountability for your mental health, you can’t keep blaming the past.
Exactly! BPD is so horrible to deal with daily, but she seems to only be affected by it now that Tommy isn’t taking her shit? There’d still be symptoms while she lived by herself but she’s such a liar who probably just can’t handle being told no by a significant other. This is just my perspective as a borderline myself :/
Yes! You weren’t in control when stuff happened to you when you were a child. But now you’re an adult and you have choices. She has the funds to see a therapist. She has the funds to take medication. She chooses not to do anything which is why I don’t feel bad for her AT ALL. If you need help with psychological or mental things, past trauma and such. I support that, I can understand. But if you choose to not do what is required, even when you can afford it, then you lose all sympathy from me… go be a victim around someone else.
Unless she proves she’s been diagnosed with BPD, I have no sympathy for this horrible woman. She is notorious for conveying her audience about her fake experiences that have actually stemmed from other people (e.g. Kassie’s coming out story and Krystal’s mental health problems) and LIED about being a DA/SA victim. You can never believe any word coming her big mouth. She’ll continue to mock people who truly have physical/mental health problems.
All I remember about her "diagnosis" was that she saw the mandatory therapist for the 10-12 appointments before WLS. At the end, the therapist recommended she go to someone who specializes in BPD because she might have it. So. That was it, Amber took it as a diagnosis.
Your attention span is something you can train, put that phone in another room! Take up hobbies like reading, drawing, etc that don't involve a screen ❤ I'm also so screen addicted even though it gives me headaches and ruins my mood but making my "default" hobby reading a book instead of scrolling has helped a lot.
@@Halimo-j9h I feel you! If you don't want to buy/borrow physical books see if you can get yourself an e-reader, I don't get nearly as much eye strain/headaches from the e-ink display and I make the print larger.
Sadly I think Amber ruined her relationship with her mom for another girlfriend who does not value her for the right reasons. If MamaLynn cut her off, I don't blame her.
Amber always jumps the gun when she announces that she is planning to seek help or change. It is rewarding to say you want to change but it is hard to actually do it. She gets off on the announcement and nothing more
Gorls, I know who this mental health professional psychologist is. You see, government salaries aren’t keeping up with inflation and so what’s an upstanding FBI agent to do when he’s just trying to pay his mortgage? Well, now, he not only protects our gorl, but he becomes her psychologist too! Dr FBI Frank!! 👍🏼😄
Amber knows Twink is “weird about other dogs” and just brings Twink and hopes for the best meeting another dog? What was the plan if they didn’t get along???
Love her admitting that she brought twinkie to live with another dog despite the high possibility she/he wouldn't like that other dog. I'm glad it worked out but she really told on herself there..
said this on bottles video too but it's crazy amber is telling us to keep tommy in our thoughts when she (tommy) dates people with the goal to get them fatter & unhealthier like how about stop trying 2 ruin others health first
Good point about how demanding alr is to her gfs; hours on the phone and driving to work and tracking, all of that is highly unusual and a really flashy red flag.
Psychiatrist slash therapist... not usually how that works. Also love how she hasn't even contacted this person yet but she counts her "finding" them as being "one step closer" goooorrrllllll
Therapy will have one of two outcomes for her. She's either going to lie and manipulate the therapist into blindly agreeing with all of her casually evil behavior, or the therapist will see through it, tell her the truth and we'll get either a sobbing whining video about how she's been So Badly Abused or she'll quietly never book another session. Therapy will do nothing for her. She's in too deep.
She's not doing therapy. This is just a storyline to drag out through November and December to get the increased income. The entire video was a troll. She's always showing what psychologists call "Duper's Delight" when she starts a new arc because she can't believe how dumb (in her mind) the audience is to keep falling for cycle after cycle with the same behaviors over 11 years. She'll end this new arc with a confession video while crying and blaming her childhood. She just had to change the subject because it can't be a "weight loss arc" when with a feeder. Enter the therapy arc. The Amberverse is paying for her lifestyle of constant lying, manipulating, and harming others. She is a con artist who knows she is producing nontent while earning more than many college educated professionals. But viewers allow her to get away with it. Now she's trying to convince us that we should expect nothing longer than 3 minutes of vlog so we'll stop bugging her about 8 minutes. She is a full on narcissistic who thinks she's always the smartest person in the room. The best thing to happen for Amber's healing is if everyone moves on and stop making Amber relevant with views and attention. At this point, following her is merely feeding the monster within her.
It's the greatest ___ ever. They totally get her and are going to solve all her problems. Turns out all the ____ in her past were wrong. No one has understood her like this before and she's ready to improve. Trust the process, she knows what works for her. Smh. Stg, if someone on a bus bench told her what she wanted to hear they'd be the next, best ___ ever.
I'm gonna say this again. She only started the BPD shit when ZM uploaded in March of last year about Life Plus Cindy. She even states in the video she was "officially diagnosed" a year and a half ago... I'm not denying that she has it or not but I don't believe she was ever officially diagnosed with anything 🙄 and I believe she's just riding on her newest fixation
I cannot imagine getting into a relationship if I was at my worst, mentally. Whats the point..? You can't love yourself, but you expect to love others properly? The lack of self awareness from her is astounding. But, I need to remember, her lifespan is shorter than ours. Our gorl is living condensed
@@HelloCompanion it is not normal for people to pick up accents in weeks. she is so full of shit. people use words like "hectic" but they don't develop new accents.
@@briar8855it decreases with age - 33 wouldn't have the same effect as a child. ALR mimics because she doesn't have her own personality and takes on - that's a different effect!
I have BPD. There's an incredibly well structured therapy for it called DBT, it's life changing. Why is she not in it? She has the resources for it. Or is it the same as "I'll lose viewers if I lose weight" type moment
Probably. Or maybe she isn’t ready to heal and likes being abused by Tommy. Despite all of us telling her the truth she refuses to hear, I find it suspicious that she’ll be talking to a therapist/psychiatrist. Those don’t exist, she needs to pick a struggle. In Australia a psychiatrist only spends like 1 to 2 sessions with you and gets you to try meds until they have a new appointment time available a year later lmao. DBT can be helpful, it’s not a full on life saver for most, but she could at least download an app
As somebody who has bpd as well, I think she isn't officially diagnosed. She had so many different 'diagnoses', and I think when someone says any mental disorder around her, she takes it and uses it to excuse her behaviour 😅
@@anastasiam4448 DBT is just the beginning of being able to build a life worth living with BPD - after 40 weeks of the structured therapy my clinic will evaluate which step to take next. So in my opinion it is really crucial to experience what it's like to be able to self regulate. I'm Australian too, my psychiatrist just gave me my ADHD meds and yeeted a DBT referral to the mental health clinic I'm currently attending. I'm not sure how America works - perhaps Amber is mixing up the titles and thinks therapist/psychologist/psychiatrist/psychotherapist is the same thing. It's not my place to really disbelieve if she has it or not tbh, to me she definitely struggles with her sense of self - she's just god awful at doing the obvious steps to help herself. And yeah, using her BPD as an excuse physically causes me pain.
So I never want to put this on anyone but it’s the evidence of the timing and what was happening in the community that I’ve come to this conclusion. When ALR said she was diagnosed with BPD it was at the exact same time Zachary M was covering LifeByCindy. She admitted she was watching that channel and people brought up she could have BTP. All of a sudden around that time when she was seeing an “online therapist” she also had BPD. I’m not saying she doesn’t have it, but I would I be more inclined by the timing and her lack of ever getting professional help she never was diagnosed but felt the symptoms fit her personality and self diagnosed. I could be 100% wrong but I did find the timing interesting…
@ honestly I wouldn’t be surprised she doesn’t ever get real help so how would she get a legit diagnosis? Life By Cindy does have BPD and that’s what her channel is mainly about so it’s safe to assume ALR jumped on the band wagon.
7:44 Absolutely not cold. Completely accurate if you ask me. She doesn’t want to get better she just wants an excuse. Also I’ll scream it from the rooftop, AMBER YOU DONT HAVE BPD!!!!
I fully agree. If she had BPD she would’ve shown symptoms even when she was living alone and not in a relationship. Plus if a psychologist did diagnose her with BPD, how are they letting her exist without forcing her into DBT therapy? Regular counselling??
Thank you!!! As someone who was diagnosed with bpd and has been in therapy ever since it pisses me off how she treats it as an excuse for everything and doesn't get treatment when she has all the resources for it. If her 'BPD' was as debilitating as she always claims it to be I would think she would try something to help it yknow
There is most definitely a reason she is getting help for BPD right now. I bet it’s caused some major issues between her and Tommy. Maybe alcohol made it worse. Tommy probably told her to get help if she wants to continue the relationship.
10:45 I think she feels SO alone because this is the first girlfriend she’s had (since early Destiny days) that actually leaves for work. If we’re to believe Emily is a nurse, this leaves ALR alone with her thoughts for upwards of 12 hours a day or more. And she’s isolated & trapped. She doesn’t have family or friends nearby, she doesn’t have work to focus on, and she can’t even leave the house if she wanted to. Her entire existence revolves around Emily and so when Emily leaves for work, it leaves ALR feeling lonely and empty I know the feeling because I have (formally diagnosed) BPD. It’s a feeling of emptiness and despair that’s hard to describe. Gorl needs to get therapy asap because BPD doesn’t just get better magically on its own. It is a personality disorder. It’s not a separate part of us like she wants to believe. It pervades every part of our lives and if/ when we’re not in treatment, it can cause real harm to both ourselves and our relationships.
I had a friend all thru college who was the worst drunk I've ever seen in my life. Fast forward some years and I heard from her. She told me basically her organs stopped being able to process alcohol one day and even a drink would have her sick on the floor. That's when she became sober.
I feel the same way about movies and TV. I've been doing FT school for four years and didn't watch TV. Now it's hard for me to sit still so I'll do chores while watching. 😅
Tommy is having health issues so she’s stopping drinking, but her ex was having health issues (being 900 lbs) but they still fed into Tommy’s fetish. I see how it is.
I’d look into screen addiction if I was you. Start by looking/tracking how many hours a week you spend staring at a screen. You describing your phone was akin to how ALR talks about food.
@@melissamoonchild9216 A lot of people aren’t addicted to their phone. They use their phone only for conversations with loved ones. If you were to leave your phone in the other room for 6 hours would you find yourself uncomfortable? If so you probably have a problem. Hell I’d say even just 3 hours.
Every lease I’ve ever signed has stated a period of time that I could be away from my apartment. There’s no way she hasn’t broken her lease by being gone an entire month. I wouldn’t be shocked if she received or receives a notice to vacate.
How can she say if she is definitively going to be seeing a doctor she hasn’t even called yet? They might not be taking any new patients or may have no availability and be fully booked up for months. Good doctors and specialists are not people you can say you are definitely going to get any kind of treatment from unless you are already an established patient.
Minor thing: She can’t be clinically diagnosed with CPTSD in the US because US clinicians use the DSM, which doesn’t include that diagnosis. Even those who fit the bill for it often have conversations with our clinicians about what’s going down as the official diagnosis and why. Her saying she was diagnosed with CPTSD around the 7:55 mark in this vid is such a transparent lie. Either that or she doesn’t know what “diagnosed” means. Or both. 💀
Not accurate. It is used here but cannot bill it out. Ptsd is the billable code because the full title of that code is trauma & related stress disorders... which includes complex ptsd... from a licensed psychologist in the USA.
Oh god, the Wisconsin/ Minnesota sound is coming in with Amber at like 32 minutes. "Nuthin' Spaetial Thaere" Get ready for her sounding like she watched Fargo and thinking that is a perfect representation of a Northern Midwest accent.
So has Amber permanently moved in with Tommy? She who diagnoses their self has an absolute idiot for a doctor and Amber is an idiot. She doesn’t need to share her experience with BPD with anyone. She’s such a hypochondriac she makes too big a deal with every little issue she has.
I’m going to put my theory out there and say Tommy maybe super depressed. It’s not obvious as to why. I’m not sure where he sits in her grief with Colleen but I could see something like that being a factor. Now ALR is in and settled - the personalities are clashing and Tommy is probably seeking a way to cope. Just my personal thoughts.
I have BPD and I actually been assuming ALR has the same disorder since 2017. I have been in therapy for 4+ years and am NOT healed. So neither is she. BPD is extremely, extremely hard to live with and I do feel sorry for anyone who has it. But it's even harder if you don't do anything about it.
I'm fully convinced Tommy is on Ozempic or similar. She said she wanted to go on it with Amber and now she has a SUDDEN inability to have one drink? That's a super duper common side effect of semaglutide.
genuinly what does she do if shes not active on her social medias? she must have like alts at this point because i cannot imagine what else she could be doing during the day when stuck at home for so many hours without social media unless shes sleeping 17 hours a day but then one would think she would loose weight not gain..
I'm thinking pancreatitis. I developed it a few years ago, a non-alcoholic version, as I didn't drink much myself. But even if alcohol didn't cause it, alcohol can make you keep developing it and turn it from an acute issue to a chronic one. A lot of things can cause it, mine was an autoimmune issue.
I got my gallbladder removed when I was younger. Now I can’t drink alcohol because it raises my liver enzymes. So my doctor put me on strict no alcohol and a fatty liver diet.
@ omg I’m so sorry I didn’t get the notification. Basically low fat everything. So I usually eat lean meat like chicken, turkey, and fish. All dairy products are low fat. I only eat whole wheat items when it comes to grains. I really limit sugar and I try to replace most sugar with maple syrup. Then no fried foods at all. However I am not on the diet rn because I am pregnant and have HG so chicken and stuff makes me throw up rn 😅.
I truly appreciate all you do, Alex. Your effort is noticed and adored. Be well, everyone. Your feelings and health matter greatly, and I'm proud of you all ❤️❤️❤️
What on earth does she have to put into a planner? It's like the business person that carries a brief case with just their lunch box in it. She has no need for it at all.
I’m sorry but I’m thinking about her Q&A saying she would vlog the shit out of NewYork and here shes in a new state vlogging chairs and a wall and that will never not be funny lol
You are so stinkin cute!!! ❤. I think both ALR and Tommy have addiction issues. And ALR is so codependent it’s ridiculous. Their relationship is definitely one huge red flag.
What shakes me to the core is realizing there are people with untreated mental health conditions just roaming the planet damaging every psyche they come into contact with. Love that for us. :/
Amber is defined by her many diagnoses. She wears them like a sash of girl scout badges. I think that is all she knows how to talk about any more....and, btw, she was NEVER officially diagnosed with BPD (just like every other "illness" she claims to have). I swear if I have to listen to her yammer on and on about her mentals, in every single video I am just not going to listen to her at all any more. Sorry Alex. Nothing against your talent...but even you can't take the irritatingly boring out of Amberlynn Reid.
Depression isn’t about who you’re with or what your doing .....,,,,it’s a chemical imbalance, a mental illness . It’s hard for people that don’t experience depression or mania to understand how somebody can have the nicest spouse the great job everything appears to be all good but you feel like the worlds falling apart.........It Sucks
I have major clinical depression and sometimes it feels like it will never go away no matter what. She tries to find a person to make her feel better but you can only find relief in yourself finding peace with it.
As someone with diagnosed BPD and CPTSD, just to name a few lmao, Amber is really letting us traumatised folk down :( Like yes we developed these conditions because of how much we were hurt by others, but our actions to this day are still OURS - and taking accountability is something she SUCKS at doing so she’s hiding behind the diagnoses and making us look like we’re horrible ppl who can’t and won’t change. But a lot of us are in therapy, it doesn’t work for everyone and I fully get that, it barely works for me but barely is better than not at all, talking about it to professionals is a LOT safer mentally than blabbing on the internet like Amber and hiding from the consequences. I don’t believe she has BPD only because it affects SO much of my life and day to day relationships and friendships, she’s just such a liar I don’t know what to believe from her. If she has been diagnosed then kudos to her like she says she has been, but psychiatrists and psychologists would NOT let someone they’ve just diagnosed with BPD live without ensuring that there’s some ongoing counselling in place.
Yes exactly. She does such a disservice for those actually struggling with BPD. She promotes harmful stereotypes and makes people believe that all people with bpd behave like she does which IS NOT TRUE. Aside from that, Its good you’re able to share that you struggle with bpd. It’s people like you who can disclose the truth about what it’s like to have and live with bpd. I’m proud of you for seeking treatment to help, even though it’s barely helping. It takes guts to admit you’re falling short from where you could be but trying is what’s important and you’re doing a hell of a job! Especially compare to ALR lol
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So she can drink and vape in front of her sober mother but won't in front of tommy? that's such a slap in the face to mama lynn
Exactly 😡
WOW good point!!!!
She was (subconsciously) doing it in front of her mom as payback for Mamalynn choosing substances over ALR. 100% 0%
@@andiward7068most definitely
this is why mamalynn isn't talking to her. Also the "stopped drinking" bullshit it's because Emily isn't taking her on dates and apparently you can't get alcohol delivered to your home on Wisconsin
“I don’t want to attach myself to Tommy’s hip”. Then don’t move in immediately after meeting her.
😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊
Doing the thing that’s a symptom instead of dating over a course of time .. like a normal person let it make sense.
lol girl living permanently in her house without leaven.
So much not making sense lol 😅
Amber blaming everything on BPD while not getting treatment is infuriating.
You can change "BPD" in this sentence with any other condition she self diagnosed over the years...
drinking, getting high then eating all night, sleeping until late afternoon can't be the problem, fortunately for amber we still watch her and she can continue on this love herself journey
It’s not about the condition it’s about not losing the excuse .
ALR hasn't been properly dx'd for anything since she was a kid. She picks the symptoms and grabs a condition that they apply to. ALR doesn't follow treatments, because she knows she doesn't have the conditions.
Gun to my head, her ADHD dx with situational depression and underlying anxiety is probably accurate. Too bad she won't do anything but blame her disorders for her bad behaviors.
Beeeeeeepeeeeeeedeeeeeee 😫
Tommy probably got a damn DUI.
Oh damn best theory I’ve heard so far.
i was thinking that!!!!
They were constantly drinking at clubs together. And we know Amber and her equally big bestie lex wouldn’t fit in an Uber.
would this be public info we can find somewhere
I agree dui
If she's trying to not tell us that tommy is an alcoholic, she needs to shut her mouth. She's a licensed RN. That's a big no no
good point! could she lose her license ? what if she got a dui ?
I know a fair amount of RN that are alcoholics they’re just good at hiding it
@boosqueezy2418 they might make her go to recovery to keep her license.
What if shes trying to get tommy fired so she can spend more time with amber?
@@brezn_4183bingo
30:26 "i need to figure out how to not make someone my whole world"
🗣️ GO TO COUNSELING
Seeing how she's settled in at Tommy's, makes me think about the fact that she'll move wherever she has to for a caretaker. I wonder why she refuses to show Twinkie, spite?
yes
twonk is passed
she left Twonk with mommalynn.
@@pheonixgray6078why would you say that? How terrible of you.
I think Amber not showing her pets
“Mah-nipple-ate” makes me irritated. All the Amberlynn-isms are just grating to me.
Oh god..reading this, my brain just gave me an involuntary image of a nipple eating 😂🤢
But yeah the way she talks makes me wanna hug a wall with my skull lol
I was reading the comments before I watched the video and sitting here trying to sound this out 😂
I had to say that out loud to figure it out!
At first I thought it said my nipple ate 😂😂 had to say a few times before I figured out it's amberlese for manipulate 😅
the first time i heard her say this on live last year made me roll my eyes so effin hard they could’ve got stuck. lol my annoyed grunt was probably heard by the dinosaurs
Amber wanted to move in thats why she brought all that crap and the pets (this is her MO visit and just say). Her last video was not to the audience but her way of explaining to Emily why dhe was being overbearing. Im sure she bugged Emily all the time and she broke Emily down so Amber can stay now. Look how frigging happy she is now, she broke Emily down. Thats what Narcassists do. Amber got her way THATS why shes beaming and suddenly out of her depression. She wasnt depressed, she wasnt getting what she wants.
Yes 👏🏽listen to the professor, folks 👆🏽
And Emily deserves this... 😂😂😂
@@Her600PoundLife 10000%!!! 🎯
That is quite the read. I think you’re right on
It's what I think too. I bet she was drinking, mask slipped, Emily said ok you can go now!
And she probably came out with this. Worked on her.. so she probs thinks it will work on us too 😂
Getting THERAPY helps with BPD waaayyy more than another blank planner
Fr! Plus her ADHD arc would struggle to continuously use a planner
made me laugh out loud when she said she was a scheduling queen who always fails at the schedule… then ma’am you can’t schedule. 🙄
Her sched is ignoring the ignoring the planner.@@elizabethgrant1155
Absolutely. As someone with BPD therapy is a must for me. I go once or twice a week depending on my needs , and honestly I couldn't survive without therapy
Home girl looks like she’s been crying all day… that’s how it was eventually with her and wifey…. Something is definitely going on behind the scenes. They’re probably physically fighting…
We knew it was gonna get dark…
NoOoooOooO of COURSE not she’s just ALLERGIC to her CATS!!! Definitely!!!!
I suspect that if she tried to hit Tommi like she hit others then she's been told that's once and the next time you're out.
Sounds like she's on an ultimatum to sort herself out or ship the heck out.
@@gh0stpuppi333 Then why did the allergy appear only now when she’s had cats around since Destiny? That doesn’t make any sense at all. Why would you get a cat if you’re allergic (I can understand if your partner had a cat prior to you meeting them) but to actively get a cat on your own just doesn’t make any sense at all.
lmao and she looks so giddy?? looks like she had a huuuuge fight with Emily and her narc/BPD brain is finally settled now that she ruined things again
The fact that she didn't vote and she doesn't do anything but sit there and play with Legos really pisses me off
and she has the audacity to complain about the election results!
@@boosqueezy2418fr you can’t complain about who wins if you didn’t vote just because you didn’t feel like it 💀
Exactly. This grown-ass woman in her 30's can't be 'devastated' about the election when she was too lazy to vote.
@@vihaze6725especially since you can vote by mail!
Let's be clear, she would have voted for him. She shares the vindictive streak and admires his professional level gaslighting. ALR would tell everyone she didn't, but she would have.
Hope I'm wrong, but the fact they used to go out drinking so much at the beginning, then ALR disappeared one day for weeks, came back looking awful and talking about "Tommy has to stop drinking", has me thinking somthing bad/altracation maybe took place... Lexi already said Tommy isn't what she seems etc. As I said hope I'm wrong but somthing is off.
I think you can tell a lot by people’s eyes and tommy really gives me the heebee jeebees.
Oh thank you Im glad im not the only one those eyes freak out. I thought I was being mean @Pappysheartattack
@@Pappysheartattack 💯💯 creepy af, very cold empty eyes.
It would be deeply ironic and entirely karmic if Emily were abusing ALR. I don't have any sympathy for either of them. They deserve each other
@@PappysheartattackDead shark eyes.. so unsettling
She and Tommy might be having drunk fistfights. I'm sure Amber is horrid when drunk and offline. Maybe Tommy beat her ass and apologized by promising she will stop drinking. Amber is a huge liar so we never know. She's already lied in this video.
If they break up she’ll be happy to spill about Tommy’s abuse unless it will incriminate herself. But until then, she’ll absolutely never admit anything like that. For sure.
Well, yeah; her mouth was moving.
Until this girl says that she says that she has an official appointment with a psychiatrist, I won’t believe a damn word. Nor shall I pitty her. As an adult you should be taking accountability for your mental health, you can’t keep blaming the past.
Exactly! BPD is so horrible to deal with daily, but she seems to only be affected by it now that Tommy isn’t taking her shit? There’d still be symptoms while she lived by herself but she’s such a liar who probably just can’t handle being told no by a significant other. This is just my perspective as a borderline myself :/
I would need to go with her…..
Yes! You weren’t in control when stuff happened to you when you were a child. But now you’re an adult and you have choices. She has the funds to see a therapist. She has the funds to take medication. She chooses not to do anything which is why I don’t feel bad for her AT ALL.
If you need help with psychological or mental things, past trauma and such. I support that, I can understand. But if you choose to not do what is required, even when you can afford it, then you lose all sympathy from me… go be a victim around someone else.
Unless she proves she’s been diagnosed with BPD, I have no sympathy for this horrible woman. She is notorious for conveying her audience about her fake experiences that have actually stemmed from other people (e.g. Kassie’s coming out story and Krystal’s mental health problems) and LIED about being a DA/SA victim.
You can never believe any word coming her big mouth. She’ll continue to mock people who truly have physical/mental health problems.
She diagnosis herself for sure. No sympathy for this 🐮
And notice how she never mentions her weight loss anymore...
Casey :)
All I remember about her "diagnosis" was that she saw the mandatory therapist for the 10-12 appointments before WLS. At the end, the therapist recommended she go to someone who specializes in BPD because she might have it. So. That was it, Amber took it as a diagnosis.
@@lisarae7823And then she never followed through. 🤷🏻♀️
Your attention span is something you can train, put that phone in another room! Take up hobbies like reading, drawing, etc that don't involve a screen ❤ I'm also so screen addicted even though it gives me headaches and ruins my mood but making my "default" hobby reading a book instead of scrolling has helped a lot.
Unfortunately, I read using my phone. The screen gives me a headache too.
@@Halimo-j9h I feel you! If you don't want to buy/borrow physical books see if you can get yourself an e-reader, I don't get nearly as much eye strain/headaches from the e-ink display and I make the print larger.
Amber does not have ADHD ADD. She completes many highly complicated leggo sets, and claims to be an avid reader.
33:06 “you guys always ask ‘what is your favorite pen?’” GORL NO WE DO NOT
😂 this is so funnyyyyy
THANK YOU!
I can hardly sleep at night not knowing
Sadly I think Amber ruined her relationship with her mom for another girlfriend who does not value her for the right reasons. If MamaLynn cut her off, I don't blame her.
2 chairs Veterans Day
3 chairs by Christmas
Amber always jumps the gun when she announces that she is planning to seek help or change. It is rewarding to say you want to change but it is hard to actually do it. She gets off on the announcement and nothing more
Bingo!
Gorls, I know who this mental health professional psychologist is. You see, government salaries aren’t keeping up with inflation and so what’s an upstanding FBI agent to do when he’s just trying to pay his mortgage? Well, now, he not only protects our gorl, but he becomes her psychologist too! Dr FBI Frank!! 👍🏼😄
😂
Stoppp 😭😭thats too good
How hard is it for her to call the dog over and pick it up Simba style and prove that the little thing is still alive? Like honestly...
That's "December money" level content.
Tommy's probably over ALR's drama and wants Amber to leave.
Amber knows Twink is “weird about other dogs” and just brings Twink and hopes for the best meeting another dog? What was the plan if they didn’t get along???
Maybe Amber will take care of that dog too like she did with Destiny cat
YOOO LMAO
I don't believe Twinkie is there.
@@magdlynstrouble2036 Now that you mention it... Have we seen Twinkie since she moved to Wisconsin?!? 😮
@@myqueerplantfamily
isn't Twinkie health is going down hill lately
Love her admitting that she brought twinkie to live with another dog despite the high possibility she/he wouldn't like that other dog. I'm glad it worked out but she really told on herself there..
She has not shown Twinkie on camera in 6 weeks. We have not heard her bark. I do not believe she's there. Either Mamalynn took her or she passed.
said this on bottles video too but it's crazy amber is telling us to keep tommy in our thoughts when she (tommy) dates people with the goal to get them fatter & unhealthier like how about stop trying 2 ruin others health first
yeahh kinda hard to care for someone who gets off on watching people k!ll themselves 🙃
Good point about how demanding alr is to her gfs; hours on the phone and driving to work and tracking, all of that is highly unusual and a really flashy red flag.
Psychiatrist slash therapist... not usually how that works. Also love how she hasn't even contacted this person yet but she counts her "finding" them as being "one step closer" goooorrrllllll
Yep, I bet she wants a reward for it.
Therapy will have one of two outcomes for her. She's either going to lie and manipulate the therapist into blindly agreeing with all of her casually evil behavior, or the therapist will see through it, tell her the truth and we'll get either a sobbing whining video about how she's been So Badly Abused or she'll quietly never book another session. Therapy will do nothing for her. She's in too deep.
She's not doing therapy. This is just a storyline to drag out through November and December to get the increased income. The entire video was a troll. She's always showing what psychologists call "Duper's Delight" when she starts a new arc because she can't believe how dumb (in her mind) the audience is to keep falling for cycle after cycle with the same behaviors over 11 years. She'll end this new arc with a confession video while crying and blaming her childhood. She just had to change the subject because it can't be a "weight loss arc" when with a feeder. Enter the therapy arc.
The Amberverse is paying for her lifestyle of constant lying, manipulating, and harming others. She is a con artist who knows she is producing nontent while earning more than many college educated professionals. But viewers allow her to get away with it. Now she's trying to convince us that we should expect nothing longer than 3 minutes of vlog so we'll stop bugging her about 8 minutes. She is a full on narcissistic who thinks she's always the smartest person in the room. The best thing to happen for Amber's healing is if everyone moves on and stop making Amber relevant with views and attention. At this point, following her is merely feeding the monster within her.
It's the greatest ___ ever. They totally get her and are going to solve all her problems. Turns out all the ____ in her past were wrong. No one has understood her like this before and she's ready to improve.
Trust the process, she knows what works for her. Smh.
Stg, if someone on a bus bench told her what she wanted to hear they'd be the next, best ___ ever.
@@WendieReneeAbsolutely spot on.
I'm gonna say this again. She only started the BPD shit when ZM uploaded in March of last year about Life Plus Cindy. She even states in the video she was "officially diagnosed" a year and a half ago... I'm not denying that she has it or not but I don't believe she was ever officially diagnosed with anything 🙄 and I believe she's just riding on her newest fixation
Just put Twinkie on for 3 minutes each day. That would make us happy !
twinkie cam should be a segment
No, it would be concerning, because we know that she’s not taking care of Twinkie, and we would call her out on it.
We need proof of life
I cannot imagine getting into a relationship if I was at my worst, mentally. Whats the point..? You can't love yourself, but you expect to love others properly? The lack of self awareness from her is astounding. But, I need to remember, her lifespan is shorter than ours. Our gorl is living condensed
3 minutes of ALR a day. I think we can get better entertainment staring out the window for 3 minutes every day for December
Anyone else hear her Wisconsin accent forming? “diagnOsed” “alOne” “lOnely” there’s for sure a difference from her normal pronunciation..
Yesss!
This is normal though. When people spend enough time together in close proximity, they quickly start to mimic each other’s way of speaking.
@@HelloCompanion it is not normal for people to pick up accents in weeks. she is so full of shit. people use words like "hectic" but they don't develop new accents.
@@KelluyPowell-1985It absolutely is normal. Look into the chameleon effect.
@@briar8855it decreases with age - 33 wouldn't have the same effect as a child.
ALR mimics because she doesn't have her own personality and takes on - that's a different effect!
She only started talking about her BPD because life with Cindy started talking about hers. I believe ALR always knew she had it…
I have BPD. There's an incredibly well structured therapy for it called DBT, it's life changing. Why is she not in it? She has the resources for it. Or is it the same as "I'll lose viewers if I lose weight" type moment
Probably. Or maybe she isn’t ready to heal and likes being abused by Tommy. Despite all of us telling her the truth she refuses to hear, I find it suspicious that she’ll be talking to a therapist/psychiatrist. Those don’t exist, she needs to pick a struggle. In Australia a psychiatrist only spends like 1 to 2 sessions with you and gets you to try meds until they have a new appointment time available a year later lmao. DBT can be helpful, it’s not a full on life saver for most, but she could at least download an app
As somebody who has bpd as well, I think she isn't officially diagnosed. She had so many different 'diagnoses', and I think when someone says any mental disorder around her, she takes it and uses it to excuse her behaviour 😅
@@anastasiam4448 DBT is just the beginning of being able to build a life worth living with BPD - after 40 weeks of the structured therapy my clinic will evaluate which step to take next. So in my opinion it is really crucial to experience what it's like to be able to self regulate.
I'm Australian too, my psychiatrist just gave me my ADHD meds and yeeted a DBT referral to the mental health clinic I'm currently attending. I'm not sure how America works - perhaps Amber is mixing up the titles and thinks therapist/psychologist/psychiatrist/psychotherapist is the same thing.
It's not my place to really disbelieve if she has it or not tbh, to me she definitely struggles with her sense of self - she's just god awful at doing the obvious steps to help herself.
And yeah, using her BPD as an excuse physically causes me pain.
4:01 “in the beginning of every video I like to mention things the viewers will bring up, and totally lïe about the cause of such things.” 😂
A planner is the obvious choice to treat BPD guys... SMFH
How else would one treat a condition where you have an unsteady sense of self and wild mood swings!? /S
I really don't care about the killer nurse's health problems.
So I never want to put this on anyone but it’s the evidence of the timing and what was happening in the community that I’ve come to this conclusion. When ALR said she was diagnosed with BPD it was at the exact same time Zachary M was covering LifeByCindy. She admitted she was watching that channel and people brought up she could have BTP. All of a sudden around that time when she was seeing an “online therapist” she also had BPD. I’m not saying she doesn’t have it, but I would I be more inclined by the timing and her lack of ever getting professional help she never was diagnosed but felt the symptoms fit her personality and self diagnosed. I could be 100% wrong but I did find the timing interesting…
Don't worry Blake...I'll say it. SHE DOESN'T HAVE BPD!!!!!
@ honestly I wouldn’t be surprised she doesn’t ever get real help so how would she get a legit diagnosis? Life By Cindy does have BPD and that’s what her channel is mainly about so it’s safe to assume ALR jumped on the band wagon.
“I needed new toothbrushes because I like to switch mine out once a month” - okayyy so she’s planning to be here for several more MONTHS.
7:44 Absolutely not cold. Completely accurate if you ask me. She doesn’t want to get better she just wants an excuse.
Also I’ll scream it from the rooftop, AMBER YOU DONT HAVE BPD!!!!
I fully agree.
If she had BPD she would’ve shown symptoms even when she was living alone and not in a relationship. Plus if a psychologist did diagnose her with BPD, how are they letting her exist without forcing her into DBT therapy? Regular counselling??
Thank you!!! As someone who was diagnosed with bpd and has been in therapy ever since it pisses me off how she treats it as an excuse for everything and doesn't get treatment when she has all the resources for it. If her 'BPD' was as debilitating as she always claims it to be I would think she would try something to help it yknow
If it comes out of her mouth, it's a lah. She only tells the truth on accident.
ive been saying she had BPD for actual years and people would flip out on me, particular on Reddit. Sorry i could see the signs 🤷♀️
There is most definitely a reason she is getting help for BPD right now. I bet it’s caused some major issues between her and Tommy. Maybe alcohol made it worse. Tommy probably told her to get help if she wants to continue the relationship.
10:45 I think she feels SO alone because this is the first girlfriend she’s had (since early Destiny days) that actually leaves for work. If we’re to believe Emily is a nurse, this leaves ALR alone with her thoughts for upwards of 12 hours a day or more. And she’s isolated & trapped. She doesn’t have family or friends nearby, she doesn’t have work to focus on, and she can’t even leave the house if she wanted to. Her entire existence revolves around Emily and so when Emily leaves for work, it leaves ALR feeling lonely and empty
I know the feeling because I have (formally diagnosed) BPD. It’s a feeling of emptiness and despair that’s hard to describe. Gorl needs to get therapy asap because BPD doesn’t just get better magically on its own. It is a personality disorder. It’s not a separate part of us like she wants to believe. It pervades every part of our lives and if/ when we’re not in treatment, it can cause real harm to both ourselves and our relationships.
I had a friend all thru college who was the worst drunk I've ever seen in my life. Fast forward some years and I heard from her. She told me basically her organs stopped being able to process alcohol one day and even a drink would have her sick on the floor. That's when she became sober.
That's divine intervention
I feel the same way about movies and TV. I've been doing FT school for four years and didn't watch TV. Now it's hard for me to sit still so I'll do chores while watching. 😅
I promise you guys, she’s probably not even registered to vote.
Also if her next video is sponsored by better help I’m gonna scream
She says she bought more toothbrushes bc she needs a new one every MONTH? She’s staying with Tommy
Amber's all about her looks... she always looks the same as she always does 😂
Alright Zachary Mike lol 😂
her moving where no one cares about her has always been her biggest problem . she never learns or grows up
The substance is great hahaha I’m glad alr likes it, like I’m pretty sure it’s a metaphor for ozempic honestly 10/10
Tommy is having health issues so she’s stopping drinking, but her ex was having health issues (being 900 lbs) but they still fed into Tommy’s fetish. I see how it is.
I’d look into screen addiction if I was you. Start by looking/tracking how many hours a week you spend staring at a screen. You describing your phone was akin to how ALR talks about food.
Yes, Alex, this is just going to get worse. Fix this now. You traded nasal spray addiction for screen addiction.
oh please who isn't addicted to their phone.
@@melissamoonchild9216 A lot of people aren’t addicted to their phone. They use their phone only for conversations with loved ones. If you were to leave your phone in the other room for 6 hours would you find yourself uncomfortable? If so you probably have a problem. Hell I’d say even just 3 hours.
@ I’m not. It can be a problem if it becomes an addiction.
Every lease I’ve ever signed has stated a period of time that I could be away from my apartment. There’s no way she hasn’t broken her lease by being gone an entire month. I wouldn’t be shocked if she received or receives a notice to vacate.
Girl if nothing happens in the vlog…12 minutes is too long!! But 3 minutes? Yes girl give us nothing
She’s feeling lonely because Tommy is emotially unavailable being that her girlfriend died months ago…
Yep. Nobody worth anything would move on as fast as ol slommi.
How can she say if she is definitively going to be seeing a doctor she hasn’t even called yet? They might not be taking any new patients or may have no availability and be fully booked up for months. Good doctors and specialists are not people you can say you are definitely going to get any kind of treatment from unless you are already an established patient.
Minor thing: She can’t be clinically diagnosed with CPTSD in the US because US clinicians use the DSM, which doesn’t include that diagnosis. Even those who fit the bill for it often have conversations with our clinicians about what’s going down as the official diagnosis and why. Her saying she was diagnosed with CPTSD around the 7:55 mark in this vid is such a transparent lie. Either that or she doesn’t know what “diagnosed” means. Or both. 💀
Okay, but don't they have to use ICD 10 codes when submitting stuff to insurance for reimbursement?
is this really true?
Not accurate. It is used here but cannot bill it out. Ptsd is the billable code because the full title of that code is trauma & related stress disorders... which includes complex ptsd... from a licensed psychologist in the USA.
Oh god, the Wisconsin/ Minnesota sound is coming in with Amber at like 32 minutes. "Nuthin' Spaetial Thaere" Get ready for her sounding like she watched Fargo and thinking that is a perfect representation of a Northern Midwest accent.
32:59 The almost-chuckle when she showed the pens…😂😂🤣 Your facial expressions during the entire haul were priceless…
So has Amber permanently moved in with Tommy? She who diagnoses their self has an absolute idiot for a doctor and Amber is an idiot. She doesn’t need to share her experience with BPD with anyone. She’s such a hypochondriac she makes too big a deal with every little issue she has.
Here faster than Amberlynn trying to poorly manipulate her audience 💅
Stomach ulcers are a disaster with alcohol
Ma-nipple-ate**
Psychiatrist slash Therapist….. noooo, it’s one or the other. A psychiatrist will cost her about 3x more than a therapist.
Pause between 33:27 and 33:28. you can see she pushed two kitchen chairs together lmao
I’m going to put my theory out there and say Tommy maybe super depressed. It’s not obvious as to why. I’m not sure where he sits in her grief with Colleen but I could see something like that being a factor.
Now ALR is in and settled - the personalities are clashing and Tommy is probably seeking a way to cope.
Just my personal thoughts.
she should take meds at least. "It changes me". That's the point
I have BPD and I actually been assuming ALR has the same disorder since 2017. I have been in therapy for 4+ years and am NOT healed. So neither is she. BPD is extremely, extremely hard to live with and I do feel sorry for anyone who has it. But it's even harder if you don't do anything about it.
I'm fully convinced Tommy is on Ozempic or similar. She said she wanted to go on it with Amber and now she has a SUDDEN inability to have one drink? That's a super duper common side effect of semaglutide.
She said "i feel" myself getting better, not "i filmed"
Because it sounds like "fill". Too bad she can only speak broken English.
genuinly what does she do if shes not active on her social medias? she must have like alts at this point because i cannot imagine what else she could be doing during the day when stuck at home for so many hours without social media unless shes sleeping 17 hours a day but then one would think she would loose weight not gain..
I'm thinking pancreatitis. I developed it a few years ago, a non-alcoholic version, as I didn't drink much myself. But even if alcohol didn't cause it, alcohol can make you keep developing it and turn it from an acute issue to a chronic one. A lot of things can cause it, mine was an autoimmune issue.
I got my gallbladder removed when I was younger. Now I can’t drink alcohol because it raises my liver enzymes. So my doctor put me on strict no alcohol and a fatty liver diet.
If you don’t mind me asking, what are the main constructs of a fatty liver diet? I’m dealing with the same.
@ omg I’m so sorry I didn’t get the notification. Basically low fat everything. So I usually eat lean meat like chicken, turkey, and fish. All dairy products are low fat. I only eat whole wheat items when it comes to grains. I really limit sugar and I try to replace most sugar with maple syrup. Then no fried foods at all. However I am not on the diet rn because I am pregnant and have HG so chicken and stuff makes me throw up rn 😅.
where the hell is salami?? and why is amber always sitting in the same spot
Holy crap, never been this early! Hope you're doing great, Alex. You're adorable!
The moment she brought the animals with her, I knew she was staying. Everyone was like no all her stuff is still there, like that matters to her??
How come when people say mental health they are never diagnosed with mental disorders and/or seek professional help but say they getting better🤔
I truly appreciate all you do, Alex. Your effort is noticed and adored. Be well, everyone. Your feelings and health matter greatly, and I'm proud of you all ❤️❤️❤️
this is such a sweet message ❤
why would she go to a psychiatrist if she doesn't want to be medicated?
"I have to learn how to be separate from Tommy" and has meanwhile moved in overnight, how's that working gorl
What on earth does she have to put into a planner? It's like the business person that carries a brief case with just their lunch box in it. She has no need for it at all.
I’m sorry but I’m thinking about her Q&A saying she would vlog the shit out of NewYork and here shes in a new state vlogging chairs and a wall and that will never not be funny lol
You are so stinkin cute!!! ❤. I think both ALR and Tommy have addiction issues. And ALR is so codependent it’s ridiculous. Their relationship is definitely one huge red flag.
Beck got with ALR and then quickly had health problems and quit working to care for ALR fulltime… I wonder if history will repeat itself…
What shakes me to the core is realizing there are people with untreated mental health conditions just roaming the planet damaging every psyche they come into contact with.
Love that for us. :/
Sorry. /therapy is expensive
I'm only here for the target haul, that's it... 😂 Your voice and tone are so iconic ❤
Amber is defined by her many diagnoses. She wears them like a sash of girl scout badges. I think that is all she knows how to talk about any more....and, btw, she was NEVER officially diagnosed with BPD (just like every other "illness" she claims to have). I swear if I have to listen to her yammer on and on about her mentals, in every single video I am just not going to listen to her at all any more. Sorry Alex. Nothing against your talent...but even you can't take the irritatingly boring out of Amberlynn Reid.
Depression isn’t about who you’re with or what your doing .....,,,,it’s a chemical imbalance, a mental illness . It’s hard for people that don’t experience depression or mania to understand how somebody can have the nicest spouse the great job everything appears to be all good but you feel like the worlds falling apart.........It Sucks
I have major clinical depression and sometimes it feels like it will never go away no matter what. She tries to find a person to make her feel better but you can only find relief in yourself finding peace with it.
Noooo Alex, the “best thing that could have ever happened” to ALR is the Chicken Big Mac. NOT the Chicken Selects.
Like Chantal, Rinse, Wash, Repeat. Also, i have a feeling her exciting news to share with us is her & Tommy are now ENGAGED! 🥴
Tommy is not well?
Not having alcohol?
Must be the liver...
Amber and Emily both being addicts, wow they really are meant for one another. She's clearly miserable but she will never admit we were right
Has she officially said she is moving in with Tommy and abandoned her mom or is she still calling it a "visit"
Did she say she kept seeing “her”? I thought her therapist she clicked so much with was a man?
Liars shouldn't lie if they have bad memories 😂
Waited to watch the video with you! Love the reactions
Amber needs to know she can't fix anyone when she can't even fix herself
As someone with diagnosed BPD and CPTSD, just to name a few lmao, Amber is really letting us traumatised folk down :(
Like yes we developed these conditions because of how much we were hurt by others, but our actions to this day are still OURS - and taking accountability is something she SUCKS at doing so she’s hiding behind the diagnoses and making us look like we’re horrible ppl who can’t and won’t change. But a lot of us are in therapy, it doesn’t work for everyone and I fully get that, it barely works for me but barely is better than not at all, talking about it to professionals is a LOT safer mentally than blabbing on the internet like Amber and hiding from the consequences. I don’t believe she has BPD only because it affects SO much of my life and day to day relationships and friendships, she’s just such a liar I don’t know what to believe from her. If she has been diagnosed then kudos to her like she says she has been, but psychiatrists and psychologists would NOT let someone they’ve just diagnosed with BPD live without ensuring that there’s some ongoing counselling in place.
Yes exactly. She does such a disservice for those actually struggling with BPD. She promotes harmful stereotypes and makes people believe that all people with bpd behave like she does which IS NOT TRUE.
Aside from that, Its good you’re able to share that you struggle with bpd. It’s people like you who can disclose the truth about what it’s like to have and live with bpd. I’m proud of you for seeking treatment to help, even though it’s barely helping. It takes guts to admit you’re falling short from where you could be but trying is what’s important and you’re doing a hell of a job! Especially compare to ALR lol
@@Sam-nz2ko Aww thank you :) I hope you have a lovely festive season (I know it's early but ALR is already talking vlogmas so it works haha!)
@@anastasiam4448 Thank you! I love gift giving so it's a lovely time of year. Hope you have a great festive season aswell ❄️
2:23 bestie you look the same as u always do 😍🔥💚
“Just know - it’s because of my mentul hulth”
So… what’s your treatment plan to stop missing work? Nothing? 😅