i think amber holds so much resentment towards beck is because they saw her at her absolute WORST, took care of her. wiped her ass for however long, dealt with her smell/eating habits/running her everywhere. she was the most dependent on beck, and she hates them for it.
idk i think it’s just because amber saw beck as ugly so it hurt her ego when beck dumped her. i understand the argument, but i also see amberlynn having a way more shallow look on that situation.
Yep and she’s going to allow it. She’s already gotten her away from her family, & now she’s controlling her “job”. Amber’s so desperate for a girlfriend that the minute she could escape to Wisconsin, she did. This is what she wanted, if it ends this way, it’ll definitely be sad though.
I’m going to save you guys a lot of time. No she does not address the Jordan issues that were brought up on his live stream a couple days ago. She talks about absolutely nothing again in the same exact spot sitting in two chairs you’re welcome.
*Jordy is Oh Lordy It’s Jordy (he did the livestream) and Jordan is The Ankle.. he also made a video on this subject. This is a common name error between our gorl-verse commentary channels though 😆
Wait what Jordan issues were brought up in which video? I usually don’t miss, but I was temporarily consumed with binge watching “My Brilliant Friend” on HBO! I need to know..please get back to me!
I think narcs tend to forgive just out of convenience and because they never truly cared to begin with. They are indifferent and don’t have much empathy for others so if someone wants to apologize or just act like nothing ever happened then they are happy to move on - BUT they do always hold it over their heads for ammo in the future when needed. Again, not because they care but they want to keep it as a manipulation tactic. Just what I’ve learned about the narcs in my life, I’m not psychologist lol.
You can always tell, they have NOT forgiven if the sentence goes on like this "i know, everyone always asks me, But have you forgotten how MEAN they were to you, and i always get comments reminding me about how they did this and that which was SO meand, and all my friends tell me how they would never forgive this totally mean behaviour... but I do, I totally do forgive them after they were so mean. I'm a forgiver and they are meanies. Remember guise"
yeah shes full of shit. she just is selective because you can tell she doesnt have much friends and she really wants to be friends with drama channels. she said it herself she wants a frenemies situation with anyone even destiny at one point. girl is lonely. Why she will have shitty people around her and doesnt have standards for friendship tbh.
@jazzyblues2576 I really don't feel bad for amber. It's funny how we can all see it coming, but she thinks she's in the softest, kindest, kindest loving relationship. I just 🤣
She can still deep clean the kitchen cabinets by herself tho... Yes she's short, but she always use a stool or a chair or ladders. So not completely dependent.
i keep thinking the same, but i guess people still keep hanging on to her. In all honesty i was happy to see her not playing with her hair and painting cat eyes on this stream
Yeah i have a hard time believing Emily let her move in that soon. She seems like she doesnt like Amber that much, and maybe she doesnt know how to get her to leave 😂. Maybe shes keeping her around until she finds a bigger gorl whos less annoying
@@ksis86 I agree. I get the feeling she didn't want Amber there this long and is annoyed with her. Hence the reason why both of them are experiencing mental health issues right now. And amber is stuck there until she figures something out. I wouldn't be surprised if Emily took off work to drive her back to Oklahoma herself
As a fat guy since childhood. Parents can also help children with their weight. My parents did nothing to help me. Leading me to continue the weight gain into adolescent and adulthood. Here at 43 I'm currently working on weightloss before it kills me. My heaviest was 350 lbs. I'm currently at 227 lbs.
Same! In fact my family tells me my Mom kept me in the highchair and fed me to keep me occupied. Congrats on your weight loss!! My highest weight was 371 lbs and currently I’m 188. It’s a great feeling isn’t it?!
My best friend passed 2 years ago when a hernia ruptured and she bled to death. All she was doing was folding a fleece blanket to put on the back of her couch. Amber’s attitude about her health infuriates me.
I actually do feel sorry that she is stuck in this mess. Her momma shaped her, physically, mentally, and emotionally, into the hot mess she is now, and just abandoned her again. Yes, our Gorl pushed her away and needs to take accountability in her poor choices, but her momma started the downward spiral of not being there and abandoning her when needed most. It's sad to see a 30's woman stuck at age 13 mentally...her momma owes her full support and re-parenting. I think our gorl would actually respond well after some serious push back at first. No one puts up boundaries and schools her, they are all "yes" people until ALR finally pushes them over the edge and they leave. I understand they don't deserve ab*se, so yes they SHOULD leave...ALR isn't their responsibility and no one deserves the ab*se, but momma started it all and ought to own up to her mistakes by taking control and forcing help on ALR. Instead, she abandons her again... and the cycle continues because our gorl only knows one way. Love bomb to get them to love you, push them away with demands and ab*se, over and over. She's stuck. She won't seek help on her own, she needs her mom to force her and be real with her.
I got blocked from ALR’s instagram because I mentioned her abuse of prior partners. Guess she still doesn’t want to take responsibility for her horrible actions which makes me not feel bad for her AT ALL.
Amber quitting youtube equates to Amber quitting life, and it is genuinely concerning. Please let someone save her from that house, she cant and won't save herself.
@@magdlynstrouble2036 exactly! She's so manipulative, she's not smaller than the other 2019 clips she showed, it's all the filters That's a huge (pun intended) reason why she doesn't like other people's videos and photos of her
i was happy to hear this: 0:45 “i’m going to start calling her Emily” …but then like 15 seconds later… 1:03 “whether she addresses this situation with Tommy” oh well, you gave it a good try Alex lol
The whole movie theater situation at 15 that she still brags about is so uncomfortable to be talking about in your 30s. That... doesn't really sound like a mutually fun or empowering situation unless you're really into ✋. Everyone is supposed to be, um, having a good time and participating in a threesome, not pulling a group project absentee card. Kinda just sounds like they used her because she was desperate for attention and willing to do whatever. Considering her age, that sounds really sad overall. I don't think I'd look back on something like that as an adult fondly like it was a crazy college fling. Thinking about a young teen in foster care doing whatever for boys in a dirty movie theater just makes me sad. Nothing sexy about it. And here we are years later, in another state with an Internet weirdo. Ugh.
You articulated all of my thoughts about it so well. I was once the sad girl with a horrible home life, eventually a runaway. I have lots of memories of stuff I did because I was abandoned as a very young teen, needing places to stay and not wanting to be abandoned again. Being used. And it's not funny or sexy memories. It's nothing i want to share or dwell on. Her group activity story is that.
@@Elizabeth-n3v2u 💚 I am so sorry you went through that. I also went through some similar chaos, but on the plus side, none of us have moved in with a feeder yet so I think we're doing okay. 😅 You almost look back at those times with a certain detachment. Like I wouldn't want any 15-year-old child to be in those situations. Even when I look back on my own stories, it's definitely not with a fun, "I was exploring and finding myself" attitude. There's a level of ick when you're discussing a kid in that situation, even when it's your own story. I definitely wouldn't be telling it repeatedly like a storytime. ETA - of course, this doesn't relate to telling your story as a whole. It's how she does it that feels gross, with the same energy of like Tana Mongeau describing adult behavior.
That's how I feel as well. Young lads can be cruel and my assumption is they were taking advantage of the poor fat girl with no self esteem who desperately wants to be accepted or even desired. She was an easy target and they went for it.
@@BestSharkis I hate that, but that's exactly what it sounds like. Not sure if she truly doesn't see it as an adult, but it reads more like teen boys being cruel.
Amber has been observed to be narcissistic and self-serving, often a demon, especially when it comes to how she treated Becky. But she's still pushing this narrative about she's an empath and soooo caring 💀 girl ... Please, we don't have goldfish memory like you. We remember
I feel uncomfortable with how I guessed their relationship trajectory of abuse. This is the isolation phase, she's moving into being devalued and blamed for her poor treatment. After alienating her Mom & RUclips audience, ALR is basically Emily's captive. ALR's increased 'accent' makes me also think Emily bullies her about her socioeconomic background. YT is "low class" isn't it? Ew, this is gross.
Eh, she always picks up on her gfs accents. She mocked a country accent with destiny & Becky. It's pretty much what she always does. The only benefit is Emily & Amber both cannot abuse innocent people while dating another abuser.
I’m just mad that I cannot detect this accent change this time because I live in Michigan and have a similar accent I guess 😆. I guess I can tell that she has LESS of an accent (to me). What does she say differently now? If you don’t have an example it’s fine, I’m just curious what I’m missing this time! lol
@@LaurenWoz421 Oh I actually thought in the beginning she sounded like she was trying too hard to sound 'hard' like Emily is positioning herself as from an upper middle class 'good' background whereas ALR is from the streets. The whole thing only works if Emily convinces ALR to put EMILY on the pedestal that ALR is usually on. She always puts herself above her exes but not Emily...
28:51 Zachary tells their audience when ALR messages for the sake of transparency. He's not gonna hide it because then the "Zach is too nice to Amber" people will become "Zach is secretly friends with Amber" people and they're already too loud as it is lmao
ALR will never apologize to Beck because she believes she’s better than them. She sees people as social currency to be used when she needs them and Beck was never on her level in her eyes. It’s honestly disgusting.
@@JustMeChrissLeewhy even mention it if she is only sitting on one chair? Why have them both there? I think you are underestimating how wide her base is
Shut up. If you wanna call her by her name go the fuck ahead. Stop policing everyone on what they call her. She’s Tommy to many and will be. People know who they mean 🙄🥴
I’m thinking karma is coming back around. She treated Beck absolutely terrible. Emily and Amberlynn are both narcissistic people under the same roof. I guarantee they argue and clash daily. Alexis is crazy and clout chasing but I believe her on the toxicity in the beginning. The higher you fly the harder you fall. Amberlynn is going to be dropped. I do not see this relationship going past the holidays. Emily will end it. I’m pretty convinced. Especially with the behind the scenes drama.
Emily coming home from work with a Bath & Body Works gift bag. She goes down to the basement and hands it to Amber. ALR: Ohhh babyyy….you got me BBW lotion! I love it! Emily: It puts the lotion on its skin or else it gets the hose again.
Figuratively, maybe 😅 If you look at the real estate listing of Emily’s house, that ugly oak chair rail and two-tone paint is in the dining room on the main floor, adjacent to the kitchen.
@@sharoneuby-62 yeah i can't really find my sympathy bone for somebody like her, this is 110% the karma she's earned, but at the end of the day it's still dangerous that people like tommy exist and these f33dr relationships are real. and it's still sad that we're watching her health decline at an alarming rate and youtube has allowed it to be monetized for this long.
@@sharoneuby-62 yeah, karma 110%, I totally agree and I can’t find my sympathy bone for a woman who’s done so much malicious wrong to so many people. But I can also acknowledge how sad and dangerous it is that f33dr relationships are real and that people like Tommy exist to hurt others for their own sick personal gratification
I believe Emily makes Amber feel like it's her fault that Emily is being roasted and feeling like shit mentally, bc it's her fans.. it's bc of her RUclips channel..so, she wants out now
It’s strange that she saying “uncomfortabilty” or something weird like that. Wasn’t it a season or two ago that she had learned the term “sitting with discomfort” and used it nonstop? Did you forget your old favorite word already? Did hectic and leeeterally push it out your head?
It’s so interesting how her medical issues are negligible when she’s getting what she wants in life. Let’s revisit this video when she uses her kidney stones etc for sympathy when things hit the fan
After 10 years she still hasn't set boundaries for herself on social media. She should be able to do her job without interactions with unpleasant parts of her audience and content about herself. She is so obsessed with herself and what strangers online think of her that she can't even enjoy time in a new place with a new love. This is prime time for vlogging. But she can't get past talking to and reading posts from people who don't even like her. Gorl grow up and go live your life. RUclips isn't the problem, her lack of boundaries and her self obsession is. What's new?
24:50 i audibly gasped when she said this spiel. she’s using not having kidney stone symptoms as another excuse to avoid coming to terms with her health. like amber, that’s not a reason to not get another appointment and to leave the one you set up like six months ago go to waste. you’d think her idealized version of emily-the nurse- would encourage her to at least reschedule somewhere nearby them.
She’s definitely pissed at her mum. Every video recently she’s brought up her childhood. We hadn’t heard about it the whole time her mum was taking her to bingo.
She will never come on here crying about emily. She will only come on here being all smug saying we don't know what we're talking about and Emily explained it all and there's a lot we don't know, but of course nothing she will tell us.
If this creep is a REGISTERED NURSE then she's taken an oath to DO NO HARM! She needs reported to her superior and she shouldn't be allowed to care for other's if she deliberately feeds people to DEATH. Where does she work?
This reminds me a bit of the Nader era with Foodie Beauty. The audience being genuinely concerned and all she can think is you guys don't want me to be happy 😢
Her mom didn’t give a poop then what makes you think she does now. Just because they get along doesn’t mean the depth of love is there that brings concern
It's so funny to me when she comes on with an attitude but tries to act unbothered and Lecturelynn us. It never gets old. Edit: i don't understand the Q&A's because everything she says is sus
Destiny is never gonna beat the one that got away allegations. ALR has not been happy in a relationship since and continues to be delusional even when it's clear she's in danger.
Hey Alex. My husband has cancer. If he passes, he’ll be my husband that died. I’ll be a widow. He will not be my ex. Please reconsider calling Emily’s deceased partner her ex.
@stacy_mnchld7503 she can. but we know she doesn't have much self worth, and it's hard to break that cycle. I hope she can find the strength to choose better for herself 💔
2:52 Let's not beat around the bush. Emily isn't putting their health at risk, she's risking their LIVES. Their whole entire life. Theres a huge difference between being unhealthy, and not being alive anymore.
Conspiracy theory: ALR accidentally smothered Emily and she’s depressed because she ki11ed her accidentally, and that’s why she hasn’t been seen lately.
Momma Lynn might be trying to be careful and tread the line of supporting/protecting ALR without pushing her further into Tommy’s arms. Controlling partners will often try to convince you that your loved ones’ expressions of concern are actually them trying to split you up because they’re jealous or don’t want you to be happy. If you tell someone who’s in a controlling relationship “it’s them or me,” odds are they’re going to choose the person who is controlling them, and then you may not be around to support them if and when they do decide to leave the relationship.
@@Jenillabean84yep, I once let a friend move in with someone I knew would not work out, but I knew if I told them not to, they could have broken off contact over this (they did with others), so I let them move in, the situation escalated sooner than I thought, and luckily my friend still had a lifeline with me, and got out of the relationship. But it's always a risk, could have gone wrong too you know 🤷♀️
Amber most definitely DID reach over 600 lbs! She filmed a weigh in at like 193 lbs..right arouns that number. She lies about her too weight and deleted that video..people remember it!!!
I had cellulitis once when i was younger and working as a chef, it was one of the most awful feelings Ive ever felt and because of it i ended up having scarred veins on my ankle. I cant understand how some people are so okay with it and dont understand its not hard to prevent
This whole video was about letting us know that if we don't stop giving her a hard time, she's going to punish us. If we want to see more videos, we better stop saying negative things about Emily. She finally gives us another video and I feel like I learned nothing about what's really going on in her life. I already knew she hates her job.
I think she holds resentment towards Beck bc we as GorlWorld loved Beck. Most of her exes we hated and i think she liked that but the fact that we liked Beck more than ALR and basically only supported Beck made her resentful
Emily is trying to take Amber away and distance her so that she can fatten her up without any consequences. Emily feels like the more we talk about her red flags the more WE are taking Amber from her, and she can’t have that!
Of course, mamaLynn feels responsible for ambrrrr's OBCD. It's not ruling her world or a daily thought. As a mother, nutrition is a basic need provided.
i think amber holds so much resentment towards beck is because they saw her at her absolute WORST, took care of her. wiped her ass for however long, dealt with her smell/eating habits/running her everywhere. she was the most dependent on beck, and she hates them for it.
I think she lost respect for beck for these reasons as well. It’s so fucked up
bingo
idk i think it’s just because amber saw beck as ugly so it hurt her ego when beck dumped her. i understand the argument, but i also see amberlynn having a way more shallow look on that situation.
@@blkrtist def think both can be true at once!
@@aracelibarajas5254she never respected Beck
Why do I see myself two years from now watching Nightline and saying " OMG they're going to air the Amberlynn/ Emily case. "
Yep
FOR REAL tho
Omg noo im like getting nervous
Omg same.
Yep and she’s going to allow it. She’s already gotten her away from her family, & now she’s controlling her “job”. Amber’s so desperate for a girlfriend that the minute she could escape to Wisconsin, she did. This is what she wanted, if it ends this way, it’ll definitely be sad though.
I’m going to save you guys a lot of time. No she does not address the Jordan issues that were brought up on his live stream a couple days ago. She talks about absolutely nothing again in the same exact spot sitting in two chairs you’re welcome.
Her video is a nothing burger.
Shocking. She definitely used the momentum from the Jordy livestream to do a clickbait video and get money for UberEATS
*Jordy is Oh Lordy It’s Jordy (he did the livestream) and Jordan is The Ankle.. he also made a video on this subject. This is a common name error between our gorl-verse commentary channels though 😆
Someone on reddit said shes Big Chairy. 😭
Wait what Jordan issues were brought up in which video? I usually don’t miss, but I was temporarily consumed with binge watching “My Brilliant Friend” on HBO! I need to know..please get back to me!
@@LaurenWoz421thank you!
“I forgive and forgive and forgive” except for Beck….. it’s all Beck’s fault
I think narcs tend to forgive just out of convenience and because they never truly cared to begin with. They are indifferent and don’t have much empathy for others so if someone wants to apologize or just act like nothing ever happened then they are happy to move on - BUT they do always hold it over their heads for ammo in the future when needed. Again, not because they care but they want to keep it as a manipulation tactic. Just what I’ve learned about the narcs in my life, I’m not psychologist lol.
You can always tell, they have NOT forgiven if the sentence goes on like this "i know, everyone always asks me, But have you forgotten how MEAN they were to you, and i always get comments reminding me about how they did this and that which was SO meand, and all my friends tell me how they would never forgive this totally mean behaviour... but I do, I totally do forgive them after they were so mean. I'm a forgiver and they are meanies. Remember guise"
She feels @bused online yet she @bused so many of her exes. Delusional.
yeah shes full of shit. she just is selective because you can tell she doesnt have much friends and she really wants to be friends with drama channels. she said it herself she wants a frenemies situation with anyone even destiny at one point. girl is lonely. Why she will have shitty people around her and doesnt have standards for friendship tbh.
She is isolating and ruining her income stream. She will be completely dependent soon
💯
Same thing she did with Becky. The perfect karma!
@jazzyblues2576 I really don't feel bad for amber. It's funny how we can all see it coming, but she thinks she's in the softest, kindest, kindest loving relationship. I just 🤣
She can still deep clean the kitchen cabinets by herself tho... Yes she's short, but she always use a stool or a chair or ladders. So not completely dependent.
i keep thinking the same, but i guess people still keep hanging on to her. In all honesty i was happy to see her not playing with her hair and painting cat eyes on this stream
It's embarrassing that she's staying with Emily for this long. More than a week with someone new is wearing out your welcome
She's movin in and pretending it's vacay
Amber overstayed her welcome... 😂
She's moved in hun. Lol
Yeah i have a hard time believing Emily let her move in that soon. She seems like she doesnt like Amber that much, and maybe she doesnt know how to get her to leave 😂. Maybe shes keeping her around until she finds a bigger gorl whos less annoying
@@ksis86 I agree. I get the feeling she didn't want Amber there this long and is annoyed with her. Hence the reason why both of them are experiencing mental health issues right now. And amber is stuck there until she figures something out. I wouldn't be surprised if Emily took off work to drive her back to Oklahoma herself
As a fat guy since childhood. Parents can also help children with their weight. My parents did nothing to help me. Leading me to continue the weight gain into adolescent and adulthood. Here at 43 I'm currently working on weightloss before it kills me. My heaviest was 350 lbs. I'm currently at 227 lbs.
Same! In fact my family tells me my Mom kept me in the highchair and fed me to keep me occupied. Congrats on your weight loss!! My highest weight was 371 lbs and currently I’m 188. It’s a great feeling isn’t it?!
Congratulations on your weight loss🎉🎉
@@JeepGirl45 it's like missing another personality sometimes.
Well done on your weight loss! Keep it up! This random internet stranger believes in you and is proud of you!
@@onlywisehermit6624 Oh I’ve never thought of it like that. So true!!
Amber is really determined to make us think she and Zachary Michael are secret friends behind the scenes.
She doesn’t understand boundaries.
She wishd 😂
well, they definitely start to behave in a similar way lol
@@hannibaljustincase9985 how?? lol
@@hannibaljustincase9985how? 👀
Maybe it’s cold but I truly couldn’t give a single f*ck what happens to Amber. Emily needs to be kept far away from vulnerable people though.
I totally agree. She's an adult not a 12 yr old.
Feederism is gross and sadistic, no one should be subjected to that, even Amber. Besides, she'll just move on to someone else if Amber croaks.
If your cold then i must be frozen 😂
@@erika2m16 she's consenting
Not our problem
@@erika2m16This is also better than amber abusing an innocent person. Let abusers be together.
She is sitting on two chairs.
SHE IS!!!!!
IS THERE NO FURNITURE IN EMILY HOUSE THAT FIT HER?
She is sitting on one but most of her is not.
this is nuts omfg
Yes! I was about to comment this!😂
My best friend passed 2 years ago when a hernia ruptured and she bled to death. All she was doing was folding a fleece blanket to put on the back of her couch. Amber’s attitude about her health infuriates me.
I'm so sorry for your loss play her memory always bring peace joy and happiness to you
@@Sweatybutsweet I’m so sorry 😞
I didn’t know hernias could do that, that’s so awful. I’m so sorry about your friend. I hope you are doing well. Life is so fragile.
@@Flx-zh8ze OMG ME EITHER 😢😢 HOW TRAGIC
Im sorry. I had no idea that could happen. I have one and no one ever told me that. Yikes
if emily didn't want people knowing what she's up to, maybe don't date someone who vlogs their life? lmao
If she becomes bedbound again and is stuck in the basement, I’m genuinely scared for her.
DungeonLynn
Emily is giving Kathy Bates in "Misery" type vibes
Omg, YES!!!
love this movie but so true lolll
Those ankles be dangleen!
"Misery" was a drama, thriller and a horror all rolled into one. A classic.
I came here to comment that!
Looking for my sympathy bone.
Nope. Can't find it.
Comment of the year!! Thank you!
I can't find mine either all these years I knew where it was at now I can't find it
World's smallest violin..🎻
I actually do feel sorry that she is stuck in this mess. Her momma shaped her, physically, mentally, and emotionally, into the hot mess she is now, and just abandoned her again. Yes, our Gorl pushed her away and needs to take accountability in her poor choices, but her momma started the downward spiral of not being there and abandoning her when needed most. It's sad to see a 30's woman stuck at age 13 mentally...her momma owes her full support and re-parenting. I think our gorl would actually respond well after some serious push back at first. No one puts up boundaries and schools her, they are all "yes" people until ALR finally pushes them over the edge and they leave. I understand they don't deserve ab*se, so yes they SHOULD leave...ALR isn't their responsibility and no one deserves the ab*se, but momma started it all and ought to own up to her mistakes by taking control and forcing help on ALR. Instead, she abandons her again... and the cycle continues because our gorl only knows one way. Love bomb to get them to love you, push them away with demands and ab*se, over and over. She's stuck. She won't seek help on her own, she needs her mom to force her and be real with her.
look under the sofa cushin😂
I got blocked from ALR’s instagram because I mentioned her abuse of prior partners. Guess she still doesn’t want to take responsibility for her horrible actions which makes me not feel bad for her AT ALL.
These videos lately r giving hostage video energy
I love that for Amber
@@tkh525🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
That's what I felt too
Amber quitting youtube equates to Amber quitting life, and it is genuinely concerning. Please let someone save her from that house, she cant and won't save herself.
Añd then what ?? Unless there is a court order to place her good luck. Plus if Ambie doesn't want it, treatment is not going to work
“Are you allowed to leave that dining room” 😭😭😭
Moon Lynn is back again, no ears in sight. Way to go Amber..
And yet she's got the slimming filters turned up to 11 today, after the whistleblower came out.
@@magdlynstrouble2036 exactly! She's so manipulative, she's not smaller than the other 2019 clips she showed, it's all the filters
That's a huge (pun intended) reason why she doesn't like other people's videos and photos of her
She'll put side by sides again to show she's not the same lol
i was happy to hear this: 0:45 “i’m going to start calling her Emily” …but then like 15 seconds later… 1:03 “whether she addresses this situation with Tommy” oh well, you gave it a good try Alex lol
I think many of us are just in the habit of saying Tommy 😂
It's just easier to use the same name Amber uses, even though we know Emily goes by Emily 😂
@@erika2m16she deserves to be called by her real name.
He corrected himself several times. It’s hard when we’ve all developed the habit of calling her Tommy.
@@rachy9824either or whatever
16:23 Girl… she admitted to being over 600lbs at one point and lying about it. I can’t with her.
She's 650 and never got below 550.
Addiction is environment and genetics. This is exactly why not everybody should be having kids
You’re dangerously close to eugenics and scientific racism…
At least Amber is a lesbian 🤷🏻♀️ but agree
@@Sleeptokenworshiplesbians can still have kids so it's a good thing amber had a hysterectomy and likely wouldn't be able to adopt
Bragging about being mobile within a multi-story house is wild 😂
She got a duper's delight grin when she lied about climbing stairs. Lahs.
She’s gotta get down to the basement to sleep somehow
The whole movie theater situation at 15 that she still brags about is so uncomfortable to be talking about in your 30s. That... doesn't really sound like a mutually fun or empowering situation unless you're really into ✋. Everyone is supposed to be, um, having a good time and participating in a threesome, not pulling a group project absentee card. Kinda just sounds like they used her because she was desperate for attention and willing to do whatever. Considering her age, that sounds really sad overall. I don't think I'd look back on something like that as an adult fondly like it was a crazy college fling. Thinking about a young teen in foster care doing whatever for boys in a dirty movie theater just makes me sad. Nothing sexy about it.
And here we are years later, in another state with an Internet weirdo. Ugh.
You articulated all of my thoughts about it so well. I was once the sad girl with a horrible home life, eventually a runaway. I have lots of memories of stuff I did because I was abandoned as a very young teen, needing places to stay and not wanting to be abandoned again. Being used. And it's not funny or sexy memories. It's nothing i want to share or dwell on. Her group activity story is that.
@@Elizabeth-n3v2u 💚 I am so sorry you went through that. I also went through some similar chaos, but on the plus side, none of us have moved in with a feeder yet so I think we're doing okay. 😅 You almost look back at those times with a certain detachment. Like I wouldn't want any 15-year-old child to be in those situations. Even when I look back on my own stories, it's definitely not with a fun, "I was exploring and finding myself" attitude. There's a level of ick when you're discussing a kid in that situation, even when it's your own story. I definitely wouldn't be telling it repeatedly like a storytime.
ETA - of course, this doesn't relate to telling your story as a whole. It's how she does it that feels gross, with the same energy of like Tana Mongeau describing adult behavior.
That's how I feel as well. Young lads can be cruel and my assumption is they were taking advantage of the poor fat girl with no self esteem who desperately wants to be accepted or even desired. She was an easy target and they went for it.
@@BestSharkis I hate that, but that's exactly what it sounds like. Not sure if she truly doesn't see it as an adult, but it reads more like teen boys being cruel.
Amber has been observed to be narcissistic and self-serving, often a demon, especially when it comes to how she treated Becky. But she's still pushing this narrative about she's an empath and soooo caring 💀 girl ... Please, we don't have goldfish memory like you. We remember
everything is performative
I feel uncomfortable with how I guessed their relationship trajectory of abuse. This is the isolation phase, she's moving into being devalued and blamed for her poor treatment. After alienating her Mom & RUclips audience, ALR is basically Emily's captive. ALR's increased 'accent' makes me also think Emily bullies her about her socioeconomic background. YT is "low class" isn't it? Ew, this is gross.
Eh, she always picks up on her gfs accents. She mocked a country accent with destiny & Becky. It's pretty much what she always does. The only benefit is Emily & Amber both cannot abuse innocent people while dating another abuser.
@@NestaBee-p4g right. hard to feel bad for a narc being kept by a feedyr 😮
I’m just mad that I cannot detect this accent change this time because I live in Michigan and have a similar accent I guess 😆. I guess I can tell that she has LESS of an accent (to me). What does she say differently now? If you don’t have an example it’s fine, I’m just curious what I’m missing this time! lol
@@LaurenWoz421 Oh I actually thought in the beginning she sounded like she was trying too hard to sound 'hard' like Emily is positioning herself as from an upper middle class 'good' background whereas ALR is from the streets. The whole thing only works if Emily convinces ALR to put EMILY on the pedestal that ALR is usually on. She always puts herself above her exes but not Emily...
Is RUclips low class?
28:51 Zachary tells their audience when ALR messages for the sake of transparency. He's not gonna hide it because then the "Zach is too nice to Amber" people will become "Zach is secretly friends with Amber" people and they're already too loud as it is lmao
He’s also said so many times that he does not respond because it’s a hard boundary these days. All her messages are attempts to manipulate.
ALR will never apologize to Beck because she believes she’s better than them. She sees people as social currency to be used when she needs them and Beck was never on her level in her eyes. It’s honestly disgusting.
She’s going to stay until Emily gets sick of her.
She will have to legally evict her. Alr is devious and she knows this.
Emily will just funnel milkshakes down Amber's immobilized gullet and get her jollies, then close the basement door.
I think Slommy told her get out well before TDay !!
I think we are already past that
“i have a chair to sit on”. girl, we can see it’s two chairs 😅
Omg I didn’t even notice
Lol, but she shows she's only sitting on one as funny as that would be
@@JustMeChrissLeewhy even mention it if she is only sitting on one chair? Why have them both there? I think you are underestimating how wide her base is
The curls are gorginaaaaa
ughhhhhh true the color the shine it's all so rich ❤❤❤ but there's our gorl lookin tough 😢
15:22 she will say she knows more about tommy than they do, yet they've known her since middle school
*EMILY
@@Blessingforallll my bad
@@lizzie1592 no way, I appreciate you. Just want everyone to call her by her name. 🤗
Shut up. If you wanna call her by her name go the fuck ahead. Stop policing everyone on what they call her. She’s Tommy to many and will be. People know who they mean 🙄🥴
I’m thinking karma is coming back around. She treated Beck absolutely terrible.
Emily and Amberlynn are both narcissistic people under the same roof. I guarantee they argue and clash daily. Alexis is crazy and clout chasing but I believe her on the toxicity in the beginning.
The higher you fly the harder you fall. Amberlynn is going to be dropped. I do not see this relationship going past the holidays.
Emily will end it. I’m pretty convinced. Especially with the behind the scenes drama.
Amber,if you see this..GET OUT
She won’t and she’ll call you an asshole for saying it.
@@v_eye_let_17and dispectful
You just don’t get HER LOVE STORY
All those stairs are probably just her going back and forth between the basement and first floor.
Emily coming home from work with a Bath & Body Works gift bag. She goes down to the basement and hands it to Amber.
ALR: Ohhh babyyy….you got me BBW lotion! I love it!
Emily: It puts the lotion on its skin or else it gets the hose again.
Epic!!!
One of the most terrifying quotes.
Lmao!
Here faster than Emily laying under Ambers gunt.
i think u mean fupa
i cant with this communities endless 1 liners
altho gunt is growin on me....literaly.lol u kno what i take it back keep gunt xDD
Communi tea 🫖
Not the GUNT
she's definitely in the basement.
Figuratively, maybe 😅 If you look at the real estate listing of Emily’s house, that ugly oak chair rail and two-tone paint is in the dining room on the main floor, adjacent to the kitchen.
With buffalo wings bill
@MogwenciaBogwencia r/woosh
@@MogwenciaBogwenciawhy would we look at that you weirdo?
She never has taken full accountability for her weight. Now people are blaming her gf so she is.
Shes sitting on two chairs, hence the blanket lmao
She thinks she’s so slick lmao
this is so out of control man, sad and dangerous
She's a 30 something yr old adult. She got herself in this. Get herself out. No sympathy for her. Karma
@@sharoneuby-62 yeah i can't really find my sympathy bone for somebody like her, this is 110% the karma she's earned, but at the end of the day it's still dangerous that people like tommy exist and these f33dr relationships are real. and it's still sad that we're watching her health decline at an alarming rate and youtube has allowed it to be monetized for this long.
She asked for it despite knowing abt Emily...
@@sharoneuby-62 yeah, karma 110%, I totally agree and I can’t find my sympathy bone for a woman who’s done so much malicious wrong to so many people. But I can also acknowledge how sad and dangerous it is that f33dr relationships are real and that people like Tommy exist to hurt others for their own sick personal gratification
I believe Emily makes Amber feel like it's her fault that Emily is being roasted and feeling like shit mentally, bc it's her fans.. it's bc of her RUclips channel..so, she wants out now
It’s strange that she saying “uncomfortabilty” or something weird like that. Wasn’t it a season or two ago that she had learned the term “sitting with discomfort” and used it nonstop? Did you forget your old favorite word already? Did hectic and leeeterally push it out your head?
Leeeeterally makes me violently angry
Isolate her so she can abuse her without the public scrutiny? Total abuser move
It’s so interesting how her medical issues are negligible when she’s getting what she wants in life. Let’s revisit this video when she uses her kidney stones etc for sympathy when things hit the fan
Tommy is really making her more dependent on her by getting her to slowly stop filming. Kinda scary actually.
After 10 years she still hasn't set boundaries for herself on social media. She should be able to do her job without interactions with unpleasant parts of her audience and content about herself. She is so obsessed with herself and what strangers online think of her that she can't even enjoy time in a new place with a new love. This is prime time for vlogging. But she can't get past talking to and reading posts from people who don't even like her. Gorl grow up and go live your life. RUclips isn't the problem, her lack of boundaries and her self obsession is. What's new?
off topic. but you look great! really youthful and skin is glowing from the inside
24:50 i audibly gasped when she said this spiel. she’s using not having kidney stone symptoms as another excuse to avoid coming to terms with her health. like amber, that’s not a reason to not get another appointment and to leave the one you set up like six months ago go to waste. you’d think her idealized version of emily-the nurse- would encourage her to at least reschedule somewhere nearby them.
She’s definitely pissed at her mum. Every video recently she’s brought up her childhood. We hadn’t heard about it the whole time her mum was taking her to bingo.
We need the tea from Alexis. Where's she at.
This!
If Alexis is quiet, I’m afraid 😱
Inside of Amber like those little elves that bake cookies
Under the table licking ALR’s crack
Wtf is that god awful tapping sound in Amber's video? Is anyone else hearing that?
Editinglynn is slacking
I heard it while I was listen to it on my car’s stereo on my way home. I thought it was my speakers but it only happened when ambers video was playing
Thought I was going crazy!
It’s Twinkie tryeen to escape the cellar
It’s probably the mic clicking on her camera
The similarities look wise between Amber and Emily's dead ex are nearly scare
Right down to the dark circles around the eyes
When i first saw her face i thought it was amber for a second. Tbh that's when i got scared.
@ same Brother/Sister
Could this woman possibly utter the word "like" any more than she does? Good lord that's irritating.
She will never come on here crying about emily. She will only come on here being all smug saying we don't know what we're talking about and Emily explained it all and there's a lot we don't know, but of course nothing she will tell us.
Until the break up, if we get that far 🫣
Unless Emily dumps her. Then we will hear all about how abusive and horrible she was for years after.
I wasn’t expecting the double movie theatre cousin handy jay story to be brought up in this video, but then again, I’m never surprised anymore
She won’t let that die. Goddamn.
This whole situation type deal is just bizarre…. And stupid
Stupid is the key word
I don’t think she’s happy there at all. She’s needs to go back to Oklahoma and I wonder what Mamalynn feels about this situation?
Maybe Faline will ride in on a white horse to save amber. Fist to cuffs i say the one coming out on top would be Faline vs Slommi.
Absolutely. Jade is bigger and was an athlete. My money is on Wipey 😂
Would be the craziest face reveal
Maybe Erica gets a comeback after her divorce? She looked like she could throw Amberlynn over her shoulder and get her out of the basement
i submitted an assumption saying i assumed she did nothing all day … she was not able to prove that wrong 😂
This is so sad we could very well be watching the final days of ambers life.
People have tried to warn her & she spits in their face so I truly don’t care what happens to her. Emily needs to lose her job though.
If this creep is a REGISTERED NURSE then she's taken an oath to DO NO HARM! She needs reported to her superior and she shouldn't be allowed to care for other's if she deliberately feeds people to DEATH. Where does she work?
Emily might've booked the funeral place, size of Amber's ⚰️ & printed a fresh sheet of the old eulogy for that when the time comes
So glad you posted Alex I was having so much anxiety today and you always make my day better with the tea 😭
Alex trying to use Emily instead of Tommi...
Tommmmm....
🤯
Emily....
😂😂😂
This reminds me a bit of the Nader era with Foodie Beauty. The audience being genuinely concerned and all she can think is you guys don't want me to be happy 😢
Amber’s knees are hurting from using regular stairs in a house??? But she’s been bigger before and we should just focus on that 🙄🙄
Bestie, you're not using Emily's name in the title😂
THIS 😂
That's hilarious lol
Her mom didn’t give a poop then what makes you think she does now. Just because they get along doesn’t mean the depth of love is there that brings concern
I sent her an assumption on insta about her not going back to Oklahoma I see she did not choose that one
Same
She keeps saying she's saving that for a later video. She's probably waiting for Emily to ask her to move in lol
i’m starting to get scared girls
Me too, she looks worse now compared to 2-3 months ago.
If this is what Amber wants, so be it. She’s an adult. Can’t imagine being willing to die for a “relationship”.
Fast forward 3 months from now: “my ex-girlfriend was a feeder”.
It's so funny to me when she comes on with an attitude but tries to act unbothered and Lecturelynn us. It never gets old.
Edit: i don't understand the Q&A's because everything she says is sus
two abusers in one relationship is crazyyy
Emily is ABSOLUTELY manipulating her . Shes repeating her talking points verbatim. This is definitely not good. I see abuse NO DOUBT
Can someone dig me out of this rabbit hole please.
A 50 minute video!? I’m getting my snacks ready 🏃🏽♀️
Destiny is never gonna beat the one that got away allegations. ALR has not been happy in a relationship since and continues to be delusional even when it's clear she's in danger.
I mean her name is literally Destiny
Here faster than Amber at an unlimited buffet
BUFF- ETT
Here faster than ambers gunt growth spurt
Hey Alex. My husband has cancer. If he passes, he’ll be my husband that died. I’ll be a widow. He will not be my ex. Please reconsider calling Emily’s deceased partner her ex.
I actually feel more scared for Amber's well-being than ever before. This isn't memes anymore. She's in serious danger. 💔
And SHE chose it sooooo 🤷♀️
She chooses to be with this person, she can leave
And it's her decision?? Who gives a fuck?😂
@stacy_mnchld7503 she can. but we know she doesn't have much self worth, and it's hard to break that cycle. I hope she can find the strength to choose better for herself 💔
100%
She just had to mention donating to charities. Nobody gives a fuck whether she donates, like it has never even been a topic of discussion.
How big is that dining room chair. Think Dr Now office with wide chairs
It's two chairs.
2:52
Let's not beat around the bush. Emily isn't putting their health at risk, she's risking their LIVES. Their whole entire life. Theres a huge difference between being unhealthy, and not being alive anymore.
Conspiracy theory: ALR accidentally smothered Emily and she’s depressed because she ki11ed her accidentally, and that’s why she hasn’t been seen lately.
I love a good conspiracy theory.
jesus christ 💀
😂😂😂😂
28:48 then she mocked him for his break up.
And then “couldn’t find her sympathy bone” when a RUclipsr had a heart attack
You have amazing curls!
Extra silky soft today ☺️
I am not a native speaker, but even I kept yelling "discomfort"... uncomfortability is crazy
I'm a lesbian and am not attracted to Amber or Emily, for that matter. That does not mean either of them are unattractive. They're just not my type.
Momma Lynn might be trying to be careful and tread the line of supporting/protecting ALR without pushing her further into Tommy’s arms. Controlling partners will often try to convince you that your loved ones’ expressions of concern are actually them trying to split you up because they’re jealous or don’t want you to be happy.
If you tell someone who’s in a controlling relationship “it’s them or me,” odds are they’re going to choose the person who is controlling them, and then you may not be around to support them if and when they do decide to leave the relationship.
This was my thought as well.
@@Jenillabean84yep, I once let a friend move in with someone I knew would not work out, but I knew if I told them not to, they could have broken off contact over this (they did with others), so I let them move in, the situation escalated sooner than I thought, and luckily my friend still had a lifeline with me, and got out of the relationship.
But it's always a risk, could have gone wrong too you know 🤷♀️
Amber does not know how to get out of her own way. Her decision making skills are so poor. It’s unfortunate.
Amber most definitely DID reach over 600 lbs! She filmed a weigh in at like 193 lbs..right arouns that number. She lies about her too weight and deleted that video..people remember it!!!
I had cellulitis once when i was younger and working as a chef, it was one of the most awful feelings Ive ever felt and because of it i ended up having scarred veins on my ankle. I cant understand how some people are so okay with it and dont understand its not hard to prevent
Why are you actually acting like cellulite isn't normal for literally any body (unless you're talking about something else)
This whole video was about letting us know that if we don't stop giving her a hard time, she's going to punish us. If we want to see more videos, we better stop saying negative things about Emily. She finally gives us another video and I feel like I learned nothing about what's really going on in her life. I already knew she hates her job.
I think she holds resentment towards Beck bc we as GorlWorld loved Beck. Most of her exes we hated and i think she liked that but the fact that we liked Beck more than ALR and basically only supported Beck made her resentful
OMG she answered my assumption about being over 600 lbs at phone point but doesnt know.. i love that
Emily is trying to take Amber away and distance her so that she can fatten her up without any consequences. Emily feels like the more we talk about her red flags the more WE are taking Amber from her, and she can’t have that!
Of course, mamaLynn feels responsible for ambrrrr's OBCD. It's not ruling her world or a daily thought. As a mother, nutrition is a basic need provided.
Look at her eyes , anger on her face , it is NOT yourube either!! It is that she can'nt hide
“Addressed everything” said NOTHING. Gorl bye!!!