How To Be SO CONVINCING That You're Over It That He Regrets Leaving And Chases

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  • Опубликовано: 22 июл 2024
  • Guides And Coaching: liinks.co/elliotscott
    Tired of feeling taken for granted? It's time to turn the tables and make him realize what he's lost. In this ultimate guide, I, your trusted dating coach Elliot Scott, will walk you through the art of making him regret his decisions. Let's jump right into it, and I promise, by the end of this video, you'll have a blueprint to not only boost your self-worth but to possibly get him knocking on your door, full of regret.
    First off, I am going to teach you the importance of believability in your actions post-breakup. Understanding the dynamics of your relationship and the power play at hand is crucial. I'm going to give you actionable steps on what to do before and after a breakup to ensure he realizes his mistake. From maintaining no contact to presenting yourself as the high-value woman you are, each strategy is designed to make him see your worth.
    You will want to watch this video because I dive deep into the psychology of regret and how to leverage it in your favor. Whether you're looking to get your ex back or simply want to move on with the confidence that you left a lasting impression, this guide is for you.
    - Why believability is your best tool
    - The correct way to use no contact
    - How to be the most believable post-breakup
    - Signs he's starting to regret his decision
    Furthermore, I show you how to establish a healthy dynamic before things go south, ensuring you never find yourself in this position again. Attract your crush, get a guy to like you, or get your ex back with confidence. My relationship advice, based on years of experience, is designed to empower you in the dating world.
    For those ready to take their dating game a notch higher, download my free guide linked below, or sign up for one-on-one coaching. Remember, you're not alone in this journey. I am here to guide you every step of the way with proven strategies that have helped countless others.
    *Disclaimer: I am in no way a professional or licensed. This is all just my experience, knowledge, and opinion.*
    Embrace your newfound knowledge and head into your dating life with confidence. The link is down below so get it at the end of this video. Ladies, I love you all. Take care and peace.
    #HealthyBreakup #RegrettingEverything #MakeHimRegret #HowToGetAGuyToLikeYou #UnderstandingMen
    CHAPTERS:
    0:00 - Make Him Regret Losing You
    0:38 - Understanding Regret Dynamics
    6:07 - Be Irresistibly Believable
    9:58 - Mastering No Contact Rule
    10:28 - Importance of Silence During No Contact
    10:43 - Personalized Coaching with Natalie

Комментарии • 68

  • @ElliotScottDating
    @ElliotScottDating  5 месяцев назад +1

    Guides And Coaching: liinks.co/elliotscott

  • @TheRightSideOfHistory
    @TheRightSideOfHistory 4 месяца назад +31

    Is there one honest sincere man left in the world that doesn’t play games? Gosh!!!

    • @dishappywithlife2556
      @dishappywithlife2556 4 месяца назад +3

      I know right!! It’s so bloody exhausting 😑

    • @chilloften
      @chilloften 4 месяца назад +1

      No mam, and they all want a mother and finding them.

  • @unintendedbeginning
    @unintendedbeginning 5 месяцев назад +18

    He is 100% correct. I had an ex reach out to me after we broke up 20 years ago via email around Christmas. We lost contact 10 years ago. I did not notice as I don't check that email anymore. 6 months later he sent another message, once again I missed it. 8 months later he sent me another one, on Valentines day. Ignoring the messages was purely accidental as I'm not the type of person to do that, especially after 20 years. I'm the type to view it as water under the bridge. I responded casually and with a few sentences. A few weeks later, I received a very long message. He clearly started to chase after a period of a year and a half. I believe he was lonely and looking for attention, but the lack of attention definitely made him chase. The behavior i was seeing was surprising after so many years. Men clearly love the conquest.

  • @jmb4975
    @jmb4975 Месяц назад +2

    I love the animated language in this video!😂 This is all soooo true.
    One thing I learned: I've never lost a dude because I ignored him!

  • @EdelweisSusie
    @EdelweisSusie 5 месяцев назад +12

    Basically, a man will do and say ANYTHING and travel any distance to get into your pants. Women need to do everything they can to see what a man is made of first - does he SHOW what he professes (or is it all BS)? Keep him waiting ‘til you’ve found out all you need to know, then make a judgement.

  • @Lifeofcivilrightactivistanetra
    @Lifeofcivilrightactivistanetra 5 месяцев назад +9

    On the right path. I kept God first..kept pushing❤❤❤

  • @AD-hh6dd
    @AD-hh6dd 5 месяцев назад +59

    Why do I care if he regrets leaving me if I’m actually leaving? The only way to be convincing is if we never actually take them back right?

    • @Eadrene
      @Eadrene 5 месяцев назад +12

      because a lot of times, this method actually does help a woman to move on from the pain. You really do have to fake it until you make it at times. And even if you don't ever take him back, showing so much sadness and sorrow is also not a good look!

    • @abbyjones2414
      @abbyjones2414 5 месяцев назад +5

      Why are you watching this if you don’t care lol. You aren’t convincing anyone

    • @Beautifullysaid
      @Beautifullysaid 5 месяцев назад +2

      I was wondering the samething they always say they got the gift of goodby and all that yet they comment the most i dont get it why they watch if there done with the person humm

    • @emmaboyett8667
      @emmaboyett8667 5 месяцев назад +3

      ​@@abbyjones2414 if you paid attention to any of his videos you would know that the commenter is agreeing with Elliot. So stop putting people down.

    • @emmaboyett8667
      @emmaboyett8667 5 месяцев назад

      ​@@Beautifullysaidare you dense? you're beefing at someone who actually understands his points a lot better than you. Learn comprehension

  • @smores8982
    @smores8982 4 месяца назад +4

    When you said don’t text him HBD after you guys have broken up, it slapped me in the face as I did just that 😢…5 whole months after we broke up. After I received a very lukewarm yet curt reply from him, i instantaneously felt like an azz. I’d like to reinforce to the ladies what Elliot said…DONT do it! You’ll regret it. He will recognize that he’s still on your mind 😣

  • @rileysmiley9585
    @rileysmiley9585 5 месяцев назад +3

    Forget about it. Stay positive and invest in yourself.🙂

  • @alexandrahernandez3647
    @alexandrahernandez3647 5 месяцев назад +8

    We love you Elliot! Wish you were my bestie or older brother I never had. These guys would’ve never stood a chance over these past years 😭😂

    • @EdelweisSusie
      @EdelweisSusie 5 месяцев назад

      Totally agree. I grew up without a male role model of some sort - Elliot would have saved me SO much trauma and heartache.

  • @Mellie726
    @Mellie726 5 месяцев назад +1

    Excellent advice as always!

  • @majamaja8690
    @majamaja8690 5 месяцев назад +3

    Thank you! Some real talk here, useful as usual. :)

  • @Callie0818
    @Callie0818 4 месяца назад +1

    Thanks Elliott! The hardest thing is to stay strong and dont cave in!

  • @BrodieJ-mw6vl
    @BrodieJ-mw6vl 5 месяцев назад

    Thankyou for your honest insight ❤ you’re so funny 😂

  • @jacquelinebayonne1580
    @jacquelinebayonne1580 5 месяцев назад +1

    I needed this advice. It verified my perceptions. Thank you.

  • @perpetualogan-eb8jo
    @perpetualogan-eb8jo 5 месяцев назад +5

    You are a legend

  • @manuelalivi3982
    @manuelalivi3982 29 дней назад +1

    You Are Great!!!!❤ THANKS🙏🙏

  • @Empressenergy444
    @Empressenergy444 5 месяцев назад +7

    Love you Elliot

  • @Relaxinwealth
    @Relaxinwealth 5 месяцев назад +7

    Front center and listening !! As always you never disappoint

  • @CCrockergirl
    @CCrockergirl 5 месяцев назад

    In my instance you lead me on thinking you were single but actually married and I fell for you 😂

  • @sharonmckay2886
    @sharonmckay2886 28 дней назад +1

    Love yourself more than you love them.The end.

  • @annakane7243
    @annakane7243 5 месяцев назад +1

    Bravo! 👏🎉

  • @gyonia
    @gyonia 5 месяцев назад

    this was hilarious. I can’t even get through the video. You’re hell Elliot 🤣☠️

  • @NNV337
    @NNV337 5 месяцев назад +2

    Elliot, you got me at "Biild a Pablo Escobar jail" Rofl 😂😂 Loved this video ❤👌💯

  • @88kimberly
    @88kimberly 5 месяцев назад

    Can't be any more clear than this!👍😁

  • @Liz-dragon-street.
    @Liz-dragon-street. 5 месяцев назад +2

    Elliot all the love from Amsterdam ❤
    Wanna have a beer with you one day here in Holland 🫡🍻

  • @Sparksflymich
    @Sparksflymich 5 месяцев назад +1

    Elliot ure working overtime this month 😊😊😊

  • @michelleryan6119
    @michelleryan6119 5 месяцев назад

    You are great! Humorous but the male perspective is accurate.

  • @deana_
    @deana_ 5 месяцев назад

    Would be awesome to hang out with you dewd. Super entertaining and sharp as always.
    💙 from Norway

    • @ElliotScottDating
      @ElliotScottDating  5 месяцев назад

      Maybe one day!

    • @deana_
      @deana_ 5 месяцев назад

      @@ElliotScottDatingTromsø Calling 🌬️

  • @aspegel5281
    @aspegel5281 5 месяцев назад +2

    I didn't know about the birthday wishes. Found out too late, but he responded wirh a cut, and some indirect comment. Since it had no intention towards a resolution, I didn't respond and haven't since.

  • @Beautifullysaid
    @Beautifullysaid 5 месяцев назад

    I love the analogy can u use more 😊

  • @veronicasmith1332
    @veronicasmith1332 3 месяца назад

    love u very true

  • @CR-eh7qk
    @CR-eh7qk 4 месяца назад

    The Pablo Escobar prison 🤣 love it

  • @Jazzi_Jeff
    @Jazzi_Jeff 2 месяца назад

    “Oh bish, you be thinking about me”
    🤣🤣🤣🤣
    But frfr that used to be me thinking bout him😕

  • @corulvoceacopilariei9855
    @corulvoceacopilariei9855 5 месяцев назад

    Elliot, all I want to say is you look really good in the suit 😉

  • @jeandoe4887
    @jeandoe4887 5 месяцев назад

    Funny my ex already had a new one, hope they're happy in the end. ❤😊

  • @amandat392
    @amandat392 4 месяца назад

    Iam now in week 5 of NC we pass each other at work and ignore each other feels good but weird.

  • @Swampy_stick
    @Swampy_stick 3 месяца назад

    😂 Pablo Escobar , yes good analogy !lol!

  • @Crgb777
    @Crgb777 5 месяцев назад +1

    The first step - is to convince yourself.

  • @Sheilaalien
    @Sheilaalien 4 месяца назад

    these games would be exhausting

  • @J3nnycat
    @J3nnycat 5 месяцев назад +1

    Ugh I was doing so well for 5 months. I went dead cold on him. He contacted me a week ago and we’ve been talking. He says he has too much love for me than to cut me out of his life completely, but that he wants to be friends.
    I’m not sure what’s worse, not having him in my life at all, or being stuck in the friend zone because he’s not taking the opportunity to pursue me/make things right. He’s open to losing me if I meet another man someday, and is hoping his feelings for me die off by then.
    But then says things like, “who knows, maybe one day a year down the road we can try again.”
    I feel stuck.
    We were together for 5 years and went through so much together. It hurts being just friends.
    Advice? ❤

    • @ROWDYMIDGETZ
      @ROWDYMIDGETZ 5 месяцев назад +4

      Tell him you can’t be friends and go back into NC.

    • @mbk158
      @mbk158 3 месяца назад

      No contact

    • @janefrancesanene3185
      @janefrancesanene3185 2 месяца назад

      Please let him go.. it will be alright..

  • @sheila7909
    @sheila7909 2 месяца назад

    It's my birthday on Tuesday and we are not speaking.

  • @jadeboller3657
    @jadeboller3657 4 месяца назад +1

    this is good shit but I disagree from my own experience that the man is going to beg for you back he is most likely gonna say some thing super casual like hey how have you been doing to test the water and see how you react first

  • @Beautifullysaid
    @Beautifullysaid 5 месяцев назад +1

    Lol people always come in the chat acting like a coach and block them all this stuff they be the same one calling first lol why comment if the topic is not for u . Weird

  • @juliegalea7720
    @juliegalea7720 3 месяца назад

    Games...why do people instigate playing games..he's already doing that and am fed up with the emotional roller coaster...decent people give the benefit of the doubt coz life is busy..if i have to force a man to be with me...he's not for me!

  • @user-jq8uq8sd5v
    @user-jq8uq8sd5v 4 месяца назад

    your so funny

  • @karendifranco8649
    @karendifranco8649 4 месяца назад

    Play Stupid Games win Stupid Prizes 😂😂