I don't think the girl felt bad about the cheating accusations, because anyone would think that. But it's the fact that they called her so many names without even trying to confront her first about it, wouldn't listen to her boyfriend when he tried to explain and later didn't even apologize later. That's what disrespectful.
I don't know what is worse; "Well, we THOUGHT it was possible that you were a wh0re." or "You're a woman, who is dating a woman, what would you understand about women?" 😂😭🤦♀
@@MeemahSN that's exactly what the person above is implying, as the person in the story was telling a lesbian that she doesn't know how women truly are.
2nd story, oh they've already met. They met on FaceTime, were they defaulted to calling her a liar and made her show her hands and her phone. Way to make a first impression. No, I wouldn't hang out with them if I was her.
nah cause the fact that the friends called her a wh0re and did not apologise to OP. I ain't meeting them until they are brave enough to apologise just like how they are brave to call her a wh0re
These friends don't even have the right to demand anything from her let alone prove them that she's right. She only had to show it to her boyfriend and not them. It was none of their business to meddle with their relationship like that. They could've just told him about it and let the boyfriend handle the rest. It's seriously appaling how appalling and pushy they are let alone how quick they were jumping to conclusions and insulting OP. If I was OP I would set the ultimatum either me or the friends. If he decides to go to that party I would break up immediately no matter how he reacted even if he apologized. He let it get that far. He could've ended the call and cut off contact but instead he let those friends insult and berate her. He only said something because she was close to tears and not because she actually cared about her. Seriously OP should get out of this toxic triangle relationship between her and her boyfriend and her boyfriend's friends because I don't think they'll ever stop and will seriously try to break them up someday
Story 2: OP needs to run far and run fast from this so called man. He excuses his friends lack of anything resembling an apology to OP, and ignores her discomfort with them to insist she gives them another chance. He has clearly demonstrated he will allow them to disrespect her and will always put them first. 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩
1️⃣ 1st story This person was not wrong for not letting a random, total stranger, creepy woman into their car. This woman was not acting normal, & op would’ve risked themselves if they let her in. Maybe something is wrong with her, maybe she was planning something, maybe she was planning something with other people. Either way, it was a good thing op didn’t let her in. 2️⃣ 2nd story It’s completely understandable that the friends would wanna look out for the bf, but after being proven wrong, they 100% person need to apologise to op. Op would just be disrespecting herself if she went to meet the friends without them apologising. They need to apologise to op, then she can gladly meet them. & i feel like the bf isn’t 100% understanding op & how she feels/her side of the story, but i still get him. 3️⃣ 3rd story Sounds like the wife was right for leaving this douchebag. He’s a freeloading, lazy bitch who needs to get off his ass before he can expect someone to stay with him. “What does sexuality have to do with it?” literally, Ellen. He just brought it up bcuz he knows he’s wrong/lost the argument & doesn’t have any ‘arguments’, smh 🙄. Op’s right here. Although, the gf does have a point; they don’t know the full story. & Mark 100% DID/does need a reality check.
Story 1: That woman was a serial killer. Or an alien. Very unsettling. OP is still alive because she didn’t give her a ride. Story 2: Eff those guys. They’re scum. I’d dump the BF, too. Story 3: NTA. Mark’s a child. Wife didn’t want to deal with it any more.
In the very first story, I would've just got in my car and sped off because that old woman was definitely going to try to do something sad*stic and very twisted. Much love my dear sweet friend!! Have a great day!! Stay safe!!
Speaking of story 2 So 3rd story starts mentioning that OP is friends with a couple. Mark and his Wife. Mark calls his wife a b$#@ in front of Her friends? Dang.
Update to the second post: Update: So much crazy shit has happened and I've just been trying to process it all. I don't even think yall are going to believe what went down. After reading through the comments on my last post, I told my bf again that I was not going to the party because I felt disrespected by his friends and was disappointed that he did nothing to stand up for me. My bf apologized to me and made it up by spending the weekend with me at my place instead of going to the party. He told me that after he quit his job, he would not contact any of his friends who refused to apologize to me... none of them did. His apology seemed genuine and him not going to the party convinced me that everything was good so I didn't break up with him. Flash forward to a few days ago. My bf and I were laying together in bed. He was on his phone, messaging some of his friends while I was watching Tiktoks. At one point, I glanced at his phone while he was scrolling through his texts and saw that he had sent a bunch of screenshots of my pictures from Instagram to someone. Even from far away, I could tell that they were pictures of me. I didn't think much of it and even thought "Aww he's showing his friends what I look like." (I was SO dumb). So before we went to sleep, I jokingly asked him, "Hey why were you sending my Instagram pictures to your friends?" He went white and there was so much panic on his face. I immediately knew something was up and made him explain. Apparently, HE sent my Instagram pictures to his friends so that they could make a fake Tinder account to see if I was really cheating on him. Because he had been cheated on in the past, he felt so insecure in our relationship that he wanted to "make sure" I didn't have any dating apps or was doing anything shady behind his back. He thought the confrontation would scare me into a real confession. But he didn't want to seem like the bad guy with major trust issues (which is what HE IS) so he had his friends confront me for him while he pretended to be on my side the whole time. They saw my reaction to it all ( I was literally on the verge of tears the entire call and did NOT confess to anything they accused me of) and they decided to play it off as a catfish. So congrats to those of you in the comments who guess right. The friends made the fake account. I didn't believe it at first because I had no evidence and I hate making false assumptions about people (ironic isn' it?). I also thought that they had no way to get pictures of me since my Instagram is private. But how tf was I supposed to know my own bf was providing them to frame me? Needless to say, I dumped his ass. He cried the whole time which was admittedly satisfying to watch but also painful. Thanks for all the support. Wish me luck in therapy.
Wow I am so sorry that you had to go through all that gaslighting bs. Ugh that would make me build the walls up even higher. Oh hun I am so so sorry that happened. What a complete creep! Glad you got away from that psycho and his creepy friends. Ugh dodged a major bullet and I’m proud of you for standing up for yourself x ugh people in this world are so cruel 😞 glad you’re free x were all his friends female?
Story 3: I think they may have been right but... it's not really her business and they don't necessarily know the full story of their relationship. I agree with the friends that said that.
If I may say this without it sounding weird (Because some people like to compare the entire race together, iykyk) your style has reminded me of "I AM" by IVE (A Kpop group) because of your hair and outfit choice and I thought your style was really cool!
There's nice and there's kind. The nice friend co-signs your bullshit or stays quiet. They like to keep you happy. Which, in my opinion, as the path of least resistance, but enabling bullshit, is cowardly. The kind friend tells you when you're f*cking up so you can learn and grow and possibly correct your behavior. They're concerned with your overall being. They're willing to be a target of your ego hackeling up to save you from yourself. The nice friend avoids friction, which is uncomfortable for them, at the expense of your self awareness and growth, potentially. Not a good friend, imo. Just a buddy. There's a difference.
While I would have done the same thing as the person who encountered the woman at the end of the hike, I wouldn't assume the woman was acting like that for fun, or without a reason. This woman was obviously not well, she may be mentally ill, or having a bad reaction to drugs, either illicit or prescription, or she could have early stage dementia, and she wandered away. While we don't want to risk our safety, making fun of the woman wasn't a Kyutie thing to do.
OP doesn't mention if she had a bag, or how she was dressed. I mention it bc another posibility is that she was robbed/drugged and dumped somewhere were she couldn't make a phone call. That has happened in my country, they do it so the victim can't call the bank and report their cards stolen before they withdraw everything.
Alright I have a very sussy story of my brother. Warning, this is about r*pe. We have both shared a friend for 11 years, ever since I was 5, friend G was 6, and brother was 7. Ever since the start of our friendship for about 5 years, every time we would meet up, she would rape me. Ik that's crazy but true. She was definitely raped by an adult in the past, because no kid would think of that on their own. I know that. But for the past few months friend G has just been such a horrible person to me. So 2 weeks ago I finally got the courage to open up to my brother and mom abt this. My mom felt horrible. My brother however, said "Okay well don't think this means she's not coming over in 2 weeks like we planned." I was like okay.... So she came over, and she was more rude to me than ever. Afterwards, I talked to my brother again and said it hurts to ruin such a long friendship, but I don't want to be friends with her anymore. Now it goes: Brother: Are you kidding me? You're gonna ruin such a long friendship? Well don't think I won't be having her over again. Don't demonize her. Me: I'm not demonizing her, I feel bad for her too. But after doing all that to me, and now she decides to be so rude on top of it, I just can't deal with seeing her. Brother: I can't believe you. Losing a friendship over this?? You were fine with it all these other years. Me: I wasn't fine with it, I was just too scared to open up about it. Brother: Well she's still my friend, and she'll still be visiting when possible. I can't believe you blocked her online, you're rude. So.... Am I wrong for not wanting to be friends with my rapist?
Oh my god, i'm so sorry you had to go through that.🙁 No, it's completely justified for you to cut her off, she's an abuser. I'm so so sorry, sending you love 💞
@@Stupider Thank you❤️ I actually have an appointment with a therapist today that is specifically for sexual abuse. I wonder what she'll think about this.
@@FaizatheTempest I would but I'm trying not to, because I know he loves me and I still love him. However, it is very hard to forgive him. I feel like in my life I will always have some sort of resentment.
@@kileyslife7541 I know that it isn't easy to sever ties with someone you were once close to. It will feel a lot like a loss, and it's going to hurt for some time. But trust me, it would be so much better for your mental health to have your brother out of your life. If he truly cared for you, he would have cut the friendship with your rapist as well.
The girl doesn't need to give them a chance because they have already shown who they are. Tell him that he is free to hang out with them and you will hang out with your friends at those times and if they apologize then you can decide if you want to give them a chance or not.
Nope - I do not like friends of the guy and how does she not know that it wasn’t one of them who made up the account themselves so they could break them up? Disgusting. They definitely owe her a major apology and I think she should consider dumping the guy for not defending her more and demanding they all apologise to her 😞 If any of them were female (I think any female friends of a guy are usually dodgy wh0res) they probably wanted the guy for themselves and again were probably doing the catfish account
I would ho with him to the party, hanging on to him like I was a part of his body. And give them 15 minutes to apologize to me eye to eye. If not I would go with my boyfriend. If he would not come with me, he would be done.
So for the mark thing.. I don’t think she’s wrong saying it I think she’s wrong for doing in front of everyone.. I feel like that conversation should have been more private
@@pucca95776 it’s just a me thing… trying to avoid more conflict. Yes he did bring it on himself but definitely being female with other guys… those guys might hand the same mentality as him (there are way to many of guys like that out there) but I have really bad social anxiety so I always over think of what I say or do and what outcomes it’ll hand before speaking
The disrespect of the friends not apologizing for accusing the girl of cheating
I don't think the girl felt bad about the cheating accusations, because anyone would think that. But it's the fact that they called her so many names without even trying to confront her first about it, wouldn't listen to her boyfriend when he tried to explain and later didn't even apologize later.
That's what disrespectful.
@@parkgimmy4225 yeah I also meant like the whole situation, calling her an whore and all
@iamme25yagoand better ones too
the boyfriend is a bigger a-hole for still being friends with them after they disrespected his gf
S2: It's funny that he wants her to give his friends a chance even though they didn't even give her a chance to explain before jumping to conclusions.
he did give her a chance re read,it litrlly says he didnt believe it either
its ony normal you would assume their cheating if u see THEM in tinder
@@ichigo1228They’re saying the friends didn’t give her a chance, not the bf
I don't know what is worse; "Well, we THOUGHT it was possible that you were a wh0re." or "You're a woman, who is dating a woman, what would you understand about women?" 😂😭🤦♀
What does that second one even mean? I’m pretty sure being a woman dating a woman would make you MORE understanding of women.
i’d say the first one because they said it in a much worse way than you quoted here :))))
@@MeemahSN that's exactly what the person above is implying, as the person in the story was telling a lesbian that she doesn't know how women truly are.
2nd story, oh they've already met. They met on FaceTime, were they defaulted to calling her a liar and made her show her hands and her phone.
Way to make a first impression. No, I wouldn't hang out with them if I was her.
nah cause the fact that the friends called her a wh0re and did not apologise to OP. I ain't meeting them until they are brave enough to apologise just like how they are brave to call her a wh0re
for the last one it reminded me of a quote, "it's not the final straw that breaks the camel's back, but all the straws before it"
These friends don't even have the right to demand anything from her let alone prove them that she's right. She only had to show it to her boyfriend and not them. It was none of their business to meddle with their relationship like that. They could've just told him about it and let the boyfriend handle the rest. It's seriously appaling how appalling and pushy they are let alone how quick they were jumping to conclusions and insulting OP. If I was OP I would set the ultimatum either me or the friends. If he decides to go to that party I would break up immediately no matter how he reacted even if he apologized. He let it get that far. He could've ended the call and cut off contact but instead he let those friends insult and berate her. He only said something because she was close to tears and not because she actually cared about her. Seriously OP should get out of this toxic triangle relationship between her and her boyfriend and her boyfriend's friends because I don't think they'll ever stop and will seriously try to break them up someday
Story 2: OP needs to run far and run fast from this so called man. He excuses his friends lack of anything resembling an apology to OP, and ignores her discomfort with them to insist she gives them another chance. He has clearly demonstrated he will allow them to disrespect her and will always put them first. 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩
Something tells me the bf in story 2 put his friends up to it, I don't trust this guy if that's his reaction to his friends' clearly insane behaviour
1️⃣ 1st story
This person was not wrong for not letting a random, total stranger, creepy woman into their car. This woman was not acting normal, & op would’ve risked themselves if they let her in. Maybe something is wrong with her, maybe she was planning something, maybe she was planning something with other people. Either way, it was a good thing op didn’t let her in.
2️⃣ 2nd story
It’s completely understandable that the friends would wanna look out for the bf, but after being proven wrong, they 100% person need to apologise to op. Op would just be disrespecting herself if she went to meet the friends without them apologising. They need to apologise to op, then she can gladly meet them. & i feel like the bf isn’t 100% understanding op & how she feels/her side of the story, but i still get him.
3️⃣ 3rd story
Sounds like the wife was right for leaving this douchebag. He’s a freeloading, lazy bitch who needs to get off his ass before he can expect someone to stay with him. “What does sexuality have to do with it?” literally, Ellen. He just brought it up bcuz he knows he’s wrong/lost the argument & doesn’t have any ‘arguments’, smh 🙄. Op’s right here. Although, the gf does have a point; they don’t know the full story. & Mark 100% DID/does need a reality check.
Yep, I think you've explained it all pretty well. Honestly these get me so pissed at the bfs "friends" and mark..
I still wouldn’t feel comfortable meeting those friends from the second story even if they apologised because they sound so dodgy and toxic.
Wow that was really rude of the friends to not apologize
Story 1: That woman was a serial killer. Or an alien. Very unsettling. OP is still alive because she didn’t give her a ride.
Story 2: Eff those guys. They’re scum. I’d dump the BF, too.
Story 3: NTA. Mark’s a child. Wife didn’t want to deal with it any more.
The second story... I would LEAVE the boyfriend cause the friends in his business too much
The first story sounds like early onset dementia. I would have called the police to let them know that someone might need help out there.
In the very first story, I would've just got in my car and sped off because that old woman was definitely going to try to do something sad*stic and very twisted. Much love my dear sweet friend!! Have a great day!! Stay safe!!
Talk about jumping to conclusions, lol! That's the only possibility that you can come up with?
Hope you’re doing well Ellen! ^u^
Speaking of story 2
So 3rd story starts mentioning that OP is friends with a couple. Mark and his Wife. Mark calls his wife a b$#@ in front of Her friends? Dang.
Just came here to say I'm loving all the cute hairstyles you've been sporting lately Ellen.
Update to the second post:
Update: So much crazy shit has happened and I've just been trying to process it all. I don't even think yall are going to believe what went down.
After reading through the comments on my last post, I told my bf again that I was not going to the party because I felt disrespected by his friends and was disappointed that he did nothing to stand up for me. My bf apologized to me and made it up by spending the weekend with me at my place instead of going to the party. He told me that after he quit his job, he would not contact any of his friends who refused to apologize to me... none of them did. His apology seemed genuine and him not going to the party convinced me that everything was good so I didn't break up with him.
Flash forward to a few days ago. My bf and I were laying together in bed. He was on his phone, messaging some of his friends while I was watching Tiktoks. At one point, I glanced at his phone while he was scrolling through his texts and saw that he had sent a bunch of screenshots of my pictures from Instagram to someone. Even from far away, I could tell that they were pictures of me. I didn't think much of it and even thought "Aww he's showing his friends what I look like." (I was SO dumb).
So before we went to sleep, I jokingly asked him, "Hey why were you sending my Instagram pictures to your friends?" He went white and there was so much panic on his face. I immediately knew something was up and made him explain. Apparently, HE sent my Instagram pictures to his friends so that they could make a fake Tinder account to see if I was really cheating on him. Because he had been cheated on in the past, he felt so insecure in our relationship that he wanted to "make sure" I didn't have any dating apps or was doing anything shady behind his back. He thought the confrontation would scare me into a real confession.
But he didn't want to seem like the bad guy with major trust issues (which is what HE IS) so he had his friends confront me for him while he pretended to be on my side the whole time. They saw my reaction to it all ( I was literally on the verge of tears the entire call and did NOT confess to anything they accused me of) and they decided to play it off as a catfish.
So congrats to those of you in the comments who guess right. The friends made the fake account. I didn't believe it at first because I had no evidence and I hate making false assumptions about people (ironic isn' it?). I also thought that they had no way to get pictures of me since my Instagram is private. But how tf was I supposed to know my own bf was providing them to frame me? Needless to say, I dumped his ass. He cried the whole time which was admittedly satisfying to watch but also painful. Thanks for all the support. Wish me luck in therapy.
Wow I am so sorry that you had to go through all that gaslighting bs. Ugh that would make me build the walls up even higher. Oh hun I am so so sorry that happened. What a complete creep! Glad you got away from that psycho and his creepy friends. Ugh dodged a major bullet and I’m proud of you for standing up for yourself x ugh people in this world are so cruel 😞 glad you’re free x were all his friends female?
I just want to say that i have been watching you since the good husband and the good wife games i love you ❤
Story 3: I think they may have been right but... it's not really her business and they don't necessarily know the full story of their relationship. I agree with the friends that said that.
If I may say this without it sounding weird (Because some people like to compare the entire race together, iykyk) your style has reminded me of "I AM" by IVE (A Kpop group) because of your hair and outfit choice and I thought your style was really cool!
There's nice and there's kind. The nice friend co-signs your bullshit or stays quiet. They like to keep you happy. Which, in my opinion, as the path of least resistance, but enabling bullshit, is cowardly. The kind friend tells you when you're f*cking up so you can learn and grow and possibly correct your behavior. They're concerned with your overall being. They're willing to be a target of your ego hackeling up to save you from yourself. The nice friend avoids friction, which is uncomfortable for them, at the expense of your self awareness and growth, potentially. Not a good friend, imo. Just a buddy. There's a difference.
While I would have done the same thing as the person who encountered the woman at the end of the hike, I wouldn't assume the woman was acting like that for fun, or without a reason. This woman was obviously not well, she may be mentally ill, or having a bad reaction to drugs, either illicit or prescription, or she could have early stage dementia, and she wandered away. While we don't want to risk our safety, making fun of the woman wasn't a Kyutie thing to do.
not making fun, more or less a whaaaaat she's as dodgy as the midnight hitchhikers reaction.
@@xyreniaofcthrayn1195, I saw it differently. I still do.
I agree with you.
Scary as it was, I hope the lady is ok.
OP doesn't mention if she had a bag, or how she was dressed. I mention it bc another posibility is that she was robbed/drugged and dumped somewhere were she couldn't make a phone call. That has happened in my country, they do it so the victim can't call the bank and report their cards stolen before they withdraw everything.
@@louisejohnson6057 OK drama queen 😂
Alright I have a very sussy story of my brother. Warning, this is about r*pe.
We have both shared a friend for 11 years, ever since I was 5, friend G was 6, and brother was 7. Ever since the start of our friendship for about 5 years, every time we would meet up, she would rape me. Ik that's crazy but true. She was definitely raped by an adult in the past, because no kid would think of that on their own. I know that. But for the past few months friend G has just been such a horrible person to me. So 2 weeks ago I finally got the courage to open up to my brother and mom abt this. My mom felt horrible. My brother however, said "Okay well don't think this means she's not coming over in 2 weeks like we planned." I was like okay.... So she came over, and she was more rude to me than ever. Afterwards, I talked to my brother again and said it hurts to ruin such a long friendship, but I don't want to be friends with her anymore. Now it goes:
Brother: Are you kidding me? You're gonna ruin such a long friendship? Well don't think I won't be having her over again. Don't demonize her.
Me: I'm not demonizing her, I feel bad for her too. But after doing all that to me, and now she decides to be so rude on top of it, I just can't deal with seeing her.
Brother: I can't believe you. Losing a friendship over this?? You were fine with it all these other years.
Me: I wasn't fine with it, I was just too scared to open up about it.
Brother: Well she's still my friend, and she'll still be visiting when possible. I can't believe you blocked her online, you're rude.
So.... Am I wrong for not wanting to be friends with my rapist?
Oh my god, i'm so sorry you had to go through that.🙁
No, it's completely justified for you to cut her off, she's an abuser.
I'm so so sorry, sending you love 💞
@@Stupider Thank you❤️ I actually have an appointment with a therapist today that is specifically for sexual abuse. I wonder what she'll think about this.
Drop the brother as well. He has shown you that you cannot rely on him for support. Rapist apologists are just as bad if not worse than rapists.
@@FaizatheTempest I would but I'm trying not to, because I know he loves me and I still love him. However, it is very hard to forgive him. I feel like in my life I will always have some sort of resentment.
@@kileyslife7541 I know that it isn't easy to sever ties with someone you were once close to. It will feel a lot like a loss, and it's going to hurt for some time. But trust me, it would be so much better for your mental health to have your brother out of your life. If he truly cared for you, he would have cut the friendship with your rapist as well.
The girl doesn't need to give them a chance because they have already shown who they are. Tell him that he is free to hang out with them and you will hang out with your friends at those times and if they apologize then you can decide if you want to give them a chance or not.
1st story. That woman was creepy. It's good you didn't give her a ride.
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Nope - I do not like friends of the guy and how does she not know that it wasn’t one of them who made up the account themselves so they could break them up? Disgusting.
They definitely owe her a major apology and I think she should consider dumping the guy for not defending her more and demanding they all apologise to her 😞
If any of them were female (I think any female friends of a guy are usually dodgy wh0res) they probably wanted the guy for themselves and again were probably doing the catfish account
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I would ho with him to the party, hanging on to him like I was a part of his body. And give them 15 minutes to apologize to me eye to eye. If not I would go with my boyfriend. If he would not come with me, he would be done.
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@@ATM2306Doing well, hope you are doing great as well!❤️
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So for the mark thing.. I don’t think she’s wrong saying it I think she’s wrong for doing in front of everyone.. I feel like that conversation should have been more private
I was waiting for someone to say this.
dude was complaining in front of everyone, what did he expect? not to get reality checked
@@pucca95776 it’s just a me thing… trying to avoid more conflict. Yes he did bring it on himself but definitely being female with other guys… those guys might hand the same mentality as him (there are way to many of guys like that out there) but I have really bad social anxiety so I always over think of what I say or do and what outcomes it’ll hand before speaking
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I feel like the second one is fair.. apologize to op (not her bf) and they will go to your party
Why did it matter the hiking woman was 50? Why the age distinction?
It didn't..? It's just to give you a visual picture, more information on this woman so you know what to visualise, nothing malicious.
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Nope. Twelfth.
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Nope. @blobbythepotato7062 is actually first. :/
Fourth.