What I'm getting here is that: the interaction you have with the girl genuinely has to feel like it means nothing to you. If you can genuinely feel like the interaction with the girl means nothing to you, and you don't care what happens, and you're just enjoying yourself/having fun, and if the girl leaves you don't care and are just excited about whoever you interact with next, and every interaction with everyone after that also means nothing, you can't lose. Your vibe will 100% eventually get a girl sooner or later.
I think the best way to reach this state, which might be counterintuitive, is to not game or date (or even try) at all for a couple months. Be comfortable being single, with no female attention or validation and build a fulfilling lifestyle where you’re happy without a girl. This will make you a much more interesting because you’ve built your own world. Then you’ll not care if an interaction with a girl succeeds or not because you’re happy anyway, and you will naturally pass shit tests, have the willingness to walk away and will take risks in game because you don’t care about the outcome. Been doing this for 3 months and I’m genuinely happier, travelling more, competing in sports and picked up a new instrument. We’ll see what comes out of it!
Not right away but willl come in time .. if you can go through the pain of being rejected where you see what works and what doesn’t …have to read the room and feel energy
I reckon they’re trying way too hard to come up with these witty or “high value” lines/responses, when you can pass a shit test with flying colours just by bursting out laughing at what she’s said. In my experience women respond incredibly well when you just burst out laughing at what she’s said. And you don’t even have to come up with a clever line to follow it up with. If nothing comes to mind you can just sit there in silence and enjoy the moment and what just happened, and there’s an excellent chance she’ll start putting in the effort to carry the conversation from there. Because she’ll see you as “high value” and want to start winning you over.
Today I texted with girl and we in were like low sexual texting. I said something sexual and she said to me "Luckly for you I know you are just kidding". I remembered Todd and I presumed its a shit test and said Yes I am just kidding. In fact I am kidding that much that my nose turned red and I started wearing shirts and became a clown. She just smiled and after that we talked only sexual like we are in relationship.
you amplify to absurdity, to point out COVERTLY that her statement is REDICULOUS, WITHOUT telling a girl directly her feelings are invalid . . . becaus try telling a girl her feelings are invalid, see how well that works for you. Or you can IGNORE. Which is another way in the subtext to communicate to her that her statement was rediculous by not even giving it the time of day, Again without telling her OVERTLY her feelings are invalid. Or you can MISINTERPRETE like Todd did. Which is similar to ignore with a twist. BOTTOM LINE, the answer is ONLY to get her to BEHAVE the way you want. Not to prove you are right or she's wrong , or that you're a good and she's bad for giving you shlt. If telling her the moon is made out of cheese gets her to behave the way you want, tell her the moon is made out of cheese all night long. Asking her to repeat what she said, like you had misheard, can also pass a shlt test
What happens when she doesn't shit test though? Sometimes I get a girl that has super high interest, but she doesn't shit test, she probes me, wants to find out more about me, indirectly still. Sometimes they give me a sob story, making themselves weak and vulnerable, so I can feel sorry for them as well, the damsel in distress routine, and they want me to be the knight in shining armour shit. How about those situations?
What to do when a girl is sharing something bad that happened to her and because of that you cant escalate propperly? Today i was talking to a girl at the gym and she told me about an injury she got, she went to get it taken care of and how the therapist grope her, put her hand in his groin and sugested they had intercorse? Not that i am unsensitive to what happened to her but what is what one should do and maybe rescue the set?
Listen and say something genuinely empathetic, yet brief. Then, use a push-pull that changes the frame. E.g., "It seems like you're learning to move on from this by sharing it with a gentleman (gesture to yourself) whom you feel you can trust. That's healthy. But now that you've dropped this serious topic on me, let's get that serious out of you for a moment and...."
Key take away: turn it into positive. That is the test, really. She don't want to insult you. She wants to feed some tease into you so that you can make it funny. That's what the game is about. And you must be able to sell that joke. Unfortunately we it is not the first logical step in our mind and we are taking it literally and logically.
What if her shit test is not in what she says, but how she looks at you? For example, when she barely looks at you when you are talking to her, or when she doesn't smile even once, or when she gives you that "AND?" look. Is this a shit test and if so how should one pass it? Or is it just that she isn't interested?
@@stephenm8725 Thanks! I made both of them laugh (she and her sister), I know them from before, but she said she has a boyfriend, I said ok and laughed it off, said politely bye and went off my night. I'm 90% sure she's single. She and her sister live 2 blocks from me and I always see her by herself or with her sister. I know of them for over 10 years now. Maybe she just isn't interested, but still, she sometimes smiles at me while fixing and playing with her hair. She even tried once to get me a job at her work place nearby, I'm 100% confused.
How to get over this shit test: I said to a girl "you would have impressed me if you had done ____" She responded with "who says I want to impress you".
"I know, you think you've already won me over but let's take it slow. You're amusing but I'm not sure if I like you yet." Other variations on this could also work. In other words, interpret it as if she's expressed interest in you and push her off playfully, while dropping a hint that she could possibly get you in the future.
How do I not get turned off or resentful by this type of behavior? Maybe some of these examples were on the harsher side. I can understand that you're teaching how to playfully respond and not take these seriously, but internally, there is still that attitude of "alright, f you then". How do I make the internal meet the external, because I can practice responding in these the ways you've described in the video but internally, these tests seem annoying.
Hey, not an expert but remember if the girl wasn't interested in sleeping with you she wouldn't be testing you. They don't test guys they have no interest in. They secretly want you to overcome the shit test every time. They do not actually want you to fail but girls need to feel that you are legitimate.
I think you are in the response telling the person to continue to punch/kick you while you are down. The reason probably being that the one who told you to f**k off will realise it was too mean (eng is my second language too), hopefully this was what he meant
What's the best play in my scenario. Don't want to be overconfident even though things worked for me. Hooked up on first date. She texts next day saying how good the d*** was. Cancels date 2 saying she's under the weather and wants a raincheck and to plan next weekend. I texted Alright. Ill have to check my schedule. Test or legit? Should I plan something with her or wait a week since my time is valuable?
What I'm getting here is that: the interaction you have with the girl genuinely has to feel like it means nothing to you. If you can genuinely feel like the interaction with the girl means nothing to you, and you don't care what happens, and you're just enjoying yourself/having fun, and if the girl leaves you don't care and are just excited about whoever you interact with next, and every interaction with everyone after that also means nothing, you can't lose. Your vibe will 100% eventually get a girl sooner or later.
This, exactly. But to get to this point mentally is herculean, especially when you're dealing with an attractive woman.
I think the best way to reach this state, which might be counterintuitive, is to not game or date (or even try) at all for a couple months.
Be comfortable being single, with no female attention or validation and build a fulfilling lifestyle where you’re happy without a girl. This will make you a much more interesting because you’ve built your own world.
Then you’ll not care if an interaction with a girl succeeds or not because you’re happy anyway, and you will naturally pass shit tests, have the willingness to walk away and will take risks in game because you don’t care about the outcome.
Been doing this for 3 months and I’m genuinely happier, travelling more, competing in sports and picked up a new instrument. We’ll see what comes out of it!
It reminds me of Dumb and Dumber.
Mary: More like one in a million.
Lloyd: So your saying there's a chance!
Delivery is SO IMPORTANT. Love this type of video!
Also that begging line and the comebacks were brilliant 😂
You look like such a stereotypical player with that hair cut, I love it!!
he looks like a retired punk rocker / gay beauty salon shift manager
ppl want to learn lines, but when you feel confident, at peace with yourself
, the right things will come out of your mouth automatically.
That is definitely not true
Not right away but willl come in time .. if you can go through the pain of being rejected where you see what works and what doesn’t …have to read the room and feel energy
@@jonathanruiz7877that I agree with
I reckon they’re trying way too hard to come up with these witty or “high value” lines/responses, when you can pass a shit test with flying colours just by bursting out laughing at what she’s said.
In my experience women respond incredibly well when you just burst out laughing at what she’s said.
And you don’t even have to come up with a clever line to follow it up with. If nothing comes to mind you can just sit there in silence and enjoy the moment and what just happened, and there’s an excellent chance she’ll start putting in the effort to carry the conversation from there.
Because she’ll see you as “high value” and want to start winning you over.
Today I texted with girl and we in were like low sexual texting. I said something sexual and she said to me "Luckly for you I know you are just kidding". I remembered Todd and I presumed its a shit test and said Yes I am just kidding. In fact I am kidding that much that my nose turned red and I started wearing shirts and became a clown. She just smiled and after that we talked only sexual like we are in relationship.
Thank you, Todd. I've been on a 4.5 year dry spell. Hopefully this helps me finally end it.
Good luck brother. I'm someone who grew up introverted and shy, not tall, not a millionaire, not a chad, but made it into a harmonious relationship.
Stop trolling man 😂😂😂
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you amplify to absurdity, to point out COVERTLY that her statement is REDICULOUS, WITHOUT telling a girl directly her feelings are invalid . . . becaus try telling a girl her feelings are invalid, see how well that works for you.
Or you can IGNORE. Which is another way in the subtext to communicate to her that her statement was rediculous by not even giving it the time of day, Again without telling her OVERTLY her feelings are invalid.
Or you can MISINTERPRETE like Todd did. Which is similar to ignore with a twist.
BOTTOM LINE, the answer is ONLY to get her to BEHAVE the way you want. Not to prove you are right or she's wrong , or that you're a good and she's bad for giving you shlt.
If telling her the moon is made out of cheese gets her to behave the way you want, tell her the moon is made out of cheese all night long.
Asking her to repeat what she said, like you had misheard, can also pass a shlt test
1, Why? What are you? A vampire hunter? 🤨🧐
2. Hey, my eyes are up here. Stop checking out my body 😜 I'm not a piece of meat.
Ooh I like that, I would make it huntress though to make it more sexual but I like how it puts the woman in the frame of being the chaser.
I believe this is same venue from Todd's 3GirlsADay bonus content
Actually your best haircut so far.
Should be a little shorter on the top though, apart from the front
todd lookin more masculine when he doesn't get rid of his gray hairs.
Holy crap cool new hairstyle. You're like a new person Todd.
When the shit test is detected... I'm like,"Peace out."
TODD GOT A HAIRCUT! looks sooo much better now.
probably had it for a while
Looks ridiculous
@@Bom-pff Did you see him before?
Direct "verbal" shit tests are a sign that a woman doesn't respect you enough.
If she does, the shit tests become more subtle..
Was there. It was fun.
THE GUY DOESNT MISS
a full guide from open to close for group sets and mixed sets , i would love to see this type of video next ....like if you agree .
What happens when she doesn't shit test though? Sometimes I get a girl that has super high interest, but she doesn't shit test, she probes me, wants to find out more about me, indirectly still. Sometimes they give me a sob story, making themselves weak and vulnerable, so I can feel sorry for them as well, the damsel in distress routine, and they want me to be the knight in shining armour shit. How about those situations?
qualify or form a emotional connection
are you suffering from success?
I have some success, certainly not the average working man. Yes, I'm pretty sure she wanted to get close, but wasn't happy with her methods.
Can you talk about reading a girl's 'level' and basing a gameplan based on their self image?
Hair looking good Todd (not a shit-test)
What to do when a girl is sharing something bad that happened to her and because of that you cant escalate propperly?
Today i was talking to a girl at the gym and she told me about an injury she got, she went to get it taken care of and how the therapist grope her, put her hand in his groin and sugested they had intercorse? Not that i am unsensitive to what happened to her but what is what one should do and maybe rescue the set?
Haha damn the “trauma dump” !
Listen and say something genuinely empathetic, yet brief. Then, use a push-pull that changes the frame. E.g., "It seems like you're learning to move on from this by sharing it with a gentleman (gesture to yourself) whom you feel you can trust. That's healthy. But now that you've dropped this serious topic on me, let's get that serious out of you for a moment and...."
Great video
Key take away: turn it into positive. That is the test, really. She don't want to insult you. She wants to feed some tease into you so that you can make it funny. That's what the game is about. And you must be able to sell that joke.
Unfortunately we it is not the first logical step in our mind and we are taking it literally and logically.
Could you do a video about dating a girl with far higher social status than you, as in making a lot more money?
Did you say reps through chat gpt? Do you have prompts to give chat gpt to practice flirting, push-pull etc?
About the basement for 10 yrs... can I answer with a question to put her on the spot ("what makes you say that?")
Does someone have a good prompt for practicing shit tests with chat gpt?
What if her shit test is not in what she says, but how she looks at you? For example, when she barely looks at you when you are talking to her, or when she doesn't smile even once, or when she gives you that "AND?" look. Is this a shit test and if so how should one pass it? Or is it just that she isn't interested?
Sounds like "hot girl blasé"... which is a different thing
try to turn it around and tease her a bit or make her laugh, if you can. demonstrate higher value and preselection
@@stephenm8725 Thanks! I made both of them laugh (she and her sister), I know them from before, but she said she has a boyfriend, I said ok and laughed it off, said politely bye and went off my night. I'm 90% sure she's single. She and her sister live 2 blocks from me and I always see her by herself or with her sister. I know of them for over 10 years now. Maybe she just isn't interested, but still, she sometimes smiles at me while fixing and playing with her hair. She even tried once to get me a job at her work place nearby, I'm 100% confused.
sooooo good
Todd do you run any bootcamps nowadays?
How to get over this shit test:
I said to a girl "you would have impressed me if you had done ____"
She responded with "who says I want to impress you".
"I know, you think you've already won me over but let's take it slow. You're amusing but I'm not sure if I like you yet." Other variations on this could also work. In other words, interpret it as if she's expressed interest in you and push her off playfully, while dropping a hint that she could possibly get you in the future.
Smart!
How do I not get turned off or resentful by this type of behavior? Maybe some of these examples were on the harsher side. I can understand that you're teaching how to playfully respond and not take these seriously, but internally, there is still that attitude of "alright, f you then". How do I make the internal meet the external, because I can practice responding in these the ways you've described in the video but internally, these tests seem annoying.
Hey, not an expert but remember if the girl wasn't interested in sleeping with you she wouldn't be testing you. They don't test guys they have no interest in. They secretly want you to overcome the shit test every time. They do not actually want you to fail but girls need to feel that you are legitimate.
Can someone please help me understand the line of thought behind the "fuck off, loser's" reply? (Eng is my second lang)
I think you are in the response telling the person to continue to punch/kick you while you are down. The reason probably being that the one who told you to f**k off will realise it was too mean (eng is my second language too), hopefully this was what he meant
@@marekpatzelt8790 oh now it makes sense, thanks Marek!
Farther of modern pick up, full stop
His contribution to the global community priceless
Yellow Letts ....
What's the best play in my scenario. Don't want to be overconfident even though things worked for me. Hooked up on first date. She texts next day saying how good the d*** was. Cancels date 2 saying she's under the weather and wants a raincheck and to plan next weekend. I texted Alright. Ill have to check my schedule. Test or legit? Should I plan something with her or wait a week since my time is valuable?
How to pass shit tests?
Improv.
I’m a sturrer, making these things very difficult for me.
Then it's over for you
@@icephoenix3565 not really. It’s just difficult but not impossible. Hahaha.. 😂
Maybe put an add out for a female who stutters
you won’t get this in Daygame
The ai thumbnail means real girls don't fk with u
Now if only you were actually good at this. Then I’d take you serious.
3:40, 5:10, 20:30
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My Shit Test: Are you fully vaxxed and boosted or are you sane?
No views in 3 mins bro fell off
Bro pocket watching
the cope conference