As an introvert , i can say that this was much needed . I cannot initiate conversation and if i do , its a fear that i shouldn't say or ask these type of questions. Thank you for this ❤️😇
“Your point about unsolicited advice is absolutely right 💯. People who do that often don’t realize its downside. They aren’t rude or big-headed; they genuinely want to help the other person, but it often backfires.”
Whenever I feel a little scared of speaking English, I immediately watch your video, and after watching your video, I feel that I can do it too. your way of speaking English is great which inspires people like us. Thank you so much 🙏
After listening to your speech, I remember all the past moments where I have done some of them, both as a speaker and audience. But in a husband wife conversation I feel it's really hard to follow, I always try my best to keep it calm, but after a certain moment the conversation takes a different angle to worst. Then to keep silence is the only option.....
That's really interesting sometimes we are avoiding and disrespecting others by these unintentionally and some we have to face. These are really important manners we should learn.
Ma'am in this video, I learnt a lot of humanitarian values besides good conversation skills. That is very much common in your videos which is what I admire the most about you. Your chuckle was too beautiful ma'am 📌
Your family is incredibly fortunate to have you, ma’am! Your kind and empathetic nature shines through in every video you create. Your informative content truly inspires us all. Keep up the amazing work, and may God bless you!🙂
@@AleenaRaisLive not only your parents, no one could stop loving such a sweet and intelligent lady. Even your in-laws must be feeling Super Lucky to have you as thier daughter in law. 😊❤
Thank you so much maam❤❤❤❤you are amazing these all habits are actually very important for our daily life and for Carrier too🥺♥️again thank you so much 😊
YOU ARE ONE OF THE MOST BEAUTIFUL ENGLISH TEACHER IN THE WORLD. MOREOVER YOUR ENGLISH TEACHING SKILLS IS BEYOND COMPARE AND EXTRAORDINARY. I HAVE LEARN A LOT OF ENGLISH FROM YOU EVERSINCE I WATCH YOUR ENGLISH TEACHING VIDEOS. I AM SO GRATEFUL TO YOU. WISE YOU ALL THE BEST.
Apart from being dazzingly and spectacularly beautiful and enchanting, you are the well-spring of knowledge. With every lesson, you transcend my expectations and teaches us something which is invaluable. This lesson and your tips are surely going to make us all a little better conversationalist for sure... ❤ Thank you so much Ma'am:) May Allah inundate you with blessings...
Dear Ma'am, I am very lucky that I met you for improve my English. Most of words, you tell I can understand but some words I can't. So ,I watch your videos with Translate App. When I find hard words, I use that App and simplify it. I have been done this pattern since 2 months, and I think my English is upgrading gradually. Thank you again Ma'am
Aleena, I wanted to comment on your previous 'dopamine' video but I resisted myself but this time I couldn't hold back myself from appreciating you for the intellect and effort for us, the viewers. Most people lack the art of socializing and friendship. They walk in and walk out of relationship on the grounds of interest. If you have come across the similar experience do consider it for a video. Lots of love from Sindh, Pakistan. I must say you and Nikhil Kamath are geniuses adding value in the lives of ppl on the emotional intelligence regulation grounds. Jazak'Allah ❤
Today your were using a lot of fancy words and I was surprised is this really aleena rais video!!😮 because you were the most simplest, most amazing, most impressive and the most proficient English speaker in my dictionary. If I’m able to speak anything in English today it’s just because of you and your videos, that made me realise that without using those fancy words we can still speak effectively.
1)know it all attitude 2)Completing someone else sentences 3)asking private questions,stop over inquisitive questions 4)avoid probing questions about sensitive topics 5)Trying to outdo other speakers,trying to outshine others etc 6)don't dimish other people experiences,don't share contrast or try to show your story is better 7) Remaining silent,just nod will do...don't show u r not interested 8) Monopolising conversation,it is dialogue and not monologue...so don't dominate have equal participation 9)Hostile attribution bias-dont not take personally 10)Earphones while conversing is worst 11) Sarcasm or cutting humor eg shaking head negatively or laughing unnecessary 12) dismissing others ideas and opinions 13)self centered conversation and bragging...going on and on 14)giving unsolicited advices 15)being insensitive to others emotions,words carry power... 16) restless moments,poor body language, fidgeting 17)lack of eye contact 18)divided attention,phone etiquette scrolling on phone when someone is talking
Greetings, Miss Aleena Rais. This is the first video of yours that I really liked. Perhaps it’s because that unnecessary laughter of yours wasn’t in this one, which is why I enjoyed it. I hope you continue to post videos like this in the future. Thank you.
With all due respect, all the points are very insightful and absolutely necessary, but one important thing must be kept in mind, this is only applicable for people from certain section and class of society, but in reality for an average middle class individual, he/she has to deal with people from various backgrounds, involving various local conversing culture, so keeping all these in mind it is also necessary to adjust the politeness or the staying grounded attitude. People are manipulative and always waiting to take advantage of your politeness. Sometimes you need to display dominating attitude or ignore them or be kind at times who has no proper education or is in a worse situation by giving them some solution.
Hi Aleena, very well spoken in this video new words and new topic . You have learnt English language like in a big milestone. I really joulus of you ❤ as a English speaker
Very helpful and lucrative vedio indeed👏love the way you explain things, am getting addicted to your way of speaking english ..I keep trying to practise as much as I can to speak so eloquently as you do mam ..you are my inspiration who keep motivating with every single vedio you create❤
Such a nice video I come across of yours.... thanks aleena for making such good videos that from which we can adopt something in our day to day life❣️✨
Aleena Ma'am, you always look so pretty that I cannot express through some mere words, but today you look mesmerizing. From where have you bought this dress ma'am? This dress is as amazing as your information!!
Mam you are my idol😌, my inspiration😇 and my motivation😌. all the English that I have learned only by your informative 💖and intellectual😊 videos. I pray 😇that you further fill the world 🌎with beautiful🤩 rainbow 🌈 colours🌈...and keep uploading such videos😍 and be my inspiration 🥰😊. Mam, is my grammar correct ?😅
Maham, what to do if someone especially another girl is showing disrespect yo you or demean you, how should be the response to that, that you feel satisfied from inside!!! Maham, response in a logical and practical way!!!
I can tell you what I’d do. It is the same for men and women. Do not give them the satisfaction of a response from you. Be kind and nice to them because that would confuse them. Humans expect meanness in return for disrespect, you play differently. And at the same time make them realise they aren’t important in your life. This always works. (Be Nice + Ignore)
Sister I do apologize for sharing but I need your advice, I am an aspirant for past 9 years and still preparing, I want to crack the exam and for that I cut my connection from world, no friends, no gf or love life and now feeling lost and depressed, you have a great mindset which I am lagging, I just don't know what to do or what not to, my exam is also coming but my confidence and self respect seems like buried in ground. Sorry again but I need to share...
I did come across few people who just see through us or keep scrolling social media in your presence or never do an eye contact while speaking or make their best to avoid you... How to handle such people at work?
Mam I have a problem ..I have a chapped lips mam ..if i put lipstick it's not beautify me .. but i think your lipstick brand is correct my lips ..May I know what is your lipstick brand please mam😢❤
chapped lips indicate a bigger problem, you aren’t having enough water. if you will get your tests done, reports will show high urea levels, best is to start having 2.5L of water every day, the problem will be rectified. However, for lipsticks, I love Nars, they are incredibly helpful for dry lips.
hello 👋 actually there is some concern we are sorting out. Known faces aren’t liked by authorities to work for stock brokers (law) - we are working on clearing this issue. thank you for remembering me.
Ma'am I have an issue I shutter sometimes when I talk to anyone for longer than half an hour, when I talk to myself it never happens but every time when with someone else. How can I improve?
Ma'm i know a person who does almost all these 16 points. Bt the people around us are more interested in him. Ppl tend to think that he is always right. Apart from all these points he even thinks that women is subordinate to men. Even ppl are accepting that. Wen i m arguing ppl r tkng my arguments as a joke nd stands by his side. I m feeling frustrated very much. Hw wl he realise his mistake wen everyone s supporting him??Hw to deal with such a person Ma'm??pls help. He s colleague. My workplace s hell nw. Dnt knw wat to do. Pls advise
As an introvert , i can say that this was much needed . I cannot initiate conversation and if i do , its a fear that i shouldn't say or ask these type of questions. Thank you for this ❤️😇
“Your point about unsolicited advice is absolutely right 💯. People who do that often don’t realize its downside. They aren’t rude or big-headed; they genuinely want to help the other person, but it often backfires.”
Whenever I feel a little scared of speaking English, I immediately watch your video, and after watching your video, I feel that I can do it too.
your way of speaking English is great which inspires people like us.
Thank you so much 🙏
You can do it! thats true ❤
After listening to your speech, I remember all the past moments where I have done some of them, both as a speaker and audience. But in a husband wife conversation I feel it's really hard to follow, I always try my best to keep it calm, but after a certain moment the conversation takes a different angle to worst. Then to keep silence is the only option.....
A classic video it has all psychology, body language, communication ethics and echoism.
Thank you.
That's really interesting sometimes we are avoiding and disrespecting others by these unintentionally and some we have to face. These are really important manners we should learn.
The editor's work needs more appreciation ❤ You taught us something new. Thank yoh for that🍁
Ma'am in this video, I learnt a lot of humanitarian values besides good conversation skills. That is very much common in your videos which is what I admire the most about you. Your chuckle was too beautiful ma'am 📌
You flawlessly deliver your ideas through such videos. Your ideas and the way you put them across are intriguing. You rock.❤
Your family is incredibly fortunate to have you, ma’am! Your kind and empathetic nature shines through in every video you create. Your informative content truly inspires us all. Keep up the amazing work, and may God bless you!🙂
I’m so touched by your words ♥️ can’t thank you enough 🙏 yes I’m sure my parents really like me 😃 although papa keeps saying ye ladki pagal hai 😄
I am sure you are successful because of your pagalpan! Wish all of us have this kind of pagalpan🙂
@@AleenaRaisLive not only your parents, no one could stop loving such a sweet and intelligent lady.
Even your in-laws must be feeling Super Lucky to have you as thier daughter in law. 😊❤
@@englishlearner2431my mother in law does show my videos to whoever comes home 😂 I tell them not to but no one would listen. ❤
My nice younger sister, "May Allah increase your respect, wealth and success, always with healthy smiles"
What did I do to receive this love ❤️ I pray the same for you 🩵
@@AleenaRaisLive you are my motivation for english
i shall speaking english like you before year 2025 may god give you energy to upload video for us
Yes off course why not ........❤🎉❤...........😅❤❤....
Thanks
Great
di u did helped me with two of my most worst habits.....thank you so much🙏🙏🙏
Thank you so much maam❤❤❤❤you are amazing these all habits are actually very important for our daily life and for Carrier too🥺♥️again thank you so much 😊
Thanks for teaching this thing it will really help me in near future 😊😊😊
Much needed one 😊
Thank you
I really learnt the things which I needed to at this moment
YOU ARE ONE OF THE MOST BEAUTIFUL ENGLISH TEACHER IN THE WORLD. MOREOVER YOUR ENGLISH TEACHING SKILLS IS BEYOND COMPARE AND EXTRAORDINARY. I HAVE LEARN A LOT OF ENGLISH FROM YOU EVERSINCE I WATCH YOUR ENGLISH TEACHING VIDEOS. I AM SO GRATEFUL TO YOU. WISE YOU ALL THE BEST.
I'm so grateful that I found you much respect and love from Pakistan
Apart from being dazzingly and spectacularly beautiful and enchanting, you are the well-spring of knowledge. With every lesson, you transcend my expectations and teaches us something which is invaluable. This lesson and your tips are surely going to make us all a little better conversationalist for sure... ❤
Thank you so much Ma'am:) May Allah inundate you with blessings...
Thank you for sharing your knowledge; it has had an impact on me, and I have learned some bad attitudes to avoid during conversations.
I learned a new phrase- Hostile attribution bias.....thanks a lot for making wonderful videos.
Dear Ma'am,
I am very lucky that I met you for improve my English. Most of words, you tell I can understand but some words I can't. So ,I watch your videos with Translate App. When I find hard words, I use that App and simplify it. I have been done this pattern since 2 months, and I think my English is upgrading gradually.
Thank you again Ma'am
Thank you Aleena. I love your teaching. They are really helpful👍
Indeed !! it was insightful, covered everything about a healthy and fruitful conversation
Aleena, I wanted to comment on your previous 'dopamine' video but I resisted myself but this time I couldn't hold back myself from appreciating you for the intellect and effort for us, the viewers.
Most people lack the art of socializing and friendship. They walk in and walk out of relationship on the grounds of interest. If you have come across the similar experience do consider it for a video.
Lots of love from Sindh, Pakistan. I must say you and Nikhil Kamath are geniuses adding value in the lives of ppl on the emotional intelligence regulation grounds. Jazak'Allah ❤
Today your were using a lot of fancy words and I was surprised is this really aleena rais video!!😮 because you were the most simplest, most amazing, most impressive and the most proficient English speaker in my dictionary. If I’m able to speak anything in English today it’s just because of you and your videos, that made me realise that without using those fancy words we can still speak effectively.
oh.. I can tone it down 😊 thank you for the suggestion
I also Agee
This video is very beneficial and amazing and Very Comfortable
Your videos are incredibly engaging and enlightening, it's a pleasure to listen to you... You're amazing! This video was really helpful.❤
1)know it all attitude
2)Completing someone else sentences
3)asking private questions,stop over inquisitive questions
4)avoid probing questions about sensitive topics
5)Trying to outdo other speakers,trying to outshine others etc
6)don't dimish other people experiences,don't share contrast or try to show your story is better
7) Remaining silent,just nod will do...don't show u r not interested
8) Monopolising conversation,it is dialogue and not monologue...so don't dominate have equal participation
9)Hostile attribution bias-dont not take personally
10)Earphones while conversing is worst
11) Sarcasm or cutting humor eg shaking head negatively or laughing unnecessary
12) dismissing others ideas and opinions
13)self centered conversation and bragging...going on and on
14)giving unsolicited advices
15)being insensitive to others emotions,words carry power...
16) restless moments,poor body language, fidgeting
17)lack of eye contact
18)divided attention,phone etiquette scrolling on phone when someone is talking
I genuinely feel you the right person with such a great intellectual mind Thanku so much mam for your lessons they are most helpful than any❤❤❤❤
Thanks you helped me a lot to improve my conversation,Thank you so much
Most recommended video for me...
It help me a lot and I'm trying to be good conversation
Masha Allah, so attractive pronunciation you have! I love you ❤️
I got hundreds of new words from this video Ma'am, probably feeling more interested for your next video ❤
Lots of confidence comes in my personality after ur videos mam. & day by day it's increasing😊
Thank you dear Aleena 🤗it’s very helpful ❤
Great job madam ! Today words are so sophisticated but excellent !
Keep it up , may god bless you !
❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Greetings, Miss Aleena Rais. This is the first video of yours that I really liked. Perhaps it’s because that unnecessary laughter of yours wasn’t in this one, which is why I enjoyed it. I hope you continue to post videos like this in the future. Thank you.
Thanks Alina di for sharing these important bad habits which should avoid during the conversation.😊❤
Love from India.
Very nice conversation 😊
thank you mam.. I am glad that I am learning these manners earlier ❤
Thank you ma'am ❤❤❤
Very helpful video ...thank you for sharing this content...
what a great topic , i personally love it ❤
Thanks ma'am you helped me very much ❤❤❤❤❤❤
With all due respect, all the points are very insightful and absolutely necessary, but one important thing must be kept in mind, this is only applicable for people from certain section and class of society, but in reality for an average middle class individual, he/she has to deal with people from various backgrounds, involving various local conversing culture, so keeping all these in mind it is also necessary to adjust the politeness or the staying grounded attitude. People are manipulative and always waiting to take advantage of your politeness. Sometimes you need to display dominating attitude or ignore them or be kind at times who has no proper education or is in a worse situation by giving them some solution.
hmmm food for thought. I could name a video on this, thank you 🙏
@AleenaRaisLive Means a lot Didi ❤️ you're doing a great job , our society needs educator like you. 🙏
Hi Aleena, very well spoken in this video new words and new topic . You have learnt English language like in a big milestone. I really joulus of you ❤ as a English speaker
Extremely informative and helpful❤
I'm from Bangladesh it's really Helpful teaching thank u so much mam.❤
Very helpful and lucrative vedio indeed👏love the way you explain things, am getting addicted to your way of speaking english ..I keep trying to practise as much as I can to speak so eloquently as you do mam ..you are my inspiration who keep motivating with every single vedio you create❤
thanks a lot ma'am. this was really helpful.
Wow... These are amazing tips... Thanks for sharing ❤️
Such a nice video I come across of yours.... thanks aleena for making such good videos that from which we can adopt something in our day to day life❣️✨
Awesome advice
That's very very much helpful
Masha allah 💝Attractive and amazing this is one of the best video till date your aura is 💝
Definitely worth investing time in this, Cheers (Y)
You are my teacher, Make videos regularly mam.
Thankyou mam for this video your videos are really helpful for us keep doing mam ❤
Excellent work 👍 keep posting
I love and learn alot from you.
💯💯 true,it's helpful for everyone to me also,❤ I always watch your video from last 2 years ma'am you are doing good job
Hello ma’am. U r truly an inspiration ✨😊
Thank you Aleena mam
I can't believe I'm so early today!! Love you Aleena
love you too 😌🤗
Aleena Ma'am, you always look so pretty that I cannot express through some mere words, but today you look mesmerizing. From where have you bought this dress ma'am? This dress is as amazing as your information!!
I take your videos for your prettyness firstly 🥰. Then I learn from these.And for the first time I comment my desire.
As you said like my like button got colourfully highlighted. That was lovely but not as much as you ❤.
You are my all time favorite aleena mam❤ love u till last breath ...mam plz don't die until i die❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Lovely voice😇😇
Must watch
Mam it would be better if you add sections of the topics so that we can go back and forth to that particular topic to listen again
Thanks 🙏
You are the best!
Please make a vedio on different type of questions so that we can improve our speaking skill
Mam you are my idol😌, my inspiration😇 and my motivation😌. all the English that I have learned only by your informative 💖and intellectual😊 videos. I pray 😇that you further fill the world 🌎with beautiful🤩 rainbow 🌈 colours🌈...and keep uploading such videos😍 and be my inspiration 🥰😊. Mam, is my grammar correct ?😅
Great 👍
Really informative video
Nice , doing good work
Maham, what to do if someone especially another girl is showing disrespect yo you or demean you, how should be the response to that, that you feel satisfied from inside!!!
Maham, response in a logical and practical way!!!
I can tell you what I’d do. It is the same for men and women. Do not give them the satisfaction of a response from you.
Be kind and nice to them because that would confuse them. Humans expect meanness in return for disrespect, you play differently. And at the same time make them realise they aren’t important in your life. This always works. (Be Nice + Ignore)
also - laugh and giggle more when they are around 😁 burn!!
@AleenaRaisLive hahahahah, yes, you are right!!!
Lovely ❤👍👌
Very nice
Sister I do apologize for sharing but I need your advice, I am an aspirant for past 9 years and still preparing, I want to crack the exam and for that I cut my connection from world, no friends, no gf or love life and now feeling lost and depressed, you have a great mindset which I am lagging, I just don't know what to do or what not to, my exam is also coming but my confidence and self respect seems like buried in ground. Sorry again but I need to share...
Amazing Tips Like it 🎉🎉🎉
Great video..😊❤.
Nice vedio❤
nice , want to enroll for thr course but have some doubts ,Could you pls help
She is gating beutiful day by day❤
I did come across few people who just see through us or keep scrolling social media in your presence or never do an eye contact while speaking or make their best to avoid you... How to handle such people at work?
Love from Pakistan ❤
Hi ma'am your podcast available on Spotify are not playing... please help
Maam there is no Association for Business Communication please Lead the Team
Lovely hairs & Lovely You Alina! ❤❣💓
Big fun 😂😂
Can you link the backdrop please?
Mam I have a problem ..I have a chapped lips mam ..if i put lipstick it's not beautify me .. but i think your lipstick brand is correct my lips ..May I know what is your lipstick brand please mam😢❤
chapped lips indicate a bigger problem, you aren’t having enough water. if you will get your tests done, reports will show high urea levels, best is to start having 2.5L of water every day, the problem will be rectified.
However, for lipsticks, I love Nars, they are incredibly helpful for dry lips.
I am listening you because for improving my listening so please don't use complex or advance worda
Nice content 👍🏻
It's long time you are not there on groww videos...
hello 👋 actually there is some concern we are sorting out. Known faces aren’t liked by authorities to work for stock brokers (law) - we are working on clearing this issue. thank you for remembering me.
Ma'am hamane english bas suru hi kiya h toh speaking kaise kare
Ma'am I have an issue I shutter sometimes when I talk to anyone for longer than half an hour, when I talk to myself it never happens but every time when with someone else.
How can I improve?
Ma'm i know a person who does almost all these 16 points. Bt the people around us are more interested in him. Ppl tend to think that he is always right. Apart from all these points he even thinks that women is subordinate to men. Even ppl are accepting that. Wen i m arguing ppl r tkng my arguments as a joke nd stands by his side. I m feeling frustrated very much. Hw wl he realise his mistake wen everyone s supporting him??Hw to deal with such a person Ma'm??pls help. He s colleague. My workplace s hell nw. Dnt knw wat to do. Pls advise
There is one similar narcissistic person in my hospital in Delhi. Just ignore him, life will humble him later.
@@Craig_Samuel Hmm. Thanks very much for replying
This is really fruitful conversation