It's deflection and lack of accountability. Every single person either from my relationship or friends or family that have cheated they all cheated again. Even when the relationship was with person they cheated with and got pregnant from. It never works out.
Story1: You destroyed your own relationship. Not once but three times or more. You have hurt everybody involved, don’t play victim now honey. Every-time you got bored or dumped you ran back to your fiancée. Glad he found his spine and didn’t took you back anymore. You need therapy because you’re toxic and horrible. You can’t commit and sabotage everything good in your life. I’ve no sympathy for you and everything that happened is on you. Edit: idc if this story or any other are fake. Somewhere people have this mindset, and things like this happening.
Guys, if they cheat, walk away. If they mention an open relationship, walk away. If they call you "controlling," for setting boundaries, walk away. If they do "girl's nights out", walk away. If they have former s3x partners as friends, walk away.
@@heartmint7364there is a caveat. Know who your partner keeps as friends and know what activities are being done. Single friends going to clubs and bars with your partner is a formula to end badly. When entering a dedicated relationship you trade singles activities for ones more acceptable of a taken person. There are many things in life that can only be done as a couple, in having a relationship you MUST give up certain activities that are prone to being alone with others that desire you. Doing these things just shows an utter lack of respect for your partner.
I'd say it that when it's given from the perspective of a cheater, it's rarely remorseful. If i had to guess, it's likely because any remorse is for getting caught and not for the act of cheating. Man or woman, anyone has the capacity to cheat. It's a good idea imo to not group a demographic into a bad behavior because it makes it seem like you're shaming both the behavior (cheating) and the demographic (women) instead of just shaming the behavior (cheating), itself. I like women, what I don't like is cheating. I'm not saying YOU don't like women, I'm explaining that this may be the picture that your words paint of you to others. Does this make any sense?
The woman in Story #1 is not a great person. She cheated multiple times and the fiance finally stopped allowing her to come back in. She will not have a great future because she cannot stay with one person.
Story 1: OP, your AP didn't destroy your relationship. If you want to know who is solely responsible for your situation, then look in a mirror. You and you alone made the choice to cheat, not once, but twice. You were never in love with your former boyfriend. You settled. Own it. Stop passing the buck and start carrying your own water and stop blaming everyone but yourself. And while you're at it, grow the F up.
The mental gymnastics in the first story just so she doesn’t think of herself as the bad guy is incredible. You fell for a good looking married guy over someone who truly wanted to marry you and you got what you deserved
I’m sick of cheaters on Reddit not taking any accountability for their actions. Cheating isn’t a “mistake”, it’s a choice that you made and op is only calling it a mistake because she regrets it. I’m just glad that OP’s now ex fiancé ended their relationship, I just don’t think that he will ever be able to trust her again, considering that she’s been lying to him for a while. I hope her ex finds someone better
Yeah, OP in story 1 is beyond "salvation"... She already betrayed her ex-fiance 2 times in a row (denying her cheating the "second" time because they were not physical doesn't erase the betrayal, plus considering the boundaries he put...), and still was given a chance to make it right. But she chose to have an affair and broke up her engagement for an unfaithful married coworker that she only knew for a few months..!? And even after all of that, she complains about her AP being a cheating liar and is asking for advices in hopes to get back with her ex..?! How delusionnal can she be ? 🤦🏾♂️😧
The girl who claimed that she is not gullible: "I just can't get over what my coworker did, in destroying multiple relationships including mine" Yeah so true... not gullible |-') You go girl, keep it up! (
Open relationships can only work when both people are like-minded about it from the beginning. Even then, a huge number of people discover that things become hollow and unfulfilling after a while.
Classic narcissistic behavior. She feels like she doesn’t know what “true love“ is because she can’t love anybody outside of herself. They may even confuse themselves into thinking they love others, but they really love what they get out of the relationship and not the actual person.
1st story why would he take her back and she turned around and become friend with her AP and she saw nothing wrong with that then when he took her back she cheat again wow! She is trash and he is a simp
Interest and attraction starts as a feeling but commitment and relationships are a choice. Love is built and maintained. OP in story one fell in lust and tried to justify cheating with "I can't help it. I didn't want to fall in love but I did. Nothing I can do but break up with my fiance and homewreck. He'll be ok. He's a great guy, but my married coworker is the one. It's totally serious. He's not playing me guys. I'm not gullible.....Guys, the coworker was lying. I realized my ex fiance i cheated on and betrayed three times is my real soul mate, but he doesn't want me anymore. I didn't get played, my coworker is just a lying cheating player juggling me and many others. But I'm not a bad person guys, honest." So delusional and deflective. I hope she's ready for the cat lady life😂
Deflection at its finest ! I really hope no cats will be involved in her life, even them would suffer from her delusions... Like you said : "Love is built and maintained". Using the "I fell in love with him so I couldn't do anything about it" excuse to explain why you had an affair only shows how irresponsible you are. (It's the same as someone saying "it's not my fault" because they drank alcohol..) And the fact that you don't understand that in order to "fall in love", you have to pursue and nurture the interest and attraction you felt for this person, also proves your immaturity.
Story one:This is why you never ever take a chaeter back. You have only one chance in life and it is way to short to waste time on cheaters who claim"But i love you,it didn't mean anything".Cheating is a character flaw
OPs co-worker didn’t destroy anything but his own marriage. OP destroyed her own relationship with her ex-fiancé, because she doesn’t understand what love means. Loyalty seems to be an alien concept to her.
Here’s some advice. If one has to say “I didn’t cheat THIS time” then one does not get to dictate the terms in which trust is re-established. If that’s too much, then kindly show yourself the door.
If you really love someone after you cheat on them. You don't try to seek then out. And give them a chance to move on to find better. This is a selfish person who puts their own feelings above their partners. I hope the partner grows some balls and leaves. OP is a horrendous person who dodges accountability. If anyone aligns with OP you need therapy. Please get help.
Stop giving chances to cheaters ffs, you cannot fix narcissists. They will just care about themselves all the time and not you. They want to be free of their "guilt" but not work on your own insecurities that they helped generate.
How does that make him an AH? He was naive, sure. love-blind? maybe. But an AH? That doesn't really add up. Could you explain your train of thought to this? I like getting different perspectives from my own.
Story 1, The affair partner had multiple other affairs?! I can't believe it 🤯 I had no idea that he would even consider cheating with anyone else lol. Honestly I don't know what people are thinking when they have an affair because if someone is willing to cheat with you they're willing to cheat on you. A relationship that has a foundation of secrecy and betrayal will never last and if it does I will most likely be abusive and toxic.
taking a cheater back is huge mistake, it's a clear sign she can cheat again without consequences. guy was weak. OP is a compulsive cheater, a liar selfish and immature, deserves all that comes for her, no relationship material
The fiancé doesn't trust her (rightfully so), she doesn't really want to be with her fiancé and given that their relationship is conditional, their relationship is an incredibly unhealthy, becoming toxic and would pretty much guarentee the buildup of resentment later down the line. Best thing to do is to just break up now and move on. The fiancé should be with a woman he can trust and OP needs to figure out what she wants before jumping into another relationship.
I think she more has to figure out is the difference between lust and love so she doesn’t get played again and doesn’t hurt her new partner in the future.
Never give them a 2nd chance!!! It will happen again! Once a cheater, always a cheater isn't just a dumb saying lol its true. that's why people say it!
I get your point, but I believe people can change and learn from their mistakes. Each situation is unique and some genuinely regret their actions and work hard to make amends.
You do realize humans can come from different environments, with different tutelage. Also every human ( in their right mind) has the freedom of choice.
@@zamielcaratos76And honestly you'd be surprised by how many stupid, cruel and just downright unbelievable some people are. If you can't believe that people like OP exist, then this person clearly doesn't get out much or seen anything.
Unfortunately, there are a lot of people out there who are talking animals. The OP is one of them. They lack the ability to think ahead and only act on their immediate impulses.
If I ever met the first lady 1 I have 4 words picked out you are a horrible person and for the guy here’s another 4 words she’s not worth it I’m really happy he got out of that relationship
Story 2 you married him for a reson so close the relationship and see if your marriage is salvagable so try marriage counseling and work on it if you want it
actualy its easy to fall in love if meet the right person . Theres many good person or pretending to be good person to get what they want out there . If you already have a person you love , never geting to close to any opposite sex cause you never know what happend next, and you wouldnt handle the temptation . Bored always come to long term relationship , Just apreciate and take care what you have now .
The second story is a blunder because I saw the original story she was the one that brought up the open relationship and Katie was the one that was pulling the strings but here she is Turing the story around
"My actions were horrible, but im learning from them." No. Just no. You clearly are not with that "but" in there. What you need to be saying is, "My actions were horrible, and I am taking x steps to get better and prevent myself from making similar bad choices in the future." Cheating isn't a mistake; it's a choice. You may not be able to understand or grasp the reality of how badly you hurt your ex fiance, but just to give a ballpark, take those feelings toward your coworker that cheated on his wife, you, and all the other women he was lying to, and imagine what it would take to give him a second chance, AND still love him/love him again. Now imagine your ex as you and you as that "disgusting animal" because MA'AM. Do better, work on yourself, and leave that poor, heartbroken man to find someone who deserves and will cherish his love and love him in return. Also, it's funny how you said you realized he is "my true love" and not that you love him. Property: Yours, not the love of your life or person you wanna spend the rest of your life with. After realizing how much being cheated on hirts and that he still gave you another chance AND still has love for you, i genuinely hope you let him go and heal and move on. I know OP probably won't see or read this, I'm just venting, and hopefully, this reaches someone who needed to read it or who gains something from reading it
Story 2: idk but probably the husband tried to spice up the bed, she didn't want to, he looked for another woman but opened the relationship so it was not "cheating", she experiments with another man ( kind of hypocrite because she doesn't want to try with him but with others?). I don't truly think they loved him and if they do they weren't communicating well
The 2nd story she’s lying , she was the one that opened the marriage because this story doesn’t have details and the original story had a lot of details which was told by the husband , throughout her story she was making him out to be the bad guy
Second story, she's an idiot, you infatuated when you guys actually go into trying to be a "genuine couple" it will fail.. He'll end up cheating on you or vice versa.. Lol.
She blaming her cheating partner for her ruined relationship. The lack of self accountability is astounding.
It's deflection and lack of accountability. Every single person either from my relationship or friends or family that have cheated they all cheated again. Even when the relationship was with person they cheated with and got pregnant from. It never works out.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts.
Story1: You destroyed your own relationship. Not once but three times or more. You have hurt everybody involved, don’t play victim now honey. Every-time you got bored or dumped you ran back to your fiancée. Glad he found his spine and didn’t took you back anymore. You need therapy because you’re toxic and horrible. You can’t commit and sabotage everything good in your life. I’ve no sympathy for you and everything that happened is on you.
Edit: idc if this story or any other are fake. Somewhere people have this mindset, and things like this happening.
Thank you for sharing your thought. It's important for everyone to reflect on their actions and seek personal growth.
"He's actually my true love " .😂
I have naver laughed so hard 😂😂😂😂
Wonder how old this dingbat is?
Same here 😂😂😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣i laughed so hard
I read this comment right when he said it 😂
I screamed in anger 😂
Nothing, absolutely NOTHING about the woman in story #1 makes her worthy of reconciliation.
Story1 reinforces my belief that some people genuinely just don’t deserve to find love
Op is legit complaining that shes given an opportunity for a third chance
That phrases "never cheated since then" and "make a mistake"
Typical victim mentality
I'd say we all take a shot every time this woman takes accountability but we'd all go home sober.
Guys, if they cheat, walk away.
If they mention an open relationship, walk away.
If they call you "controlling," for setting boundaries, walk away.
If they do "girl's nights out", walk away.
If they have former s3x partners as friends, walk away.
Well yeah!
i don't know about the girls night out. sounds like you read to much infidelity story
@@heartmint7364there is a caveat. Know who your partner keeps as friends and know what activities are being done. Single friends going to clubs and bars with your partner is a formula to end badly. When entering a dedicated relationship you trade singles activities for ones more acceptable of a taken person. There are many things in life that can only be done as a couple, in having a relationship you MUST give up certain activities that are prone to being alone with others that desire you. Doing these things just shows an utter lack of respect for your partner.
@@heartmint7364 I have but its not best maybe if you send a friend only you have there aswell
@@heartmint7364its a 50/50 situation. Question them even further for more context
Whenever a story like this is given from the POV of the woman, it's never ever remorseful
Well yeah, because they don’t think about anyone’s happiness or boundaries but their own. And she did it _THREE TIMES_ at a minimum!
Women always tell the story in a way where they are the victim. It never crosses their mind that they may be the problem.
@@rojax_thevoicetm2385 Men cheat more statistically. Fake stories will destroy your perspective.
I'd say it that when it's given from the perspective of a cheater, it's rarely remorseful. If i had to guess, it's likely because any remorse is for getting caught and not for the act of cheating. Man or woman, anyone has the capacity to cheat. It's a good idea imo to not group a demographic into a bad behavior because it makes it seem like you're shaming both the behavior (cheating) and the demographic (women) instead of just shaming the behavior (cheating), itself. I like women, what I don't like is cheating. I'm not saying YOU don't like women, I'm explaining that this may be the picture that your words paint of you to others. Does this make any sense?
The woman in Story #1 is not a great person. She cheated multiple times and the fiance finally stopped allowing her to come back in. She will not have a great future because she cannot stay with one person.
Story 1: OP, your AP didn't destroy your relationship. If you want to know who is solely responsible for your situation, then look in a mirror. You and you alone made the choice to cheat, not once, but twice. You were never in love with your former boyfriend. You settled. Own it. Stop passing the buck and start carrying your own water and stop blaming everyone but yourself. And while you're at it, grow the F up.
Attack me but I don't feel sorry for her fiance. He was extremely naive and foolish to get back with a cheater.
OP doesn't deserve true love. OP is gullible, and a cheater. What OP did is very cruel and a heartless person. OP grow up.
The mental gymnastics in the first story just so she doesn’t think of herself as the bad guy is incredible. You fell for a good looking married guy over someone who truly wanted to marry you and you got what you deserved
I’m sick of cheaters on Reddit not taking any accountability for their actions. Cheating isn’t a “mistake”, it’s a choice that you made and op is only calling it a mistake because she regrets it. I’m just glad that OP’s now ex fiancé ended their relationship, I just don’t think that he will ever be able to trust her again, considering that she’s been lying to him for a while. I hope her ex finds someone better
Yeah, OP in story 1 is beyond "salvation"... She already betrayed her ex-fiance 2 times in a row (denying her cheating the "second" time because they were not physical doesn't erase the betrayal, plus considering the boundaries he put...), and still was given a chance to make it right. But she chose to have an affair and broke up her engagement for an unfaithful married coworker that she only knew for a few months..!? And even after all of that, she complains about her AP being a cheating liar and is asking for advices in hopes to get back with her ex..?! How delusionnal can she be ? 🤦🏾♂️😧
He should have left the first time. This woman doesn't deserve a relationship.
The girl who claimed that she is not gullible: "I just can't get over what my coworker did, in destroying multiple relationships including mine"
Yeah so true... not gullible |-')
You go girl, keep it up! (
Amen, brother!
HA😂
That's the same woman from the first story
nah, this is so simple. this woman just an easy woman.
Do you think it's possible for people to make mistakes and still deserve a second chance?
The fact she has the gall to try to go back to her fiance after fooling around on him a 2nd time is pure, mind-blowing narcissism.
"Good thing I don't let people tell me what I'm gonna do" yeah she's 100% gonna cheat again
Open relationships can only work when both people are like-minded about it from the beginning. Even then, a huge number of people discover that things become hollow and unfulfilling after a while.
Classic narcissistic behavior. She feels like she doesn’t know what “true love“ is because she can’t love anybody outside of herself. They may even confuse themselves into thinking they love others, but they really love what they get out of the relationship and not the actual person.
1st story why would he take her back and she turned around and become friend with her AP and she saw nothing wrong with that then when he took her back she cheat again wow! She is trash and he is a simp
Interest and attraction starts as a feeling but commitment and relationships are a choice. Love is built and maintained. OP in story one fell in lust and tried to justify cheating with "I can't help it. I didn't want to fall in love but I did. Nothing I can do but break up with my fiance and homewreck. He'll be ok. He's a great guy, but my married coworker is the one. It's totally serious. He's not playing me guys. I'm not gullible.....Guys, the coworker was lying. I realized my ex fiance i cheated on and betrayed three times is my real soul mate, but he doesn't want me anymore. I didn't get played, my coworker is just a lying cheating player juggling me and many others. But I'm not a bad person guys, honest." So delusional and deflective. I hope she's ready for the cat lady life😂
Thank you for your thoughtful comment!
Deflection at its finest ! I really hope no cats will be involved in her life, even them would suffer from her delusions...
Like you said : "Love is built and maintained". Using the "I fell in love with him so I couldn't do anything about it" excuse to explain why you had an affair only shows how irresponsible you are. (It's the same as someone saying "it's not my fault" because they drank alcohol..) And the fact that you don't understand that in order to "fall in love", you have to pursue and nurture the interest and attraction you felt for this person, also proves your immaturity.
Commitment takes work, tho it is easy for some couples it isn't for most.
I honestly feel sorry for her. She so lost in the delusional forest that she can't see she's on the side piece path instead of the relationship path.
That first story is wild.
"My actions are horrible but I've learned from them."- have you though? Op 1 is delulu...
Op2's husband is delulu...
Yeah, the "but" in there is a bit sus
"I'm glad he's been exposed."
💀
Story 1: is she serious?
Story 2: I am happy for her, for pulling side pieces.
Story one:This is why you never ever take a chaeter back. You have only one chance in life and it is way to short to waste time on cheaters who claim"But i love you,it didn't mean anything".Cheating is a character flaw
"He's actually my true love." 😂😂😂 Please that's hilarious. 😂 I brust out laughing 😂😂😂
OPs co-worker didn’t destroy anything but his own marriage. OP destroyed her own relationship with her ex-fiancé, because she doesn’t understand what love means. Loyalty seems to be an alien concept to her.
If you have to give ultimatums the relationship is already over.
Here’s some advice. If one has to say “I didn’t cheat THIS time” then one does not get to dictate the terms in which trust is re-established. If that’s too much, then kindly show yourself the door.
Bruh, OP is insane! 😂😅
If you really love someone after you cheat on them. You don't try to seek then out. And give them a chance to move on to find better. This is a selfish person who puts their own feelings above their partners. I hope the partner grows some balls and leaves. OP is a horrendous person who dodges accountability. If anyone aligns with OP you need therapy. Please get help.
He did leave. After she told him she didn't love him anymore.
When she came back, he said that he still loved her, but he didn't want to be with her
Stop giving chances to cheaters ffs, you cannot fix narcissists. They will just care about themselves all the time and not you. They want to be free of their "guilt" but not work on your own insecurities that they helped generate.
Never believe a man when he says he will leave his wife for you.
"Fall in love" means intense lust. If thats what you base a relationship on, its going to be a roller coaster life.
Shes a thrill seeker, looking for the next best thing...
The only AH here is the fiance, OP gave all the hints on how she really is and fiance ignored it all
How does that make him an AH? He was naive, sure. love-blind? maybe. But an AH? That doesn't really add up. Could you explain your train of thought to this? I like getting different perspectives from my own.
Story 1, The affair partner had multiple other affairs?! I can't believe it 🤯 I had no idea that he would even consider cheating with anyone else lol. Honestly I don't know what people are thinking when they have an affair because if someone is willing to cheat with you they're willing to cheat on you. A relationship that has a foundation of secrecy and betrayal will never last and if it does I will most likely be abusive and toxic.
"I didn't cheat this time" if you have to say this, you're in the wrong
A typical 304 behaviour.
I mean, you didn't follow the one rule he set after you cheated the first time....
taking a cheater back is huge mistake, it's a clear sign she can cheat again without consequences. guy was weak. OP is a compulsive cheater, a liar selfish and immature, deserves all that comes for her, no relationship material
Thank you for your comment. Everyone has their own perspective on forgiveness and trust in relationships. I appreciate you sharing yours.
The fiancé doesn't trust her (rightfully so), she doesn't really want to be with her fiancé and given that their relationship is conditional, their relationship is an incredibly unhealthy, becoming toxic and would pretty much guarentee the buildup of resentment later down the line.
Best thing to do is to just break up now and move on. The fiancé should be with a woman he can trust and OP needs to figure out what she wants before jumping into another relationship.
I think she more has to figure out is the difference between lust and love so she doesn’t get played again and doesn’t hurt her new partner in the future.
The First story is a picture perfect example pf a rage bait
Never give them a 2nd chance!!! It will happen again! Once a cheater, always a cheater isn't just a dumb saying lol its true. that's why people say it!
I get your point, but I believe people can change and learn from their mistakes. Each situation is unique and some genuinely regret their actions and work hard to make amends.
1st story is so fake. There's no way someone actually thinks like this and decides to share the story on Reddit
The point is this earth has people like that. That’s how I see these stories. Somewhere people have this mindset.
You do realize humans can come from different environments, with different tutelage. Also every human ( in their right mind) has the freedom of choice.
@@zamielcaratos76And honestly you'd be surprised by how many stupid, cruel and just downright unbelievable some people are. If you can't believe that people like OP exist, then this person clearly doesn't get out much or seen anything.
Nah, it’s plausible. I’ve dealt with people that delusional and entitled.
Unfortunately, there are a lot of people out there who are talking animals. The OP is one of them. They lack the ability to think ahead and only act on their immediate impulses.
This woman is not just awful and entitled, but also incredibly stupid
I don't think this is a healthy marriage which you have to constantly check your partner activities all the time.
If I ever met the first lady 1 I have 4 words picked out you are a horrible person and for the guy here’s another 4 words she’s not worth it I’m really happy he got out of that relationship
Story 2 you married him for a reson so close the relationship and see if your marriage is salvagable so try marriage counseling and work on it if you want it
Never take back a cheater ever, no exceptions.
This is funny on some other level
I think if you have to be this extreme to give her guidelines to live by maybe you should just leave
"I came to realize that my ex husband is my true love" what a circus
A true 🤡
Open marriages and their idiots, what can go wrong and how people belive this will work out and make them stronger or something, bla bla.
actualy its easy to fall in love if meet the right person . Theres many good person or pretending to be good person to get what they want out there . If you already have a person you love , never geting to close to any opposite sex cause you never know what happend next, and you wouldnt handle the temptation . Bored always come to long term relationship , Just apreciate and take care what you have now .
Multiple true love
The second story is a blunder because I saw the original story she was the one that brought up the open relationship and Katie was the one that was pulling the strings but here she is Turing the story around
Or you could be confusing it with another story. You provided no proof
@@leafyishereisdumbnameakath4259 not really , I actually have seen the other side of the story just forgot whose channel it was
"My actions were horrible, but im learning from them." No. Just no. You clearly are not with that "but" in there. What you need to be saying is, "My actions were horrible, and I am taking x steps to get better and prevent myself from making similar bad choices in the future." Cheating isn't a mistake; it's a choice. You may not be able to understand or grasp the reality of how badly you hurt your ex fiance, but just to give a ballpark, take those feelings toward your coworker that cheated on his wife, you, and all the other women he was lying to, and imagine what it would take to give him a second chance, AND still love him/love him again. Now imagine your ex as you and you as that "disgusting animal" because MA'AM. Do better, work on yourself, and leave that poor, heartbroken man to find someone who deserves and will cherish his love and love him in return.
Also, it's funny how you said you realized he is "my true love" and not that you love him. Property: Yours, not the love of your life or person you wanna spend the rest of your life with. After realizing how much being cheated on hirts and that he still gave you another chance AND still has love for you, i genuinely hope you let him go and heal and move on.
I know OP probably won't see or read this, I'm just venting, and hopefully, this reaches someone who needed to read it or who gains something from reading it
You choose who you love, love doesn’t just attract you like a disease.
Lmaooooooooooooooooooooooo
Nvm my previous comment, OP is just highly gullible, immature and shallow
Biggest mistake
Story 2: idk but probably the husband tried to spice up the bed, she didn't want to, he looked for another woman but opened the relationship so it was not "cheating", she experiments with another man ( kind of hypocrite because she doesn't want to try with him but with others?). I don't truly think they loved him and if they do they weren't communicating well
The 2nd story she’s lying , she was the one that opened the marriage because this story doesn’t have details and the original story had a lot of details which was told by the husband , throughout her story she was making him out to be the bad guy
@@God_chioma oh shit where I can find it?
Story 2 really?! This story is gender swap
Women
*homemaker* ❎️
Home breaker✅️
1st one she did it to herself and she thinks her married ap will leave his wife wich isn't the case
Wow
Second story, she's an idiot, you infatuated when you guys actually go into trying to be a "genuine couple" it will fail.. He'll end up cheating on you or vice versa.. Lol.
This is fake as hell😂😂. Nobody is that stupid
Your lost trust, & your will cheat if you continue the friendship with married man, hope he dumps you you are only fooling yourself!
The clown
The fiance in the first story has no self respect. Him crying like a bih and saying he didn't feel valued sealed the deal for me.
This. I rolled my eyes so hard when he cried. These weak ass men deserve to be cheated on.
Paru