That’s an interesting perspective! Do you think it’s possible to navigate this situation in a way that respects both partners' boundaries and desires? Would love to hear more thoughts on this!
They have either cheated and want your blessing to cover the cheating and make it so (in their eyes anyway) that they didnt actually cheat, or had someone lined up. Either way they have cheated emotionally or physically already
Being in a poly/open relationship should be something known and agreed upon from the start. As soon as she knew you weren't interested at the start she should've broken things off.
It is pretty much over if someone ask for poly. That means you are not compatible. She is poly..he is monogamous. Both will be unhappy. Best is to break up. I would not even start relationship with someone who is poly. Wish them luck and stay just friends or cut contact or just stay at hello- goodbye
Unfortunately, if someone already expresses they want/wanted a different kind of relationship, it's not going to work out. From my experience people want what they want, and everyone seems to want something different from a relationship. Communicating early about what kind of relationship you want, the kinds of expectations you have and how you want that relationship to look like will help.
Why do people in these stories always try to pressure their partners into things they’re clearly uncomfortable with? It’s so coercive just find someone who is already into that stuff trying to force someone else to change isn’t healthy.
Not wearing white is a thing. There is nothing wrong with gold or any other color. The bride just wants OP out of the grooms like. I think the bride is trying to isolate the groom.
Yes. He stated "my lesbian gf is pregnant". Not her friend. Says it clearly at 3:26 Not sure how it's confused with her gf. You are correct. Everyone in this story is severely oxygen starved
Thing is their is no inheritant issue about discussing polygamous relationships. Its uncommon firbthem to work. But if one person in the relationship is curious fir any number of reasons its okay to talk. Jumping to conclusions is rarely a good solution. If you out your boundaries down and they push or try coercion then its worth escalation. I say thisvas someone with 0 interest in such a relationship. Though these are conversations that should be held ideally at the start. Just these things online turn into a bravado filled circlejerk. Everyone want to one up the others "id walk out on her" "Well id walk out faster and take the dog!" Doesn't help anyone
Just break up and say that pushing the open relationship when you have made your position clear is disrespectful of your feelings and sexual preferences. She wouldn't ask a gay man to have sex with a woman. She shouldn't ask a mono man to he poly.
Give her to open relationship she wants by breaking up with her. It's about as open as it gets. Sorry dude, but she's already sleeping around with someone or is about to do so very soon. The 'open relationship' question only happens when: 1) She's already fucking someone else behind your back and she's looking to absolve herself from accountability of cheating by trying to get you to agree in opening the relationship (this one is the most likely) 2) She already has someone lined up whom she wants to cheat with and is already emotionally cheating she just wants to be guilt free about it. 3) She certain you won't find anyone anytime soon because she knows dating and hook up culture is heavily catered towards women. When you do find someone she'll start adding more and more rules or even close the open relationship. Either way this is all about her; not your relationship. She'll sell it to you that way that your relationship will be better for it. Don't fall for it. When the question is presented that's the moment the relationship is over. go through with it and you'll be replaced. Save yourself the time, drama and heartbreak and move on from girls like these.
First things first, nothing is wrong with open/poly relationships, but the partners really need to talk about it very early in the relationship and be honest about it. Going from monogamy to open/poly is not easy, not impossible but not easy. Also, despite what some people seem to think, cheating can still happen in an open/poly relationship. Like with every other type of relationship, honesty, healthy communication and trust are all vital. Lies, deception, manipulation, abuse and cheating doesn’t suddenly become ok just because it is an open/poly relationship Honestly after watching the video, all i can say is that op should cut all ties with the ex. Ex is a toxic person. Also, let the ex and her secret bf raise the baby themselves. Op has no responsibility for that baby
I think the worst part here is there's a "lesbian" running around whose bi pretending to be a lesbian. That to me is worse than cheating. Slighting a whole group of people instead of a single one is juat fucked up.
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"it's not important anymore..."
Because she's already cheating on you.
She's not asking for permission..she's asking for your blessing..she's gonna do it anyway.
That’s an interesting perspective! Do you think it’s possible to navigate this situation in a way that respects both partners' boundaries and desires? Would love to hear more thoughts on this!
@@RedditFamilyTalesstop being so jolly who would respect that 💀
They have either cheated and want your blessing to cover the cheating and make it so (in their eyes anyway) that they didnt actually cheat, or had someone lined up. Either way they have cheated emotionally or physically already
@@zoe9190 🎯🎯🎯🎯 exactly... The video even said there was a reduction in $£× and she was distant even before bringing up open relationship... ⬆️
Being in a poly/open relationship should be something known and agreed upon from the start. As soon as she knew you weren't interested at the start she should've broken things off.
I was hoping the line after "should be" would be "illegal"
Utterly disappointed.
If someone asks something like that the relationship is over if you say no.
It is pretty much over if someone ask for poly. That means you are not compatible. She is poly..he is monogamous. Both will be unhappy. Best is to break up. I would not even start relationship with someone who is poly. Wish them luck and stay just friends or cut contact or just stay at hello- goodbye
Thank you for sharing ^^
She's not poly she just wants to cheat like all poly people
They're both women...
cant stay friends, would never work out
Unfortunately, if someone already expresses they want/wanted a different kind of relationship, it's not going to work out. From my experience people want what they want, and everyone seems to want something different from a relationship. Communicating early about what kind of relationship you want, the kinds of expectations you have and how you want that relationship to look like will help.
Why do people in these stories always try to pressure their partners into things they’re clearly uncomfortable with? It’s so coercive just find someone who is already into that stuff trying to force someone else to change isn’t healthy.
Not wearing white is a thing. There is nothing wrong with gold or any other color. The bride just wants OP out of the grooms like. I think the bride is trying to isolate the groom.
LOL WHAT THE HELL IS THIS STORY. MY LESBIAN GIRLFRIEND IS PREGNANT FROM A FRIEND OF OURS....??!?!
No her lesbian gf was pregnant from a guy friend of their's
Yes. He stated "my lesbian gf is pregnant". Not her friend. Says it clearly at 3:26 Not sure how it's confused with her gf. You are correct. Everyone in this story is severely oxygen starved
Thing is their is no inheritant issue about discussing polygamous relationships.
Its uncommon firbthem to work. But if one person in the relationship is curious fir any number of reasons its okay to talk.
Jumping to conclusions is rarely a good solution.
If you out your boundaries down and they push or try coercion then its worth escalation.
I say thisvas someone with 0 interest in such a relationship.
Though these are conversations that should be held ideally at the start.
Just these things online turn into a bravado filled circlejerk.
Everyone want to one up the others "id walk out on her"
"Well id walk out faster and take the dog!" Doesn't help anyone
Even if you say no, shes still gonna do it. You cant control ppl
Women really take any chance they can to dig on short men huh 😂
Just break up and say that pushing the open relationship when you have made your position clear is disrespectful of your feelings and sexual preferences. She wouldn't ask a gay man to have sex with a woman. She shouldn't ask a mono man to he poly.
All ge has to do is say go then ill move on what is there to discuss anyway
Do the best for you! You and her are not in the same page.
Give her to open relationship she wants by breaking up with her. It's about as open as it gets.
Sorry dude, but she's already sleeping around with someone or is about to do so very soon. The 'open relationship' question only happens when:
1) She's already fucking someone else behind your back and she's looking to absolve herself from accountability of cheating by trying to get you to agree in opening the relationship (this one is the most likely)
2) She already has someone lined up whom she wants to cheat with and is already emotionally cheating she just wants to be guilt free about it.
3) She certain you won't find anyone anytime soon because she knows dating and hook up culture is heavily catered towards women. When you do find someone she'll start adding more and more rules or even close the open relationship.
Either way this is all about her; not your relationship. She'll sell it to you that way that your relationship will be better for it. Don't fall for it. When the question is presented that's the moment the relationship is over. go through with it and you'll be replaced. Save yourself the time, drama and heartbreak and move on from girls like these.
Now you know how it feels Lessy
Woman moment lol
Say yes but she can only go on dates when he go on dates. Its her responsibility to find him a date so she can go out with another person.
OP is a woman too. It was a lesbian relationship.
First things first, nothing is wrong with open/poly relationships, but the partners really need to talk about it very early in the relationship and be honest about it. Going from monogamy to open/poly is not easy, not impossible but not easy. Also, despite what some people seem to think, cheating can still happen in an open/poly relationship. Like with every other type of relationship, honesty, healthy communication and trust are all vital. Lies, deception, manipulation, abuse and cheating doesn’t suddenly become ok just because it is an open/poly relationship
Honestly after watching the video, all i can say is that op should cut all ties with the ex. Ex is a toxic person. Also, let the ex and her secret bf raise the baby themselves. Op has no responsibility for that baby
I think the worst part here is there's a "lesbian" running around whose bi pretending to be a lesbian. That to me is worse than cheating. Slighting a whole group of people instead of a single one is juat fucked up.
ASDFMovie9, 1:17