Confidence and an inviting warm smile goes a long way toward drawing my husband towards me. The problem is due to his lack of attention and physical desire. Has caused me self esteem to plummet! I don't have much confidence left and often don't feel well enough to even smile. It's a vicious cycle
I lost attraction towards my husband because of his refusal to discipline our adult son who lives at home and is q constant strain on us. Instead of helping me keep order in our home. The husband ignores the problem and I feel abandoned
@@livestreettheaters8042 he struggles with mental health and substance abuse problems. I know what you're probably thinking but they don't stop being your children when they become adults. My point is the husband should help more
Hello, thanks for making these videos! I really enjoyed this one and it helps me gain some more understanding. I do have a question though. How would one communicate loss of attraction due to some of these reasons like hygiene and personal effort to their partner when there is a lot of fear of triggering insecurity in them? And when the partner is obviously struggling mentally & you don’t want to add shame or blame on top of that, but also be honest about what really turns you off so that the spark can be reignited. Thanks in advance
Hi Kenzie! I think one of the best things you can do when a partner is struggling with mental health (and consequently taking care of themselves) is to support and encourage your partner in pursuing the things that make them feel their best. When we are struggling, we tend to let go of the outlets that help us feel our best. Does your partner like playing basketball with friends? Do they have a favorite dance class? Do they have a creative outlet they've let go of? Hygiene and personal effort will follow!
I've lost attraction to my boyfriend and I feel bad for it because I don't want the relationship to end but it's just felt dull lately for me. I think maybe it's not even his looks but just certain things that have happened that have made me feel this way I wish we could fix it but lately I just haven't been able to shake the feeling.
My boyfriend rarely wants to have sex with me. Whenever I try to bring it up, he explains that he is stressed out and tired. I give him space and let him initiate it whenever he feels like it but believe me, it is not very often. I feel unattractive and like I am being too much. I know that I am beautiful and worth it but he makes me feels so terrible - as if my needs do not matter and just because I am a woman, I should “control” myself.
Valeria! First of all your needs matter! We suggest maybe taking our Initiation 101 masterclass with your partner: vmtherapy.thrivecart.com/initiation-masterclass/
Confidence and an inviting warm smile goes a long way toward drawing my husband towards me. The problem is due to his lack of attention and physical desire. Has caused me self esteem to plummet! I don't have much confidence left and often don't feel well enough to even smile. It's a vicious cycle
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I lost kinda attraction because it’s the same thing every day we never spice things up and it gets boring.....
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Have you ever told him that?
I lost attraction towards my husband because of his refusal to discipline our adult son who lives at home and is q constant strain on us. Instead of helping me keep order in our home. The husband ignores the problem and I feel abandoned
Why is your adult son living at home
@@livestreettheaters8042 he struggles with mental health and substance abuse problems. I know what you're probably thinking but they don't stop being your children when they become adults. My point is the husband should help more
Hello, thanks for making these videos! I really enjoyed this one and it helps me gain some more understanding. I do have a question though. How would one communicate loss of attraction due to some of these reasons like hygiene and personal effort to their partner when there is a lot of fear of triggering insecurity in them? And when the partner is obviously struggling mentally & you don’t want to add shame or blame on top of that, but also be honest about what really turns you off so that the spark can be reignited. Thanks in advance
Hi Kenzie! I think one of the best things you can do when a partner is struggling with mental health (and consequently taking care of themselves) is to support and encourage your partner in pursuing the things that make them feel their best. When we are struggling, we tend to let go of the outlets that help us feel our best. Does your partner like playing basketball with friends? Do they have a favorite dance class? Do they have a creative outlet they've let go of? Hygiene and personal effort will follow!
I've lost attraction to my boyfriend and I feel bad for it because I don't want the relationship to end but it's just felt dull lately for me. I think maybe it's not even his looks but just certain things that have happened that have made me feel this way I wish we could fix it but lately I just haven't been able to shake the feeling.
My boyfriend rarely wants to have sex with me. Whenever I try to bring it up, he explains that he is stressed out and tired. I give him space and let him initiate it whenever he feels like it but believe me, it is not very often. I feel unattractive and like I am being too much. I know that I am beautiful and worth it but he makes me feels so terrible - as if my needs do not matter and just because I am a woman, I should “control” myself.
Valeria! First of all your needs matter! We suggest maybe taking our Initiation 101 masterclass with your partner: vmtherapy.thrivecart.com/initiation-masterclass/
He’s probably attracted to someone else. … how’s it going hope we’ll 👩❤️💋👨
I mean validate him too just cuz he doesnt want to have sex doesnt mean he doesnt like you
Thanks