The first path towards moving on and getting an ex back follows the same route and here's how to tell you're doing it correctly: ruclips.net/video/f7zuXk-sVsI/видео.html Anyways it's always best to take your time in deciding first so there'll be no regrets in the end. As I always say, the decision is ultimately up to you. You know your situation and your ex best. Sometimes a relationship can be salvaged and worth the save but sometimes it isn't, especially if there's cheating or some other type of abuse involved. It's your life and it's your decision.
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to move on, I really loved her so much i can’t stop thinking about her and the memories we shared. I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail. I’m frustrated, and i don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts, but i can’t. I don’t know why I’m saying this here, but i really miss her and i wish i could get her back.
I have been in such a situation. My relationship ended about three years ago, but i could not let her go. So i had to do all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual adviser who helped me bring her back. We are back together, and i must say i am enjoying every moment.
If it's only been a month and you still want to try with your ex, then you can reach out to your ex after the 30-day "no contact" period is over. In doing so, it's best to treat the situation with fresh eyes, so it's crucial to keep things fun and light and gently coax your ex into responding the same way. Here are the basics on what to do when it comes down to it. I also suggest you watch from start to the end and NOT skip any parts so you can maximize these tips: ruclips.net/video/7PcfGeJqUYo/видео.html including asking yourself these very important questions to ask yourself before starting the process: ruclips.net/video/t6I5k55pnCE/видео.html but if you need the step-by-step process on what to do, including what to text or say during the process, either hire me as your coach, refer to my other vids or get the 2.0 version of my Ex Factor Guide at www.breakupbrad.com
Is this temporary? If the odds are working against you, you may have to consider moving on from this. This may help you process or deal with the breakup efficiently: ruclips.net/video/7zp7SFbeCRU/видео.html but if you find yourself needing more guidance on how to lead a more fruitful life without your ex, get my Beat the Breakup Guide at www.beatmybreakup.com or get my Ex Factor Guide if you want to try to get your ex back in the best possible way, at www.breakupbrad.com Take care!
Unless your situation falls under one or more of the scenarios here: ruclips.net/video/ek_4wpkV66c/видео.html AND ruclips.net/video/W7iC-gHmZ2A/видео.html it's best you ignore contact from your ex. If your ex continues to reach out to you during the no contact stage, however, then this really depends on the frequency and nature of the contact from your ex and whether or not you've reached the phase where you're supposed to be talking again. The only exception is if your ex asks for you back and is sincere about it. If your ex continually messages you, then it’s important to put your ex’s messages into context, more so if this happened during the “no contact” phase. Is your ex trying to contact you about something really important, like an emergency, unpaid bills, or something equally urgent? These are reasons to respond, including messages where they get angry due to your lack of response. Discussed that in full detail here: ruclips.net/video/GTjEAGJWTuA/видео.html So if your ex is really just texting some useless random stuff and/or asses their power over you, then you can just ignore and continue on with the 30-day "no contact" rule. Use your discretion. Watch and follow the tips here: ruclips.net/video/bgOG9s1fac8/видео.html
He may not be that active on social media or is too lazy to remove folks. A lot of people are still friends with their exes on social media but it doesn't mean that's something worth noting. Also you deserve more than that. For solid signs, though, here's what to be on the lookout for: y2u.be/KMer79OQ_xo
Accept it with grace and be chill about it. Focus on texting and try not to meet up when one or both of you aren't ready yet. The phase you're on (assuming you've done the first phase correctly which is the 30-day no contact rule) is the second phase where you're rebuilding attraction. It's part two of the 3-phase system in my guide but here's a quick overview to help you understand better: y2u.be/7JtmVbDkblw but as you go on this phase, you'll notice one or more signs here: y2u.be/nmRM3dZAzDA and the best you can do is to continue to play your cards right and move to the third phase when you're both ready. Good luck!
Hey Brad, I’m in a bit of a unique situation here I think. We broke up on the 20th but stayed in touch until six days later. Since then, I've stuck to a 30-day no contact plan, and now I’m on day 11 with no communication. Yesterday, a friend mentioned she’s on Hinge, which was a bit disappointing, but I’m committed to seeing the no contact through since I want her back. The breakup was mutual (no drama) My concern is that after the 30 days, we’ll both be busy with exams, so I’m unsure if that’s the best time to reach out. We’re also flying together in early December, which could be awkward. Do you think I should stick to the plan, and is it worth changing my flight date to avoid any tension? We still follow each other on socials. Would appreciate your advice on whether I’m on track with this.
Stick to the plan. Be sure to work on yourself as well during this time so you're not as torn up about the breakup and already prepping for the upcoming trip. My Ex Factor Guide 2.0 should help you with this journey, at www.breakupbrad.com/mbuy but also check out my other vids that would apply to your situation. Good luck!
This was after the no contact rule? That's a good start! Don't expect things or for your ex to get back to how she normally treats you right away. At the very least, your ex is keeping the lines of communication open which is a perfect opportunity for you to transition into phase two and there should be a balance. Since you've already completed the full 30-day "no contact" rule, and assuming you've done the "no contact" rule properly, then the texting tips here will be a good starter: ruclips.net/video/XonMtLFo000/видео.html This means you take time focusing on the second phase and eventually the third phase when the time is right. This won’t happen overnight, of course, but it’s something you ought to continue to work on to the point where you’re gradually building attraction again. This is what my guide is for. Have you checked it out yet? It's too complicated to explain everything on here, but here's an overview of these phases and what to expect in each one: ruclips.net/video/ddnp-83TzMk/видео.html Good luck!
@breakupbradbrowning Thank You very much for such a comprehensive answer! You gave me hope that all of Your advices are working! I will check out that materials wright away and continue to work on that!!
Hi! I hear you. :-) You should be able to find lots of information on how to get your ex back by doing all the right steps on my channel here, so check out my other videos as well. They're completely free and comes at no cost to you. Here's one which should hopefully help: y2u.be/7JtmVbDkblw Lots of people have found success with it, maybe you can, too. You can also leave me a brief description of what you're going through. I always respond to comments. Just please keep it concise as I try to answer to as many comments as I can. Good luck!
Hey Brad, what does it mean if my ex has not closed the line of communication? Thru messenger and whatsapp. When we broke up,my ex told me dont worry i wont block you. And also there is one time when she messaged me that someone will pick up her stuff, but then she said, keep it for the meantime because they wont be able to get it. But also she told me at the initial of the break up that we will not be getting back together, because all of her past relationship, she did not get back with her exes. Is there still possibility? Eventhough she never get back to her past exes.
Well in every rule, there's always an exemption. Try to put focus or review your relationship. Clear your head first and try not to be driven too much by emotion and ask yourself: is there something worth saving/going back to or was it just purely toxic? If you're asking about your chances, I really wish I could give you a direct yes or no. However, as it is, each situation is unique and things aren't often black and white, I suggest you take the free quiz as it hits on the critical elements that will determine your chances depending on your answers. In other words, my quiz can give you a more accurate answer than I can since as you may have noticed, there are various factors at play here which needs to be looked at as well as your own actions after the breakup. Here's the link: www.breakupbrad.com/quiz or sign up for my coaching program so I could take a closer look at what your situation and guide you accordingly at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching Best of luck!
@@breakupbradbrowning thank you so much, I got a little bit of hope about what you said, than "In every rule, there's always an exemption" i hope I can afford your coaching, i guess i need to earn 1st so can book a coaching with you. By the way im from.philippines.. thank you Sir, God Bless🙏
Hope you see it so my ex contacted me after no contact we started talking i thought we were ready for a relationship so i asked her and she said not yet i gave her 1 and a half month and then asked her again she said she doesnt want to yet so i left her un delivered because she was acting dry and she was ignoring me its been 2 weeks she went to the same pool i went to yesterday we had a bit of eye contact but nothing special i showed her that i am happy with my friends and always havinf fun do u think we have a chance?
You're clearly her backup plan. I suggest to stop asking her if she's ready because if she dumped you, chances are the answer will always be a no. Rebuild attraction naturally instead and let her miss you. Never get hung up on this. Here are some tips to remember if you're trying to win an ex back and how important Fear of Missing Out (FOMO) is: ruclips.net/video/STLjybyiaBQ/видео.html
Your best bet is to use one of my texting examples across the channel when the time comes but for now, don't think about contacting your ex yet so you won't worry about whether or not she responds. Now's the time to fully focus on yourself and really take the time to recover. Here, this vid is for you: ruclips.net/video/npuQb1APSaU/видео.html Stay strong. Good luck!
Hi coach before 2 months I replied to your video. I'm good without my ex and he nothing felt about the breakup. But now he and me in the same groups and he reply my texts in groups but we dont talk each other when we meet. But when I asking or messaging something about in group he replies that messages firstly among others. But he seems like he doesn't care or feel anything about the breakup.
Hi! That's a normal reaction especially since the breakup is still fresh. This should help give you an idea of which stage he's in: ruclips.net/video/dqnqGWOk9NA/видео.html
A couple months back I did this exact step for step i even told her i had a story to tell her. All she did was post some guy on social media to make me jealous within days. And at step 5 she rejected meeting up. Then she deleted me on fb and havent spoke since very cold towards me. Dont do it
She's busy with someone else and in this case, it's never a good idea to contact because you'll automatically become the backup plan. Wait for a better time before interacting with your ex, however, don't wait around doing nothing. Take a leap of faith on a new path as well because you never know where life can take you, which may be better without your ex. Use this time to heal and prioritize yourself. But if it's been more than a year or so, make sure to check the signs if your ex has moved on, here: y2u.be/ZyJRphwDca4 and this should help guide you on what to do for the time being: y2u.be/hlikXIfMYN8 However, make it a point to be really productive with your time being apart. Follow the tips here to help guide you further: y2u.be/gUB
Please advise she broke up i did no contact for 55 days worked on myself pretty hard and i tried connecting with her she met me we addressed the mistakes i made i apologised bcoz it was my mistake we met second time we kissed and thn she said she needs time to think about getting back together since thn we are meeting once twice every week and we are chilling and enjoying whenever we meet i dont spam her i wait 2-3 days to contact her but the only problem is i have to initiate contact most of the time she rarely does its been going on since 1-1.5 months what should be my next step to get her back????
Hey man, looks like you appeared way too eager. You ought to give your ex the chance to reach out to you as well. Her pace is slower than yours, so be patient. This video is for you: ruclips.net/video/juhamVEwsxU/видео.html So that was totally the wrong approach which I've talked about that here: ruclips.net/video/juhamVEwsxU/видео.html You ought to review this first: ruclips.net/video/L0hxYTCJ2hU/видео.html and in fact, apply the tips here too instead of taking the shortcut: ruclips.net/video/1kJ1ybuFIHE/видео.html In the future, if you're still not sure about what you're doing, I really suggest you sign up for my coaching program so I can assess your situation properly and guide you accordingly at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching Good luck!
Don’t do this. I would immediately perceive this as needy and they want me back. This is so typical mind games trying to appear cool but still interested and it’s better to straight up contact them telling them what you want or asking them how they are. I would not respond to someone who initiated the breakup unless it was clear what they wanted and they are taking the risk. This hiding behind fake excuses is so weak and everyone knows you are trying to come off as cool. And I would certainly never under no circumstances be the one to message these lame messages if they initiated the breakup.
The tips are more applicable for dumpees rather than dumpers. But yes, you can go no contact indefinitely. The first path towards moving on and getting an ex back follows the same route and here's how to tell you're doing it correctly: ruclips.net/video/f7zuXk-sVsI/видео.html Anyways it's always best to take your time in deciding first so there'll be no regrets in the end. As I always say, the decision is ultimately up to you. You know your situation and your ex best. Sometimes a relationship can be salvaged and worth the save but sometimes it isn't, especially if there's cheating or some other type of abuse involved or if it was overall a dysfunctional/toxic relationship where it's just best to forget you even ever met that person. It's your life and it's your decision.
Assuming you're both old enough to date, then other people's influence and outside opinion are all outside your control. It still has to be your ex's choice whether he allows himself to be influenced or not, regardless of who it is that's trying to influence. Just continue to do you and focus on stuff within your control, yeah? Apply the tips here along with the other tips on my vid on what you can do in each phase, especially if you're not getting my guide: ruclips.net/video/4Qe-4A-CpVY/видео.html
@breakupbradbrowning thank you for your personal response. It's an Enmeshed mother and son relationship, a lot of manipulation and obligatory guilt & it all became too overwhelming for him. He can't break up with his mum, but can break up with me despite how understanding I tried to be. You're right though, he is a 52 year old man, and it was still his choice. Thank you for your advice, I'll take a look at that link now.
Personally, I believe that it is better not to write to the ex and keep the No Contact forever. If they want to come back, should be the ones....
The first path towards moving on and getting an ex back follows the same route and here's how to tell you're doing it correctly: ruclips.net/video/f7zuXk-sVsI/видео.html Anyways it's always best to take your time in deciding first so there'll be no regrets in the end. As I always say, the decision is ultimately up to you. You know your situation and your ex best. Sometimes a relationship can be salvaged and worth the save but sometimes it isn't, especially if there's cheating or some other type of abuse involved. It's your life and it's your decision.
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to move on, I really loved her so much i can’t stop thinking about her and the memories we shared. I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail. I’m frustrated, and i don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts, but i can’t. I don’t know why I’m saying this here, but i really miss her and i wish i could get her back.
I have been in such a situation. My relationship ended about three years ago, but i could not let her go. So i had to do all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual adviser who helped me bring her back. We are back together, and i must say i am enjoying every moment.
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach one?
Her name is Maurice Gleti, and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive
If it's only been a month and you still want to try with your ex, then you can reach out to your ex after the 30-day "no contact" period is over. In doing so, it's best to treat the situation with fresh eyes, so it's crucial to keep things fun and light and gently coax your ex into responding the same way. Here are the basics on what to do when it comes down to it. I also suggest you watch from start to the end and NOT skip any parts so you can maximize these tips: ruclips.net/video/7PcfGeJqUYo/видео.html including asking yourself these very important questions to ask yourself before starting the process: ruclips.net/video/t6I5k55pnCE/видео.html but if you need the step-by-step process on what to do, including what to text or say during the process, either hire me as your coach, refer to my other vids or get the 2.0 version of my Ex Factor Guide at www.breakupbrad.com
But what if the breakup made us live in different cities?
How can you follow these rules, Brad ?
Is this temporary? If the odds are working against you, you may have to consider moving on from this. This may help you process or deal with the breakup efficiently: ruclips.net/video/7zp7SFbeCRU/видео.html but if you find yourself needing more guidance on how to lead a more fruitful life without your ex, get my Beat the Breakup Guide at www.beatmybreakup.com or get my Ex Factor Guide if you want to try to get your ex back in the best possible way, at www.breakupbrad.com Take care!
Hey brad,i am in no contact with my ex bf for 20 days now(we ended on good terms) and suddenly today he sent me a snap,What does it mean?
Unless your situation falls under one or more of the scenarios here: ruclips.net/video/ek_4wpkV66c/видео.html AND ruclips.net/video/W7iC-gHmZ2A/видео.html it's best you ignore contact from your ex. If your ex continues to reach out to you during the no contact stage, however, then this really depends on the frequency and nature of the contact from your ex and whether or not you've reached the phase where you're supposed to be talking again. The only exception is if your ex asks for you back and is sincere about it. If your ex continually messages you, then it’s important to put your ex’s messages into context, more so if this happened during the “no contact” phase. Is your ex trying to contact you about something really important, like an emergency, unpaid bills, or something equally urgent? These are reasons to respond, including messages where they get angry due to your lack of response. Discussed that in full detail here: ruclips.net/video/GTjEAGJWTuA/видео.html So if your ex is really just texting some useless random stuff and/or asses their power over you, then you can just ignore and continue on with the 30-day "no contact" rule. Use your discretion. Watch and follow the tips here: ruclips.net/video/bgOG9s1fac8/видео.html
i don't want a second chance. i wanted to understand what jacked the 1st one up to be wiser in the next
Fair enough.
Hey brad,my ex bf broke up with me as he lost interest but still hasn't unfriended me on any social media sites,why?
Because he still wants to see what you are up to.
He may not be that active on social media or is too lazy to remove folks. A lot of people are still friends with their exes on social media but it doesn't mean that's something worth noting. Also you deserve more than that. For solid signs, though, here's what to be on the lookout for: y2u.be/KMer79OQ_xo
What should I do if I do everything successfully but when I reach out and mention a in person “meet up” she always says no?
Accept it with grace and be chill about it. Focus on texting and try not to meet up when one or both of you aren't ready yet. The phase you're on (assuming you've done the first phase correctly which is the 30-day no contact rule) is the second phase where you're rebuilding attraction. It's part two of the 3-phase system in my guide but here's a quick overview to help you understand better: y2u.be/7JtmVbDkblw but as you go on this phase, you'll notice one or more signs here: y2u.be/nmRM3dZAzDA and the best you can do is to continue to play your cards right and move to the third phase when you're both ready. Good luck!
Hey Brad, I’m in a bit of a unique situation here I think. We broke up on the 20th but stayed in touch until six days later. Since then, I've stuck to a 30-day no contact plan, and now I’m on day 11 with no communication. Yesterday, a friend mentioned she’s on Hinge, which was a bit disappointing, but I’m committed to seeing the no contact through since I want her back. The breakup was mutual (no drama)
My concern is that after the 30 days, we’ll both be busy with exams, so I’m unsure if that’s the best time to reach out. We’re also flying together in early December, which could be awkward. Do you think I should stick to the plan, and is it worth changing my flight date to avoid any tension? We still follow each other on socials. Would appreciate your advice on whether I’m on track with this.
Stick to the plan. Be sure to work on yourself as well during this time so you're not as torn up about the breakup and already prepping for the upcoming trip. My Ex Factor Guide 2.0 should help you with this journey, at www.breakupbrad.com/mbuy but also check out my other vids that would apply to your situation. Good luck!
The key is - My ex didnt asked me back. She just texted - "i hope youre okay too :)"
What should i think about that..?
This was after the no contact rule? That's a good start! Don't expect things or for your ex to get back to how she normally treats you right away. At the very least, your ex is keeping the lines of communication open which is a perfect opportunity for you to transition into phase two and there should be a balance. Since you've already completed the full 30-day "no contact" rule, and assuming you've done the "no contact" rule properly, then the texting tips here will be a good starter: ruclips.net/video/XonMtLFo000/видео.html This means you take time focusing on the second phase and eventually the third phase when the time is right. This won’t happen overnight, of course, but it’s something you ought to continue to work on to the point where you’re gradually building attraction again. This is what my guide is for. Have you checked it out yet? It's too complicated to explain everything on here, but here's an overview of these phases and what to expect in each one: ruclips.net/video/ddnp-83TzMk/видео.html Good luck!
@breakupbradbrowning Thank You very much for such a comprehensive answer! You gave me hope that all of Your advices are working! I will check out that materials wright away and continue to work on that!!
I play the guitar and have been to Japan already . And we are both 60 and retired ...so no work either ...lol
Hi! I hear you. :-) You should be able to find lots of information on how to get your ex back by doing all the right steps on my channel here, so check out my other videos as well. They're completely free and comes at no cost to you. Here's one which should hopefully help: y2u.be/7JtmVbDkblw Lots of people have found success with it, maybe you can, too. You can also leave me a brief description of what you're going through. I always respond to comments. Just please keep it concise as I try to answer to as many comments as I can. Good luck!
Hey Brad, what does it mean if my ex has not closed the line of communication? Thru messenger and whatsapp. When we broke up,my ex told me dont worry i wont block you. And also there is one time when she messaged me that someone will pick up her stuff, but then she said, keep it for the meantime because they wont be able to get it. But also she told me at the initial of the break up that we will not be getting back together, because all of her past relationship, she did not get back with her exes. Is there still possibility? Eventhough she never get back to her past exes.
Well in every rule, there's always an exemption. Try to put focus or review your relationship. Clear your head first and try not to be driven too much by emotion and ask yourself: is there something worth saving/going back to or was it just purely toxic? If you're asking about your chances, I really wish I could give you a direct yes or no. However, as it is, each situation is unique and things aren't often black and white, I suggest you take the free quiz as it hits on the critical elements that will determine your chances depending on your answers. In other words, my quiz can give you a more accurate answer than I can since as you may have noticed, there are various factors at play here which needs to be looked at as well as your own actions after the breakup. Here's the link: www.breakupbrad.com/quiz or sign up for my coaching program so I could take a closer look at what your situation and guide you accordingly at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching Best of luck!
@@breakupbradbrowning thank you so much, I got a little bit of hope about what you said, than "In every rule, there's always an exemption" i hope I can afford your coaching, i guess i need to earn 1st so can book a coaching with you. By the way im from.philippines.. thank you Sir, God Bless🙏
Hope you see it so my ex contacted me after no contact we started talking i thought we were ready for a relationship so i asked her and she said not yet i gave her 1 and a half month and then asked her again she said she doesnt want to yet so i left her un delivered because she was acting dry and she was ignoring me its been 2 weeks she went to the same pool i went to yesterday we had a bit of eye contact but nothing special i showed her that i am happy with my friends and always havinf fun do u think we have a chance?
You're clearly her backup plan. I suggest to stop asking her if she's ready because if she dumped you, chances are the answer will always be a no. Rebuild attraction naturally instead and let her miss you. Never get hung up on this. Here are some tips to remember if you're trying to win an ex back and how important Fear of Missing Out (FOMO) is: ruclips.net/video/STLjybyiaBQ/видео.html
Brad, Question what happens if their an avoidant. I went radio silence do you think shell ever respond?
Your best bet is to use one of my texting examples across the channel when the time comes but for now, don't think about contacting your ex yet so you won't worry about whether or not she responds. Now's the time to fully focus on yourself and really take the time to recover. Here, this vid is for you: ruclips.net/video/npuQb1APSaU/видео.html Stay strong. Good luck!
Hi! Here's a vid for you regarding the topic: ruclips.net/video/4gTXF42Vnhw/видео.html
Hi coach before 2 months I replied to your video. I'm good without my ex and he nothing felt about the breakup. But now he and me in the same groups and he reply my texts in groups but we dont talk each other when we meet. But when I asking or messaging something about in group he replies that messages firstly among others. But he seems like he doesn't care or feel anything about the breakup.
Hi! That's a normal reaction especially since the breakup is still fresh. This should help give you an idea of which stage he's in: ruclips.net/video/dqnqGWOk9NA/видео.html
Hi, thanks for dropping by!
He in relationship he happy
That's your sign to move on and realise it's time for you to be happy as well. Take care!
A couple months back I did this exact step for step i even told her i had a story to tell her. All she did was post some guy on social media to make me jealous within days. And at step 5 she rejected meeting up. Then she deleted me on fb and havent spoke since very cold towards me. Dont do it
She's busy with someone else and in this case, it's never a good idea to contact because you'll automatically become the backup plan. Wait for a better time before interacting with your ex, however, don't wait around doing nothing. Take a leap of faith on a new path as well because you never know where life can take you, which may be better without your ex. Use this time to heal and prioritize yourself. But if it's been more than a year or so, make sure to check the signs if your ex has moved on, here: y2u.be/ZyJRphwDca4 and this should help guide you on what to do for the time being: y2u.be/hlikXIfMYN8 However, make it a point to be really productive with your time being apart. Follow the tips here to help guide you further: y2u.be/gUB
Please advise she broke up i did no contact for 55 days worked on myself pretty hard and i tried connecting with her she met me we addressed the mistakes i made i apologised bcoz it was my mistake we met second time we kissed and thn she said she needs time to think about getting back together since thn we are meeting once twice every week and we are chilling and enjoying whenever we meet i dont spam her i wait 2-3 days to contact her but the only problem is i have to initiate contact most of the time she rarely does its been going on since 1-1.5 months what should be my next step to get her back????
Hey man, looks like you appeared way too eager. You ought to give your ex the chance to reach out to you as well. Her pace is slower than yours, so be patient. This video is for you: ruclips.net/video/juhamVEwsxU/видео.html
So that was totally the wrong approach which I've talked about that here: ruclips.net/video/juhamVEwsxU/видео.html You ought to review this first: ruclips.net/video/L0hxYTCJ2hU/видео.html and in fact, apply the tips here too instead of taking the shortcut: ruclips.net/video/1kJ1ybuFIHE/видео.html In the future, if you're still not sure about what you're doing, I really suggest you sign up for my coaching program so I can assess your situation properly and guide you accordingly at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching Good luck!
Don’t do this. I would immediately perceive this as needy and they want me back. This is so typical mind games trying to appear cool
but still interested and it’s better to straight up contact them telling them what you want or asking them how they are. I would not respond to someone who initiated the breakup unless it was clear what they wanted and they are taking the risk. This hiding behind fake excuses is so weak and everyone knows you are trying to come off as cool. And I would certainly never under no circumstances be the one to message these lame messages if they initiated the breakup.
The tips are more applicable for dumpees rather than dumpers. But yes, you can go no contact indefinitely. The first path towards moving on and getting an ex back follows the same route and here's how to tell you're doing it correctly: ruclips.net/video/f7zuXk-sVsI/видео.html Anyways it's always best to take your time in deciding first so there'll be no regrets in the end. As I always say, the decision is ultimately up to you. You know your situation and your ex best. Sometimes a relationship can be salvaged and worth the save but sometimes it isn't, especially if there's cheating or some other type of abuse involved or if it was overall a dysfunctional/toxic relationship where it's just best to forget you even ever met that person. It's your life and it's your decision.
What if the relationship ended because his mother couodnt handle him having a girlfriend & she kept sabotaging the relationship?
Assuming you're both old enough to date, then other people's influence and outside opinion are all outside your control. It still has to be your ex's choice whether he allows himself to be influenced or not, regardless of who it is that's trying to influence. Just continue to do you and focus on stuff within your control, yeah? Apply the tips here along with the other tips on my vid on what you can do in each phase, especially if you're not getting my guide: ruclips.net/video/4Qe-4A-CpVY/видео.html
@breakupbradbrowning thank you for your personal response. It's an Enmeshed mother and son relationship, a lot of manipulation and obligatory guilt & it all became too overwhelming for him. He can't break up with his mum, but can break up with me despite how understanding I tried to be. You're right though, he is a 52 year old man, and it was still his choice. Thank you for your advice, I'll take a look at that link now.
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