Couple Things | Mathew Hussey

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  • Опубликовано: 2 авг 2024
  • This week on Couple Things, we got to chat with dating expert, Matthew Hussey. Matthew talks with us about his advice for anyone that is starting, ending, or currently in a relationship. We even ask him what his #1 pick ups line is… We think you’ll want to tune into this one. It gets juicy.
    Here are a few topics that we cover:
    0:00 Timestamps
    2:37 Is Mathew single?
    3:30 living up to the pressure
    5:53 how andrew won over shawn
    8:07 andrew’s first impression of shawn
    9:42 are there certain qualities that everyone is attracted to?
    13:23 what should someone look for when dating?
    14:32 investment and timing
    17:56 what are the true compatibility factors?
    20:30 key principals to follow while dating
    27:03 going back to people who aren’t good for you
    30:08: improving your confidence
    34:24 marriage and mathew’s goals
    39:14 do pick-up lines work?
    41:50 first impressions
    44:12 the importance in how you react
    47:40 what attracted mathew to his girlfriend
    51:30 why mathew is constantly learning
    53:26 the absence of judgement
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Комментарии • 4 тыс.

  • @racheldober9361
    @racheldober9361 3 года назад +37

    “Being ready for a relationship is not the same thing as being ready to not be lonely anymore.” That’s huge and a lot of people don’t make that distinction!

    • @marciefinn6295
      @marciefinn6295 2 года назад

      This is fabulous podcast for the younger generation who are looking for a relationship with no self confidence.

  • @marydodge1
    @marydodge1 3 года назад +5

    The way Andrew listens to Shawn intently and looks at her with adoration shows his genuine love for her and that he truly “understands her essence”.

  • @tracytighe7869
    @tracytighe7869 3 года назад +2

    That’s how I feel about my husband. 23 years together and what initially attracted me to him was him being his true self, being silly, making me laugh, and just being 100% real. Still to this day he’s always 100% and my best friend in the whole world. We’ve been through so much and always still laugh together and just have fun with each other.

  • @tabbyd811
    @tabbyd811 3 года назад +1

    Timing is everything… that cannot be more true!! My husband and I knew each other for 6 years before we started dating. 2 years of dating before marriage. Now 9 years happily married. Timing is truly everything!!!

  • @lisaruiz764
    @lisaruiz764 3 года назад +10

    My marriage experienced some hard times, and I was ready to walk away.. after 5 years of both of us putting in a lot of hard work, we are still together and have found happiness again!!

  • @tyreeswiderski3347
    @tyreeswiderski3347 3 года назад +5

    I liked when he said "Someone who accepts, understands and soothes my crazy" that's perfect, that's a keeper!

    • @corinabentancur3456
      @corinabentancur3456 3 года назад +1

      When he said “Someone who accepts, understands and soothes my crazy” I felt that I’m so grateful I have a husband that is so patient and loving towards me when I’m crazy from dealing with everything life 🧡

  • @stefanymary9699
    @stefanymary9699 3 года назад +1

    Coming off a divorce a few years ago and with 3 little children and finally in my first relationship since the divorce. This spoke volumes to me! Dating is hard especially in this day and age. This is my first time listening on you tube! I am forever a fan ❤️

  • @lindseyrobison7579
    @lindseyrobison7579 3 года назад +2

    “What you say you’re looking for and what you accept are two different things.” LOVE this. Sooooo much truth!!!

  • @raquellopez6341
    @raquellopez6341 3 года назад +3

    Shawn: “Andrew’s game was rough at the beginning” 😂 I love them!

  • @Blessed6789
    @Blessed6789 3 года назад +7

    WOW! this was great! What you say you are looking for and what you accept are two different things....that shook my core! Thanks for this guys!

    • @haladuabubakar4400
      @haladuabubakar4400 3 года назад

      M e s s a g e h I m n o w

    • @haladuabubakar4400
      @haladuabubakar4400 3 года назад

      +1=2=0=.4=8=0=.8=2=2=3=4.

    • @givegive9105
      @givegive9105 3 года назад

      Hello do you need help on how to get your ex back or restore someone you love specialist who helped you me out

  • @emehawaiiace
    @emehawaiiace 3 года назад +1

    Character really is such an important trait to look for in a significant other. I love that he appreciated finding this in his current relationship!

  • @donnatanner7718
    @donnatanner7718 3 года назад +2

    Been married a looong time, but sharing this with my daughter. So much good information. And you two are a precious couple!

  • @stephanieosterkamp2126
    @stephanieosterkamp2126 3 года назад +10

    I’m not currently in a relationship but got so much out of this.

  • @heathercorbin2220
    @heathercorbin2220 3 года назад +6

    “Timing is where it’s at.” So raw, real, and true!!!! (New subscriber; Nashville native, and hoping to win that $500 so I can come see y’all at ZANIES !!!!)

  • @shaynafaaborg6283
    @shaynafaaborg6283 3 года назад +1

    It’s completely wonderful to see a couple not taking their blessing for granted. I love that you are constantly nurturing your relationship! It’s EVERYTHING!

  • @laceyam1
    @laceyam1 3 года назад +2

    Teamwork is definitely huge in a relationship and having someone who is honest and communicates well with you goes so much further than just attraction ever will!

  • @brookemaxwell4695
    @brookemaxwell4695 3 года назад +6

    Ooof “being ready for a relationship is not that same thing as being ready to not be lonely anymore”. So. Good. As a youth pastor and also dealing with young adults, that’s definitely good advice I’ll pass on!!

  • @shannonrunyon4355
    @shannonrunyon4355 3 года назад +1

    "You want me to package it and write a letter? Nah, I'll just keep the hair dryer." Soooo relatable!

  • @oliviabobo6316
    @oliviabobo6316 3 года назад

    I love watching all of y’all’s videos! You are so open and honest about your relationship and what y’all go through. It makes it so relatable to take what y’all say and use it or see the same situation in my own life.

  • @erinameen5790
    @erinameen5790 3 года назад

    All of this hits home. Spot on. Thanks for being real & having guests who do the same!

  • @mandbhill
    @mandbhill 3 года назад +1

    After being married for 27 years, it is always nice to hear new perspectives and insight.

  • @laurabusby9652
    @laurabusby9652 3 года назад +1

    Everything that was said is so spot on, huge fan of yalls podcast!! “Arguing well” and communicating effectively is so important! I’ve also learned that learning your persons love language and knowing what brings them happiness is so crucial too. My bf just lost his dad about two months ago and that was the hardest thing he has had to go through. While it is devastating, it definitely brought us closer. Keeping him busy and doing things that made him happy really helped him get through that really difficult time❤️

  • @kaitlynmccollum2816
    @kaitlynmccollum2816 3 года назад +1

    As someone who is engaged and getting married this upcoming October I must say that he truly hit this out of the park!! He speaks such a raw genuine truth and it is truly inspirational. My fiancé and I both agreed we were going to live together before even considering getting engaged. Dating versus living together/dating is a complete game changer. There are certain things that people have hardwired into them maybe in their cleaning routines or their eating habits and etc. and sometimes those can make or break a relationship but without living together and getting to know that side of them you may never know it to be one of your pet peeves!! Thankfully my fiancé and I once we moved in together our relationship grew and flourished into something even more incredible and we worked together wonderfully just as a well oiled machine would do. It’s so crazy how God created us all differently but creates a person for us that is different but that’s perfectly into who we are. Can’t wait to see y’all in Charlotte!!

  • @jalynbaumler8400
    @jalynbaumler8400 3 года назад +1

    Living with someone tells you way more about a person than dating them will, agree so much!

  • @tasiastraker4325
    @tasiastraker4325 3 года назад

    I love how real the topics are you guys cover!!! Thank you for being real and sharing!

  • @heatherlambert7867
    @heatherlambert7867 3 года назад +1

    Love your videos! Subscribed today! Thank you all for always being so honest and open!

  • @jamiedeyoung3847
    @jamiedeyoung3847 3 года назад

    I absolutely love how open you both are and relatable. I appreciate your variety of content and the uplifting message you continue to convey! ❤️

  • @emmayounce9454
    @emmayounce9454 3 года назад

    I listen to every single episode and this episode had SO many golden nuggets!! I’m thankful there is a platform like this so we can all keep learning not only to better ourselves but our relationships as well

  • @hayleywalker6510
    @hayleywalker6510 3 года назад

    I absolutely love how real and open you guys are about everything. I love following along on your journey and watching your sweet family grow.

  • @tabbylyn01
    @tabbylyn01 3 года назад

    I love listening to all of the advice that you provide, knowing that you are raw and real with everything makes it easier to listen and not feel attacked. I feel like a lot of people have lived through things that they thought were "normal" whether it was because it's what they saw growing up or what they always experienced. But knowing there's a way to come out of it happier and able to learn from the experiences that you've been through make each day worth it! For me personally looking back is never easy, but at least now when I look forward I feel prepared, ready and supported by the ones that are in my life now! Today I can say that I'm happy, that my kids are happy, and our futures are bright!

  • @elenalofton5519
    @elenalofton5519 3 года назад

    I recently discovered your videos and podcast! Your content is so joyful, authentic, and uplifting. Thank you for sharing your life with us!

  • @makailamckinzie6835
    @makailamckinzie6835 3 года назад

    Absolutely love this video, being real and raw is such a big thing to me and I love that y’all are so open and honest!

  • @monicahales2644
    @monicahales2644 3 года назад

    Y’all are so great!! Love the topics y’all choose to talk about. I spent my whole day yesterday bingeing the podcasts From the very beginning! Thank you, thank you for being a wonderful couple and sharing your experiences with us!

  • @kristendowdy9586
    @kristendowdy9586 3 года назад +1

    Love how you all talked about how it is different to have and be in a relationship compared to just being tired of being alone.

  • @Doubleeashlee88
    @Doubleeashlee88 3 года назад +1

    So true on so many levels. Thank you for sharing this info.

  • @elizabethmaedavenport
    @elizabethmaedavenport 3 года назад

    Love you all! Love Couple Things! I can’t say it enough! I also like the diversity of couples that you show! It’s really awesome seeing your relationship and the relationships of others both older and younger, more experienced/less experienced, etc! Lots of wisdom and lots of good nuggets!! Nice to know people all over either have put in the work and have learned lessons or are putting in the work and are learning lessons as they go! No relationship is easy, but it is so worth it!! Been one of the most rewarding things and biggest blessings of my life, even with the struggles that come with it!! So many dynamics that you don’t even think about! Thankful to hear everyone’s stories and lessons!! We are all so unique! We can all learn from and with each other! That’s what it’s all about!!

  • @TennesseeTudor
    @TennesseeTudor 3 года назад

    I had never heard of him before, but it was really fun to listen and glad that he is always updating his opinion instead of just saying the same thing over and over again! Thanks!

  • @wendyamay0113
    @wendyamay0113 3 года назад

    Such truth! Love all the different topics you two cover in all the episodes, keep them coming! Love you! ❤

  • @eminemls22
    @eminemls22 3 года назад

    Always so informative I love watching/listening! Thank you for all you do 😊

  • @sashakeene4757
    @sashakeene4757 3 года назад

    What a great channel to be running! Having positive messages about relationships and advice is so needed, truly appreciate it🙌

  • @danielaramirez9007
    @danielaramirez9007 3 года назад

    LOVE your podcasts and videos. You guys are the most genuine people I’ve seen on social media. Wishing ur family a life full of happiness!

  • @carrielynn214
    @carrielynn214 3 года назад

    So happy I found this podcast! Love you guys and thanks for sharing your life with us!!

  • @nicolestuder7130
    @nicolestuder7130 3 года назад

    I love your pod cast. Have gone back to the beginning and have been listening to them. Thank you!!

  • @micheledingman2857
    @micheledingman2857 3 года назад

    Love you guys so much!!! So excited for what’s in store with the arrival of your little guy soon! Wishing you all the best!

  • @teresaomalley8448
    @teresaomalley8448 3 года назад

    It is so wonderful that you guys get so real. Thank you for everything you share💗

  • @sadiewillrodt4267
    @sadiewillrodt4267 3 года назад

    Love listening to yalls podcast!! The energy is always great and I feel like I take away so much to help me with my own marriage!! Love what y’all do, thank you for sharing your knowledge along with others in all things couple related!!

  • @lauralust3558
    @lauralust3558 3 года назад

    Grateful for this and for you both! Always seem so genuine and real❤ so thank you!!

  • @juliekaufman8635
    @juliekaufman8635 3 года назад

    Excited to listen to this and your other episodes I’ve somehow missed, while heading to baseball games!

  • @amandamink50
    @amandamink50 3 года назад

    You two have been such an inspiration in my life. I wait anxiously for the next episodes!!! Thank y’all so much!🥰🙏🏼

  • @elizabethdavenport6309
    @elizabethdavenport6309 3 года назад +1

    My husband was and is still exactly who he is and is so authentic and genuine. I can always count on him and we’ve grown so much already!! Makes a huge difference!! Love y’all’s vulnerability, authenticity, and positivity! Also love learning more about what makes you all you and what you’ve been through on your own and together!! Inspiring to see and is healing and helping so many!!! Keep crushing it!!!!!!

  • @l.u.k.evideos5870
    @l.u.k.evideos5870 3 года назад

    Love these.. thanks for this podcast and staying real. ❤

  • @amenagarber2496
    @amenagarber2496 3 года назад

    Ahh always love listening to these :) thank you for keeping these up!

  • @morganheape8062
    @morganheape8062 3 года назад

    Thank you all for this awesome content! Love these videos so much!

  • @sidneypierce4329
    @sidneypierce4329 3 года назад

    I absolutely love this RUclips channel and how real you guys are on a wide range of topics!!

  • @elizabethmaedavenport
    @elizabethmaedavenport 3 года назад

    Absolutely loved this episode!! Absolutely love you all!! Thank you for all you do for us!!!! ☺️☺️🙏🙏

  • @bridgitlawhead35
    @bridgitlawhead35 3 года назад

    love matthew hussey!!! you guys are so easy to listen to seriously. i’m definitely more of a spotify kind of listener when it comes to podcasts but you guys are special

  • @snmajland
    @snmajland 3 года назад

    Love this one! You all have great perspectives we can think about and learn from.

  • @TheLifeOfARealMom
    @TheLifeOfARealMom 3 года назад

    Love hearing all things couple. Excited to check out the channel.

  • @courtneymay2841
    @courtneymay2841 3 года назад +1

    Timing is everything - it literally is!
    Being in the right place at the right time can allow you to meet your spouse, find your dream job or anything!
    I love watching your videos!

  • @hols_4367
    @hols_4367 3 года назад

    Love love this podcast, always excited to listen.!!

  • @emilykoretchko3813
    @emilykoretchko3813 3 года назад

    love you guys! thank you for your dedication to this podcast/channel. such a good resource!

  • @kellsygallup
    @kellsygallup 3 года назад +2

    “A certain amount of courage needs confidence “ i live that

  • @linae8038
    @linae8038 3 года назад

    I love that y’all are so honest and open!

  • @breanneslocum8218
    @breanneslocum8218 3 года назад

    Love how raw and genuine you all are

  • @ariannagiangrande6222
    @ariannagiangrande6222 3 года назад

    Absolutely love the podcast!! I’m always looking forward to the next episode 💛

  • @Fizzflippinwiz
    @Fizzflippinwiz 3 года назад

    Love you guys so much! Thank you for all your encouragement and role model for how people should live thru life! 💚

  • @katewest7602
    @katewest7602 3 года назад

    I look forward to following you! Your family is amazing and always put a smile on my face!!

  • @kileytchang1247
    @kileytchang1247 3 года назад

    Love this one!!!! So many good points to take away

  • @cassidysollen6698
    @cassidysollen6698 3 года назад

    Love listening to couple things when writing notes for school! So much great advice.

  • @angiedalton2516
    @angiedalton2516 3 года назад +1

    Timing is everything. When the right person comes into your life at the right time in your life unexpectedly is the best

  • @kayceedance2812
    @kayceedance2812 3 года назад

    Absolutely loved this!! Love following you both on social media, this is just the cherry on top. So glad I started Following this.

  • @jenniferwilson6523
    @jenniferwilson6523 3 года назад

    I love everything about you two! Love the topics and just your day to day updates. Your podcasts are amazingly real and fun! I applaud you both for putting yourselves out there in this critical world. Keep being great!

  • @sabrinaclark3812
    @sabrinaclark3812 3 года назад

    So informative! Always love listening to your Couple Things episodes!

  • @emilystratton5376
    @emilystratton5376 3 года назад +1

    This helped so much. Been going through hard times with my significant other, and have learned so much to help our relationship., and same with your podcast! Thank you!❤️

  • @scrappingmommyof2
    @scrappingmommyof2 3 года назад

    So glad I found this and can't wait to check it out!

  • @MissDamzel
    @MissDamzel 3 года назад

    Loving how inviting you guys are. Giving people ways to start conversations with partners and also with ones self about relationships.
    20+ years married here... started in the unconventional way of met on dating site..emailing back and forth because cell phones weren't around...lol
    Thanks for this channel. Also thanks for working with Abbott- Abbott hospital in MN saved my Dads life, many many blood transfusions..keep the donations coming!

  • @downmallettlane565
    @downmallettlane565 3 года назад

    Thank you guys so much before doing these podcasts!! I love listening to you guys! ❤️

  • @jens9113
    @jens9113 3 года назад

    Love to hear couples being honest! Thanks for this!

  • @jennyruiz8964
    @jennyruiz8964 3 года назад

    Love how relatable your podcast is to different people in different stages in their lives! Love you guys! 💛

  • @katiehannuksela977
    @katiehannuksela977 3 года назад

    Can’t wait to start watching/listening from the beginning 😍 I’ve watched some I subscribe to yalls RUclips! Love y’all!

  • @katief3380
    @katief3380 3 года назад

    Y’all are my favs!!!!! Bless you guys and your newest edition coming soon!

  • @kriscolwell6072
    @kriscolwell6072 3 года назад +1

    Love that you show that relationships aren’t always easy…it can get messy and work but if you are with the right person and willing to put in the work it is totally worth it!

  • @storieswithnoni1263
    @storieswithnoni1263 3 года назад

    This channel is such a fantastic resource no matter where you are in marriage, dating or just relationships in general! Good job guys!

  • @jessicamitchem2849
    @jessicamitchem2849 3 года назад

    I love how real and open yall are on your videos.

  • @collinlambert5968
    @collinlambert5968 3 года назад

    Great show! Thanks for all talks y'alls work!

  • @ashleymyers3737
    @ashleymyers3737 3 года назад

    Cant wait to watch more, I love watching your videos!! I remember meeting you at Chows while I was attending a meet representing Gleasons Gymnastics, It was around your 16th Birthday. Wow how crazy it is too see we are all grown up now!!

  • @oliviadean3374
    @oliviadean3374 3 года назад

    This is a great episode. I needed some of these reminders today!

  • @kellyekadesignswelly1608
    @kellyekadesignswelly1608 3 года назад +1

    What a great episode...I just started listening to your show and things this is a great way to increase the value of your relationship. Love it !

  • @-writeingandsinginggirl
    @-writeingandsinginggirl 3 года назад

    I can relate to so many things on every podcast that you have. I can't name just one episode, but I have tried different tips/advice that you guys have given in my own life. I truly love listening to you guys.

  • @kimnelson9094
    @kimnelson9094 3 года назад

    Thank you for your rural honesty and advice. I am close to 60 and will celebrate our 38th Anniversary July 16. One thing we have gotten away from is “date nights”or time to ourselves. Thank you for putting things in perspective and reminding of what is important. I am looking forward to following your podcasts and excited for what it will do to help my personal situation and help our relationship. Yes, even at almost 60 and 38 years of marriage we need to reignite that spark we once had. Wishing you the best with your newest little blessing, your family is beautiful and you both are wonderful parents!

  • @kathrynhall1934
    @kathrynhall1934 3 года назад

    This is so good. I love that you guys take the time to dive into things like this. We live in such a fast paced world that I think these are important questions to think about going into relationships. I think that’s why so many marriages fail because you’re marrying and idea of a person not who they actually are. Love this 🖤🖤🖤

  • @shaylanelson4204
    @shaylanelson4204 3 года назад

    This podcast brings so much awareness and opens the door for real conversation. Love it

  • @kristib7791
    @kristib7791 3 года назад

    I love you guys and the couple things episodes! It helps so much seeing what other couples go through!

  • @raquelwymbs8858
    @raquelwymbs8858 3 года назад

    I love you guys so much. You have helped me through some really tough times in my relationship. Thanks for being honest and transparent.

  • @taylorwilliams8134
    @taylorwilliams8134 3 года назад

    You guys are amazing!🥰
    Thank you for sharing so much of your life with all of us😊

  • @lexbaaby
    @lexbaaby 3 года назад

    Love this podcast. Thank you for doing this and bringing such great guests on. I love your perspectives on things and relate so strongly to your family which is so similar to mine. It has been so fun for me (28f) to follow along with both of your pregnancies that lined up so close to mine (21m old daughter and 6w old son) and your journey into parenthood as a couple and individuals. Keep it going!!

  • @gracebradshaw3003
    @gracebradshaw3003 3 года назад

    Thank you so much for being authentic, having new people, being relatable and genuine. Keep doing what your doing 🤗

  • @skylermartes5504
    @skylermartes5504 3 года назад +1

    Shawn and Andrew’s podcast has taught me to continue to strive to do better, and be better. To work on my relationships with not only my fiancé but my family as well. Thank you for all you have taught me and the world. Please don’t let anyone stop you. 💙

  • @abigailmason3007
    @abigailmason3007 3 года назад

    i love how real you guys are in your podcasts!! love listening!! 🖤

  • @BeckyThatCrazyLlama
    @BeckyThatCrazyLlama 3 года назад

    I haven’t listened so this episode yet, I usually listen on Spotify, but I just want to say I LOVED the episode about 10 lessons in communication. I took notes. Some of the lessons you guys have learned really stuck with me and can be helpful in my relationship so thank you! I love your realness and being able to relate to you guys means a lot!! 💙💙