Couple Things | Red, Yellow or Green flags
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- Опубликовано: 2 авг 2024
- This week on Couple Things, we had a lot of fun talking about some things that could be red flags or dealbreakers. We went to Instagram to hear what you guys think are some red flags in dating and relationships...and we dove in.
0:00 Introduction
5:11 Your red flags from Instagram
10:33 Complicated relationship with their family
13:28 If they are divorced
14:44 If their parents don't like you or approve of you
20:05 If they don't text or respond back right away
21:40 They are friends with their exes
23:22 If they call all of their exes crazy
24:09 Their best friend is of the opposite sex
25:01 If it's long-distance
29:33 If they want to spend all of their time with you
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It's important to be understanding of people and not jump to conclusions/judgments. With the complicated family stuff, I think calling that a red flag comes from a place of privilege that you grew up with a healthy and intact family, which isn't the case for many. And many are doing their best to heal from difficult pasts and shouldn't be judged for what they are bringing to the table.
Yes. We are not our families, and many are trying to break the cycle.
I agree 100%
What if his parents are divorced and I don't know if it's affecting him? I really wanna ask but don't wanna offend or hurt him with something so personal
Thank you shawn for saying your piece on the complicated family thing....I have a very messy and complicated family, and I'm so glad my husband of 13 years didn't turn and run become that
You guys should interview Arie and Lauren when they get settled with their twins! Feel like that would be a great podcast!
love that idea ❤️
They interviewed Arie and Lauren last year.
@@ATouchofBlush I know but after the twins now, because they both were on 2nd pregnancies. Just comparing that’s all. Love them both!!
I didn't know this channel existed until recently. I watch your main channel and somehow came across one of these episodes and I'm addicted now. Thank you for sharing these things and being honest. It's not like you two agree on literally everything just for the sake of appearances. It's so refreshing how you challenge each other in a respectful way, and I love seeing that aha moment
I love ya'lls chemistry together. You compliment each others personality.
I am 79 yes old and these two kids amaze me with their grace and wisdom.....far beyond their years! God Bless you both for sharing your thoughts on your experiences within your own married life. Wise counsel on the chosen subjects.
I love watching y’all all over social media and now on here. Y’all are so real and truly listen to your viewers/listeners comments. Thank you both for being so real and raw!
Thank you for giving "has a complicated relationship with your family" a yellow flag. I totally agree that it warrants considerable communication while a couple is dating. Definitely. But as a teacher who has seen many students try so hard to "break the cycle" of their home situation and have succeeded, I would urge a person to learn the person you are dating and not judge them by their parents. People can want and achieve something better than what they had growing up or maybe just want something very different from their childhood. Maybe they have become a Christian while their family is not, for example. It doesn't mean you should write their family off in all circumstances either just definitely don't judge an individual by who their family is and where they came from.
Thank you guys so much for being so open to sharing with us all your experiences. It makes people think deeper into our own lives.
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I LOVE how relatable and down to earth the two of you are... the authenticity is incredible and so is the connection and the realism
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I love the talks you guys have. It is so important to discuss these points, especially before you get married.
Love watching you two not only on here but social media in general ❤️ my husband and I got married in august and listening to your advice and love for each other is so fun for us now that we relate! Keep it up, can’t wait to see little man when he arrives 😍
This is such important information, I appreciate you guys and all that you do! Such an inspiring family 🙏🏼💗
This great to talk about I love it ❤️.
Tons of people need to hear this good advice.
Love how open you guys are.
It is great hearing a godly couple giving advice.
I love hearing you perspectives on this!!! The dating world is such a different place to navigate these days and hearing your insight really helps me! Thank you so much 🙏🏻💕
New subscriber but I’ve watch been following along since the beginning! I’m loving it! Most definitely my favorite!
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You guys are doing great things!! Thanks for the positivity and challenging thoughts!
I loved that you touched on family/in-laws. My husband does not have a relationship with much of his family, and at first I thought it was a red flag because I am so close with my family. BUT, as Shawn said, "that's not the person". We had a long conversation and I realized just how toxic of a family he had & why he chose to not have a relationship with his family. He gets along SO well with my family and I couldn't ask for a better man. He's a great husband and an even more wonderful father. I'm so glad I took the time to get to know why & to truly listen.
Love you guys so much!! You two are so amazing and so real! Great content!
Totally subscribing. I love getting to see your relationship and experience while also bringing in experts on occasion.
Loved this topic, thank you guys so much for sharing perspective! Lol you guys are so funny.
Thanks guys!! My teenager was impressed!! Love your podcast! I’ve been married 27 years together 30 - seven military deployments and I’m still learning and growing about marriage and being in healthy relationship.
This is actually the ONLY podcast I listen to(cause I’m not a huge fan of podcasts) but when you guys first started, I was just getting into a serious relationship. So THANK YOU!! It’s helped quite a bit!
I love how real guys are, and the topics you dive deeper into are extremely relevant to life. And I just wanted to say Thank you for that!
Loving this podcast! Open, genuine conversation with great points.
It only took me your very first lead in statement that you cannot go into dating with a specific list of requirements, that just grabbed my attention. I think that its very difficult to ever have a solid foundation if you don't match with "core values" I love the tenderness you show each other. Thank you for sharing your insight. Love to the East Family❤️
Looking forward to watching this one! I enjoy listening to couple things on my podcast app, but having them here on RUclips is fun as well.
I love this episode! I also love the podcast and I hope the birth of your baby boy goes smoothly!
So many people are fixated by standards of society and what the world tells us the “perfect” person needs or is supposed to be like. More people need to listen to this because y’all talked about what so many people struggle with. THANK YOU!!
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I love how you start by setting the foundation that while there are minimum standards which are non-negotiables, that relationships are complex and nuanced and each person has to be humble in the process of evaluating the situation. Being honest and working through things together is always best.
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I absolutely love watching you guys. You give such great advice!
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Thank you for all your insights! You guys are amazing!
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These are great tips!!! Keep them coming. I’ve been married for 14 years and communicating clearly has been a struggle for me. It’s a work in progress but we both have to try and be more clear.
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Getting me through my divorce... Newly single mama of a 10m old in Medical School and your podcast is helping me process and heal from a husband that began cheating when our daughter was born. Ex gymnast also and really relate to so many things you guys talk about. Thank you!!
Your shows provide so much insight into the world of relationships, full on topics!
First time listener/watcher. I truly love this podcast! I agree with most of what you said although I don't believe your family will always side with you. I've witnessed numerous times where the person's in laws sided with them. Especially if kids are involved. I love the banter, the "rants/tangents" and the communication between you two!!
I say know yourself first and the other stuff comes a lot a lot easier! You guys are great , I love to listen!
The dynamic between you guys is really great. I think you compliment each other & mesh so well.
LOVED listening to all of these, they’re so true!!!!
Love this podcast! So happy I stumbled onto you guys 😊
Such great advice! Can't wait to see you all become a family of 4! ❤
Always making me laugh. Thanks for making me giggle when feeling so low lately
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You guys are just one of my favorite couples!! So real & awesome ❤️
This video was much needed! Thank you Shawn and Andrew!!
Excited to start watching these episodes!
What a sweet couple and loving parents you all are...thanks for sharing your life with all of us!
I love watching y’all’s podcast and love y’all in general!
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So excited to have found this. Celebrating our first wedding anniversary this weekend and it’s so nice to hear feedback from other married couples- were the first of our friends to get married. Thank you for your transparency and your shares 🤍
Great show, guys. Relationships are tough, but one thing I learned (hardest lesson learned) was to listen to the red flags about someone, especially from friends and family. We often are blind or dismiss too much in a relationship.
I can not wait to listen to these! I really enjoyed your love language podcast and how you two interact together. So raw and fun! Just gotta get my BF to listen to it with me 😆 btw you were my favorite gymnast back in the day when I was a gymnast too!
The encouragement I get in my life from you guys is great!
I love this!!! So many ideas and “guidelines”!
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This is SO good. Totally relate. Communication styles can differ so much! This is a good check in.
One of my favorite episodes from you guys!
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I love your show and the fact that you love to share :)
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So true to be open minded! People learn and grow everyday and that’s the type of thing you fall in love with
Love watching these!!
Love your honest raw podcast! Andrews laugh is the best 😂
Love this podcast and you two so much!🥰
Love listening to all of these 😍
Love this! Thanks for sharing!
I just love you guys. Real couple sharing real stuff.
It really is true that you never know what someone else is going through with their family and it can be tough, love how to talk about this
Omg I love this you guys are so inspirational
Love your different perspectives!
Love this!! You have to be open minded! An idea, or general list is good but can't be too hard core
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I thought this was so interesting! I loved hearing the red flags. You two are so interesting to listen to and watch on social media! Thank you for this great podcast!