DO NOT move her to the WEST
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8:12 how to chose a girl to take to the west
10:10 How to avoid losing the girl if in the west
14:37 Some statistics
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100% Agree. The whole point of having a Filipina girlfriend is to have her behave like a Filipina in the Philippines. So live with your girl on the Philippines.
Under no circumstances get married either in the Philippines or the west and under no circumstances bring your girl to the west. Far too risky. In the Philippines if your girl behaves badly you can easily ditch her and find another girl. In the west you won’t easily be able to do either.
Do yourselves a huge favour guys and take the risk and stress out of your life. Live on your own terms and not on the terms of a woman. All women are fickle and easily change given the circumstances beneficial to her. Keep your guard up and be cautious at all times.
I agree with you . But how am I to live there? I don’t have a coveted hard to get good paying remote career.
My job is in America where I have to show up everyday . Unless your rich or can work remotely how does a normal 9-5 job kina guy like me live in ph where I’m in control with my terms ?
@@ssj3vegett0 Most guys wait for retirement and Social Security\Pensions and then move to Philippines.
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I'm a retired Marine. I've seen many men bring Filipinas here and get married. Almost ALL of them have failed!!! Don't bring them to the USA! I've seen it happen too many times!!! Not wise.
Very good advice for the guys that still think "their girl is different".
-Nils
I am still waiting for one of your videos too! They are very well researched, how have you been?
She's not yours it's just your turn
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Why can you keep her in the east and not the west? Because as much as woman says love is unconditional, for them in reality it is not. There is a dynamics in a relationship between foreigners and Filipinas which is hypergamy. What is the definition of Hypergamy? The action of marrying or forming a sexual relationship with a person of a superior sociological or educational background. Simply put, as soon as your Filipina gets off the plane she will be looking to trade you in for a younger, richer and more physically fit mate. And she will. As soon as she gets her green card she is gone however your relationship will be over long before this happens. You have to be completely out of your mind to bring one of these girls here. You are taking all the emotional and financial risks and you will never recover. You really think she is so sweet and innocent? You will see what kind of a monster she really is. You guys better take the red pill and understand letting the wrong person into your life will bring it to an end. I know I was a bit harsh but do not bring these girls back to the west. It will be the biggest mistake of your life.
How true. I have the scars to prove it
OMG....
SO TRUE...
It is all about options...in the Philippines she has few....in the west she has many....and will take them
It's because the Western culture is corrupt and it corrupts everything it touches.. feminism corrupts! Materialistic corrups! The me too culture corrupts! So many problems with the Western culture it used to be about love now it's only about what can you do for me. Its disgusting!
If you can not keep her when living in the west, why do you want to keep her when living in the east?
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If her "loyal love" to you is depending on the location, then something smells fishy. Right?
Your arguments and thoughts - what will she do when living in the west - are smart.
For keeping it short we could say: If she would live in the west, then there would be pressure on you, because you've to be better than the other guys. And in a long run you cannot compete. I understand and I agree.
But, if she stays in the Philippines and you live there, too, then it is exactly the other way around. There will be pressure on her, and sooner or later she can nomore longer compete. There are always better girls around.
Conclusion: We men move to the Philippines and we take the advantage. And the pressure on her is not our problem; it's hers.
Fair? - Nope. Love and sex is never "fair". If you like to enjoy fairness: Watch sports.
Because frankly I've lived in both the East and West and living in the East is better from almost every perspective. Cost of living, social opportunities, weather, dating, how people treat you etc.
The only thing that is better in the West (US) is investing and making money, and if you're already financially free the point is moot.
I wouldn't bring her to the West because simply I'd rather not live there myself.
I am so spiritually against what is going on in America.
And you cannot control even the woman with the best intentions how she's going to be affected by feminism and the entitlement culture in the West. Choice is easy.
This is coming from a man who gets and keeps women easily in both.
your first two paragraphs are absolutely excellent points ! men should deeply consider them ..
Thanks for comment, you are exactly right. No matter once you move to the west you relationship WILL change even if you do not end up getting divorced.
How do you see your relationship with Mia then? You were talking about taking her to Norway, so you would be going against your own advice.
This so-so TRUE Paul, there is a reason why any Pinays living abroad do not want to know older men, but in the Philippines the Pinay will always say Sir oh age does not mater just a number, only one reason they say that is they want to HOOK you, but it is a strange coincidence that 95% Pinays do not want to know older guys who are established in the West , I will let you think on that,, or do you need to think about it really? come-on guys smell the coffee. Ray in the UK..one more tip buy a Condo in your name ONLY , have fun in the Philippines do not let any lady move in wiith, you massive MISTAKE...
wao you are so right this is happening to my nephew who is 50 plus years and she is 26 he bought property over there and brought her to the west and it's happening
Proud of Paul, you learned well my friend.
Guys, all woman are only as loyal as her options.
What I would have added to the video is even tho they will see all the options in the West, many will change or act on those options most of them become very unhappy.
Anyone in their late 50's or more with substantial assets would be a fool to marry anyone, of whatever nationality, unless the lady is also very wealthy. Pre and post nups can be challenged so there is a risk that you will not be as protected as you think. When you look at the divorce rate and the fact that most divorces are initiated by women you realise that marriage vows are meaningless. Accept the facts and adjust your life accordingly.
Yes. And, there is transformation and there must be reciprocity. Few seem to talk about this. Transformation occurs when you move her into your separate premarital home titled in your own name; you just make it marital property by moving her in (your action). And, reciprocity in prenups means for everything she gives up you must give up from her property. For example, if you say the house stays mine, then she must have an asset that stays with her, such as her house or yacht. Then you've made a reciprocal exchange. If she has nothing, there is nothing to trade for the prenup to be binding. My 2 cents, every jurisdiction may vary, not a legal opinion. Peace.
You covered it thoroughly, Paul. If you're bringing a Filipina to Australia or America or Europe, you're doing it because the women in your country are unacceptable.
The physical and behavioral issues, and the attitude, are the obvious reasons. A Filipina in that environment will almost certainly become fully Westernized.
She'll become what you were getting away from in the first place. If you can't move to the Philippines to stay, accept that you're likely just acting as a travel agent.
But you won't be completely separated from your former Filipina. You'll still be a source of financial support via alimony, after any court-ordered property division.
If you can move to the Philippines, but don't want to stay there long-term because of the lesser standard of living, you might take her to another country in Asia.
Still a risk, but perhaps somewhat less. Perhaps. You'll need to research the cultures carefully, or you'll wind up with the same problem.
Moving her to Seoul might be as bad as moving her to Atlanta. I doubt you'll compare well with the current crop of K-Pop stars. I'm certain I do not.
As areas of the Philippines popular with foreigners become more Westernized, I expect it won't be enough to just stay in the Philippines.
The Filipinas in those areas are becoming more Westernized as well, and the advice Paul gives for a Filipina in the West will need to be applied more and more in those areas.
Likely with the same poor odds for success.
You'll probably need to stay away from those areas to avoid that detrimental influence. Not necessarily out in the Provinces, but away from the high-volume tourist areas.
I'm referring to less touristy cities which are closer to the older Philippine culture, but large enough to have many of the modern amenities of Manila or Cebu.
Good advice but you exclude anyone who is not retired and must work in the US until retirement is possible. Making the only way to get a Philipina to the west is to marry. I am not independently wealthy, have an early retirement nest egg or a rare online business. I am 13 years to retirement and don't want to be single until 67 and then start the looking process once I am older slower and fatter. Plus my life is happening now and who knows if I will make it to and past retirement. My plans would be prenuptial of course and move to the Phillipines for retirement after finishing out my work career. Just don't have the money to retire now so I don't know how you all do it. Guess there is risk in all things.
That's the best video I've ever seen on the subject Paul. They are all great points. My wife is here in Canada with me and has been for about 8 years now, ... but she's only 7 years younger than me. If there was a huge age gap it would have been a real bad idea to have brought her here because a young good looking Filipina won't take long to see she could do a lot better than me over here.
Fear itself. That’s FDR not Churchill
I had no idea you were married to a Filipina in the US. These are words of wisdom! Don't take them back to the Matrix gentlemen! 😎
Yes I lived it to although my relationship never would have worked because I didn't truly realize who she was until she came.. The problem is people spending 2 weeks in the Philippines 3 weeks 4 weeks then bringing the woman back to the US without really realizing who they are...
The Sexual Market Value of a Filipina in the Philippines is moderated by the Abundance of Many women of the same level or greater... It makes perfect sense to utilize that fact living in the Philippines.... A man must know how to maintain his "Frame" know how to say "No" "Wait". You must lead the relationship, continue building deeper bonding.... A woman only needs to know certain things when its in your best interests...
Don't bring a woman from a 2nd or 3rd world nation... Live there instead and let the Natural Female competition flow. It's less hassle for you and keeps her honest and on the edge...
The competition in the PI will keep her in check! 😎
Thanks Paul. Well thought out video. I would only add the 95% increase in likelihood of divorce if she's in the west (with 20 yr age gap) is on top of an almost 50% divorce rate there. I plan on moving there if they ever open the country to foreign tourists.
yes in the west
What you say is so true and it happened to me except that ,at the time, I had no money and she paid for the divorce when I had already moved back to the Philippines.
My Filipina made friends in Australia with another Filipina who told her she intended to take her Australian bf house. Said it just like that. I wanted to warn him but my gf would not give me a phone number I could use. That’s when I realised what my fate would be also
My impression through observation is that these men are generally average with unimpressive net worth by US standards, who seek to use their perceived economic advantage to attract financially desperate women in economically depressed countries. For me, that would not be a respectable lifestyle. And why on earth would they then bring their attractive daughter-age (or worse) bride to the US , where she has far better options with men who can actually compete for her in the US? The natural outcome is obvious. And the most dense don't learn. They repeat this process!
I learned the hard way that the educated career ladies just want the visa abroad to benefit family back home. After the green card, it's game over. Only if the lady has low SMV, such as by having many babies, will she stick around. And, it's a relationship built on her children and extended family. So, it's just gender roles for a better life. I don't want to be a human Caribao. Great video. Peace.
You NAILED It. I TOO 'HOPE' that SOMEDAY the Philippines MIGHT Reopen to Tourism. I'm NOT Holding my breath tho.
These new girls are westernized. Don't do it. My buddy moved hers here to the usa and now he has to pay for her and her new bf child. She cheated on him.
maybe you are not able to get a value woman.
the women you are with reflects who you are.
I have to tell you Paul the first time I seen you it was with gio and for some reason i didn't care for you ,don't know why just the way it was. but after watching more of just you ,you have become the best of the best , most thing you have talked about i have learned the hard way , where were you 6 years ago lol could have save a lot of time and money and heart break . So people listen to what this man has to say and learn . take care Paul and thanks
Do you not understand why women in the West are the way we are? The economic conditions in the West are what create the "Western woman " I don't dispute that many Western women are overweight, obnoxiously loud and often aggressive but can you really say that EVERY woman in the West is so awful? Filipinas get a presumption of perfection (even though many turn out to be much more sinister snakes and get fatter than some Western women) and Western women have a presumption of evil against them. It's really frustrating when in spite of your individual actions and behavior, you're automatically assumed to be flawed simply due to your gender and nationality.
True and perception equals reality which is unfortunate for the outliers. The bigger decision for men who understand this therefore is go where the odds for success and a happy life are best. Not the west or western women. We want traditional, beautiful, supportive and young women. Not going to find that anymore in the west and most of us woke guys are done trying.
Top video paul.
It was just like you reading my thoughts loud.
I totally agree with every word you said and I have been saying that for many years.
I think the best way is to stay in the Philippines because you will have the upper hand there and if she wants to break up with you then you can find many other young women to heal your emotional stress.
not getting married ever again... once was enough... :)
Once was too many.
FYI.....it was actually Franklin D Roosevelt who said "we have nothing to fear but fear itself", not Churchill. It comes from is inaugural address as President in 1933......years before Churchill became a public figure.
Paul, I get the feeling you think that you can beat the odds of bringing your wife to the west and staying married. All marriages start happy and optimistic. But, as you know, things change. If you don't have children with your wife that makes staying together harder. You didn't mention that factor. Also, the wife's friends. You can't control that as you mentioned in your video. Also, boredom, homesickness, menopause, anxiety, depression, and the woman becoming more independent. You didn't mention those factors. A prenup won't protect you completely. Your odds of staying married are best if you stay in the Ph. You think you found a "unicorn". That's what all men think when they are in love. The problem is women change with time, with their environment, and with their circumstances. As you know most of the divorces in the west are initiated by the woman.
Good video 👍👍👍 you seem to be one of the most grounded expats in the Philippines....alot are living in Disney world, yes you are correct, I saw this while living close to a Navy base....when the ships where out to sea on deployment, the clubs where full of Philippinas .....most married looking for their choice for the six month boyfriend.....
Asawa ko have been together for almost 9 years. Its been great so far. But she has a strong religious background and strong since of family from the province
I married province girl using fiance Visa in 2003. She treated me good in Phils. But reg flags didn't fly until she came to US. She was 18 & I was 26. She was hard to deal w/but I was a devoted gentleman that didn't believe in divorce. 1st signs of her fooling around came in 2011. I immediately took her back on vacation to Phils. She treated me so good again there but after reuniting w/her lover here in US I had no choice but to divorce. 1 sign was that she never spoke much about having children & 2nd was she became very secretive. A filipina won't leave marriage until they feel they have security somewhere else.
what happens if you married in the philippines and bring her to the uk after just 2 years you want a divorce can she claim anything from you
The problem doesn't just affect Filipino women. It affects almost all Asian women. I live separately from my Chinese wife. But all the points that Paul had listed here applied. I myself introduced her to a Chinese woman I had met in a supermarket. Both became friends. This Chinese friend was in a divorce. I saw my wife less and less. And I noticed how my wife was changing. Of course she was pestered. I should have taken over a shoe shop from a young Chinese man. So that I should have hired this Chinese friend. She had no idea about selling. My wife was on the migration course and would not have had the time. I only heard reproaches because I didn't even look at this shoe store. At some point, much later, I went to this shoe store myself. I asked the young Chinese what rent he would have to pay for the premises of this business. When he told me the amount, I was glad I hadn't embarked on the financial adventure. It would have ruined me. I would have had a better long-distance relationship too. Now I could have moved to China. It is a big mistake to bring an Asian woman to Europe or America.
I agree with almost all your points....I used to live in Vegas with a large Filipino population....a good 75% of the girls there had ditched whoever brought them there.
If for some stupid reason you want to bring her over better not be a big age difference...If she is young and hot and you are old and fat you are just pissing your money away.
Mine was 10 years younger and she still screwed the local highschool football team (years younger than her).
Thanks Paul for sharing your thoughts and experiences. Hopefully it might help some guys decide what is the best course of action in their case. There are lots of things to consider, both short and long term, and bad decisions very costly.
Bring her on a short trip, I wouldn’t live in the west so somebody wanting to live there is a deal breaker anyways.
Dont know why this video dont have 1million views...
This advice has just saved my future. (Which currently is very secure) - thank you
Every man should watch this video !
If you can't move her to the west without her going off the rails then you had the wrong girl to begin with. Simple as that.
Nope. Cause people change as their opportunities change. If it wasn’t the case, why would anyone have to find a woman in the Philippines.
You need to get jobs where you work side by side and get to know each other well. Do easy outdoor activities together. Cook together. Dont sit around getting wide watching TV and movies. The beginning of the end is you working apart from her, she being all alone in a house or apartment getting bored and lonely. 5 guys hitting on her everyday and you cop a bad attitude one day and start directing traffic. She can team up real quick with another PI love refugee girl and do Thelma and Louise on you. The song....."my little run away". You dont want to have to have to go get her back. This species is prone to over-exercise freewill. I think to make it work, get jobs working in a greenhouse side by side for a year. Just saying.
Hello Paul enjoyed this Topic Very Much . You Nailed it Man , Totally Agree with you 100% ! I am from outside Philadelphia , and You and Me
have the exact Same Characterization of Women in America , Fat , Obese , Whales , etc ., so True I know Many . I am built like you , skinnier ,
but I know Women and it is Disgusting their Arms are bigger than my Leg . Gross ! Keep your Girl Happy in the Philippines ! Stay Blessed Paul .
If I ever returned to work I would go MGTOW, I would not be bothered to put and time and effort into dating there, the juice is just not worth the squeeze.
@@paulsasianadventure8050 Thanks for Nice
Reply Paul . I Do Not Date Here in USA
Cause There is Nothing That Interest Me
at All ! I want to come to Philippines and
Be Somewhat Like You . Stay Blessed.
There is simply NO reason for a man to marry ever. Never make a legal contract with another person who gets paid to break that contract..
Thanks for this information Paul. What advice do you or Mia have regarding a filipina protecting herself from a western husband who decides to leave for greener pastures; specially if they have had children together. I’ve also become aware that Articles 147 & 148 of the family code provide filipina rights for 50% wages/possessions accumulated during cohabitation. No protective contracts are allowed for cohabitation (source: Filipino Pea - Protecting Your Assets for Your Partner in the Philippines)
For a moment I thought it was an instructional video on how to keep pet snakes. But it’s dual purpose
You’re wrong for that, Pedro…hahah
Really good tips here, sir. Just found your channel and appreciate how succinctly you laid out the points. I was seriously considering meeting a Filipina online in search of a wife, but after watching your video I’m going to switch off my dating profile and just live the single dad/bachelor life for at least 5 - 10 more years, after which I’m hoping to retire at 57 and then look for a wife. The risks are just too great for me to gamble anymore. I want to enjoy my life while I can…subbed!
Good clear cut video😳
Paul , if you try and impose those conditions on your Filipina when she comes to Australia, you will be charged with “ Coercive Control”. Caries a penalty of five years jail
so if your women doesn't want you to hang out with your friends or drinking buddies that is also coercive control after all.
Cry me a river. Australia sucks anyway, I would know, I've been here all my life.
paul I agree with you . But how am I to live there? I don’t have a coveted hard to get good paying remote career.
My job is in America where I have to show up everyday . Unless your rich or can work remotely how does a normal 9-5 job kina guy like me live in ph where I’m in control with my terms ? and keep her in The east
Study Web programming online for 6 months, it's free or you pay $25 a month, then you can get a career as a web programmer, work remotely meaning you can live in philippines working for america making american money.
Perfect description of what we all fear. Both here in the West and with the idea of getting one's partner back to one's country.
If a guy is younger with not much net worth yet then the risk/benefit is probably ok. When a guy is older he has a lot more to lose and less time or no time to make it up.
Seems obvious, but many STILL do not "get it". Go to the Philippines to LIVE, and your marriage will last.
Rollo Tomassi Philippines edition. Well done!
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I will have to totally agree. i wish i had watched this before our trip back to the states, it would have saved me over $100,000 (a very long story). it took over 7years to get her here. her visa took 5 of those years. plus the tradition of having to pay her parents monthly expenses was something i was told i didn't have to worry about. which was a lie. i send $250 a month for the past 7 years I am about broke I now its their tradition, not mine, but wives have a way on making your life miserable if you don't pay her parents rent and food.. Im wondering why doesn't this father get a job? because dumb-heads like me feel sorry for her family and i pay them. my wife has 3 siblings that their hubby's dont have to pay a penny to the parents. just me, ha. just wonderful.
Maybe you could have added in advice about getting the snip too. That's another high risk scenario for geezers losing power and money.
Spot on, spot on. Your commentary is well composed, even pithy, and in the context of my experience and observations, very accurate.
So, this is always the big question I guess, but I've known MANY guys married to Filipinas and they never had any problems. The one thing in common is similar age and they were building families together. The divorce rate for couples like that is less than the national avg. in the US.
I brought a Filipina here who is 11 years younger and we've toughed it out through whatever came our way. But, she's from rural PH, Catholic background though not devout. Divorce is not a thing with their families where she's from.
She's westernized some, but she's also a manager in retail, so it was necessary. We're retiring in the PH. At least she knows why we need AC now :-) We've been together 15 years, going on a lifetime.
She's seen how American women are and frankly it's not something she admires, so she's been maintaining a balance between the PH and the US, and honestly I've seen this a bit, once again mostly with couples that started families here, and the husband met the wife in the PH while they were in the military.
Paul.
Divorce should not have to be a drama .
As long as she goes her way and you go your way.
However.
In the west men are screw from the very moment. You think
Of having a nucky.
Add a pilipinas with full rights .
And then you can sing
Yourself. To hell
Amen .gloria sa dios amigos.
You could be the smart man by not getting married. That way you don't put yourself and her through all these hoops. I've known many philippinas that have come to America. Some remain true to their values but some believe the lie that they are the most exotic person many Americans have ever seen. Their heads blow up like the good year blimp. I find it comical when they behave this way as I know within a few short years even the philippina will smash into the proverbial wall. So don't get married and avoid all the stresses and financial ruin that come with it. Good luck gentlemen.
Hi! With all due respect, we all know that we have a different perspective, different experiences we encountered and that is understandable but I couldn’t more agree about “no friends to divorced women/single parent etc.”
Isn’t it controlling from what she is/who she is; manipulating in every way what she does to herself? And how can it be so called “healthy relationship”when in fact there’s only one person trying to control in their relationship? How about her thoughts,ideas,plans,wants and needs? Isn’t it considered to be shared with you when she’s your partner after all.
How can you tell if it’s love and there is love between you two, by dictating her, where is the respect, trust and loyalty in there?
The happy and healthy relationship works by two person, support each others, good and in bad situation. What partners are for.
P.S.
It’s my own opinion, no hate just ♥️.
More videos to come Paul! Cheers 🥂.
Relationship is not about controlling or manipulating a woman.
Any man who takes that route will lose.
And he will have to pay alimony monthly for the rest of his life.
And ambitious woman should not be
Unequally yoked.
Marriage is a complimentary lifestyle sacrificial lifestyle and a provisional lifestyle implemented in love.
Marriage is for women who wants to settle down and follow the part of a husband who in return will give her uniformity and some security
I think you meant "I could not DISagree more...". And I agree with you. Not allowing your wife to associate with divorced women or have women friends seems like a QUICK recipe for disaster, ESPECIALLY here in the West. That's ALL she'd have to tell her new female friends at work, and they'd be working OVERTIME to find her a better, more equal partner. Maybe that's why this guy went back to the Philippines.
@@thomasthumim7630 guess you can put that to the test. Good luck
Ver well said.
@@thomasthumim7630 Very well ssid.
1) Another major risk factor: When the husband has long work hours and/or job involving travel.
2) Paul, you did not take about children, children are a huge factor.
Online = disaster. Yes Been there, done that, lost the money and learned a lesson.
What happened?
Yessir. The sweetest , kindest , loveliest Pinay did that to me the moment she could
I think what it boils down to, in the west you may no longer be her best option. This is especially true if she's young and attractive and there's a big age gap. In the Philippines you're the one with the options. In the west it's her who will have the options. So, if you couldn't find a young, attractive woman at home but did in the Philippines, it's probably best to stay in the Philippines. However, if she's with you because above all else she loves you, chances are she'll still love you if you bring her home to the west.
Hey Paul, for the timestamps to show up as video chapters, you have to include one that starts at 0:00. Anyway, love the content-thanks so much!
Another excellent presentation...... You are telling a truthful and realistic scenario of the Facts of "Cultural Contrasts" that exist from one culture to the other.....
An ***excellent*** video! It will save a lot of people from DISASTER !
Pay-as-you-go is a much easier way with Filipinas
also what you fail to realize its the most expensive way.
a moderately priced call girl is 100$ a session. if you want Love every day thats 3k a month.
if your married an get divorced, and smart about it (keep you cars/Home in family names) all you have to if thats her intent is just to pay for the divorce papers which is under a grand. Even at a one year marriage.. 3k X 12 =36k saved had you paid for it. that was free during the marriage beyond the divorce papers cost, and going out and spending a little on her in that time frame.
🐅 *_I'm impressed, Paul! Great Ruby Colored Capsule video! I'm curious who you watch on the YT! It'd be fun to talk to you about it sometime!_*
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"hippos and whales" Bahahahah! I spit my drink out when I heard that.
excellent video on this topic...... tell your filipina right in the beginning of a relationship that you are intending to stay in philippines and have no intentions of going back to the west. and also that you have no intentions of processing a passport of the western country for her either......
most will bypass you, which would be good for you......however, if she really loves you, she will stay with you....
nice share😍
U should be very ashamed for leaving Mia, she will be much better off without you, she is a great person.
Very good advise Paul. Women will always do what is best for them. And if you have a child the man falls behind the child in importance. Keep it GF and not marry. If it F__ks, flies or floats rent it.
100 percent right donr take them to the west, plenry of younger guys ready to take her on, crazy thing is most of these guys never been out od the Usa and have no passport, so you basically have made some young guys dream at your exspense
Married an exception! However, we met in Singapore not via LDR. And we are close in status, not together due to looks, etc. married seven years and living in the USA. And neither of us could do better!! I loved the factors to consider too.
Hey Paul my friend, you are absolutely right. Great advice. I will definitely not be moving my soon to be wife to the United States. I will be moving to the Philippines once everything opens up. Thank you for sharing this awesome video my friend. Please stay safe and healthy, and God bless you and Mia always.😊 😊 😊 ❤️ ❤️ ❤️
see you hopefully soon
Why marry? No upside and huge downside
"Nothing to Fear but fear itself" was FDR :-)
Mate! That wa a invaluable advice! Thank you.
Paul- it’s high-per-ga-me with the stress on the “per”
Total agreement. Painful lesson
Just say no!
Once she gets the purple hair, you’ve lost her forever!
Thinking about bringing her back? Then ask a FRIEND this Question "Hey Pal, do you think if I MET her in MY Country She'd Date Me?". If the Answer is "No", you AIN'T Gonna be ABLE to KEEP Her. You WILL get FLEE$ED in Family Law Court. DON'T DO IT!!!
Thank you for sharing your experience and “lessons learned”
Does this applies to older filipinas?
Great, good, solid advice.
I feel like you’re going over the same topics again. Do you have anything new you can talk about? Where did you go on your trip?
FDR not Churchill
You don’t know her for a year or 2? I feel I’ve always seen red flags within 3 months. Is this my naivety showing and 2 years is really essential to know someone?
They can't hide everything over a long enough period of time. You'll figure it out by the 1-2 year mark, 2 years for sure. But some are academy award winning long game actresses, I must admit.
How many Western men are married or dating Filipinas that are on faithful there 🤔🤔🤔 and I’m always wondering why was the western man divorced in the first place in the US or country that he came from does it not have anything with the two-sided fence 🤔🤔🤔
I agree,🤔
True Words 👍🏼😎
So true. This should be written in the sky
Great video ...much appreciated
Oh hell get a Dog
Very good Paul. Your 1,2,3 points method helps absorb the info clearly, then the experience of you w others along w hard statistics really support those points and cautions. That combo makes this far more than an opinion but a fact based analysis of risk -whether viewers like it or not. I do have a friend w a 15 year good marriage to a Filipina here in US but they are very close in age - also supporting your advice.
Yes true.
I know a guy that’s married to a Pinay that refuses to bring her to the states. Although she pleads with him to send her there he won’t lol. He visits the islands maybe 2-3 times a year and supports her and her family, she just gave birth last year. I asked him why not and these points are all what he mentioned. He KNOWS she will leave him 100% and I’m like why are you married to her than and simple… He loves her… She’s super attractive so I can see the issue, but man must be tough not seeing your wife every morning.
Hard to wake up without her, but harder to go through the divorce machine ....
I 've grown to like you Paul...
Hello Paul, is it a bad idea to move her to the west if we are both the same age? We are both 20 years old. She is attracted to me physically and she is in love, she never asks for money, she really likes me and is into me
It's a bad idea to move her to the west if there is an age gap since she will leave you for a younger man.... But what if you're the same age?
I need advice
Hi M.G no matter the age, the girl will change due to different social constraints in the US and in the Philippines, as an example a woman leaving a guy in the Philippines is really looked down upon, while in the US they almost cheer her with you go girl. Now it also depends on what she can contribute to you. What is she bringing to the table? is she educated? DOes she have skills that will make her earn $$ to contribute ? How well do you really know her? how much time have you spent with her?
The supply of expats outstrips the demand!!!
I met my girlfriend in Bahrain so she understands western attitudes and spent 6 months here. she’s back in Philippines now. Her coming to the U.K. is the most viable option as I need to work full time as I’m in my 30’s. She’s the same age as me.
In what field are you working? Since you are an international traveller how about meeting up halfway ? Like in Dubai? I know, exoenaivey but there are guys who do it. Their family live in ph.
Working with cranes in construction. I would have to move to AP level (management) atleast but out in the gulf countries I’d be competing with Filipinos/Indians that will work for $1000 a month where I’d need atleast triple that.
I’m trying to get into work I can do online as I don’t particularly like my field I’m in.
Don't do it dude, you will regret it. Been through it myself.