It was disagreements night last night. It brings out the less intelligent people. It makes for entertaining and sometimes educational content. He basically said “the sky is blue... who disagrees”. This show had a better topic for more normal people to participate.
When I was 21, an established man age 39 wanted to date me. He had a city job was single with no children making 85,000 this was in 1999. I had no kids etc. my dad hated him because he thought he was trying to take advantage of me. I’m married to a HVM today and he’s 1 year older than me. He had potential and was on the right track. My dad loved him. Today we’ve been married for 16 years with 3 kids, black couple in a six figure house hold. I agree with age gap but not if the man acts like you’re a child he can control and that’s what my dad looked out for. My dad helped me make the right choice.
Your father did the right thing. I find it weird that people go after partners that can literally be their child. Majority of the time it’s not even about having a connection, these elderlies just be lusting over young bodies.
Tonight was SIGNIFICANTLY better compared to all the previous ones. Good conversations with no bs mental games or hair splitting arguments from callers talking about “I feel I feel I feel” 🙌🏽💯
Yes, a great engagement of back and forth, with a respectful transfer of wisdom for the first caller. I enjoyed it. But like Kevin, I could not follow the second in any concrete way…. Likely had great difficulty with English class, as I did. (But I’m a great teacher now 😂).
I like the first caller. My wife agreed to marry me when I still had a year left in college. Now we are both 30, married for 5 years, and she has been able to stay at home the last 2 years with our second child. She waited until I became an engineer.
@@easyxyg facts. I just see so many of our ladies calling in with degrees saying they left the person they were dating. On the flip side...other races go to college to find a man.
Respecting A Man's Life and The Goals He Has and the Way he Moves and What , She Can Do To Build Together and Growth Be Straight up and Ladies Femininity is A Absolutely 💯 a Must
@@jollygoodgordon5580 so glad my wife was raised by her parents and church which sent her out into the world respecting the title of "Wife" and that's she's so determined to live up to the responsibilities that the role entails. That old quote is so true that it's easier to raise a child right than to fix an adult. That is where we, as a society, need to put more focus. I swear, if Kevin doesn't start a channel aimed towards the next generation soon, I will. It has to be done because (oh dear God) they have no clue how badly they're messing it up. Edit: I understand that this channel can be viewed by the younger generation. To me, it's very focused on the women currently looking and explaining what went wrong to those who are past their prime. I talk to my daughters, my nieces, and nephews and so on and most don't have a clue what they are doing. My daughters do because we are raising them to be "Super Wife" like their Mother but I want to expand that. Hopefully help them succeed and avoid the same mistakes myself and others have made (so they don't have to worry about struggling through the recoveries). I meant no disrespect to Mr. Samuels.
If you really know then you know this how Kevin started out with the Men..people criticize how he is with women but he’s really even harsher with the Men 😂😂 it’s really necessary to hear especially from an elder man
Yeah but that first caller.... Jesus christ he was displaying feminine traits. He could not let stuff go when he was clearly wrong and had no point....
Were are the sound effects and racial stereotypes in the comments about men? Yeah that's definitely not true. Telling 27-35 y.o women they are old but 30 and 40 y.o men have time, nah he's not harsher by a long shot. He's also not clowning dudes for have kids.
That’s dope! I’ve been putting off getting a bike for years it was one of my favorite things to do as a kid I’m making it a priority to get one before the year is up. You’re not alone we’re in the same boat definitely need to be fit again. Let’s Go!
Ladies, if a man doesn't know how to wear a pair of pants like an adult and his pants are hanging half off their butt, this should be your first clue that that guy is going no place in life. Other simple clues would be do they have a steady job, are they going to school, can they speak professionally, what kind of friends to they hang out with, are they productive or always looking for short cuts and angles. You don't need to do a lot of deep thinking to see in a few minutes if a man is going to be a productive member of society and have the ability to take care of a family.
The second gentleman cannot communicate clearly because he is not used talking straightforward. He’s used to talking in circles and not clarifying his thoughts. He’s been conditioned to hide his real agenda. He’s a player. Strike two.
True....He is condition to be slick to protect one's self from people who would take advantage of a situation...ie ghetto, jail, parole, gang active, family members etc. He has to unlearn this rambling speaking to learn how to be precise and clear with communication.
Fellow medical student here. I think the caller thought that the fact hes a medical student (and will soon be a doctor) means that women should swoop him up based on this. Like kevin said, its more important to work out HOW to sell yourself. This man needs to do this: workout, understand female nature, develop a high status social circle, work on a side hustle outside of medical school so that he can foster a lifestyle that balances his life as a Doctor and is appealing to women. I remember I had a bit of an ego thinking I had high value traits just because of the fact I was in medical school. The problem was that I let medical school lift my reputation as opposed to me lifting my own name BY THE PERSON I AM. Good conversation.
I was literally smiling the whole time! This session was absolutely informative and KS was really respectful and calm with the young men 👏🏾👏🏾 he was teaching what needs to be taught …and as a woman I also learnt a lot. 💖✨💖✨
People keep getting hung up on potential when the future is unknown. Went to high school with a guy that went to college with a full ride he ended up dropping out after 4 months due to drugs. So in high school he had high potential but didn’t capitalize on it.
I don't know I taught potential is working at entry level at a tech firm making 45,000 but in a couple of years it's raised to 90,000 and so on. That's potential and ain't nothing wrong with that. I
@@domolad771 you're not wrong, KS is just saying start to think how you can articulate that in a up selling way, not just say it to say it, and when you get to the high end, the entry levels will be losing to you.. That guy is 28 by the time he's 35 if he dates wisely he'll have more experience, remain childless and by time he's ready for marriage he'll be debt free too, from 28-35 he should knock out that student loan
Also when he actually becomes the doctor he will want the best woman he can get.. the woman hes with now may not be her..when he earns more he will have access to better and this is why woman dont like building with men.
The point about leaving the house for certain amount of hours in the day 🔥 BIG GEMS! The men I’ve attracted in the past has always been hard working, I always loved that. But also at first I kinda didn’t like it. Bc they were prioritizing their work over me. But now I want nothing less. A man in his purpose is man I’ll follow any day.
These ‘gems’ are just crude substitutes for what true masculinity really is. Trying to imitate guys that have really got substance but copying the wrong things. He doesn’t need to be out working, he just has to have an aim.. and coordinate his intent to achieve that aim. He could be doing it in the living room or kitchen. As long as he separates himself from external demands on his attention and focuses on coordinating his intent, he’s good. Let’s not boil things down to vacuous things like just going out of the house lol that don’t make a masculine man. Sigh
Shout outs to you @A2Z TV. Peeped a few of your videos already. Also, I am glad you clearly stated in your comment things like wanting your man to be hardworking and also to be in his purpose. But I guess other people might read that backwards or totally miss it lool.
The last woman I dated could not grasp this concept. She made comments twice about me working too much the third time she brought it up I asked her if she’d prefer a man who was broke? She basically said she wanted a man with money but also constant attention and companionship recognizing the potential for her to be unfaithful I broke it off.
@@theorderlyman8042 Oh yeah, all the high paying jobs where you sit in the living room with the family while making 6 figures. Those are great, aren't they. Silly Kevin thinking people paying you a huge salary expect you to show up to work and stay late from time to time.
Man I would have loved to call in this show. My ex-wife was upset with me because of my ideas always worked whereas her ideas did not. I said over and over I didn't care who's idea it was, I am only concerned with the results. I had to remind her that I am doing this for us! She did not care!
Same thing here. She actually was mad when I had success cause she couldn't take credit for it. Brought my first big commission check over 1k and she began shaming me for not doing it faster. I went from minimum wage to 1k a week in less than a year. I said that the way she responded why would I do it for her at all.
I had this issue with my wife at first also. She has finally learned to listen to me and not fight me. I will drive us in the right direction, but i had to make her understand that she couldnt grab the steering wheel every 5 seconds. She finally got it and its been great.
Good point. He allows people to paint themselves in a corner and then show them how to get back out. Most of the time people have their ideas but they haven't considered the rest of the world they live in.
@chai ke - it’s great because he shows the same accountability and example to the men. Accepting that accountability on both sides is what will make us powerful and help rebuild this broken community of ours (blk ppl).
The most important thing Kevin said in this broadcast that young men need to understand is... "IT'S NOT YOUR TURN YET". Too many young men hop off the porch TOO EARLY and make critical mistakes. "Delayed Gratification" will save your life!
Sir young girls are not signing up to be with old man. Most girls would sign up to be with younger man like themselves. That’s nasty. You all sounds Predatorial!
@@hatianchocolate123 Go outside and you'll see that there is a large portion of young women who date men 5-15 years older than them. Women are as free as ever in 2021 America and are actively choosing older men. Most may choose their peers, but MANY choose older.
@@mgm8075 😂 😂 Okay if you say so. Like I told someone else on here, younger women choose older men to take care of them (sponsorships) all of this MANY you’re talking about are woman who don’t see the long haul and want money. It’s funny how you don’t see young girls with broke men only rich guys but okay. You all think it’s love 😆. I want to grow old with my husband and take care of our kids together. Not some men who is past his prime and still trying to be young and have something to prove. If he is 40 when I met him and he dies at 50 our kids will be ten. Meaning I’ll be 35 , also means I will be that same single mother you all love to talk so “lovely” about on here 🤔. When I want to find someone else again then we it will be pain for me because “ being a single mom is a liability not an asset” Most of these men barely take care of themselves with right nutrition to make it to 60. So like I said no thank you. I see the longer haul and I would marry my age with potential over established any minute. You older men need to date woman your own age.
I wish somebody told me this in my early 20s. I would be in a much different place had I realized a woman is at her highest value young. And men reach our peaks later in life. I never understood why my potential wasn’t noticed, and lost myself in the process. Im 39 and just now hitting my stride. Stay focused young men. Just keep grinding and keep learning.
@@jeremiahwat1 Gentleman, if it was you, congratulations for acknowledging the problem. Sometimes we need to recognize that we are not right all the time, given the fact that here you are in a learning session if I may say. All the best man. Please focus on being a High Value Man, but do not forget to build up your character. ✌ LNP
He is currently being indoctrinated to think his "Title" always makes him right because of the potential of earning $3- 400, 000. 00 a year. Silly young buck, tricks are for kids! I am glad Kevin reschool him within his thought process about HVM vs HEM. Money is the basic towards providing some sort of secure but the other 5 elements are of great importance to be considered a HVM.
Idk, I realize he’s overvaluing himself on potential, but men who are on the cusp of a highly respected and earning career should get more respect from women. We want to rag on him for trying to lean into his potential, but what are the women providing to his life anyway? If they just show up a 7/10 with nothing to offer but sex, they are a dime a dozen. I think he had a solid case for young men being undervalued.
@@bustedpillsburybiscuitcan8295 I want to agree with you on this because I'm 28 and working towards my next level, but this video makes me realize that if I'm going for high standard living, I'm getting graded on high standards. Is it fair, no, but I'm going for high standards like that man is. I'm cheering him on and hope he makes it, but I can't cut slack. I'm starting to see what it really takes to be a HVM.
Dating and focusing on relationships when your in your growth period is the absolute worst thing you can do in life. It detracts from your trajectory and if the relationship goes wrong it can debilitate your ambition. Focus on yourself ,your social circle and values and you’ll find someone that fits your purpose The desire to be in a relationship can become so strong that it can become toxic and it comes from societal pressure and conditioning.
Exactly.. N why marry with student debt, it'll affect the lifestyle in the long run .. He should also focus on knocking that out remaining childless until marriage, by 35 he'll in a better position mentally and financially
Not true... You are designed to mate young. Historically people married young and lived for decades with one mate. The issue is "picking" the right mate. That's what made arrange marriages so successful for thousands of years. Parents looked for women who could build, came from good families, and could be a good resource for their prized sons. There was no accounting for sexual attraction. They knew after sex the wedding night everything would work itself out. But our American economy runs on sexuality so therefore solutions of the past are not considered profitable so therefore not promoted.
@@romanfilmgod bro the end of your comment proved my point. In my case personally many of us don’t know how to be in relationships and it has a lot to do with maturity. A lot of us stepped into relationship when we were younger and had no clue the dynamics or complexities or natures we were dealing with. Last thing: based on what the manosphere is teaching it’s the woman that mates young. And if you think about from a biblical sense Adam was older than eve when he was given his woman
@@LordeGainz There is a reason Bar mitzvah exist.. it is a coming of age celebration it is a time when a boy transitions into a man. Marriage and reproduction is a part of manhood. The issues young men have today is not only are we not taught to be mature. We don't seek out maturity. There was a time boys wanted to become young men as soon as possible. But todays youth/ young men want to stay children as long as possible. They don't push themselves to mature. They don't push themselves to have careers. They don't push themselves to become good/husbands. They seek out excuses to avoid accountability and maturity as long as possible. Part of being a man is desire to be a man. Most want to stay children with excuses as long as possible. Up until the 20th century life expectancy was on average only up until your mid 20's hence the need for bar and bat mitzvah's. Life was short you had to grow up and build a family and procreate as soon as possible. But now that life expectancy is into the early to mid 70's (blackmen 55) we think we can stay children longer. Growing up, maturing is desire. If men take longer today to mature. It is because they do not desire to do it sooner. Because for thousands of years. We did not have a choice but to mature because you knew you would die soon, so you had no choice but to grow up and be about life. Life was real and you had no choice but to be a man. Now men are choosing not to be. Maturity is a choice, being a man is a choice.
The segment with the 28-year-old is a hard pill to swallow. It makes me realize that a great man of his caliber is still not meeting the metrics for an amazing partner yet. I got a lot of work to do. The other segment on communication was a hard one for me as well. Communicating well with a significant other is a skill I have to learn. I also need to learn how to admit when I'm wrong.
The first conversation was actually really good. In his way, I think Kevin actually liked the question. Otherwise, I don't believe he would have went in for so long. He taught me something too. Even though I'm married with children it's still great to learn this stuff.
Yes, it really was !!! I see what both sides are saying. I think the young man was saying that even though he’s not fully established, he’s working towards doing so legitimately. He wants a woman with that same mentality and build something together. Kevin is saying that the outcome is the better result. Definitely a good conversation!
There are levels to this thing. My daughter already knows not to bring home any dude that isn’t about something. “But, daddy, I loves him.” Counts for exactly zero to me. I’m investing too much blood, sweat, and tears into her and my son for them to bring home some ragamuffin.
What if they didn’t bring them home and just lived their life?? You must have your children under financial slavery. It’s 2021 your kid’s will be fucking before you meet the first potential.
No offense, but your helicopter parenting will eventually backfire on you at some point. Kids, who are controlled and managed to the point of suffocation, ultimately rebel and lash out against their parents later in life. I've seen it countless times. I know you care deeply about your kids and you want what's best for them, but I'd thought you should know that there is another side to that type of parenting.
@The Gentrified Gentleman I hear that, but he's been listening to KS and he isn't in Nigeria. He needs to get out of his own head and realize where he's at ya know?
He's in the final year of Med School, with good board scores, on track for an Anesthesiology Residency. After 3 years, he'll be board certified and making something between $300K-$500K/year. He's as sure a bet as it's possible to be when it comes to "betting on potential." Him still having to justify himself as a valid relationship prospect to women is bizarre.
@The Gentrified Gentleman I'm from metro Detroit myself. All I'm saying is dude needs to realize he's in America, if he wants to get a good Nigerian girl he should go to the continent or get something arranged here with one, but he wants everything to just go his way and that is not on average what happens in America, let alone life. Women here, even the transplants are different, this loose morals culture and feminist rhetoric is too pervasive.
Feminists: You don’t need to hand her over like property. She’s a smart independent queen capable of making her own decisions. 💅💅💅👸👑💄💋👄 Fukbois (sees fatherless woman): 😈😈😈😈😈
The 28 year old man needs to listen to his elders. He thinks he’s lived life and has enough experience but he’s still clueless to the world. I’m 34 and still feel like I’m barely touching the service of how the world works. Every 6 months I feel like I have a grasp of the world, 6 months later I realize how dumb my old self was compared to who I am now, and I’m also aware that this present self is going to feel dumb compared to my older self. Be humble and listen to those who are older and much more successful than you. That’s the quickest way you can level up.
Good communication is definitely key. Many men don’t realize the reason their message most likely is getting lost in translation is due to their over complication and ramblings, rather than getting straight to the point and making it simple. I’ve been guilty of that and it’s something you gotta be mindful of! 💯
This is not a complete sentence. I cannot figure out the intent… it needs a comma after “him” because you’ve only written the subject…. The predicate is missing.
Most women are willing to submit to their MAN. When the male/female roles are not clearly defined and the woman is forced to make a majority of the decisions a man should be making she looses respect and confidence in that man. As a result, she’s labeled as being too aggressive or having masculine energy.
@@killamatrix1 Right..lol , and the reason it’s this way is because females are not raised with traditional values anymore. They’re raised to be independent and have their own. So then us men come along and want submission and they’re like “what? Dude plz i’ve been doing this shit on my own..” only way you’ll get it now is if you’re social economic status is much higher than hers and it better stay that way, don’t fall off bro because it can be retracted real quick! Lol
@@killamatrix1 A feminine woman loves a strong take charge masculine male and will absolutely submit to a MAN that is her protector and provider. You act as if Submission is a bad thing. We want our men to lead.
@@sunnybeach4837 wow. That’s sad that you think this way. That’s like saying all women cheat. Women want to be protected emotionally and physically by their man, and will not risk losing that if they have it.
5000 more subscribers before 1 million subs; this is wonderful. I started watching KS last year July so this is really great that he will hit 1 mil subs exactly 12 months after I started watching. So happy for KS.
I understand both points because love doesn’t have shit to do with it. If he’s older but can actually take care of my daughter I’m cool with it and he’s a good man then fine but as long as he’s not older than me 😂
Likely because you were raised by a single mom in the American system. Our ancestors 100 years ago would laugh at a girl dating a young unestablished male. Especially if she had the option of an older established business owner. Why? One would make the entire family more successful and bring more resources.
Yes, I *feel* the exact same way about my daughter marrying some mf close to my age. Now it's okay if *I* get with a younger woman. Yeah, I'm the KANG of the double standard. Uh-huh, I said "feel." *And?* 🤣
The first caller made a good point. Most young women has no desire to be with old men 50 and over. All my daughters just said they would choose the first caller over old men 50 and older. This brother is on his way to a great future. Kevin is wrong.
Woman here- as far as age gaps go, the most I'm willing to entertain, is five years older, just like with my own parents. I don't want to date a 50 year old man. Not looking for that.
This was an amazing video. I got with my woman at 23 and she definitely took a chance on little potential. Luckily the outcome became great! I’m just the exception, remember that. Wait and find the best later so you can pick by hand.
YES!!! This is the kind of interaction with the men that I was waiting for. We don't want to argue disagreements, we want to learn. Great job Mr. Samuels.
Best thing the Godfather taught me “ Why should someone marry you? What makes you a wife?” 💍 This made me exam that I haven’t been trained to be a wife, I’ve been trained to stay single aka “ it’s all about me”. Great video today❤️
@@minimalist_monk he’s not teaching how to stay married.. but since he’s been married twice that implies he values or has put value in getting married. If he’s done that, he has knowledge & wisdom for those who desire coupling.
@@triggatre3105 men start out with the perfect guy act then turn narc 🤣 I ain’t worried bout what women need to do bc I always pick the guy that makes me happy I just wanted to let the world know why it seems women do what they do.
Agreed! Worse than growing up without a father is growing up with one physically there, but not much more than that. One with no leadership, guidance, or direction to “be on his purpose,” where eventually the mom becomes the provider and the marriage fails. 😔
@@jessitabonita I totally agree BUT I also believe we're all grown people who can make choices and bettering yourself is a choice. A lot of modern men and women are stuck in their comfort zone unfortunately 😩
He cares about outcomes and his personal life outcome is 2 divorces ,not ambiguous daughter situation and not that rich with dwindling interest (lower views)
The guy with the dreads should be honest and admit he was a 'kept man'- lol... meaning he more than likely didn't work during the marriage and the wife sadly turned to being masculine. Sad scenario.
Sad but true, I have a friend who is just like that, unfortunately he is not masculine and he was in a feminine space always washing dishes and cooking because he wasn’t working. She cheated twice and shows no respect for him. He doesn’t understand why since he does “everything” for her. It’s a sad thing to see
This episode was very valuable. As a man I learned where I did wrong with regards to my ex. The operation inside home is her domain and I violated her feminine space. Granted I am accustomed to doing things for myself. But the home is her domain and I violated the unwritten masculine and feminine agreement. I see my error now and how she must have felt. I think one of the things we get wrong as men is not understanding women are just as territorial as us. The nest, the den is hers. Everything around that we can claim as ours but the nest is hers. Thanks KS for pointing this out. With this new found knowledge I am better equipped for my next relationship.
😊Shout out to the GODFATHER, Keep preaching those words of wisdom. I'm 20 and with the way things are going, I'm becoming a more knowledgeable man 👨 Thank you Mr Samuel, we love you here in South Africa.
*Thanks for commenting, I will refer you to my trade DANIEL and accountant to make good income, go more on digital assets, I'm not a fan of blowing my own trumpet but I assure you are in good hands in making it huge📊💰*
@Penderyn Lewsyn I understand as well though, hypothetically speaking, if a man is 22-28 fresh out of college and/or grad school. And if the women his equal are dating much older men that’s established who is he supposed to date?
@@ReidCast yeah, he has time. Plus he has residency and that's 80 hrs plus board exams. He's doesn't have time for mind games unless it's a woman of purpose
I'll admit. I think like him because we want a running mate in our younger years. We want to be the high school sweetheart or meet our partner freshman year of college. We're wondering how did one guy market himself so well to have a run mate while others have to go the long haul. Deep down, we hate being alone in the struggle of growth.
He’s about to be an anesthesiologist. I think he’s speaking on the woman’s behalf if that’s true what you say. That or she’s an astronaut or Vice President.
@@jeremiahwat1 it's sad because the ones that go the long haul come through it and no longer trust women to desire him for who he is over what he can do for her. They then go for the 8,9 and 10s because that what their money and status can buy but he won't have the loyalty or the trust.
@@MD-xb1qw I see myself in this guy. I actually want to become a anesthesiologist. And that's exactly the mindset I'm starting to discover. I'm 23 just now applying to medical school. I realized there's a lot of change that need to be done.
The last segment is the solution to everything! Happy wife is men letting her have control over HER space. We have to draw those boundaries and there will be peace! Amen and Amen
I disagree you can do both I think people need to stop saying this. You can build with a solid female whilist going to school people do it all the time.
58:40 "Pressure is made for shoulders, not for hips." - KS 🙌🏽💯 Congratulations on your soon-to-be 1 million subscribers Mr Samuels. Doing amazing work!!!
This Mans brilliance, is something else. I just look at him and say that's me at 50. To see what I would grow up into as a black Man is a wonderful feeling. Comprehension, lingual pedigree and analytical prowess. Thank you Sir I have learned so much from you.
I am Yoruba and my hubby is agbor. When we met I was in my mid twenties making six figures, and he was still in school doing his MBA. I didn’t date a lot and when I brought him home my parents were weary because his ability to take care of me. He loved me and promised my parents he would take care of me. My advice is trust God and ask for wisdom like Solomon did to be able to discern the right spouse God has sent you. There’s no math or hard rules to this thing.
Kevin is saying the Uber driver/musician can’t lead her anywhere. There has to be a hierarchy not only in a career but in that man’s decisiveness. He has to have direction for himself and outcome before he can direct them because she’s out producing him. Not to mention you don’t see musicians dating scientists, actors marrying doctors, construction contractors marrying biochemists, their in different socioeconomic classes.When they sit down at a table what will they talk about?
Whooooaaah pause bro, don’t discredit the Uber drivers, I drive Uber on the side and make an average of $20,000 extra a year on top of what I make at my day job working for the city of Philadelphia Water Department and Uber drivers make good money. I know some people who’ve quit their day jobs to drive Uber full time, me personally I wouldn’t suggest that because Uber isn’t stable enough for me to do that, plus I’m not quitting my job because I have a great pension plan and investments installed through my job. But that’s besides the point, the point is, Uber drivers make good money just to drive. And they’ll pay for free tuition if you meet certain requirements so you can actually send your kids to school on Uber for free.
@Kriss Perry so are people on onlyfans…Use that income to form a plan to perhaps own a transportation company…Because once Uber is over then what’s the next move for him? Income as a musician isn’t steady income either. It’s not even steady for popular artists. Unless they have a body of work making them passive income.
I was with you until that last sentence. Because I am not in any of those career paths, yet I have been able to hold conversations with people from many walks of life. Point is, when it comes to careers, it doesn't have much to do with the day to day dealings of life because what a person does for work rarely has any bearing on general conversations.
You realize that this is how a lot of people get sponsors and endorsements especially viral sensations. They will use or showcase a product that eventually gets associated with them as they increase in fame and notoriety. Companies watch for things like this and when your audience gets large enough often companies will approach you about sponsoring your content. This happens to professional gamers and other viral sensations alot.
This broadcast was informative and eye-opening for me as a man. I must concede that many of us are ineffective at listening, comprehension, and verbal communication and that we're not operating in masculine energy like we think we are. We have a lot of work to do. Admittedly, it's tough when you're raised without a father and have to figure out manhood for yourself. I wish this platform could've been around 20 years ago.
Love the topic and listening to the man's perspective was very insightful and helpful. The advice was on point and I see now men are trying as well but may need some guidance in communicating. But overall tonight was a great show.
Mr Samuels is a big advocate for older men dating younger women . I kind of understand he advocate that due to resources but come on not all women are compatible with older men .
Compatibility is a short term thing, genuine desire and respect are more important. The wide age gap works. Women are typical more socially advance than men their own age. For men it takes time to develop socially hence why he recommends 35 years for men to settle.
Of course "not all". Almost no one speaks for "all". I wholeheartedly agree with Samuels here. I want to give my daughters away to men, not boys. My oldest girl is 13. I've already told her that her future husband is somewhere in the world right now 25 years old. They'll marry in 10 years when she's 23 and he's got his mind, spirit, discipline, and finances together at 35 years old. Not all women, brotha, will or even need to understand this concept, but assuredly, MOST need to. Be well.
@@moe808 Don't you think it due to the way women are raised , it kind of forces them to mature faster? If the level of responsibility with a boy and girl child were at the same level do you think the women would mature faster ?
@@jaygarland9305 I think after 23 she should date someone who 5 years older than her cause her marrying and older man doesn't necessarily mean it will be a successful marriage considering 33 year old will start dating her at 21 when she isn't sure of what she wants. I get where you coming from
@@Mr_Shuku -- I have a baby on the way in a few months. I'd like a boy, but I'd be happy to have a child that is simply healthy. I'd like my 13 year old daughter to marry a Godly man who is established, but I'd be happy if she marries a man who is simply Godly. That is non-negotiable. She knows this, and she knows her life will be a penance if she goes rogue from thus baseline. As far as marrying an older gentleman, The Most High will decide. I have my thoughts and theories, but The Most High will determine everything for my family.
Would a woman rather have a brand new car or a old out dated car with car issues. The younger attracted brother will win over the older man every time. The first caller made great points.
5k away from 1 Million subscribers! I've been here since 14k subs and men's styling advice, been a pleasure to witness the growth. Shows the power of hard work and consistency, you deserve it!! 🙌🏾☀️
48 Laws of Power and 33 Strategies of War are also amazing books . Most books by Robert Greene are good. You have to read these books with an open mind cuz they are filled with manipulation.
PREACH! We have a hard time accepting there is a social class in our community.. we run into issues when we try to date everyone not even knowing that person's background ☹️ I have had those issues before until I started accepting who I was and accepting not everyone is for everyone..
*Thanks for commenting, I will refer you to my trade DANIEL and accountant to make good income, go more on digital assets, I'm not a fan of blowing my own trumpet but I assure you are in good hands in making it huge📊💰*
Most definitely a true statement. Guess they feel they’ve reached the highest tier in a relationship. So no more work has to be done beyond that point.
The last conversation hit ! Space makes the heart grow fonder! Most black men are confused on what’s supposed to be happening when with significant other vs time for self, career, and social life. Respect the man cave and girls time.
I'm sorry but my daughter is going with the 28 year old whose a year away from becoming an Anesthesiologist. Potential has levels. There's a difference from talking, and someone who's a year away from his accomplishment. "The need to be right"
Guys who called in tonight, thank you all for representing better today.
Yes because the other night was horrible
Oh..I don't do Instagram..I don't think it's necessary, but a lot of people may say otherwise
Yes, they did. I just saw your channel too, nice contents by the way. Sub.
It was disagreements night last night. It brings out the less intelligent people. It makes for entertaining and sometimes educational content. He basically said “the sky is blue... who disagrees”. This show had a better topic for more normal people to participate.
@@damilarekareem185 yes saw it too. 👍
When I was 21, an established man age 39 wanted to date me. He had a city job was single with no children making 85,000 this was in 1999. I had no kids etc. my dad hated him because he thought he was trying to take advantage of me. I’m married to a HVM today and he’s 1 year older than me. He had potential and was on the right track. My dad loved him. Today we’ve been married for 16 years with 3 kids, black couple in a six figure house hold. I agree with age gap but not if the man acts like you’re a child he can control and that’s what my dad looked out for. My dad helped me make the right choice.
That’s the Importance of fathers in the house hold. Logical thinking
@@Dom_Solo why the eye roll?
Excellent!!! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 I love your story! My father would choose the younger guy as well. 💯
@@diplomat2623 thanks and nice 🙌🏾
Your father did the right thing. I find it weird that people go after partners that can literally be their child. Majority of the time it’s not even about having a connection, these elderlies just be lusting over young bodies.
Tonight was SIGNIFICANTLY better compared to all the previous ones. Good conversations with no bs mental games or hair splitting arguments from callers talking about “I feel I feel I feel” 🙌🏽💯
F they feelings
yes i agree, a better showing by the men.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
because Men
Yes, a great engagement of back and forth, with a respectful transfer of wisdom for the first caller. I enjoyed it. But like Kevin, I could not follow the second in any concrete way…. Likely had great difficulty with English class, as I did. (But I’m a great teacher now 😂).
The gentlemen were so humble and took note of what was being said. No crazy back and forth and over talking! Kudos fellas!
I like the first caller. My wife agreed to marry me when I still had a year left in college. Now we are both 30, married for 5 years, and she has been able to stay at home the last 2 years with our second child. She waited until I became an engineer.
That’s good, everything is not for everyone. Find what’s best for you.
@@easyxyg facts. I just see so many of our ladies calling in with degrees saying they left the person they were dating. On the flip side...other races go to college to find a man.
@@familyman4668 if you don’t mind me asking what kind of engineer are you, next fall i’m gonna be starting college to become an electrical engineer
@@_TopFlightSecurity great field, I'm a civil engineer.
Bait and switch coming...
The fact that modern women think being a ‘traditional’ wife is wrong….
And a mother
@@TheOlzee nah they don’t hate being a mother they like shitting out babies left and right, they just don’t wanna be wives when they young
What Do Modern Women Keep Getting Wrong? Everything it is possible to get wrong!
Respecting A Man's Life and The Goals He Has and the Way he Moves and What , She Can Do To Build Together and Growth Be Straight up and Ladies Femininity is A Absolutely 💯 a Must
@@jollygoodgordon5580 so glad my wife was raised by her parents and church which sent her out into the world respecting the title of "Wife" and that's she's so determined to live up to the responsibilities that the role entails.
That old quote is so true that it's easier to raise a child right than to fix an adult.
That is where we, as a society, need to put more focus. I swear, if Kevin doesn't start a channel aimed towards the next generation soon, I will. It has to be done because (oh dear God) they have no clue how badly they're messing it up.
Edit: I understand that this channel can be viewed by the younger generation. To me, it's very focused on the women currently looking and explaining what went wrong to those who are past their prime. I talk to my daughters, my nieces, and nephews and so on and most don't have a clue what they are doing. My daughters do because we are raising them to be "Super Wife" like their Mother but I want to expand that. Hopefully help them succeed and avoid the same mistakes myself and others have made (so they don't have to worry about struggling through the recoveries).
I meant no disrespect to Mr. Samuels.
If you really know then you know this how Kevin started out with the Men..people criticize how he is with women but he’s really even harsher with the Men 😂😂 it’s really necessary to hear especially from an elder man
Facts on Facts! I found him when he was just doing style and fragrance… but even then he kept it 💯!
I’m thankful to have him. ❤️✊🏾🙏🏾
Yeah but that first caller.... Jesus christ he was displaying feminine traits. He could not let stuff go when he was clearly wrong and had no point....
Were are the sound effects and racial stereotypes in the comments about men? Yeah that's definitely not true. Telling 27-35 y.o women they are old but 30 and 40 y.o men have time, nah he's not harsher by a long shot. He's also not clowning dudes for have kids.
His video title "What your dad show have told you" is the prime exemple on how Mr Samuels is harder on men (pause) than women.
The space he is from hold men accountable
I started cycling 🚴🏽♂️ because of KS I’m looking forward to being fit again.
That’s dope! I’ve been putting off getting a bike for years it was one of my favorite things to do as a kid I’m making it a priority to get one before the year is up. You’re not alone we’re in the same boat definitely need to be fit again. Let’s Go!
I pray for better infrastructure for transport other than cars. All the best, enjoy cycling.
@@CoFitnessTv yeah cycling is really good.
Just enjoy the process of bike riding fam.
Don't just cycle. Improve your diet as well. Learn how to properly fuel your ride.
"Pressure's made for shoulders, not for hips." - The Godfather.
Love this one!
🔥🔥🔥
I understand the gist of the statement but the hips are the second strongest muscles in the body first being your jaws.
@@glizzybangout3757 why do you have to be that guy🤦🏾♂️😂
@@luth.1 I’m so sorry bro😂 you right that was a party foul
Ladies, if a man doesn't know how to wear a pair of pants like an adult and his pants are hanging half off their butt, this should be your first clue that that guy is going no place in life. Other simple clues would be do they have a steady job, are they going to school, can they speak professionally, what kind of friends to they hang out with, are they productive or always looking for short cuts and angles. You don't need to do a lot of deep thinking to see in a few minutes if a man is going to be a productive member of society and have the ability to take care of a family.
This guy “the doctor” wants to be he one so bad lol
Kevin speaks the truth some people just arent ready for it.
Women aint
Qhats wrong with ur body? Man that's to much muscle. 😆
@@mamadytraore5797 i take that as a compliment haha
@@romeoo5272 it was .
Some?? More like most..
The second gentleman cannot communicate clearly because he is not used talking straightforward. He’s used to talking in circles and not clarifying his thoughts. He’s been conditioned to hide his real agenda. He’s a player. Strike two.
Yup! He said a whole bunch of nothing.
I agree but I wouldn't call him a player I would call him a panderer.
🎯🎯
True....He is condition to be slick to protect one's self from people who would take advantage of a situation...ie ghetto, jail, parole, gang active, family members etc. He has to unlearn this rambling speaking to learn how to be precise and clear with communication.
He communicated just like a wimminz - that’s exactly how most wimminz communicate.
The godfather is almost at 1M Subs. Let's go! 💯🎁🎇🎉🎊🎈
Yessss
Yasssssssssss
Yessir!!!
👍👍👍
Woooooo 🤙🏾🤙🏾
Fellow medical student here. I think the caller thought that the fact hes a medical student (and will soon be a doctor) means that women should swoop him up based on this. Like kevin said, its more important to work out HOW to sell yourself. This man needs to do this: workout, understand female nature, develop a high status social circle, work on a side hustle outside of medical school so that he can foster a lifestyle that balances his life as a Doctor and is appealing to women. I remember I had a bit of an ego thinking I had high value traits just because of the fact I was in medical school. The problem was that I let medical school lift my reputation as opposed to me lifting my own name BY THE PERSON I AM. Good conversation.
I was literally smiling the whole time! This session was absolutely informative and KS was really respectful and calm with the young men 👏🏾👏🏾 he was teaching what needs to be taught …and as a woman I also learnt a lot. 💖✨💖✨
Learned *
Read: Laura Doyle
First, Kill All the Marriage Counselors and then put it into
practice.
Kevin was calm and respectful because he got that same energy from the men
I'm catching up on these videos and find they actually give me hope about the future.
Did you learn you have no prospects or future in life?
You might wake up tomorrow morning to 1M brother. Well deserved!!! 👍🏽
Thank you Emmissary
Amen !
This is proof over Potential!! Potential is like saying “Maybe”. Proof is like “here”
So true. The reason I skipped school and infrastructured self made results. You can keep your degree, I'll keep the buildings.
People keep getting hung up on potential when the future is unknown. Went to high school with a guy that went to college with a full ride he ended up dropping out after 4 months due to drugs. So in high school he had high potential but didn’t capitalize on it.
I don't know I taught potential is working at entry level at a tech firm making 45,000 but in a couple of years it's raised to 90,000 and so on. That's potential and ain't nothing wrong with that. I
@@domolad771 you're not wrong, KS is just saying start to think how you can articulate that in a up selling way, not just say it to say it, and when you get to the high end, the entry levels will be losing to you.. That guy is 28 by the time he's 35 if he dates wisely he'll have more experience, remain childless and by time he's ready for marriage he'll be debt free too, from 28-35 he should knock out that student loan
Also when he actually becomes the doctor he will want the best woman he can get.. the woman hes with now may not be her..when he earns more he will have access to better and this is why woman dont like building with men.
From Sierra Leone , I am now addicted to this channel.
Me too!!!!
🇸🇱🇸🇱🇸🇱
Yeezy...
The point about leaving the house for certain amount of hours in the day 🔥 BIG GEMS! The men I’ve attracted in the past has always been hard working, I always loved that. But also at first I kinda didn’t like it. Bc they were prioritizing their work over me. But now I want nothing less. A man in his purpose is man I’ll follow any day.
These ‘gems’ are just crude substitutes for what true masculinity really is. Trying to imitate guys that have really got substance but copying the wrong things.
He doesn’t need to be out working, he just has to have an aim.. and coordinate his intent to achieve that aim. He could be doing it in the living room or kitchen.
As long as he separates himself from external demands on his attention and focuses on coordinating his intent, he’s good.
Let’s not boil things down to vacuous things like just going out of the house lol that don’t make a masculine man. Sigh
Shout outs to you @A2Z TV. Peeped a few of your videos already. Also, I am glad you clearly stated in your comment things like wanting your man to be hardworking and also to be in his purpose. But I guess other people might read that backwards or totally miss it lool.
The last woman I dated could not grasp this concept. She made comments twice about me working too much the third time she brought it up I asked her if she’d prefer a man who was broke? She basically said she wanted a man with money but also constant attention and companionship recognizing the potential for her to be unfaithful I broke it off.
@@theorderlyman8042 Oh yeah, all the high paying jobs where you sit in the living room with the family while making 6 figures. Those are great, aren't they. Silly Kevin thinking people paying you a huge salary expect you to show up to work and stay late from time to time.
@@bobjohnson7695 I said that once you my guy and he said....I can be busy or broke, which do you prefer? I never said it again!
Man I would have loved to call in this show. My ex-wife was upset with me because of my ideas always worked whereas her ideas did not. I said over and over I didn't care who's idea it was, I am only concerned with the results. I had to remind her that I am doing this for us! She did not care!
Facts. I had the same problem. Most of them don't realize that we are on the same team. If I win, then we all win.
she only cared of feeling understood instead of fixing the problem. one of the biggest plight in relationships.
Same thing here. She actually was mad when I had success cause she couldn't take credit for it. Brought my first big commission check over 1k and she began shaming me for not doing it faster. I went from minimum wage to 1k a week in less than a year. I said that the way she responded why would I do it for her at all.
I had this issue with my wife at first also. She has finally learned to listen to me and not fight me. I will drive us in the right direction, but i had to make her understand that she couldnt grab the steering wheel every 5 seconds.
She finally got it and its been great.
“What’s yours is mine what’s mine is mine” that’s the mentality of too many women
Kevin is so good at breaking things down and playing devils advocate
Good point. He allows people to paint themselves in a corner and then show them how to get back out. Most of the time people have their ideas but they haven't considered the rest of the world they live in.
@chai ke - it’s great because he shows the same accountability and example to the men. Accepting that accountability on both sides is what will make us powerful and help rebuild this broken community of ours (blk ppl).
''Women have a way of nesting. They like their home look a certain way'', hit home seriously for me. This man's answering game is on point.
The most important thing Kevin said in this broadcast that young men need to understand is... "IT'S NOT YOUR TURN YET". Too many young men hop off the porch TOO EARLY and make critical mistakes. "Delayed Gratification" will save your life!
Tough pill for me to take turning 25 next month but I guess waiting your turn for a fair deal is the better investment.
What man feels like waiting till 30 to be called a creep for liking 18 year olds...
Sir young girls are not signing up to be with old man. Most girls would sign up to be with younger man like themselves. That’s nasty. You all sounds Predatorial!
@@hatianchocolate123 Go outside and you'll see that there is a large portion of young women who date men 5-15 years older than them. Women are as free as ever in 2021 America and are actively choosing older men. Most may choose their peers, but MANY choose older.
@@mgm8075 😂 😂 Okay if you say so. Like I told someone else on here, younger women choose older men to take care of them (sponsorships) all of this MANY you’re talking about are woman who don’t see the long haul and want money. It’s funny how you don’t see young girls with broke men only rich guys but okay. You all think it’s love 😆.
I want to grow old with my husband and take care of our kids together. Not some men who is past his prime and still trying to be young and have something to prove. If he is 40 when I met him and he dies at 50 our kids will be ten. Meaning I’ll be 35 , also means I will be that same single mother you all love to talk so “lovely” about on here 🤔.
When I want to find someone else again then we it will be pain for me because “ being a single mom is a liability not an asset” Most of these men barely take care of themselves with right nutrition to make it to 60. So like I said no thank you. I see the longer haul and I would marry my age with potential over established any minute. You older men need to date woman your own age.
I love how Kevin makes the distinction between a High VALUE man and a high EARNING man.
I wish somebody told me this in my early 20s. I would be in a much different place had I realized a woman is at her highest value young. And men reach our peaks later in life. I never understood why my potential wasn’t noticed, and lost myself in the process. Im 39 and just now hitting my stride. Stay focused young men. Just keep grinding and keep learning.
The 28 year old suffers from the need to be right. Three of the most powerful words for self improvement are: I WAS WRONG.
I'll admit. This is one of my problems
@@jeremiahwat1 Gentleman, if it was you, congratulations for acknowledging the problem. Sometimes we need to recognize that we are not right all the time, given the fact that here you are in a learning session if I may say.
All the best man. Please focus on being a High Value Man, but do not forget to build up your character.
✌
LNP
He is currently being indoctrinated to think his "Title" always makes him right because of the potential of earning $3- 400, 000. 00 a year. Silly young buck, tricks are for kids! I am glad Kevin reschool him within his thought process about HVM vs HEM. Money is the basic towards providing some sort of secure but the other 5 elements are of great importance to be considered a HVM.
Idk, I realize he’s overvaluing himself on potential, but men who are on the cusp of a highly respected and earning career should get more respect from women.
We want to rag on him for trying to lean into his potential, but what are the women providing to his life anyway? If they just show up a 7/10 with nothing to offer but sex, they are a dime a dozen. I think he had a solid case for young men being undervalued.
@@bustedpillsburybiscuitcan8295 I want to agree with you on this because I'm 28 and working towards my next level, but this video makes me realize that if I'm going for high standard living, I'm getting graded on high standards. Is it fair, no, but I'm going for high standards like that man is. I'm cheering him on and hope he makes it, but I can't cut slack. I'm starting to see what it really takes to be a HVM.
Dating and focusing on relationships when your in your growth period is the absolute worst thing you can do in life. It detracts from your trajectory and if the relationship goes wrong it can debilitate your ambition. Focus on yourself ,your social circle and values and you’ll find someone that fits your purpose
The desire to be in a relationship can become so strong that it can become toxic and it comes from societal pressure and conditioning.
Exactly.. N why marry with student debt, it'll affect the lifestyle in the long run .. He should also focus on knocking that out remaining childless until marriage, by 35 he'll in a better position mentally and financially
Absolutely
Not true... You are designed to mate young. Historically people married young and lived for decades with one mate. The issue is "picking" the right mate. That's what made arrange marriages so successful for thousands of years. Parents looked for women who could build, came from good families, and could be a good resource for their prized sons. There was no accounting for sexual attraction. They knew after sex the wedding night everything would work itself out. But our American economy runs on sexuality so therefore solutions of the past are not considered profitable so therefore not promoted.
@@romanfilmgod bro the end of your comment proved my point.
In my case personally many of us don’t know how to be in relationships and it has a lot to do with maturity. A lot of us stepped into relationship when we were younger and had no clue the dynamics or complexities or natures we were dealing with.
Last thing: based on what the manosphere is teaching it’s the woman that mates young.
And if you think about from a biblical sense Adam was older than eve when he was given his woman
@@LordeGainz There is a reason Bar mitzvah exist.. it is a coming of age celebration it is a time when a boy transitions into a man. Marriage and reproduction is a part of manhood. The issues young men have today is not only are we not taught to be mature. We don't seek out maturity. There was a time boys wanted to become young men as soon as possible. But todays youth/ young men want to stay children as long as possible. They don't push themselves to mature. They don't push themselves to have careers. They don't push themselves to become good/husbands. They seek out excuses to avoid accountability and maturity as long as possible. Part of being a man is desire to be a man. Most want to stay children with excuses as long as possible. Up until the 20th century life expectancy was on average only up until your mid 20's hence the need for bar and bat mitzvah's. Life was short you had to grow up and build a family and procreate as soon as possible. But now that life expectancy is into the early to mid 70's (blackmen 55) we think we can stay children longer. Growing up, maturing is desire. If men take longer today to mature. It is because they do not desire to do it sooner. Because for thousands of years. We did not have a choice but to mature because you knew you would die soon, so you had no choice but to grow up and be about life. Life was real and you had no choice but to be a man. Now men are choosing not to be. Maturity is a choice, being a man is a choice.
"Valid potential" is backed up by a record of solid performance
🤝
The segment with the 28-year-old is a hard pill to swallow. It makes me realize that a great man of his caliber is still not meeting the metrics for an amazing partner yet. I got a lot of work to do. The other segment on communication was a hard one for me as well. Communicating well with a significant other is a skill I have to learn. I also need to learn how to admit when I'm wrong.
Indeed. It's just amazing how clueless so many people out here are.
@@carpediem4512 Could not agree more. Study it like your life depends on it.
This is the type of talks you have with your pops, uncle, OG. Chopping it up, learning the game and applying the info you didn’t know. Good show.
Boy: *Tries to explain
Kevin: “No, breathe”!
😂😂😂💀
🤣🥲🤣 these boys are lost too.
So annoying. These dudes exude so much female energy....
LOL yeah that was epic, don't just respond, process what was said to you and UNDERSTAND.
Godfather 🐐🐐🐐🐐🐐
He's only 28, but I hear ya.. KS gave him so much jewels, by the time he becomes a HVM he may name his first son Kevin lol
This man is giving out free game once again. All you got to do is put it into action.
@📌 Pinned bykevin samuel✓ Whos mans is this
@@whyiscam1215 A bot
The first conversation was actually really good. In his way, I think Kevin actually liked the question. Otherwise, I don't believe he would have went in for so long. He taught me something too. Even though I'm married with children it's still great to learn this stuff.
Yes, it really was !!! I see what both sides are saying. I think the young man was saying that even though he’s not fully established, he’s working towards doing so legitimately. He wants a woman with that same mentality and build something together. Kevin is saying that the outcome is the better result. Definitely a good conversation!
I agree!As a wife of 27 years who married at the age of 25,it's been self reflective and entertaining..🤌🏽
Same here. I'm married and I constantly learn something new from Kevin that makes me a better man
There are levels to this thing. My daughter already knows not to bring home any dude that isn’t about something. “But, daddy, I loves him.” Counts for exactly zero to me. I’m investing too much blood, sweat, and tears into her and my son for them to bring home some ragamuffin.
🤣😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 been a long time since I used the word ragamuffin myself
What if they didn’t bring them home and just lived their life?? You must have your children under financial slavery. It’s 2021 your kid’s will be fucking before you meet the first potential.
@@jimmythemuscle9612 my kids respect me more than that. Sorry if yours don't.
Absolutely right!!!!
No offense, but your helicopter parenting will eventually backfire on you at some point. Kids, who are controlled and managed to the point of suffocation, ultimately rebel and lash out against their parents later in life. I've seen it countless times. I know you care deeply about your kids and you want what's best for them, but I'd thought you should know that there is another side to that type of parenting.
Every man must stay consistent with his purpose and the women will come. The “ Right One “
ase
F A C T S!
Exactly 💯🎯❗️
The man spoke of impatience, yet he's being impatient in getting a woman to date and become his wife. He's fighting to make it make sense.
Only low value men who Will preassured / manipulate women into dating them 😏
@The Gentrified Gentleman I hear that, but he's been listening to KS and he isn't in Nigeria. He needs to get out of his own head and realize where he's at ya know?
He's in the final year of Med School, with good board scores, on track for an Anesthesiology Residency. After 3 years, he'll be board certified and making something between $300K-$500K/year. He's as sure a bet as it's possible to be when it comes to "betting on potential." Him still having to justify himself as a valid relationship prospect to women is bizarre.
@The Gentrified Gentleman I'm from metro Detroit myself. All I'm saying is dude needs to realize he's in America, if he wants to get a good Nigerian girl he should go to the continent or get something arranged here with one, but he wants everything to just go his way and that is not on average what happens in America, let alone life. Women here, even the transplants are different, this loose morals culture and feminist rhetoric is too pervasive.
I see no sense to refrain from dating until being a HVM. What happened to exercising his dating muscles and horning social skills?
I like how when it’s men’s week there’s peace in the comment section 🤣🤣
😂😂
I definitely wouldn't hand my daughter over based on potential. I also have to judge character & see a track record of solid discipline.
Feminists: You don’t need to hand her over like property. She’s a smart independent queen capable of making her own decisions. 💅💅💅👸👑💄💋👄
Fukbois (sees fatherless woman): 😈😈😈😈😈
Thats just proof of potential
The 28 year old man needs to listen to his elders. He thinks he’s lived life and has enough experience but he’s still clueless to the world. I’m 34 and still feel like I’m barely touching the service of how the world works. Every 6 months I feel like I have a grasp of the world, 6 months later I realize how dumb my old self was compared to who I am now, and I’m also aware that this present self is going to feel dumb compared to my older self. Be humble and listen to those who are older and much more successful than you. That’s the quickest way you can level up.
True.
True.
True
True
“Women don’t listen.”
*Proceeds to babble about nothing and confuse KS for 5 minutes* 🤣🤣🤣
That cracked me up 😃
There were so many low level men that called in. No wonder all the women are chasing the same small group of men.
@Walton Rich Morgan [HealthCoachRich] yeah, notice how the last 2 guys talked like they learned speech from their ex-con uncles.... 😅
Good communication is definitely key. Many men don’t realize the reason their message most likely is getting lost in translation is due to their over complication and ramblings, rather than getting straight to the point and making it simple. I’ve been guilty of that and it’s something you gotta be mindful of! 💯
Kevin please bless us with a live tomorrow for your 1 million milestone
The fact that women rather have a baby with a man than marry him.
Oh they wanna marry their baby Daddy alright, the problem is their baby Daddy don't wanna marry them 😏
Out of wedlock births are 100 percent avoidable...they choose their lot in life.
4/5 of Nick Cannon’s BMs
This is not a complete sentence. I cannot figure out the intent… it needs a comma after “him” because you’ve only written the subject…. The predicate is missing.
So one sided, so the man had nothing to do with the baby making. Also he didn't say the woman said no she wouldn't marry him
Most women are willing to submit to their MAN. When the male/female roles are not clearly defined and the woman is forced to make a majority of the decisions a man should be making she looses respect and confidence in that man. As a result, she’s labeled as being too aggressive or having masculine energy.
Most women don't submit what planet you on
@@killamatrix1 Right..lol , and the reason it’s this way is because females are not raised with traditional values anymore. They’re raised to be independent and have their own. So then us men come along and want submission and they’re like “what? Dude plz i’ve been doing this shit on my own..” only way you’ll get it now is if you’re social economic status is much higher than hers and it better stay that way, don’t fall off bro because it can be retracted real quick! Lol
@@killamatrix1 A feminine woman loves a strong take charge masculine male and will absolutely submit to a MAN that is her protector and provider. You act as if Submission is a bad thing. We want our men to lead.
@@tashanyc. problem with that is she will submit to any other man above your means who is masculine and can protect and provide better than you.
@@sunnybeach4837 wow. That’s sad that you think this way. That’s like saying all women cheat. Women want to be protected emotionally and physically by their man, and will not risk losing that if they have it.
When he said he never saw the Malcolm X movie I almost threw my damn phone 🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️
Facts
I've seen it 50 times
Good morning Godfather from Finland 🇫🇮
5000 more subscribers before 1 million subs; this is wonderful. I started watching KS last year July so this is really great that he will hit 1 mil subs exactly 12 months after I started watching. So happy for KS.
My Lawd!! I have never been this early to a KS video. I can't fall asleep under this damn full moon 🌕
I like the wisdom when he told him that young men have to have patience. It's not your turn.. Well said
The first caller made some good points. And I agree I would be hesitant to let my 22 year old daughter marry a 40 year old man money or no money.
I understand both points because love doesn’t have shit to do with it. If he’s older but can actually take care of my daughter I’m cool with it and he’s a good man then fine but as long as he’s not older than me 😂
@@fcksham7127 facts he can’t be nowhere near my graduating class 🤣
Likely because you were raised by a single mom in the American system. Our ancestors 100 years ago would laugh at a girl dating a young unestablished male. Especially if she had the option of an older established business owner. Why? One would make the entire family more successful and bring more resources.
That's why he's saying potential has to be based on something tangible... Not just a blanket statement of potential
Yes, I *feel* the exact same way about my daughter marrying some mf close to my age. Now it's okay if *I* get with a younger woman. Yeah, I'm the KANG of the double standard. Uh-huh, I said "feel." *And?* 🤣
About to cross that Milli threshold. Maybe by the weekend. Definitely before the end of the month. I’m pushing for by the end of the week that.
Bs
This is the first repost from Insta that I’ve seen that was official and I commend! Progress. Gotta beat the pirates, Arrrgh!
The first caller made a good point. Most young women has no desire to be with old men 50 and over. All my daughters just said they would choose the first caller over old men 50 and older. This brother is on his way to a great future. Kevin is wrong.
Facts
@@P.90.603 most black women yes. Deffo not Asian or white
Woman here- as far as age gaps go, the most I'm willing to entertain, is five years older, just like with my own parents. I don't want to date a 50 year old man. Not looking for that.
@@th3azscorpio might have to settle then
@@FRESHALEX760 I'll find what I'm looking for.
Kevin don't like getting jammed up, he gone control the conversation when he feel like someone got him backed in a corner. Lol
I understand how frustrating it can be repeating the same thing 20 times
More water, less energy drinks. Please Mr. Samuels... We have to protect you at all costs Sir... Shout out from Johannesburg.
Wena budhi ... kanti why 😂🤣😂
This was an amazing video. I got with my woman at 23 and she definitely took a chance on little potential. Luckily the outcome became great! I’m just the exception, remember that. Wait and find the best later so you can pick by hand.
YES!!! This is the kind of interaction with the men that I was waiting for. We don't want to argue disagreements, we want to learn. Great job Mr. Samuels.
Best thing the Godfather taught me “ Why should someone marry you? What makes you a wife?” 💍 This made me exam that I haven’t been trained to be a wife, I’ve been trained to stay single aka “ it’s all about me”. Great video today❤️
@@minimalist_monk How can NFL coaches coach when they’ve never played football?
@chocolate nomad vlogs you can crash a plane multiple times and still be alive??? Horrible analogy
@@minimalist_monk he’s not teaching how to stay married.. but since he’s been married twice that implies he values or has put value in getting married. If he’s done that, he has knowledge & wisdom for those who desire coupling.
@@minimalist_monk respectfully there are others on RUclips who have done that. But he does provide knowledge & wisdom that some find useful.
@@minimalist_monk it was a garbage analogy...and your still wrong
I love it "pressure made for shoulders not for hips".
Truth!
If woman are always right, then why do they keep picking the wrong men?
-The Godfather- KRS
They usually don't unless they're effed on the head by feminist posse or too much cc riding...
Well said @john
Many men start out with the perfect guy act then turn narc
@@YoungNationWorld if women got better at vetting men that wouldn’t be much of a problem.
@@triggatre3105 men start out with the perfect guy act then turn narc 🤣 I ain’t worried bout what women need to do bc I always pick the guy that makes me happy I just wanted to let the world know why it seems women do what they do.
Everyone needs a father in their life like Kevin!! 🙌🏽
Agreed! Worse than growing up without a father is growing up with one physically there, but not much more than that. One with no leadership, guidance, or direction to “be on his purpose,” where eventually the mom becomes the provider and the marriage fails. 😔
@@jessitabonita uup
@@jessitabonita I totally agree BUT I also believe we're all grown people who can make choices and bettering yourself is a choice. A lot of modern men and women are stuck in their comfort zone unfortunately 😩
He cares about outcomes and his personal life outcome is 2 divorces ,not ambiguous daughter situation and not that rich with dwindling interest (lower views)
@@rethinks5054 You are new here I suppose.
Glad you started uploading your instagram live on youtube Mr Samuels, this live was better than the one from Yesterday.
I agree. But the message in that deleted monologue needs reuploading, minus the fem-males that called in.
The guy with the dreads should be honest and admit he was a 'kept man'- lol... meaning he more than likely didn't work during the marriage and the wife sadly turned to being masculine. Sad scenario.
Sad but true, I have a friend who is just like that, unfortunately he is not masculine and he was in a feminine space always washing dishes and cooking because he wasn’t working. She cheated twice and shows no respect for him. He doesn’t understand why since he does “everything” for her. It’s a sad thing to see
@@artfuldodger7747 whew! He going out sad sad
@@Cdrop63 I know smh
interesting to hear.
This episode was very valuable. As a man I learned where I did wrong with regards to my ex. The operation inside home is her domain and I violated her feminine space. Granted I am accustomed to doing things for myself. But the home is her domain and I violated the unwritten masculine and feminine agreement. I see my error now and how she must have felt. I think one of the things we get wrong as men is not understanding women are just as territorial as us. The nest, the den is hers. Everything around that we can claim as ours but the nest is hers. Thanks KS for pointing this out. With this new found knowledge I am better equipped for my next relationship.
Goddamn this was a great episode Kevin!!
😊Shout out to the GODFATHER, Keep preaching those words of wisdom.
I'm 20 and with the way things are going, I'm becoming a more knowledgeable man 👨
Thank you Mr Samuel, we love you here in South Africa.
Aye the Motherland ✊🏾
@@erictoomer5665 - motherland se moer man!
Awe njayam
@@TehMr Waitsi bra yaka 😎
These women becoming more western by the minute
"Just like you want women. To have patience, you have to have patience "
*Thanks for commenting, I will refer you to my trade DANIEL and accountant to make good income, go more on digital assets, I'm not a fan of blowing my own trumpet but I assure you are in good hands in making it huge📊💰*
*I~n~v~e~s~t IN* *B~T~C~ E~TH* *D~O~G~E*
*W~H~A~T~S~P~P~*
*+~ 1~7~ 2~ 0~ 8~ 0~ 3~4 ~ 1~3~ 1*
*SAY I DIRECTED* *YOU~~*....
Im going back to school and getting back into muay thai because of this cat. Literally changing my life as we speak.
The medical student's argument fell apart immediately. He's book smart and was just given a common sense lesson from a wise man.
I understand what the first man meant about “potential.”
I get it, but the 8, 9 and 10 women always choose the option of better rather than taking the risk of wasting youth
@Penderyn Lewsyn I understand as well though, hypothetically speaking, if a man is 22-28 fresh out of college and/or grad school. And if the women his equal are dating much older men that’s established who is he supposed to date?
anesthesiologist’s inbox is under heavy attack tonight! Lol
yeah whats his ig lol!
What’s his IG?! 👀
Lol this was a billboard advertisement for him. Happy for the young man
@@ReidCast yeah, he has time. Plus he has residency and that's 80 hrs plus board exams. He's doesn't have time for mind games unless it's a woman of purpose
I doubt it I saw something very negative in the ending from him
Lol he doing exactly what women do....
He must like a woman that is more established than him and wants her to see his potential. He gotta let it go!
I'll admit. I think like him because we want a running mate in our younger years. We want to be the high school sweetheart or meet our partner freshman year of college. We're wondering how did one guy market himself so well to have a run mate while others have to go the long haul. Deep down, we hate being alone in the struggle of growth.
He’s about to be an anesthesiologist. I think he’s speaking on the woman’s behalf if that’s true what you say. That or she’s an astronaut or Vice President.
Yup!
@@jeremiahwat1 it's sad because the ones that go the long haul come through it and no longer trust women to desire him for who he is over what he can do for her. They then go for the 8,9 and 10s because that what their money and status can buy but he won't have the loyalty or the trust.
@@MD-xb1qw I see myself in this guy. I actually want to become a anesthesiologist. And that's exactly the mindset I'm starting to discover. I'm 23 just now applying to medical school. I realized there's a lot of change that need to be done.
The last segment is the solution to everything! Happy wife is men letting her have control over HER space. We have to draw those boundaries and there will be peace! Amen and Amen
Facts. Love the quote: "Wait your turn". Patience is key.
I'm 25 and im getting ready to go into med school. Theres no room for a relationship when you're on a mission to achieving success.
Cool have you applied?
@@mario125ww Yup! Just need to do 2 more pre reqs to acquire my associates. Then Pass the entrance exam.
I disagree you can do both I think people need to stop saying this. You can build with a solid female whilist going to school people do it all the time.
@@Kirbystare1992 nope
Congratulations 👏🏿 that is awesome!
58:40 "Pressure is made for shoulders, not for hips." - KS 🙌🏽💯
Congratulations on your soon-to-be 1 million subscribers Mr Samuels. Doing amazing work!!!
The first callers conversation spoke to me on another level. Men need to be patient as well
Thanks for commenting, I will advise you to 💯 write my manager regarding making millions in BTC, ETH and doge investment
W/H/A/T/S/A/P/P
+/1/9/2/8/6/6/0/5/3/5/6
This Mans brilliance, is something else. I just look at him and say that's me at 50. To see what I would grow up into as a black Man is a wonderful feeling. Comprehension, lingual pedigree and analytical prowess. Thank you Sir I have learned so much from you.
I am Yoruba and my hubby is agbor. When we met I was in my mid twenties making six figures, and he was still in school doing his MBA. I didn’t date a lot and when I brought him home my parents were weary because his ability to take care of me. He loved me and promised my parents he would take care of me. My advice is trust God and ask for wisdom like Solomon did to be able to discern the right spouse God has sent you. There’s no math or hard rules to this thing.
Kevin is saying the Uber driver/musician can’t lead her anywhere. There has to be a hierarchy not only in a career but in that man’s decisiveness. He has to have direction for himself and outcome before he can direct them because she’s out producing him. Not to mention you don’t see musicians dating scientists, actors marrying doctors, construction contractors marrying biochemists, their in different socioeconomic classes.When they sit down at a table what will they talk about?
I agree yet I've been blessed and cursed to see all sides. Even many situations that go against what you said
Well put sir
Whooooaaah pause bro, don’t discredit the Uber drivers, I drive Uber on the side and make an average of $20,000 extra a year on top of what I make at my day job working for the city of Philadelphia Water Department and Uber drivers make good money. I know some people who’ve quit their day jobs to drive Uber full time, me personally I wouldn’t suggest that because Uber isn’t stable enough for me to do that, plus I’m not quitting my job because I have a great pension plan and investments installed through my job. But that’s besides the point, the point is, Uber drivers make good money just to drive. And they’ll pay for free tuition if you meet certain requirements so you can actually send your kids to school on Uber for free.
@Kriss Perry so are people on onlyfans…Use that income to form a plan to perhaps own a transportation company…Because once Uber is over then what’s the next move for him? Income as a musician isn’t steady income either. It’s not even steady for popular artists. Unless they have a body of work making them passive income.
I was with you until that last sentence. Because I am not in any of those career paths, yet I have been able to hold conversations with people from many walks of life. Point is, when it comes to careers, it doesn't have much to do with the day to day dealings of life because what a person does for work rarely has any bearing on general conversations.
He should cover up the Red Bull label with tape. Stop giving them Wings 💸
You realize that this is how a lot of people get sponsors and endorsements especially viral sensations. They will use or showcase a product that eventually gets associated with them as they increase in fame and notoriety. Companies watch for things like this and when your audience gets large enough often companies will approach you about sponsoring your content. This happens to professional gamers and other viral sensations alot.
@@kennethmorsee It's almost like speculative advertising.
Almost at a Million the growth of this channel is amazing
This broadcast was informative and eye-opening for me as a man. I must concede that many of us are ineffective at listening, comprehension, and verbal communication and that we're not operating in masculine energy like we think we are. We have a lot of work to do. Admittedly, it's tough when you're raised without a father and have to figure out manhood for yourself. I wish this platform could've been around 20 years ago.
Get the work done son
Love the topic and listening to the man's perspective was very insightful and helpful. The advice was on point and I see now men are trying as well but may need some guidance in communicating.
But overall tonight was a great show.
Be sure your communication skills are great too
True Shari I was having problems following them and I’m a man.
Men always try. We have to initiate
I am Russian, and I have seen MalcomX six times!
Mr Samuels is a big advocate for older men dating younger women .
I kind of understand he advocate that due to resources but come on not all women are compatible with older men .
Compatibility is a short term thing, genuine desire and respect are more important. The wide age gap works. Women are typical more socially advance than men their own age. For men it takes time to develop socially hence why he recommends 35 years for men to settle.
Of course "not all". Almost no one speaks for "all". I wholeheartedly agree with Samuels here. I want to give my daughters away to men, not boys. My oldest girl is 13. I've already told her that her future husband is somewhere in the world right now 25 years old. They'll marry in 10 years when she's 23 and he's got his mind, spirit, discipline, and finances together at 35 years old. Not all women, brotha, will or even need to understand this concept, but assuredly, MOST need to. Be well.
@@moe808 Don't you think it due to the way women are raised , it kind of forces them to mature faster?
If the level of responsibility with a boy and girl child were at the same level do you think the women would mature faster ?
@@jaygarland9305 I think after 23 she should date someone who 5 years older than her cause her marrying and older man doesn't necessarily mean it will be a successful marriage considering 33 year old will start dating her at 21 when she isn't sure of what she wants.
I get where you coming from
@@Mr_Shuku -- I have a baby on the way in a few months. I'd like a boy, but I'd be happy to have a child that is simply healthy.
I'd like my 13 year old daughter to marry a Godly man who is established, but I'd be happy if she marries a man who is simply Godly.
That is non-negotiable. She knows this, and she knows her life will be a penance if she goes rogue from thus baseline.
As far as marrying an older gentleman, The Most High will decide. I have my thoughts and theories, but The Most High will determine everything for my family.
Would a woman rather have a brand new car or a old out dated car with car issues. The younger attracted brother will win over the older man every time. The first caller made great points.
Kevin speak facts, it’s hard to argue against factual information!
5k away from 1 Million subscribers!
I've been here since 14k subs and men's styling advice, been a pleasure to witness the growth.
Shows the power of hard work and consistency, you deserve it!! 🙌🏾☀️
I seen him at 30 k 👌
Sun Tzu - Art of War. Men should read it for sure. I've read part of it myself. 💙
48 Laws of Power and 33 Strategies of War are also amazing books . Most books by Robert Greene are good. You have to read these books with an open mind cuz they are filled with manipulation.
@@pat17yearago75 I will check those out too. Thank you.
This was a good one. Because i remember grown up the men in my family left the house everyday. And would take me with them. Everyone needs space.
Thanks for commenting, I will refer you to my trade analyst and accountant to make,, good income , go more on Digital Assets BTÇ!,
Her availability is active on WhatsApp
+^^1^^5^^5^^1^^2^^8^^ 8^^4^^0^^0^^7...
You tell him I directed you....,
as a young black male this episode helped a lot!
PREACH! We have a hard time accepting there is a social class in our community.. we run into issues when we try to date everyone not even knowing that person's background ☹️ I have had those issues before until I started accepting who I was and accepting not everyone is for everyone..
*Thanks for commenting, I will refer you to my trade DANIEL and accountant to make good income, go more on digital assets, I'm not a fan of blowing my own trumpet but I assure you are in good hands in making it huge📊💰*
*I~n~v~e~s~t IN* *B~T~C~ E~TH* *D~O~G~E*
*W~H~A~T~S~P~P~*
*+~ 1~7~ 2~ 0~ 8~ 0~ 3~4 ~ 1~3~ 1*
*SAY I DIRECTED* *YOU~~*....
There’s too much truth to the old joke: “How do you get your girlfriend to stop having sex with you?…… Marry her”.
Most definitely a true statement. Guess they feel they’ve reached the highest tier in a relationship. So no more work has to be done beyond that point.
And be,,,,,,,the NICE guy
Whoa!!!! 😳 I never heard this before but I will never forget it because it the truth.
@@moegrimm
( Leon C.AKA M)
Learn her love language 👌🏽
This Men’s week is interesting. Hope to see Kevin having more interactions with us Men in the future.
Some gems being dropped this segment 😇
The last conversation hit ! Space makes the heart grow fonder! Most black men are confused on what’s supposed to be happening when with significant other vs time for self, career, and social life. Respect the man cave and girls time.
I'm sorry but my daughter is going with the 28 year old whose a year away from becoming an Anesthesiologist. Potential has levels. There's a difference from talking, and someone who's a year away from his accomplishment. "The need to be right"