Yup, it's the OTHER extreme. In the past you had people telling women they are worthless or second class with a generation of women feeling less than, so then an overcorrection of "all women are awesome" has created women with egos that don't fit their accomplishments.
"You expect men to take that risk, but when you date, you date on security" Jesus Christ, this dude knows how to say everything in a single sentence. I love that one.
I’m not necessarily a man to appreciate when some calls themselves “a father figure” but I have learned so much from this man, he truly deserves the title of “god father” to us all
I'm 23, I grew up in a single parent house hold with my mom . She didn't want me to even meet my dad and we never spoke about him. I'm so glad that I am a boy and I have the power to change this broken chain in my family.
Of course, the social engineers took it out of the schools to get the current day outcome. It's all about breaking down a society, make money doing it at the same time and bring in a new society that they're more in control of. Global reset.
@@jahkarimirza7286 YES!!! In fact there's a book called 'The Deliberate Dumbing Down of America' by a woman who worked for the government during the years when they were making these changes and it's basically a tell-all of how these "social engineers" (nice way of putting it, lol) have worked to intentionally destroy society to the point where things are as messed up as they are today.
It’s up to us as parents: teach finance (investing, budgeting, credit building and debt-avoidance), basic sewing, cooking, laundry, hygiene and personal appearance, basic maintenance and repairs, common sense safety measures, home fire prevention and fire fighting, emergency reaction, Etc. Or you can expect school to cover hopefully 1% of any one of these topics.
As young as she is, she conducts herself 100 times better than most grown women i have seen on this channel. She is going to make an awesome wife some day. All the best. Such a gorgeous girl.
@@theleslieandrea you'll do well my dear, listen to Kevin because as a 31 year old cyber security expert, I'm only looking for the types of girl Kevin is trying to tell you to transform into. Best of luck and study disciplined 👊
@@TheBleepings That was his Exwife's Daughter that he had mentioned on several occasions. The only reason why dummies like that "1st of a word" person is even bringing it up is because Kevin's exwife is mad at him for not paying for HER Daughter's college tuition. To which he really doesn't have to because that's her Daughter, NOT his
Back in Africa, our training starts as an infant. The women raising us make sure we get the "wife" skills before leaving home. You even learn to serve guests, organize events, caring for the old, etc. Tiring but good life skills even to survive alone.
As an educated man, I watch many content creators and realize what they do, I can do. What Kevin does, is on another level. His perspective is a necessity in the Black community.
Kevin has a great crossover audience. He has a lot of wisdom for any modern person, whatever their race. While Oprah is pushing women into a glitzy version of feminism, Kevin is giving them a dose of reality.
@@mj3433 he tapped into the content that clearly shows it needs the most attention. He says regularly that he is running a business. Show some appreciation and out the salt shaker away.
What these women don't consider is men built this world that came with a lot of pain. Women want to avoid pain at all costs yet they think they equal to men.
Him: "Sex, sandwich, and silence." Her: "Can you give me two more?" Him: "Silence and silence." Her: "Really? because I feel that blah blah bablah blabby blah blah...."
The lord blessed me with a good woman. We've been married for 17 years now, with two teenagers, and a very unexpected one on the way. It's definitely hard work just keeping your marriage in order. It has seemed to get easier, but there are some hard times behind us. You learn to pick, and choose your battles, and not get worked up over small things. We're fairly old-school though, I'd say, and I hope to take my last breath beside her.
Spoken like a wise man. We cannot get caught up in the petty issues and derail the train to our final destinations. Stay the man. Stay in control. Stay together.
They be hating viciously on him while ignoring his message and results . he is such an example for us all. I appreciate how he doesn't even acknowledged his haters
“Better to dwell in a corner of a housetop, Than in a house shared with a contentious woman.” Proverbs 21:9 NKJV Remember that when you chase these models. I get it. Go for what attracts you but understand looks means nothing if those looks don’t come with peace.
Lol Kevin clearly liked her cus although she was chatty she still had her innocence and most importantly she wasn’t masculine energy negative, which is why he didn’t complain when she over-talked him through the whole video
Because she's not being combative or using the SIGN language... yes some push back from her part which is good but she's doing that to understand and learn.
The truth of Kevin's message - is reflected in the growth of his subscriber base. Dude might be the hottest thing on RUclips - he's killing it. 26 million views in the last 30 days.
It’s a shame. The powers that shouldn’t be murder the black men with big platforms who lift up their communities. May The Most High bring swift judgement to those who took Kevin’s life.
I'm a married stay home mother and it's true what Kevin said about our mothers and grandmothers only having prepared us for independence. After I got my degree I met my husband and had to throw my pride about a high flying career out the door. Now he's a "High value man" that I manage and support however he needs and he's thriving for our family. Our traditional structure works. I wake up and I know I'm CEO of running our home with my husband as the leader and I value that more than any other job.
Every segment and stream, Kevin proves to us yet again why we, as Black men, must do everything in our power to protect him. Where else do you see anyone telling our stories like this and not holding back? This might sound corny, but the level of appreciation I have for this brotha is hard to describe Thank you, Kevin. Thank you!
*To future commenters:* Ignore the Lina Mason troll above. They’re under comments across a bunch of Kevin’s videos looking to create disruption. Don’t bite
"Wife school". I had to chuckle at that. The feminist would burn the building down at any university that considered teaching such a thing. But all joking aside, many a southern bell went to "charm" or "finishing" school 50 years ago. I will be honest, I do think universities need to teach courses on "life skills". I mean in this day and age, how many 20 somethings know how to write a check, service a vehicle, or cook food with more than two ingredients? If you check their kitchen, do they even own cookery beyond a pot or two?
@@superdave8248 that is supposed to be the parents job. I don't know if you have kids, but if you did, did you try teaching them those life skills and why they are important? The hardest thing I'm encountering is breaking through to my son that no one else will try to teach him these things later for free.
@@johnwright6706 Agreed. It should have been the parents' job to do these things. Do I have biological children? No. I have stepchildren and they were both grown adults when I started getting involved with their mother. So I can't speak on what they were taught and what they were not. But I see it the disconnect. My wife can cook. But when I hear my stepdaughter talking to her mom, she doesn't make complex meals. They are basic. If she and her SO want a complex meal they eat out. Is that a failure of the mom to teach these types of skills or is it a failure on the daughter to use the skills she was once taught? To be honest I have no idea. I just know from my own experience that once you stop using skills those skills wither like dead leaves on a vine. You might have been able to make the best cake in the world, but if you haven't baked a cake in 10 years odds are the first one you do bake again isn't going to be up to the old standard. I'm a product of the public school system of the 1970s and 80s. In middle school everyone had to take half a year of Home Economics. And yes, it covered these very things. High School also had a similar course but I never took it so I have only assumptions on what was taught. But it was primarily targeting towards females. If the public education system back then saw a need for such classes and even make one mandatory for all students, I can't help but think in this day and age it is even more necessary than previously. When I graduated high school I knew a single person that came from a single parent home. People who divorced simply remarried. The friend in this case her parents had separated while she was in high school. I don't even recall if they finalized the divorce or not. And nobody had a parent who was a widow. But about 10 years ago I was looking through a calendar one of the local school's produced. It had pictures of students and their families. Half the pictures were single family households. Half. And that wasn't even a two generation difference. Going from no single family homes to half. When you are dealing with single parent households, when do you have the time to focus on life skills? Between school, homework, and extracurricular activities, there just isn't time in one person's day. And it is even worse if there is more than one child in the house.
That’s exactly what I said! She’s still young and it’s noticeable in her ways however she was an open door for elevation and mastering. She’s on her way to getting what she wants 💙
everytime these gals say - "I have a question" then talk for 5 minutes and Kevin say "so whats the question" - I just die inside they really just wanna talk and not solve any problems
Men and women communicate differently. Men want the bottom line and skip the details. Women process details first then get to the bottom line. The difference in communication styles doesn't mean she "just wanted to talk." (In addition, KS has a show to run so he is definitely all straight business.) Hopefully this will be helpful for you to keep in mind.
@@henryhall2403 Not necessarily. I seen them choose a broke, in and out of jail, pants sagging gang banger with nothing going for himself and they will let him lay up rent free until he goes back to jail and then they'll repeat the process.
Whew I’m so grateful for my husband.. im a stay at home mom with our son, 21 years old .. he provides so much for us and I’m so happy we truly love one another .. he’s 22.., he married me when I was 19 .
Damn you're a rare one. As long as you're keeping his balls empty, his stomach full, being nurturing and feminine and raising the kids right in an inviting home environment, that's all a man needs to conquer the world. He'll naturally reciprocate when you're doing what you're meant to do. I wish you two a great marriage and a happy life together :)
Sounds great (so far), but then so do the 60% of marriages that fail. The next 5 years will tell and your role as wife will be PIVITOL to the success or failure of your union.
Thank God for another one keep up the good work..make home a pleasurr to come to..love..respect..appreciation..never take him for granted..keep your marriage and ur man...God will bless both of you
Thats the best conversation i have watch around. She was receptive and talkable, it gave him the opportinity to really teach something to someone and everyone without having to debate every little sentense.
This is a perfect example of the older single mother not teaching her daughter to become a wife and the younger daughter clearly recognizing it. These conversation are needed!
@@hananfetwy7230 here are some of the things I do as a wife & mom: cook breakfast lunch & dinner, prepare lunch for him for work, clean the house, grocery shopping, take care of everybody in the house when they’re sick, laundry, I pick up his meds because he’ll forget, etc AND I work a full time job. Being a wife is a lot of work and I only stop when I’m ready to go to bed. Most days I’m tired but I love my family. Anyone who says they want marriage for just love and companionship is in for a rude awakening. BTW I’m Dominican and 50 and this is how we were raised so it’s nothing new.
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I myself have been in wife academy (learning from the married women in my life) the number one thing i have learned is to shut up 🤐 who would’ve thought that was a main ingredient lol
Men are challenged all day. The literal last thing they need is being challenged more when they're trying to relax at home and recuperate, and yet that is when they get ambushed by girls like this and nagging. I'd rather be strapped in a Chinese prison getting dripping water tortured.
@@MickeyJaymz yes. And once the bubble pops on the fantasy and they realize that actual work, sacrifice, patience and forgiveness is required...they're out. Why do you think that 80%of divorces are initiated by these fefails?
“Teach me how to be a wife” I don’t think I know any women who have made that request. Nor do I know any older women who have said “let me show you how to be a wife”
My mother taught me to be a wife. Funny enough watching how my father treated her and asking him questions on why he did the things he did. I believe both my parents gave me the lessons needed to be a good wife.
Most of my friends are men old enough to be my father, their wives often try to talk to their daughters and their daughters friends. Women my age don't want to hear it.
I remember how many girls rejected taking home economics when I was in high school back in the early 90s. Now, we're seeing the results of this in full effect, and we're all paying for it.
@@kijana2030 the fact that she's able to reflect on the poor decisions that she's made in the past and that she's actively seeking for answers on how to reach the goals that she wants in life shows me that at least she's taking the first step towards being successful in life. Most people can't even look themselves in the mirror realistically. I used to be the same way until I got tired of not having the results I wanted in my life.
Wanting it is Never enough!!!! I wanted to have my abs sho for a few years now… but I only started a month ago to actually change my diet and work out for my abs to show. And dammit, I say Gahdayum my abs won’t show until I complete the work 💡
Sadly, who is going to guide her? We are seeing the products of failing parenting for 3~ generations now, and it clearly cannot fix itself at this point
Man Kevin is such a sharp dude. I’ve noticed that every time a woman tries to over talk him he’s got them all to apologize and be quiet. Hey ladies he’s teaching you and most of you don’t even realize it. I say this to say practice it at home with your dude. I bet you’ll get a difference in how he acts. Oh yeah and sex sandwich and silence. The recipe
You ever notice when Kevin asks what they bring to the table and want out of marriage, none of it is ever about the man? It’s always what the man can do for them. It’s as if they think we should consider ourselves lucky to even get looked at.
That is the clear sign of a person NOT ready to get married and I have been marred for 23 years. When you get married, it's a partnership of what each person brings to the table that they can't on their own or with great cost. It's about reaching life goals and sharing life's changes together because both people know they helped each other get there. I take pride in helping my wife succeed, and she enjoys helping me reach my goals. One way relationships are doomed for failure. Know what you bring to the table and deliver. The worst is also misleading, such as cooking or doing things while you are dating, and stopping it after marriage.
Kevin said the magic word last week and it's not going to be lost: DUTY. Modern women are either ignorant of or fully refusing to perform THEIR DUTY to men.
I never heard my parents or grand parents or any other group of people say that they are working on themselves. Blk folks, we be 30, 40, and 50 years old still talking about we working on ourselves🧑🔧👩🔧 🤷
46:00 😮 she even played along! I think she has potential, she realized she needs to change, she has a good attitude, listened most of the time, quick witted, smart enough, nice voice, easy on the eyes, and child like even the way she said bye and waved him a bye. With some self work and guidance she might do just fine
@James Brown I wouldn't say 95. Problem is the ones that are not worthy are the most vocal and annoying and always in your face. The good ones aren't in certain places and don't call attention to themselves in a negative way. Plus those women usually get snatched up pretty quick and aren't checking for us regular dudes. Lol
@@theleslieandrea, you still not getting it yet? We don't care about subjectivity or exceptions to the rule anymore. *You* might not, but this is how the *majority* of millennial and zoomer generation BW think and if that's the case we gon' talk about it.
@@theleslieandrea is this you in the video? If it is please ignore Kevin about your boyfriend. There is nothing wrong with two young people getting married and preparing for a family without money. Get a solid foundation started. What Kevin told you to do is wrong and part of the problem younger women are skipping over young men their age who have potential. If the guy you are with has potential for success and you guys are in love theres nothing wrong with that. Again Kevin was completely wrong for telling you he can't get married because he's broke. I wish you success.
This young lady is light years ahead of her peers. Conducts herself very respectfully, understands where she is lacking, willing to do the work and is open to leadership. She's going to be a blessing to someone very soon.
Marriage is also not the answer you being a woman to know a woman is always looking whether she is married or not that’s the whole point of procreation you are searching for the best possible option meaning the best situation, and genetics. Marriage only benefits preachers marriage chapels government organizations etc. marriage is not a natural action in the natural response someone being forced to stay with one person or a voice in themselves to stay with the person is to leave or cheat on that person there is nothing that will stop nature at the end
I met my wife when she was 15. She knew how to sew, she could bake bread, she babysat and loved little kids a ton. She was smart and focused on doing well in school. She was preparing to become a wife and mother and it showed. It put her so far ahead of all the shallow girls around her who were only interested in where the best deals on clothes were and what concerts were coming up.
I was just about to say all the girls that grew up learning how to be a wife and a mother get snatched up quick and are married by their early twenties.
Yup, she was 19 when we married, and I didn't have a job or a car even, but I had prepared to be a father and husband. I was in university preparing for a career. She worked and help put me through school, then I worked and she stayed home and raised our kids. It took a lot of sacrifice (no 6 figures here) but it worked. When the youngest was old enough, she went back to school, got her degree, now she has a good career too. A woman can have it all, but she has to do the marriage/kids part first, then the career part after. A 40 year old woman doesn't have the energy to keep up with toddlers but a woman in her 20s does.
Sounds like you guys were in a wagon train trying to go West to dig for gold. She know how to bake bread over rocks and sticks. You Lucky man. Keep her pregnant and bare foot, you Fool!
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@@ShaunHensley Well truthfully men always need to adjust no matter the time period. Womens adjustments have been completely different and now that they are dealing with some of the chaos we get they are bugging.
Japan is done. They have one of the lowest birthrates in the world. Their older generation is dying off faster than they can replace them. Their culture, their genetics, will be completely wiped out in a handful of generations. You can't come back when you allow your birthrates to fall to the degree some of these countries have. The west is general isn't far behind. The ones driving the global population are the countries with extreme poverty and no birth control.
@@gouloune1 nope thats due to the work culture and its not women refusing anything it's men tapping out of the game. the women there WANT children and love. Take it from someone who knows Japanese women who live in Japan
@@Bayo106 one of my homies has a Japanese wife, he lives in Japan now. The men are tapping out because shit is expensive. We can’t all earn 6 figures otherwise it wouldn’t be the 1%
Notice in the beginning when Kevin asked about women standards she tried to split the two but when he asked if men under 30 were marriage minded she immediately said NO. The code is real.
The code is across all ages and only may hit certain issues when it’s a woman of one race against a woman of another race. But even then, if they ‘feel’ a man threatens the ecosystem of the code across the board they will all join in as one force. Group think which is a psychic phenomenon is quite real and often sadistic.
@@theleslieandrea I’m sorry but you did. Just take a step back and be self reflective. There is an old saying, “you have to break some things in order to build them back correctly.” This is how self realized people view themselves.
Watching these women speak makes me appreciate my grandmother so much 🤗 she raised me, and at 10 yrs old she taught me how to clean, cook, sew, iron, hand wash and all that old school stuff! Tbh, I hated doing all those things at 10yrs old lol, but she always told me that in order to get a good husband, I needed all those skills! I got married at 25, my husband provides for me, took me outta work, and I make sure he comes home to a clean, peaceful house, dinner, clean clothes, and lunch for work everyday! We are 3 yrs strong and a whole lifetime to go! There are good men out there, ladies! We just gotta put in the work too!
This one was really good. She has potential to grow and overall very cooperative. Kevin didn’t mind dropping some jewels. She’s young enough to get on the right track and be an inspiration to other young ladies.
Some men do take that chance though. My husband took it on me. When we met he expected me to be a wife and I wasn't prepared. We talked about it the other day and I told him I didn't know that what he expected of me and that's why we struggled so much in the beginning of our relationship. Its been 4 years now. I'm a full time stay at home mom and wife and I love it. I was willing to learn grow and change to get here and by gods grace hes had patience and has worked with me to get were we are. Now he says I'm a great wife and mom and I'm very happy about that. It was very very hard to be a wife from the very beginning because I didn't know how to be one. Now when I have a daughter I know I will teach her how to be a wife and a mother so that it will be easier for her when she gets married.
I'm 43 years old and maybe I'm still stuck in another generation, but there is something that irks me when I hear a 24 year old call a 50 something year old man by his first name. Definitely a different time than the one I was brought up in.
I’m 56 and I don’t call people Mr. or Mrs, So and So, I never did. Nor did I hear anyone my age expect to be called that. Most people respond with Mr. So and So is my father call me by my first make.
What’s funny is IK we’ve tried to have these convos with our women but they don’t want to hear this. They listen to him because he has this stature. Sheesh.
It's everywhere dude. She refuses to listen to any man that isn't of a certain pedigree if you will. I've had women in my life denounce what I tell them and when a man she respects 5 ft away says the same thing all of a sudden it's okay. You know what I'm talking about.
I told my girl the reason we are constantly arguing is because she has a masculine personality....instead of taking constructive criticism and working on it...she got upset and started cussing like a sailor...she’s now my ex🤷🏾
@@DarylLII I'm rich...Like really rich not fake it til you make it rich like retired at 28 Rich😤.... all I do is talk shit & troll people...Then go swimming in my in house pool🤣🤣🤣🤣So nope I don't!
Not only that, but every time he said silence she got LOUDER to agree with him. She was consistently on the 'I'm not like other girls' energy, even though that exact idea and energy is preciselyy what makes her like all the other girls.
12:23 Bruh, that’s one of the most profound things I’ve ever heard & it’s so spot on. Women have to basically be in love with you for you to get them “fully” on board, and even that’s not enough in the long run.
And love is not enough. Because one day they will fall out of love with their husband..... then what? Romantic type love in a marriage ebbs and flows, it comes and it goes. Because of this, one cannot build a structure upon it. One cannot make romantic love the edifice or foundation of a marriage. But this is exactly what so many modern women do, and this goes a long way to explain why 80% percent of all divorces are initiated by women. This is why so many wives are out here cheating, they're looking for that "love" feeling again.
@@commandericeman8588 Religious pressure, social pressure and fault divorce kept feels in check. When you'd lose your income, your reputation and your ability to remarry you thought twice about divorce (and you had to come to court with proof, none of that "I feel"). Women felt oppressed by that system. Now they feel done wrong by the freedom they fought for. No matter how much Kevin preaches and how much they get it today, the social system is not in place to curb the power of feels tomorrow.
By far the best interview that I’ve seen… There was so much relative and relatable information. This woman on the surface is everything that most women twice her age aren’t. There’s two present generations of women who do not want to live the lives that their mothers and grandmothers had by committing to long term relationships from dating to the grave…. But want the financial security while conducting their selves in a manner to ruin what they have had or some never will have…
It is amazing how Kevin point of remaining silent went over her head. She couldn't just stop and listen she always had something to say. Proving his point of her being a handful.
I was excited to talk to him, I was very engaged and I'm a talkative person. I do work on silence but I was so into the conversation it was a challenge to be quiet especially because this was a rare conversation and moment for me to share especially with Kevin.
I tried since I have been married over 30 years but the women were so mean and nasty I got discouraged... I believed I was called to teach in 2018 and copyrighted my information... as I presented it to groups and even close “friends” they stopped talking to me and taking my calls... Ms Shay you have made me rethink my calling...please pray for me 🙏🏾
Being a housewife or feminine, in the traditional sense, is pushed as being oppressed these days by the modern Left who control culture and media. That's the major problem.
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We are witnessing the result of 2 decades of reality tv and social media playing out right before our eyes. We cannot live victoriously until we stop living vicariously, especially if we’re following the wrong role models and have unrealistic expectations.
Nice to see and hear an intelligent young woman accepting accurate information from Kevin. I’m older and female and my mother and grandmother taught me as a young girl NOTHING. MY mother cooked but we were not allowed in the kitchen to learn how to cook bc she said it made her nervous.
@@gipgap4 It doesn’t do anything for a woman to build with a man. They will just trade her in for the better options he will have after she’s helped him build.
@@industriesofintelligence2236 It’s not a woman’s job to “do the work” and help a man build, and it is true. Men are not staying with the woman that helped him build, when he has access to women he didn’t before.
But here is the larger question.... are you happy or satisfied serving your husband: sex, sandwich, silence? Many women are fearful they would be in absolute misery to have to "serve" their husband's in such a capacity in order to keep him happy and satisfied. They see this as a form of slavery, they see this as "extremely demeaning."
@@commandericeman8588 yes sir I'm happy and I enjoy serving my Husband daily and giving him P.R.A.I.S.E👑...Humility, Submission and Deep Respect are what God requires of the Wife, and I strive to become a better Wife everyday because He's watching...
I went MGT()W at 23. Gave up all hope for women and it keeps getting worse. I have no intentions of ever having sex again, let alone making the marriage commitment.
Yes! A definite 4 to 5 years! There's soooo much to learn, (about yourself, life, others, communication, compromise, long term relationship lifestyle, juggling home, children, husband, friends, family, personal interest, careers, personal beliefs, money challenges, etc. on and on and on and on......)
As Kevin keeps getting bigger more people will come out and and try to get him cancelled . My brothas don’t stop watching and always keep sharing his videos 🤝🤝🤝🤝🤝
As a woman they can't cancel him because he display strength and does not budge on his message. What he preaches is what mothers and fathers in Africa and Asia preach to their daughters!!
As long as your grandmothers can speak then have the conversation! I talked to my Granny while she was sick. She was still in her right mind before she transitioned.
I’m a 22 year old woman, and I appreciate his content. At first, because of his blatant type personality, I wasn’t too open to his platform. But if you truly listen over time, he is truly trying to reshape our black community. Many need to face reality and their unrealistic standards... Looks matter.... your personality and character matters especially as a woman. The choices you make early on affect your dating pool, having kids isn’t a high value man’s first pick because it goes against his natural instinct to pair with a woman with no offspring. Keeping yourself in shape and in a good state is important as a woman... Your youth is your prime. Many times you won’t get better than the man you choose to bear a child with.... it’s facts. During this pandemic we have the time to evaluate and train and mold ourselves to be the person/woman we want to be. I don’t want to date anymore with various men, I desire a meaningful committed relationship. Also too, I have never necessarily desired a high value man but a good one with good character and will be a provider! It’s all about mindset and being open to straight facts... how you feel don’t always matter! I do understand now, women and men have their own roles in this world. I want to mold myself to be a wife... thank you Kevin💕❤️😊
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Thank you, KS for, you have to LOVE a man to do what you have to do, then you do it with a SMILE.. And Thank God that you can serve your husband, Amen 🙏🙌
This woman is an example of many others that highly tout their education and advanced degrees only to want to make disposable income for their families. Almost 100% of them work all those years in school just to give it up once they meet a man, putting the responsibility on him.
The second the house needs to be cleaned or the family fed, she’s gunna cry. Seen it too many times. Especially her mom didn’t have a husband. She doesn’t know what one is.
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Women being told by liars and panderers that they are all Queens and deserve the best has done far more damage than it has good.
Yup, it's the OTHER extreme. In the past you had people telling women they are worthless or second class with a generation of women feeling less than, so then an overcorrection of "all women are awesome" has created women with egos that don't fit their accomplishments.
Giving people things they didnt earn can create serious problems.
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If all women are queens, then none of them are.
Little white lies constantly being told eventually turned to bigger damaging lies
"You expect men to take that risk, but when you date, you date on security"
Jesus Christ, this dude knows how to say everything in a single sentence. I love that one.
I’m not necessarily a man to appreciate when some calls themselves “a father figure” but I have learned so much from this man, he truly deserves the title of “god father” to us all
AGREED.
And he is getting better every week
I mean - risk taking is part of being a man while feeling secure is part of being a woman.
I'm 23, I grew up in a single parent house hold with my mom . She didn't want me to even meet my dad and we never spoke about him. I'm so glad that I am a boy and I have the power to change this broken chain in my family.
Once upon a time, learning how to be a wife actually was a course taught back in high school: Home Economics.
Of course, the social engineers took it out of the schools to get the current day outcome. It's all about breaking down a society, make money doing it at the same time and bring in a new society that they're more in control of. Global reset.
@@jahkarimirza7286 YES!!! In fact there's a book called 'The Deliberate Dumbing Down of America' by a woman who worked for the government during the years when they were making these changes and it's basically a tell-all of how these "social engineers" (nice way of putting it, lol) have worked to intentionally destroy society to the point where things are as messed up as they are today.
That course was taken out years ago, well my son stated they “ call “ it something else. But your not learning about daily life stuff 💆🏾♀️💆🏾♀️🤦🏽♀️
It’s up to us as parents: teach finance (investing, budgeting, credit building and debt-avoidance), basic sewing, cooking, laundry, hygiene and personal appearance, basic maintenance and repairs, common sense safety measures, home fire prevention and fire fighting, emergency reaction, Etc. Or you can expect school to cover hopefully 1% of any one of these topics.
Yes I learned from Home Economics and my grandmothers taught me as well
As young as she is, she conducts herself 100 times better than most grown women i have seen on this channel. She is going to make an awesome wife some day. All the best. Such a gorgeous girl.
@@theleslieandrea Yeah, but the women that usually come on are really bad.
I agree. She's pleasant and very pretty.
Yup
@@theleslieandrea you'll do well my dear, listen to Kevin because as a 31 year old cyber security expert, I'm only looking for the types of girl Kevin is trying to tell you to transform into.
Best of luck and study disciplined 👊
agreed.
'You expect a man to take that kind of risk and marry you on potential, but you don't date on potential, you date on security.'
Bars 💥
Bars!
Straight bars!!!!
Men lead, women follow.
All the damn Bars!!
Spittin fire like SCORPION!!!
Kevin had a whole full fledged conversation with her in his Daddy-Daughter voice😅
So true! He was telling her what he will tell his daughter.
He's old enough that she could be his daughter, thus the tone was appropriate.
@1st was the Word exactly. Have that talk wit your own daughter.
@1st was the Word the mother probably drove him away fr
@@TheBleepings That was his Exwife's Daughter that he had mentioned on several occasions. The only reason why dummies like that "1st of a word" person is even bringing it up is because Kevin's exwife is mad at him for not paying for HER Daughter's college tuition. To which he really doesn't have to because that's her Daughter, NOT his
Back in Africa, our training starts as an infant. The women raising us make sure we get the "wife" skills before leaving home. You even learn to serve guests, organize events, caring for the old, etc. Tiring but good life skills even to survive alone.
This is good. That way it becomes ingrained in the women to be wives, like second nature, or rather FIRST nature. Thanks for sharing 👍🏾
Exactly.....I had African training growing up in London.
@SOULREBELABYSS amen to that.
And then you run off to America..lol
marry me!
As an educated man, I watch many content creators and realize what they do, I can do. What Kevin does, is on another level. His perspective is a necessity in the Black community.
He reps black the black man!!!
Yep n now hes gone
@@thewonderingbuddhist6123 But the message has already been delivered. So, the same standard still applies.
American Negro and Wondering Buddhist…I’m Offensive White.
That's real 👍💯
Like Robin Williams said way back when ..... "I'd rather be alone than be with people that make me feel alone"
Proverbs 21:9
RIP Robin
RIP MR WILLIAMS
This is powerful 👏
That's deep
Robin Williams also said: They call it alimony but it should be called all the money.
Brother went from 150k in November/December to 700k by the following April! He's doing the right thing and it's paying off for him!
Going viral...🔥
Kevin has a great crossover audience. He has a lot of wisdom for any modern person, whatever their race. While Oprah is pushing women into a glitzy version of feminism, Kevin is giving them a dose of reality.
Because he sold out and did what gets him the most money
@@mj3433 he tapped into the content that clearly shows it needs the most attention. He says regularly that he is running a business. Show some appreciation and out the salt shaker away.
@john doe Factssss
What these women don't consider is men built this world that came with a lot of pain. Women want to avoid pain at all costs yet they think they equal to men.
That’s the problem with women today is they don’t realize that they need men!!
To be their equal.T hus the reason they think they are all entitle to a HVM. It could be vanity...
& to make matters more redundant, have the audacity to boast about it 🤦🏿♂️
@@henryhall2403 ok simping, smh
@@King-ns7it 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Him: "Sex, sandwich, and silence."
Her: "Can you give me two more?"
Him: "Silence and silence."
Her: "Really? because I feel that blah blah bablah blabby blah blah...."
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Blabby 🤣
Yep...so simple yet hard to do ..whew
Damn that's funny and sad. But 👍
😂
The lord blessed me with a good woman. We've been married for 17 years now, with two teenagers, and a very unexpected one on the way. It's definitely hard work just keeping your marriage in order. It has seemed to get easier, but there are some hard times behind us. You learn to pick, and choose your battles, and not get worked up over small things. We're fairly old-school though, I'd say, and I hope to take my last breath beside her.
Spoken like a wise man. We cannot get caught up in the petty issues and derail the train to our final destinations. Stay the man. Stay in control. Stay together.
You thought it was almost over and now you have to start all over again.
You will, just keep being the man God made you to be. Congrats!!!!!!
God bless you and your family . Keep up the good work.
Awe🥰
700k I’m proud of this black man. One million soon Kevin ✊🏾
Yep we have to get Kevin to 1million subs
✊🏾
They be hating viciously on him while ignoring his message and results . he is such an example for us all. I appreciate how he doesn't even acknowledged his haters
Facts my brother
Yea he jumped like 200k + in a couple weeks I am soo proud
“Better to dwell in a corner of a housetop, Than in a house shared with a contentious woman.”
Proverbs 21:9 NKJV
Remember that when you chase these models. I get it. Go for what attracts you but understand looks means nothing if those looks don’t come with peace.
Period, this is why a woman’s looks no longer impress me until I get to see her character.
These Corners in the housetop starting to feel reeeal comfy 😂😂 shiii
@@jcking2589 😂😂😂😂
@@jcking2589 🤣 Yep, for REAL.
@@jcking2589 you got an extra corner king? lol
Lol Kevin clearly liked her cus although she was chatty she still had her innocence and most importantly she wasn’t masculine energy negative, which is why he didn’t complain when she over-talked him through the whole video
he can tell she really wanted this knowledge I believe she received it well
Because she's not being combative or using the SIGN language... yes some push back from her part which is good but she's doing that to understand and learn.
He always say he matches energy
she's in the age range he likes to date, is cute, and open to suggestions.
Cute 🥰
The truth of Kevin's message - is reflected in the growth of his subscriber base. Dude might be the hottest thing on RUclips - he's killing it. 26 million views in the last 30 days.
This the type of content we need on these platforms yet these ticky tockers and they new challenges gots ppl f"dd up 😅 no wonder shitts all messed up
@@jackfrost8600 When you posted your comment, he had 700k subs. Now, he has 1.05 million, and rapidly climbing.
It’s a shame. The powers that shouldn’t be murder the black men with big platforms who lift up their communities. May The Most High bring swift judgement to those who took Kevin’s life.
Ameen bro. 💯💯💯💯. He died with absolutely no questions and no explanation. Crazy!
28:52 "You've got more education, you make more money but you do less with it and you're in a worse position"
Modern women summarized
Me too 😂
@@kennykanetv 😂😂😂
🤝
Same! When I saw it I was like “You can’t make that shit up” 😂💀
Okay
Respect to this girl. She's putting in effort. Especially being raised by a single mother. 🙏
I'm a married stay home mother and it's true what Kevin said about our mothers and grandmothers only having prepared us for independence. After I got my degree I met my husband and had to throw my pride about a high flying career out the door. Now he's a "High value man" that I manage and support however he needs and he's thriving for our family. Our traditional structure works. I wake up and I know I'm CEO of running our home with my husband as the leader and I value that more than any other job.
Every segment and stream, Kevin proves to us yet again why we, as Black men, must do everything in our power to protect him. Where else do you see anyone telling our stories like this and not holding back?
This might sound corny, but the level of appreciation I have for this brotha is hard to describe
Thank you, Kevin. Thank you!
Corny or not, We all feel the same way. From 19 to 69
*To future commenters:* Ignore the Lina Mason troll above. They’re under comments across a bunch of Kevin’s videos looking to create disruption. Don’t bite
As a white dude i feel the same.
@Lina Mason I guess showing appreciation makes u a lil girl in 2021
@@He2saved I told you don’t bite . . . smh 🤦🏾♂️
We still recovering from last night, bruh!
He droppin videos left and right
For real
Last nights stream probably had some of the most from the heart and soul but with anger moments that we have seen from Kevin
You can tell he was really upset/hurt by the answers and responses by those women.
Last night was crazy. That last chick really just put it out there 😂🔥🔥🔥
Suddenly, I'm seeing a higher value on the girl I'm dating who can cook and clean with no debt from school.
Damn thats rare
"Wife school". I had to chuckle at that. The feminist would burn the building down at any university that considered teaching such a thing. But all joking aside, many a southern bell went to "charm" or "finishing" school 50 years ago.
I will be honest, I do think universities need to teach courses on "life skills". I mean in this day and age, how many 20 somethings know how to write a check, service a vehicle, or cook food with more than two ingredients? If you check their kitchen, do they even own cookery beyond a pot or two?
@@superdave8248 that is supposed to be the parents job. I don't know if you have kids, but if you did, did you try teaching them those life skills and why they are important? The hardest thing I'm encountering is breaking through to my son that no one else will try to teach him these things later for free.
@@johnwright6706 Agreed. It should have been the parents' job to do these things. Do I have biological children? No. I have stepchildren and they were both grown adults when I started getting involved with their mother. So I can't speak on what they were taught and what they were not.
But I see it the disconnect. My wife can cook. But when I hear my stepdaughter talking to her mom, she doesn't make complex meals. They are basic. If she and her SO want a complex meal they eat out. Is that a failure of the mom to teach these types of skills or is it a failure on the daughter to use the skills she was once taught? To be honest I have no idea. I just know from my own experience that once you stop using skills those skills wither like dead leaves on a vine. You might have been able to make the best cake in the world, but if you haven't baked a cake in 10 years odds are the first one you do bake again isn't going to be up to the old standard.
I'm a product of the public school system of the 1970s and 80s. In middle school everyone had to take half a year of Home Economics. And yes, it covered these very things. High School also had a similar course but I never took it so I have only assumptions on what was taught. But it was primarily targeting towards females.
If the public education system back then saw a need for such classes and even make one mandatory for all students, I can't help but think in this day and age it is even more necessary than previously.
When I graduated high school I knew a single person that came from a single parent home. People who divorced simply remarried. The friend in this case her parents had separated while she was in high school. I don't even recall if they finalized the divorce or not. And nobody had a parent who was a widow. But about 10 years ago I was looking through a calendar one of the local school's produced. It had pictures of students and their families. Half the pictures were single family households. Half. And that wasn't even a two generation difference. Going from no single family homes to half.
When you are dealing with single parent households, when do you have the time to focus on life skills? Between school, homework, and extracurricular activities, there just isn't time in one person's day. And it is even worse if there is more than one child in the house.
Nice 😂
She is a real one. Wifehood I.Q. going up with each minute she talks to Kevin.
That’s exactly what I said! She’s still young and it’s noticeable in her ways however she was an open door for elevation and mastering. She’s on her way to getting what she wants 💙
She’s 24 and just starting the process.
everytime these gals say - "I have a question" then talk for 5 minutes and Kevin say "so whats the question" - I just die inside they really just wanna talk and not solve any problems
Men and women communicate differently. Men want the bottom line and skip the details. Women process details first then get to the bottom line. The difference in communication styles doesn't mean she "just wanted to talk." (In addition, KS has a show to run so he is definitely all straight business.) Hopefully this will be helpful for you to keep in mind.
@@gcromer903 is this why women need men to lead them?
@fran wei lol. They have to communicate. I remember my step mom would spend hours on the phone. But seldom talk to my dad.
@@Jame6999 and thats why she's a step-mom and not a mom.
Hahahaa SAME
If you gave her a thug right now all her so called standards would go right out the window.
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On G
@@henryhall2403
Not necessarily. I seen them choose a broke, in and out of jail, pants sagging gang banger with nothing going for himself and they will let him lay up rent free until he goes back to jail and then they'll repeat the process.
Thats how it is, they will break the mold for the right guy
Whew I’m so grateful for my husband.. im a stay at home mom with our son, 21 years old .. he provides so much for us and I’m so happy we truly love one another .. he’s 22.., he married me when I was 19 .
Damn you're a rare one. As long as you're keeping his balls empty, his stomach full, being nurturing and feminine and raising the kids right in an inviting home environment, that's all a man needs to conquer the world. He'll naturally reciprocate when you're doing what you're meant to do. I wish you two a great marriage and a happy life together :)
Congrats and may GOD bless the both of you and your children.
Sounds great (so far), but then so do the 60% of marriages that fail. The next 5 years will tell and your role as wife will be PIVITOL to the success or failure of your union.
wow! He was prepared early.
Thank God for another one keep up the good work..make home a pleasurr to come to..love..respect..appreciation..never take him for granted..keep your marriage and ur man...God will bless both of you
Thats the best conversation i have watch around. She was receptive and talkable, it gave him the opportinity to really teach something to someone and everyone without having to debate every little sentense.
At least someone else here realizes that and I like how she actually stopping and think, she really took things into consideration
This is a perfect example of the older single mother not teaching her daughter to become a wife and the younger daughter clearly recognizing it. These conversation are needed!
Yea this convo was needed. I think she has the potential to be a good wife tho. She has the right mindset and she’s willing to learn how to be a wife.
Exactly. So sad 😞 this is what to choose from🤪
@@shaunkey9374 thank you! I believe I do as well and I'm working on it :)
@Felicia Wu serious question what are wife skills because whenever people say cooking and cleaning that’s dismissed as something everyone does
@@hananfetwy7230 here are some of the things I do as a wife & mom: cook breakfast lunch & dinner, prepare lunch for him for work, clean the house, grocery shopping, take care of everybody in the house when they’re sick, laundry, I pick up his meds because he’ll forget, etc AND I work a full time job. Being a wife is a lot of work and I only stop when I’m ready to go to bed. Most days I’m tired but I love my family. Anyone who says they want marriage for just love and companionship is in for a rude awakening. BTW I’m Dominican and 50 and this is how we were raised so it’s nothing new.
They really don’t understand the sacrifices it takes to reach a goal. They just expect every man to be at the finish line.
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@@DizzKoMane facts BIG REPORTED
Factual.
This is a nice woman. She just needs good company around her. I can see she'll willing to learn and be cooperative.
Facts 💯......she definitely got potential.....she has the listening factor which is a huge plus to us men
I'm afraid she fooled you. This is a walking nightmare!
@@kijana2030 facts. She tried her best to act different. But the mask slipped. A lot of people confuse waiting to respond with listening.
@@coreytumulty816 agreed 💯 . Listening to understand is very difficult. I have to constantly remind myself.
@@kijana2030 lol cause all she gonna do is argue with you, under the guise of listening.
She was a real joy to watch, not confrontational, bossy or demanding.
Was very nice conversation
I myself have been in wife academy (learning from the married women in my life) the number one thing i have learned is to shut up 🤐 who would’ve thought that was a main ingredient lol
🤐 got you a 💍...... 💯✔️
My grandma literally said that knowing when to 🤐 is the key to a happy, long lasting marriage. She was married 60 years till he passed away.
Honestly just wanting to BE married rather than GET married puts you head and shoulders over your competition.
Men are challenged all day. The literal last thing they need is being challenged more when they're trying to relax at home and recuperate, and yet that is when they get ambushed by girls like this and nagging. I'd rather be strapped in a Chinese prison getting dripping water tortured.
Yes can't tell you how much I wish women would just stfu and listennnn
These modern women have to call Kevin to learn what men expect from them because their mothers won't tell them.
The mother does not know. You cant teach what you don't know.
@@laqwannafranklin-caines4273 that makes sense. So, without the knowledge, what makes marriage so appealing? Is it a fantasy lifestyle to them?
@Christopher Surdak that makes sense. So, without the knowledge, what makes marriage so appealing? Is it a fantasy lifestyle to them?
that makes sense. So, without the knowledge, what makes marriage so appealing? Is it a fantasy lifestyle to them?
@@MickeyJaymz yes. And once the bubble pops on the fantasy and they realize that actual work, sacrifice, patience and forgiveness is required...they're out. Why do you think that 80%of divorces are initiated by these fefails?
“Teach me how to be a wife” I don’t think I know any women who have made that request. Nor do I know any older women who have said “let me show you how to be a wife”
Exactly! That's what we need!
My mother taught me to be a wife. Funny enough watching how my father treated her and asking him questions on why he did the things he did. I believe both my parents gave me the lessons needed to be a good wife.
@@tinylilmonster28 what did she teach you?
Older women try not to talk to young folks about marriage especially religious folks.
Most of my friends are men old enough to be my father, their wives often try to talk to their daughters and their daughters friends. Women my age don't want to hear it.
I remember how many girls rejected taking home economics when I was in high school back in the early 90s. Now, we're seeing the results of this in full effect, and we're all paying for it.
In Jamaica it’s a requirement from grades 7-9
Facts I remember too, it was maybe 2 or 3 girls in that class, we see the results now
This girl is going to be successful someday. Even though she's not ready yet she definitely has the right mindset.
Successful doing what exactly?
@@kijana2030 the fact that she's able to reflect on the poor decisions that she's made in the past and that she's actively seeking for answers on how to reach the goals that she wants in life shows me that at least she's taking the first step towards being successful in life. Most people can't even look themselves in the mirror realistically. I used to be the same way until I got tired of not having the results I wanted in my life.
@@gregoryguerrier963 facts! Well said
@@gregoryguerrier963 Understood my brother. 👊
@@kijana2030 👊
"they treat us badly, are disrespectful, have multiple girlfriends" - yet she keeps her ex number from grade 7
Refuse to stay of the c. carousel.
From... 7? Dude... wtf
😂😂
@@progers86 it's just sad... I wonder if they think about anything carefully before they actually say it
@@leeroyhustle probably not. A lot of them talk just for the sake of it. 🤷🏾♂️
"You got to love a man to be willing to do what you already should know" Sheesh This man is profound.
This young lady can be salvaged...She wants better for herself and sometimes that’s enough...
My man’s said “salvaged” 😂
Wanting it is Never enough!!!! I wanted to have my abs sho for a few years now… but I only started a month ago to actually change my diet and work out for my abs to show. And dammit, I say Gahdayum my abs won’t show until I complete the work 💡
Sadly, who is going to guide her? We are seeing the products of failing parenting for 3~ generations now, and it clearly cannot fix itself at this point
Nope she wants to be in control. Can't follow directions and can't stfu.
Man Kevin is such a sharp dude. I’ve noticed that every time a woman tries to over talk him he’s got them all to apologize and be quiet. Hey ladies he’s teaching you and most of you don’t even realize it. I say this to say practice it at home with your dude. I bet you’ll get a difference in how he acts. Oh yeah and sex sandwich and silence. The recipe
He is the GOAT
He's in control of his masculine energy
They all listen to speak & miss the whole message! 💯
And Yes.
I noticed that too. and I do it now as well, and it works every time.
You ever notice when Kevin asks what they bring to the table and want out of marriage, none of it is ever about the man? It’s always what the man can do for them. It’s as if they think we should consider ourselves lucky to even get looked at.
💯
Thats a fizzzzact
That is the clear sign of a person NOT ready to get married and I have been marred for 23 years. When you get married, it's a partnership of what each person brings to the table that they can't on their own or with great cost. It's about reaching life goals and sharing life's changes together because both people know they helped each other get there. I take pride in helping my wife succeed, and she enjoys helping me reach my goals. One way relationships are doomed for failure. Know what you bring to the table and deliver. The worst is also misleading, such as cooking or doing things while you are dating, and stopping it after marriage.
This the product of Instagram. Think they are worth so much because horny dudes in the dm.
Kevin said the magic word last week and it's not going to be lost: DUTY.
Modern women are either ignorant of or fully refusing to perform THEIR DUTY to men.
I never heard my parents or grand parents or any other group of people say that they are working on themselves. Blk folks, we be 30, 40, and 50 years old still talking about we working on ourselves🧑🔧👩🔧 🤷
🤣 I know, right?
Never heard my grandmother or mother say "I love me some me" either 🤷🏿♂️
@@mentlinc exactly 💯
🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@mentlinc 😂😂😂
46:00 😮 she even played along!
I think she has potential, she realized she needs to change, she has a good attitude, listened most of the time, quick witted, smart enough, nice voice, easy on the eyes, and child like even the way she said bye and waved him a bye. With some self work and guidance she might do just fine
Oh she was a sweet heart just trying to learn something. He took alot of time with her cause he saw something in her.
She’s no sweet heart. She has an orbiter boyfriend from 7th grade and “dated” a dude 10 years older. These women are slick. Not sweet.
@@Automattie that is why Kevin is trying to teach her.
@@Automattie yes but he was taking time to teach her though. Her eyes are open now, hard not to see things once they are.
It's going in 1 ear and out the other. She talks entirely too much. She's annoying
@James Brown I wouldn't say 95. Problem is the ones that are not worthy are the most vocal and annoying and always in your face. The good ones aren't in certain places and don't call attention to themselves in a negative way. Plus those women usually get snatched up pretty quick and aren't checking for us regular dudes. Lol
Women: I want a good-looking young man with a lot of money and hopefully he's a celebrity.
Men: next
who the hell said that? NOT ME.
@@theleslieandrea but you will they all do
@@theleslieandrea, you still not getting it yet? We don't care about subjectivity or exceptions to the rule anymore. *You* might not, but this is how the *majority* of millennial and zoomer generation BW think and if that's the case we gon' talk about it.
@@theleslieandrea u held it dwn for da Cap City 804💪🏾 u gon be alright just keep listening to da godfather 😎
@@theleslieandrea is this you in the video? If it is please ignore Kevin about your boyfriend. There is nothing wrong with two young people getting married and preparing for a family without money. Get a solid foundation started. What Kevin told you to do is wrong and part of the problem younger women are skipping over young men their age who have potential. If the guy you are with has potential for success and you guys are in love theres nothing wrong with that. Again Kevin was completely wrong for telling you he can't get married because he's broke. I wish you success.
Kevin is really putting in the work.
Gods work... yes.
Godfather ty. Honestly last night was hard for me. The fact you keep working. Made me get off my ass on my weekend and do some work.
Kevin went hard this video
This young lady is light years ahead of her peers. Conducts herself very respectfully, understands where she is lacking, willing to do the work and is open to leadership. She's going to be a blessing to someone very soon.
This the one to make me tear up. This is a scary reality for me & so many of us! Someone open up wife schools ASAP!
Womp womp. I hear Retrievers are nice🦮
@@RudyPalos 😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆
@Shay Lamere,
*Get on yo’ knees n’ get busy 💦 👀!*
Ask a wife who's been happily married, not unhappily married.
Marriage is also not the answer you being a woman to know a woman is always looking whether she is married or not that’s the whole point of procreation you are searching for the best possible option meaning the best situation, and genetics. Marriage only benefits preachers marriage chapels government organizations etc. marriage is not a natural action in the natural response someone being forced to stay with one person or a voice in themselves to stay with the person is to leave or cheat on that person there is nothing that will stop nature at the end
"I don't want no City Girl Summer. That's not me" I love that.
Lmfaoooo suuurreee
She sure looks allot more than thru than these “city gurls”
Yet she got a music video singing, "I got that ooo ooo ooo." 🤦♂️
Not wanting to be a 304 is actually celebrated. That’s sad. That was the norm before. Now you’re saying you love that…
I met my wife when she was 15. She knew how to sew, she could bake bread, she babysat and loved little kids a ton. She was smart and focused on doing well in school. She was preparing to become a wife and mother and it showed. It put her so far ahead of all the shallow girls around her who were only interested in where the best deals on clothes were and what concerts were coming up.
I was just about to say all the girls that grew up learning how to be a wife and a mother get snatched up quick and are married by their early twenties.
Yup, she was 19 when we married, and I didn't have a job or a car even, but I had prepared to be a father and husband. I was in university preparing for a career. She worked and help put me through school, then I worked and she stayed home and raised our kids. It took a lot of sacrifice (no 6 figures here) but it worked. When the youngest was old enough, she went back to school, got her degree, now she has a good career too. A woman can have it all, but she has to do the marriage/kids part first, then the career part after. A 40 year old woman doesn't have the energy to keep up with toddlers but a woman in her 20s does.
You lucky man !
Sounds like you guys were in a wagon train trying to go West to dig for gold. She know how to bake bread over rocks and sticks. You Lucky man. Keep her pregnant and bare foot, you Fool!
And how old were you?
She seems mad cool. I hope she finds the happiness we all are seeking.
EVERYBODY want to go to Heaven but don't NOBODY want to D!E 💥💯
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" " -- Michael Scott
This is literally the quote of the year thus far....
12:20
"You gotta love a man to be willing to do what you should already know"
Damn
Dropping bombs
Yeah that was straight heat 🔥🔥
You think women just submit to just anybody?
@MJ Marriageable women do
@@mj3433 I don’t think it’s about submitting but more about doing what you know you should already do.
Kevin really running a soap opera. Last night was intense and he’s back for more 😂😂
Last nite was a show!!!
This was very good! So much relearning we have to do as women especially if the goal is to be someone's wife
@Zak Nero royalchocolateee
Keep it up brother.... These conversations are needed
People need more dialogue and open minds
@@ShaunHensley Well truthfully men always need to adjust no matter the time period. Womens adjustments have been completely different and now that they are dealing with some of the chaos we get they are bugging.
a great conversation
My mother who grew up in Japan said almost all classes in school were to teach women how to be a homemaker/wife.
Japan is done. They have one of the lowest birthrates in the world. Their older generation is dying off faster than they can replace them. Their culture, their genetics, will be completely wiped out in a handful of generations. You can't come back when you allow your birthrates to fall to the degree some of these countries have. The west is general isn't far behind. The ones driving the global population are the countries with extreme poverty and no birth control.
Is that why women are choosing to remain single and Japan has a negative birthrate
@@gouloune1 nope thats due to the work culture and its not women refusing anything it's men tapping out of the game. the women there WANT children and love. Take it from someone who knows Japanese women who live in Japan
@@Bayo106 one of my homies has a Japanese wife, he lives in Japan now. The men are tapping out because shit is expensive. We can’t all earn 6 figures otherwise it wouldn’t be the 1%
@@Bayo106 and probably women outnumber men so that's an issue.
Notice in the beginning when Kevin asked about women standards she tried to split the two but when he asked if men under 30 were marriage minded she immediately said NO. The code is real.
The code is across all ages and only may hit certain issues when it’s a woman of one race against a woman of another race. But even then, if they ‘feel’ a man threatens the ecosystem of the code across the board they will all join in as one force. Group think which is a psychic phenomenon is quite real and often sadistic.
Yup! That good 'ol Hive Mentality
NO I DIDN'T.
@@theleslieandrea You actually did, I just rewatched it.
@@theleslieandrea I’m sorry but you did. Just take a step back and be self reflective. There is an old saying, “you have to break some things in order to build them back correctly.” This is how self realized people view themselves.
Watching these women speak makes me appreciate my grandmother so much 🤗 she raised me, and at 10 yrs old she taught me how to clean, cook, sew, iron, hand wash and all that old school stuff! Tbh, I hated doing all those things at 10yrs old lol, but she always told me that in order to get a good husband, I needed all those skills! I got married at 25, my husband provides for me, took me outta work, and I make sure he comes home to a clean, peaceful house, dinner, clean clothes, and lunch for work everyday! We are 3 yrs strong and a whole lifetime to go! There are good men out there, ladies! We just gotta put in the work too!
This one was really good. She has potential to grow and overall very cooperative. Kevin didn’t mind dropping some jewels. She’s young enough to get on the right track and be an inspiration to other young ladies.
Truth. Bro. Mason.... Are you from. Richmond, Virginia??
Amen
@@skinfanjay I am.. lol glad she repp with some maturity, sense, respectful and tries to listen.
@@noirbellaqt624 I am too......Born and raised 56 years... I was very impressed with this womqn.... She WILL find a good man
Divorce lawyers will not like this brother,but he is THE TRUTH❗❗❗🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
But the Therapists aren't complaining.😂
They seen him twice.
Check out a new youtuber called The Lead Attorney.
@@rafiki172 right????😂
😉 Let's make more divorce lawyers unemployed! 🙂
Some men do take that chance though. My husband took it on me. When we met he expected me to be a wife and I wasn't prepared. We talked about it the other day and I told him I didn't know that what he expected of me and that's why we struggled so much in the beginning of our relationship. Its been 4 years now. I'm a full time stay at home mom and wife and I love it. I was willing to learn grow and change to get here and by gods grace hes had patience and has worked with me to get were we are. Now he says I'm a great wife and mom and I'm very happy about that. It was very very hard to be a wife from the very beginning because I didn't know how to be one. Now when I have a daughter I know I will teach her how to be a wife and a mother so that it will be easier for her when she gets married.
Nice
bless you both....need more outcomes like this
U hit the lottery lol
That's wonderful to hear, I'm sure he's eternally grateful that you pushed it to get to where you are as well.
@@kennethwalker6737 I feel like it, and I tell him almost everyday how blessed I feel
I'm 43 years old and maybe I'm still stuck in another generation, but there is something that irks me when I hear a 24 year old call a 50 something year old man by his first name. Definitely a different time than the one I was brought up in.
And we don't even have a time machine🤦
I think it’s his preference. When some callers do call him Mr. Samuels he tells them it’s not necessary.
A little boy asked me my name and I said Ms. (First name). My 10 year old son corrected me and told the boy it's Mrs. (Last name). 😂😂😂 Excuse me, sir.
I’m 56 and I don’t call people Mr. or Mrs, So and So, I never did. Nor did I hear anyone my age expect to be called that. Most people respond with Mr. So and So is my father call me by my first make.
I am 20 years old and I share your sentiments. Ughh maybe it’s the Nigerian in me that could absolutely never.
What’s funny is IK we’ve tried to have these convos with our women but they don’t want to hear this. They listen to him because he has this stature. Sheesh.
It's everywhere dude.
She refuses to listen to any man that isn't of a certain pedigree if you will.
I've had women in my life denounce what I tell them and when a man she respects 5 ft away says the same thing all of a sudden it's okay.
You know what I'm talking about.
Its because they have YOU
They don't have HIM
But you don't make the same money as Kevin and you are younger, so they don't take you seriously.
I told my girl the reason we are constantly arguing is because she has a masculine personality....instead of taking constructive criticism and working on it...she got upset and started cussing like a sailor...she’s now my ex🤷🏾
Any of us arguing against modern women their only comeback is “if you’re broke just say that” LMAO
I'm on my 10th shot in less than a min of me counting the number of times she said "i feel like".
Now "I feel like" throwing up!
"Call the coraner."-B.I.G.😆
Don't do this bro lol
Yo im dead
Do not play that game . You'll end up in the hospital .
Lol 😆
In Africa you start learning how to be a wife and mother as early as 5 years. I recall my elder sisters taking care of me when I was little
@Alexander that tide of being a wife & mother conversation is shifting
@@mr.boakye4949 what do you mean?
Nice story man
@@lennarthomas I mean modern parents in Africa are mostly not teaching their kids about marital duties & responsibilities
@@mr.boakye4949 oh wow that sucks feminism is spreading everyone
Hey Kevin.. u put that career earning in perspective for me.. wow That changed my whole thought process I APPRECIATE YOU BIG DOG!!
Im Glad I was Able To Ride The Wave From 35-45k to 700k
Your so-called personal win a puzzling🤦🏿♂️
@@Double0Kane Im Glad You Thought My Comment Was Worthy Of Your Flat Joke On A Saturday.. Do You Really Have Nothin Else To Do? That's Just Cringe..
@@DarylLII I'm rich...Like really rich not fake it til you make it rich like retired at 28 Rich😤.... all I do is talk shit & troll people...Then go swimming in my in house pool🤣🤣🤣🤣So nope I don't!
@@Double0Kane You Know What... I Fucks With You Bruh...Im Not Even Mad Atchu... Respect
@@DarylLII & That's how we learn😆
the end is so funny because he's telling her "more silence" but she literally cannot stop talking
Got me screaming, "SILENCE".
Not only that, but every time he said silence she got LOUDER to agree with him. She was consistently on the 'I'm not like other girls' energy, even though that exact idea and energy is preciselyy what makes her like all the other girls.
For real.. The silence part is gonna be too hard for her to do.
I couldn’t 😭😭
I started laughing my ass off. ABSOLUTELY hopeless.
12:23 Bruh, that’s one of the most profound things I’ve ever heard & it’s so spot on. Women have to basically be in love with you for you to get them “fully” on board, and even that’s not enough in the long run.
The problem with their definition of “love” is that it depends on how they FEEL at the moment.
And love is not enough. Because one day they will fall out of love with their husband..... then what?
Romantic type love in a marriage ebbs and flows, it comes and it goes. Because of this, one cannot build a structure upon it. One cannot make romantic love the edifice or foundation of a marriage.
But this is exactly what so many modern women do, and this goes a long way to explain why 80% percent of all divorces are initiated by women. This is why so many wives are out here cheating, they're looking for that "love" feeling again.
@@commandericeman8588 you nailed it. Chasing a high cause they, "Just don't feel it anymore."
@@commandericeman8588 Religious pressure, social pressure and fault divorce kept feels in check. When you'd lose your income, your reputation and your ability to remarry you thought twice about divorce (and you had to come to court with proof, none of that "I feel"). Women felt oppressed by that system. Now they feel done wrong by the freedom they fought for. No matter how much Kevin preaches and how much they get it today, the social system is not in place to curb the power of feels tomorrow.
By far the best interview that I’ve seen… There was so much relative and relatable information. This woman on the surface is everything that most women twice her age aren’t.
There’s two present generations of women who do not want to live the lives that their mothers and grandmothers had by committing to long term relationships from dating to the grave…. But want the financial security while conducting their selves in a manner to ruin what they have had or some never will have…
It is amazing how Kevin point of remaining silent went over her head. She couldn't just stop and listen she always had something to say. Proving his point of her being a handful.
FACTS. She needs to see these comments and THIS comment
Shout out to Cherry Point!
I was excited to talk to him, I was very engaged and I'm a talkative person. I do work on silence but I was so into the conversation it was a challenge to be quiet especially because this was a rare conversation and moment for me to share especially with Kevin.
@@naturalhealthrevolution1518 I SAW IT!!
@@theleslieandrea from the video you genuinely seem to want to improve yourself. For that I wish you nothing but success 👍.
For all the older women who are housewife can you guys trying to start a RUclips channel teaching younger women please ❤️❤️❤️
NollaGirl504 channel and Our Rich Journey channel.
I agree; i just hope the unmarried women take heed to their advice.
I tried since I have been married over 30 years but the women were so mean and nasty I got discouraged... I believed I was called to teach in 2018 and copyrighted my information... as I presented it to groups and even close “friends” they stopped talking to me and taking my calls... Ms Shay you have made me rethink my calling...please pray for me 🙏🏾
@@successtosignificance Please don't give up on them. We(men) will support your channel.
Being a housewife or feminine, in the traditional sense, is pushed as being oppressed these days by the modern Left who control culture and media. That's the major problem.
Kevin Does have the BEST TITLES that are extremely relevant to the video content....
And he gets views with 0 clickbait
KS is droppin' science 💯. Wishing this young woman the best , very refreshing live stream.
Can’t wait to see Kevin get to 1 Million Subscribers!! Gonna be a celebration !
At this pace he will hit 1 million in about a day lol. He is soaring right now.
Same bro, I'm predicting by the beginning of the summer he'll be there
@@anyo_mations End of June. Mark my word. He has an average of 100k subs/three weeks.
@@nisuperman definitely summer time
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We are witnessing the result of 2 decades of reality tv and social media playing out right before our eyes.
We cannot live victoriously until we stop living vicariously, especially if we’re following the wrong role models and have unrealistic expectations.
Dont forget the feminism ideology and the professional victimology taught in school and liberal college for the most part
This guy motivates me to be a better man for my future wife! 🙏🏾 Keep going Kevin!
Be a better man for yourself. You are the prize. Remember that
@@ral2585 I been telling my homies that. Stop chasing women, men came first, they just a side piece (rib)
Nah there aren’t any wives out here only little girls in a grow woman’s body
Nice to see and hear an intelligent young woman accepting accurate information from Kevin. I’m older and female and my mother and grandmother taught me as a young girl NOTHING. MY mother cooked but we were not allowed in the kitchen to learn how to cook bc she said it made her nervous.
"You ladies want the resources of an older man in a younger package." That man be spitting🔥🔥🔥
Because women don’t want to build with a man anymore. They want an oven ready guy who’s already on an executive level.
@@gipgap4 It doesn’t do anything for a woman to build with a man. They will just trade her in for the better options he will have after she’s helped him build.
@@mj3433 this is not true, women are looking for ways to better themselves financially without doing the work
@@gipgap4 women wait at the finish line, they aren’t trying to run the race with you.
@@industriesofintelligence2236 It’s not a woman’s job to “do the work” and help a man build, and it is true. Men are not staying with the woman that helped him build, when he has access to women he didn’t before.
Sex, Sandwich and Silence got me a 5 carat upgrade, 6 years married👑👑....
But here is the larger question.... are you happy or satisfied serving your husband: sex, sandwich, silence?
Many women are fearful they would be in absolute misery to have to "serve" their husband's in such a capacity in order to keep him happy and satisfied.
They see this as a form of slavery, they see this as "extremely demeaning."
@@commandericeman8588 yes sir I'm happy and I enjoy serving my Husband daily and giving him P.R.A.I.S.E👑...Humility, Submission and Deep Respect are what God requires of the Wife, and I strive to become a better Wife everyday because He's watching...
It's really that simple for us men.
That's wonderful sis, blessings to you and yours
Sir, you don't even have a wife let alone a ex wife. We don't think its slavery too care for your husband. We be obliged too.
I’m in Richmond, VA lol. Also, I’m 22 and want to get married one day, so it’s not about the generation, it’s about how there’s no wives out here.
Don’t do it. You’ll regret it.
I went MGT()W at 23. Gave up all hope for women and it keeps getting worse. I have no intentions of ever having sex again, let alone making the marriage commitment.
Find someone around 19-20 with “potential” and groom her to be a wife. By the time you’re 30, you should be all set.
Why buy a cow when you are bathing in free milk
I live in W. Henrico Co and you are spot on. Lol.
Yes! A definite 4 to 5 years! There's soooo much to learn, (about yourself, life, others, communication, compromise, long term relationship lifestyle, juggling home, children, husband, friends, family, personal interest, careers, personal beliefs, money challenges, etc. on and on and on and on......)
As Kevin keeps getting bigger more people will come out and and try to get him cancelled . My brothas don’t stop watching and always keep sharing his videos 🤝🤝🤝🤝🤝
Will do. ✊🏿
@@AM-ri9ut thanks brotha. We are stronger together ☝🏻
As a woman they can't cancel him because he display strength and does not budge on his message. What he preaches is what mothers and fathers in Africa and Asia preach to their daughters!!
As long as your grandmothers can speak then have the conversation! I talked to my Granny while she was sick. She was still in her right mind before she transitioned.
sadly that is sometime the best time to speak with them
🙏🙏✝️✝️💯
@Aphrodisiaque,
*Get on yo’ knees n’ get busy 💦 👀!*
This girl has potential, at least she realized the all these “hot girls summer” and internet bs is horrible.
@@mindyobidness86 well she’s well aware. so if she keep working on her self, she can find love.
Once pounded, shet back...
She was pleasant. Easy on the eyes and seems as if she’s just a good listener and engager. With a couple of wife skills she’ll be a keeper 💯
Easy on the eyes is a bloody understatement G.
Yeah especially her stache
I’m a 22 year old woman, and I appreciate his content. At first, because of his blatant type personality, I wasn’t too open to his platform. But if you truly listen over time, he is truly trying to reshape our black community. Many need to face reality and their unrealistic standards... Looks matter.... your personality and character matters especially as a woman. The choices you make early on affect your dating pool, having kids isn’t a high value man’s first pick because it goes against his natural instinct to pair with a woman with no offspring. Keeping yourself in shape and in a good state is important as a woman... Your youth is your prime. Many times you won’t get better than the man you choose to bear a child with.... it’s facts. During this pandemic we have the time to evaluate and train and mold ourselves to be the person/woman we want to be. I don’t want to date anymore with various men, I desire a meaningful committed relationship. Also too, I have never necessarily desired a high value man but a good one with good character and will be a provider! It’s all about mindset and being open to straight facts... how you feel don’t always matter! I do understand now, women and men have their own roles in this world. I want to mold myself to be a wife... thank you Kevin💕❤️😊
Make sure to stay in shape and don't have kids before marriage. 💯
Damn “teach me how to be a wife”
That’s deep right there
First step in the right direction
Teach me how to
*shave my mustache*
700k!!!!! Congrats on spreading the message Godfather. If we see marriage rates change in a few years , you’ll be amongst the catalysts
This was actually a good conversation!
That was deep!! "By not having standards collectively as women you all lose"🔥 LAWD, there was so much truth to that it should've been written in red.
Kevin is planting seeds that will eventually start flourishing in 3-5 years 🙌🏾
Made me straighten up...and not deal with the bs no more. I avoid it now. One of the Best channel for BM tryna genuinely grow. Sheeiit and women too.
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Gonna start doing 10 pushups for every "i feel like" i hear on your show mr. Samuels, i'll be ripped before summer
I needed that motivation
Add to that 10 sit-ups every time they interrupt/talk over him.
This is good lol
10 burpees for every slap!
These chicks have been living life on "Easy Mode" and then fall apart when someone increases the difficulty settings.
Men: turns on adaptive difficulty for a challenge.
Wemon: increasing difficulty? This is not fair where are may cheat codes.
Thank you, KS for, you have to LOVE a man to do what you have to do, then you do it with a SMILE.. And Thank God that you can serve your husband, Amen 🙏🙌
Bless you sista Phelps. 🙏✌️N❤️💯
She's going to alright. She truly has to keep herself in check though. Cause of her age peer pressure is beyond powerful now lol.
"You got to love a man, to be willing to do, what you already should know" This is fire right here, will go over alot of females heads, including her.
This woman is an example of many others that highly tout their education and advanced degrees only to want to make disposable income for their families. Almost 100% of them work all those years in school just to give it up once they meet a man, putting the responsibility on him.
She just needs mentoring she not as bad as the others she wants to try and got hope
The second the house needs to be cleaned or the family fed, she’s gunna cry. Seen it too many times. Especially her mom didn’t have a husband. She doesn’t know what one is.
100% of them? Most men can’t provide for a family on his income alone.
@@mj3433 if your wife needs to work, you are a low value man
@@krisangel7080 I LOVE to clean, I'm going to cry if the house isn't clean lol. Stop acting like you know me.