I'm 70 and been alone for 20 years, I'm so much happier, I don't feel lonely i feel so Free. I don't give a crap about what people say about me, I know if they are so happy they wouldn't be paying attention to my life.
AS. A man I’m still trying to find out what makes a woman happy ? I asked many a girl that question got the same answer “ if we don’t know how are you to know!!!!!!!
Love this. I'm 83 and have a disabled wife and a house full of freeloading grand kids. This talk makes me want to run away and find me. A lot to think about. Thanks, Denzel.
I've lived alone for 40 years and have never been happier! I had to face a lot about myself at first but I got through it and am a better person because of it. Wish everyone could feel this free and happy
Not the Biblical God of the Bible (Jesus). God said it's not good for man to be alone. He commanded to marry and have children. Psalm 127:3 Children in a marriage are the reward of God. Also to stop the sin and burning in lust, and quickly get married and have kids. I mean I get it if you divorced for the ONLY 2 reasons and couldn't reconcile (abandonment by an unbeliever, and adultery). Otherwise your lifestyle is completely contrary to scripture.
@dogegamer3288 Jesus walked alone. Who was he supposed to have married? John the Baptist: Always a Groomsman, Never a Groom. John exhibited a motivation to follow Christ as John abandoned the world no matter what the sacrifice (John 3:22-30; Matt. 14:1-12). 7:7 Paul: The ‘Gift’ of Singleness. The apostle described the value of living contentedly where God placed him-whether or not he had been “gifted” with singleness or marriage (1 Cor. 7:7). But thou, when thou prayest, enter into thy closet, and when thou hast shut thy door, pray to thy Father which is in secret; and thy Father which seeth in secret shall reward thee openly.(a secret is between one person to another not 2 people and God.) Therefore, my beloved, as you have always obeyed, so now, not only as in my presence but much more in my absence, work out your own👈 salvation with fear and trembling, PS my children are grown. Try to stay focused on your own salvation. 🙏
@@beverleyreid563 The male personality is to be in control & controlling. It doesn't make them bad! Not all women are fine with it. Different guys are controlling to different degrees, some more so, some less so. Some women are more submissive, some are less submissive. When a guy & a woman are balanced in these traits, it works.
Single for over 15 years after 23 years of marriage. Not rushing into another relationship was absolutely the best decision ever. No regrets. Not one. It’s all good.
I lived alone before I got married. And I forgot how nicel it really is to do things with out someone else bickering. You come in to this world alone and you leave this world alone.✌🏽
@@fearless7424 it's not so bad being alone my grandma would have called me and old maid lol but a lot of people get divorced it's not like it was in my grandma's time lol 🤣
Never have truer words been said. I concur 1000%. I'm 71 and have basically lived alone since I was 19. I wouldn't have it any other way. I enjoy myself immensely. I like people, but not seeing them often makes me like them even more. I'm a loner, but never lonely.
After your Parents, Teachers & Bosses, you've had ENOUGH. At least I have. These people were / are necessary, but they can easily stifle your true self. Chart your OWN course, guided by the stars in the heavens❗🧭
I tell my granddaughters the most important lesson a woman can learn is to be alone. You won't tolerate abuse or disrespect. This video is spot on. I'm not against having a relationship but I believe that if I am to have a relationship it's going to be one that brings the best in me. Thank you for sharing this 🙏
I am an artist...I paint when I want...I eat when I want, sleep when I want. Ok, I have my 3 dogs and a cat that are my kindreds...but, I wouldn't change it! My ex was a narcissist, but, I learned a lesson there, and oh, so, appreciate my space🎉 Hallelujah😅 😅
@peaceful_and_blessed and they also dont believe a single woman can choose to be celibate and NOT HAVE SEX W/ANYONE. Im so glad i can be alone, live alone & stay alone. Its such a blessing!
I understand, i have experienced narcissistic abuse on all areas of my life, from childhood, to adulthood, in many relationships, friendships, on workplaces, .... Better to live in peace with myself, nobody abusing me
Exciting video, A year ago I took the no contact route, well i wouldnt say it didnt go well, but i missed her and sometimes you have to leave your comfort zone and go for what you want, Without knowing and having a huge ego, we might actually miss out on our soul mate all in the name of not settling for less, I know who i am, and at the same time i know what i want for me, so i did all i could to get her back, and I must say, it was the best decision i have ever made, we have been together again for over 7 months, yes marriage isnt always rosey, but i am lucky to have her, just as she is to have me, we compliment each other
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i am in a similar situation, and i do not know what else do to have him back, i have been dying inside, people actually think i am happy, i am not.
I feel your pain sister , after trying out the no contact experiment that failed miserably, i had to find other means, i had to reach out to a spiritual adviser, it was brilliant idea which i never thouht it was, but it worked wonders for me.
Four months ago, I started living alone for the first time in my life at 62 years young, and I'm loving every second! I left my second (the 2nd was a cheating one at that) narcissist after 21 years! At first, I bawled my eyes out for months, mostly due to the betrayal! However, the vulnerability has almost completely dissipated! I just remind myself of all the torture he put me through and how that freeing of the weight that was lifted off my brain, body, spirit, emotions, etc... I love my family and friends, but most of all, myself for the first time in a long (overdue) time!!! Set yourself free of toxic BS, that's the "greener grass" your soul needs!!!!!
Amen. Once you discover the PEACE of living alone, and FORGIVE yourself for allowing yourself to be mistreated, you will SHINE your light completely, without the TOXINS of "OPP", other folks drama, weighing you down. I KNOW -been through a toxic marrriage with a Manipular....tolerated it for 20 yeats. Now I'm free IN THE NAME OF JESUS! Hallelujah!
What you started at age 62, I have been doing all my life and I am 63. Never been married and no kids. Welcome abroad, the SS Freedom. Glad to have you.
My husband passed 2010 and I have been living alone and I love it. People often ask if I don’t want to meet someone I say I met myself and I love it. I vacation with my sisters and have great times. I love me. ❤ thanks Denzel 💯
Living alone was the greatest gift I’ve given myself … almost 20 years .My life is full of peace and joy . I have a companion dog and a beautiful cat.❤ I come and go as I want , I’m not lonely, I’m living in peace and that’s priceless.
There was a woman a few years ago that lived to at least 115. When asked how she got to be at that age and so old, she replied, "Never had a man to bother me". Food for thought!
My marriage was good for most of the time, but he was abusive at times and had a quick temper I felt like I was walking on eggshells, and don't want any more of it no morecfsncing around moods except my own.
I have been alone for 15 yrs, but not alone. My father ,creator is with me always!!! I have truly got to know myself, and have improved my true happiness soo much. My life is very organized,clean ,healthy ,and fulfilled, just me and Jesus!!! LIFE IS GOOD!!!😊
I really really needed to hear this, since my husband and mother passed away 7 years ago I haven’t been the same person, they passed away three months apart my mom in may of 2017, my husband in August of the same year, listening to this motivational word has given me a lot of hope and peace, thank you Denzel.💙😌
My favorite of all Denzel's videos. All true. After a long unhappy marriage and betrayal and divorce, I love being alone. I wake up everyday around 4:00 AM do tahajud(muslims night prayers)...listen to motivational or spiritual videos, go back to sleep if not a work day...travel when I want...boy oh boy better than coming to a married home without peace. Worse type of home. I have more time to do good, perform my worship and stay away from all haram. Love it. God brings the one who can share that peace. Believe me No Rush.
I really needed this boost because I think everyone else thinks I’m frickin crazy or a husband snatcher I just show myself and my love freely to strangers I used to do this in my 20’s dating and my friends would ask how I got men to take me out on dates I would say “I just ask them “ lol 😂 I never settled always independent then thought I found my soul mate at 35 together 14 years with a solicitor as a creative person geez say no more and he was a narcissist just like my mother and brothers. I miss my true love my Dad but he is with me eternally and I know he’s proud of me for buying my first home ever owned!!! at 50! even with ex and no clue what I was doing haha but I trusted myself and I felt guided by the universe synchronicity happening all the time and I don’t even leave home to work at all. Put out emergency situations myself it was truly a quantum leap all in 4 weeks settlement. I have been scapegoated thank you Lord! by my family of living narcassists and no one knows where the heck I am or what I am doing or more so just being ❤ yep podcasts never watched in my life now all I watch. News and ads and socializing no social media. Choose wisely what input goes in it’s all to gain power by fear over the massages thank god I woke up as so many of us are this year particularly as Mother Earth is evolving and man made time speeding past
It's still comforting, even if it is AI, which it probably is. Wishing you a happy long life, Denzel. Regards from Fiji. Loved your latest movie. Watched it last night. Your acting skills are superb.
After two bad marriages. What a relief to have my own space, to do what I want. I went back to college and got a Diploma. Wish I knew this when I was younger. As they say, "Youth is wasted on the young" Thank you Denzel.
I enjoy living alone. I lived alone for so many years, I wouldn't change it for someone. It's God who I have to make me feel not lonely. I depend on GOD, no one else for my peace alone at home. Thank you, Jesus!
I don't even understand the concept of loneliness. I'm not kidding. I feel sorry for people who feel loneliness. I feel so good when I'm by myself. I guess you have to be born that way. To feel truly at peace when you're alone.
I love living alone. You won’t be lonely your holy spirit lives with you. I haven’t had a boyfriend for 14 years. Now I just started dating for fun and very selective. I still love living alone and being single. I love my private and quiet moments. I love my independence being my own leadership and do what I want and pay all my bill and having my own house no debt. I love my own responsibilities cleaning, cooking and gardening. ❤❤❤ It’s so much fun to live alone. I love love love love love love it 🥰 ❤💋😘 I am more powerful and have so much strength mentally and physically. I wouldn’t trade it for being married. You got to try it. You’ll love it ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Another awesome video that speaks the truth and nothing but the the truth! I am a 67 year old retired and disabled Marine Corps. Veteran. After several relationships and 3 failed marriages I decided I do NOT want to go through any more bullshit with women. !5 years ago I bought a cabin way back in the woods with a huge woodland piece of land to go along with it. I can be here and not see anyone for days on end. I can build, fix and or repair just about anything. I have no problem with cooking what I like and keeping my cabin clean and taking care of the woods I own. I buy what I want, I do what I want and I own what I want all at my own discretion and as I see fit anytime I please to do so. I do not have to worry or be concerned about anyone else but myself. Like the song says, " If You Don't Like The Way This Long Haired Country Boy Is Living, You Just leave This Long Haired Country Boy ALONE! ". I cannot say it any simpler than that. I choose my friends, they don't choose me. If I find a friend doing me wrong I "X" then right out of my life in short order and spare no words. I possess a Sigma Empath personality and I do not take any shit from any one and I am direct and to the point when I take to people. When I speak, I speak the Truth and there is no Bull shit about it, Many people do not like this. I do not sugar coat anything. I love my life living alone and all the animals and birds that I have around me 24/7 living here in the woods of N.E. Wisconsin is the most awesome thing I have ever experienced in my 67 years of living on Mother Earth. I stand TALL and STRONG, Like A Rock and I am living MY dream the best I can for as long as I can and while I can. I am a FREE SPIRIT and a FREE BIRD at heart totally. Beside, what kind of woman would want to hang out with me and my huge black bear family of 7 generations and over 20 bear that I feed, socialize with and have tons of fun being around them all. I spend a lot of money feeding the wildlife here and cannot imagine how that would rub against the grain of a self centered greedy entitled woman. No f#%ken Thank You! Please do not misunderstand me, I love the ladies as long as they are not mine. I could go on and on about my awesome life I now have, love and enjoy, but for now, enough Said. Thank You and I wish You all an awesome day! The Best Of Luck To You All!
Yep. You are a male sigma empath. As empaths we get used and abused before we snap into sigma’s personality trait. Your best in northern woods. I was a empath married for over 4 decades to cop full of general orders and always in control. Now, at 66 I spend my life growing flowers and anything that is green. I get more affection and understanding from plants than from men. They print the stories in the good book full of evil men that finally found Someone that was rare and great. Yet it is men who start all wars and destroy all beautiful children that come out of their fake love and the woman’s womb. When will this evolving evil trait ever see their truth and learn? Yep, I am a spiritual sigma empath that was abused and controlled so our society could be protected while I with children bore the grunt of their off duty traits. Love living ALONE!!!
I have been alone for a year now. Just left everyone and everything that didn't serve me after an awakening. Nothing against them. I have to be alone. I'm so at peace. Amen❤
I was told this isn't from Denzel Washington. God didn't mean for us to be alone but doesn't mean I settle for just anyone. Alone is just fine until the right one comes along ☺️
I thought I wasn't the only one. I was saying the same thing it sounded like him in the very beginning. I agree it's Mr. Washington, but I've been single for some time now. And I love it. I tried a little dating, but hey, what's new again? Peace of mine is where it's at 🙏..
Ich glaube auch nicht, dass Denzel so denkt. Ich kann die Punkte nachvollziehen. Ich glaube aber auch, mit einem Partner auf der selben Wellenlänge, kann man ebenfalls Frieden und Freude erleben. Morgenroutine zusammen, oder alleine ist dennoch möglich. Zeit mit aiuch selbst verbringen. Das geht, wenn beide Partner sich den Freiraum geben können. Und Partnerschaft ist schön 🥰🙏🏻❤️ wir sind nicht gemacht, um alleine zu sein. Wichtig sind Rückzugsmöglichkeiten und den anderen sein zu lassen, wir er ist und was er braucht. Das ist Liebe. Ich glaube, dass das oft fehlt, und deshalb mache Beziehungen unglücklich sind. Lieber alleine, aus in einer unglücklichen Beziehung. Aber lieber in einer glücklichen Beziehung ❤
I leave everything behind point blank period I don't think 🤔 about anything but focus on myself at the end of the day nobody is going to have your back but you 🤔 and that's straight facts truth family will do you 🤔 dirty they are the worst
I m on my own for the last 40 yrs....it is a superb feeling of immense freedom....I enjoy the peaceful environment around me...yes it gives u a sense of responsibility..
Most people do not like to live alone because they can not handle the fact that all decisions rest on them along with the consequences. I enjoy living alone because I hate the constant negotiating. What most people who have never lived alone do not realize is that living in a relationship is way more work than living alone. Surviving is easier because you have the freedom to do whatever it takes to survive.
Coming through the door after a 10-hour work day to the smell that's leading me to my peaceful, safe place that I've built for myself is priceless. I only have allow allow allow a few individuals into my space the energy protects me like that. My peace has been hard and I don't play about ME ❤peace ✌️
On my own for last 26 years. Every day is my day. My plans, my choice. Only down side is I am the one to blame for lack of ambition, wrong ( or bad decisions ). One needs to form their own standards and ethics and then live by them. No one to keep you on track. It's up to you! And that is the most rewarding thing ever. Self discipline is a necessity. Couldn't be happier.
I'm no longer alone after being a widower... that period of time that I was alone, changed my entire life. I'm so grateful for the light that came after the darkness.
I adored my soul mate husband of 25 years. When he passed from a sudden accident several years ago l thought I didn’t want to live any more. Slowly, I came to love living alone. Yes, peace is the ultimate joy of living alone. If I could have my husband back I would be thrilled. But the love he poured into me keeps him alive inside me. And because he gave me the gift of unconditional love, he taught me to love myself enough to enjoy being myself by myself. ❤
Martha you had what I've wanted all my life! I never found what you found for 25 years , so I think you were blessed! Looking at all the others I think you were truly blessed! Good luck with your remaining life!
@ thank you! ❤️ However, don’t give up! Love can come at any age, especially to those who believe in it. And to get love, just give it. My aunt met a man in her assisted living community. They were in their nineties, and she had lost her beloved husband five years earlier. To everyone’s surprise, she had fallen in love again, near the end of her life. Romantic love is always a surprise, like a birthday present you weren’t expecting. And yet, you believed in it. Stay open to receive the miracle! As much as I love my solitude, I know that there is always the “possibility” of a new love. ❤️
I love living alone .My ex had told me I was someone to come home to but than prefer to be with others like women in the streets, My heart told me to get a new life. ❤❤
Living alone has taught me to be self-reliant, and I truly cherish the peace and quiet it brings. I'm content in my solitude and never feel lonely. Amen to that!
Being single removes all distractions and allows meditation and focus on God and yourself. I pursued being in a relationship for years and finally realized, I would be more content alone. The longer I am alone, the more I learn about the meaning of life.
I agree with you for the most. I don't like too much social life, going to the pub on weekend and getting drunk, I don't like noise and being surrounded by people who you do not feel connected with. I am not married nor have a girlfriend and I am far happier now then when I was in a unhappy relationship. I am really enjoying being on my own and focus on the things or activities I really like and makes me happiness. However I still think that having few real friends even just one or two, that connect with you, even for a video or phone call in the moment of difficulties can help, but needs to be a good friend
Living alone is a luxury. I keep getting invited to fix the broken toxicity of couples living together. They keep repeating the same washing machine program when they need to change the cycle…
Every word feels like it was written just for me. Living alone isn’t loneliness; it’s finding yourself amidst all the noise. Thank you for this incredibly powerful inspiration!
I've been living alone for more than 30 years. It's boring, very sad. But at my age, 66 years old, I won't find anyone to live with me. When you get old, you'll realize that being alone hurts.
I am a retired citizen senior sometimes the finances are difficult but I make do and know how to use it well and when not to use it. I am not handicapped except for back pain very angel. I do gardening walking playing with my dog. The continuation of what I just had said earlier. Thank you for listening. May God bless you day. Please take care
I have been suffering some back pain, I went to see a kinesiologist who showed me what to do. There was one tool that I use and it is a hard rubber ball which I can use against the wall to massage any still back muscle myself. It is incredible how much better I feel.
Lots of great info! I was married from 2001-2008. Been single since 2008. My Daughter was a great gift. She’s 21 and on her own now. But we still see each other and make plans. I definitely believe in staying single, but I love Dogs. I’ve always had 1-2 dogs and 1 cat. And recently my mom moved into my house due to Health and financial reasons. Plus she raised me, so I owe it to her also. But, at 53 now, I really value my Time, Money, Plans, etc. And the older you get, the harder it becomes to date, or find someone and hope that everything works out. It’s just a gamble that I’m not willing to take anymore, not to mention how expensive everything is, along with a corrupt and Biased Court system.
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I'm single and I live alone and it taught me to be independent I like the quiet and peace of being alone but I'm never lonely Amen 🙏 🙏
Amen
totally agree
Same here ❤
Amen
Never lonely because God company is all we need 🎉
Was married 3 years only. Lived alone all my life. Coming home to peace is golden. All true.
I'm 70 and been alone for 20 years, I'm so much happier, I don't feel lonely i feel so Free. I don't give a crap about what people say about me, I know if they are so happy they wouldn't be paying attention to my life.
That's awsome! I'm 50ish & have been single for 19 yrs!! I get smothered easily.
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You are absolutely right about that.
AMEN 🙏
So everyone is supposed to be on there own happy and free dose t sound right or appeal to me everyone needs company even the fish in the sea
I’ve lived alone for 20+ years and without a relationship. Love it! Don’t need a relationship 👍
I got my own back!! My peace is priceless, money can’t buy peace.
So true
Gbu AMEN😊❤❤❤
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@loreathiachambers2940. I agree with you 💯 🙂
AS. A man I’m still trying to find out what makes a woman happy ? I asked many a girl that question got the same answer “ if we don’t know how are you to know!!!!!!!
God is with me. I knew I am not alone. ❤❤❤
Amen
Havent dated in 10 years love living alone. Sooo peaceful
Someone I started to hate finally left 4 years ago ….it’s so peaceful now, me and 2 beautiful pets ❤.
@@francesmartel7948 that is the best.
@2blackcatz426 I haven't dated in years and don't miss it. I love, love my alone time
It's 12 years for me (I'm 66). Although I'm often lonely, the thought of dating is a turn-off for me. Not having to answer to anyone is F-ing amazing.
Denzel got divorced?😮
Love this. I'm 83 and have a disabled wife and a house full of freeloading grand kids. This talk makes me want to run away and find me. A lot to think about. Thanks, Denzel.
I have lived alone my entire adult life ( I'm now 68 ) and I would not change it for anything. I'm a better person in the world because of it.
@michelegagnon5618 Me too!
@@deborahwolff5651 AMEN
I've lived alone for 40 years and have never been happier! I had to face a lot about myself at first but I got through it and am a better person because of it. Wish everyone could feel this free and happy
@@michelegagnon5618 Praise God 🙏
Me too. Faced a lot of my own fears and insecurities. Better person for it. Have all the love and peace I need with God who strengthens me. 🤗🫶🙏🙌
Being alone is a blessing. I'm close with God now and no distractions to lead me astray
Not the Biblical God of the Bible (Jesus). God said it's not good for man to be alone. He commanded to marry and have children.
Psalm 127:3 Children in a marriage are the reward of God. Also to stop the sin and burning in lust, and quickly get married and have kids. I mean I get it if you divorced for the ONLY 2 reasons and couldn't reconcile (abandonment by an unbeliever, and adultery). Otherwise your lifestyle is completely contrary to scripture.
@dogegamer3288 Jesus walked alone. Who was he supposed to have married?
John the Baptist: Always a Groomsman, Never a Groom. John exhibited a motivation to follow Christ as John abandoned the world no matter what the sacrifice (John 3:22-30; Matt. 14:1-12). 7:7
Paul: The ‘Gift’ of Singleness. The apostle described the value of living contentedly where God placed him-whether or not he had been “gifted” with singleness or marriage (1 Cor. 7:7).
But thou, when thou prayest, enter into thy closet, and when thou hast shut thy door, pray to thy Father which is in secret; and thy Father which seeth in secret shall reward thee openly.(a secret is between one person to another not 2 people and God.)
Therefore, my beloved, as you have always obeyed, so now, not only as in my presence but much more in my absence, work out your own👈 salvation with fear and trembling,
PS my children are grown. Try to stay focused on your own salvation. 🙏
😊Relationships are stressful
It's work and their baggage.
@@beverleyreid563 The male personality is to be in control & controlling. It doesn't make them bad! Not all women are fine with it. Different guys are controlling to different degrees, some more so, some less so. Some women are more submissive, some are less submissive. When a guy & a woman are balanced in these traits, it works.
Not only that. As much hard work you put into it. You answer yourself if it is really worth it. I'm so at peace being single 🙏...
I agree with you 💯,They can Drain your Energy.. We Have to Choose Who we Want to Share an Equal Energy Exchange 💥
@@GavinJarvis-s7p You can say that again! Watch Judge Judy.
Money can't buy freedom. But alone I'm free to choose.
I enjoy living alone because God is with me. I have a lot of peace.
Amen 😊
Me too with my 12 year old daughter, I love my peace & happiness my lord Jesus gives me ♥️🙏🏼
TRUE WORDS SPOKEN RIGHTN HERE. BETTER BELIEVE IT. WITHOUT GOD YOU ARE TRULY ALONE.
Jesus is our Best Friend❤️❤️❤️@@micahbrooks9615
Same here! He is my Prince of Peace! APTTMH
Denzel. What a Guy. Talks sense, Not what is being sold.
Ditto ❤
@@CForgednot getting why people don’t understand it’s ai
Denzel has a ton of videos on RUclips lol
It’s not Denzel. He’s been married to the same woman since 1983…lol
@@frankyu6984 ....and if it was - imagine the fantasies he's been having all these years.
Yup@@CForged
Coming home to peace indeed.
Come home to peace. And a wagging tail.
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oh yeah
I believe in family life yes wife kids IF IF you find that dream partner but yes I agree living alone can be a wonderful life I’m living it 😊
Single for over 15 years after 23 years of marriage. Not rushing into another relationship was absolutely the best decision ever. No regrets. Not one. It’s all good.
I have been single for 17 years and live alone . it's great am in peaceful
When your SICK who is going to look after you and don't say God 😂
@@stephengrainger7586talk about a selfish view.
Humans let you down..but GOD got you forever 🎉
Humans are real, for good and bad; god(s) is a fiction.
Utter BS. The amount of people who rely on God for something and are let down is countless.
@@zonzore Hear! Hear! 👌🤙
I lived alone before I got married. And I forgot how nicel it really is to do things with out someone else bickering. You come in to this world alone and you leave this world alone.✌🏽
@@fearless7424 lol lolol thanks for making me 😂 laugh 😂
@@fearless7424 it's not so bad being alone my grandma would have called me and old maid lol but a lot of people get divorced it's not like it was in my grandma's time lol 🤣
My parents would not let me or my sister live as single people, we had to be married to move oit
@ wow are you guys married?
Lots of truth here, but a lot of it is really dressed-up self-centredness. It also certainly reflects antipathy towards relationships due to failure.
Never have truer words been said. I concur 1000%. I'm 71 and have basically lived alone since I was 19. I wouldn't have it any other way. I enjoy myself immensely. I like people, but not seeing them often makes me like them even more. I'm a loner, but never lonely.
@@eamestv Haha! Same here
It's the freedom to do exactly what it is you want to do!!! It is very important.
After your Parents, Teachers & Bosses, you've had ENOUGH. At least I have. These people were / are necessary, but they can easily stifle your true self. Chart your OWN course, guided by the stars in the heavens❗🧭
I tell my granddaughters the most important lesson a woman can learn is to be alone. You won't tolerate abuse or disrespect. This video is spot on. I'm not against having a relationship but I believe that if I am to have a relationship it's going to be one that brings the best in me. Thank you for sharing this 🙏
Isn't Denzel a happily married man? I thought he was!
Yes and yes.
Thank you.
I live alone but I am not alone.
I am an artist...I paint when I want...I eat when I want, sleep when I want. Ok, I have my 3 dogs and a cat that are my kindreds...but, I wouldn't change it!
My ex was a narcissist, but, I learned a lesson there, and oh, so, appreciate my space🎉 Hallelujah😅 😅
I've always stated. I'm not alone or lonely. I'm alone in good company and that's me.
@@maryettamoore4765 Me too!
@@maryettamoore4765 excellent 👍 so I'm not the only one Amen 🙏 smile 😁
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Outstanding! Well said.
I am single and happy, I love the freedom that comes with it.
I guess all those millions who are married are just foolish and miserable,right?
I needed to hear this because I was questioning why I'm not lonely, not dating either.
Same here. Ive been divorced for 13 years and I haven’t dated in many years. So many people can’t believe that some women choose to be single.
@peaceful_and_blessed and they also dont believe a single woman can choose to be celibate and NOT HAVE SEX W/ANYONE. Im so glad i can be alone, live alone & stay alone. Its such a blessing!
@ we are alike. I get it! We are blessed. 🙌🙏🏻
@@donnaclinton991
Yep, been there, done that. Not anymore.
@@Oldeagle66I’m sure there are just few and far between.
I agree! Living alone is freeing…do what you want when you want to, eat, sleep, thrive!
This is so true.ive been through narcissist abuse and got abuse by men.I rather live by myself it feels great❤❤
Well done for overcoming narcissistic abuse, it's the worst type of abuse!
I'm living this now. I've been on my own and I'm learning how to be at peace.
Always call the men narcissist smfh.
I understand, i have experienced narcissistic abuse on all areas of my life, from childhood, to adulthood, in many relationships, friendships, on workplaces, .... Better to live in peace with myself, nobody abusing me
Narcs cannot stand being alone
Exciting video, A year ago I took the no contact route, well i wouldnt say it didnt go well, but i missed her and sometimes you have to leave your comfort zone and go for what you want, Without knowing and having a huge ego, we might actually miss out on our soul mate all in the name of not settling for less, I know who i am, and at the same time i know what i want for me, so i did all i could to get her back, and I must say, it was the best decision i have ever made, we have been together again for over 7 months, yes marriage isnt always rosey, but i am lucky to have her, just as she is to have me, we compliment each other
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i am in a similar situation, and i do not know what else do to have him back, i have been dying inside, people actually think i am happy, i am not.
I feel your pain sister , after trying out the no contact experiment that failed miserably, i had to find other means, i had to reach out to a spiritual adviser, it was brilliant idea which i never thouht it was, but it worked wonders for me.
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach him/ her?
Her name is Shelly renee white , and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive
Four months ago, I started living alone for the first time in my life at 62 years young, and I'm loving every second! I left my second (the 2nd was a cheating one at that) narcissist after 21 years!
At first, I bawled my eyes out for months, mostly due to the betrayal! However, the vulnerability has almost completely dissipated! I just remind myself of all the torture he put me through and how that freeing of the weight that was lifted off my brain, body, spirit, emotions, etc...
I love my family and friends, but most of all, myself for the first time in a long (overdue) time!!!
Set yourself free of toxic BS, that's the "greener grass" your soul needs!!!!!
Amen. Once you discover the PEACE of living alone, and FORGIVE yourself for allowing yourself to be mistreated, you will SHINE your light completely, without the TOXINS of "OPP", other folks drama, weighing you down. I KNOW -been through a toxic marrriage with a Manipular....tolerated it for 20 yeats. Now I'm free IN THE NAME OF JESUS! Hallelujah!
What you started at age 62, I have been doing all my life and I am 63. Never been married and no kids. Welcome abroad, the SS Freedom. Glad to have you.
My husband passed 2010 and I have been living alone and I love it. People often ask if I don’t want to meet someone I say I met myself and I love it. I vacation with my sisters and have great times. I love me. ❤ thanks Denzel 💯
Yesterday is history
Tomorrow is a mystery
Today is a gift living alone.
Living alone was the greatest gift I’ve given myself … almost 20 years .My life is full of peace and joy . I have a companion dog and a beautiful cat.❤ I come and go as I want , I’m not lonely, I’m living in peace and that’s priceless.
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@@Kat-ko4hj Absolutely 💯 agree Same here
There was a woman a few years ago that lived to at least 115. When asked how she got to be at that age and so old, she replied, "Never had a man to bother me". Food for thought!
I have been widowed for 11 years and enjoy living alone. I am an introvert and happy being one!
My marriage was good for most of the time, but he was abusive at times and had a quick temper
I felt like I was walking on eggshells, and don't want any more of it no morecfsncing around moods except my own.
How's your sex life? Or does that even matter!
The best life is living by yourself ❤
I have been alone for 15 yrs, but not alone. My father ,creator is with me always!!! I have truly got to know myself, and have improved my true happiness soo much. My life is very organized,clean ,healthy ,and fulfilled, just me and Jesus!!! LIFE IS GOOD!!!😊
Amen!! 🙌🏽❤️🥰 Me, myself and The Most High!
Finally! Someone gets me! I love living alone, my life is blissful!
I really really needed to hear this, since my husband and mother passed away 7 years ago I haven’t been the same person, they passed away three months apart my mom in may of 2017, my husband in August of the same year, listening to this motivational word has given me a lot of hope and peace, thank you Denzel.💙😌
: May GOD bless, and keep you!🙏
so sorry for your loss, now go buy that airline ticket to Paris and have a fab time!
My heart pains for you...know that you are loved.
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Amen to that. I've lived alone for most of my adult life. 67 now and it's great and won't live anyway else.
@@Oldeagle66 me too
So true! Finally, someone speaks the truth.
My favorite of all Denzel's videos. All true. After a long unhappy marriage and betrayal and divorce, I love being alone. I wake up everyday around 4:00 AM do tahajud(muslims night prayers)...listen to motivational or spiritual videos, go back to sleep if not a work day...travel when I want...boy oh boy better than coming to a married home without peace. Worse type of home. I have more time to do good, perform my worship and stay away from all haram. Love it. God brings the one who can share that peace. Believe me No Rush.
So much true!! ❤
I really needed this boost because I think everyone else thinks I’m frickin crazy or a husband snatcher I just show myself and my love freely to strangers I used to do this in my 20’s dating and my friends would ask how I got men to take me out on dates I would say “I just ask them “ lol 😂
I never settled always independent then thought I found my soul mate at 35 together 14 years with a solicitor as a creative person geez say no more and he was a narcissist just like my mother and brothers.
I miss my true love my Dad but he is with me eternally and I know he’s proud of me for buying my first home ever owned!!! at 50! even with ex and no clue what I was doing haha but I trusted myself and I felt guided by the universe synchronicity happening all the time and I don’t even leave home to work at all.
Put out emergency situations myself it was truly a quantum leap all in 4 weeks settlement.
I have been scapegoated thank you Lord! by my family of living narcassists and no one knows where the heck I am or what I am doing or more so just being ❤ yep podcasts never watched in my life now all I watch. News and ads and socializing no social media.
Choose wisely what input goes in it’s all to gain power by fear over the massages thank god I woke up as so many of us are this year particularly as Mother Earth is evolving and man made time speeding past
Masses haha a massage in order 😂
This is AI not Denzel...he's a family man, married 40yrs with 4 grown children. He's far from alone.
It's still comforting, even if it is AI, which it probably is. Wishing you a happy long life, Denzel. Regards from Fiji. Loved your latest movie. Watched it last night. Your acting skills are superb.
I was married for almost 20 years and was dying of loneliness! Im happier than ive ever been alone
that's an interesting comment. Why did you feel lonely?
i'm more alone around people and can't wait to get alone again.
After two bad marriages. What a relief to have my own space, to do what I want. I went back to college and got a Diploma. Wish I knew this when I was younger. As they say, "Youth is wasted on the young" Thank you Denzel.
But I hope it's not late 😊
I enjoy living alone. I lived alone for so many years, I wouldn't change it for someone. It's God who I have to make me feel not lonely. I depend on GOD, no one else for my peace alone at home. Thank you, Jesus!
living gods pad is living another ones rules, pad .be christian,be moslim .I prefer checking out what I like, founding ot life ..right.
AMEN 🙏 Definitely!
I don't even understand the concept of loneliness. I'm not kidding. I feel sorry for people who feel loneliness. I feel so good when I'm by myself. I guess you have to be born that way. To feel truly at peace when you're alone.
I love living alone. You won’t be lonely your holy spirit lives with you. I haven’t had a
boyfriend for 14 years. Now I
just started dating for fun and very selective. I still love living alone and being single. I love my private and quiet moments. I love my independence being my own leadership and do what I want and pay all my bill and having my own house no debt. I love my own responsibilities cleaning, cooking and gardening. ❤❤❤ It’s so much fun to live alone. I love love love love love love it 🥰 ❤💋😘 I am more powerful and have so much strength mentally and physically. I wouldn’t trade it for being married. You got to try it. You’ll love it ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
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I love your attitude! I love living alone, too!
Me too. I love it. I don’t rely on anyone , only me. And I’m reliable. I can rely on myself ❤
How's your sex life?
Peace and authenticity in life are worth more than money. Pairing is most important when you have kids.
I have 3 dogs and a cat and I've never been happier!
I don't want to be sidetracked by someone!
I'm old and I'm happy!!! ❤
Another awesome video that speaks the truth and nothing but the the truth! I am a 67 year old retired and disabled Marine Corps. Veteran. After several relationships and 3 failed marriages I decided I do NOT want to go through any more bullshit with women. !5 years ago I bought a cabin way back in the woods with a huge woodland piece of land to go along with it. I can be here and not see anyone for days on end. I can build, fix and or repair just about anything. I have no problem with cooking what I like and keeping my cabin clean and taking care of the woods I own. I buy what I want, I do what I want and I own what I want all at my own discretion and as I see fit anytime I please to do so. I do not have to worry or be concerned about anyone else but myself. Like the song says, " If You Don't Like The Way This Long Haired Country Boy Is Living, You Just leave This Long Haired Country Boy ALONE! ". I cannot say it any simpler than that. I choose my friends, they don't choose me. If I find a friend doing me wrong I "X" then right out of my life in short order and spare no words. I possess a Sigma Empath personality and I do not take any shit from any one and I am direct and to the point when I take to people. When I speak, I speak the Truth and there is no Bull shit about it, Many people do not like this. I do not sugar coat anything. I love my life living alone and all the animals and birds that I have around me 24/7 living here in the woods of N.E. Wisconsin is the most awesome thing I have ever experienced in my 67 years of living on Mother Earth. I stand TALL and STRONG, Like A Rock and I am living MY dream the best I can for as long as I can and while I can. I am a FREE SPIRIT and a FREE BIRD at heart totally. Beside, what kind of woman would want to hang out with me and my huge black bear family of 7 generations and over 20 bear that I feed, socialize with and have tons of fun being around them all. I spend a lot of money feeding the wildlife here and cannot imagine how that would rub against the grain of a self centered greedy entitled woman. No f#%ken Thank You! Please do not misunderstand me, I love the ladies as long as they are not mine. I could go on and on about my awesome life I now have, love and enjoy, but for now, enough Said. Thank You and I wish You all an awesome day! The Best Of Luck To You All!
@@jeffreystutzman thank you you sound like you have a awsome life god bless you 🙏
Yep. You are a male sigma empath. As empaths we get used and abused before we snap into sigma’s personality trait. Your best in northern woods. I was a empath married for over 4 decades to cop full of general orders and always in control. Now, at 66 I spend my life growing flowers and anything that is green. I get more affection and understanding from plants than from men. They print the stories in the good book full of evil men that finally found Someone that was rare and great. Yet it is men who start all wars and destroy all beautiful children that come out of their fake love and the woman’s womb. When will this evolving evil trait ever see their truth and learn? Yep, I am a spiritual sigma empath that was abused and controlled so our society could be protected while I with children bore the grunt of their off duty traits. Love living ALONE!!!
What do you do for a sex life? Fornicate with the bears! Sounds like you've sacrificed that part of living!
Love my solitude peace of mind is priceless ❤
I have been alone for a year now. Just left everyone and everything that didn't serve me after an awakening. Nothing against them. I have to be alone. I'm so at peace. Amen❤
I have been alone nine years & I hope it won't be ten.
@annbrunoson2954 I hope you find what you are looking for 😊
Learning to be your own best friend. Meditate
I was told this isn't from Denzel Washington. God didn't mean for us to be alone but doesn't mean I settle for just anyone. Alone is just fine until the right one comes along ☺️
I also don’t believe it’s from Denzel
It’s AI voice..I could tell right away
But the points make sense to a good extent
I thought I wasn't the only one. I was saying the same thing it sounded like him in the very beginning. I agree it's Mr. Washington, but I've been single for some time now. And I love it. I tried a little dating, but hey, what's new again? Peace of mine is where it's at 🙏..
Ich glaube auch nicht, dass Denzel so denkt. Ich kann die Punkte nachvollziehen. Ich glaube aber auch, mit einem Partner auf der selben Wellenlänge, kann man ebenfalls Frieden und Freude erleben. Morgenroutine zusammen, oder alleine ist dennoch möglich. Zeit mit aiuch selbst verbringen. Das geht, wenn beide Partner sich den Freiraum geben können. Und Partnerschaft ist schön 🥰🙏🏻❤️ wir sind nicht gemacht, um alleine zu sein. Wichtig sind Rückzugsmöglichkeiten und den anderen sein zu lassen, wir er ist und was er braucht. Das ist Liebe. Ich glaube, dass das oft fehlt, und deshalb mache Beziehungen unglücklich sind. Lieber alleine, aus in einer unglücklichen Beziehung. Aber lieber in einer glücklichen Beziehung ❤
@@MarionRoth-LilyLemontotally true. We are not designed to be alone but we are designed to have individual identities within relationships
@@MarionRoth-LilyLemontotally true. We are not designed to be alone but we are designed to have individual identities within relationships
I was alone in all of my relationships So life is better without the relationship making me miserable ❤
The are pros and cons, but peace of mind is PRICELESS and important to me
Living alone brings you closer to Yahuah.
❤ Living alone gives me peace of mind. Amen.❤
❤ I'm never alone, I believe in Almighty Lord & Jesus Christ. I walk by faith, not sight.🙏🙏🙏
TRUE WORDS RIGHT HERE.
Living alone is the best thing I ever do. 😊
I don't miss losing myself in a relationship but I do miss the company. I love my solitude because I can focus on myself and my passions.
I leave everything behind point blank period I don't think 🤔 about anything but focus on myself at the end of the day nobody is going to have your back but you 🤔 and that's straight facts truth family will do you 🤔 dirty they are the worst
Denzel, I’m 68 and have lived alone my whole life and have always enjoyed it; And now I know why! Thank you my Friend 😊
That’s an artificial intelligence. It’s not Denzel. Or possibly a guy that is trying to sound like him. I can’t tell that is not authentic
@@CForged it is AI I think
he is right. The people around you will take whatever they can from you.
I m on my own for the last 40 yrs....it is a superb feeling of immense freedom....I enjoy the peaceful environment around me...yes it gives u a sense of responsibility..
Absolutely! I love living alone!
Yes, peace and tranquility.😊
I love my life! I eat when I want or don’t. Read, watch tv, or nothing just be by myself. And guess what I listen to myself.
Thank you Sir Denzel Washington.
Who doesn’t live alone
I know you’re right Mr. Washington; it’s better to be able to control your peace at your discretion all the time versus when someone let’s you💐
It's the strength and power in the message, not whose delivering it.
Most people do not like to live alone because they can not handle the fact that all decisions rest on them along with the consequences. I enjoy living alone because I hate the constant negotiating. What most people who have never lived alone do not realize is that living in a relationship is way more work than living alone. Surviving is easier because you have the freedom to do whatever it takes to survive.
Coming through the door after a 10-hour work day to the smell that's leading me to my peaceful, safe place that I've built for myself is priceless.
I only have allow allow allow a few individuals into my space the energy protects me like that. My peace has been hard and I don't play about ME ❤peace ✌️
On my own for last 26 years. Every day is my day. My plans, my choice. Only down side is I am the one to blame for lack of ambition, wrong ( or bad decisions ). One needs to form their own standards and ethics and then live by them. No one to keep you on track. It's up to you! And that is the most rewarding thing ever. Self discipline is a necessity. Couldn't be happier.
I’ve been alone for over 15 yrs. And I agree 100percent. I’m the happiest I’ve ever been and life is working out for me.
I'm no longer alone after being a widower... that period of time that I was alone, changed my entire life. I'm so grateful for the light that came after the darkness.
So true. I can do whatever I want whenever I want and it's so peaceful. God , friends & family keep me company and that's all I need.
It’s fantastic living on your own👏👏👍👍
Being non committed is the best choice. I ever made. I love being Single.❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
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@@LadyG0029 me too
I adored my soul mate husband of 25 years. When he passed from a sudden accident several years ago l thought I didn’t want to live any more. Slowly, I came to love living alone. Yes, peace is the ultimate joy of living alone. If I could have my husband back I would be thrilled. But the love he poured into me keeps him alive inside me. And because he gave me the gift of unconditional love, he taught me to love myself enough to enjoy being myself by myself. ❤
You seem like a sweet woman with this comment....
@ thank you, Dennis. I try to be. 🙏
Martha you had what I've wanted all my life! I never found what you found for 25 years , so I think you were blessed! Looking at all the others I think you were truly blessed! Good luck with your remaining life!
@ thank you! ❤️ However, don’t give up! Love can come at any age, especially to those who believe in it. And to get love, just give it. My aunt met a man in her assisted living community. They were in their nineties, and she had lost her beloved husband five years earlier. To everyone’s surprise, she had fallen in love again, near the end of her life. Romantic love is always a surprise, like a birthday present you weren’t expecting. And yet, you believed in it. Stay open to receive the miracle! As much as I love my solitude, I know that there is always the “possibility” of a new love. ❤️
I love living alone .My ex had told me I was someone to come home to but than prefer to be with others like women in the streets, My heart told me to get a new life. ❤❤
Living alone has taught me to be self-reliant, and I truly cherish the peace and quiet it brings. I'm content in my solitude and never feel lonely. Amen to that!
I live with my wonderful little cat. After 2 failed marriages he is the only company I need!
Living alone with two wonderful dogs as company.
Being single removes all distractions and allows meditation and focus on God and yourself. I pursued being in a relationship for years and finally realized, I would be more content alone. The longer I am alone, the more I learn about the meaning of life.
Alone with God, read God's word, sing, pray and praise His Holy name daily
That's not alone. You're leaning on something else.
I agree with you for the most. I don't like too much social life, going to the pub on weekend and getting drunk, I don't like noise and being surrounded by people who you do not feel connected with. I am not married nor have a girlfriend and I am far happier now then when I was in a unhappy relationship. I am really enjoying being on my own and focus on the things or activities I really like and makes me happiness. However I still think that having few real friends even just one or two, that connect with you, even for a video or phone call in the moment of difficulties can help, but needs to be a good friend
So true! Peace and serenity.
Sensational video. I've always found great joy in living alone. There's nothing like it!
Living alone is a luxury. I keep getting invited to fix the broken toxicity of couples living together. They keep repeating the same washing machine program when they need to change the cycle…
Peace is priceless
My life and my home are my own and just how I want it to be , it's pure heaven...❤
Yes, Amen❤
5 years living alone it's priceless
I love it......... peaceful
Every word feels like it was written just for me. Living alone isn’t loneliness; it’s finding yourself amidst all the noise. Thank you for this incredibly powerful inspiration!
Best TRUTH ever spoken. It doesn't get better than peace, love and harmony with me, myself and God. 🎉
I've been living alone for more than 30 years. It's boring, very sad. But at my age, 66 years old, I won't find anyone to live with me.
When you get old, you'll realize that being alone hurts.
You can marry again please, living alone is not good says God.
I am a retired citizen senior sometimes the finances are difficult but I make do and know how to use it well and when not to use it.
I am not handicapped except for back pain very angel. I do gardening walking playing with my dog.
The continuation of what I just had said earlier. Thank you for listening. May God bless you day. Please take care
I have been suffering some back pain, I went to see a kinesiologist who showed me what to do. There was one tool that I use and it is a hard rubber ball which I can use against the wall to massage any still back muscle myself. It is incredible how much better I feel.
Thank you.What Denzel is saying is completely right and right on! Take care of you're selves!
Lots of great info! I was married from 2001-2008. Been single since 2008. My Daughter was a great gift. She’s 21 and on her own now. But we still see each other and make plans. I definitely believe in staying single, but I love Dogs. I’ve always had 1-2 dogs and 1 cat. And recently my mom moved into my house due to Health and financial reasons. Plus she raised me, so I owe it to her also. But, at 53 now, I really value my Time, Money, Plans, etc. And the older you get, the harder it becomes to date, or find someone and hope that everything works out. It’s just a gamble that I’m not willing to take anymore, not to mention how expensive everything is, along with a corrupt and Biased Court system.