I am an introvert and my wife is actually an extrovert. We've been together 9 years now and married for over 3. An introvert and extrovert can definitely have a relationship if they can figure out how to balance eachother out 🙂
Main issue I saw as an extrovert is the communication, being introverted cannot be used as an excuse, you need to communicate things and stop lying, it seems so manipulative and it hurts, it really seems like projecting your insecurities and trapping an extrovert into guilt because you couldn't just communicate honestly about small and big things. Just like you said "hey I need to go see a friend" honest, "oh sure, ok I'll go do sth else" and it's ok. When you lie as an introvert or hide or avoid, then honest person will ask you what happened and when you continue doing the same you make the other person push you to say the truth and it becomes a drama club for nothing. Just communicate and you can save yourself a lot of trouble introverts.
Wow! This is so insightful! I’m an extrovert and I’m getting to know an introvert woman. I’m realizing about introverts needing space and importance of space and understanding. Thank you for your video 🙏🏿😁
I'm an introvert, and today, for the second time in my life, I have been told by an extrovert that it won't work, that they can keep focus on new things only for a short period of time, and it has been going on for a month, in which I've tried to be as best as I could be, I'm not that type of introvert that has a social disorder, peeking behind a curtain of his home, I'm very normal, I do choose who I open up to, but even if I wanted, I just wasn't given the chance, I've met her 4-5 times, they were great, but in the last 2-3 days, communication dropped and I was just getting generic questions about my day, so I called her up on it, then she said that it has been a good weather lately, and then she said that we're very different, that she is very hyped about being on the move, and that I'm the total opposite. While that may be true, I had no chance whatsoever to do or go anywhere with her that would show her differently....
This is just superb, I been tryin to find out about "how can i stop being introverted at work" for a while now, and I think this has helped. Have you heard people talk about - Deyriannal Startling Dominance - (search on google ) ? It is an awesome exclusive product for discovering how to stop your shyness and anxiety issues without the headache. Ive heard some extraordinary things about it and my cousin got amazing success with it.
As a introverted guy I always have that struggle with extroverted women. I personally prefer them so because they push me to do things I'm not comfortable doing (dancing,going out, being around big groups,etc.)but just like you I have to get comfortable first to be able to open up so communicating that has to be the key. I'll do that to the next woman I talk to for sure as long as she's patient with me. Thanks for the video!! So helpful!!
Thank you for that it was very helpful i needed to know that. I am getting to know someone that is introverted and a lot of the points you mentioned rang true for me. We have only known each other about two months so we are in the getting to know you phase still. Plus being in an LDR too.
Wow...the exact same thing about 2 months and LDR or a "getting to know" each other (me in NYC and him in Texas). However I am also a (social) introvert and he seems to be a (shy) introvert. I am more about talking when getting to know someone and he is more about text and the times we talk it is always not super fluid. This was a great video. Yes I very much understand alone time is good but also communication is 🔑. All in all I am quite excited abput this person and to see where it might go. It is an adjustment even for me being an INFP - conversation is one of strongest gifts and artistic expressions of the written word. To some I may seem extroverted but if large groups I meed alone time. But when one on one and I like some9ne I am good to go for extensive banter of whirlwind of topics. But listening also to Abraham Hicks has given great insight about relationships and getting to know people. I wish you and your person great nessand expansion of what might and could be - that all shines bright for the betterment. Again...yes a great and informative video.
Hey ma'am, thanks for the vid, it helped me a lot! You really deserve more attention, its good quality, and short to understand, yet long enough to have detailed information, very well done, and thank you!
im very extroverted and have been told by both my ex boy friends (both introverts) that im too clingy, even when i really tried to not take up space, it makes me feel like im too much for any one, will i ever get a relationship again ? too be fair, in both my relationships comunication and boundaries didnt really work ...
I feel you im a guy but im really extroverted and I've felt how you felt I think you should try in your next relationship to meet in the middle like talk together about ypur needs and the way you are and both make adjustments but you both have to be willing to compromise
I say so introverts can’t get any where being with each other. Extroverts would be fighting each other for the spotlight of conversations and stepping on each other’s toes on where to go. An introvert and extrovert dating is the reason why they say opposites attract makes for better chemistry. ⚛️💟
how do you deal with insecurities? like seeing some random person get into your partners personal space? how do you overcome the feeling of "my attention is never enough"!!
I m an introvert ; and it did never work with extroverted men ; ever ! They Just think that we re not attractive; they don t enjoy small détails ; they think that we don t have an intresting lifestyle that s why we don t like going out and having a millions of friends and posting everything on social média ; they feel unhappy with us most of time we don t simply enjoy the same things..
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I am an introvert and my wife is actually an extrovert. We've been together 9 years now and married for over 3. An introvert and extrovert can definitely have a relationship if they can figure out how to balance eachother out 🙂
Main issue I saw as an extrovert is the communication, being introverted cannot be used as an excuse, you need to communicate things and stop lying, it seems so manipulative and it hurts, it really seems like projecting your insecurities and trapping an extrovert into guilt because you couldn't just communicate honestly about small and big things. Just like you said "hey I need to go see a friend" honest, "oh sure, ok I'll go do sth else" and it's ok. When you lie as an introvert or hide or avoid, then honest person will ask you what happened and when you continue doing the same you make the other person push you to say the truth and it becomes a drama club for nothing. Just communicate and you can save yourself a lot of trouble introverts.
Being an Introvert doesn't make you a liar. That's not what being an Introvert is. Lying is a person issue, not about temperament
Wow! This is so insightful! I’m an extrovert and I’m getting to know an introvert woman. I’m realizing about introverts needing space and importance of space and understanding. Thank you for your video 🙏🏿😁
I'm an introvert, and today, for the second time in my life, I have been told by an extrovert that it won't work, that they can keep focus on new things only for a short period of time, and it has been going on for a month, in which I've tried to be as best as I could be, I'm not that type of introvert that has a social disorder, peeking behind a curtain of his home, I'm very normal, I do choose who I open up to, but even if I wanted, I just wasn't given the chance, I've met her 4-5 times, they were great, but in the last 2-3 days, communication dropped and I was just getting generic questions about my day, so I called her up on it, then she said that it has been a good weather lately, and then she said that we're very different, that she is very hyped about being on the move, and that I'm the total opposite. While that may be true, I had no chance whatsoever to do or go anywhere with her that would show her differently....
This is just superb, I been tryin to find out about "how can i stop being introverted at work" for a while now, and I think this has helped. Have you heard people talk about - Deyriannal Startling Dominance - (search on google ) ? It is an awesome exclusive product for discovering how to stop your shyness and anxiety issues without the headache. Ive heard some extraordinary things about it and my cousin got amazing success with it.
Thank you for this video my extrovert boyfriend just moved in with me and it’s an adjustment for sure this gives me hope 🙏🏼
As a introverted guy I always have that struggle with extroverted women. I personally prefer them so because they push me to do things I'm not comfortable doing (dancing,going out, being around big groups,etc.)but just like you I have to get comfortable first to be able to open up so communicating that has to be the key. I'll do that to the next woman I talk to for sure as long as she's patient with me. Thanks for the video!! So helpful!!
I am so glad the video was helpful! Yes, it takes good communication skills to make it work :) Good luck!
Thank you for that it was very helpful i needed to know that. I am getting to know someone that is introverted and a lot of the points you mentioned rang true for me. We have only known each other about two months so we are in the getting to know you phase still. Plus being in an LDR too.
Wow...the exact same thing about 2 months and LDR or a "getting to know" each other (me in NYC and him in Texas). However I am also a (social) introvert and he seems to be a (shy) introvert.
I am more about talking when getting to know someone and he is more about text and the times we talk it is always not super fluid.
This was a great video. Yes I very much understand alone time is good but also communication is 🔑.
All in all I am quite excited abput this person and to see where it might go. It is an adjustment even for me being an INFP - conversation is one of strongest gifts and artistic expressions of the written word. To some I may seem extroverted but if large groups I meed alone time. But when one on one and I like some9ne I am good to go for extensive banter of whirlwind of topics.
But listening also to Abraham Hicks has given great insight about relationships and getting to know people.
I wish you and your person great nessand expansion of what might and could be - that all shines bright for the betterment.
Again...yes a great and informative video.
How can an introvert make and extrovert feel as a priority?
This is a really nice video - it deserves many more views! It‘s very authentic. Thanks for sharing :) subscribed 👍🏼
thank you! :)
Thank you so much for this video!!!! You don't know how much this explains a lot huhu this is going to help set expectations for me
I can't thank you enough for this. Wish you much wisdom and a healthy relationship with yourself and your partner.
this is so much of positive vibe
Hey ma'am, thanks for the vid, it helped me a lot! You really deserve more attention, its good quality, and short to understand, yet long enough to have detailed information, very well done, and thank you!
thanks so much! :)
Amazing video. Thank you for the advice
im very extroverted and have been told by both my ex boy friends (both introverts) that im too clingy, even when i really tried to not take up space, it makes me feel like im too much for any one, will i ever get a relationship again ? too be fair, in both my relationships comunication and boundaries didnt really work ...
I feel you im a guy but im really extroverted and I've felt how you felt I think you should try in your next relationship to meet in the middle like talk together about ypur needs and the way you are and both make adjustments but you both have to be willing to compromise
@@victorjavierceron4086 thank you 😊
@@ADevilFromHeaven Your welcome:)
I’m a Leo ♌️ dating an introverted Capricorn ♑️ lol 😂 it works it’s balance for me
I say so introverts can’t get any where being with each other. Extroverts would be fighting each other for the spotlight of conversations and stepping on each other’s toes on where to go. An introvert and extrovert dating is the reason why they say opposites attract makes for better chemistry. ⚛️💟
Not really
what if the girl is an extrovert and a man introverted
Thanks a lot Amber.....just give away all our introvert secrets why don’t ya lol
how do you deal with insecurities? like seeing some random person get into your partners personal space?
how do you overcome the feeling of "my attention is never enough"!!
i was in need of this
thanku so much for this...
I wish I had seen this video before my ex gf introvert left me sigh now I miss her😔
How about introvert guy and girl. How. It works
Great content
I wouldn't advice an introvert to date an extrovert.
I loved your video
can I know which mic do you use?
Yeti :)
I m an introvert ; and it did never work with extroverted men ; ever ! They Just think that we re not attractive; they don t enjoy small détails ; they think that we don t have an intresting lifestyle that s why we don t like going out and having a millions of friends and posting everything on social média ; they feel unhappy with us most of time we don t simply enjoy the same things..
the awkward realization that you're not an introvert. you just don't like most people