Summary guy here! 1. Do some self reflection. 2. Have a perspective and stand firm. 3. Stand up for yourself. 4. Be assertive, but not aggressive. 5. Set and achieve goals. 6. Carry yourself with strong body language. 7. Be open minded. 8. Stand on your word. 9. Add value to other people’s lives. 10. Treat other people with respect. 11. Eliminate bad people.
Agreed! One thing I've always done is to be mindful of others, but never compromise myself to please others. When I have to speak with someone about their disrespectful behavior and it doesn't change they find out real quickly how good my cut-off game is. Great points in this video good Sir! Keep giving us that top notch content...
The Style O.G.s videos are my favorite of all other videos of others like this I have seen. Love his stuff about red flags where he says one or two are OK and to not seek perfection since you aren't perfect is great. I like the stuff on this video as well. I think my only possible issue if IF this video is only directed towards men which I find a bit sexist. It should apply to women as well and women should be held to the same standard. For example, he is right that you shouldn't expect a person to give you things and you not willing to give. Men and women used to be taught that. So many women today lack that for example.
Brother Jeff. You're absolutely right. There are some people you have teach how to talk to you and ultimately respect you. Some of them dont realize it and others do. I had to pull aside a few people. Those that dismissed my concerns are no longer in my circle.
One of the best admirations for gaining respect, from the 48 Laws of Power is "Always say less than necessary" The more you talk, brag, complain, and boast regarding in the face of others, they will have a great disdain about you. Hence it is best to say less, be humble, and be assertive.
Yes ! A man who doesn't go his own way is nothing , been told many times by others maybe in the day of the pioneer you could do that , but "today" you gotta play ball fella. Neat video !
This was absolutely invaluable information Style O.G. and you saved me a counseling session please bill me, for this treasure. I am most grateful for the reassurance, and the practical tips on how to command respect.
I focus on each of these videos....jot down..implement.Its been a year this month.Some instances the pace of change is evolutionary and in other instances its revolutionary. l love the reaction i get from friends and moreso strangers.But self improvment is like studying for a degree....have to work at it EVERY DAY.Love this channel...akin to the dad i never had...keep up the good work.
Good points. I had a meeting with a minority group on a particular policy I had with my organization. A community member who didn’t like the policy attended. The group didn’t know that person, and were taken aback by the questions and comments made. After explaining was getting nowhere, I advised, this was my policy and I am not changing it. I left when my business concluded. Later, after the meeting I got a call, and was told I gained a lot of respect with the group, when I said I was not changing my policy. The group didn’t have a position on the issue, just wanted to learn more. ******** you just helped me write my upcoming speech giving my bio. Thank you.
This is real OG talk! I need the youngins to understand these principles because their lost. I do wish you would’ve added how your tone of voice and how you talk garners respect ✊🏾 #salute
This is very good. I'd add There is persuasion and perception. You may be meek by persuasion, but you can work at being perceived as more confident that by nature you feel.
Ive been a politician all my life when meeting people. I've long time felt I should sell myself but I've also learned how too not OVERSELL vs. selling myself short. This is just a follow up for others but for me it's been the cornerstone of my personality for a long time easily. Mainly because my family indoctrinated core values and principles within me from a youngster. Now I'm 38 and I'm noticing a lot of us BLACK MEN are lacking morals and principles. To me those guys are behind the spectrum because without principles, morales and values NO SELF RESPECTING PERSON WILL RESPECT THEM AT ALL. Good video brother. It's well needed for most of us and I'm about to put some RESPECT on your Subscription button💯💪🏾
Great video . I like the phrase under promise and over deliver... That's a great standard to have. I agree with having standards, boundaries, and morals... That shows leadership qualities that people will respect. Thanks again Jeff. Salute.
This guy is like having that “Cool Uncle” On Demand. Many of my uncles are gone. I have a great dad, but uncles have a great way to impress wisdom as well. I wish I could talk to them, they are in Heaven now. However, I’m glad Style O.G. is here so I can download some good advice.
I get a lot of respect from my friends. I dont wanna brag but I think im the most respected of my friend group. One think i think that help is: 1. Not always taking credit. A example is: when you came up with a idee to give someone a gift don't tell that person it was your idee. If other people tell that person it was your idee they respect you more and probably think you do this more often. 2. Give them advice in live or difficult situations. 3. Do not always tell them what you up to but tell them what you did. A example: don't tell everyone you just started investing is for example stocks or crypto. Tell them after you made some money and how you did it. Give them advice if they ask for it if you know what you talking about. Its okay to say i just started i still have to learn a lot myself 4. Be yourself and have a unique style for example. I like to wear mech from artist i like. 5. Work on yourself (like doing meditation or work out) and share the benefits with others. don't brag about this just tell them what you did and how it made you feel. Don't force them to do it or make them belief your better because you doing these things to improve yourself. 6. Even tho they respect you NEVER tell or try to make them belief your perfect. Let them see or know you flaws. Accept the help they offer you to fix this or try to listen to the advice they give you. 8. Don't lie about things you not doing or tell them about fake goals your never gonna reach. 9. Don't be a know it all. Don't command every time someone is doing something work. For example: if your painting a house with your friends don't command them on there skills. If you really want to command on them first ask why thy do it that way and after that show them how you do it and tell them the benefits of doing it that way I also like to tell them where I learned doing it that way. 10. last but definitely not least. NEVER CHEAT IN A RELATIONSHIP. I my opinion you will lose all the respect you eared or got and have to start over if a big minus. If you wanna recover from this you have to work really really hard on your self. I you do this for a second time after its done. A lot of people or at least I will never respect you no more.
👏👏👏👏👏👍! 📣GREAT VIDEO! I'm in a program where military veterans are paired as Mentors to young men in the 18-24 age group. In the conversations we have with them the topic that gets them to really open up is the conversation about respect. Some think it's having the nicest automobile or the latest shoes or technology. We tell them that those things don't amount to people respecting you and that they should strive to command respect not based on what they drive, the clothes on their back or the type cellphone you talk/text on. Respect is much like a good reputation: It can take you years to obtain it and only a few moments to lose it. Some of our young Black males have been sadly tricked into believing that respect is something that can be purchased and if they don't have this or that, they cannot be respected. It's our job as men who are truly about something to not just tell them but to SHOW THEM that commanding respect from others is an "inside job" meaning they have to respect themselves BEFORE anyone else will respect them.
Style OG Jeff thank you for your platform we need more men like you looking out for our brothers with postive advise, I see so many women and even celebrities make comments on looking out for there on gender and US men need the same foundation. SALUTE✊🏽 YOU BROTHER MUCH RESPECT .
Style OG, Great advice in this video. I’m a firm believer in treating people the way I like to be treated. Respect doesn’t happen overnight it’s earned. Salute to you Jeff
Whatever your faith, let others see you live it more than they see you judge others by it. If complimented on doing that well, assure whomever gives the compliment that you are trying and they have in them to do even better than yourself.
As always brother you are exactly on point but let me just say this I don't require everyone to respect me you don't even have to respect me but what you will not do is disrespect me and that's for sure be blessed bro keep up the good work
Summary guy here!
1. Do some self reflection.
2. Have a perspective and stand firm.
3. Stand up for yourself.
4. Be assertive, but not aggressive.
5. Set and achieve goals.
6. Carry yourself with strong body language.
7. Be open minded.
8. Stand on your word.
9. Add value to other people’s lives.
10. Treat other people with respect.
11. Eliminate bad people.
Thank you man
thanks!
Good list
Thanks G
Thanks man God Bless Screen shot it🙏🏽❤
Right on brother. I recently had to tell my daughter not to come to my home because of disrespct. It was hard but it had to be done.
Is she back?
I say forgive I went back to my mom's alott there's spirits involved just let go live don't give excess
Agreed! One thing I've always done is to be mindful of others, but never compromise myself to please others. When I have to speak with someone about their disrespectful behavior and it doesn't change they find out real quickly how good my cut-off game is. Great points in this video good Sir! Keep giving us that top notch content...
Wise words!
As someone who doesn’t think people respect him, this is effin’ perfect. Salute Jeff!!
Salute Sam!
In my opinion, You don’t ask or buy respect, you earn it, and all starts how you present and act to society.
The Style O.G.s videos are my favorite of all other videos of others like this I have seen. Love his stuff about red flags where he says one or two are OK and to not seek perfection since you aren't perfect is great. I like the stuff on this video as well. I think my only possible issue if IF this video is only directed towards men which I find a bit sexist. It should apply to women as well and women should be held to the same standard. For example, he is right that you shouldn't expect a person to give you things and you not willing to give. Men and women used to be taught that. So many women today lack that for example.
Brother Jeff. You're absolutely right. There are some people you have teach how to talk to you and ultimately respect you. Some of them dont realize it and others do. I had to pull aside a few people. Those that dismissed my concerns are no longer in my circle.
Very wise!
One of the best admirations for gaining respect, from the 48 Laws of Power is "Always say less than necessary" The more you talk, brag, complain, and boast regarding in the face of others, they will have a great disdain about you. Hence it is best to say less, be humble, and be assertive.
Agreed!
Aggressiveness and Assertiveness have a very thin line between them...Especially for African American men! SALUTE!!
Salute!
Yes ! A man who doesn't go his own way is nothing , been told many times by others maybe in the day of the pioneer you could do that , but "today" you gotta play ball fella. Neat video !
You are completely correct. Especially having short term and long term goals are very important to achieve and people do notice.
Yup!
Big respect to Jeff👊🏾
Respect!
Spot on! Huge thanks for this great video which commands more RESPECT.🎖
I agree with you that respect is a must! Great run down Jeff!
This was absolutely invaluable information Style O.G. and you saved me a counseling session please bill me, for this treasure. I am most grateful for the reassurance, and the practical tips on how to command respect.
Glad it was helpful!
I focus on each of these videos....jot down..implement.Its been a year this month.Some instances the pace of change is evolutionary and in other instances its revolutionary. l love the reaction i get from friends and moreso strangers.But self improvment is like studying for a degree....have to work at it EVERY DAY.Love this channel...akin to the dad i never had...keep up the good work.
Kind words indeed!
Good points. I had a meeting with a minority group on a particular policy I had with my organization. A community member who didn’t like the policy attended. The group didn’t know that person, and were taken aback by the questions and comments made.
After explaining was getting nowhere, I advised, this was my policy and I am not changing it. I left when my business concluded. Later, after the meeting I got a call, and was told I gained a lot of respect with the group, when I said I was not changing my policy. The group didn’t have a position on the issue, just wanted to learn more.
******** you just helped me write my upcoming speech giving my bio. Thank you.
As always, awesome content! Thank you for sharing these things!
My pleasure!
Respect is earned and not given..its that simple💪
Indeed!
Great content as usual Jeff ... #RESPECT 👌🏽
Appreciate it!
I respect this video on respect. Thanks Style OG!
Great advice, people need to understand respect isn’t free like the air we breathe, it has to be earned. Salute O.G.
💯 agree
Salute Clifton!
All of these are great and easy things to do. Thanks for the video. Salute
This is real OG talk! I need the youngins to understand these principles because their lost. I do wish you would’ve added how your tone of voice and how you talk garners respect ✊🏾 #salute
Salute!
Excellent video, Jeff. I've also found being highly knowledgeable in a specific field garners respect, even from those outside the field. Salute!
Salute Lou!
Always give and demand respect. Thanks.
This is very good. I'd add
There is persuasion and perception. You may be meek by persuasion, but you can work at being perceived as more confident that by nature you feel.
Yes sir...I Stand on my Square everyday, ALL the time!!!
Words of wisdom for the inward man! Thanks bro
My pleasure!!
Yes sir, respect is a two-way street....leave those, even "friends" or family, who can't/don't respect you.....life is too short.....
Good info. Most appreciated indeed!!👍
Agreed accountability is so important
Another hit O.G. Salute!!!
Salute June!
Major gems were dropped!!!
SALUTE!!!!!
Salute Sean!
what's up big brotha great information and great advice I will stick to all of them I will stay on my Square👊
My guy!
Ive been a politician all my life when meeting people. I've long time felt I should sell myself but I've also learned how too not OVERSELL vs. selling myself short. This is just a follow up for others but for me it's been the cornerstone of my personality for a long time easily. Mainly because my family indoctrinated core values and principles within me from a youngster. Now I'm 38 and I'm noticing a lot of us BLACK MEN are lacking morals and principles. To me those guys are behind the spectrum because without principles, morales and values NO SELF RESPECTING PERSON WILL RESPECT THEM AT ALL. Good video brother. It's well needed for most of us and I'm about to put some RESPECT on your Subscription button💯💪🏾
Great info video and I enjoyed it and have a blessed day
Thank you! You too!
You welcome keep up the good work and thank you very much
I can't say enough about the knowledge you drop. I appreciate you Uncle Jeff. #Salute
Salute Carl!
💯
Great video . I like the phrase under promise and over deliver... That's a great standard to have. I agree with having standards, boundaries, and morals... That shows leadership qualities that people will respect. Thanks again Jeff. Salute.
You've summed it nicely. Thanks O.G
No problem!
Great tutorial as usual, especially when it comes to respect. I was always taught respect is earned, not giving.
Great advice Jeff thanks 😁
Any time!
This guy is like having that “Cool Uncle” On Demand. Many of my uncles are gone. I have a great dad, but uncles have a great way to impress wisdom as well. I wish I could talk to them, they are in Heaven now. However, I’m glad Style O.G. is here so I can download some good advice.
Happy to help!
This is GOLD 🔥🔥🙏🏼🙏🏼💪🏼💪🏼
This Brotha right here is da truuuf. I've been watching this channel for two years......SALUTE
Salute!
@@TheStyleOG HAND SALUTE🫡🇺🇸
Thnx Bro !!! Keep'em coming!!! ;)
Will do!
I get a lot of respect from my friends. I dont wanna brag but I think im the most respected of my friend group. One think i think that help is:
1. Not always taking credit. A example is: when you came up with a idee to give someone a gift don't tell that person it was your idee. If other people tell that person it was your idee they respect you more and probably think you do this more often.
2. Give them advice in live or difficult situations.
3. Do not always tell them what you up to but tell them what you did. A example: don't tell everyone you just started investing is for example stocks or crypto. Tell them after you made some money and how you did it. Give them advice if they ask for it if you know what you talking about. Its okay to say i just started i still have to learn a lot myself
4. Be yourself and have a unique style for example. I like to wear mech from artist i like.
5. Work on yourself (like doing meditation or work out) and share the benefits with others. don't brag about this just tell them what you did and how it made you feel. Don't force them to do it or make them belief your better because you doing these things to improve yourself.
6. Even tho they respect you NEVER tell or try to make them belief your perfect. Let them see or know you flaws. Accept the help they offer you to fix this or try to listen to the advice they give you.
8. Don't lie about things you not doing or tell them about fake goals your never gonna reach.
9. Don't be a know it all. Don't command every time someone is doing something work. For example: if your painting a house with your friends don't command them on there skills. If you really want to command on them first ask why thy do it that way and after that show them how you do it and tell them the benefits of doing it that way I also like to tell them where I learned doing it that way.
10. last but definitely not least. NEVER CHEAT IN A RELATIONSHIP. I my opinion you will lose all the respect you eared or got and have to start over if a big minus. If you wanna recover from this you have to work really really hard on your self. I you do this for a second time after its done. A lot of people or at least I will never respect you no more.
Appreciate you Jeff 🙏! Content is always relevant.
Salute Lennon!
OG, this is a list we can all agree with! Thanks. 👍
Salute Howard!
Excellent video.
Great advice 👍🏾👌🏾👏🏾😀
Glad you think so!
Greetings to O. G... This is one of my favourite video which address the word respect.. Many people don't know how to show respect.. 💪🏾 🙏🏾 💯
💯
Great post OG!
On point style O. G. Great Shot.
Thanks!
I can agree with you
Great Video OG - hope the new generation is watching this . Nice job sir
I appreciate that!
Tru dat! Once again, thanks for droppin’ that fiya 🔥
Any time!
👏👏👏👏👏👍!
📣GREAT VIDEO!
I'm in a program where military veterans are paired as Mentors to young men in the 18-24 age group.
In the conversations we have with them the topic that gets them to really open up is the conversation about respect.
Some think it's having the nicest automobile or the latest shoes or technology.
We tell them that those things don't amount to people respecting you and that they should strive to command respect not based on what they drive, the clothes on their back or the type cellphone you talk/text on.
Respect is much like a good reputation: It can take you years to obtain it and only a few moments to lose it.
Some of our young Black males have been sadly tricked into believing that respect is something that can be purchased and if they don't have this or that, they cannot be respected.
It's our job as men who are truly about something to not just tell them but to SHOW THEM that commanding respect from others is an "inside job" meaning they have to respect themselves BEFORE anyone else will respect them.
Finally answered my comment from way back! Salute OG
Now THIS was a much needed video! Thank you so much Jeff for making these videos! Much respect to you my brother!
Much respect!
ease up on the spam my guy..
@@TheStyleOG thank you
💯
This is solid info!! I enjoyed this video.
Glad you enjoyed it!
*@TheStyleOG:* Well spoken good brother.
Thanks!
Salute to the Style O.G., thanks for another good video with some great advice.
No problem!
Great stuff
Uncle O.G. keep it coming.. loving it...REAL TALK....
Salute Harold!
What up my bro Og, Great teaching video my G, I look forward to hearing these type of videos. Salute my friend.
Salute Glenn!
What's up brotha how you doing long time how was your Thanksgiving with your family. i hope everybody ok.
@@cashmerefunk2136 Am good and the family is great. I hope all is well with you.
Where do you get your suits at
Style OG Jeff thank you for your platform we need more men like you looking out for our brothers with postive advise, I see so many women and even celebrities make comments on looking out for there on gender and US men need the same foundation. SALUTE✊🏽 YOU BROTHER MUCH RESPECT .
Salute Jay!
I don't know how you do it fam but you touch up on the bases that are needed💪🏿💪🏿 Keep em coming "THUMBS UP"🥊🔔
Will do!
Great break down on commanding respect.. salute bro 👊💪
Salute Ernest!
@@TheStyleOG thanks. Keep up the great work!
Style OG, Great advice in this video. I’m a firm believer in treating people the way I like to be treated. Respect doesn’t happen overnight it’s earned. Salute to you Jeff
Salute Pierre!
JtSOG! Good Stuff my Brother.
Thanks!
Really great video, Jeff.
Many thanks!
Looking good bro!!. Luv u 12 ways of command!! Respect is definitely a deal breaker 💯
This is all facts!
appreciate the feedback!
Thanks for keeping it 100% on respect I only hope disrespectful people watch this video!🙏👊🏽
💯
Yeah disrespectful people need to see this video!
💯
Respect! #Salute #PositiveVibes
Respect
Real talk OG salute
Salute James!
This vid is all facts. Definitely things I have to keep in mind when I'm dealing with my staff. Salute O.G.
Salute!
AWESOME. Bro. Jeff. OG
TRUE, VERY TRUE Jeff HOOYAH
Salute!
Absolutely
Thank you!
You're welcome!
Excellent video..i will give you an A+....peace and SALUTE!!!!!
Salute!
How do you get your shirt collar to stay so perfect
Great video Jeff. Do you have an email? I have a few follow up questions.
Amazing video
Thanks!
Style OG that video was on point like a mosquito needle
Ha!
Whatever your faith, let others see you live it more than they see you judge others by it. If complimented on doing that well, assure whomever gives the compliment that you are trying and they have in them to do even better than yourself.
Excellent video
Thank you very much!
Aggressiveness and Assertiveness have a very thin line between them...Especially for African American men!
As always brother you are exactly on point but let me just say this I don't require everyone to respect me you don't even have to respect me but what you will not do is disrespect me and that's for sure be blessed bro keep up the good work
I understand!
Right!👍🏾
Salute!
Morning OG!
Morning!
Respectfully respecting this video and the content and the presenter . PEACE AND BLESSINGS OG.
Peace Al!
I hear that standing on my square, having that moral compass. 👍👍
Yup!
Greetings O.G
Greetings!
Salute and good evening brother
Salute!
Remember fellas, strong body language and not strong body odor that commands respect 😁...another great video, Big Bro
✊🏾✊🏾✊🏾✊🏾Factz
Salute Terry!