WHY WE PULLED OUR KIDS OUT OF SCHOOL!

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  • Опубликовано: 28 ноя 2024

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  • @mayrushart
    @mayrushart Год назад +1775

    School system is messed up. And so many bullies, a lot of the times school don’t do much about it. Online class seems like one of the best options now

    • @svdsvd7168
      @svdsvd7168 Год назад +50

      I go to a public school and there is a lot of people saying racial slurs, the food is disgusting, and some of the teachers suck. I haven't really learned much and the teachers are also underpayed that some had to quit and go to a public school. I don't like the school basically.

    • @evanflorance4532
      @evanflorance4532 Год назад +21

      Honestly online learning has its own issues as well. I was in college when covid was happening and it was convenient but the lack of face to face learning with human interaction really didn’t help me and other students stay motivated to learn when we didn’t take the time to go somewhere with other students and be at a place with little distractions and just learning going on. But if that works for you, awesome

    • @reckst764
      @reckst764 Год назад +10

      Wait you watch this too?

    • @meaganchui363
      @meaganchui363 Год назад +2

      Yeah either online or homeschool

    • @Te_Toa
      @Te_Toa Год назад

      Bullying is needed

  • @natandessie
    @natandessie Год назад +628

    This is can totally relate to. As a kid who was raised around this system. My kids won't go to private schools, ever. Another problem with the system is that certain schools get more acceptance rates into IVY league schools. So going to certain "private" schools is more for the next level of schooling too rather than the private school itself. You are paying for a higher accepted into IVY league schools... in short, the school system is f. up.

    • @autumn1625
      @autumn1625 Год назад +2

      yes❤

    • @kieran8792
      @kieran8792 Год назад +6

      I’ve gone to 3 different private schools in my life. Only one of them was about as effed up as in the video, and surprise surprise it was the only non-religious one. The other 2 I never had any problems with whatsoever, so definitely not all private schools are that bad, as they said in the beginning of the video.. I assume you also had a bad experience with one which sucks :(

    • @legalfictionnaturalfact3969
      @legalfictionnaturalfact3969 Год назад +1

      funny enough, ivy league generally like to see homeschooling and will give many of those apps a good look. ivy league schools are brainwashing institutions like the rest, they just instill an extra big ridiculous ego along with the "education".

    • @legalfictionnaturalfact3969
      @legalfictionnaturalfact3969 Год назад +1

      @@kieran8792 the single most screwed up school i attended was a private xtian one. by far. truly sick, traf fick ing, open s e xu al hara ssment and ass au lt, ab u se, etc.

  • @arnoldgarcia5544
    @arnoldgarcia5544 Год назад +579

    No kids should go through that mess. I would've taken them out of that school too. You're amazing parents. You have amazing kids.

  • @latter-dayfilmguy1382
    @latter-dayfilmguy1382 Год назад +121

    Your family is the perfect example of "the family we wish we were friends with." It's been fun seeing how you all have changed and become more famous yet you're still very humble and funny! Here's to much success for all of you!

  • @ehbeefamily
    @ehbeefamily  Год назад +69

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  • @christianhollman5558
    @christianhollman5558 Год назад +273

    It’s honestly so interesting hearing about your experience with private schools. My family went through similar stuff with the Catholic school i went to elementary at (btw I’m up in Canada). Not only was there bad things I was seeing kids doing at that school but also what the teachers were teaching us. My parents took my brother and I out of school and started homeschooling us. Later in high school we went to an online school which was amazing. Currently I’m studying Business Marketing at a very well known and good post-secondary institute and I’ve got a job. If I had stayed in school and if my parents didn’t care about me and care about what I was learning I probably would’ve grown up into an absolute a-hole who didn’t appreciate what I was given. But because of the sacrifices my parents made teaching my brother and I…I have nothing but respect for them and I thank God every day that they did what they did.
    Sorry for that rant 😅 …point is I respect the decision you both made on raising your kids. So many parents out there today really don’t pay attention and care about how their kid grows up. You two clearly do and that’s amazing to see.

    • @jeffonken4769
      @jeffonken4769 Год назад +3

      Christian - not a rant to me. Best wishes for your journey and success!!

    • @Cocoabearofficial
      @Cocoabearofficial Год назад

      What were they doing?

    • @apenas2896
      @apenas2896 Год назад

      Harry and Megan are victims, who wants that?

    • @apenas2896
      @apenas2896 Год назад

      Ok 7 mins in and done with you bye loo

  • @nightbreaker3187
    @nightbreaker3187 Год назад +165

    This is such a real and important message that u guys are sending, as a high school student myself, I know how important it is to actually feel safe in the school environment you're in in order to actually study and not feel burnt out. It is also so common for people to think that spending more money gets u better quality, whether in education or simply in shopping for your daily needs. Seeing how you guys put your morals and the mental health of your kids first is something so wonderful and inspirational, shedding light on such topics is still considered taboo sometimes for lots of creators, so the fact that you stood up for what you know is right is just awesome. Hats off to you!

    • @neomialezra
      @neomialezra Год назад

      i agree with you but HI FELLOW STAY seeing your channie pfp makes me so happyy

    • @nightbreaker3187
      @nightbreaker3187 Год назад

      @neomi alezra HEY! I've actually been very distant from the fandom and stay community these couple of months but I can never not love chan, so I kept the profile!

    • @SUERUI
      @SUERUI Год назад +1

      toltally agree with u

  • @soccerald4
    @soccerald4 Год назад +122

    The fact that your kids not only had to go through that but that the school basically defended the people that were so horrible to them!! I am so happy that you got them out of there and that they are able to learn in a place they feel safe. You are such amazing parents!!

  • @zombiemistress52
    @zombiemistress52 Год назад +45

    Your children are amazing...they are everything that matters: kind, funny,smart, empathetic, sweet, sassy, talented, compassionate...
    I feel bad for Mama who thought mistakenly that those places offered so much more...in a way they did: more hate, more basura people, more baloney. And it is a testament to your parenting that your children recognized what an evil dump they were in.
    Onward and upward you lovable Bee fam!!!!!❤❤❤

  • @KittGaming
    @KittGaming Год назад +532

    This is what scares me for my son. but he is ready

    • @TheOnlyDannyDoggy
      @TheOnlyDannyDoggy Год назад

      Hii Kitt.

    • @yo.smiffy426
      @yo.smiffy426 Год назад +2

      wth kitt I would never ever imagine that u watch them

    • @Official_Monkeymoney
      @Official_Monkeymoney Год назад

      KITT? Why are all roblox yt on here

    • @Rouge-_-
      @Rouge-_- Год назад

      ​@Mr.Stubby so mr bee (their son roberto) has a Roblox channel that's why there lots of Roblox channels commenting.

    • @Official_Monkeymoney
      @Official_Monkeymoney Год назад

      @@Rouge-_- ohh

  • @SoleCardona
    @SoleCardona Год назад +42

    I absolutely loved this! My husband and me decided to put our daughter on a private school here in Montreal. So far, it has been amazing for her, she loves her school, she learns a lot, and she has very good friends, but I agree with you, before finding this school, we visited a bunch of other schools and we felt in some cases, elitism and "other weird things". Well, thank you for sharing your experiences! Hugs from Montreal ❤

  • @Insectoid_
    @Insectoid_ Год назад +30

    I love these new discussions. You’re such nice people. It’s great to hear your thoughts on things. I’m so sorry you’ve had to go through this.

  • @owshan_07
    @owshan_07 Год назад +42

    I’m thankful to be in a school of safe environments. We respect your decisions. Luv you Bee family❤😊

  • @K-kandyRoseYT
    @K-kandyRoseYT Год назад +36

    I was in private school for 3 weeks and had to stop going, it was very difficult to function at all, and it was very stressful, but thankfully I discovered online school, and it is much better suited to me. You just have to find what works for you! ❤

  • @dr.burtgummerfan439
    @dr.burtgummerfan439 Год назад +38

    You handled the situation with more grace, poise, and aplomb than I would have.

  • @LearnSpanishWorld
    @LearnSpanishWorld Год назад +14

    I'm a school teacher and I can confirm some of the points you discussed... I have been home schooling my daughter for the past 3 years and I do not regret it at all. By the way. I'm also from Chile like Papa Bee and Pedro Pascal ...Saludos amigos 😀

  • @whoismelissa.
    @whoismelissa. Год назад +28

    I honestly thought that private schools being very toxic was a clique cuz no one actually told me about what would actually go on, on the inside. Ty guys so much for sharing. This video was a real eye-opener.

  • @gwenhughes8650
    @gwenhughes8650 Год назад +32

    Good for you for protecting your kids and listening to what they need! I am sure they will appreciate that choice for the rest of their lives.

  • @porgiegeorgie7732
    @porgiegeorgie7732 Год назад +44

    No doubt this was 100% factual. So many parents don’t want to be parents. They want the Christmas card photo. You two are great parents. Kudos to you and your family.

  • @milirodriguez8493
    @milirodriguez8493 Год назад +7

    Im so sorry for what both of them have gone through and Im so grossed out that where its supposed to be your second home, cant even feel safe for the nasty things they are being said or done. Know that you guys are amazing parents and both of them are so blessed to have you both to step up for them when they are doing everything and the school is brushing things off on SERIOUS actions. Threatening someone is no joke! Let alone if it's towards young people(all ages of course too). Thank you for bringing this to the light. I know it can be hard to do so when you know what they had to go through and the school system only cares about the money.

  • @tabithathewholistic
    @tabithathewholistic Год назад +28

    Homeschooling is the best schooling folks! I'm so glad my parents decided to do that with me for my entire K-12, it was so much safer in multiple ways. Private schools in particular are well known for this kind of stuff along with hazing and worse. So sorry you guys had to go through all this! 😔🙏🏽

    • @Mothobius
      @Mothobius Год назад +2

      Home schooling would suck though. When I'm home I can't do school work. Like there's just so many other things to do. When I'm actually in school I work because what else am I gonna do. When I'm home I want to draw or play dinosaur games lol. I would not work at all at home.

    • @morelorel
      @morelorel Год назад

      @@Mothobius lol because in school ur focused to do that, u just gonna stay consistent

    • @Mothobius
      @Mothobius Год назад

      @@morelorel that's not happening with me

  • @tinygorillacake
    @tinygorillacake Год назад +8

    So great y'all actually listened to your kids and didn't force them to keep going. And great for the kids for speaking up. At that age, I probably wouldn't have said anything to my parents and just stayed in misery/depression, and I'm sure there are kids going through that at that school.

  • @psilva7684
    @psilva7684 Год назад +6

    I thank God that my husband works hard so that I am able to stay home to homeschool my kids. It’s rough at times, but God has always provided, you start seeing the fruit of your labor as you continue to pour into your kids, especially poring into them Godly values. Schools have changed so much and they aren’t the same compared to when I was in public school. My kids have no problem with socializing and enjoy the freedom also of being home and getting their work done at their pace and learning the way they like to learn.

  • @arlenegutierrez6721
    @arlenegutierrez6721 Год назад +8

    This is actually something that my husband and I discuss a lot when it comes to the education of our son and future child. He grew up going to private school while I grew up going to public school. He and his mom would tell me about how he was bullied a lot and the administration wouldn't do anything about it because his bullies came from well do to families. He finally had enough and got into a physical fight with one, he won, and of course he got in trouble. Suffice it to say, his parents pulled him out and put him in public school where he ended up flourishing. Anytime he thinks about wanting to put our kids in private school, I remind him of his experiences and tell him that I feel they'd do better in public school for the time being.

  • @justinonowhereman4303
    @justinonowhereman4303 Год назад +3

    I love the way you support your children, the best parents can do is take care of the mental health and feelings of his children, this actions are lessons to them to being better people with others too.

  • @gregorydurbin3132
    @gregorydurbin3132 Год назад +16

    This really hit close to home for me, I went to a Christian private school and my mom worked 3 jobs including working at the school as a janitor for my brother, sister and myself to go there. I started to get bad grades and my teacher told my mom I wasn't doing my homework or turning it in when I in fact doing it and turning it in but no one would listen to me, it was a teachers word against a 3rd graders but that all stopped when my mom found my homework in my teachers trash can by her desk while cleaning my classroom and I was pulled out of school that day.

  • @uniquegame712
    @uniquegame712 Год назад +28

    The bee family is my favourite channel. I was growing up with Gaby and
    Roberto 😁

  • @uszkaieliza7860
    @uszkaieliza7860 Год назад +2

    When I was at school, let's say I wasn't among the "coolest" kids, and they took advantage of that by bullying me and threatening me, but it never ended physically, but once I stood up for myself and they didn't like that. When there was a break they were waiting for me to get out of the classroom, as soon as this happened they caught me and beat me badly, I couldn't go to school for a week, I was beaten so badly. My parents went in to complain, but the teachers and the principal didn't do anything, they just shrugged their shoulders and said so much that it's none of their business, the children have to settle this among themselves. It was a big trauma in my life and I was, I don't know, 13-14 years old. I'm glad that nothing physical happened to your children. You are very good parents. I love your content. ❤

  • @manofgod0813
    @manofgod0813 Год назад +16

    As an African American male from the inner city going to a school where "better opportunities" seemed to be present; and also because I was an asthmatic, and our local schools did not have good air conditioning, I can relate to this. Yes, it was a very nice school, but I was bullied there constantly; from the other black students who accused me of trying to "be white," to some of the Caucasian students (not all, I will be clear of that) teasing me accusing me of only being there because they allowed us to be there.

  • @nyelle1234
    @nyelle1234 Год назад +4

    Thank you so much for talking about this. I have gone to a private prepatory school since kindergarten and the same goes for here. The boys lack all respect, humility, and kindness. Last year a senior SA a girl and traumatized her so much that she couldn’t bring herself to attend school events such as prom. She finally worked up the courage to tell administration and was told that the situation would be let go because “consent is a grey area”. His parents were lawyers who donated thousands of dollars every year. Worst of all, he was given the outstanding student award at their graduation. I hate it here and I cannot wait to graduate.

  • @Josh-md1bc
    @Josh-md1bc Год назад +16

    I love this video a ton. All that glitters is not gold. You never lose, you learn. I know it was sarcasm when it was said that this was just your experience- but in reality we ALL know this is just a trend amongst a ton of wealthy people. I hope for much better for your children

  • @imaanalom3485
    @imaanalom3485 Год назад +38

    I just wanted to let you guys know that i’ve really been enjoying these podcasts! The concepts are always amazing!

  • @ZuMi_rcf
    @ZuMi_rcf Год назад +5

    You are both great parents. Kudos to both of you for keeping your value and morals. God bless to you and your family.

  • @nojeneksjsjjw
    @nojeneksjsjjw Год назад +2

    as a a private school student (ive attended 3 private schools now) this is very accurate especially as someone who doesn't rlly come from the wealthiest family. i was raised by a single mother, she worked 3 jobs for 7 years straight to raise me and take care of my grandma.
    my current school views students from their status, parents judge each other by the brands their holding and the cars they're driving. but even so im just glad to say ive never experienced something as bad as this. im so sorry for what gabriela and roberto had to experience, all i can do is support u guys behind a screen, keep up the work bee family!! love u guys and stay strong

  • @Sarsorita-
    @Sarsorita- Год назад +5

    I wish I could say things to my parents but whenever I talk about problems and mental health, they always say "just stop over reacting" or "other people have bigger problems so it isn't a big deal" so this is an amazing speach and getting attention to something that is neglected and not talked about enough, thank you so much for talking about this!!❤

  • @wahmm3tt
    @wahmm3tt Год назад +3

    This video is very relatable because I’ve wanted to leave my school but I couldn’t because my parents won’t understand what goes on at school. Yes they deal with bullies and give good educations, but some of these private schools may force they’re beliefs on to you and you might not believe in the same things. I’m not saying every private school does this but the one I’m in does, they straight up will say “ if you don’t believe in (the religion) you will go to hell.” There are little children in this school and that will impact them. Even now at my age that impacted me a lot, and now I can’t change how I feel. This video made me so happy that finally someone shared their experience about privates schools on this platform. So thank you so much for making this video! ❤

  • @OfficiallyPlat
    @OfficiallyPlat Год назад +3

    I am home educated and it is amazing. As soon as my mum deregistered me all my anxiety went. In UK there are so much places to explore and meet other home educated children around your age. There are funds to set up groups and expeditions. You're not isolated as people stereotype. It is 10000x better than getting programmed and mentally abused in a classroom by a total stranger that is classed as a teacher. How can you even get taught with stress? Advantages with home ed is studying and focusing on what you want rather than parrot fashion by a school curriculum that 95% you wont need for the real world. Go on then teacher, teach us about financial problems, taxes, mortgages, how to buy a house and understand documents and paperwork, you won't and you cant due to that curriculum you're needing to hold up in order to get paid. The striking crisis in schools prove they dont like their job. Home ed is the way forward. School is what is thought as a structured way of learning even though I have learnt so much from home Ed, not just education but the real world. Children in the class do not help either. The bullying in the school I used to be at was vile and the 'alpha male leaders of the class' bullied all the girls and booted footballs at the girl. When she fell to the floor and started to cry, the head mistress sent her home with a slip saying "got hit by a football accidently" the teachers do not help. School is terrible, a waste of energy and stress creating and depression making. Prove me wrong, it's impossible.

  • @joenealey8332
    @joenealey8332 Год назад +2

    You are good parents. Your children are representing your values. I agree with you on protecting your children.

  • @SweetHunnieful
    @SweetHunnieful Год назад +11

    You never lose, you learn. I needed to hear that ❤ Thank you!

  • @marcoalvarez6574
    @marcoalvarez6574 Год назад +17

    You're great parents.
    Ironically, that experience is a reflection of society at large.
    Integrity is the harder choice for people with wealth.
    Why work when you can buy your success.
    I appreciate the position of experience and honesty you share so frankly.
    Hispanic/ imigrants with passion!?
    No that's impossible!!(sarcasm)
    Fuerza los Bees!!!

  • @eisuszaid-serolf261
    @eisuszaid-serolf261 Год назад +5

    First, I hope for a speedy recovery from these mental trauma caused by ppl with no humility.
    All my life, my goal was to send my future children to a private school. I now have a 6y/o son and still thought about working hard putting him in a private school because I thought too that he would come out well educated and better overall. But now hearing your testimony, I would just rather keep him homeschooled. My son's overall health is waaay more important than putting him in a private school. Thank you for sharing, but I now believe if that private school is about money, I think all private school would be the same and protect the student and their families if it means the school is getting "generous" donations from them.

  • @soofiasiddiqui7160
    @soofiasiddiqui7160 Год назад +20

    this is absolutely terrible to hear about and I’m so sorry your kids and your family had to go through that. I think you definitely made the right decision for your kids safety. As soon as I heard mama bee say “and they threatened to, I don’t know if I can say this word” I immediately understood what she meant and I felt sick to my stomach. As a girl who is 13 years old and is in a hard school/social situation right now, it sucks how cruel and disgusting other teenagers can be and I understand the struggle.

  • @HLD_SW
    @HLD_SW Год назад +32

    We respect the decision

  • @GibsonDelGiudice
    @GibsonDelGiudice Год назад +6

    I appreciate your candor, and your clear desire to be careful in what you say and not speak over or erase someone else's experience. I can only speak anecdotally myself, but I will say that the stories of private school behavior I've heard are far more akin to what your children experienced than something, I dunno, pleasant or even remotely positive. More than that, it's far from a new phenomenon; a lot of similar stuff, and worse, has been described in old-fashioned British boarding schools. We need continued discussion about better methods of education and discouraging negative attitudes and behavior, and I applaud you for opening a little door (and I say little only because others have been talking about this for some time) to that. It's important to talk about.

  • @r1r597
    @r1r597 Год назад +22

    I honestly believe that homeschooling is the best way forward during these crazy times. Or an excellent home tutor. Also: kids should be allowed to specialize in their talents and in their interests. (The ‘woke’ agenda is pushing all sorts of ideologies into schools not taking into account the students religious beliefs, or personal morals, strengths, weaknesses, learning styles, etc). Some kids will become singers. Others will become writers/ comedians / actors. Some might become youtubers. Teaching all kids the same way isn’t going to work because every kid is an individual and unique.
    Also; the most important thing about education is that; it saves the child’s soul (this life is about reaching Heaven), that it nurtures the child’s wellbeing (that school is a happy place for them), and that it prepares them with lifeskills for their individual future (there is no point in learning skills that will never be used in the future), that it helps the child become the best person they can be and make friends. As the bible says; ‘Knowledge apart from Christ, is useless.’ ‘You cannot love God and despise your neighbour.’ ‘Whatever you do to the least of these children; you actually do to God Himself.’

  • @dcgclass07
    @dcgclass07 Год назад +4

    Thank you for this video, for sharing your experience, and again, for being real and honest! Online schooling is so great! My oldest is in 1st Grade through Connections Academy here in Iowa (it's an online public school). We started him in Kindergarten and it has been such an easy format to follow, it's flexible, and he is able to get all of his work done for the day in a matter of a few hours. We have also been able to be a part of a homeschool co-op because we have such flexibility! I hope your kids continue to enjoy the online format and that they succeed! 😊❤️

  • @ak_alisonswift
    @ak_alisonswift Год назад +8

    This year I started online learning for a similar reason. There were these 4 girls who were the worst of the worst. They would threaten me, say absolutely discussing things, straight to my face, they just wanted to make a life horrible. Once that year ended I talked to my mom about moving into online classes, since then I’ve never looked back. My mom is still a teacher at that school and ever since those 4 girls left the school, it has apparently gotten a lot better.
    (the 4 girls were not in my class by the way, I did have lunch with them, free time with them, saw them in the halls, etc.)
    The people who were in my class were absolutely amazing people though (and so were my teachers)
    Anyways, I will be moving to a new state this summer where online school isn’t a thing in the county. So I will most likely be home schooled by my mom. (This is because the education system where I will be moving is HORRIBLE!)
    I’m so glad your kids are okay and I hope they will never have to go through something like that ever again.

  • @shainah.6388
    @shainah.6388 Год назад +5

    This is absolutely terrible to hear and I’m sorry to hear about all this. What I’ve come to find out is that in private schools, you “expect” that the more money you pay, the more safe everyone “should be”. They recognize “safety, inclusion, equal rights, blah blah, etc.” and that is all crap because in institutions like that, the parents of these entitled kids pay money to sweep any “incidents” under the rug and it’s disgusting. You guys were absolutely right pulling the kids out of school. Gabby and Mr Bee are such amazing kids, you can tell they were and are raised by you two so amazingly well. Sometimes I feel people who grow up from nothing learn to appreciate life and others so much better vs kids who grew up privileged and having literally everything, never having to work or do anything a day in their life. You guys did what was right for both of the kids’ safety.
    This is a shame on myself but I went to a private school from elementary school all the way up to 8th grade. All one school so you would literally grow up around the same people. They were great sure but looking back I saw so many problems. There were the typical bullies, and we had so many issues with a specific student/s that we had to have several assemblies regarding assault/attacking/bullying, and our school even banned everyone wearing hoodies because that said student had a “habit” of wanting to choke people and joke around. Not only that, I had a very very rough time in middle school, I struggled in school a lot. looking back, I kept falling behind in school and just could not keep up BUT do you know what the school did? They set up a meeting with my mom, who’s English was her 2nd language so she had to bring her friend to help translate. The school teachers asked MY mom what was going on at home as if I spent more time at home than at school 🤦🏼‍♀️ I was with them for probably 10+ years. There’s no way no one would have noticed I was falling behind and struggling every single day. Did they try and help me, giving me extra classes, etc? Nope. All the teachers would say as their excuse is “we always tell her to come to office hours and she never does”. I was struggling beyond help , not just in school but at home. This is my biggest shame so here I go. I was struggling so much both at home and at school, unable to find my feelings or anything that I resorted to stealing money from other kids’ backpacks to buy candy from the vending machine. It wasn’t because we couldn’t afford it. Granted my mom wouldn’t let me buy Candy. I still don’t know why I did it. The teachers definitely knew, at least some of them because when they started seeing that I would try to hang around the cubby areas after the bell rang, I once caught a few of them monitoring me. But guess what, did anyone talk to me about this behavior or reprimand me? No. Did anyone contact my MOM about this issue? Absolutely not. There were definitely issues then and because I never got help with my learning disability, severe anxiety, etc when I was in elementary/middle school, I’ve had ti pay for that. I’ve gone through so much the last few years, having had bouts of suicidal thoughts and very negative thoughts, having very big ups and downs (possible bipolar), struggling to make friends, maintain any friendship, struggling to go anywhere without shutting down, and so much more. All because they never caught my struggles early enough to send me to get tested or help

  • @lxvllly
    @lxvllly Год назад +7

    i’m in a public school and i would say it’s similar in a way because schools hide things for their reputation. in my school so many things have happened but the school continues to cover up so that they can look good.

  • @CJIrishLez
    @CJIrishLez Год назад +1

    You two are just the most wonderful people I’ve ever seen online. I’ve been a fan for a number of years and always love how family is always first for you.

  • @BoopBopBeeBop
    @BoopBopBeeBop Год назад +11

    I don't even have kids yet but I've always thought about not wanting to send them to a public or private school. I've worked at schools myself and see how horrible kids and even staff can be to children. Plus, I'm not a fan of the school system here in the US. Thanks for your insight! I've been following your family for years and I'm glad to see your family's growth!

    • @EvelynJoy
      @EvelynJoy Год назад

      I am a mom of 4 and I homeschool, I used to work in the public schools. My MIL is from Ecuador and she does not understand why I do not send my kids to the public school. I try my best to explain, but in the end we just agree to disagree.

  • @__GaryHarris
    @__GaryHarris Год назад +8

    You never lose, you learn...well said!! I need to incorperate that into my mindset.

  • @2Glm005
    @2Glm005 Год назад +10

    Their shorts: funni
    Their long form videos: increasingly deep topics

  • @akashiseijuro5342
    @akashiseijuro5342 Год назад +1

    you should expose that family and that school more, but I know you guys won't do it cause you guys have a good heart. It's good that you pulled your kids in that awful school and environment. hoping for your kids to find a good school that will help them grow, I also hope that your kids will find a friend that will also protect them from what they have experience in that horrible school.

  • @3x1Star
    @3x1Star Год назад +6

    It is repugnant what your children went through! I am truly disgusted. I’m so glad that they are in a much better educational space now. Thank you so much for this content. I look forward to watching your chats all the time! God bless you and your family.

  • @IngmarClarysse
    @IngmarClarysse Год назад

    I really loved this. You two are amazing parents! And definitely made the right decision. When you talk about how humble you are it made me think of your New Home Surprise video of 6years ago, I'll never forget that vid it shows that you are very genuine, down to earth humble people that worked very hard. And it's endearing too.

  • @realdreamerschangetheworld7470
    @realdreamerschangetheworld7470 Год назад +4

    Thanks for sharing, and for being good parents!

  • @JudeIS
    @JudeIS Год назад +7

    to me hearing about how both of you worked hard to change your life is inspiring because I'm now in the same state as yours and I'm working hard to change my situation,thank you for inspiring!

  • @AntonVladimirovic
    @AntonVladimirovic Год назад +7

    That was such an interesting story! I've been loving these podcasts

  • @Karash83621
    @Karash83621 Год назад +15

    I would have lost it too and gone ballistic. A private school like that should and must be held accountable and brought up on charges

  • @sadiaamini1739
    @sadiaamini1739 Год назад +7

    Finally a family who doesn’t use there kids for views but loves them and makes them feel safe

  • @roxyblack1623
    @roxyblack1623 Год назад +4

    So sorry you had that experience in a private school.
    Good for you for not letting that kind of behaviour last. The safety of your children is your number one priority.

  • @almccormick85
    @almccormick85 Год назад +17

    $34000/year?! That's insane! For that much money, I would hope my kid would be safe. It's so sad that they weren't safe. I'm glad you guys were able to see the problems and do something to keep your kids safe.

    • @trainradioable
      @trainradioable Год назад

      Most of the money goes to the owners, private schools follow different rules and don't even have to hire certified teachers.

    • @legalfictionnaturalfact3969
      @legalfictionnaturalfact3969 Год назад +1

      @@trainradioable well they shouldn't have to. certification means nothing. the problem is the bullying. and yes, owners should make money, they took the risk. but teachers and all staff should be paid fairly too.

    • @trainradioable
      @trainradioable Год назад

      What risk? They get tax dollars and laws protecting them in exchange for campaign donations.@@legalfictionnaturalfact3969

  • @tsuruko5205
    @tsuruko5205 Год назад +1

    Your kids are the best! I’ve always been impressed about the way you raised them. Glad they’re out of that private school.

  • @nawnie
    @nawnie Год назад +2

    OMGG yall are the best parents any kid could ask for. i love how open minded you are about things like this, and it makes me honestly proud of the growth of your family lol. thank you for being authentic and keep it up!! :D

  • @lifeonswezeastreet
    @lifeonswezeastreet Год назад +1

    Schools can be such a toxic environment. I am so sorry you and your family went through this. You definitely made the right decision for your family and I appreciate you sharing your story.

  • @PinkHawk191
    @PinkHawk191 Год назад +2

    I went to a special education private school. I was bullied constantly. No one did anything about it. I am now in a day program for adults with Autism. I am doing it virtually on Zoom. I am so happy. I am thriving. I am learning so much. I don’t have to worry about bullying by a person who is a former friend. I get to be in my own environment. I love the virtual program!

  • @lebigbentheory
    @lebigbentheory Год назад +2

    ive only ever studied in a private school, was bullied by some classmates and i was too scared to fight back because they were athletic and i wasnt strong, its affected my view of how people really are, and my general confidence ever since... reporting them does nothing as some teachers would outright tell me that its best i stop reporting them and just get to be friends with them because theyll just grow out of it eventually, and these types of bullies are smart enough to 'act' and pretend like they dont know what theyre being accused of, they know how to play the part of innocent school boy and get away with it when deep down theyre very very cruel

  • @charlotteebau963
    @charlotteebau963 Год назад +1

    Wow, I’m so sorry your kids had to go through that. I hope you guys are feeling better and are more comfortable! Love you guys 🥰

  • @jessyag4life450
    @jessyag4life450 Год назад +9

    completely agree. my parents don’t believe me but our school is horrible. kids smoking weed, vaping in class, taking edibles, cursing, drinking, bullying.

    • @erinlopez4234
      @erinlopez4234 Год назад

      My school is ghetto asf

    • @minenoturs4271
      @minenoturs4271 10 месяцев назад

      YUP and then people wonder why even teachers be quiting

    • @SUPSTERV
      @SUPSTERV 10 месяцев назад

      Have you ever tried taking photos or audio recording?

  • @guidingkeyblade7834
    @guidingkeyblade7834 Год назад +1

    I was homeschooled since pretty much first grade. I can definitely say that I have learned way more homeschooling than I probably ever would have in public or private school, and this is just a statement to the American education system as a whole. Not only do regular schools not do anything about bullying or violence, but truthfully, most of the things they teach in schools aren't useful unless you're going into a certain field.
    The amazing thing about homeschool, at least in my experience, is that with homeschool, you have the ability to tailor the curriculum in ways that not only are your kids learning in the way they learn best, but at the same time, they are also able to learn subjects they want to learn, rather than being forced into them by the school system.
    Just this last year, instead of doing things like trigonometry or calculus for school, I instead decided to learn consumer math. Things like writing a check, or how to calculate interest, and stuff like that, because I know ultimately those are things I'm actually going to need in life.

  • @savannahrogers8211
    @savannahrogers8211 Год назад +9

    Whoa! Geez! I’m glad you both pulled them out of that school! What I’m thinking is the school doesn’t care about the students or families they want the money.? Man I love these videos! I love the inspiration your family gives! ❤

  • @fernandamartinezsaez4682
    @fernandamartinezsaez4682 Год назад +2

    Best videos for new parent’s!!! Thank you so much for sharing your experience. This is so helpful! And please please keep doing this kind of videos!!!!❤

  • @Breitten
    @Breitten Год назад +7

    My mom pulled me and brother out of school and I'm happy. I'm in this program called, time4learning and it's really good for the kids if you want to homeschool them. You work at your own pace without being demanded to do it.

  • @megarina_9051
    @megarina_9051 Год назад +3

    I love you guys and loving these videos. What a great family and group of human beings. Thank you for sharing your experiences to help others 👏🏻👏🏻❤️

  • @LachieFoster
    @LachieFoster 6 месяцев назад

    I have experienced this exact thing. I wasn’t exactly in the same position as your son where he was bullied for fame. I was bullied for my weird and quirky personality and how I lacked friends and I was told to k*ll myself a lot and it really broke me down to the point where I started having thoughts about doing it, luckily I never did attempt to. I really love the message you’re sending to society and I support you guys because I grew up watching you guys on Vine then RUclips and also because I can relate to the position your son was in for a long time. Beautiful message Mama and Papa Bee ❤.

  • @we.meet.again12341
    @we.meet.again12341 Год назад +3

    The amount of fights at my school is insane. You are amazing parents, caring for your children❤

  • @kletts42
    @kletts42 Год назад +2

    "Boys will be boys?!?!?!" Mama Bee is right about what boys should be. How about gentlemen??? My sincere condolences to your children and you who went through that.

  • @cinder5268
    @cinder5268 Год назад +4

    That’s awful that the school did not treat these things seriously. I got put into online school by mom and for me it helped me so much!

  • @LolXDD846
    @LolXDD846 Год назад +1

    I have been watching you all since i was 15 now im 21 close to 22 when i first find you guys I remember watching all of your videos one by one it was just so fun and enjoyable i never had a proper family i was i had my stuff and your family gave me a comfort and a glimpse of what good people and parents are and I honestly im very thankful for all of your videos and im thankful for showing me what a family looks like ♥️

  • @itzmealexgpc18
    @itzmealexgpc18 Год назад +2

    honestly there's not perfect school system, bullies will always be out there but I just really wish people would do something immediately and not wait till it gets worse. I mean my school is ok, it's private but there are still downsides to it... but I'm just glad I don't get bullied anymore

  • @TurquesadelMar
    @TurquesadelMar Год назад +1

    You did the right thing. You guys are amazing parents.

  • @presleex2712
    @presleex2712 Год назад +3

    As a girl who has been to a private school, and public school, and done virtually around Gabbie's age during the discussed instances, the school system is really messed up. Personally, the private school I went to was great but it was mostly because it wasn't even half of 34,000 and was in my small hometown. I have met other people and families from other surrounding the private school in a big city close to home and a lot of them are very entitled. I may be wrong in this, but it really just comes down to manners and knowing to respect people.

  • @jaimieanderson6292
    @jaimieanderson6292 Год назад +5

    I am so sorry y’all went through all of this I respect y’all’s decision I would have done the same thing if I had kids. Kids today are not being raised right. I will pray for y’all that everything will be okay no kid or kids should go through any of this and again I am so sorry that all of y’all went through all of this♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

  • @DannyMusic358
    @DannyMusic358 Год назад +7

    I’m in a school where the bathrooms are constantly vandalised making it unsafe for students to use them. Our school also has a terrible security system. Bullying isn’t a massive issue in my school, but around pride month is where they show their true colours. The things they would say were extremely homophobic and they tried to burn the pride flag. The younger kids at my school are extremely aggressive. I’m sorry for what Gabi and Roberto went through at that school. That’s horrible.

  • @nouyed
    @nouyed Месяц назад

    Honestly speaking, I take Mama and Papa Bee as role models of Parenting. If I do have a family one day, I am quite late in that part, I'd aspire to uphold similar values ...Love and blessings..

  • @JudeIS
    @JudeIS Год назад +4

    you are 100% right,your kids should be protected from this terrible environment

  • @Carlie06
    @Carlie06 Год назад +5

    7:26 omg i’m so sorry to your whole family. no one should ever threaten to do that.

  • @jaycielovesvampires6225
    @jaycielovesvampires6225 Год назад +1

    You guys are inspiring. I'm newly married and our baby is only 2. (In a few days) yall really help me out mentally. Thank you❤

  • @Sunshineandrainbows626
    @Sunshineandrainbows626 Год назад +4

    The worst thing about this is nothing will change. Unless the people who can afford to put their kids in those kind of schools stop supporting them, it won't change.

  • @ameliadecanio7484
    @ameliadecanio7484 Год назад +4

    I am currently going through a very similar experience. I go to a private school in a very small town where everyone is the same everyone’s the same religion the same sexualty it’s basically a bubble and the second something new or different comes in they completely freak out and don’t know what to do. I get bullied at school every day I’m terrified of going to school every day. Fortunately we’re moving next year but I don’t know how I’m going to get through these last few months not ever feeling safe or protected at school all because I’m different than everyone else. I’ve been to the principal multiple times and nothing has happened so I just gave up on trying and learned to ignore everyone around me even though it still hurts to go through every single day. I’m so sorry that your kids had to go through this, I’m glad I’m not the one one who’s experienced something like this at a private school.

  • @christyfirestone3603
    @christyfirestone3603 Год назад +1

    From my experience, some public schools are similar to your private school experience. But in my experience, instead of money being the ultimate prize for the school, it's who you know. Example: If you're related to the "most important people in school or friends of the important people " you are favored. I have noticed that a lot of people are getting greedy and forgetting that we are all human.

  • @auraliax1323
    @auraliax1323 Год назад +6

    my dad sent me and my sisters years ago to a private school, i can't agree more!! it was such a harmful place and we got so bullied till we left

  • @ady2802
    @ady2802 Год назад +2

    Beautiful.....your story is inspiring.....,❤❤❤❤❤

  • @ew_noelle
    @ew_noelle Год назад +2

    they're so lucky to have parents like you

  • @sentrympool148
    @sentrympool148 Год назад

    You made the best decision papa bee and mama bee. I'm so proud of you both.

  • @makedaevilmage
    @makedaevilmage Год назад +1

    I been following the channel for a few years now, and I just love how down to earth your family is. Bee real, Bee humble

  • @rcb2418
    @rcb2418 Год назад +1

    You did everything any other parent in your place would do. Great job kiddos.

  • @kenziebrady6455
    @kenziebrady6455 Год назад +1

    Honestly this family is the best!! You guys are amazing parents

  • @midnightdimond4246
    @midnightdimond4246 Год назад +1

    Nobody loses when it comes to kindness