❤you guys! Yes exactly I just set a boundary bcuz he came in and instead of talking and giving me emotional reassurance just to actually find out what was needed from me or wanted . It was just a conversation a dance something good then I would have been in the safe place of that respect n healing for a few minutes to actually be close to him. I also let him know sometimes I need it it’s normal . Balance respect and his development issues that he needs to work on from childhood it’s needed . I want him to heal so much I’m not even angry I just see through and I’m at peace inside. I risked losing him by saying no he felt rejected n just up n left while my body was physically in excruciating pain sciatica, and nerve pain all through my back. Love stops us from treating people badly badly. It stops us from lots of things that are unhealthy to ourselves and others . 😊😊❤❤pour love into yourselves always. I got this for speaking from my heart. His thoughts might tell him he’s right and in his very own truth he feels he is. But we teach people how to treat us. N there’s no way I will own what doesn’t belong to me.
LOL! Mathew is the Biggest Narcissist, but he hides it so WELL! Only people who know him closely, know how narcissistic he is. He is a professional actor and he wears his "nice" mask very well! It took me a year to figure out who he REALLY is! A manipulative narcissist who uses women to HIS advantage. He doesn't give a sh## about anyone else, but himself! He is the Biggest Ghoster himself!
My boyfriend of 1 year ghosted me while I was planning his birthday. He waited 9 months until he took my virginity. Then He just pretended I never existed. Told his friends and family to ignore me. Leaving me sobbing every night for months wondering what I did wrong. Then he came back about 1 year later. I still did not date at that time. I was too heart broken. He began professing his undying love. I was the best thing that ever happened to him etc my heart was so happy. I had missed hin so much. We began hanging out again everyday and night. Then We slept together one night because I thought we were in a relationship again. Then told me he just couldn't commit to me because I was too much of a good girl and he would need to marry me. Then I let him go. I told him okay that's all I needed to know. But he Kept coming and going for almost 2 years. I had to change.my number.
Rollo Tomasi’s 9 iron rules are not misogynistic they help you make better choices to understand female nature and respect yourself and your worth as a man . Not a beta ….
How to not attach when you like or love that person??
❤you guys! Yes exactly I just set a boundary bcuz he came in and instead of talking and giving me emotional reassurance just to actually find out what was needed from me or wanted . It was just a conversation a dance something good then I would have been in the safe place of that respect n healing for a few minutes to actually be close to him. I also let him know sometimes I need it it’s normal . Balance respect and his development issues that he needs to work on from childhood it’s needed . I want him to heal so much I’m not even angry I just see through and I’m at peace inside. I risked losing him by saying no he felt rejected n just up n left while my body was physically in excruciating pain sciatica, and nerve pain all through my back. Love stops us from treating people badly badly. It stops us from lots of things that are unhealthy to ourselves and others . 😊😊❤❤pour love into yourselves always. I got this for speaking from my heart. His thoughts might tell him he’s right and in his very own truth he feels he is. But we teach people how to treat us. N there’s no way I will own what doesn’t belong to me.
Great podcast! I loved the part around 6-8min, beautiful!
Excellent!❤❤
Thank you ❤
You guys rocking 🔥
I don’t like our dating culture in the West. It’s too open ended. I’m dating to marry at this point.
It’s honestly horrible here. Even the people who date for marriage still don’t have a lot of integrity
LOL! Mathew is the Biggest Narcissist, but he hides it so WELL! Only people who know him closely, know how narcissistic he is. He is a professional actor and he wears his "nice" mask very well! It took me a year to figure out who he REALLY is! A manipulative narcissist who uses women to HIS advantage. He doesn't give a sh## about anyone else, but himself! He is the Biggest Ghoster himself!
Wow 😮
Oh my goodness! Did u date him? I'm SO curious now! 😲
My boyfriend of 1 year ghosted me while I was planning his birthday. He waited 9 months until he took my virginity. Then He just pretended I never existed. Told his friends and family to ignore me. Leaving me sobbing every night for months wondering what I did wrong.
Then he came back about 1 year later. I still did not date at that time. I was too heart broken. He began professing his undying love. I was the best thing that ever happened to him etc my heart was so happy. I had missed hin so much. We began hanging out again everyday and night. Then We slept together one night because I thought we were in a relationship again. Then told me he just couldn't commit to me because I was too much of a good girl and he would need to marry me. Then I let him go. I told him okay that's all I needed to know. But he Kept coming and going for almost 2 years. I had to change.my number.
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Nah nah nah, that's not okay.
Coward. Get rid of him
Ghosting is just the worst. I’m sorry that happened to you and I hope you realized how deserve so much better than that.
Rollo Tomasi’s 9 iron rules are not misogynistic they help you make better choices to understand female nature and respect yourself and your worth as a man . Not a beta ….