Anthony Martinez and Jacob Lescenski at the 2015 HRC Las Vegas Gala

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  • Опубликовано: 21 май 2015
  • You may remember the Promposal video that went viral earlier this year. The 2 young men involved spoke to the attendees of the HRC Las Vegas Gala.
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Комментарии • 179

  • @DavidHSouthernGent
    @DavidHSouthernGent 8 лет назад +463

    Now that goes beyond just friendship. There's a bond between these two guys. A bond that will never be broken. It's a bond of love in a sense of truly caring for another human being, no matter their sexual preference. These two guys just broke the mold of the norm, and i wish them both many many years of happiness in friendship.

    • @kellyrose3435
      @kellyrose3435 7 лет назад +11

      Chris Flejter It's a shame because Jacob's straight.

    • @Chihuahuauno1
      @Chihuahuauno1 2 года назад +1

      You KNOW Anthony was giving Jacob a bro-job, or most likely many, after that proposal.

  • @Michael_in_Vt
    @Michael_in_Vt 7 лет назад +291

    Secure straight men comfortable in their sexuality have NO issues with gay men.

  • @somelezojezile2260
    @somelezojezile2260 7 лет назад +84

    This is the most straight guy I have ever seen. So much maturity.

  • @Nikki-sr4kj
    @Nikki-sr4kj 8 лет назад +231

    Every gay person deserves a best friend like Jacob ♥
    #respect
    Actually, I would say, everybody deserves a best friend like Jacob who would do anything for his/her best friend :) ♥
    And Anthony, you deserved it :)

    • @jfrmfrjm
      @jfrmfrjm 3 года назад +1

      Ha ha, I was about to write your second paragraph as a response before I got that far! 😄👍

  • @theterrarian1972
    @theterrarian1972 7 лет назад +136

    The world would be a much better place if everyone was like Jacob and would do anything for their friends

  • @aubreyrispoli6971
    @aubreyrispoli6971 9 лет назад +121

    Anthony seems like such a great person, I love him without knowing him. Jacob has such a beautiful soul. This brings me so much joy and faith.

  • @tOnySi
    @tOnySi 4 года назад +7

    you know who deserves a round of applause? Jacobs parents, for raising this man right.
    This. is. a. product. of. great. parenting.

  • @jamaljackson7477
    @jamaljackson7477 9 лет назад +175

    This is still the best story I ever Hurd

  • @kokobmezgebe9352
    @kokobmezgebe9352 7 лет назад +63

    America should always be like this

  • @rickyledesma1216
    @rickyledesma1216 7 лет назад +28

    thank you Jacob parents as well .!!

  • @donnieraveling188
    @donnieraveling188 8 лет назад +36

    it is so powerful beyond belief when LOVE is shown instead of living in fear. The consequences of living in fear kill. BUT living in LOVE is life.

  • @LiveTilliDie
    @LiveTilliDie 9 лет назад +50

    This made me tear up. This was great.

  • @rebeccaevans1653
    @rebeccaevans1653 7 лет назад +40

    This is the sweetest and nicest thing i have seen. They have a wonderful and healthy friendship. So nice to see this. As a mom I am so proud of the parents for raising such sweet boys.

  • @rkay3707
    @rkay3707 8 лет назад +49

    This is the real ride or die typa friendship...

  • @justshaun2011
    @justshaun2011 9 лет назад +46

    This brings tears to my eyes!

  • @dannyfasa2919
    @dannyfasa2919 9 лет назад +38

    just when I thought the future generation of this world were doomed...this happens. Bloody fantastic! A very heart warming and inspiring story 😃

  • @alexc2499
    @alexc2499 7 лет назад +19

    I love the two of them so much.

  • @aussieadam9502
    @aussieadam9502 8 лет назад +28

    I could not love this story any more if i tried. What an amazing and inspiring young guys they are. All the best for the future ☺

  • @courtneyconnells4331
    @courtneyconnells4331 8 лет назад +19

    These guys are so underestimating the impact they're having. They don't know the change that they have unknowingly brought to push things towards the future. They probably don't think they'll be remembered in the future/long-term but I think they will.

  • @salem8753
    @salem8753 7 лет назад +34

    raising kids right, this is the foundation of the society!Jacob's family is the prototype of a good family and should be an
    example for all of us!!

  • @gavtheripper6575
    @gavtheripper6575 7 лет назад +38

    His mother was my 7th grade English teacher

  • @afonsords
    @afonsords 8 лет назад +320

    people talkin bout how our generation is screwed up...well, we're not so bad are we?

    • @IsyahSalam
      @IsyahSalam 7 лет назад +8

      afonsords you're right! our ancestors indulged in war😔

    • @DarkWillUser
      @DarkWillUser 6 лет назад +4

      afonsords, nothing like this would have happened with MY generation, that's for sure. Not even in my dreams. You guys are lucky!

    • @395leandro
      @395leandro 4 года назад +1

      We are the best generation!

    • @kgbourghs
      @kgbourghs 4 года назад

      No, you guys are awesome. I’m a college professor and I teach your generation. I’m the one who learns from your generation every time I step to the podium. Thank you!

    • @SeanQuinn-rf7rq
      @SeanQuinn-rf7rq 3 года назад

      It’s all the government. They keep pushing it from an ant hill to a mountain,

  • @kpaterson9717
    @kpaterson9717 7 лет назад +10

    Yip, their just 2 boys. Simple. They have have a great, honest friendship. It's beautiful. Being loved is all we want and need

  • @collidingforces9589
    @collidingforces9589 9 лет назад +143

    Wonderful guys. I love you both. Very moving and inspiring real story. Thank you for making a difference not just for the gay community but for promoting Tolerance and Welcoming to whom is different.

    • @nicemexican87
      @nicemexican87 7 лет назад +3

      I absolutely agree with you Phabian. It was very wonderful !!!

  • @aussieday13
    @aussieday13 3 года назад +3

    The world would be peaceful if everybody was acceptance in spite of differences...Bravo Jacob❤💘

  • @RNCHFND
    @RNCHFND 9 лет назад +51

    you guys are awesome

  • @hi808cam
    @hi808cam 7 лет назад +8

    With each new generation, love & acceptance continues to flourish. Thanks to these two students for showing us the way to a better tomorrow. You both are truly inspiring.

  • @bataba6231
    @bataba6231 7 лет назад +18

    literally crying right now..wish one day the world will understand us you don't have to be one of us the just please accept us if you can't then atleast respect us as we LGBTQA respects you guys...thanks for being an inspiration for so many people worldwide...

  • @mydogsioux
    @mydogsioux 6 лет назад +2

    Imagine a world where everyone was as accepting & understanding as Jacob. I want to live in that world.

  • @andrewestes8005
    @andrewestes8005 8 лет назад +14

    INCREDIBLE!!!!.... Such wonderful young men

  • @jennifersincyr8742
    @jennifersincyr8742 6 лет назад +3

    thats so much more than friendship right there this guy who was not exactly a fan now defends his best friend and everyone else these guys deserves so much there so inspirational this inspired me so much who cares if your guy,straight,bisexual or anything thats okay be who YOU are not who EVERYONE else wants you to be just do you and never ever let anyone bring u down

  • @pwagner0176
    @pwagner0176 7 лет назад +4

    What a great story! This is one of those friendships you know will last a lifetime. Just beautiful.

  • @ronny8522
    @ronny8522 8 лет назад +28

    Wonderful and amazing guys. Thank you for being inspiring to the world!

  • @scottmena4653
    @scottmena4653 3 года назад +2

    This is so great and shows true friendship.

  • @qualinhunter6439
    @qualinhunter6439 5 лет назад +5

    Anthony and Jacob need to collab and create a youtube channel together ❤❤❤❤anybody agrees? That would be so amazing

  • @travisgrant5608
    @travisgrant5608 6 лет назад +4

    Damn! This brought tears to my eyes.The world is changing one step at a time. What a wonderful story.

  • @eiondickson5204
    @eiondickson5204 7 лет назад +4

    This is so lovely, this is what society should be like and I am just so happy for them and how this has probably impacted the world! Bless you guys!

  • @ciel222
    @ciel222 9 лет назад +31

    GREAT VIDEO

  • @sulemarubio8596
    @sulemarubio8596 7 лет назад +10

    Where are they now 🤔 true friendship 😍😊❤️👌🏽👍🏽

  • @Leaf325
    @Leaf325 5 лет назад +1

    Man, this... ugh. Pure love has no barriers, this friendship is awesome. I love this. 2 great human beings

  • @kevinkilgore3346
    @kevinkilgore3346 5 лет назад +3

    Jacob is one of my heroes. I wish I had a best friend like him.

  • @xloppylassx
    @xloppylassx 9 лет назад +17

    Wow just wow no other words need such love and inspiration to everyone out their jist amazing xxxxx

  • @gusneaker
    @gusneaker 7 лет назад +6

    Very brave guys!! Very supporting school and teachers! I'm just too happy about this happened!

  • @kpaterson9717
    @kpaterson9717 7 лет назад +5

    How awesome are these comments......Amazing

  • @Radk187
    @Radk187 7 лет назад +5

    You two men have inspired me to do MORE for LGBT rights... Thank you! Your story has been an important inspiration for my three young children as well! I cannot thank you enough for what you have done for my family as well as the world. The BEST part is you have done all of this from your hearts never expecting the experiences you have had from the publicity and the impact it would have on the LGBT community and the World!!! We love you both! Thank you!!!!!!!

  • @SweetColo
    @SweetColo 3 года назад

    These 2 will be best friends for the rest of their lives . Guaranteed ❤️❤️❤️

  • @HollywoodF1
    @HollywoodF1 4 года назад +2

    This makes me cry.

  • @davidkm81
    @davidkm81 2 года назад

    This story still continues to inspire me. Such a sweet moment where they hug at the end of their speech. Just a beautiful example of two guys who clearly care a lot about each other and for them sexuality has nothing to do with it.

  • @kolent5292
    @kolent5292 7 лет назад +20

    JACOB LESCENSKI YOU ARE THE HERO

  • @CJ-jr4eo
    @CJ-jr4eo 6 лет назад +7

    Anthony: "Um, I'm a little short." 😂 ME asf lmao

  • @mapledaleguy
    @mapledaleguy 7 лет назад +3

    What a best friend. This is awesome.

  • @GIguy
    @GIguy 7 лет назад +4

    SO PROUD OF YOU GUYS!!!!!! I'm gay, but being born in the 60's made what you did impossible without facing disastrous violence, expulsion, and social disgrace. I met my current husband when I was 20....28 years later, we're still together with children of our own, but you would not believe the fight we faced to get what everyone deserves, equal rights. Freddy (my hubby) and I moved to the gay village here in Toronto back in 1989. I lost count at how many protests, marches, sit ins, and rallies we participated in, but after over a decade of fighting against the main stream establishment, we finally won the battle and gain our right to marry, to adopt, and live our lives without fear or harassment. It was a long, very hard fought battle, we witnessed much violence against us along the way, but we did it! (When I say we, it's not just freddy and myself, but dozens of others who joined us in meetings with politicians from every level of government, who finally granted us what we should have had all along. It seems like a life time ago, but watching these brave young men brought it rushing back to the nights when we'd patrol the city streets until 3am, armed with only our intellect, a video camera, and a note pad (this was all pre-internet/smartphone/etc), and most importantly, our liaison to the police. We prevented dozens of gay bashings, that, had we'd not been there, would have resulted in assault, or possibly murder. We'd record all info possible, hand it over to the police, and they'd track down the offenders. We managed to decrease gay bashing from over 300 in 1989 when we first started, down to only 20, in 1991. Word got out that we were patrolling the streets and having people arrested, suddenly these cowardly punks who'd drive by, yelling "FAGGOT", throwing things at us, or getting out of their cars to assault us and drive away, magically stopped. According to police statistics, over 90% of these punks were cowardly mama's boys, who lived in the burbs, and were driving their moms car. Needless to say, we received hundreds of apology letters from furious mothers that had no idea their kids were committing these crimes, using their cars. (FYI, we'd always ensure to get the licence plates, that's how the police found them, or at least, their very angry parents). Our efforts resulted in hundreds of arrests, with charges as simple as harassment, to assault, to attempted murder. Alone, there's not a lot you can do, but together, you can accomplish the impossible. It's something I'm so very proud to have been a part of, so when I see stories like this, my heart melts, and I think to myself "the freedom these young people now have, is due in part to our efforts", and it makes me feel so good, as it does everyone of my generation.now, Toronto has become a gay Mecca, where seeing two people of the same sex, holding hands, or kissing, in public, isn't even an issue anymore, I only wished I'd have been born in this modern era. The LGBT youth of today have no idea of just how lucky they are, most are totally oblivious to the fight we had to endure, just to live our lives openly, I only pray it isn't affected by that brain dead, rich white trash president, who's already de-evolving the civil liberties movement back to the era of slavery.

    • @margesplace
      @margesplace 6 лет назад

      I sorry to tell you but there's a gay boy in my daughter's school and he is not accepted by the other kids. He only talks to the girls at school. Hetro boys don't talk or sit with him. This case of these two boys is extremely rare.

  • @charlie9901
    @charlie9901 3 года назад +2

    Well done Anthony and Jacob, student body and staff at this great school. Everyone has a right to be happy.! WHY is this concept so hard for people to accept.?? great stepping stones, hopefully, for a kinder more accepting society.

  • @JeffMende
    @JeffMende 9 лет назад +46

    those 2 men are super; life is one day at a time being more compassionate to all beings; gay, straight, black, white, asian; pets; earth;

  • @jfrmfrjm
    @jfrmfrjm 3 года назад +2

    Their story blows my mind - It is the USA, after all! Way, way, WAY more significant than if they were Swedish or Danish or Dutch. Jacob is such a hero at his age I cannot wrap my head around it.

  • @BroccoliBeefed
    @BroccoliBeefed 6 лет назад +1

    Why does it bring tears to the eyes?

  • @ronniecaron6827
    @ronniecaron6827 6 лет назад +2

    it's been 2 1\2 years, since this happened and I still tear up when I see thease brave and AWESOME and coriougeous young gentelman..situations like Anthony and Jacob, are so inspiring save lives and encourage the LGBT youth community....it can and will get better..

  • @antonettehall5118
    @antonettehall5118 7 лет назад +2

    That's so amazing and so heartfelt ❤️

  • @marlene21diaz
    @marlene21diaz 6 лет назад

    Im crying Jacob the world needs more people with a big heart and open mind like yours

  • @desireemo1559
    @desireemo1559 9 лет назад +15

    I love you guys

  • @benw9949
    @benw9949 8 лет назад +15

    Tonight, I see this story and a story about a gay couple who went to their prom this past May, near where I went to high school. Neither of these could have happened when I went to my senior prom. But the word boyfriend wouldn't have occurred to me anyway. I could speak up to defend friends, but not myself, and I had not yet accepted myself as gay. So to see these two stories in the same night tells me our world really is changing for the better. We have so far to go before no one raises an eyebrow about someone being gay, where it is just as OK for a gay boy or girl to walk up to someone they like and ask them, as it is for a straight boy or girl to tell someone they really like them, and ask them out.

    • @kymberlyp4056
      @kymberlyp4056 7 лет назад +3

      Ben W ~ You are so right! Why must people be defined as gay or straight. Can't we just accept each other as caring people. Your post was great.

  • @gnirolnamlerf593
    @gnirolnamlerf593 4 года назад +1

    "You've got to be taught before it's too late, before you are six, or seven or eight, to hate all the people your relatives hate. You've got to be carefully taught." Thank you, Oscar Hammerstein for those bitingly critical words, which were true 70 years ago when they were written and are still so true. No one is born hating anyone else. Like Jacob's and Anthony's parents, teachers, relatives and older friends, could we all, once and for all, stop teaching hate? Oh, what a world we would live in if human beings directed all the thought and energy now devoted to hating others to being tolerant of them, working together to solve everyone's problems!

  • @qualinhunter6439
    @qualinhunter6439 5 лет назад +4

    I love them so much. They were on ellen and I have a crush on both of them 💗💚

  • @katinamitchell2868
    @katinamitchell2868 6 лет назад

    The courage,the respect, the friendship..AMAZING!

  • @torischerle
    @torischerle 8 лет назад +24

    I know they are just best friends but I ship their friendship. Not to say if they did actually date then I would ship that too.

  • @mtham4171
    @mtham4171 3 года назад +3

    This is cool
    But
    I laughed wen Anthonybwas like "Am a little short" hahaha Jacob, this is when you adjust the mic 😂😂😂

  • @bobf.5538
    @bobf.5538 4 года назад +2

    They will be best men at each others weddings one day. Much success in your lives

  • @thineshvaranjeremy6431
    @thineshvaranjeremy6431 6 лет назад

    SO SO SO HAPPY TO SEE THIS AFTER 2 YEARS

  • @moabastari7669
    @moabastari7669 4 года назад

    It's amazing thank you thank you ♥️

  • @augusts1
    @augusts1 6 лет назад +2

    I'm not crying, you're crying! ; ) Just so amazing!

  • @jamisonrhodes1986
    @jamisonrhodes1986 7 лет назад +1

    Very Empowering story...Absolutely love you for this Jacob!!! #truefriendtiltheend #equalityrocks #NOH8

  • @zoekennedy4724
    @zoekennedy4724 7 лет назад

    I love this story it just shows how powerful friendships really are 😊😊

  • @kgbourghs
    @kgbourghs 4 года назад

    The most beautiful thing I’ve ever witnessed!

  • @devinadebnath6257
    @devinadebnath6257 4 года назад

    YOU ARE AMAZING GUYS

  • @koyanani
    @koyanani 8 лет назад +10

    I'm so obsessed with Jacob's jawline.

    • @nextlevelfierce7554
      @nextlevelfierce7554 6 лет назад

      NANI o yes and the fashion industry would book him right away.

  • @knockshinnoch1950
    @knockshinnoch1950 6 лет назад

    These kids are inspirational.

  • @kyleightolentino4373
    @kyleightolentino4373 7 лет назад +11

    i love those boys

  • @thomasmulroney7391
    @thomasmulroney7391 6 лет назад +1

    I almost cried during this.

  • @Luckissme
    @Luckissme 3 года назад +2

    such good guys

  • @chrissnyder8108
    @chrissnyder8108 7 лет назад +10

    I've gone out with my friends who are gay guys as a straight woman, and no one looks twice. Why should it be any different for a straight guy to go out with a gay guy? Both dates are equally platonic, hopefully one day it will be something that is just as accepted. Prom should be about being with your friends and enjoying being young, it shouldn't tie you to your night's date for life.

  • @danmm878
    @danmm878 3 года назад

    I couldn't agree more with you, Michael.

  • @freeflamezz
    @freeflamezz 6 лет назад +3

    I think I fell in love with Anthony

  • @arisbeasteahroyal4557
    @arisbeasteahroyal4557 8 лет назад +3

    Omg I so happy

  • @faafafineartist
    @faafafineartist 6 лет назад

    Beautiful. Well spoken. They can teach most adults these days to get a life.

  • @daniel_8181
    @daniel_8181 5 лет назад +1

    bravo!!!

  • @jordikeoni
    @jordikeoni 6 лет назад +1

    They speak so eloquently. Nice job. When I was 17, speaking in front of a large audience being filmed, I totally would have clammed up.

  • @stephanietorres6511
    @stephanietorres6511 4 года назад

    I love it when young men are confident enough in themselves to not give a shit what other people think and just do what they want to do and what they know is right. I hope my son becomes this type of young man. Well done, I love this story!

  • @zzzroxyzzz
    @zzzroxyzzz 4 года назад

    and that folks is how you fix the world. when you're secure with yourself you can move mountains.

  • @Chihuahuauno1
    @Chihuahuauno1 2 года назад +1

    Even spaghetti is straight, until you heat it up! hahaha

  • @melylisa6930
    @melylisa6930 5 лет назад

    This is what true friendship should be like in this judgemental world we live in..💙💙

  • @eagle8088
    @eagle8088 8 лет назад

    Just beautiful! 👍

  • @IWillHarvestYourToes
    @IWillHarvestYourToes 4 года назад

    Beautiful. Just beautiful.

  • @franky4318
    @franky4318 2 года назад +1

    Friendship as any other kind of relationship between humans is based on respect, from both sides. And when you have values, you will appreciate what a good friend means to you. It doesn't matter if you're gay or straight. You don't find a good friend everyday.

  • @JayVala520
    @JayVala520 6 лет назад

    I love both of you 💞

  • @luisalvarez8187
    @luisalvarez8187 5 лет назад

    This was so cool!!!!!

  • @candisalmendarez1381
    @candisalmendarez1381 4 года назад +1

    Beautiful

  • @SprinkleofWilly
    @SprinkleofWilly 9 лет назад +27

  • @Guppieboi3
    @Guppieboi3 8 лет назад

    0.38 - I love it when she tells him, "You Just Stepped Up!"--and the other guys step back slowly....Hahaha

  • @rickvacha3158
    @rickvacha3158 6 лет назад

    Since I graduated high school in 91 , we have made baby steps but each one counts !!

  • @user-zp1rs5gw3w
    @user-zp1rs5gw3w 8 лет назад +4

    cool boys!!!