Or endangering everyones lives on the road during a car rage teetee tantrum over someone not driving EXACTLY how they want them to, at the exact speed they like. Not all men granted, but literally 9 times outta 10 (according to official police stats for convictions for dangerous driving) , its a man driving like a booga.
I would go off on someone so quick if they told me I "overreacted" my child birth. My son came out not breathing, I stopped breathing and lost a large amount of blood.. My poor mother was the only one in the room watching this. To think since your childbirth is easy everyone else's is is so narcissistic
I feel the same. For my first birth my baby wasn't breathing for a short amount of time and they imidiatly took it to another room. I was fine besides some tear but mainly panicing about my baby. 30 minutes of waiting felt like forever until they brought him back and he needed to be monitored for his oxygen levels for some days. Things like this arn't easy and we shouldn't scare pregnent women but this isn't always this easy peasy process where everythimg goes as planned. (My kid is almost 11 years and completly fine now 😊)
I would consider the birth of my son to have been on the easier and less painful side. My gynecologist said it was the most peaceful labor and delivery he's seen. When it was time to push, I was sleeping in between pushes. It was a completely natural delivery, nothing for pain or anything. All that being said, just because it was easier than the experiences of some others, it wasn't EASY. It was 36 hours from the time my water broke due to contractions until my son was born. I had two second degree tears and I had a hemorrhage that wasn't discoverer until 4 hours after the delivery. I lost more than two liters of blood, fainted on the bathroom floor, then had to be rushed to the operating room (which meant being separated from my baby) and put under general anesthetic so they could manually remove the half liter of blood clots that were stopping my uterus from contracting. It took a month for me to not feel like I was going to faint every time I stood up. It was two weeks before I could carry my son up the stairs to bed.
I think some men forget anger is an emotion, so when they're being unhealthily angry at something they think it's not emotional. every emotion is valid but the way you deal with your emotions is important
not saing you're wrong but isn't some caused by parents teaching them that almost every other emotion than anger is weak and therefore shouldn't be expressed?! I sadly know a lot men who where raised that way.
@@CleoStrawberryMoon Im not saying it's wrong for them to have trauma from this, this is a fact a lot of men do this and this is a problem with society who lets this cycle of abuse continue and without education young men and boys on how to deal with their emotions
@@Cinnamonraisin_Bagel you're right. Sorry I didn't write it out but I asumed that being raised that way possibly makes it harder to express other feelings as adults and surely those men need some kind of guidence in learning to exept and show thise as well. I hooe this changes and some day (hopefully in the very near future) everyone is allowed and able to express their feelings in a healthy way ❤
@@CleoStrawberryMoon It's fine, i also agree on this, the treatment of young men ends up affecting a lot of people i definitely think we need to have a change in society where we treat everyone well and teach them about how to express emotions and how it's ok to show emotions outwardly in a healthy way.
I like to think the person who likes baking her husband cookies ONLY bakes cookies. All they eat is cookies. Their furniture is cookie, their house is cookie, their cookie is cookie.
Had a guy friend tell me that women are so emotional and defensive because he called a woman a bitch and her best friend who was also a woman and part of the conversation asked him to please not do that. This was an extended rant where he was still so pissed at this woman months, maybe years later, and how it’s not his fault that they couldn’t understand his humor and everyone needed to stop attacking him
Legit when I opened up to my godmother about my husband abusing me she said “well maybe if you had a cold beer and hot meal waiting for him each night he would treat you better” like what the fuck. I’m disabled and have chronic pain and she basically said “if you were a better wife he wouldn’t abuse you”. I nearly died in that relationship (I was 84 pounds when I escaped) been divorced over a decade and have a new partner that is good to me.
So many men see no issue with screaming at a football game and breaking stuff if their team loses/wins while also hating on girls who sing and cry at a concert. Like, dude, they're just having fun, and sure you're angry your team lost, but that does not justify having a tantrum and acting like that's acceptable behavior.
Ngl I'm the girl in my dress and heels have a shout at tv during the football (scotland big fitba (football) culture😂) after the game get the music on have a singsong and a dance 😂 I agree I don't get why people go on to fight ir smash stuff up it's a 90 mins where they are paid thousands lol
AMAB Enby here: not only are guys more dramatic/emotional than women with their overblown anger, they have the nerve to turn around and say "I'm not emotional, I'm angry🤬🤬" like...hun...I have some news for you😂😂 Edit: to all the bigots in my replies, really hope your IP is masked ;)
I love seeing guys say that stuff because it's like ok try having period cramps and having contractions and having a child see how quick those guys go into a complete breakdown. There are literally videos on RUclips of men going through AI period cramps and contractions and they start bawling it's like ok yeah not emotional at all 😆
@@XxLostFinalGirlxX that’s not even emotions, that’s just pain tolerance! But I do find it deeply amusing, especially when a woman is hooked up to the same simulation and she’s completely fine while he’s curled up in a ball But on the topic of emotions, don’t quote me on this, but I’m pretty sure I remember hearing that when women are on their periods, the chemical makeup of their brains are more closely aligned to what men experience, meaning that while on their periods, women act the most like men!
The catcalling! Yes! My dad still seem to struggle to understand the difference between a man giving a genuine compliment or a man catcalling for some reason. He doesn't catcall (thank goodness) but it's still fucking annoying everytime the subject is on the table.
Man gossip. Like A LOT. I work in a Office with many guys and all they do besides the works demands is talk about other people’s lives. Is disgusting most of time
B-b-b-b-b-but gossip is when it's women and when men do it it's not gossip because gossip is for women and if I acknowledge that women aren't a different and worse species then I'd have to start treating them as my equal >:< (I'm not emotional because anger is for boys and thus not an emotion)
I grew up swimming every moment I could, my hair was always wet. As I got older, I saw why some people didn't like their hair wet. Along with the valid issues for hair dye, people (women especially) spend SO much time and money on treatments, products and styling, of course they don't want to wreck it. In addition to personal style choice, there are protective hairstyles that water decimates. Just leave everyone else alone! They have their reasons, and it's none of your concern.
I got cut open, sewed and burned back together again, all while basically temporarily paralyzed and having a panic attack. Afterwards I felt like I was on fire and they made me immediately get up and walk to see my baby. 1000000000% worth it, but omg it is the worst pain I’ve ever experienced
Add the recent game when argentina and Colombia and the stadium was so pack some people where left out the next day you saw on the news dudes getting areest for rioting instead of asking for a refund and watch it somewhere
When it comes to the men who forget that anger is an emotion, they technically do the same with lust, and will make up the same kinds of excuses for it.
Men will claim that “women are more emotional and irrational” while simultaneously claiming that the reason they assault and hurt women is because they can’t control their *feelings* of lust and anger
I find it such a red flag when a girl starts bragging about not being girly or like other girls, and I'll probably instantly make a mental note that this isn't someone I wanna be friends with. I remember a girl in a discord server bragging about her hobbies not being "girly" IMMEDIATELY after I said I was interested in customising barbie dolls and it just got my back up. Also, one of her listed non-girly hobbies was video games. It was a server for a popular MMO. With about 50/50 male and female users. Girl, I like video games too! We all do, thats why we're here! You're not special! And look at that, I like allegedly "non-girly" things AND typical "girly" things! It's almost like I'm a full person with many facets!
Yeah it's dumb to brag about it if she brags about things like this that could be why some guys see this type of behavior as a turn off because if she's becoming obsessed with it that's not healthy I don't like video games that much and I don't even like football that much either something is mentally wrong with her if she's copying men. You can have hobbies but don't highlight these qualities as something that's different or unique about you if I really wanted to I could go get tattoos and have someone braid my hair into dread locks too but I don't like people staring at me so I prefer to blend in. If you don't want men chasing you then don't dress up.
Most recent statistics actually revealed that more than 50% of gamers are now women. Gamer girls were maybe a little different in the late 90s and early 2000s, but that's no longer the case. And that's assuming you don't believe the statistics were skewed then by women not admitting to gaming because gaming was targeted at boys and men, and women and girls would've been playing with their brothers/boyfriends/spouses or borrowing their systems to play, plus not admitting to gaming because it was viewed as boyish or childish. I believe women have always played video games about equally to men, outside of perhaps arcade spaces where some may have felt unsafe or awkward to go due to the heavy male presence. This was certainly true in the 70s and 80s when the hobby first came about, because at that time it was advertised to the whole family. After the video game market crash in the 80s, when the hobby almost died, advertising became more targeted in an effort to save it. It worked, but the effects of marketing toward boys, specifically teen boys, have lingered to this day and have caused certain guys to think the video game space belongs, or at least should belong, only to males, especially to teenage boys. And so, because of this perception, there are still women who think playing games is somehow unique/boyish. Advertising continues to target men and boys with games. Just look at the RAID: Shadow Legends ads, and the disinclination of most game developers to include women protagonists in games with set protagonists. There are a few, but far fewer than for male characters. Ads usually star the male character when there is an option to choose. And when there is a set female protagonist, she's most often cisgendered and lesbian, or does not have any romantic involvement with anyone at all. I'm all for wider representation, but the reason that we don't see big-name developers put out video games with straight women as the set protagonist is because they don't want to make the male audience uncomfortable by having a woman be interested in men. The good thing that's come of this is that some of the lesbian characters are actually being represented better, like Aloy (who's an awesome character in general), rather than solely as scantily-clad objects of male prurient interest as they used to be. But straight women should also be protagonists sometimes, and they shouldn't be denied romantic interests just because it might give men strange pantsfeels or make them jealous (especially since over 50% of gamers are women!). And asexuals can certainly also do with more representation in general!
A few years ago a young woman I used to be friends with invited me to play D&D with her and her boyfriend's group because I had always wanted to play a pen and paper game and she didn't want to be the only girl in the group. But over time I started to feel like she kind of resented my more stereotypically female characters. As in: they cared about their family members, appearance, could be shy/insecure and also I almost always ended up being the party healer because nobody else would do it. While her characters were usually not typically attractive, independent, warrior ladies...at least on the surface because in practice her characters somehow always ended up playing henchmen/bodyguard of her boyfriend's character. Which I could have forgiven if her boyfriend hadn't been an annoying prick who always needed to be the strongest and smartest while also being extremely selfish and uncaring.
"men do not gossip" LMAO my classmates were all men and I can tell you they were even worse than me who love to gossip. They were having assembly to discuss about who was gay and who was straight according to them. What they liked the most was to create drama and to talk behing peoples back espacially mine while acting all friendly in front of me. So you can NOT tell me that men do not gossip
Yes everyone reading this please drink some water and if you have to remember to take your pills and just generally take care of their minds and bodies
I think 1/10 peopel read out on this channel are genuine and the rest are ragebait straw people. My partner and I like to try and guess if any are real.
My dad and uncle, both around late 50s-60s, are pretty misogynistic though they know not to say anything near me now. One thing they love to point out is that women are over emotional. Which is ironic because they have anger issues. Especially my uncle. Dad is more road rage, but my uncle is the type to get physically violent. And when they're drunk it's even worse. They get so mad when I point this out to them, I even have a few videos of them raging lol. They also like to use the excuse of alcohol, but literally none of the family act like they do when drunk. They're insane honestly
My pain while in labor and giving birth was a 15/10 on the mf pain scale. And I tore a few times and was sore for a long time after. That woman who had no pain must have a fucking issue with her pain receptors or something cause I now have beef with this lady that thinks that experience wasn't horrific and very very veryyy painful. Also I had to push for 2 hours
i think a lot of the whole "not like other girls" thing would be resolved if people understood that feminism is about everyone having the right to do what they want and not be restricted by law or society, not just women being able to be entrepreneurs...
i left a comment about this on another of savannah's videos - she said something like "just eat the bread, i promise your life will be better" like oh okay my dad who gets migraines from bread would disagree i HAVE to watch what i eat because i have no concept of it and i'll eat 5,000 calories or more a day not even realizing (plus diabetic) i have a wide assortment of food allergies too
in ireland leggings are definitely still in fashion, everyone wears them, they're super popular. the styles may change but it's leggings for everyone here.
Truth. I understood at a young age that I wasn't going to be successful at "girl" things, but that's more a failing of society's limited understanding of what a girl can be than a failing of me to be a girl.
Um, 4:00 min in, oh hell no. A pick me does NOT get to tell other women to supress their instincts and natural that help keep them safe in the face of men being hecking creepy *and* be taken seriously. Also, on the topic of gossiping, and this quote came directly from a man, specifically Craig Joseph Charles 'If men didnt gossip, how would they keep a track of whos easy?'
@@coolchameleon21 Laura Bailey played a character that got a lot of hate in the last of us part 2, and a lot of cast and crew members got death threats. But also her son got his life threatened
Always nice to see a new video, I'll come back when I have something to say Edit: The amount of people I've heard say that "women are dramatic" is astounding and every one of them has anger issues, at least the ones I knew
having curly, easily frizzed hair means my hair care routine will take my shower/getting ready process from ~30 minutes to upwards of 2 hours 😭 like i don’t avoid getting my hair wet bc i need to be sooooo ✨cute✨at all times, i just do not have the energy to be putting myself through all that unnecessarily
Trans man here. I honestly miss feminine friendships so much. In transitioning I feel more connected to myself, but the more masculine I look the less connected I am to the people around me edit: I 100% had a “I’m not like the other girls” phase in middle/high school. Turns out I really wasn’t like the other girls cuz I was a boy
@Femtoisbackandbetter He actually is unlike yourself. Why are you so insecure and lonely? Log off and seek help, and then come back here. No wonder you don't have any friends because of your behaviour and personality (or lack thereof from you). You're embarrassing yourself while lowering the humanity in the comments section, so learn to do yourself a favour by using your brain.
As a trans guy, I may end up missing female friendships as well, but to be honest, I'll still have friendships with people who understand me and actually like being around me as a person. I'm a guy that doesn't have much female friends in real life, except for one who's like a sister to me... But I've some female friends online (my chosen trans sister included). I'm still transitioning and I do remember having thoughts in elementary to middle school that were "not like other girls", but with me being Autistic.
Always been a legging wearer I was born in 2000 I wear them cause they are comfortable & I love them etc-also not for anyone else but myself so I don’t care if others wear them or not but no clothing should be made fun of
The person complaining about women gossiping is soo ironic. Because aren’t you doing exactly that right now? You are talking about other people right now and not commented the beginning of a "deep" conversation😅
PuppyM looks so cute in the rainbow sweater. 😊 Personally, my own "not like other girls" syndrome came from never being accepted by the other girls anyways, so I embraced my weirdness and differences. It did morph into internalized misogyny as I got older because I then assumed ALL girls/women that were a certain way would bully me (because they had so far). None of us benefit from the patriarchy and I wish I had been able to have stronger relationships with other girls earlier in my life. I'm trying embrace my girly side now, though, in my mid-thirties. 💖 It's healing!
I just wish we could bring back swimming caps as a fashion item. Don't wanna get your hair wet? Wear a swimming cap! Get a cute one to match your swimsuit!
I'm a house husband and I used to be a druggie and even when I was going to multiple dayl long raves and sleeping in sofas I used to cook, clean and make cups of tea for my mates so you can do both.
The way I giggled when I saw the thumbnail because let me tell you about my research findings that I’ve compiled while being in a boys school. There’s a reason our drama team was excellent lol Jk
Since when is owning your own restaurant unambitious just because it's "small"? That character and/or author has no idea how much work it is to own a restaurant.
i used to be like this in elementary, only really wanting to hang out with boys and thinking i don't fit in with any of the girls. then i realized i was transmasc lmao and i hang out with people of all genders. rarely cis people tho (mostly because every person i come in contact to comes out as trans or non-binary later)
I don't see how people are so comfortable with men or just anyone in general objectifying other people because I (cis woman) get scared to just say I like someones jacket because I don't want to make them uncomfortable and make the interaction more awkward than intended because yeah I'm just complimenting someones shirt or jacket but I also kinda panic inside because I don't want the person to feel uncomfortable but I can also understand if they feel uncomfortable. It's sad that objectifying people and s3xualizing people in public has been so common and normalized that even if you have positive intentions when it comes to complimenting people it can be so awkward because it's hard to tell if there are positive intentions to compliments or if there's something else going on because of people who just s3xualize people as if it's just a normal interaction it's ridiculous..
Same. I like complimenting people, but I'm always so nervous about being invasive, bothering them, making them uncomfortable, etc. The idea of objectifying, scaring, or disturbing someone... I don't ever want to do that. I don't understand how people can.
@@RexytheRexy right? Like it's weird how people like us get nervous about complimenting people because we don't want them to be uncomfortable yet there are people who are so comfortable with saying very inappropriate things to others. Maybe it's because we don't want to make people uncomfortable meanwhile the people comfortable with saying inappropriate things don't care if they make others uncomfortable.
As someone who's afab (transmasc) I could never imagine wanting to make someone uncomfortable. My older brother and cousin often made compliments to purposefully make me uncomfortable, so it's hard for me to even gain the confidence to compliment someone incase it makes that person uncomfortable.
Completely off topic here but Sav--I want you to know I was crying at school yesterday because I have anxiety but then I listened to That's When I Knew for a full hour straight and I felt so much better🥲 No joke I had it on the whole day and today too, I love your music so much❤
How about this... you go out to the clubs with friends, your bf, or husband... and you don't drink or do drugs! That's how my husband and I used to do it... It can be done.
My husband has gotten really good and cooking steak I’m pretty sure if I tried to make him one he would cry because I can not cook meat to save my life 😅
Yeah I think that is the case for a lot of women*. Before sth like that happens you can """take it as a compliment"""" and after you just see the threat of more violence.
The other night I was walking my dog and trying to avoid a group of 5 drunk men stumbling my way. I went down a side street and one called out "Excuse me love, my friend was wondering if you knew the way to the nearest brothel!" According to the second girl, I shouldn't have kept my head down, kept walking and pretended I didn't hear him, I should have, what, pulled up Google maps? Blushed because he called me love? Also, when I was 15 a grown man in a car with his friends leaned out the window and shouted "10/10", I was standing in my own front yard 😐 clearly he was just trying to be nice.
When I think back on when I was younger, a lot of the "respect" men would show me was just them wanting to get laid, something that would come up later in the friendship.
I really like your point about gossiping rather than deep conversations only happening with people you aren’t close to. It’s similar to how I feel about the “I hate small talk” people. Like I obviously get the distaste for superficial/general/maybe meaningless conversations but if I am not close with someone, small talk establishes a baseline and creates a path that leads to deeper conversations. Most people don’t like to parachute straight into a deep discussion of philosophical beliefs and niche interests without context from the other person.
I had someone tell me if getting kicked in the balls lasted as long as my labor it would be more painful than childbirth. I have to get 3 pints of blood and plasma. I looked and my husband and mom’s face. They were white, I didn’t understand how bad it was and I passed out before the blood got to me. My son was rushed out to save his life as well. The last thing I remember is the doctor yelling where’s the blood. The trauma I experienced was horrible and that man hasn’t been through anything like that.
Another thing that sucks about getting your hair wet in the ocean is having curly hair. I have curly hair, and whenever I get out of the water while having my hair down, it's basically just one big tangle 😭😭 it's so much easier to just not get it wet or to at least put it in a braid or something, otherwise I'll be brushing it out for HOURS
My OBGYN rotation and the first time I ever watched a labor/birth is an experience I will never forget. It was traumatizing, shocking, scary as fuck and I wasn't even the one getting split into two.
20:19 so much this! one of my best friends for over a decade now is someone I met randomly on kpop tumblr in like 2013 lmao we've never met in person but I talk to her literally every day
28:20 honestly, these type of folks (and i say this as i was one for a bit during my ED journey) are likely very much struggling with ED, or getting there. Putting down those that restrict food to feel better abount binging, even if at other times they themselves restrict. Not saying "this person has an ED, 100%" but EDs are competitive disorders (as im certain you already know) and situations like this allow folks to seek positive attention with "look im eating so much and im so thin!!"
I always feel so weird and icky when I’m catcalled. Like on the one hand my brain is glad that I’ve been catcalled at least once bc before it happened the first time I’m like if this is such a universal experience then why not me? But on the other hand my body HATES it. Like my heart races and I look over my shoulder and I get scared but yet society has warped my perception of it to somehow be grateful?! It’s gross and makes me feel even worse the more I think about it when the cat-callers should be the ones ashamed
I can't imagine looking at my friend, who was put on bed rest for both of her successful pregnancies (there were several unsuccessful one😢), and saying her experience couldn't have been that bad because my experience let me keep working till two weeks after my due date. Nor can I imagine her telling me that my L&D couldn't have been that bad because both her deliveries were less than 3 hours start to finish, while mine was 24 hours ending in an emergency C-section, no memory of the four hours after, and permanent (though in no way debilitating) nerve damage. It is like each person has a different experience.
my nana was one of those "women giving birth are so dramatic" types after my mom went through 36 hours of labor. Plot twist in that, both my mom and my uncle were adopted so she had literally no reference point to make that judgement from.
I had my not like other Girls phase. Turns out I *actually* wasn't like the other Girls. I was the only Autistic Girl in class. Then I figured out I was actually Agender so, that's another reason why
I just want to thank you for introducing me to SKZ a couple years ago I heard their music before on TikTok but didn’t realize it was them until I actually started listening to their music
Fun fact related to spam calls: my area code is New Mexico for some reason(never been) and most of the spam calls are easy to block because of that. The only ones I don’t block however are Roswell so I can answer and say “I don’t know anything about the aliens” and hang up 😁
20:23 as someone who grew up in a small(ish) town, often it can feel like most of your peers are partying and doing drugs because there’s literally nothing to do, especially as a teenager. I didn’t have a single friend that didn’t smoke weed or drink, and as someone with trauma related to those substances it made me feel really uncomfortable and isolated. When people say “everyone is doing drugs and getting drunk” they don’t mean it literally. They mean that to them it feels like everyone because it might be everyone they know
With the first story, I first thought "Well they are 12 and 14 they don't need to spend that much time with him" and then I realised that it's just my dad who dind't spend enough time with me T-T I think a big problem with education is taht people refer to their childhood as the norm, without questioning it. They don't realise that some things were harmful to them and are aloso harmful to their kids. I sincerely hope I will never telle my kids "well my parents did that and I'm fine" because I was and I am not fine and I wish my future kids to have a better childhood that I had
For the book. I can see it being a way to show the characters personalities and hopefully the goal is to have this be in the beginning and she grows throughout the book and realizes why she can be a feminist and also just want a small restaurant
I'm a long-term recovering addict, and a part of me I really don't like sometimes envies people who get high. Pure, unfiltered reality can be rough, y'know?
@@RexytheRexy i can understand that, but this comes from my personal perspective of me just not seeing the appeal and finding this stuff gross. Sorry if i hurt any feelings, that was nit my intention
@@laquedibuja2003 :D Honestly, I was always the same way. Never understood the appeal of drugs and alcohol. Then, I got my ass handed to me by chronic illness and an undiagnosed spine defect and the sensory overstimulation of the world went through the roof. I just wanted things to be quiet, and eventually I couldn't even sleep. This is why I don't understand cocaine. People want to feel like that? 😂
I in contrast live in ridiculously comfortable & colourful leggings. Saying that my favourite leggings have started turning up in op shops. I also mum full time so comfort is my goal. And a contributing reason I stopped wearing skirts is my toddler hides in them. 😂
I would absolutely jump in the ocean every single day, no matter the temp... except every beach in driving distance has unsafe levels of E. Coli. If i lived on the East or West Coast instead of the Gulf Coast, you'd never get me out of that water. But having your entire digestive system purge every time you take a dip is not cool. That's not even taking into account the alligators...
My brain almost completely blocked out the birth of my first child because my epidural didn’t work and I was in so much pain. The only part my brain didn’t block out was the nurses telling me that if she didnt come out I would need an emergency c-section bc she was in severe distress. But sure, childbirth isn’t that bad 🙄
i had my Daughter in 22 minutes, & even i wouldn't say that.. (being told that they wanted to use the cervadil on me, for a 4th time was bad enough) .. enducing labor with cervadil is a painful process..
the girl's comment on tik tok about gossiping made me think of the million dating profiles ive seen that "hate small talk" or say "lets skip the small talk." like. how do you envision that going? forget talking about our hobbies, interests, favorite media, family and friends, etc. thats all small talk. i want you to tell me about the deep stuff. it basically becomes a litmus test for whether i want to even entertain a conversation with you 😂 like, why did your last partner break up with you and can i have their number to verify that answer? tell me in exact detail your religious and political opinions now, cause some of those are def gonna stop this conversation sooner than later. can you explain pascals wager and the no true scotsman fallacies to me? all important things that i DO want to know before pursuing a deep connection with someone but sheeeesh yall act like we cant just have a nice chit chat for the first date instead of a thorough vetting and exam
The thing with catcalling is that it's like being into /any/ degrading terminology-- it's actually fine and normal to enjoy it (nature or nurture irrelevant) but you cannot expect that to make it acceptable as a public practice. Lots of women have cnc (consensual non consent) fantasies but don't tell other women to "loosen up and enjoy it" because they know it's a personal and private preference. It sounds like that commenter has either zero self worth-- or is simply into kink and instead of being an adult and doing any amount of introspection she's projecting. The thing about self love and acceptance is that once you truly find it you genuinely stop caring what anyone else is doing. Comments like that are just a giant red flag that a person is in denial about who they are and it's frankly sad.
Hello, I am a guy. I grew up in a "men can't cry" household, and connections are not easy for me. I will say this is true, my current, longest-lasting friend ship is only a year. I do not feel connected to this person, though I know they rely on me, and they are honestly the only person I plan to stay long-term buddies with.
I was expecting most of these comments/videos from men because of the title, I was not expecting basically all of these posts to be from women…what happened to girls supporting girls?
ive certainly yelled "dammmn girl, you BUILT!" out a window before, and thankfully I've only got positive responses. But I never considered it could be taken as rude 😅 whoops lol
The thing is, as a kid, we see "Not like other girls" as having our own thoughts and feelings. As young girls look at media, they see women being portrayed as fragile and loving pink. Being "not like the other girls" is desirable because they want to be seen as someone with thoughts. And then they grow up and realize that, no, they weren't like other girls. And some girls are okay with that. And others are not and go absolutely insane about it.
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"Women are so dramatic" and then guys will yell at games for incorporating poc plus size women
Yeah, everyone I've ever heard say this has anger issues
They legit got mad at a game for including the MC’s peach fuzz
Or endangering everyones lives on the road during a car rage teetee tantrum over someone not driving EXACTLY how they want them to, at the exact speed they like. Not all men granted, but literally 9 times outta 10 (according to official police stats for convictions for dangerous driving) , its a man driving like a booga.
@@thekameru6058 you should be in the car with my dad when he drives, actually no scratch that that isn't safe
fr a few days ago i saw a dude scream for like 10 minutes about a random 8bit game that had a gay mc 💀
I would go off on someone so quick if they told me I "overreacted" my child birth. My son came out not breathing, I stopped breathing and lost a large amount of blood.. My poor mother was the only one in the room watching this.
To think since your childbirth is easy everyone else's is is so narcissistic
It's almost like humanity is falling in slow motion and everyone's struggling differently
hey you’re amazing and strong for enduring that omg- i hope you and baby are happy and well:)
@@lydiamwa1513 Thank you! My kid is 3 now and we're both doing wonderful :)
I feel the same. For my first birth my baby wasn't breathing for a short amount of time and they imidiatly took it to another room. I was fine besides some tear but mainly panicing about my baby. 30 minutes of waiting felt like forever until they brought him back and he needed to be monitored for his oxygen levels for some days. Things like this arn't easy and we shouldn't scare pregnent women but this isn't always this easy peasy process where everythimg goes as planned.
(My kid is almost 11 years and completly fine now 😊)
I would consider the birth of my son to have been on the easier and less painful side. My gynecologist said it was the most peaceful labor and delivery he's seen. When it was time to push, I was sleeping in between pushes. It was a completely natural delivery, nothing for pain or anything.
All that being said, just because it was easier than the experiences of some others, it wasn't EASY. It was 36 hours from the time my water broke due to contractions until my son was born. I had two second degree tears and I had a hemorrhage that wasn't discoverer until 4 hours after the delivery. I lost more than two liters of blood, fainted on the bathroom floor, then had to be rushed to the operating room (which meant being separated from my baby) and put under general anesthetic so they could manually remove the half liter of blood clots that were stopping my uterus from contracting. It took a month for me to not feel like I was going to faint every time I stood up. It was two weeks before I could carry my son up the stairs to bed.
I think some men forget anger is an emotion, so when they're being unhealthily angry at something they think it's not emotional. every emotion is valid but the way you deal with your emotions is important
Men are definitely “not like the other girls” like can we stop gendering emotions
not saing you're wrong but isn't some caused by parents teaching them that almost every other emotion than anger is weak and therefore shouldn't be expressed?! I sadly know a lot men who where raised that way.
@@CleoStrawberryMoon Im not saying it's wrong for them to have trauma from this, this is a fact a lot of men do this and this is a problem with society who lets this cycle of abuse continue and without education young men and boys on how to deal with their emotions
@@Cinnamonraisin_Bagel you're right. Sorry I didn't write it out but I asumed that being raised that way possibly makes it harder to express other feelings as adults and surely those men need some kind of guidence in learning to exept and show thise as well. I hooe this changes and some day (hopefully in the very near future) everyone is allowed and able to express their feelings in a healthy way ❤
@@CleoStrawberryMoon It's fine, i also agree on this, the treatment of young men ends up affecting a lot of people i definitely think we need to have a change in society where we treat everyone well and teach them about how to express emotions and how it's ok to show emotions outwardly in a healthy way.
I like to think the person who likes baking her husband cookies ONLY bakes cookies. All they eat is cookies. Their furniture is cookie, their house is cookie, their cookie is cookie.
You give a mouse a cookie, they ask for a cookie bed
... that's like the beginning to a fairy tale I would LOVE to read, and it made me laugh so hard.
👀💧
@@naamahdarling that fairy tale has the cookie baker shoved in the oven.
So, the witch from Hansel and Gretel?
Had a guy friend tell me that women are so emotional and defensive because he called a woman a bitch and her best friend who was also a woman and part of the conversation asked him to please not do that. This was an extended rant where he was still so pissed at this woman months, maybe years later, and how it’s not his fault that they couldn’t understand his humor and everyone needed to stop attacking him
The fact he didnt see the irony is very telling...
Legit when I opened up to my godmother about my husband abusing me she said “well maybe if you had a cold beer and hot meal waiting for him each night he would treat you better” like what the fuck. I’m disabled and have chronic pain and she basically said “if you were a better wife he wouldn’t abuse you”. I nearly died in that relationship (I was 84 pounds when I escaped) been divorced over a decade and have a new partner that is good to me.
Did you divorced him or do you me to find and burry him ?
@@dabbacchio9787 we got divorced many years ago and I’m in a good place with a good partner and a child now so I’m good thank you though
@@KittyTheAtheist oh that's nice ❤️ I wish you hapiness
@@dabbacchio9787 tysm!
Also, a cold beer every night I'm like granny are you trying to destroy his liver man the 1950s lol
So many men see no issue with screaming at a football game and breaking stuff if their team loses/wins while also hating on girls who sing and cry at a concert. Like, dude, they're just having fun, and sure you're angry your team lost, but that does not justify having a tantrum and acting like that's acceptable behavior.
Ngl I'm the girl in my dress and heels have a shout at tv during the football (scotland big fitba (football) culture😂) after the game get the music on have a singsong and a dance 😂 I agree I don't get why people go on to fight ir smash stuff up it's a 90 mins where they are paid thousands lol
"women are so dramatic" says man that think washing his face will make it melt like acid
'Women are so dramatic' says man who won't wash his ass because touching a butt is gay
“Women are so dramatic” says the man who becomes physically violent when his favorite football team loses
AMAB Enby here: not only are guys more dramatic/emotional than women with their overblown anger, they have the nerve to turn around and say "I'm not emotional, I'm angry🤬🤬" like...hun...I have some news for you😂😂
Edit: to all the bigots in my replies, really hope your IP is masked ;)
like anger is an emotion why dont they realize that???😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
All I can see is the clown makeup meme with men saying “I’m not emotional, I’m angry”
I love seeing guys say that stuff because it's like ok try having period cramps and having contractions and having a child see how quick those guys go into a complete breakdown. There are literally videos on RUclips of men going through AI period cramps and contractions and they start bawling it's like ok yeah not emotional at all 😆
@@XxLostFinalGirlxX that’s not even emotions, that’s just pain tolerance!
But I do find it deeply amusing, especially when a woman is hooked up to the same simulation and she’s completely fine while he’s curled up in a ball
But on the topic of emotions, don’t quote me on this, but I’m pretty sure I remember hearing that when women are on their periods, the chemical makeup of their brains are more closely aligned to what men experience, meaning that while on their periods, women act the most like men!
You would know that as a man then right
The catcalling! Yes! My dad still seem to struggle to understand the difference between a man giving a genuine compliment or a man catcalling for some reason. He doesn't catcall (thank goodness) but it's still fucking annoying everytime the subject is on the table.
Men don’t gossip? Have they never seen commentary RUclips? 😂💀
fr. i have 2 older brothers, and it’s revealed to me that men are EXTREMELY catty
My male friends be skipping class to gossip with people, pretty much every day 😭
Man gossip. Like A LOT. I work in a Office with many guys and all they do besides the works demands is talk about other people’s lives. Is disgusting most of time
And the podcast men too😂
B-b-b-b-b-but gossip is when it's women and when men do it it's not gossip because gossip is for women and if I acknowledge that women aren't a different and worse species then I'd have to start treating them as my equal >:< (I'm not emotional because anger is for boys and thus not an emotion)
I grew up swimming every moment I could, my hair was always wet. As I got older, I saw why some people didn't like their hair wet. Along with the valid issues for hair dye, people (women especially) spend SO much time and money on treatments, products and styling, of course they don't want to wreck it. In addition to personal style choice, there are protective hairstyles that water decimates. Just leave everyone else alone! They have their reasons, and it's none of your concern.
She has no right to invalidate anyone's experience with childbirth . Love your videos. You are always interesting
Omgggggg women are soooo dramatic for actually ✨dying✨ during labor, like……self absorbed much🙄🙄🥴🥴🤪🤪🤪
I got cut open, sewed and burned back together again, all while basically temporarily paralyzed and having a panic attack. Afterwards I felt like I was on fire and they made me immediately get up and walk to see my baby. 1000000000% worth it, but omg it is the worst pain I’ve ever experienced
nothing more dramatic than football bros when their team loses
Add the recent game when argentina and Colombia and the stadium was so pack some people where left out the next day you saw on the news dudes getting areest for rioting instead of asking for a refund and watch it somewhere
Yeah, there has yet to be a riot post Taylor Swift concert, but when the home team loses the championship...hooooo boy.
When it comes to the men who forget that anger is an emotion, they technically do the same with lust, and will make up the same kinds of excuses for it.
Men will claim that “women are more emotional and irrational” while simultaneously claiming that the reason they assault and hurt women is because they can’t control their *feelings* of lust and anger
I find it such a red flag when a girl starts bragging about not being girly or like other girls, and I'll probably instantly make a mental note that this isn't someone I wanna be friends with.
I remember a girl in a discord server bragging about her hobbies not being "girly" IMMEDIATELY after I said I was interested in customising barbie dolls and it just got my back up. Also, one of her listed non-girly hobbies was video games. It was a server for a popular MMO. With about 50/50 male and female users. Girl, I like video games too! We all do, thats why we're here! You're not special! And look at that, I like allegedly "non-girly" things AND typical "girly" things! It's almost like I'm a full person with many facets!
Yeah it's dumb to brag about it if she brags about things like this that could be why some guys see this type of behavior as a turn off because if she's becoming obsessed with it that's not healthy I don't like video games that much and I don't even like football that much either something is mentally wrong with her if she's copying men.
You can have hobbies but don't highlight these qualities as something that's different or unique about you if I really wanted to I could go get tattoos and have someone braid my hair into dread locks too but I don't like people staring at me so I prefer to blend in. If you don't want men chasing you then don't dress up.
I used to be like this in 3rd-4th grade. Girly has the mentality of a 9 year old.
Most recent statistics actually revealed that more than 50% of gamers are now women. Gamer girls were maybe a little different in the late 90s and early 2000s, but that's no longer the case.
And that's assuming you don't believe the statistics were skewed then by women not admitting to gaming because gaming was targeted at boys and men, and women and girls would've been playing with their brothers/boyfriends/spouses or borrowing their systems to play, plus not admitting to gaming because it was viewed as boyish or childish.
I believe women have always played video games about equally to men, outside of perhaps arcade spaces where some may have felt unsafe or awkward to go due to the heavy male presence. This was certainly true in the 70s and 80s when the hobby first came about, because at that time it was advertised to the whole family. After the video game market crash in the 80s, when the hobby almost died, advertising became more targeted in an effort to save it. It worked, but the effects of marketing toward boys, specifically teen boys, have lingered to this day and have caused certain guys to think the video game space belongs, or at least should belong, only to males, especially to teenage boys. And so, because of this perception, there are still women who think playing games is somehow unique/boyish.
Advertising continues to target men and boys with games. Just look at the RAID: Shadow Legends ads, and the disinclination of most game developers to include women protagonists in games with set protagonists. There are a few, but far fewer than for male characters. Ads usually star the male character when there is an option to choose. And when there is a set female protagonist, she's most often cisgendered and lesbian, or does not have any romantic involvement with anyone at all. I'm all for wider representation, but the reason that we don't see big-name developers put out video games with straight women as the set protagonist is because they don't want to make the male audience uncomfortable by having a woman be interested in men. The good thing that's come of this is that some of the lesbian characters are actually being represented better, like Aloy (who's an awesome character in general), rather than solely as scantily-clad objects of male prurient interest as they used to be. But straight women should also be protagonists sometimes, and they shouldn't be denied romantic interests just because it might give men strange pantsfeels or make them jealous (especially since over 50% of gamers are women!). And asexuals can certainly also do with more representation in general!
A few years ago a young woman I used to be friends with invited me to play D&D with her and her boyfriend's group because I had always wanted to play a pen and paper game and she didn't want to be the only girl in the group. But over time I started to feel like she kind of resented my more stereotypically female characters. As in: they cared about their family members, appearance, could be shy/insecure and also I almost always ended up being the party healer because nobody else would do it. While her characters were usually not typically attractive, independent, warrior ladies...at least on the surface because in practice her characters somehow always ended up playing henchmen/bodyguard of her boyfriend's character. Which I could have forgiven if her boyfriend hadn't been an annoying prick who always needed to be the strongest and smartest while also being extremely selfish and uncaring.
"I'm not like other girls."......have you met every other girl on the planet?
“I’m not like other girls”
Yeah because most girls dont put other girls down for male validation
Birth and medical trauma really isn't discussed enough.
"men do not gossip" LMAO my classmates were all men and I can tell you they were even worse than me who love to gossip.
They were having assembly to discuss about who was gay and who was straight according to them.
What they liked the most was to create drama and to talk behing peoples back espacially mine while acting all friendly in front of me.
So you can NOT tell me that men do not gossip
Hope everyone is doing okay/genuine
I hope you're also doing okay
Yes everyone reading this please drink some water and if you have to remember to take your pills and just generally take care of their minds and bodies
I dont👿
I think 1/10 peopel read out on this channel are genuine and the rest are ragebait straw people. My partner and I like to try and guess if any are real.
@@Cinnamonraisin_Bageljfc i'm walking ard w my meds in my pocket, i totally forgot ty
My brain broke for a second when I didn’t hear the end screen song with the dog
WHERE THE DOG
ME SAME!!!!!
Honestly, who says "women are dramatic" never saw a guy losing in a video game (I'm a guy) 😒😅.
My dad and uncle, both around late 50s-60s, are pretty misogynistic though they know not to say anything near me now. One thing they love to point out is that women are over emotional. Which is ironic because they have anger issues. Especially my uncle. Dad is more road rage, but my uncle is the type to get physically violent. And when they're drunk it's even worse. They get so mad when I point this out to them, I even have a few videos of them raging lol. They also like to use the excuse of alcohol, but literally none of the family act like they do when drunk. They're insane honestly
@@bearcat999 The fact that you have to have proof of their raging acts 😐...
Be careful, ok? They sound really dangerous.
My pain while in labor and giving birth was a 15/10 on the mf pain scale. And I tore a few times and was sore for a long time after. That woman who had no pain must have a fucking issue with her pain receptors or something cause I now have beef with this lady that thinks that experience wasn't horrific and very very veryyy painful. Also I had to push for 2 hours
Also humans are literally not built for birth lol. You gotta be insane not to feel a bit of pain
It's the same kind of women who do not have period pain so according to them nobody is suffuring 🙃
@@dabbacchio9787 “I know you broke your leg… but my leg feels fine so why are you upset??”
@@NearsightedNarhwal what do you mean you have a cancer, I never had one i'm not sure it's real
@@dabbacchio9787 The fact that I know people exactly like this makes me even more disappointed in humanity-
i think a lot of the whole "not like other girls" thing would be resolved if people understood that feminism is about everyone having the right to do what they want and not be restricted by law or society, not just women being able to be entrepreneurs...
LET ME BE DRAMATIC!!!!! 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 I AM ALLOWED EMOTIONS 🔥🔥🔥🔥
I don't have an eating disorder... but I do have to watch what i eat. I'm diabetic. I WISH I could eat whatever I want.
I have an eating disorder AND I'm diabetic. I wouldn't wish this on my worst enemy.
@@anyjenyou’re truly the god warrior
my fucked up fast metabolism + chronic indigestion issues + extremely narrow palate due to autism i am in food hell 🙃
i left a comment about this on another of savannah's videos - she said something like "just eat the bread, i promise your life will be better"
like oh okay my dad who gets migraines from bread would disagree
i HAVE to watch what i eat because i have no concept of it and i'll eat 5,000 calories or more a day not even realizing (plus diabetic)
i have a wide assortment of food allergies too
@@mellow_mallow Same except switch fast metabolism with slow metabolism and autism with ADHD (with sensory issues all the same).
in ireland leggings are definitely still in fashion, everyone wears them, they're super popular. the styles may change but it's leggings for everyone here.
love your pfp
@@medea__witchhh thanks :3
One thing ive noticed from seeing people online, is that Ireland are about 5-10 years behind in most trends 😂
@@CanadaxIreland true
In the US at least where i live leggings are popular among highschoolers
I have spent most of this video admiring the crocheted top you're wearing.
It’s super pretty
I know! It's so cute!
Me an autistic asexual agender person.
Never really feeling like the “other girls” 😂
real
Triple A batteries
Rad!
@@NearsightedNarhwal just recently found out lmao
Truth. I understood at a young age that I wasn't going to be successful at "girl" things, but that's more a failing of society's limited understanding of what a girl can be than a failing of me to be a girl.
Um, 4:00 min in, oh hell no. A pick me does NOT get to tell other women to supress their instincts and natural that help keep them safe in the face of men being hecking creepy *and* be taken seriously.
Also, on the topic of gossiping, and this quote came directly from a man, specifically Craig Joseph Charles 'If men didnt gossip, how would they keep a track of whos easy?'
Isn't that the n-word trad-wife girl??
"Women are so dramatic", but it was mostly men who sent Laura Bailey's toddler death threats
LAURA BAILEY HAS A KID??
@@HyLo-rule yeah, she had her son Ronin while filming for the last of us part 2
wait what 😳
@@coolchameleon21 Laura Bailey played a character that got a lot of hate in the last of us part 2, and a lot of cast and crew members got death threats. But also her son got his life threatened
@@SpleenMuncher71 that’s disgusting
"Cold plunging in the ocean"
Stop being pretentious and just say you like swimming at the beach already.
why can't I find a nice nlog who likes to cold plunge in the ocean?
Oh right its cus I live in the desert. only nlogs can live at the coast.
Always nice to see a new video, I'll come back when I have something to say
Edit: The amount of people I've heard say that "women are dramatic" is astounding and every one of them has anger issues, at least the ones I knew
having curly, easily frizzed hair means my hair care routine will take my shower/getting ready process from ~30 minutes to upwards of 2 hours 😭 like i don’t avoid getting my hair wet bc i need to be sooooo ✨cute✨at all times, i just do not have the energy to be putting myself through all that unnecessarily
Trans man here. I honestly miss feminine friendships so much. In transitioning I feel more connected to myself, but the more masculine I look the less connected I am to the people around me
edit: I 100% had a “I’m not like the other girls” phase in middle/high school. Turns out I really wasn’t like the other girls cuz I was a boy
@Femtoisbackandbetter
He actually is unlike yourself.
Why are you so insecure and lonely?
Log off and seek help, and then come back here.
No wonder you don't have any friends because of your behaviour and personality (or lack thereof from you).
You're embarrassing yourself while lowering the humanity in the comments section, so learn to do yourself a favour by using your brain.
As a trans guy, I may end up missing female friendships as well, but to be honest, I'll still have friendships with people who understand me and actually like being around me as a person. I'm a guy that doesn't have much female friends in real life, except for one who's like a sister to me... But I've some female friends online (my chosen trans sister included).
I'm still transitioning and I do remember having thoughts in elementary to middle school that were "not like other girls", but with me being Autistic.
@Femtoisbackandbetter
Dude, get a life
Always been a legging wearer I was born in 2000 I wear them cause they are comfortable & I love them etc-also not for anyone else but myself so I don’t care if others wear them or not but no clothing should be made fun of
Leggings are pants made easy! ❤ Said by someone who thought they would never wear leggings.
2:19 I’m sorry I’m dying at the way u said Achilles😭😭
I'm glad I'm not the only one who caught that! I have never heard that pronunciation before 😂
The person complaining about women gossiping is soo ironic. Because aren’t you doing exactly that right now? You are talking about other people right now and not commented the beginning of a "deep" conversation😅
PuppyM looks so cute in the rainbow sweater. 😊 Personally, my own "not like other girls" syndrome came from never being accepted by the other girls anyways, so I embraced my weirdness and differences. It did morph into internalized misogyny as I got older because I then assumed ALL girls/women that were a certain way would bully me (because they had so far). None of us benefit from the patriarchy and I wish I had been able to have stronger relationships with other girls earlier in my life. I'm trying embrace my girly side now, though, in my mid-thirties. 💖 It's healing!
I just wish we could bring back swimming caps as a fashion item. Don't wanna get your hair wet? Wear a swimming cap! Get a cute one to match your swimsuit!
I'm a house husband and I used to be a druggie and even when I was going to multiple dayl long raves and sleeping in sofas I used to cook, clean and make cups of tea for my mates so you can do both.
I had a very easy and pretty painless birth, but I would never ever call anyone who didn’t “extra” or “dramatic” I was LUCKY and an exception!
The way I giggled when I saw the thumbnail because let me tell you about my research findings that I’ve compiled while being in a boys school. There’s a reason our drama team was excellent lol Jk
I'm not like the other girls I'm significantly colder and I wear leggings AND a skirt.
Since when is owning your own restaurant unambitious just because it's "small"? That character and/or author has no idea how much work it is to own a restaurant.
“women are so dramatic” domestic abuse cases spike during football season
i used to be like this in elementary, only really wanting to hang out with boys and thinking i don't fit in with any of the girls. then i realized i was transmasc lmao and i hang out with people of all genders. rarely cis people tho (mostly because every person i come in contact to comes out as trans or non-binary later)
Same, turns out I was just trans masc
The only acceptable form of cat-calling is "pspsps" (works even better if you're holding a sardine in your hand in an offering gesture).
I don't see how people are so comfortable with men or just anyone in general objectifying other people because I (cis woman) get scared to just say I like someones jacket because I don't want to make them uncomfortable and make the interaction more awkward than intended because yeah I'm just complimenting someones shirt or jacket but I also kinda panic inside because I don't want the person to feel uncomfortable but I can also understand if they feel uncomfortable. It's sad that objectifying people and s3xualizing people in public has been so common and normalized that even if you have positive intentions when it comes to complimenting people it can be so awkward because it's hard to tell if there are positive intentions to compliments or if there's something else going on because of people who just s3xualize people as if it's just a normal interaction it's ridiculous..
Big same, i almost never complement other men or women cus i dont want to make em feel icky
Same. I like complimenting people, but I'm always so nervous about being invasive, bothering them, making them uncomfortable, etc.
The idea of objectifying, scaring, or disturbing someone... I don't ever want to do that. I don't understand how people can.
@@RexytheRexy right? Like it's weird how people like us get nervous about complimenting people because we don't want them to be uncomfortable yet there are people who are so comfortable with saying very inappropriate things to others. Maybe it's because we don't want to make people uncomfortable meanwhile the people comfortable with saying inappropriate things don't care if they make others uncomfortable.
As someone who's afab (transmasc) I could never imagine wanting to make someone uncomfortable. My older brother and cousin often made compliments to purposefully make me uncomfortable, so it's hard for me to even gain the confidence to compliment someone incase it makes that person uncomfortable.
Same I WANT to compliment other people but I get so nervous that it'll be weird or something.
Completely off topic here but Sav--I want you to know I was crying at school yesterday because I have anxiety but then I listened to That's When I Knew for a full hour straight and I felt so much better🥲 No joke I had it on the whole day and today too, I love your music so much❤
"You aren't better than me, you just have different priorities." Is SUCH a great quote!
How about this... you go out to the clubs with friends, your bf, or husband... and you don't drink or do drugs! That's how my husband and I used to do it... It can be done.
My husband has gotten really good and cooking steak I’m pretty sure if I tried to make him one he would cry because I can not cook meat to save my life 😅
Honestly, i diden't cared about cat calling intil i got SA-ed, its not fun
Yeah I think that is the case for a lot of women*. Before sth like that happens you can """take it as a compliment"""" and after you just see the threat of more violence.
My favorite part of Kiwi videos are watching her put the plushies back after they fall off
The other night I was walking my dog and trying to avoid a group of 5 drunk men stumbling my way. I went down a side street and one called out "Excuse me love, my friend was wondering if you knew the way to the nearest brothel!" According to the second girl, I shouldn't have kept my head down, kept walking and pretended I didn't hear him, I should have, what, pulled up Google maps? Blushed because he called me love?
Also, when I was 15 a grown man in a car with his friends leaned out the window and shouted "10/10", I was standing in my own front yard 😐 clearly he was just trying to be nice.
When I think back on when I was younger, a lot of the "respect" men would show me was just them wanting to get laid, something that would come up later in the friendship.
I really like your point about gossiping rather than deep conversations only happening with people you aren’t close to. It’s similar to how I feel about the “I hate small talk” people. Like I obviously get the distaste for superficial/general/maybe meaningless conversations but if I am not close with someone, small talk establishes a baseline and creates a path that leads to deeper conversations. Most people don’t like to parachute straight into a deep discussion of philosophical beliefs and niche interests without context from the other person.
I had someone tell me if getting kicked in the balls lasted as long as my labor it would be more painful than childbirth. I have to get 3 pints of blood and plasma. I looked and my husband and mom’s face. They were white, I didn’t understand how bad it was and I passed out before the blood got to me. My son was rushed out to save his life as well. The last thing I remember is the doctor yelling where’s the blood. The trauma I experienced was horrible and that man hasn’t been through anything like that.
You sounded SO American when you said "want a cookie?!" Lmao
Another thing that sucks about getting your hair wet in the ocean is having curly hair. I have curly hair, and whenever I get out of the water while having my hair down, it's basically just one big tangle 😭😭 it's so much easier to just not get it wet or to at least put it in a braid or something, otherwise I'll be brushing it out for HOURS
Not only have I been cat-called, I’ve been barked at AT WORK in which the boys who did it were banned(within 3 months of us opening)
“Birth isn’t that bad” My aunts heart stopped in labor, and they were lucky to revive her. Gosh her heart shouldn’t have been so dramatic.
My OBGYN rotation and the first time I ever watched a labor/birth is an experience I will never forget. It was traumatizing, shocking, scary as fuck and I wasn't even the one getting split into two.
20:19 so much this! one of my best friends for over a decade now is someone I met randomly on kpop tumblr in like 2013 lmao we've never met in person but I talk to her literally every day
I rock some flared leggings everyday at work but I think that’s different lol
28:20 honestly, these type of folks (and i say this as i was one for a bit during my ED journey) are likely very much struggling with ED, or getting there. Putting down those that restrict food to feel better abount binging, even if at other times they themselves restrict. Not saying "this person has an ED, 100%" but EDs are competitive disorders (as im certain you already know) and situations like this allow folks to seek positive attention with "look im eating so much and im so thin!!"
I always feel so weird and icky when I’m catcalled. Like on the one hand my brain is glad that I’ve been catcalled at least once bc before it happened the first time I’m like if this is such a universal experience then why not me? But on the other hand my body HATES it. Like my heart races and I look over my shoulder and I get scared but yet society has warped my perception of it to somehow be grateful?! It’s gross and makes me feel even worse the more I think about it when the cat-callers should be the ones ashamed
I can't imagine looking at my friend, who was put on bed rest for both of her successful pregnancies (there were several unsuccessful one😢), and saying her experience couldn't have been that bad because my experience let me keep working till two weeks after my due date. Nor can I imagine her telling me that my L&D couldn't have been that bad because both her deliveries were less than 3 hours start to finish, while mine was 24 hours ending in an emergency C-section, no memory of the four hours after, and permanent (though in no way debilitating) nerve damage.
It is like each person has a different experience.
“If you want me to come to your party I need you to…”
“Ok goodbye, have a good life.” *Blocks number*
babe, wake up, new queerkiwi vid just dropped
I'M AWAKE🎀
“The only people wearing leggings are millennials” feel called out ngl lolol and I’m a young Millennial.
I’m a “geriatric Millennial” and don’t feel called out because I’m unapologetic about my leggings.
I’m younger than Kiwi but I wear leggins a lot… welp😃
Millennial here. Leggings are in my DNA. Zero shame.
my nana was one of those "women giving birth are so dramatic" types after my mom went through 36 hours of labor. Plot twist in that, both my mom and my uncle were adopted so she had literally no reference point to make that judgement from.
I had my not like other Girls phase. Turns out I *actually* wasn't like the other Girls. I was the only Autistic Girl in class. Then I figured out I was actually Agender so, that's another reason why
I just want to thank you for introducing me to SKZ a couple years ago
I heard their music before on TikTok but didn’t realize it was them until I actually started listening to their music
I’m so not like the other girls I’m not even a girl anymore
Check and mate
I-damn. Just the title....oh god.
Fun fact related to spam calls: my area code is New Mexico for some reason(never been) and most of the spam calls are easy to block because of that. The only ones I don’t block however are Roswell so I can answer and say “I don’t know anything about the aliens” and hang up 😁
20:23 as someone who grew up in a small(ish) town, often it can feel like most of your peers are partying and doing drugs because there’s literally nothing to do, especially as a teenager. I didn’t have a single friend that didn’t smoke weed or drink, and as someone with trauma related to those substances it made me feel really uncomfortable and isolated. When people say “everyone is doing drugs and getting drunk” they don’t mean it literally. They mean that to them it feels like everyone because it might be everyone they know
With the first story, I first thought "Well they are 12 and 14 they don't need to spend that much time with him" and then I realised that it's just my dad who dind't spend enough time with me T-T I think a big problem with education is taht people refer to their childhood as the norm, without questioning it. They don't realise that some things were harmful to them and are aloso harmful to their kids. I sincerely hope I will never telle my kids "well my parents did that and I'm fine" because I was and I am not fine and I wish my future kids to have a better childhood that I had
Shocker: everyone's bodies are different!!! Just because your baby slid out doesn't mean it's not TRAUMATIC for most people. LOL!
For the book. I can see it being a way to show the characters personalities and hopefully the goal is to have this be in the beginning and she grows throughout the book and realizes why she can be a feminist and also just want a small restaurant
Queer kiwi videi dropped on my birthday lets goooo
Happy Birthday! 🎂 (●＾o＾●)
i'm sorry, but who the hell is jealous of people who get high and drunk?
I'm a long-term recovering addict, and a part of me I really don't like sometimes envies people who get high.
Pure, unfiltered reality can be rough, y'know?
@@RexytheRexy i can understand that, but this comes from my personal perspective of me just not seeing the appeal and finding this stuff gross. Sorry if i hurt any feelings, that was nit my intention
@@laquedibuja2003 oh, not at all. I was doing my obtuse neurodivergent person thing, absolutely no feelings hurt here.
@@RexytheRexy funnily enough, me too XD
@@laquedibuja2003 :D
Honestly, I was always the same way. Never understood the appeal of drugs and alcohol.
Then, I got my ass handed to me by chronic illness and an undiagnosed spine defect and the sensory overstimulation of the world went through the roof. I just wanted things to be quiet, and eventually I couldn't even sleep.
This is why I don't understand cocaine.
People want to feel like that? 😂
Giving birth and carrying a child is fucking crazy. As a man, it baffles me how women just do that all casual like.
23:56 leggings are my laundry day outfits 😭
I in contrast live in ridiculously comfortable & colourful leggings. Saying that my favourite leggings have started turning up in op shops.
I also mum full time so comfort is my goal. And a contributing reason I stopped wearing skirts is my toddler hides in them. 😂
I would absolutely jump in the ocean every single day, no matter the temp... except every beach in driving distance has unsafe levels of E. Coli. If i lived on the East or West Coast instead of the Gulf Coast, you'd never get me out of that water. But having your entire digestive system purge every time you take a dip is not cool. That's not even taking into account the alligators...
My brain almost completely blocked out the birth of my first child because my epidural didn’t work and I was in so much pain. The only part my brain didn’t block out was the nurses telling me that if she didnt come out I would need an emergency c-section bc she was in severe distress. But sure, childbirth isn’t that bad 🙄
i had my Daughter in 22 minutes, & even i wouldn't say that.. (being told that they wanted to use the cervadil on me, for a 4th time was bad enough) .. enducing labor with cervadil is a painful process..
the girl's comment on tik tok about gossiping made me think of the million dating profiles ive seen that "hate small talk" or say "lets skip the small talk." like. how do you envision that going? forget talking about our hobbies, interests, favorite media, family and friends, etc. thats all small talk. i want you to tell me about the deep stuff. it basically becomes a litmus test for whether i want to even entertain a conversation with you 😂 like, why did your last partner break up with you and can i have their number to verify that answer? tell me in exact detail your religious and political opinions now, cause some of those are def gonna stop this conversation sooner than later. can you explain pascals wager and the no true scotsman fallacies to me? all important things that i DO want to know before pursuing a deep connection with someone but sheeeesh yall act like we cant just have a nice chit chat for the first date instead of a thorough vetting and exam
The thing with catcalling is that it's like being into /any/ degrading terminology-- it's actually fine and normal to enjoy it (nature or nurture irrelevant) but you cannot expect that to make it acceptable as a public practice. Lots of women have cnc (consensual non consent) fantasies but don't tell other women to "loosen up and enjoy it" because they know it's a personal and private preference. It sounds like that commenter has either zero self worth-- or is simply into kink and instead of being an adult and doing any amount of introspection she's projecting. The thing about self love and acceptance is that once you truly find it you genuinely stop caring what anyone else is doing. Comments like that are just a giant red flag that a person is in denial about who they are and it's frankly sad.
So tired of people being like "who's going to match my freak?" and their freak is having an email account
Thank you for talking about the difference between compliments and their intentions- you made it make so much sense!
Hello, I am a guy. I grew up in a "men can't cry" household, and connections are not easy for me. I will say this is true, my current, longest-lasting friend ship is only a year. I do not feel connected to this person, though I know they rely on me, and they are honestly the only person I plan to stay long-term buddies with.
I was expecting most of these comments/videos from men because of the title, I was not expecting basically all of these posts to be from women…what happened to girls supporting girls?
Were these people all mean girls in school?
✨Internalized misogyny✨
ive certainly yelled "dammmn girl, you BUILT!" out a window before, and thankfully I've only got positive responses. But I never considered it could be taken as rude 😅 whoops lol
In every video that you do wearing this sweater I get so distracted on it being so cute. Do you have the pattern for it?
The thing is, as a kid, we see "Not like other girls" as having our own thoughts and feelings. As young girls look at media, they see women being portrayed as fragile and loving pink. Being "not like the other girls" is desirable because they want to be seen as someone with thoughts.
And then they grow up and realize that, no, they weren't like other girls. And some girls are okay with that. And others are not and go absolutely insane about it.