Mom Loses Daughter to Domestic Violence: ‘It Broke Me’
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- Опубликовано: 3 май 2024
- Heidi Sallee from Lewiston, Maine, is living through the unimaginable: the death of her teen daughter, Emali Renee Sallee. Emali began dating a boy three years ago and got pregnant. Heidi instantly knew something was off. She says Emali battled domestic abuse. On the day Emali got strength to leave her boyfriend, he killed her and then himself. Now Heidi is advocating for her daughter and domestic abuse awareness. “People have to hear her story,” she tells Inside Edition Digital’s Andrea Swindall.
Why is his face blurred? He doesn't deserve any kind of protection.
Because media and Police and Gov protects criminals
@@illi3s4dits he’s not a minor though
@@illi3s4ditshis name is Tyson Peters and he was 20 years old, not a minor.
@@elfia6272 oh I’dk then maybe because he died too so they don’t have permission
Facts!
Why is the murderers face blurred. He lost his right for privacy when he stole her right to live.
Amen 🙏
Absolutely.
Yeah I don’t get it
Criminal protection 😮💨
Probably because it was a murder/su*cide. And his family may not have allowed it.
When she called her mom to pick up the baby, she knew it was gonna be her last. That was the last best thing she could have done for her baby.
Yes 😢
Peter was a very seriously mentally ill man who was not able to love ❤️🩹 and yes, an abuser only gets worse over time 😢 terribly tragic.
@@sweetesthawaiianprincess8086No, he was just evil. Stop trying to make him sound like a victim.
@@MJ-gm7km Honestly, she should have run when she found out his name was Tyson lmao
@@MJ-gm7km how is that making him sound like a victim. It’s clear he’s not able to love and clearly mentally ill enough to also kill himself. That’s doesn’t mean he’s not psycho
The most dangerous time in an abusive relationship is when the abused tries to leave the abuser.
Absolutely agree with you. In my opinion this is exactly what happened to Mica Miller, Suzanne Morphew and Anna Knezevich Henao to name a few most recent cases. May this young beautiful mother rest in eternal peace.
No kidding.
Most dangerous time is not having a Father to step in and check the bf for abusing his daughter 😮
So sad this reminds me of the Gabby Perito story 😥😥😥😥😥🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Petito
literally disgusted that his identity is protected in this video.
If it's that important to you I'm sure you could find his identity. I'm not sure why they hide his identity but I'm assuming it's so people don't find and harass his family who has nothing to do with it
America protects criminals better than it's citizens
Because he wasn’t convicted in court I bet . Red tape of our giant government
@@jarrodwilliams8033his name was provided, so you don’t need to see his face if you intend to harass his family. I just looked him up, saw his face and I didn’t think to harass his family. 🤷🏻♀️
@@MiniChickpea ok good for you , I was just giving a reason why they might have blurred his picture in the video .
The most dangerous time for a female in a abuse relationship ,is when she is trying to end it.
Quit making up statistics. People also say the first 24 hours.
Others say first 72 hours
@@franklinburk3314 In a missing person's case... this isn't about that
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@@tamarafranco384 she was missing b/c her momma could not reach her at first.
@@4dyamondx745 I feel like that doesn't count as a missing case, by that point we know both of them were probably already dead which is why she couldn't reach her, and they were on their property/house, not somewhere else where they couldn't find her.
Never go alone to get your belongings, never.
I know cases where who ever went along was killed also!
never go back for your belongings . if it is really important get police escort.
I absolutely agree
And never tell them you're leaving, get the police to accompany you, don't give any new contact details to the abuser...never be in the abusers company ever again on your own.
He was in my house hiding. I went to my own house with my Dad waited outside and called police. They showed up and took him to jail. That was 10 yrs ago. Haven't seen him since.
When an abuser loses control that is the most dangerous time.
Yup they don't want you but they don't want anyone else to have you either
And yet the mom treated it like any other day. Instead of requesting a police escort for her daughter. Or even insisting that her daughter bring a male friend. Or at least stay on the phone with her the whole time...
@@asun41966it is okay tho
Food for thought: never let a domestic abuse victim go alone to get her personal belongings. *was more talking in general and wasn’t commenting specifically on this case.
So true
Ever!😢
Mom will have to live with that decision 😢
10000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000%
But if the Mom didn't know the truth and only knew her daughter was leaving while she watched her granddaughter, she only had her feelings to go by. Not everyone is familiar with the hidden ways of abusers.
how tf can police do a wellness check and then just leave the first time when the victim didnt even make contact at all
Police don't do a whole lot of anything especially about DV
Exactly, they should look into that!!! So sad and pathetic!
It’s not the police responsibility! Damn y’all want to defund the police and mind there business and also want them to be parents
Welcome to New England cops 🙄🤠
@@javiruiz8365literally was their responsibility. They were probably already both dead though anyways.
It’s not about her “not saying anything”- it’s about men being possessive controlling and murderous when their egos aren’t fed. It’s about that monster and what he did.
personally I think it's about complex trauma and fear of abandonment and not having control in childhood and being subjected to violence, and that is what causes narcissism. and that being triggered. but from her pov she should have seen the red flags and left her things and just run. things you can replace. a life you can not.
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Yeah who tf can predict being murderer by your lover/parent of your child. Nobody.
@@Katherine_xs Some people can, especially if there're signs already, that's why they get the hell out of the relationships as quickly and safely as possible. He did not just murder her all of sudden, he already showed that he's a bad person multiple times
Oh get out of here. The red flags were obvious and she chose to stay with him
As a woman, never allow a man to control you and don’t be afraid to break away. And parents PLEASE teach your daughters to see the warning signs. There is evil in this world, we can’t stop it, but we can stop it from happening to us and we need to protect ourselves.
Really, we can TRY to stop it from happening, but sometimes we can not, BUT these stories really can HELP bring awareness. STOP jumping in bed with people so quickly, she got pregnant only after they hooked up a few times and THEN they started dating after she found out she was pregnant, women have a right to say NO!
Yea it’s easier said than done ma’am. As a women , and a survivor of domestic violence . You don’t understand until you’re going through it
So true! I never thought in a million years I could be in that kind of relationship …… and then I was… It took 5 1/2 years to finally break free
Unless you’ve been a victim of DV you have absolutely no idea what a woman feels emotionally, mentally and psychologically as she’s going through it. Trust me. It took me 5 years to end it. And when you’re young it’s hard.
@JDfaith2024 Yeah, her response was really annoying to read. I may not be a woman, but I have been in an abusive relationship before, and I know just how hard it is to leave a relationship like that. He isolated me from my family and friends, he made me dependent on him. I couldn't talk to anyone about what was happening, and when I tried to leave and break things off with him he'd get aggressive or threaten to kill himself or me. This all happened during quarantine, too, so I couldn't go anywhere and was stuck with him 24/7. Thankfully I was able to get away from him, but it was not easy. I can tell she has never had to deal with domestic violence because people who have never had a partner try to kill you tend to have the most to say.
He didn’t love her, otherwise he wouldn’t kill his mother to his child and leave the child without a mom.
Agreed
She was his possession. He wanted to control her. All that , If I cant have you, no one else can. 😞😞
EXACTLY IT'S ABOUT CONTROL !@@butterfliesarefreetofly6964
He didn’t love the baby girl either or he wouldn’t have left her parentless 😡
@@ROBINstrawBERRYwineI know ! That’s the most hurtful… ❤
So why is his face blurred? The face of a killer should always be revealed. I survived a 20 yr abusive marriage. It’s been 4 years since I was able to get out. The mind control he had over me still lingered for about another year afterwards, but now I understand that I am more.. more than what he said I was.. Domestic Violence also doesn’t always consist of battering; the mind play and controlling of someone is often times worse than most physical confrontations. I am so sorry this precious girl was lost and that the baby and mom have been left behind with just memories. Prayers for all her family and friends.
Also, I finished the video and if they passed away, they will not show the face because some of the family members have not been notified. So they don’t harshly get notified by the news. Even though he is a killer
I am just so very proud and happy for you that you got away.
I understand when you say that the killer doesn’t deserve his face blurred I I think that the mother wanted his face blurred because I would have probably taken the attention off her daughter because the killer gets too much attention because of all the anger so that is my reasoning why the killer face was blocked off.
Meant to say it
@@FelidaeMumofClowderofFelidaehis family doesn’t deserve that dignity . If they werent notified yet its a personal problem
This mom sounds like such a good mom. she dealt with the horrible situation the best she could, without yelling or forcing anything. i’ll be praying for her to be ok
But she's prob regretting that she didn't just force her daughter to dump him. At least she would be alive
It hasn’t even been a month… I couldn’t hold it together as well as this mom did in this video .
Sometimes strict parenting is beneficial.
@@erinaa9486 She couldn't have done that. If she had pushed too hard, she could have lost her daughter altogether. When your child is doing something that you disagree with, you have to tread carefully or they will distance themselves from you.
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I was in a abusive relationship for 7 years I suffer with _seizures now_ and my brain is still swollen it's hard to get a job
:( I’m so sorry. You’re so strong and worth so much
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You're not alone
I’m sorry ❤
I’m so sorry to hear that I’ve never thought about the physical repercussions of abusive relationships.
Like obviously bruising. But you just don’t realize it goes far beyond that.
That is classic narcissistic behavior
Yep!
Mom’s not much better. There’s not a tear in her eye at all during this interview but she fake cries for sympathy for herself. She seems to be trying to use her own daughter’s death for attention for herself.
@@brian5oThe mom’s definitely getting attention but for her daughter to warn other survivors of what happened.
@@brian5oyou’re weird af
From the mom. You can't force people to like you and hang out with you.
So he gets his face blurred but she gets publicised for the world to see
It’s because his family doesn’t want to be questions by the authorities and it would be shamed of
Duh this makes news! You think people actually care
It's out of respect for the perpetrator.
It's another way to shame the victim and prove that women mean nothing in the US. Hell, we couldn't even have a checking account until 1974, so why would we be considered an equal to an abusive man.
Riiiight??
She looked just like her mother. She was so beautiful.
Ehhhh
@@saveamerica2896was
@saveamerica2896 was this comment really necessary?
@@bryn1063 no
@@bryn1063 she shouldn't have stayed
I’m a survivor of 5 years domestic violence marriage. When it’s time to go….LEAVE Everything!!!!! Go with the clothes on your back. Clothes can be replaced. You and your babies not. I’m so sorry this happened 😢
Got out of an abusive marriage 26 years ago with only 3 days worth of clothes and have not looked back.
If possible try to get copies of your and your children's important documents before you leave.
I packed everything when he was gone before I left because I knew I would not be able to go back afterwards!!
@@tammyc259 Amen 🙏 so proud of you.
@@Yukinoodles Amen 🙏 so glad you made it out.
Theres zero reason to blur his face if he is also dead? What a world. Protect the killer and exploit the victims. Sheesh. Way to go inside edition smh
We can take solace in the fact that the child wasn't in the house at the time
the child was at daycare. Why didn't day care alert someone when they didn't come pick up the child?
@@sharondalynnewton7562The grandma came and picked her up. The daughter asked her to.
@@roach1395 It makes you wonder if the woman knew that she wasn't going to make it out alive and was trying to protect her daughter
Solace? The child is gonna grow up without a mother, because their father offed her.
@@sharondalynnewton7562 Why is it so hard to hear what her momma said, she said she asked her to pick the baby up b/c she had to get her personal belonging from the home they shared, so the daycare would not have a reason to alert anyone, the momma should have once she did not hear from her daughter
That's a huge red flag! A guy or girl who doesn't want to be around your family or friends and especially if they actively try getting you away from them
I would not be surprised if his family made sure to have him blurred.
His family doesn't have that right. The police likely made the decision out of respect for his family, which clearly had nothing to do with the situation. If he were alive he would definitely be identified, but he's dead. Nothing can come of sharing his identity at this point beyond harassment of an innocent family. You people need to use your brains.
A mother's nightmare. You can't always protect your children. Very sad outcome for this family
Awesome Mom. ❤🙏
@@sawittwo
No, she's NOT
Yes but she got a tattoo so that makes it ok. What is wrong with these people. Tattoos used to mean something and only certain groups had them , now you have all these casuals getting these tacky scrawls to remember their dead family members or children who maybe would not be dead if you were a better role model for them in the first place.
@@jenniferyule8786Wow judgmental much, maybe step down from your high horse and have some compassion. God forbid this happens to anyone close to you or your children because that would be a horrible way to be humbled.
@@jenniferyule8786 Tacky?? It's in memory of HER daughter!! Your comment is heartless and tacky.
I'll never understand the "if I can't have you no one can" rage that results in murder, infuriating and incredibly sad for the victims and their families
Yeah I heard that line multiple times. Just to make sure no one have her.
It's about control. The abuser doesn't want to lose power over the mate.
Like someone else said, it's all about control. Abusers want absolute control over you and will go to great lengths to achieve it. Their need for control stems from a desire to exert power and dominance over you. Controlling their victims gives them a sense of superiority. I was in an abusive relationship, he isolated me from my friends and family, so I had no one to support me. He wouldn't let me work, or drive, or hang out with anyone, he would regularly go through my phone to make sure I wasn't reaching out to anyone. If I tried to leave he'd get aggressive and threaten to kill me and himself in a murder-suicide. I was dependent on him financially and emotionally. He held all the control in the relationship and I couldn't go anywhere or talk to anyone. This also happened during quarantine so I was trapped with him 24/7.
Usually selfishness ngl I see it but ik what’s right from wrong 😂
This!
The fact that she refused a restraining order against him is very disturbing. I feel sorry for her mother for losing her daughter to this sicko creep like this.
So many women need to hear and understand the dangers of staying in a bad relationship. Leave and be strong, do not go back and forth with the abuser.
He took the coward way out,am so sorry this happen to your daughter,you have my deepest sympathy.🙏🏼
that man was ugly inside and out. im sorry for the loss of your daughter.
@@saveamerica2896 okay troll 🥱
@@saveamerica2896you need help.
@@saveamerica2896💀
@@saveamerica2896you're not funny
No words 💔 😢
Lesson #1 = Leave all your stuff behind. Just leave with what you can carry. You can always ger more stuff.
At 19 I wasn’t allowed to move out with my bf. My parents were NOT having it because I was still a teenager. As a teenager I hated it but when I hear stories like this and my friends horror stories I understand why. My friend told me the best thing I had was my parents being in everything I did until I was out of my teens cause I was stubborn and wanted to do things my way. Looking back now I understand they were just protecting me
Mom that was the first red flag , him not wanting to know the mother of some one he supposedly loved , I’m sorry you went through this
Yes 100%!!! Cuz he knows they can see through him that he is a narcissist
@@FoodieQueenBee yep and he wouldn’t get away with the bad behavior .
The moment you break things off and leave is the most dangerous moment.
WRONG!!! When my ex said she was breaking up with me. I happily told her to carry her ass somewhere else and anther unfortunate fool.
@@BOYBROU It is for we women in a domestic violence situation which is what this video is about. If you're not an abuser then obviously it won't apply to you.
@@BOYBROU...
@@BOYBROUdid you watch the video?
@@V.E.R.O.😅😅
Domestic abuse is not always between boyfriend and girlfriend or husband and wife. Domestic abuse can be between siblings, parents to children, and bosses to coworkers.
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Boss to coworker abuse isn't domestic.
Domestic.. cannot be a boss or coworker nope
@@Katherine_xswhatever. The original commenter still makes a good point.
do you know what ‘domestic’ means?
That's not the subject though
I can say from experience that the baby is going to have the sweetest image of her mother in her mind, in her heart, and in her soul. She's going to know without doubt how much her mother loved her. I know because I lost my birth mom to domestic violence when I was a month old. I consider it a bonus that she'll have photos and videos of her mom. I don't have those.
That said, she'll still have to work through the resentment she'll feel towards the man that took her mother from her. I'm 55 and still working on it. My heart is with both Grandma and baby. 😢❤🙏
I can’t stand a coward… this is so sad
Yes, a real man would never, always the cowards.
It's crazy that the police did a welfare check and didn't make the decision to force entry after no contact the first time. The idea that she could have been lying their clinging onto life hoping and waiting for help is so heartbreaking!
All of you wanted to defund the police!!! All of you democrats where part of it and said to mind there business! Now you want police to care 🙄🙄🙄
Cops tend to be useless most of the time
We have three daughters. If you want to date my daughter you have to come talk to my husband and ask for our permission. Old school. My daughter hates it but we don’t care. My husband has told a boy no when he felt he wasn’t good enough for her too. Which left her mad at us. A week later he got caught with drugs. He was only 14. My husband is also a retired MMA fighter. He has given my daughters tools to defend and protect themselves. I highly recommend at a young age to give them the tools they need to protect themselves.
Let me guess the drugs we’re weed
And vice versa!
Whatever your husband taught them is a false sense of security. This is basic biology, no amount of training overcomes the physical differences between men and women.
Your daughter is lucky to have watchful parents like you and your husband. Keep it up! Someday, she’ll get her Mr. Right thanks to you!
I’ve always introduced myself to people’s parents, even just my friends. It’s a sign of respect that is mutual. I even give them my number in case they need to get a hold of me.
Even though he took her life, he didn’t take her dignity. She died a survivor… someone who was leaving an abusive situation. She knew she deserved better. And, no one can ever take that away from her.
this needs to be a top, pinned comment!!!
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But she didn’t survive. 😢
🤔🧐 **insert confusing math gif here**
she aint a survivior lmao LOL
@@d-uz9vr that’s funny to you?
You never tell an abusive man. You're living, you have to go in silence. Every woman should be told this and don't ever think it will happen to you but it happens everyday. I was beat on and I'll tell you. I got out of that and I threatened to put him in jail if they ever came around me. Somehow I was lucky or maybe they just knew I'd call the cops and lock them up.
I'm not sure your first two sentences came out how you wanted them to, but we get the meaning.
Yes you have to leave in silence. And also, I had to trick the man I was with. I smiled and tricked him into thinking I was so happy to be with him and that I loved him, and then one day I left and never talked to him again. I am lucky I survived. So many women don’t.
Yup, I planned my escape in silence for a year… it was the only reason I made it out alive and I barely did.
@@TiffTheTyrantyup. Rejection is what sets them off. Stockholm is actually the Minds way of protecting us, subconsciously.
You had more than one abuser?
I just left an abusive marriage. It took me a long time to make that decision, to the point where friends and family made peace with the fact that I would likely stay with him forever. But I CHOOSE ME NOW!!
What changed your mind to leave? Can you share?
Hey I am sure you may know this but I'm case you don't, statistically this is actually the most dangerous time for you so PLEASE PLEASE be safe and always have someone know your location. At all times. I'm sending you so much love. 💚💚💚💚💚💚
CONGRATS🎉🎉🎉 HOT GIRL SUMMER😂❤
The mother who looks like she was also a young mother talking so casually about her daughter “ hooking up “ is disturbing to me. Too many parents trying to be friends & not parents.
I thought dating came first, then intimacy. I am so old-fashioned.
single mom that what happens when dad is not around.
Stop acting like you're better than everybody else all of you should be ashamed of your comments 🙄 things happen
@@abcwarrior91and? Your point?
Here you go trying to find fault in anyone but the bf 😔
Thank you for speaking out. Australia has had marches all over the country recently because domestic violence and deaths have reached record highs. It's a crime, report it and hope to god these judges don't let these monsters out on bail.
And her grief may be fresh but she is remaining strong for that baby.
Damn it’s sad when ppl lose their lives to these unhinged bums!
I know exactly what her mom was saying when she said her daughter felt different about her baby father, I felt the same way when I finally broke away from my long time boyfriend of 5 years the relationship was so draining and it had left me angry, sad, shameful! Domestic violence is REAL! Ladies, realize the red flags early on! And be careful who you let into your life.
Moms, if there is a strange boy getting ur daughter pregnant before she is legal. Do everything in your power to get him away.
Your daughter could hate you fro years and it would be worth it.
My condolences go out to the sallee family of their loss of their daughter that was killed in domestic violence! 😭
No sympathy. Her own bad choices.
@@MadeMeSmile1 you're horrible. just because you haven't been in the same situation doesn't mean you can judge their choices, you don't know their life and what they went through, someone died and you feel the need to say this? disgusting, seriously.
Dear ladies...
Leave losers alone if you KNOW he's a loser leave him alone! And I'm speaking from working in a courthouse!!! So sad 😢
What if the loser in the relationship is the lady?
@@franklinburk3314
Not relevant at all.
@@123darkpassengerI mean he gots a point. This is a topic of discussion often ignored.
@@Microwavedpuppieshow is it relevant to this topic?
Great advice, but teenagers don’t have the discernment of full developed adults. This girl didn’t have any men to protect her.
Her abuse sounds A LOT like my current. He has isolated me away from my family. Cities away. And the crazy thing is, my mom has my birth flower tattooed also. And she has a weeping willow tree in her backyard. This video has given me a scary message. Thank you so much for sharing her story 🤍
Please get out. Run. Listen to yourself. I've been there, and things happened that I'll NEVER recover from. Please get out.
look up narcissist abuse and manipulation. get your things and leave. it doesn't get better.
My personal experience..it takes about 2 years for them to leave you. Let him abandon you and discard you so he doesn't follow you. He's using you somehow so it takes them about 2 years to get themselves together and probably leave you for the next woman. Play along for your safety, but complain about everything and withhold sex as much as you can. So he'll get tired of you. Call out his abusive behavior whenever he does it. Tell him isolation is a sign of abuse and ask him why, tell him it's not normal. MKe yourself unattractive to him and tell your doctors..get a fake health issue. They like to abandon you when they think you need them. Record his arguments and write things down bc they lie and say they never said things. Call out his hypocrisy. I know he gets to do things he says you can't. Don't be sad, dont let him get you down. Complain and call out the signs and withhold sex bc that how they control you. A relationship isn't ownership. Prat and ask him does he believe in God? Usually they don't and have a evasive answer. The root is evil and demonic. Pray out loud and ask him to go to church with you.
Leave. My ex gf isolated me from all family and friends for years. She even forced me to quit working a job. i wasnt allowed to leave the apartment without her. Shed punch me in the face all the time if I disagreed with literally anything. she threatened to kill me a few times and i think she would have. I left and I’ll probably be homeless next month. I now have crippling social anxiety from prolonged isolation and im scared to even go outside. I did it to myself, i should have left years ago. Get out now safely. Dont make the mistake i did.
@Skruddle I'm so sorry you're struggling. I know this too well. I'm glad you left. Stay strong....you got this!! Some days will be hell n you'll struggle, I still do....but keel going. I agree LEAVE!!
Leaving is the MOST DANGEROUS time. If you know someone is in the process of leaving, DON'T LEAVE THEM ALONE. 💔💜💔
This is devastating
I lost my friend this way back in 2021. Rip Amanda.
OMG that is HORRIBLE! I am SO sorry for your loss! :(
This a parents worse nightmare, my heart goes out to her mom.
Sorry...but the mere fact that her child got pregnant so .young and THEN she allowed her to date the guy instead of protecting her makes her partially responsible for what happened here! I'm 61, and if this had happened to ME, my parents would have never allowed any kind of relationship ...especially one where the boy refused to come anywhere near the family or near the house! Seriously...look at how many GIANT red flags this adult totally ignored!!!
Honestly when your daughter or son get in a relationship. Your job as a parent is to get to know the person they're dating as well as their family to know what kind of family he or she comes from. This is important!
Sorry for your loss Mrs Sallee.
My thoughts exactly.
Same here.
This is so sad that her mom had to go through this
This poor mother … she knew
Don't ever go alone to collect your belongings during a break up like this. This breaks my heart!!! Such a young and loving mom. Prayers to all of her family and loved ones 🙏 ❤🙏❤
What a beautiful mother…her, her daughter, and her granddaughter.
Scary 😨 i remember dating this guy. He was clinically depressed. He would cry out of no where. We dated for 6 months one time. I knocked a slurpee with my foot by accident didnt even ask for the drink. He started yelling picked up a chair and threw it taking a piece of wall out. I immediately grabbed my purse shoes ran out the door. I left never looking back. He came around but i was never home. Im happy i never went back to him wasnt worth it. I heard He passed away in 2018. He was good looking just didnt know his behavior kept women away sheesh
So glad you guys 6 safe, keep reaching out to others. 🙏🕊️
Damn
I have a friend....he runs the other way when women talk about marriage and having babies. I don't blame him
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How do you know you dated this guy? His face is blurred.
Good for you, atleast you didn't try to fix him, we can't be a therapist or nurse to these broken men, they need professional help and that don't always work either.
This is my cousin! I miss her so much! She will forever be in my heart! We miss and love you sm!❤
I am so sorry for your loss. What a beautiful, sweet young woman! The signs of a potential abuser needs to be taught in health education in school so that young women can spot the warning signs, and not get involved with a potential abuser. This happens WAY TOO MUCH!
Why wasn’t your cousin’s father in her life, or was he?
@@TheBOG3 He was
Sorry for your loss
I am so very sorry for you and your family's loss. I will be praying for your family. 🙏🏽
You never know who you’re dealing with in a relationship.
Until they show their true colors. ❤
Is he a high ranking officials son , mayors, judge , high profile lawyers or sheriffs son ??? why is his face blurred?
Sometimes it's just better to be alone then to be around people that would hurt you I'm really sorry for this lady and her daughter😮
I was giving my daughter and two friends of hers somewhere and they started talking about another one of their friends and how her boyfriend was hitting her and hurting her. I pretended not to be listening. I called the school counselor and told her what I had heard. It got fixed.
Thank you for helping but also talk to your daughter about not accepting that as normal ❤
@@erinaa9486 I’ve talked to her many times and she has witnessed it.
I left my abusive ex boyfriend in Jan of 2023. He almost strangled me once, pointed a knife at me in front of his mother, and threatened to kill himself countless times. His mom knew he was abusing me. I left because I realized I could end up dead. I knew I couldn’t have a baby with someone who threatened my life.
The fact that he was younger and she was younger and doing things wrong in the beginning should have been a red flag to you to call the police officers
Gosh, I am just so sorry! Your daughter just looks like such a sweetheart.
Looked……. unfortunately.
I’ve survived through abusive relationships and this ending story is such a tragedy 😢😢😢
What made you get out? Do you still miss him?
@@evangelineprindiville6296 basically my ex was effecting my parents and their mental health so I left him , I cared too much for family then him . & HELL NO 👎🏼
have they still tried to contact you?
@@evangelineprindiville6296tf do you mean "do you still miss him?" GTFO
DO NOT GO ALONE TO GET YOUR BELONGING'S, AND END THINGS WITH YOUR ABUSIVE PARTNER!! I can not stress this enough. This broke my heart hearing her mom speak and took me back to personal events. My love goes out to Heidi, Emali, and the rest of her family.
jesus christ, so many warning signs right from the get go, how did anyone allow this to get that far to that point?
Never ever be alone with your abusive partner when breaking things off. Common sense is unfortunately not common. Be cautious and never let your guard down before, during, and after the breakup.
Wow, saying that she doesn’t have common sense because she didn’t want company during a break up is quite something. Classic victim blaming
@Anne-ot8gq if needing extra security is victim blaming then blame away 🙄
@@0riginal_panda_child249 you know that’s not what I’m talking about. Saying that somebody who just got murdered doesn’t have common sense for doing something that most people do is horrible, what you said is awful.
Men in America have become extremely emotionally weak!
True, and we're still emotionally the strongest , so what does that say for men in the rest of the world. Take that!
TAKE THAT?! LMAOOO BYEE@user-Mike8290
@@Anastasia-qk2pm 😆🤣 as soon as I read "take that" I knew he was one of them😆🤣
@@cal.712 yes very telling
Facts 😢
I’m so sorry. I have a 17-year-old, daughter, and this breaks my heart and infuriates me. My condolences to you. 🙏🏾💔
Most dangerous time in an abusive relationship is when you try to leave.
I always wonder what kind of parents raise a young man like this
Tragic ❤
This is why we have to be their parents, not their friends.
what does that mean though? she was guiding and advising her daughter out of the situation. she doesn't have legal rights over her once she is 19?
@@kimtaylor7162 She was living in her house. She had every right to put her foot down. The daughter should have listened. Now it’s too late.
I have an 18 years old daughter and I will show her this video. My heart hurts for this mother, that young girl was trying to do the right thing, to leave her abuser and that coward ended her life, the mother of his child, and then his. He didn’t wanted to face the consequences for his evil actions, but God I am sure has already dealt with him. I hope all families find the way to continue living for that precious little girl who now has no parents. This is truly sad. 😢
Don't shame the mom I bet she wished she did a million things differently, thank you for sharing her story may she rest in peace 💞🙏🏽, I wish the best life for her daughter and the whole family
Yeah agree, unless we're walking in her shoes we truly don't know what we would do, I'm wishing her and her granddaughter all the best in the world too😳💯🙏
And she really could not have done anything different
There's not one comment I see shaming mother. Just saying. Young adults make their own choices, unfortunately some not good, it happens. RIP daughter. Poor mom
Showing the child face but not the killer, a bunch a crazy people running the justice system RIP YOUNG ONE.
If he's a minor legally they need permission from his parents. So obviously they didn't get that. With the toddler her guardian is her grandma so obviously the got consent to show her face
@@scottishgirl1100 He was 20 dating a minor. Can I have your next excuse ?!
@@sandlotkrew8778she was 19
bruh its so they don't get sued+the guy wasnt charged with anything. how do you guys not know this after watching these stories?
@@scottishgirl1100she is a minor .
I am from maine. And I am not far from lewiston and I can tell you right now. This shocked the entire state of Maine. As young as she was. My aunt corrie knew her and she said she was a sweet girl.
So heartbreaking. Nothing can replace a lost child. 💜💜💜
I'm so sorry this happened to you. This is horrific and I'm praying for you, your family and friends affected by this❤
I'm so sorry Mama.
This poor mamma. Absolutely heartbreaking.
I’m soo sorry for your loss.. I’m soo close with my daughter and when she gets older I pray to God she meets a good guy for her and I don’t ever have to feel this pain 🥺 sending love to her family.. May she Rest In Peace ❤
The first time he chose not to be around for Christmas should’ve been a warning sign mom
It was, the daughter didn't want to change things.....so sad
Sure but regardless of what the mom thought the daughter was already stuck in the cycle of domestic abuse
Avoiding is a red flag
It was, Mom said it was, she couldn't make her daughter leave him.
@@PNWGlinda The daughter was young and didn't see it for what it was😓💛
THANK YOU FOR BEING SO RAW AND FIRM!🙏🏼🕊
Teach your daughters not to like bad guys 🤷🏽♂️
No mother deserves pain like his.
I'm so sorry,,,this happens more than we know..💛🕊️
It’s a sad story of teen dating violence.
Not gma saying "they hooked up" 🤯 girl what?! Ma'am your daughter young 19 yr old teen mom. Omg this is soooo sad in so many levels
This!! Thought the same thing
I mean yea it’s sad she had her life was taken away…but why judge her for being a mom..the baby didn’t ask to be here, God knew what he was doing. His timing and plan for sure🙏🏽it’s just this generation these days is bad. Stay blessed💯
@AhmijaMarie023
19 is an adult and historically is older. It has nothing to do with "current generation" you might want to do some basic math and see how old your grandma was when she had her oldest...and while we're at it do some basic math and see how old your grandpa was when he met your grandma.
There's a reason why "grandma you a little victim" is a trend now.
@@Chelaxim thanks I guess. Can’t tell if you were trying to correct me or bully me. I said what I said for a reason maybe you should just mind your business. I really could care less about ppl playing the victim I just thought it was sad because the children involved didn’t ask to be here. So much teen pregnancy in this generation never once said it wasn’t a thing back then because my grandparents were young when they started having kids as well soo I’m lost on what you even said that for especially the math part.?😂why try to make me feel small for an opinion you could have not commented on..
This made me cry so hard, being the mother of a 20 year old daughter whom is the mother of a 18 month old baby boy. My daughter always calls me right as I fall asleep for a nap as well. The thought of her never calling me again crushed my soul… 😢 I feel for this momma so much… 💔
Of course it broke you. My family lost a brother and son. A parent should never outlive their child. I saw what it did to my father. My condolences to you and your family. The pain never goes away, it just dims and finds a place in your heart.
This tears me up. I was her age when it was happening to me and there was no getting away. What I truly believed what saved me was jail. He couldn't hurt me there and it's by the grace of God I'm still here. Thank you for sharing her story ❤️
Absolutely felt this … I have 2 daughters & I can’t imagine the pain this mom is feeling .. I’m sooooo sorry .. sending ALL MY LOVE & HEALING TO YOU & ur family ❤
I'm sorry for your loss. I myself had experience in this . I threatened him back with resources and it worked. You may have lost your daughter but you have a beautiful part of her ,your granddaughter. May God bless you
What a devastating loss! Praying for the Sallee family and friends. 🙏