Dear Ashley, I'm a South African male, and I have lived in both countries, the USA and South Africa. I left South Africa to the USA in the 90s to study there. During that time the economy in South Africa was so bad due to the economic sanctions on the apartheid regime. Fast forward, the USA is a tough place especially if you're a black person...it is not easy. I really agree with you that you have been through a lot and most people don't know. I trillion times applaude your bravery to relocate to South Africa. Africa is your ancestry home, and we trillion times welcome you. Remember, regardless of Jesus healing and performing miracles human beings still killed him. Don't let jealousy people discourage you; keep on going girl like a bunny on energizer battery. The whole continent of Africa loves you!!!
Well said brother ❤...... I'm a so called coloured.....has worked in the Middle East and went on holiday in the UAE.... Ashley is so resourceful.... I enjoy watching her content .... She's so smart.... Blessings to you Ashley and her fam.
Sometimes we heavily melanated humans have a difficult time seeing other melanated humans succeed. JEALOUSY must be overcome. GO Sisstah Ashley, you are LOVED !!!
I often go to Thailand where the levels of wealth and poverty are very similar to South Africa . Thai people are totally different to poorer South Africans , they are busy , striving and sometimes thriving . They are always smiling .
The Thai people didn't live under a racist regime which demoralized, dehumanized them, turned them to second class people and gave them poor education.
I came from very humble beginnings here in the US. Raised in a single parent household where my family relied heavily on government assistance just to survive. Although my situation was dire, I didn't look at the influx of the immigrants into my country/neighborhood and think they were the problem. Instead, I began to shift my focus on education. Because of this I was able to excel throughout school going on to become the first in my bloodline to graduate from college, and then the first in my family to obtain a masters degree and then doctorate. However, if I had focused on my lack and on how unfair it was that I was in this situation in the first place that would have done me no good. If I harbored hate in my heart towards those who sold my ancestors into slavery and therefore, separated me from identity, then I wouldn't have had the strength nor the resilience to rise above my situation. So to my fellow African brothers and sisters, please take heed to what this young lady is saying. You literally have the opportunity to change your situation just my changing your focus and shifting your mindset. We are rooting for you here in the US and believe that like our ancestors did, you too, we rise out of the ashes, and gain your rightful place in society. Much love from New Jersey
I don't know exactly what that woman's comment said but I will say as a South African I do understand some people who feel some type of way about seeing people from other countries come in and live in luxury because their currency is stronger so its easier for them to invest than local businesses . Especially in places like Cape town where tourists and a lot of Europeans and Americans are relocating, they make life for the locals especially the poor difficult by raising the standard of living making the day to day life of the poor more difficult, making it impossible for local entrepreneurs to compete with investors with foreign currencies and further exacerbating the housing crisis in South Africa with millions of people already living in shacks having foreigners from other countries buying up properties and raising the property value making it more impossible for the especially poor black people to buy affordable housing. So I can understand why some South Africans feel this way because they feel that the lifestyle of some of these expats come at their expense.
This is actually true bcoz I have the hope of relocating from Jhb to the Cape but the property prices are rising enormously bcoz of such people. Thinking that I have to sell my 2 apartments in Jhb in order to buy one apartment in the Cape.
@@GoldilocksOfficial1 That would be great, I wish more people who decide to move here are more intentional about integrating by building within communities, with members of the community and at least attempt to assimilating to the language and culture
Ashley, I absolutely love your videos. I’m a South African who has been living in the US for the past seven years after moving here for college to chase the “American Dream”. While I agree with you about the challenges African Americans face due to structural racism, capitalism, and the recent surge in inflation (I live in NYC, where many people must work multiple jobs to make ends meet), the struggles of Black South Africans are on a different scale. In South Africa, the unemployment rate exceeds 30%, and the wealth gap between white and black people is stark. Many graduates can’t even secure a job at McDonald’s. Despite my own struggles in NYC, I still send money back home to support my family, something my black American husband doesn’t have to worry about. Lecturing natives about having a “mentality of lack” when you already have so many privileges afforded to you by virtue of the American dollar/passport/halo effect comes off very white supremacist and isn’t very different from when white American tell POC Americans to “pull themselves up by the bootstraps”. I encourage you to listen to black South African natives without being dismissive, support black owned South African businesses and be mindful of the legacy of apartheid that continues to affect my people.
As a white South African, living in South Africa, I agree with you. African Americans should acknowledge the fact that a move to the African continent elevates them in a manner which is not possible for the vast majority of black South Africans.
@@maruskaehrensdorferprovided they come loaded with money... which may generally mean its all about what or how much you have with you when you make the move... and not necessarily about being 'black american' .
Thank you Ashley I'm motivated by your bravery and tenacity to overcome all and strive for better for your fam I to am a single mom of two daughters and just saw my baby graduate from high-school I was never so brave to leave the country with them so I love to see u do it with style and grace 👑 go go go 🌹🌹🌹
I am of African Caribbean ancestry living in the US. I think I understand fully where this South African that you have commented on is coming from. I am not sad regarding your joy or entrepreneurial achievements in SA as I am sad about your bourgeois and/or privileged analysis of current social political affairs. I will therefore not rely on your views regarding BRICS let’s say. I consume many SA platforms and would rather hear directly from South Africans themselves as to what’s going on in their country. I think you need to be careful with your words when describing your lifestyle in SA particularly as it relates to your “positive psychology” stance. I often react viscerally to your comment that “SA is luxury!” For whom is it luxury? Certainly not for the majority of SA’s. A South African living in Soweto can hear that comment of luxury as an insult! It may convey that they, perhaps, need to be blamed for not having the consciousness or positive perspective necessary to get out of their economic situation. Furthermore, while I do understand the concept of “we are and/or manifest our thoughts”, be careful not to oversimplify some real historical and social political factors. Are you saying the Kenyans who are now protesting the exploitation of Ruto’s administration are in the condition that they are in because they were in the wrong mindset? Are you saying that apartheid in SA existed there for so long and still today because the black South Africans were in the wrong mindset? Are you saying that white globalized financial capital exists because we are in the wrong mindset? If so, let’s dive in into these very complex issues without cheerleading the merits of positive psychology.
Well said, sometimes we have to meet people where they are because too often eventhough you may be speaking positive or truth those who you are speaking to may not and probably will have no "reference" to what your speaking about, so yes we need a certain level of empathy and we need to meet people where they are even to encourage and helping to uplift if thats the goal. But conversations and dialogue are always helpful.
Hi Ashley, your other Sis from SA here. I understand your context and her context as well (the lady who sent you a message). I think receiving these types of messages will open you up more to the real South Africa and how we can meat each other as the diaspora. I don't think she meant to blame you for your success (saying this very hopefully since I did not see the message). Her expression is a window to the other side of the reality which may be on the blindspot. South Africa has not done well when it comes to prioritising investment towards its own people, thus their growth. This can be a very detailed disuccion if we were to assess the effects of global movements South Africa is involved in on the socio-economic conditions of the majority of its communities. South Africa's approach to globalisation against its history and current situations as well. The issue is very important, especially for a country with a history of detriment towards its own people and which has not been overcome this far and keeps on getting worse.
You put this reasonably in your write up... so gentrification is a global phenomenon and isn't necessarily a form of hatred or jealousy towards migrants... I just think government should rope in the competition commission & introduce legislation to regulate inflation so that merchants do not inflate prices due to foreign currencies or affluent people flocking in' such as digital nomads who are accused of causing prices to sky rocket especially in the Cape Town area... So in conclusion this isn't necessarily an anti-American or anti-foreigner sentiment per say... just a concern by struggling students and the middle class about the rapid increase in costs of living. So We just need a regulatory framework to keep inflation in check, and this shouldn't necessarily strain relations between Americans or migrants and South Africans... we do need quality foreign investors just like any other successful country afterall.
Seeing the difference is the beginning of knowledge, it's only a first step for the little sister who wrote to you on Instagram. Thanks to both of you Sister's. 🇿🇦
Beautiful message👌🏾 I love seeing my American Brothers and Sisters discovering home. Let’s lift this continent towards the Titan that it’s meant to be! 🫶🏾🇿🇼
Ashley, you are so right. You said something about majoring in the minor, in a previous video. That stuck with me. That describes so many our people. It always brings me joy to see you beautiful face and to hear your words of wisdom. May God continues to bless you and your family.
❤ Appreciate it, Ashley continue to allow postive thoughts to vibrate into reality, we all should strive to grow our mind to this point. Can't wait to set up in S/A. 😮🎉😂
I literally started from 2k of salary and I moved out to my own one room and that's where my thoughts came alive I started a couch repair business met the love of my life who also had his small salary and after that we grew he got a permanent job now we moved in together into a cute house after traveling from our small hustle businesses coz his hustle was painting houses before the permanent job now we have both small hustles and good jobs with our first baby on the way.
That sounds amazing! I am so inspired by people like you who have incredible resilience and strength and will and determination, despite all the odds stacked against them. Wishing you only the best! ❤
This was a great conversation! I was born and raised in the U.S. and have been in Cape Town immersed in training with my Gobela to connect with and activate my ancestors, as a Sangoma since January. You are so on point! It was my courage & willingness to open myself up to my calling through a culture that I had never heard of before I got the calling, the unlimited possibilities that are truly here for us all. My process is healing my perceptions around what I had believed was holding me down. Also, my calling is showing me how to leverage Ancestral Intelligence (spiritual tech), Artificial Intelligence (computer tech) and my story in a way that is turning my entire life around. I have put myself on the wait list for the next cohort and if the timing is aligned when you open again, I will be there and if not, I'll keep watching and engaging here as I am able until the time is right. Thank you for being you and for the value you bring to the planet. Thokozani 👏🏿 👏🏿
Im a local and I watch all your videos...I just love your content .I really believe she did not deserve such dignified reply.....But never the less we are learning.....❤ you.
You speak the Truth. Too many of us have excepted a ‘victim’ mentality. Even though some call themselves kings and queens. Thats a victimhood response. I biggest problem worldwide is jealousy envy and actual hatred of each other. Your experience is one example! 😢
For my I think confidence has is what I struggle with. Eight years ago, I moved to Asia for me freedom and travel and it didn't really workout for me. I think one of the things was once again confidence and introvertednedss. I was depressed which manifested into my phsycial health and when I came home I was so sick I had difficulty breathing. Just listening to you now, I actually had a light bulb moment and its actually given me some hope and confidence. Thank you sis
A mind shift doesn't happen without deprogramming. If you want to shift the mindset then you have to come up with a solution. I'm definitely interested in helping with that.
Hi Ashley, south African here, I don't think you understood her comment just by the way you responded to her. Make friends from the bottom go and visit and see it, experience it. Let's see if you would respond to her
@@AshleyinAfrika you don't understand and you will never understand it, with have foreigners in the cost of living get pushed up for the local people dear. You say you love economics you would be sensitive to that fact. Rents go up, food prices go up because the business people want the dollars and the pound etc
@@parrotsitter7916 Ashley, has nothing to do with the plight of local South Africans, she's there to help, on the other hand, maybe she should address her grievances with the people who can really make a difference and they are called, your government! Jealousy doesn't look good on anyone.
@@zigiozz she adds to it sir, it has absolutely has nothing to do with jealousy, it appears that why for someone who doesn't know south African history and what is currently happening in Cape Town where locals are forced out of certain places because of rents, due to the influx of foreigners who live a high rolling life, people who earn in currency much stronger than ours and live life effortless at the cost of the indigious people
your right because my daughter is 14 and i am trying to teach her about business, one of our failures as blacks is that we were not taught about money management and entrepreneurship in school so its hard for most of us as adults to comprehend it. at our age
We weren't taught about it in school as white school kids, either! Though of course I have my white privilege, but I come from a very poor (in white terms) background and it was my spouse who taught me about money management, living in a frugal manner, saving and investing. I was a child in the 80's, so I can't speak for other generations. It's wonderful that you are teaching this to your daughter and that you are helping to shape the trajectory of her future! ❤
It is so sad to have that kind of heart. I am happy that you are the beacon of light that you are. Keep shining, and I look to learn all that from you. Be blessed
Thanks for not giving up your vision. Maybe the lady on Instagram is not seeing it but I am. This is the reason why I stopped using Instagram it shows all sorts of fake stuff that makes you think success looks a particular way which is completely wrong. If this lady could open her eyes I'm pretty sure she'd realise how privileged she is. Yes South Africa is not perfect but having her mindset is a disadvantage for all of us. I'm glad to find such a positive video.
Wise words Ashley. Wise responds full of consideration, compassion, kindness, intelligence, inspiration, direction and knowledge. You are a child of the soil. You are not African American no more. You are African. South African😁👌
I agree with you sis 💯. I use to be like the everyday average worker, just going to work not really believing 100% that could live the life I was created for. But until I change my environment, the kind of people I associated with, the topics I got involved with, I was never going go anywhere. Truly it's all mental. When we realize that, we got to expect problems and we got to keep our mind locked onto like minded people. Now, whenever I take an L, i figure out what I did wrong, after the emotional disappointment. And all this does is makes you smarter. And get use to being by ourselves, becuz there's more people who don't believe in themselves, God, and the possibilities. And all we can do is encourage our people. if they come , GREAT! But if they choose the struggle life..... hey, you do you. As for me, I will die with limited regrets, but with numerous accomplishments and a satisfied life. Keep encouraging our people to have an entrepreneur mind. Everybody isn't a business person, but they have to have that mind set of its possible like an entrepreneur. God bless, black nation unite, Africa united.
I hope that commentor who said they were sad to see you happy misspoke because that would be a disturbing thought. Maybe they got their english words mixed up. If they were born and raised in a poor part of SA then that might explain their mindset. Your content is holding up the mirror to them to see what is possible and they aren’t ready to face themselves. Sometimes when you’re borne and raised in an environment that is substandard it’s hard to “see the forest for the trees”. I’m sure SA has an abundance of resources but the Commentor can only see the 1 or 2 options that they were taught to see. I pray for grace and a mindset shift in them. Keep being you and continue sharing Ashley 🌸✨🌺
I think it’s exhilarating watching you explore your endeavors. That’s priceless to me, I can’t wait to come to mother land. Mannn, you have no idea! Something I’ve been planning for the last few years.
Keep shining through the negativity, Ashley. Period. You are inspiring people. You’ve inspired me-a 50+ yo dude dreaming of the day when I can bolt from this place. …so just keep shining 👍🏾
Hey Ashley, Thank you so much for always bringing us informative and positive content. Much appreciated! This vlog especially...because...the mentality of lack does not just exist in the black community but also the Coloured community. We were not taught that its okay to have and be okay with it. To not "worship" about tomorrow (I loved that line by the way). We, as a collective, we need a mind change/shift for us to heal so that we can prosper. Words bear power so just a few words of positivity, the universe would give reprieve. And as you have come to learn here in SA that not all skin folks are kin folks...we flock to and attract our tribes by mutual mindsets. Thank you for taking this stance and sharing it with all of us❣
I love your content, thanks Ashley. I find that other content creators on this platform need to constantly explain themselves too, also some overseas youtubers - regardless of their race. I am also debating the same ideologies in my head, but I think its still relevant that we expose abundance in order to unveil the truth. So strength to you❤.
I love you sisi wami, we are a nation that love pple. The greatest power is in embracing one another, "ubuntu" is what make us who we are. The positive image that you have of this place are complete truths pple choose to ignore everyday because positive news are regarded as no news at all. There are more loving pple than the few that see everything through the eyes of whatever pain they are going through. Keep up the good work and the positive energy, we love your work. ❤
Its a blessing to hear from you Ashley❤ Beauty goes with Beauty and that you and you got it all in one Beauty and intelligence integrity etc I know your kids love you to death🎉
Thank you for sharing your journey. Our ability is only limited by imagination and consequent action toward the mark. How you speak only encourages my desire. I can't say I have challenges when it comes to thoughts about lack...I only think of abundance and what it takes to manifest it!!! Keep giving back as you realize your future manifestations and thank you for doing what you do!!!
On Point! We need deep reconditioning as a people. The scarcity mentality is a real disease. We have to move into an abundance mentality state as soon as possible.
"Mind Set Shift" is easier said than done. It ranks way up there with the pursuit of "enlightenment". These 2 remarkable state of beings are so rare that when someone claims to have achieved one of them, it tends to give rise to suspicion. I myself am in the pursuit of enlightenment, which to me is the ultimate shift. In my journey to enlightenment, I have gotten a taste of escaping the confines of a crippling state of mind. And as aforementioned, it's easier said than done.
Ashley love your positive attitude and hope you will retain that as for me it means you are taking charge of your own surroundings and do not let others determine your self worth. Isolated comments should not really change that but rather as my Sister from SA articulated make you appreciate our resilience as a people! I think my sister below in her comments articulated my perspective quite succinctly and my comment here is geared at forstering more consciousness in a positive way. Just as the reference to African Americans as Coloured evokes a negative response the reference to black South Africans as ' Natives' makes a lot of us who grew up during apartheid do quite a double take! Just saying y'all➿
In a Capitalist Society, businesses depends on the money that the Head Of Households (HOH) earn, save and invest. Examples of Investments are Employer 401K Retirement Matching Program (401K), Bank Certificate Of Deposit (CD), Credit Union Share Certificate (SC) and United States Government Treasury Bills, Notes and Bonds. HOH depend on the money earned from being employed at a business or Self Employment. A person need to maintain employment, save and invest which is the Traditional Approach to succeed in a Capitalist Society.
I both agree and disagree. I agree because I am in a similar position-well travelled, educated, a solid social and professional network. However, upon closer inspection: My faith in God (and the work He has done in my life), my supportive family, and a series of blessings that were out of my control assisted greatly in getting me where I am today. On a daily basis I see men and women, around my age, battling things that I have never come up against-Having to navigate life with a lot less guidance, less support, and less love. Moving to a country, city, or region where generational trauma (through violence, poverty, or systemic oppression) is rife and then lecturing people about their mindset of lack is a little bit... out of touch? I get where you're coming from and I agree that great things are possible for all, but the starting line and the setting makes a massive difference to how people grow and achieve.
Am so happy to have a beautiful intelligence African American like you Ashley i wish you can stay in South Africa 🇿🇦 forever and teach others woman to be indepant like you i like the way you trust yourself i wish God my blass me with a wife like or you
It starts with the children. The focus should be on preventing the children from developing a lack mindset, by doing so, this lack mindset will be drasticly reduced within the next 20 years. Prevention is much more powerful. FOCUS on the children!
So true. As South Africans we tend to be extremely negative. It's a disease. People complain daily and its almost a "sin" to do well or frowned upon with jealousy. We are so blessed as a nation. Yes, there are problems. But there's nowhere else im the world I would rather live. Born and raised. We need to heal. Focus and grow what we can. A positive mindset can change the world.
We can not all lose some of us must win get rid of jealousy and envy and if you want to live a Chistiano Ronaldo lifestyle do what he did if you want to live like our sista Ashley over here in South Africa do what she did stop crying. She knows very well (the comment person) in South Africa we say "Ukukhala Akusizi" meaning "Crying doesn't help" get up go get it 🤨 Same person hating on Ashley probably voted ANC again 😂
Thank you Ashley for the video. Commenting on the young womens utterences, there are black South Africans who are living their best life in S.A. including some of us in the middle-class. Our IQs do differ. Most people who use social media are younger unlike in America. Apartheid did a lot of damage to the older generation in S.A. Few of us over 50yrs use social media. I have seen a young person unable to follow instruction on an ordinary ATM (cash despensing machine )but able to use face book and e.t.c on social media. I urge you to understand the dynamics of us in S.A. So the white supremacy did a lot of mental damage to us. So forgive the young lady. Lets say, it was her freedom of speech without she noticing the challenges we still have in our society. Me too come across many of them on social media and I do give them advice. And again we are a young country 30years of age. So dont be apologetic about what you say, you are an African so us all need to teach, guide and give direction to our Africans young and old. .
Hallelujah!!!! The daily jesus devotional has been a huge part of my transformation, God is good 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻was owning a loan of $47,000 to the bank for my son's brain surgery (David), Now I'm no longer in debt after I invested $8,000 and got my payout of $270,500 every months,God bless Christy Fiore 🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸..
I've always wanted to be involved for a long time but the volatility in the price has been very confusing to me. Although I have watched a lot of RUclips videos about it but I still find it hard to understand
It’s DEFINITELY a #MINDSET! I’m very analytical and I wanted to understand my own situation in how my circumstances were different from my siblings of whom, we ALL were raised by the same mother…the difference was mindset…the reason why WE as a diaspora lack is because of MINDSET…”OTHERS” even when they have the deck stacked for them(meaning their mindsets of collective achievements have been taught unilaterally throughout)they are equipped and molded to succeed..they are regularly reminded of their “inherent abilities”..THUS WE MUST SHINE THE LIGHT on OUR inherent greatness! MOST still don’t realize that the WEALTHIEST HUMAN known to man was a BLACK AFRICAN! Imagine the possibilities if we were aware of our ASTOUNDING accomplishments imprinted upon US starting when we are babes…IMAGINE THAT TYPE OF MINDSET…THE POSSIBILITIES WOULD BE ENDLESS!!
Pushing that narrative keeps politicians on the job otherwise they wouldn't be stealing the money they should be using to improve people's lives instead of R350 to sustain dependency while deceiving blacks that they are victims of historical wrongs of the past......
I and my husband are both doctors and we moved to America from Ghana 25 years ago. Our income combined is over $800,000 / year . Many African Americans I meet are puzzled and resentful at how immigrants like us are able to achieve this level of success .We moved to America with $500 in our pockets and medical degrees , but because every medical professional has to retake their board exams to practice medicine in America we worked at minimum wage jobs for several years to support ourselves while paying for and taking the exams . You coming from America have many advantages over most of the locals and your presence is causing gentrification . Instead of being annoyed try to acknowledge and understand your privilege .At least in America opportunities are everywhere and yet African Americans are not doing well ! In Africa there are very few opportunities and most are reserved for the wealthy classes !
Why don’t you recognize your privilege Since you came to the country a medical professional you had an advantage too Poor people is just that no matter where you are. You should look in the mirror and see your comment is as divisive as her presence as you claim
Our minds were attacked and constantly under attack. Those who understood the mission knew the mental was what should be grabbed first. Many of us will be able to over come and many of us wont over come. We are still humans and must remember this. Where we go wrong is not accept the reality of Ying/Yang and dismiss the other parts of our community. When should understand all parts of our community is valuable and build as such. For example YT people have their other classes in police jobs etc. Chinese and Indias build their stores in our neighborhoods. We have got to understand everyone wont get there and that is okay but we should build for our communities everywhere.
WE ARE ISRAELITE'S GODS CHOSEN PEOPLE WHO WENT INTO SLAVERY IN SHIPS AS THE BIBLE SAID WE WOULD IF WE DIDNT KEEP GODS COMMANDMENTS. YOUR VIDEOS A POWERFUL Hosea 4:6 “My people are destroyed for lack of knowledge: because thou hast rejected knowledge, I will also reject thee, that thou shalt be no priest to me: seeing thou hast forgotten the law of thy God, I will also forget thy children.”
For every reason why we think we can't do something is a reason why we can. This is an amazing time full of new options and opportunities. "The fear of suffering is worse than the suffering itself." Paulo Coelho
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“What you focus on determines your reality”. You must become the change you want to see. Thank you, Ashley, for this timely reminder.
Dear Ashley, I'm a South African male, and I have lived in both countries, the USA and South Africa. I left South Africa to the USA in the 90s to study there. During that time the economy in South Africa was so bad due to the economic sanctions on the apartheid regime. Fast forward, the USA is a tough place especially if you're a black person...it is not easy. I really agree with you that you have been through a lot and most people don't know. I trillion times applaude your bravery to relocate to South Africa. Africa is your ancestry home, and we trillion times welcome you. Remember, regardless of Jesus healing and performing miracles human beings still killed him. Don't let jealousy people discourage you; keep on going girl like a bunny on energizer battery. The whole continent of Africa loves you!!!
Well said brother ❤......
I'm a so called coloured.....has worked in the Middle East and went on holiday in the UAE....
Ashley is so resourceful....
I enjoy watching her content ....
She's so smart....
Blessings to you Ashley and her fam.
Is SA any better for black people today
Sometimes we heavily melanated humans have a difficult time seeing other melanated humans succeed. JEALOUSY must be overcome. GO Sisstah Ashley, you are LOVED !!!
Yes!!
I often go to Thailand where the levels of wealth and poverty are very similar to South Africa . Thai people are totally different to poorer South Africans , they are busy , striving and sometimes thriving . They are always smiling .
The Thai people didn't live under a racist regime which demoralized, dehumanized them, turned them to second class people and gave them poor education.
I came from very humble beginnings here in the US. Raised in a single parent household where my family relied heavily on government assistance just to survive. Although my situation was dire, I didn't look at the influx of the immigrants into my country/neighborhood and think they were the problem. Instead, I began to shift my focus on education. Because of this I was able to excel throughout school going on to become the first in my bloodline to graduate from college, and then the first in my family to obtain a masters degree and then doctorate. However, if I had focused on my lack and on how unfair it was that I was in this situation in the first place that would have done me no good. If I harbored hate in my heart towards those who sold my ancestors into slavery and therefore, separated me from identity, then I wouldn't have had the strength nor the resilience to rise above my situation. So to my fellow African brothers and sisters, please take heed to what this young lady is saying. You literally have the opportunity to change your situation just my changing your focus and shifting your mindset. We are rooting for you here in the US and believe that like our ancestors did, you too, we rise out of the ashes, and gain your rightful place in society. Much love from New Jersey
I don't know exactly what that woman's comment said but I will say as a South African I do understand some people who feel some type of way about seeing people from other countries come in and live in luxury because their currency is stronger so its easier for them to invest than local businesses . Especially in places like Cape town where tourists and a lot of Europeans and Americans are relocating, they make life for the locals especially the poor difficult by raising the standard of living making the day to day life of the poor more difficult, making it impossible for local entrepreneurs to compete with investors with foreign currencies and further exacerbating the housing crisis in South Africa with millions of people already living in shacks having foreigners from other countries buying up properties and raising the property value making it more impossible for the especially poor black people to buy affordable housing. So I can understand why some South Africans feel this way because they feel that the lifestyle of some of these expats come at their expense.
This is actually true bcoz I have the hope of relocating from Jhb to the Cape but the property prices are rising enormously bcoz of such people. Thinking that I have to sell my 2 apartments in Jhb in order to buy one apartment in the Cape.
If I come I open a business and make you a partner! Or Partners so you can rise along with us as one! No one left behind especially the natives!
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@@GoldilocksOfficial1 I can dig that!
@@GoldilocksOfficial1 That would be great, I wish more people who decide to move here are more intentional about integrating by building within communities, with members of the community and at least attempt to assimilating to the language and culture
Ashley, I absolutely love your videos. I’m a South African who has been living in the US for the past seven years after moving here for college to chase the “American Dream”.
While I agree with you about the challenges African Americans face due to structural racism, capitalism, and the recent surge in inflation (I live in NYC, where many people must work multiple jobs to make ends meet), the struggles of Black South Africans are on a different scale.
In South Africa, the unemployment rate exceeds 30%, and the wealth gap between white and black people is stark. Many graduates can’t even secure a job at McDonald’s. Despite my own struggles in NYC, I still send money back home to support my family, something my black American husband doesn’t have to worry about.
Lecturing natives about having a “mentality of lack” when you already have so many privileges afforded to you by virtue of the American dollar/passport/halo effect comes off very white supremacist and isn’t very different from when white American tell POC Americans to “pull themselves up by the bootstraps”. I encourage you to listen to black South African natives without being dismissive, support black owned South African businesses and be mindful of the legacy of apartheid that continues to affect my people.
As a white South African, living in South Africa, I agree with you. African Americans should acknowledge the fact that a move to the African continent elevates them in a manner which is not possible for the vast majority of black South Africans.
Totally concur with your statements above!
@@maruskaehrensdorferprovided they come loaded with money... which may generally mean its all about what or how much you have with you when you make the move... and not necessarily about being 'black american' .
@@Lescibatrue!
Kunjani Ashley!!....thank you for your great teachings, we accept you as ours now in Southern Africa.
I am so happy you are living your best life Ashley! I'm inspired by you and others that has taken a leap of faith to do so.
Well said Ash.This conversation needs to continue ❤🇿🇦👏🏾
I like the happy, bold and peaceful Ashley. Keep going. ❤❤
Thank you folk talking sense Ms Ashley..We learn.. Mondli in Durban,South Africa
God bless you Sis! Keep growing, glowing and encouraging ❤
Great Job Asley , We really appreciate you , We are retiring , and headed your way with business in mind , Keep inspiring .
Definitely needed to hear this, this morning 👊🏾✊🏾🔥🖤
Thank you Ashley I'm motivated by your bravery and tenacity to overcome all and strive for better for your fam I to am a single mom of two daughters and just saw my baby graduate from high-school I was never so brave to leave the country with them so I love to see u do it with style and grace 👑 go go go 🌹🌹🌹
Thank you Mama. Congratulations to you and your baby girl!! You’ve done and are doing a great job.
Thanks for this message ❤
You are so welcome
This was a very timely and encouraging video. Todah Acuty Ashley for your continued push towards living life on your own terms.
Salama
I am of African Caribbean ancestry living in the US. I think I understand fully where this South African that you have commented on is coming from. I am not sad regarding your joy or entrepreneurial achievements in SA as I am sad about your bourgeois and/or privileged analysis of current social political affairs. I will therefore not rely on your views regarding BRICS let’s say. I consume many SA platforms and would rather hear directly from South Africans themselves as to what’s going on in their country.
I think you need to be careful with your words when describing your lifestyle in SA particularly as it relates to your “positive psychology” stance. I often react viscerally to your comment that “SA is luxury!” For whom is it luxury? Certainly not for the majority of SA’s. A South African living in Soweto can hear that comment of luxury as an insult! It may convey that they, perhaps, need to be blamed for not having the consciousness or positive perspective necessary to get out of their economic situation.
Furthermore, while I do understand the concept of “we are and/or manifest our thoughts”, be careful not to oversimplify some real historical and social political factors. Are you saying the Kenyans who are now protesting the exploitation of Ruto’s administration are in the condition that they are in because they were in the wrong mindset? Are you saying that apartheid in SA existed there for so long and still today because the black South Africans were in the wrong mindset? Are you saying that white globalized financial capital exists because we are in the wrong mindset? If so, let’s dive in into these very complex issues without cheerleading the merits of positive psychology.
Well said, sometimes we have to meet people where they are because too often eventhough you may be speaking positive or truth those who you are speaking to may not and probably will have no "reference" to what your speaking about, so yes we need a certain level of empathy and we need to meet people where they are even to encourage and helping to uplift if thats the goal. But conversations and dialogue are always helpful.
Of course you do….Thanks for sharing your perspective.
@providetriggersforevolution3748 🎯 Your analysis is right on target!
Hi Ashley, your other Sis from SA here. I understand your context and her context as well (the lady who sent you a message). I think receiving these types of messages will open you up more to the real South Africa and how we can meat each other as the diaspora. I don't think she meant to blame you for your success (saying this very hopefully since I did not see the message). Her expression is a window to the other side of the reality which may be on the blindspot. South Africa has not done well when it comes to prioritising investment towards its own people, thus their growth. This can be a very detailed disuccion if we were to assess the effects of global movements South Africa is involved in on the socio-economic conditions of the majority of its communities. South Africa's approach to globalisation against its history and current situations as well. The issue is very important, especially for a country with a history of detriment towards its own people and which has not been overcome this far and keeps on getting worse.
You put this reasonably in your write up... so gentrification is a global phenomenon and isn't necessarily a form of hatred or jealousy towards migrants... I just think government should rope in the competition commission & introduce legislation to regulate inflation so that merchants do not inflate prices due to foreign currencies or affluent people flocking in' such as digital nomads who are accused of causing prices to sky rocket especially in the Cape Town area...
So in conclusion this isn't necessarily an anti-American or anti-foreigner sentiment per say... just a concern by struggling students and the middle class about the rapid increase in costs of living. So We just need a regulatory framework to keep inflation in check, and this shouldn't necessarily strain relations between Americans or migrants and South Africans... we do need quality foreign investors just like any other successful country afterall.
Seeing the difference is the beginning of knowledge, it's only a first step for the little sister who wrote to you on Instagram. Thanks to both of you Sister's. 🇿🇦
Well said and thanks to you too 😊
Beautiful message👌🏾
I love seeing my American Brothers and Sisters discovering home.
Let’s lift this continent towards the Titan that it’s meant to be!
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Ashley, you are so right. You said something about majoring in the minor, in a previous video. That stuck with me. That describes so many our people. It always brings me joy to see you beautiful face and to hear your words of wisdom.
May God continues to bless you and your family.
❤ Appreciate it, Ashley continue to allow postive thoughts to vibrate into reality, we all should strive to grow our mind to this point. Can't wait to set up in S/A. 😮🎉😂
Keep it up my darling sister;your brother from Nigeria have your back
True♥ , Our people need a mind shift indeed. Tumelo from South Africa.
I literally started from 2k of salary and I moved out to my own one room and that's where my thoughts came alive I started a couch repair business met the love of my life who also had his small salary and after that we grew he got a permanent job now we moved in together into a cute house after traveling from our small hustle businesses coz his hustle was painting houses before the permanent job now we have both small hustles and good jobs with our first baby on the way.
That sounds amazing! I am so inspired by people like you who have incredible resilience and strength and will and determination, despite all the odds stacked against them. Wishing you only the best! ❤
Queen Ashley, never let anyone trample on your happiness.
People should not be jealous, just work smart to be successful.
This was a great conversation!
I was born and raised in the U.S. and have been in Cape Town immersed in training with my Gobela to connect with and activate my ancestors, as a Sangoma since January.
You are so on point! It was my courage & willingness to open myself up to my calling through a culture that I had never heard of before I got the calling, the unlimited possibilities that are truly here for us all.
My process is healing my perceptions around what I had believed was holding me down.
Also, my calling is showing me how to leverage Ancestral Intelligence (spiritual tech), Artificial Intelligence (computer tech) and my story in a way that is turning my entire life around.
I have put myself on the wait list for the next cohort and if the timing is aligned when you open again, I will be there and if not, I'll keep watching and engaging here as I am able until the time is right.
Thank you for being you and for the value you bring to the planet.
Thokozani 👏🏿 👏🏿
Thokozani 🙏🙏
@@sanelemwelase Thokozani Baba
👏🏿👏🏿! I LOVE your work!
Im a local and I watch all your videos...I just love your content .I really believe she did not deserve such dignified reply.....But never the less we are learning.....❤ you.
You speak the Truth. Too many of us have excepted a ‘victim’ mentality.
Even though some call themselves kings and queens. Thats a victimhood response.
I biggest problem worldwide is jealousy envy and actual hatred of each other. Your experience is one example! 😢
Bless her heart ♥ Keep doing you. You inspire 🎉🎉🎉
Thank you Delphine 🙏🏾
For my I think confidence has is what I struggle with. Eight years ago, I moved to Asia for me freedom and travel and it didn't really workout for me. I think one of the things was once again confidence and introvertednedss. I was depressed which manifested into my phsycial health and when I came home I was so sick I had difficulty breathing. Just listening to you now, I actually had a light bulb moment and its actually given me some hope and confidence. Thank you sis
It’s a pleasure. I’m so happy this resonated with you ✨
A mind shift doesn't happen without deprogramming. If you want to shift the mindset then you have to come up with a solution. I'm definitely interested in helping with that.
No I doesn't
No I doesn't
@@ktg5713 yes it does. No one all of a sudden changes their mindset. You clearly are out of your lane
Hi Ashley, south African here, I don't think you understood her comment just by the way you responded to her. Make friends from the bottom go and visit and see it, experience it. Let's see if you would respond to her
I understood her very well and I sent her love
@@AshleyinAfrika you don't understand and you will never understand it, with have foreigners in the cost of living get pushed up for the local people dear. You say you love economics you would be sensitive to that fact. Rents go up, food prices go up because the business people want the dollars and the pound etc
@@parrotsitter7916 Ashley, has nothing to do with the plight of local South Africans, she's there to help, on the other hand, maybe she should address her grievances with the people who can really make a difference and they are called, your government! Jealousy doesn't look good on anyone.
@@zigiozz she adds to it sir, it has absolutely has nothing to do with jealousy, it appears that why for someone who doesn't know south African history and what is currently happening in Cape Town where locals are forced out of certain places because of rents, due to the influx of foreigners who live a high rolling life, people who earn in currency much stronger than ours and live life effortless at the cost of the indigious people
Here we go another crying African. Work harder, get a job, learn a skill and live somewhere affordable for yourself. Stop being a baby. Grow up!
your right because my daughter is 14 and i am trying to teach her about business, one of our failures as blacks is that we were not taught about money management and entrepreneurship in school so its hard for most of us as adults to comprehend it. at our age
We weren't taught about it in school as white school kids, either! Though of course I have my white privilege, but I come from a very poor (in white terms) background and it was my spouse who taught me about money management, living in a frugal manner, saving and investing. I was a child in the 80's, so I can't speak for other generations. It's wonderful that you are teaching this to your daughter and that you are helping to shape the trajectory of her future! ❤
It is so sad to have that kind of heart. I am happy that you are the beacon of light that you are. Keep shining, and I look to learn all that from you. Be blessed
Thank you
Thanks for not giving up your vision. Maybe the lady on Instagram is not seeing it but I am. This is the reason why I stopped using Instagram it shows all sorts of fake stuff that makes you think success looks a particular way which is completely wrong. If this lady could open her eyes I'm pretty sure she'd realise how privileged she is. Yes South Africa is not perfect but having her mindset is a disadvantage for all of us. I'm glad to find such a positive video.
Amazing motivational points " Everyone has a gift is up us to use it".
Great job Ashley keep it up !
Great video Ashley...God is good
Shout out too you for learning more about our Great Nation🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦🥶❄️🥶❄️🥶❄️🌍🌍🌍🐐🐐🐐🐐💸💸💸👊🏾✊🏾👊🏾✊🏾👊🏾
I’m going to wait a few years until the academy is up and running.All the best.
It’s up and racing! Don’t wait, we’re probably not for you. All the best to you too.
Yes! 🎯🎯🎯✔
Lack is a virus and adopting an abundance mindset is the antivirus!
Wise words Ashley. Wise responds full of consideration, compassion, kindness, intelligence, inspiration, direction and knowledge.
You are a child of the soil. You are not African American no more. You are African. South African😁👌
I agree with you sis 💯. I use to be like the everyday average worker, just going to work not really believing 100% that could live the life I was created for. But until I change my environment, the kind of people I associated with, the topics I got involved with, I was never going go anywhere. Truly it's all mental. When we realize that, we got to expect problems and we got to keep our mind locked onto like minded people. Now, whenever I take an L, i figure out what I did wrong, after the emotional disappointment. And all this does is makes you smarter. And get use to being by ourselves, becuz there's more people who don't believe in themselves, God, and the possibilities. And all we can do is encourage our people. if they come , GREAT! But if they choose the struggle life..... hey, you do you. As for me, I will die with limited regrets, but with numerous accomplishments and a satisfied life. Keep encouraging our people to have an entrepreneur mind. Everybody isn't a business person, but they have to have that mind set of its possible like an entrepreneur. God bless, black nation unite, Africa united.
I literally paused the video to go check your instagram account and I ended up binging on your content. Thank you for this video sis❤
Yay! Thank you!
I hope that commentor who said they were sad to see you happy misspoke because that would be a disturbing thought. Maybe they got their english words mixed up. If they were born and raised in a poor part of SA then that might explain their mindset. Your content is holding up the mirror to them to see what is possible and they aren’t ready to face themselves. Sometimes when you’re borne and raised in an environment that is substandard it’s hard to “see the forest for the trees”. I’m sure SA has an abundance of resources but the Commentor can only see the 1 or 2 options that they were taught to see. I pray for grace and a mindset shift in them. Keep being you and continue sharing Ashley 🌸✨🌺
I think it’s exhilarating watching you explore your endeavors. That’s priceless to me, I can’t wait to come to mother land. Mannn, you have no idea! Something I’ve been planning for the last few years.
Keep shining through the negativity, Ashley. Period.
You are inspiring people.
You’ve inspired me-a 50+ yo dude dreaming of the day when I can bolt from this place.
…so just keep shining 👍🏾
Hey Ashley, Thank you so much for always bringing us informative and positive content. Much appreciated! This vlog especially...because...the mentality of lack does not just exist in the black community but also the Coloured community. We were not taught that its okay to have and be okay with it. To not "worship" about tomorrow (I loved that line by the way). We, as a collective, we need a mind change/shift for us to heal so that we can prosper. Words bear power so just a few words of positivity, the universe would give reprieve. And as you have come to learn here in SA that not all skin folks are kin folks...we flock to and attract our tribes by mutual mindsets. Thank you for taking this stance and sharing it with all of us❣
We love your experiences and that you share them with us🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦🥶❄️🥶❄️🥶❄️
I love your content, thanks Ashley. I find that other content creators on this platform need to constantly explain themselves too, also some overseas youtubers - regardless of their race. I am also debating the same ideologies in my head, but I think its still relevant that we expose abundance in order to unveil the truth. So strength to you❤.
I never struggle with anything, I create my own paradise within my means 🙏
I love you sisi wami, we are a nation that love pple. The greatest power is in embracing one another, "ubuntu" is what make us who we are. The positive image that you have of this place are complete truths pple choose to ignore everyday because positive news are regarded as no news at all. There are more loving pple than the few that see everything through the eyes of whatever pain they are going through. Keep up the good work and the positive energy, we love your work. ❤
Proud of you queen as a south African living in two countries 🇺🇸🇿🇦I can relate 🙏🎤
Its a blessing to hear from you Ashley❤ Beauty goes with Beauty and that you and you got it all in one Beauty and intelligence integrity etc I know your kids love you to death🎉
Thank you for sharing your journey. Our ability is only limited by imagination and consequent action toward the mark. How you speak only encourages my desire. I can't say I have challenges when it comes to thoughts about lack...I only think of abundance and what it takes to manifest it!!! Keep giving back as you realize your future manifestations and thank you for doing what you do!!!
Absolutely! Thank you for sharing this perspective
On Point! We need deep reconditioning as a people. The scarcity mentality is a real disease. We have to move into an abundance mentality state as soon as possible.
"Mind Set Shift" is easier said than done. It ranks way up there with the pursuit of "enlightenment". These 2 remarkable state of beings are so rare that when someone claims to have achieved one of them, it tends to give rise to suspicion. I myself am in the pursuit of enlightenment, which to me is the ultimate shift. In my journey to enlightenment, I have gotten a taste of escaping the confines of a crippling state of mind. And as aforementioned, it's easier said than done.
All I can say is that I love each n' everyone stay blessed because you choose what you want to do that's a blessing on it's own
Ashley love your positive attitude and hope you will retain that as for me it means you are taking charge of your own surroundings and do not let others determine your self worth. Isolated comments should not really change that but rather as my Sister from SA articulated make you appreciate our resilience as a people!
I think my sister below in her comments articulated my perspective quite succinctly and my comment here is geared at forstering more consciousness in a positive way. Just as the reference to African Americans as Coloured evokes a negative response the reference to black South Africans as ' Natives' makes a lot of us who grew up during apartheid do quite a double take! Just saying y'all➿
In a Capitalist Society, businesses depends on the money that the Head Of Households (HOH) earn, save and invest. Examples of Investments are Employer 401K Retirement Matching Program (401K), Bank Certificate Of Deposit (CD), Credit Union Share Certificate (SC) and United States Government Treasury Bills, Notes and Bonds. HOH depend on the money earned from being employed at a business or Self Employment. A person need to maintain employment, save and invest which is the Traditional Approach to succeed in a Capitalist Society.
Welcome to Joburg 🎉
I HEAR YOU ❤SISTA
1st priority
Got to be in ❤committed relationships
Family is important
Ase much ❤️
Thank you
I both agree and disagree. I agree because I am in a similar position-well travelled, educated, a solid social and professional network. However, upon closer inspection: My faith in God (and the work He has done in my life), my supportive family, and a series of blessings that were out of my control assisted greatly in getting me where I am today.
On a daily basis I see men and women, around my age, battling things that I have never come up against-Having to navigate life with a lot less guidance, less support, and less love. Moving to a country, city, or region where generational trauma (through violence, poverty, or systemic oppression) is rife and then lecturing people about their mindset of lack is a little bit... out of touch? I get where you're coming from and I agree that great things are possible for all, but the starting line and the setting makes a massive difference to how people grow and achieve.
That's very true Sister,we are more inclined to blame other human races for our problems,we never look at ourselves
Your innovation knows no bounds! 🚀 -- "Success is walking from failure to failure with no loss of enthusiasm.."
Am so happy to have a beautiful intelligence African American like you Ashley i wish you can stay in South Africa 🇿🇦 forever and teach others woman to be indepant like you i like the way you trust yourself i wish God my blass me with a wife like or you
Ur hair is great!❤
The sister needs to read this book, Think and Grow Rich, A Black Choice by Dennis P. Kimbro. It's mind changing. That is, if you're willing to change.
It starts with the children. The focus should be on preventing the children from developing a lack mindset, by doing so, this lack mindset will be drasticly reduced within the next 20 years. Prevention is much more powerful. FOCUS on the children!
Talk to South African, and truly understand how we feel. We don’t come a place of lack
To be jealous of a foreigner finding success in your country is not strange
Delusion
So true. As South Africans we tend to be extremely negative. It's a disease. People complain daily and its almost a "sin" to do well or frowned upon with jealousy.
We are so blessed as a nation. Yes, there are problems. But there's nowhere else im the world I would rather live. Born and raised.
We need to heal. Focus and grow what we can.
A positive mindset can change the world.
"People just love existing in luck..." Powerful words right there
Well said
Very true🥰
Where was the "vital" information at Robles elementary 😂. Great mindset and continued success!!!
We can not all lose some of us must win get rid of jealousy and envy and if you want to live a Chistiano Ronaldo lifestyle do what he did if you want to live like our sista Ashley over here in South Africa do what she did stop crying.
She knows very well (the comment person) in South Africa we say "Ukukhala Akusizi" meaning "Crying doesn't help" get up go get it 🤨
Same person hating on Ashley probably voted ANC again 😂
Love Ash❤
Thank you Ashley for the video. Commenting on the young womens utterences, there are black South Africans who are living their best life in S.A. including some of us in the middle-class.
Our IQs do differ. Most people who use social media are younger unlike in America. Apartheid did a lot of damage to the older generation in S.A. Few of us over 50yrs use social media.
I have seen a young person unable to follow instruction on an ordinary ATM (cash despensing machine )but able to use face book and e.t.c on social media.
I urge you to understand the dynamics of us in S.A. So the white supremacy did a lot of mental damage to us. So forgive the young lady. Lets say, it was her freedom of speech without she noticing the challenges we still have in our society.
Me too come across many of them on social media and I do give them advice. And again we are a young country 30years of age. So dont be apologetic about what you say, you are an African so us all need to teach, guide and give direction to our Africans young and old.
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Hallelujah!!!! The daily jesus devotional has been a huge part of my transformation, God is good 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻was owning a loan of $47,000 to the bank for my son's brain surgery (David), Now I'm no longer in debt after I invested $8,000 and got my payout of $270,500 every months,God bless Christy Fiore 🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸..
Hello!! how do you make such monthly, I’m a born Christian and sometimes I feel so down of myself 😭 because of low finance but I still believe God
Thanks to my co-worker (Carson ) who suggested Ms Christy Fiore
After I raised up to 525k trading with her I bought a new House and a car here in the states🇺🇸🇺🇸 also paid for my son's surgery….Glory to God, shalom.
She's a licensed broker here in the states🇺🇸 and finance advisor.
I've always wanted to be involved for a long time but the volatility in the price has been very confusing to me. Although I have watched a lot of RUclips videos about it but I still find it hard to understand
It’s DEFINITELY a #MINDSET! I’m very analytical and I wanted to understand my own situation in how my circumstances were different from my siblings of whom, we ALL were raised by the same mother…the difference was mindset…the reason why WE as a diaspora lack is because of MINDSET…”OTHERS” even when they have the deck stacked for them(meaning their mindsets of collective achievements have been taught unilaterally throughout)they are equipped and molded to succeed..they are regularly reminded of their “inherent abilities”..THUS WE MUST SHINE THE LIGHT on OUR inherent greatness! MOST still don’t realize that the WEALTHIEST HUMAN known to man was a BLACK AFRICAN! Imagine the possibilities if we were aware of our ASTOUNDING accomplishments imprinted upon US starting when we are babes…IMAGINE THAT TYPE OF MINDSET…THE POSSIBILITIES WOULD BE ENDLESS!!
I am interested. I want to learn more about how to start a business.
Seriously Ashley are you answering this kind of comment love from that woman?
The biggest problem is our Political leaders, they keep on talking about historical disadvantages which does not exist anymore, like Apartheid
Pushing that narrative keeps politicians on the job otherwise they wouldn't be stealing the money they should be using to improve people's lives instead of R350 to sustain dependency while deceiving blacks that they are victims of historical wrongs of the past......
Tell it!!!❤❤❤
Iron sharpens Iron, Sistren 🖤😉
I and my husband are both doctors and we moved to America from Ghana 25 years ago. Our income combined is over $800,000 / year . Many African Americans I meet are puzzled and resentful at how immigrants like us are able to achieve this level of success .We moved to America with $500 in our pockets and medical degrees , but because every medical professional has to retake their board exams to practice medicine in America we worked at minimum wage jobs for several years to support ourselves while paying for and taking the exams . You coming from America have many advantages over most of the locals and your presence is causing gentrification . Instead of being annoyed try to acknowledge and understand your privilege .At least in America opportunities are everywhere and yet African Americans are not doing well ! In Africa there are very few opportunities and most are reserved for the wealthy classes !
Why don’t you recognize your privilege
Since you came to the country a medical professional you had an advantage too
Poor people is just that no matter where you are.
You should look in the mirror and see your comment is as divisive as her presence as you claim
Did not God ordain the family? What role does division between men and women away from husband, wife and children, as families, play in our demise?
African queen is speaking facts go African Khaleesi mother of facts
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Don't let that comment destruct you my sister, you're so doing so fine.
Our minds were attacked and constantly under attack. Those who understood the mission knew the mental was what should be grabbed first. Many of us will be able to over come and many of us wont over come. We are still humans and must remember this. Where we go wrong is not accept the reality of Ying/Yang and dismiss the other parts of our community. When should understand all parts of our community is valuable and build as such. For example YT people have their other classes in police jobs etc. Chinese and Indias build their stores in our neighborhoods. We have got to understand everyone wont get there and that is okay but we should build for our communities everywhere.
WE ARE ISRAELITE'S GODS CHOSEN PEOPLE WHO WENT INTO SLAVERY IN SHIPS AS THE BIBLE SAID WE WOULD IF WE DIDNT KEEP GODS COMMANDMENTS. YOUR VIDEOS A POWERFUL Hosea 4:6 “My people are destroyed for lack of knowledge: because thou hast rejected knowledge, I will also reject thee, that thou shalt be no priest to me: seeing thou hast forgotten the law of thy God, I will also forget thy children.”
All money ain't good money.
And it's da root of all evil
…And these family are examples of a set of limiting beliefs that are not serving you or your community. Let’s heal this.
Excuses
For every reason why we think we can't do something is a reason why we can. This is an amazing time full of new options and opportunities. "The fear of suffering is worse than the suffering itself." Paulo Coelho