Comment below your love language! There are 5 stages of love, but most people stop at 3. Watch the full video to learn more: ruclips.net/video/2t7JMUOXWW0/видео.html
Hmm... Would the "Books and literature" category extend to other forms of media as well? I love discussing all sorts, from books to webcomics to TV and movies to videogames to RUclips videos, with others and sharing what they mean to me with them. Animal companionship is also important. As are info dumping and parallel play, though I'm not sure if many outside of the ND community understand those.
`the problem for me is that most western women havnt been trained right about what is a good man, and end up with a thousandCock stare. All because they get bored and dont want to work on themselves. Its ez to get a girlfriend, but as a 40+ year old, Only the younge ones are intresting to me, as they are fresh and un spoiled.
❤❤ 💔💘💚🤍💛💕💐💞🌼🌻🌺🌷🌹🌷🌷🌷🌷 درود بر روح شهیدان سنندج سنه دژ سه اژدهای ماد و پارس و پارت آریایی اصیل فرشته نسرین و زهرا شهلا کعبی پرستاران فداکار که به دست جوخه اعدام باند خلخالی پان ترکیست مغول زاده وحشی تیرباران شدند نه می بخشیم نه فراموش می شود ❤❤ 💔💘💚🤍💛💕💐🌈💌🖤🤎💜💙🧡 ❤❤ 💔💘💚🤍💛💕💐💞💕💞🌷🌹🌷
0:00 intro 0:35 that there are five types 1:28 creative expression 1:44 spiritual connection 2:00 thoughtful surprises 2:15 physical presence 2:26 shared experiences 2:40 emotional support 2:54 Intellectual connection 3:10 Acts of thoughtfulness 3:22 Nurturing and Outdoors 3:36 Nurturing love 3:51 sensory experiences 4:04 Digital communication 4:19 Reciprocal quality time 4:33 financial support 4:45 compliments and affirmations 4:58 Music and song 5:10 travel and exploration 5:19 photographic memories 5:31 Playfulness and humour 5:43 acts of gardening 5:56 shared culinary Adventures 6:09 memory making 6:23 Sports and Fitness 6:35 technology assistance 6:46 fashion and style 6:57 book and literature 7:08 mindfulness and meditation 7:15 charity and volunteering 7:25 surprise getaways 7:35 Animal companionship
• Words of affirmation - creative expression - thoughtful surprises - emotional support - Intellectual connection - Acts of thoughtfulness - Nurturing love - Digital communication - Reciprocal quality time - Music and song - Playfulness and humour - Animal companionship
It’s so difficult because I know that I am physical touch and quality time but I don’t know my boyfriend’s. So I don’t know if I’m loved or how to show him love. This could really help. Thank you x
When you never received any love. You dont know how to give love. This video is great for people that experienced love. So they know how to give it. 😢😢😢
I see where you're coming from. I don't agree that this video is only for people that experienced love. It could be useful for anyone! Understanding your needs and communicating your needs to your future partner is extremely helpful. This could also be applicable in non-romantic way with family and friends too!
My love language I always thought was gift giving. Though to me it’s more so the thought of giving someone they want to see the sparkle in their eyes. I don’t care if I ever receive anything. For me my biggest ones are: thoughtful surprises, emotional support, physical presence/reciprocal quality time, music and song, playfulness and humor, memory making, and animal companionship.
i have many issues with expressing emotion, especially any sort of caring or loving ways; so this was a great vid to help me find out what type of LL i have and how to express myself more^^
My top 5 1. Acts of thoughtfulness 3:08 2. Nurturing love 3:37 3. thoughtful surprises 2:01 4. Travel and exploration 5:10 5, Music and song 4:58 Within the 2 and half years I noticed that I my love language is acts of service/giving gifts. I like to make people happy by doing something nice for them in some way and other times I love buying gifts for people and the gifts parts leads into my second love language is receiving gifts. I personally like giving gifts more than receiving them
This is one of Your best videos ever, because of the intelligence of understanding the specific need hereby adressed, and because the list of love expressions is so precise in the details and wide and rich in the whole set. A thousand thanks. Very valuable tool which becomes a reference for my own personal and relation relational growth.
My TOP 3 by Chapman are: 🙋 PHYSICAL TOUCH ⌛ QUALITY TIME 🙌 ACT OF SERVICE from a new list I'll add include: 😂 PLAYFULNESS AND HUMOR 👍 EMOTIONAL SUPPORT 💑 ACTS OF THOUGHTFULNESS the rest of your proposals are like QUALITY TIME together or alone.
-creative expression -thoughtful surprises -physical presence -shared experiences -emotional support -intellectual connection -nature and outdoors -nurturing love -sensory experiences -financial support -music and songs -travel and exploration -playfulness and humour -shared culinary cuisines -memory making -fashion style -boom and literature -mindfulness and meditation -charity and volunteering -surprise getaways Omg I have most love languages lol
I'm never involving a partner in my music again after I helped the last one to start a band from the ground up only for her to cheat on me when she was expected to pull her weight in the creative process, rather than have me do everything all the time. I'm definitely looking for someone who likes hiking and camping and keeping my musical side to myself in future. I love that every bit as much but meeting someone through that would mean they have the independence and intelligence to stand on their own two feet and not bleed me like a parasite.
Wasn’t the love language thing recently debunked as pseudo BS? Some elements of it resonate because of their simplicity, but ultimately the love language idea is an oversimplification of deep and complicated human emotions. It also feeds into the whole myth that a partner ‘should’ just know you if they are the ‘one’, which is utter nonsense. Ultimately, life is an individual journey interpreted and recorded within our skulls. No matter how well someone matches you, they can never fully know you. That is not to say love and relationships are not important; on the contrary, we are social animals, and being social is up there with food and shelter. We cannot survive alone.
Yo, I didn’t think I’d super relate to any of these but once you said intellectual thought, I was like, “Gasp! That’s actually me!” I think it’s to the extent that I’ll sometimes point out my flaws to create a “deeper” conversation. 😅
I always figured physical presence is physical touch because everyone has an 'aura' around them and that aura touches I used to love being on the computer with my dad watching TV in the next room, even though we weren't spacially close,we were close and I was comfortable. In current times, I don't think I'd be able to have a relationship through technology cause it wouldn't have that physical connection
I feel like someone might not relate to one only probably a mix of all and that's okay as humans are deeply complex individual. Maybe that's why finding love or even sustaining any relationship is sometimes complicated, but sometimes we also complicate things for ourselves.
•Creative expression •physical presence •shared experiences •intellectual connection •nature and outdoors •sensory experiences •digital communication •reciprocal quality time •travel and exploration •playfulness and humor •shared culinary adventures •fashion n style
Remind me to come back to this video once I have at least some dating experience, because I have like zero points of reference for any of those to connect. Maybe, playfulness and humor is the closest one
A lot of these are awfully specific. It seems like most of them could be placed within the scope of one of the original 5 types, but as narrower & more defined examples or expressions of a given type. Most, but not all - i wonder if maybe we add an additional type or two to the primary 5.
simple girls how to make your man hooked to you;- say nice words to him( we don't get complimented often) do things for him ( no body keeps us in mind for anything) even buying a 5rs chocolate or candy will work reply fast to him & call him(video calls are best) and drop hints you love him and if he invites you for a movie or a date .....never say no. he will get butterfly and will look for opportunities to purpose you just within a month or week
Creative expressions, Acts of thoughtfulness and Intellectual connection. For me I like someone who is intellectually stimulating but also has some emotional part to their logic. I think for me I'm attracted to intellectually stimulating people. Apart from being a demisexual I think I'm also a sapiosexual.
This is mine: spiritual connection thoughtful surprises physical presence shared experiences emotional support intellectual connection acts of thoughtfulness nurturing love sensory experience reciprocal quality time financial support photographic memories playfulness and humor shared- culinary-adventures memory making sports & fitness books & literature animal companionship
It’s strange because I value my solitude. I haven’t been in a relationship in years 😂. Is there a Love Language test to tell me what my love language is?
Couldn't you make a printable checklist for us types with adhd who struggle to write then down..if we had a sheet and could follow along it would be easier and would know to look it up if we keep missing it. Never mind the fact my volume is broken on my phone I can't afford to replace a phone that cost a grand when I bought it.
I fall for... 💔 I fall with... 💔 I fall for gift giving... 💔 I fall for physical touch... 💔 I fall for quality time... 💔 I fall for acts of service... 💔 I fall for men... he doesn’t love me 😢 I fall for women... ❌🏳️🌈 I fall on my crush 💔😔 I fall for you 😐🧐 (maybe 😏) I fall on the floor ❤️😊
I don’t appreciate any of this. I’m hella sure I simply never learned what love or even friendship means. A social connection to people never seemed to be anything important to me.
I was about to say this is a bunch of Hooey, but then you said there was more than 5. I still don't connect with any one but at least you're not taking Chapman as gospel. It's just some dude's opinion.
Comment below your love language! There are 5 stages of love, but most people stop at 3. Watch the full video to learn more: ruclips.net/video/2t7JMUOXWW0/видео.html
Do you think you could do some HSP videos? They really help:)
Thoughtful surprises, physical presence, playfulness and humor and digital communication.
Hmm... Would the "Books and literature" category extend to other forms of media as well? I love discussing all sorts, from books to webcomics to TV and movies to videogames to RUclips videos, with others and sharing what they mean to me with them. Animal companionship is also important. As are info dumping and parallel play, though I'm not sure if many outside of the ND community understand those.
`the problem for me is that most western women havnt been trained right about what is a good man, and end up with a thousandCock stare. All because they get bored and dont want to work on themselves. Its ez to get a girlfriend, but as a 40+ year old, Only the younge ones are intresting to me, as they are fresh and un spoiled.
❤❤ 💔💘💚🤍💛💕💐💞🌼🌻🌺🌷🌹🌷🌷🌷🌷 درود بر روح شهیدان سنندج سنه دژ سه اژدهای ماد و پارس و پارت آریایی اصیل فرشته نسرین و زهرا شهلا کعبی پرستاران فداکار که به دست جوخه اعدام باند خلخالی پان ترکیست مغول زاده وحشی تیرباران شدند نه می بخشیم نه فراموش می شود ❤❤ 💔💘💚🤍💛💕💐🌈💌🖤🤎💜💙🧡 ❤❤ 💔💘💚🤍💛💕💐💞💕💞🌷🌹🌷
0:00 intro
0:35 that there are five types
1:28 creative expression
1:44 spiritual connection
2:00 thoughtful surprises
2:15 physical presence
2:26 shared experiences
2:40 emotional support
2:54 Intellectual connection
3:10 Acts of thoughtfulness
3:22 Nurturing and Outdoors
3:36 Nurturing love
3:51 sensory experiences
4:04 Digital communication
4:19 Reciprocal quality time
4:33 financial support
4:45 compliments and affirmations
4:58 Music and song
5:10 travel and exploration
5:19 photographic memories
5:31 Playfulness and humour
5:43 acts of gardening
5:56 shared culinary Adventures
6:09 memory making
6:23 Sports and Fitness
6:35 technology assistance
6:46 fashion and style
6:57 book and literature
7:08 mindfulness and meditation
7:15 charity and volunteering
7:25 surprise getaways
7:35 Animal companionship
No one: Psych2Go posting videos at 1 am:
😂
It's 11 am here
10:17 here ❤
You know different time zones exist right? 💀💀
5am here
• Words of affirmation
- creative expression
- thoughtful surprises
- emotional support
- Intellectual connection
- Acts of thoughtfulness
- Nurturing love
- Digital communication
- Reciprocal quality time
- Music and song
- Playfulness and humour
- Animal companionship
the world needs more people like you
Didn’t he say shared experiences was one of them?
@@tammyd4110 that's right but all I wrote was basically the ones I related to or the ones I wanted. It's not a summary
It’s so difficult because I know that I am physical touch and quality time but I don’t know my boyfriend’s. So I don’t know if I’m loved or how to show him love. This could really help. Thank you x
How 3d ago
@@boostergotboostedmaybe it was a premier
I’m all but maybe 2 or 3 of them. Weird for such a robot.
Have you tried asking him?
Talk to him
-creative expression 1:28
-physical presence 2:15
-acts of thoughtfulness 3:07
-compliments and affirmations 4:46
-playfulness and humor 5:31
When you never received any love. You dont know how to give love. This video is great for people that experienced love. So they know how to give it. 😢😢😢
I see where you're coming from. I don't agree that this video is only for people that experienced love. It could be useful for anyone! Understanding your needs and communicating your needs to your future partner is extremely helpful. This could also be applicable in non-romantic way with family and friends too!
I can give you love and virtual hug :3
*giv u huggies*
:33
@@lolila_da_taro ty
My love language I always thought was gift giving. Though to me it’s more so the thought of giving someone they want to see the sparkle in their eyes. I don’t care if I ever receive anything. For me my biggest ones are: thoughtful surprises, emotional support, physical presence/reciprocal quality time, music and song, playfulness and humor, memory making, and animal companionship.
i have many issues with expressing emotion, especially any sort of caring or loving ways; so this was a great vid to help me find out what type of LL i have and how to express myself more^^
Physical Touch People
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@@speedpaintanimations4126 what are you talkin about?
@@speedpaintanimations4126 bro who cares i just commented on a video stfu
no
Creep
@@shyamsharma530 if thats a joke im not laughing. im literally 17. thats my boyfriends love language too so stfu
My top 5
1. Acts of thoughtfulness 3:08
2. Nurturing love 3:37
3. thoughtful surprises 2:01
4. Travel and exploration 5:10
5, Music and song 4:58
Within the 2 and half years I noticed that I my love language is acts of service/giving gifts. I like to make people happy by doing something nice for them in some way and other times I love buying gifts for people and the gifts parts leads into my second love language is receiving gifts. I personally like giving gifts more than receiving them
Timestamps
1). Creative expression 1:28
2). Spiritual connection 1:44
3). Thoughtful surprises 2:01
4). Physical presence 2:15
5). Shared experiences 2:27
6). Emotional support 2:41
7). Intellectual connection 2:53
8). Act of thoughtfulness 3:07
9). Nature and outdoors 3:22
10). Nurturing love 3:36
11). Sendory experiences 3:50
12). Digital communication 4:04
13). Reciprocal quality time 4:18
14). Financial support 4:33
15). Compliments and affirmations 4:46
16). Music and song 4:58
17). Travel and exploration 5:09
18). Photographic memories 5:18
19). Playfulness and humor 5:31
20). Acts of gardening 5:43
21). Shared culinary adventures 5:57
22). Memory-making 6:10
23). Sports and fitness 6:23
24). Technology assistance 6:35
25). Fashion style 6:45
26). Mindfulness and meditation 7:07
27). Charity and volunteering 7:16
28). Surprise getaway 7:25
29). Animal companionship 7:35
Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. Sorry this is so late. 💙💙💙💙💙💙
This is one of Your best videos ever, because of the intelligence of understanding the specific need hereby adressed, and because the list of love expressions is so precise in the details and wide and rich in the whole set. A thousand thanks. Very valuable tool which becomes a reference for my own personal and relation relational growth.
My TOP 3 by Chapman are:
🙋 PHYSICAL TOUCH
⌛ QUALITY TIME
🙌 ACT OF SERVICE
from a new list I'll add include:
😂 PLAYFULNESS AND HUMOR
👍 EMOTIONAL SUPPORT
💑 ACTS OF THOUGHTFULNESS
the rest of your proposals are like QUALITY TIME together or alone.
-creative expression
-thoughtful surprises
-physical presence
-shared experiences
-emotional support
-intellectual connection
-nature and outdoors
-nurturing love
-sensory experiences
-financial support
-music and songs
-travel and exploration
-playfulness and humour
-shared culinary cuisines
-memory making
-fashion style
-boom and literature
-mindfulness and meditation
-charity and volunteering
-surprise getaways
Omg I have most love languages lol
2:11 ❤️
I love that male calming voice & this super cute animation style, I remember you wrote it’s from your illustrator rose 🌹 love it ❤
Emotional support, spiritual and intelectual connection people
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This is a really good video…helps me understand my needs better. I will have to watch multiple times for sure.
Thank you for making this please continue to make and post videos on RUclips thank you so much seriously ❤🎉😭💗
I'm never involving a partner in my music again after I helped the last one to start a band from the ground up only for her to cheat on me when she was expected to pull her weight in the creative process, rather than have me do everything all the time. I'm definitely looking for someone who likes hiking and camping and keeping my musical side to myself in future. I love that every bit as much but meeting someone through that would mean they have the independence and intelligence to stand on their own two feet and not bleed me like a parasite.
Wasn’t the love language thing recently debunked as pseudo BS? Some elements of it resonate because of their simplicity, but ultimately the love language idea is an oversimplification of deep and complicated human emotions. It also feeds into the whole myth that a partner ‘should’ just know you if they are the ‘one’, which is utter nonsense. Ultimately, life is an individual journey interpreted and recorded within our skulls. No matter how well someone matches you, they can never fully know you. That is not to say love and relationships are not important; on the contrary, we are social animals, and being social is up there with food and shelter. We cannot survive alone.
I pissed in a jar and burried it in my school.
And you're talking to ME about love language ?
I’m pretty sure that sniper job not yours. I’m still jealous though, and I would’ve loved to actually piss in a jar. At my school.
This is so much better and insightful than videos about dates ideas
Yo, I didn’t think I’d super relate to any of these but once you said intellectual thought, I was like, “Gasp! That’s actually me!” I think it’s to the extent that I’ll sometimes point out my flaws to create a “deeper” conversation. 😅
I always figured physical presence is physical touch because everyone has an 'aura' around them and that aura touches
I used to love being on the computer with my dad watching TV in the next room, even though we weren't spacially close,we were close and I was comfortable. In current times, I don't think I'd be able to have a relationship through technology cause it wouldn't have that physical connection
This animation is beautifully made 😍
This artwork is insanely cute! 🥺
Very very cute animation.. I love it!!! 🥰
Always interested in love language..
I realise, literally each of them are parts of me and my love language :) I hope I'm not weird.. ig that's just being unique in my own way 😅
I feel like someone might not relate to one only probably a mix of all and that's okay as humans are deeply complex individual. Maybe that's why finding love or even sustaining any relationship is sometimes complicated, but sometimes we also complicate things for ourselves.
Narrator's voice is so serene
To be honest, many of the first love lenguages sound like quality time to me. It's like making little sub categories of the 5 primary love lenguages.
Mine is quality time. Nothing else matters.
Everything need time gets my heart
Here is my love language:
Acts of thoughtfulness, nurturing love, music and song, and animal companionship,
Thanks for useful and valuable video as always ❤❤❤
Glad you liked it!
The voice used is so nice and calming 😊😊😊
Absolutely all five!!
Ill do 1 pushup everyday for each like this comment gets.
Time to do another pushup, Get back to work.
is bro still doing pushups?
@@z.xdtcfy If he's not then he better get back to it
PUSH UPS
Get back to it. You successfully engagement baited me so you better do it.
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•Creative expression
•physical presence
•shared experiences
•intellectual connection
•nature and outdoors
•sensory experiences
•digital communication
•reciprocal quality time
•travel and exploration
•playfulness and humor
•shared culinary adventures
•fashion n style
-Creative Expression
-Spiritual Connection
-Intellectual Stimulation
-Music and Song
-Fashion and Style
-Book and Literature
-Surprise Getaways
Creative expression, spiritual expression*, physical presence, shared experiences, emotional support, intellectual connection*, acts of thoughtfulness, nature & outdoors*, nurturing kindness, digital communication, recoprocal quality time*, financial support*?, compliments & verbal affirmations*, music and song*, playfulness & humour*, shared culinary adventures, memory making, book & literature, mindfulness & meditation*, animal companionship
* means more potent
me be crying after trying to watch all the stuff related to attractiveness.... still single and crying 😢😢😢😭😭😭
Legit want to know my love languages so I can be loved and love others, in the right way
Learning about something you nvr experienced is mission impossible
As someone who has been doing random act of kindness to someone they haven't even noticed it so its hard
Remind me to come back to this video once I have at least some dating experience, because I have like zero points of reference for any of those to connect. Maybe, playfulness and humor is the closest one
It doesn't only apply romantically. Think of how you connect with your family and friends.
@@NerdyMystic09 That's what made me think of playfulness and humor
I relate to a lot of these.
Idk its like i love them but i dont know if i love them at a relationship level
A lot of these are awfully specific. It seems like most of them could be placed within the scope of one of the original 5 types, but as narrower & more defined examples or expressions of a given type.
Most, but not all - i wonder if maybe we add an additional type or two to the primary 5.
I was having same conversation with a friend on this, both single, so surprising that you guys put up a video on it as well!! That's wild but Thanks!!
Words of affirmation day and night!
Where’s that woman narrator Amanda Silvera?🥺🥺🥺🥺
I miss her voice 😢
She's here! :)
@Psych2go the male voice is amazing too.
@@Psych2go that's good a lot of us miss her voice she's very well loved by us make sure to tell her that
@@R_t-99 I agree he does a great job as well
simple girls
how to make your man hooked to you;-
say nice words to him( we don't get complimented often)
do things for him ( no body keeps us in mind for anything) even buying a 5rs chocolate or candy will work
reply fast to him & call him(video calls are best)
and drop hints you love him and if he invites you for a movie or a date .....never say no.
he will get butterfly and will look for opportunities to purpose you just within a month or week
This channel always reminds me how I don't have anyone
Creative expressions, Acts of thoughtfulness and Intellectual connection. For me I like someone who is intellectually stimulating but also has some emotional part to their logic. I think for me I'm attracted to intellectually stimulating people. Apart from being a demisexual I think I'm also a sapiosexual.
What does it mean when you’re almost all of these and all of the five main love languages?
One push up with each like
DO 20 PUSH UPS NOW OR YOU ARE GAY
My lovestyle is the one where i have no lovestyle, and adapted to rot up alone.
I needed all that
This is mine:
spiritual connection
thoughtful surprises
physical presence
shared experiences
emotional support
intellectual connection
acts of thoughtfulness
nurturing love
sensory experience
reciprocal quality time
financial support
photographic memories
playfulness and humor
shared- culinary-adventures
memory making
sports & fitness
books & literature
animal companionship
It’s strange because I value my solitude. I haven’t been in a relationship in years 😂. Is there a Love Language test to tell me what my love language is?
Couldn't you make a printable checklist for us types with adhd who struggle to write then down..if we had a sheet and could follow along it would be easier and would know to look it up if we keep missing it. Never mind the fact my volume is broken on my phone I can't afford to replace a phone that cost a grand when I bought it.
this is my love language. "Meow, baby"
I fit into multiple categories, is that possible?
Of course!
i love watching psych2go videos
Best video ever
I feel like my love language is all of these but some more than others in a weird mix, does that make sense? 😵💫
I happen to be all five😊
Me too :)
Is it okay if they all apply to me?
vr told I have never seen a woman visiting a man and express her feelings...he told aanungal cheyunnathu kandittundu....why can't a woman do the same?
A quick question, what causes panic attacks? I'm sooprry if I'm bothering 😅😅
I fall for... 💔
I fall with... 💔
I fall for gift giving... 💔
I fall for physical touch... 💔
I fall for quality time... 💔
I fall for acts of service... 💔
I fall for men... he doesn’t love me 😢
I fall for women... ❌🏳️🌈
I fall on my crush 💔😔
I fall for you 😐🧐 (maybe 😏)
I fall on the floor ❤️😊
I just don’t know what to say to initiate it
❤
Relatable
You can only choose one? 👀
What does it mean when none fit me? Help.
Does it say anything about who expresses these love languages to an individual? Maybe I'm not asking this question right.
I don’t appreciate any of this. I’m hella sure I simply never learned what love or even friendship means. A social connection to people never seemed to be anything important to me.
Did you change your art style
I kinda feel like I have almost every love language mentioned
About mindful and meditation, me and my close friend were calmed people or introverts. Is that counted as this part or different types?
Nice video :)
Why did this video end so abruptly though?
This ended pretty abruptly
Staying together
I love the girls voice
And thats still my lovestyle. Although i didnt choose it. Women choose it for me.
It’s all good
No idea, and I don't understand how a list of things is supposed to help understand anything
I got 22 love languages
Thoughtful surprises
Emotional support
Nurturing love
Digital communication
Photography
Memory making
couldn’t focus because of the music in the background please try to remove it in your coming videos
Me: wait ...Ponyo
Is all of these too much to ask for 😂
My love language is F14 Tomcat
2:26 I know this is out of context, but is that a fork in this glass?
😂😂
I was about to say this is a bunch of Hooey, but then you said there was more than 5. I still don't connect with any one but at least you're not taking Chapman as gospel. It's just some dude's opinion.
My personal love language is Deutsch
I've heard of this b.s phrase is why i clicked
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