Been divorced 5 months and now we're working towards restoration! He wants to put our marriage and family back together. There looked like no hope it was SO bad, I had even given up... But yes. It's gonna be a long road. We start counseling this week.
Glad I came across this video... I'm glad to know I'm on the right track. It's been almost 3 years since I've seen my spouse and since he walked out. I had to shift my prayers.. I started praying that God turns his heart back to Him and His will. My husband recently started reaching out more just to check on us. Yesterday he actually tried to flirt a Lil bit and I think he made a pass at me🤔...😳...I'm lookin real cross-eyed right now because this is so sudden...😂 God is moving! Thank you for this
Sis. This is wonderful news!! Keep praying God is hearing your prayers and sounds like in the midst he has been working on your husband. Keep the Faith and keep praying! 🙌🏽
My husband was texting me all day after he proposed to the OW .. I didn’t say anything abt how ironic it was but I know he was looking for familiarity cuz I was trying to end the messages but he kept going
Thank you sis for praying for our marriages and standing for marriage restoration In Jesus Mighty Name! 🙌 This blessed me! I will not give up! God is always moving.
My wife does the hot and cold. And it's driving me nuts its really getting to me. we have no kids so i took the dogs. And her way of saying how are you is asking how are the dogs? She never asks about me . But she never cared even during our 5 yr marriage no i love yous no touching no kind words of effection no love notes so i don't expect much or anything at all from her. If God restores us it's gotta be all new or i wont take her back. she was the coldest person I've ever met and I've dated secular women..thank you for your channel.
@@astandersjourneytomarriage4907 . Yes I'm praying for exactly that. Salvation of her soul. It's so important but I always get in the way. me me me lol God is so patient.Praise His name!!
Amen! We have been spending time "as a family" as he says, for the past month now. We are taking a family trip out of state in 2 weeks with our girls. He is calling, emailing or texting daily and even asking for prayers and opening up about things he has been struggling with like work and just with life. I have been obedient and creating a safe place for him and holding my thoughts captive ans going to God with my frustrations but I've been standing for a while and I have been wanting to give up. I have never felt like quitting more in my time of standing, then I have wanted to do so in the past 4 months. It's that constant fight of flesh and spirit. I've been even feeling like I would be at peace with just me and God from here on out but God gave me a word at the start of my stand that "the divorce will not happen". He filed and then got it dismissed. I even filed at of frustration and hurt in April of this year when his infidelity was finally revealed, but God moved on my heart and eventually I had it thrown out before he could even be served. This has been a journey. I have learned and grown so much! I was a lukewarm Christian, living my life in a unrighteous manner BUT God. God has totally transformed my life. Thank to for your videos. I keep hearing "any day now" and feel in my spirit that I'm in the home stretch of this thing. I guess that's why Satan is trying harder to get me to give up.
Yes! you are close focus on the moment and not the time! continue to let God take control! Trust me he will reward you. It gets worse before it gets better, because the devil is fighting harder than he had to before! Fight back with prayer and staying grounded with God! Sis! say your marriage will be restored everyday!
@@astandersjourneytomarriage4907 I like the yellow and I like the podcast style. Because it allows your audience to focus on your message. So humble. God bless you so so much for helping other couples
What do I do if I feel he is talking to other women? We are doing all those things you mentioned, it’s so hard for me to not ask or get mad when I think he’s doing something. This ground is so shaken I don’t understand how I got here.
My husband left us - abandoned us a year ago - moved in with another woman ( supposedly not right away) but I don’t believe it. No contact with me or our child for over a year. He filed for dissolution of marriage but it was denied bc he didn’t fill out the paperwork correctly. Recently he’s reached out for our child and has shown up to a few events but he’s also made plans with our child and broke them. He’s angry with me because I don’t want him taking our son yet. He told our child that he’ll have to wait until our divorce is final for him to get him. He needs to fill the documents out correctly first. I really don’t want a divorce but my situation looks & feels so hopeless. I can’t even believe this is the same man I fell in love with 20 + years ago. How do they go on with their lives and just leave the ones who love them the most behind. I had hope but it really looks hopeless. Was your husband with another woman? Oh he says she’s the best thing to happen to him- they were wearing matching goofy shirts claiming he’s mine - she’s mine on them - not even a month after I found out about her. It’s a sad mess. I know God can do anything but it’s hard to hold onto to the hope I once had. Especially when he brings up the divorce - he also said aren’t you ready to change your last name - that’s what I said to him in anger before- so him saying that to me recently makes me think he’s still hurt by me saying that. And that made me think maybe he doesn’t really want a divorce. He brought up a few things I had said that I said that were hurtful. Anyway if you read this I hope it made sense and thanks for listening to me. It’s been a very difficult time but I have grown so close to God & that’s the beauty that’s came from it all this far. I’m grateful for that.
Thank you for sharing your story! Yes my husband was with another woman and he also has a child by her. However, my husband is back now and he said all those things, I want a divorce etc. He was happy with her etc. God brought him back home. God had to fix him first in another video I talked about spirtual warfare. Your husband is not himself, you have to pray the evil spirit away from him. Continue to ask God to give you strength. Also, do not lose hope because once you do that is when the doubt and worry comes in and then you slip away from God. I will be praying for you sis! 💜
What if my H now wanting to get intimate with me for 1 week already after just 2 months of him being loyal to his "girlfriend". He won't even consider talking with me. But suddenly it changed. I felt so happy as I was so devastated before but now i'm seeing a little crack of light in the dark.
My advice to you is it could be a sign or it could be he is upset with the OW. You still have to take it day by day because you get too happy and could be let down again. Just continue to pray and ask God to break the soul tied between your husband and the OW.
@@astandersjourneytomarriage4907 i think it could be he's upset. as he once said she's absolutely irrelevant. I asked him so many questions the third day we're intimate so maybe I pushed him again away. He also try to talk to me longer now when we're on the phone and also not anymore so firm now that he wants to divorce. He just said to think about it it later and we have so much time.
Been divorced 5 months and now we're working towards restoration! He wants to put our marriage and family back together. There looked like no hope it was SO bad, I had even given up... But yes. It's gonna be a long road. We start counseling this week.
Hello there!! This is amazing news!! Yes restoration is on its way and you too will be able to tell your story and help others 🙌🏽
Praise God ♥️🙏🏽✝️
Amen amen amen. God bless you both.
Amen. God bless your union. So great to see this testimony.
Praise our Mighty Father!! May God continue the healing work in you both. 🙏🏼Thank you for sharing and giving us standers hope.
I stay still. The battle belongs to The Lord!
Praise God, Rafael!
Yes indeed!
Glad I came across this video... I'm glad to know I'm on the right track. It's been almost 3 years since I've seen my spouse and since he walked out. I had to shift my prayers.. I started praying that God turns his heart back to Him and His will. My husband recently started reaching out more just to check on us. Yesterday he actually tried to flirt a Lil bit and I think he made a pass at me🤔...😳...I'm lookin real cross-eyed right now because this is so sudden...😂 God is moving! Thank you for this
Sis. This is wonderful news!! Keep praying God is hearing your prayers and sounds like in the midst he has been working on your husband. Keep the Faith and keep praying! 🙌🏽
My husband was texting me all day after he proposed to the OW .. I didn’t say anything abt how ironic it was but I know he was looking for familiarity cuz I was trying to end the messages but he kept going
@@TheAverageServant oh that is a sign
No longer dealing with cold-heartedness. However, the confusion is exhaustive.
yes being confused will drive you crazy
Thank you sis for praying for our marriages and standing for marriage restoration In Jesus Mighty Name! 🙌 This blessed me! I will not give up! God is always moving.
You are so welcome! Thank you for listening
My wife does the hot and cold. And it's driving me nuts its really getting to me. we have no kids so i took the dogs. And her way of saying how are you is asking how are the dogs? She never asks about me . But she never cared even during our 5 yr marriage no i love yous no touching no kind words of effection no love notes so i don't expect much or anything at all from her. If God restores us it's gotta be all new or i wont take her back. she was the coldest person I've ever met and I've dated secular women..thank you for your channel.
Thank you for listening! If you want it to work God can change anyone to be better, you have to ask God to change her heart!
@@astandersjourneytomarriage4907 . Yes I'm praying for exactly that. Salvation of her soul. It's so important but I always get in the way. me me me lol God is so patient.Praise His name!!
@@asamusicdude Yes we have to get out of the way! God is very patience
This is An On Time Word that I Needed to Hear….Thank You Jesus🙌🏾🙏🏾🙌🏾🙏🏾
Yes!!! Yes! Yes!
Amen! We have been spending time "as a family" as he says, for the past month now. We are taking a family trip out of state in 2 weeks with our girls. He is calling, emailing or texting daily and even asking for prayers and opening up about things he has been struggling with like work and just with life. I have been obedient and creating a safe place for him and holding my thoughts captive ans going to God with my frustrations but I've been standing for a while and I have been wanting to give up. I have never felt like quitting more in my time of standing, then I have wanted to do so in the past 4 months. It's that constant fight of flesh and spirit. I've been even feeling like I would be at peace with just me and God from here on out but God gave me a word at the start of my stand that "the divorce will not happen". He filed and then got it dismissed. I even filed at of frustration and hurt in April of this year when his infidelity was finally revealed, but God moved on my heart and eventually I had it thrown out before he could even be served.
This has been a journey. I have learned and grown so much! I was a lukewarm Christian, living my life in a unrighteous manner BUT God. God has totally transformed my life. Thank to for your videos. I keep hearing "any day now" and feel in my spirit that I'm in the home stretch of this thing. I guess that's why Satan is trying harder to get me to give up.
Yes! you are close focus on the moment and not the time! continue to let God take control! Trust me he will reward you. It gets worse before it gets better, because the devil is fighting harder than he had to before! Fight back with prayer and staying grounded with God! Sis! say your marriage will be restored everyday!
🙏🏼 thank u for sharing..please
Pray for my husband robert to get to know and accept Jesus in his life..Amen🙏🏼
you're welcome! will pray for him and you
God bless cuz 💫🙌🏼🙏🏼
Thank you!
Thank you, I am praying .🙏
You're welcome! Yes keep praying!
Thank you! I needed to hear this❤
you're welcome
Oh, Thank you my sister it's always such a blessing to listen to you.You are really a inspiration to me,and thank you for praying with us.
Awww! You are so welcome! Thank you for being such a loyal listener
Thank you for taking the time to make these videos! They help so much.
Awww you're so welcome! Thank you for listening!
Please pray for me to have clarity 🙏🏾
Hi there! Yes I will
I needed to hear this thank you God
Th s is so good thank you
you're welcome
Thank u for your transparency
My pleasure
Amen thank you sister God Bless you
You're so welcome! Thank you
Please tell us how's the right way to pray as you mention there's a way to pray. Thanks.
Hi absolutely! I can do a video for that!
I needed this message at the moment
Glad to help relay the message
When they come back remember the Story of the Prodigal Son, Luke 15 :11-32. The Love of Jesus Christ covers all.
Yes indeeed!
I joined your FB group!
Thank you! I need to revamp it! You just gave me the push to do so!
@@astandersjourneytomarriage4907 I like the yellow and I like the podcast style. Because it allows your audience to focus on your message. So humble. God bless you so so much for helping other couples
@@inthebeginningwasthewordsp9274 wow! thank you so much! I appreciate listening and joining.
Thank you for this, I sometimes have dreams of my husband and I being together again, can I consider this as one of the signs.
You are welcome! It maybe a sign
This has been happening to me too.
What do I do if I feel he is talking to other women? We are doing all those things you mentioned, it’s so hard for me to not ask or get mad when I think he’s doing something. This ground is so shaken I don’t understand how I got here.
My husband left us - abandoned us a year ago - moved in with another woman ( supposedly not right away) but I don’t believe it. No contact with me or our child for over a year. He filed for dissolution of marriage but it was denied bc he didn’t fill out the paperwork correctly. Recently he’s reached out for our child and has shown up to a few events but he’s also made plans with our child and broke them. He’s angry with me because I don’t want him taking our son yet. He told our child that he’ll have to wait until our divorce is final for him to get him. He needs to fill the documents out correctly first. I really don’t want a divorce but my situation looks & feels so hopeless.
I can’t even believe this is the same man I fell in love with 20 + years ago.
How do they go on with their lives and just leave the ones who love them the most behind. I had hope but it really looks hopeless.
Was your husband with another woman? Oh he says she’s the best thing to happen to him- they were wearing matching goofy shirts claiming he’s mine - she’s mine on them - not even a month after I found out about her.
It’s a sad mess. I know God can do anything but it’s hard to hold onto to the hope I once had. Especially when he brings up the divorce - he also said aren’t you ready to change your last name - that’s what I said to him in anger before- so him saying that to me recently makes me think he’s still hurt by me saying that. And that made me think maybe he doesn’t really want a divorce.
He brought up a few things I had said that I said that were hurtful.
Anyway if you read this I hope it made sense and thanks for listening to me. It’s been a very difficult time but I have grown so close to God & that’s the beauty that’s came from it all this far. I’m grateful for that.
Thank you for sharing your story! Yes my husband was with another woman and he also has a child by her. However, my husband is back now and he said all those things, I want a divorce etc. He was happy with her etc. God brought him back home. God had to fix him first in another video I talked about spirtual warfare. Your husband is not himself, you have to pray the evil spirit away from him. Continue to ask God to give you strength. Also, do not lose hope because once you do that is when the doubt and worry comes in and then you slip away from God. I will be praying for you sis! 💜
@@astandersjourneytomarriage4907 Thank you 🙏 I needed to hear that
I’m glad I found your channel❤️
@@littlemisstwiggy4529 you're very welcome 💜
I'm praying for you Little Miss Twiggy 🤗 be encouraged! ❤
What if my H now wanting to get intimate with me for 1 week already after just 2 months of him being loyal to his "girlfriend". He won't even consider talking with me. But suddenly it changed. I felt so happy as I was so devastated before but now i'm seeing a little crack of light in the dark.
My advice to you is it could be a sign or it could be he is upset with the OW. You still have to take it day by day because you get too happy and could be let down again. Just continue to pray and ask God to break the soul tied between your husband and the OW.
@@astandersjourneytomarriage4907 i think it could be he's upset.
as he once said she's absolutely irrelevant. I asked him so many questions the third day we're intimate so maybe I pushed him again away. He also try to talk to me longer now when we're on the phone and also not anymore so firm now that he wants to divorce. He just said to think about it it later and we have so much time.
What about no kids?
Then he is reaching out just because that is a sign also. When they call o text you are on their mind.
I agree, what about no kids and absolutely no contact, and they act like your dead!
@@unshakeableinprayer8841 then I would say change your prayers. Ask God for more communication from your spouse.
@@unshakeableinprayer8841 same here. No kids, no communication and my husband lives in another city. 😞💔
@@LizPaul72 I’m so sorry to hear that, that has to be incredibly hard