Divided paths: finding acceptance as elderly gay men in Hong Kong
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Grey and Pride is a Hong Kong NGO that serves the city’s elderly LGBT community by campaigning for local gay rights through various activities. Among its members are 81-year-old Ng Mui and 77-year-old Shmily, who have carved differing paths in their coming-out journey. After getting negative responses from past media interviews, Ng has grown circumspect in revealing his sexual orientation. But Shmily is intent on pursuing an open life being gay.
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I feel like it’s always helpful when elderly people, specifically someone who is 80 years old, come out and talk about these things. It helps dispel the idea that all of this is somehow new.
nope not new, notice that 2 cities in the bible were destroyed because of it
@@the-BOR-dojo dude stop
@@the-BOR-dojo Your opinion still invalid
@@the-BOR-dojo as a fellow Christian, please kindly read this
religiousinstitute.org/denom_statements/homosexuality-not-a-sin-not-a-sickness-part-i/ religiousinstitute.org/denom_statements/homosexuality-not-a-sin-not-a-sickness-part-ii-what-the-bible-does-and-does-not-say/
@@the-BOR-dojo if you're a true follower of Christ, why would you send hatred to people? Didn't he said that we should love our neighbors just as how we love ourselves? hayst... Seems like you need to re-read the Bible and reflect
These elderly people are brave to show who they really are. And some of them are beautiful.
You mean the twisted in the head
So sad to hear how Ng Mui’s interviews by the media had twisted his words/meaning and now isolated from others.
Wait what? Elaborate
@@bug1390 what I am referring to is at 5.3 minutes of the video.
These old men are just so sweet and adorable. I can’t help but want to give them a big hug. 🥺💖
AND....🤪
J rdddir e I just g to ag gli😮f
It hurts Noone to be yourself. This is awesome. My mom didn't accept me when I first came out. It was a neat death experience that reminded her I was still her child. Salute to all the open minds and hearts that accepts people for who they are. Thank you for sharing.
Happy she came to her senses for you !!
Yea you are true. Wish you all the best things in life. 👍👍
It must’ve been so hard for them back then 😢 get it kings!!
Jhrs
Queens! 😄
This has brought me to tears, I just found this so heartfelt because no matter what people think they embraced themselves and even LGBTQ is not as opened in Hong Kong, I’m glad to know that there is still people who supported the LGBTQ community.
I really like Schmily’s carefree attitude ❤️ Just smiles and laughters, i have so much to learn from him
I hope they live the rest of their lives in happiness ☁️🌈☁️
That’s the rainbow not the pride flag
Rainbow doesn't represent gayness...it's the colour of all the races
@@charlietube7165
Ah yes, blue and purple skinned humans exist
@@jiminlosthisjams8800 I guess you don't know the nature enough
@@charlietube7165
Lol looks like someone doesn't know what the colors of human skin are
When dealing with Asian culture, it's tough for the LBGTQ people to come forth. It's sad, I would wholly support them. T^T
They're to flashy and it get people annoyed.
@@condorX2 couldn't agree more
@@condorX2, exactly
I will not support it
@@oizorref2615, respect to you.
I support them a hundred percent !
Do you like men?
@@charlietube7165 how is that relevant to the comment?
@@selinachen7795 do you like woman
@@charlietube7165 im a man and i like men 😉
dont come for me.
I‘m a man who likes men, do you have a problem with that?
I love this. They even showed poly old man
They are all so sweet 🥺❤️❤️❤️❤️ amazing individuals
Yes they are sweet, yes they are amazing but I do not need to witness such ... things, they shouldn't be in the spotlight
@@Dumb-Comment what `things`?
I really love this documentary, though it feels sometimes happy and sometimes sad, but best part it that those grandpas are happy in their life, they should stay strong!! And the rest of LGBTQIA+ community too.
No one should be judged for the person they choose for their love
Love is love afterall.
All praise for those legendaries! 🏳️🌈
Sadly many parts of the world still has a very long way to go when it comes to acceptance of the LGBTQ community.
Everyone should have the right to be who they really are without fear and judgement. As long as they are not hurting themselves or anybody else. Everyone should have the right to love who they want to love. ❤️
Why people want to control other people
Let people be people
They ain't harming anyone
•· grateful to #伍梅 哥哥 & #施魅力 哥哥 for embracing the basic human rights of being in the diversity of LOVE..🌈
Old people are just so wholesome 🥺
Jesus bless you. He loves you. You are never alone with him. I wish you well. This is hurtful to see people treat others poorly.
No. He said: go home and sin no more (u must repent first)
@@catfat3291 amen
Pretty sure the bible disagrees with gayness.
What a beautiful, enlightening, and a bit sad film.
I hope the world continues to opens its eyes and see the things that people have swept under the rug due to being considered undesirable and unpleasant.
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This was so beautiful 😭💕 I wish them all the love this world can offer ♥️
I liked the Hello Kitty part 😄
Pls. Pray the rosary to free all countries from war, diseases,calamities, hunger and climate change.pray for peace and love on all families and homes....
the real term of "thief in the night" 😂😂 and "coming out the closet"
Beautiful story! Seeing others be proud and visible gives me and others the strength to do so! Thankyou kings and queens of Hong Kong rainbow 🌈 community 💖💕
Happiness is the way and how you think to make your life happy ...
When the dislike ratio is nearly 20%….People still Be Purposely covering their eyes when it comes to doing research
He is too sweet
We don't deserve him
How beautiful ❤💛💚💙💜
We all eat LIES
When our hearts are HUNGRY
Geez that's deep....
Is there a problem with the audio?
I did not expect shmily stands for see how much I love you, it's a great name tho
This had me smile, laugh and cry. I Stan❤❤❤😘
These people are beautiful.
Shmily appeared in the movie, Twilight's Kiss (Shuk Shuk).
so sad :( im female but not interested in hello kitty. i think its not just female, but how old you were when hello kitty came out bring nostalgia and certain memories?
Very deep topic not easy too discuss
What's so difficult about the topic?
@@shon3511 Homosexuality is taboo in China
@@allantommy139 and we can make it normal
wow hard. have to struggle to find housing. and am still struggling to find acceptance. being old is hard. they still the same person. wait did his parents accept him before they died?
Sad& beautiful at the same time
What's wrong with the world today!?
I know right. There is so many prejudice and bigotry in this world. But I'm glad the elderly man is living his truth. 😄❤🌈
Why is everyone saying numbers?
Its like saying, "I second that." Means, you agree to the idea.
@@_RoseDawson_ Thank you for answer🌻
@@_RoseDawson_ where did this came from or how this came about? Thanks in advance!
@@billinsf88 it's a common thing la
I mean. When you agree to an idea ,
You would say ," I second the motion"
In comment section
If people comment 1,2,3,4 so on
It means, they too, agree...
@@_RoseDawson_ oh, i see. I always know “I second”. Thank you!
Bravo to these people talking about their lives!
Stay strong man!
This is wonderful
I love them 🏳️🌈❤️
❤️🧡💛💚💙💜
LGBTQIA+ worldwide should be united.. we are being persecuted, killed, ostracized, demonized.... lets fight for our rights!!!! long live all LGBTQIA+ we are in the rights side of history... love lots from the Philippines
nah
@@oizorref2615 homophobic
@@deadinside8719 heterophobic
Very empowering!!!!
Why are people so mean.
Shmily rules. I like him, I wish I could be his friend.
Be positive and never give up!!!!
3:20 King! King! Yaaaaaaaas! ❤
Beautiful and brave!!
After all its biological problem, everyone has to live same life... I would definitely support NG mui and shmily ❤️for their hard work...
No it's not problem
It's natural
@@deadinside8719 my intention was that only, that it's natural I was just relating with biological process.
Im trying to fight off the homophobes!
I’ll fight with you!
Same. These ppl need to get a life
I will fight against you
Hopefully Government will understand n Help LGBT community n Accept them.
Same kitty kertain in my home ❤️❤️❤️
❤
When he got the makeup on look like a Priscilla Chang one's of the EP covers!!!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
front!
Oh
Stay strong...
Yes we Stan hello kitty ^^
😍💐♥️
Intention does not justify means
Me too❤
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They wanted to be accepted for who they are but they were first to reject themselves.
They were rejected more than they rejected themselves
Eeeee
我也是我很喜欢朋友大叔和大爷在一起玩爱爱真的非常过瘾和爽快❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
7th
1
41%
Muslim and
RIP.
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6th
✝️✝️✝️✝️✝️✝️ ☪️☪️☪️☪️☪️☪️☪️☪️
Amen
Go off sis
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thats haram
u are haram u haramkhor
神仙 妖怪 谢谢
Just move to the US -_-
You are so naive
@@dalonir7472 says the person that likes their own comment
@@user-hc3kk7qv7o I have the notification someone liked my comment but okay 🤦🏽♀️
@@dalonir7472 still,the US welcomes him more. Hong Kongers don't care about lgbt politics, it's better for him to move of he wishs.
Also,lgbt people aren't suffering like some Third Estate before the French Revolution. People are sick of the 'equality' to 'supremacy' lgbt logic. Look at the GoArmy Recruitment video and it's like and dislike ratio. And watch the reaction videos' comments. Minority is minority,not the majority.
@@user-hc3kk7qv7o what if all his family is in China, what if his family members are terminally ill and he needs to stay with them. What if they don’t have money to pay rent in the us. What if they don’t Facilitate to have a proper paying job here. What if they don’t even have the funds to move. What if they get hate crimed here due to the spiking Asian hate crimes. So on and so on. It’s not as easy as you think.
They must be wearing diapers all the time😂😂😂
99% depressione
Seek help
Why are you commenting about yourself ?
Yup..
Get a life. You in the closet huh ??
@@STKTSTKT is it wrong? Do my word hurt your feelings?
Now I agree with annexing Hong Kong
Has President Xi given us the Proper Guidance about how to deal with the homosexual minority yet?
Trans to me.
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Isn’t communism great!
Father of corona china🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Finding acceptance is a bull sheet
🤮
What’s so disgusting?
Assalamualaikum i invite everyone to gain more knowledge about Islam ❤️🕋❤️
I would love to! I probably just won't convert to Islam since I'm a Christian 😅
🕋🤲🏼
@@sugarboohoo U are invited
Anytime , anywhere.
INSHALLAH u will also know about. 'wht is true Christianity'🙂🙂
@@Max-ks6yg 🙂🙂
no need, 7th century fairytale is useless.
Being a LGBT is people own personal decision but teaching and promoting LGBT to Kids in Schools are totally wrong.
Why can’t they teach homosexuality in schools ? It’s extremely common and normal.
@@dalonir7472 in elementary and junior high school? How can 99.9% majority of us should follow the 0.1% views about sexuality?
I'm pretty sure you can't choose to be lgbt, you're born with it. And what's wrong with teaching that a kind of people exist. Other than sexuality, they're perfectly normal people.
@@naurasal9165 0.1?? You obviously made those statistics up
@@naurasal9165 Just admit that you're a Homophobe 😵
REPENT!! This is not your true identity. You were created in God's image. He has destined you for far more greater. You are Kings and Queens, according to God's love and mercy towards us. Don't let this world deceive you into believing in a false image of yourself.
go back to your cave bigot😣😣😣👊👊👊
I don't give a rat's backside about your religious cult. Religion can be full of hypocrisy, bigotry and hatred. The bible endorses violence.
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