I've been with my husband for 27 years. The best advice I can offer is to keep everyone out of your business. What happens within your marriage is strictly between you and your spouse.
@@sistarwande6213 from what I heard, I believe he wanted kids and she wasn’t ready at the moment. She was too busy trying to work and revamp her career.
Marriage is hard work. My husband and I started marriage counseling before we got married. Once we got married, we decided to do post marriage counseling. This is our second marriage for both of us. Wanted to make sure I got it right this time around.
@@BernicePezuzu Not sure about this… Counseling of any kind is good to have, even when you feel like you don’t need it. It’s important to have someone unbiased to talk to
Sometimes when two people come together who are fundamentally different both parties individually feel like they have compromised so much to the point of losing their own identity to fit others expectations. You still love that person but love isn't enough in the end.
We've been married for 30 years. It's not easy. It's hard work. We were blessed to endure the challenges and the heartaches. We never gave up. It was well worth it. We couldn't have a better union. Our advice, keep folk out ya marriage.
I’m not married, yet! But my parents have always told me the same thing when I do become married. I think because they are in the spot light it makes it so much more difficult. Marriage is a ministry and it’s going to come with a level of battles especially when you’re on a certain platform.
🎉Congrats to 30 years!🎉 I am also hopeful for a long-lasting marriage in the future. I know it will not only be easy, but it's a beautiful thing to witness a happily married couple endure the tests of time. May God continue to bless your union with many more beautiful years to come! 😊
I don’t think people realize that covered up or not, Christian or not, divorce rates are at approximately 50%. We don’t know what happened in their marriage. Sweep in front of your own house before you start sweeping in front of someone else’s.
this is what i cant stand about this new social media generation. they really dont seem to understand everyhing isnt always what it seems. social media is NOT REAL LIFE! its a highlight reel of the great parts of life & used as a way for people to cover up whats really going on its crazy
You can marry a church girl and STILL end up with a failed marriage. Relationships consist of humans which means those humans bring flaws and baggage. It's just sad that they broadcasted how great their marriage was and how everybody else should proceed. Now it looks like a sham
Eaxcatly.. church or not BOTH hage their own relationship with God and include him in the marriage for it to nw9rk. Titles mean nothing when you're imperfect
Darling it called the devil somewhere down the line they let the devil in their marriage one thing I realize these days with marriage as soon as the problems start every body quit nobody know how to hold on and fight. Sometime when problem in your life you gotta keep still and be silent and let God work it out and sometimes when you do that things will fall into place The devil don’t wanna see nobody happy and people must realize when you are a Christian the devil is going to always try to fight you for you to feel that God is not real, and him the devil is real sometime God will keep silent just to see if you’re gonna break , sometime God let the devil put us through these test to see how we will stand up in everything you do in your life you have to have faith and believe that there is a God in heaven and he will bring us out of everything.
I so tired of people deeming who is a Christian or who is not based on how you dress or look. I know someone in my family who believes a woman will go straight to hell if she does not wear pantyhose to church. The Bible says that man looks at outward appearance but God looks on the heart. Some the most covered up, conservative women in church are scandalous. I've seen it.
Covering up doesn't mean you are a perfect Christian or that you will not fall, God does care about our Physical appearance in terms of how we dress that's why we are commanded to be modest and that's true we shouldn't judge who's Christian or not based on one thing that's against God's will cause everybody is struggling with some sin and everybody does fall sometimes, just because somebody has a problem with lying doesn't mean they aren't Christian just like somebody who's struggling with modesty but we should never make Christians feel like it's okay to be modest cause God sees their heart etc, God is clear that He wants us to be modest in His word
Nah! The Bible says if a woman professes to be saved she should dress in modest apparel. Why do we act like being saved doesn’t come with rules and regulations?
I personally know that divorce is hard. But frankly, the reason they are divorcing is none of our business nor concern and we shouldn't be speculating. I wish them both health and happiness.
That would be 100% true.............IF........................THEY didn't put all of this infront of the world to see and consume. And doing so not just once, but continually. That makes this completely different.
Meagan is such a sweetheart , from what I can see . She didn’t deserve to be ridiculed then , and she certain shouldn’t be now! Hopefully, they both are moving forward behind the scenes in a peaceful manner.
It made sense when she stated in the interview “ I was at the tail-end of a rocky relationship, and I thought man that is the the kind of guy I wish I could marry.” Most people will not admit that sometimes what is good for you is not what you actually desire. I honestly, would not go out of my way to make myself fit in a place that does not fit my size.
@@Madajai88 yeah, sounds like a combination of things. She's had a good career, however is is type-casted so perhaps she wanted to be seem differently, yet that didn't happen.
You're absolutely right. And I don't force anything to happen or to try to feel a certain way. He could be a good man but maybe he is not the man for me. And that is okay.
I agree with the person who responded that you can't make something that Isn't a right fit, fit. The Holy Ghost in you will discern that. Church people can be critical that's why God says "put your trust in him". Megan Good if you get a chance to read this. God works every thing for good for those whom he loves. You have a testimony. Be Blessed. God loves you.
It’s not our business BUT when you sell books and host events about the bliss of marriage, people become invested. I really would love for people to be open in the end as they are in the beginning.
Ideally this is hard, dressing provocative, do intimate scenes, and a preacher wife doesn't mix no matter how good a person is... the church community will tear it up because image is important. No telling the backlash and side eyes at church. It's unfortunate yet not surprising...
Image is important to who? Is your faith a product you are selling to an audience? You the ones wearing "ash and sackcloth"? Coz the Bible says that type has "RECEIVED YOUR REWARD ON EARTH". Just live your life in accordance to what the Spirit speaks in you and most importantly MIND YOUR BUSINESS.
It is not even just about image. Better yet, it is about serial scenes being done, is introducing evelish spirits into oneself. Even though there is no intercoursing involved. The devil is sneaky. It is an every day battle. I truly wish that they would've just separate and work on them selves and also with God separately. God will prevail.
@@jakestroll6518Let's be real. Image is important to everyone...no matter what you believe. How you present yourself says alot about you. Is it right? Maybe not but it's reality. Also the bible actually does speak on being modest in your dress/attire. So if you're the wife of a preacher but you dress sexy and provocatively, you shouldn't be surprised about ppl side eyeing you or shading you. Not right but very real.
I mean, we’re talking about apparel, clothes that Megan was wearing, when you have modestly dressed women sitting front row at church who are sleeping with married pastors, pretending to be so Godly, and looking the other way when that happens, but these same judgmental churchgoers will try to crucify Megan for wearing what she wants, while at the same time Megan is still trying to be a good person. Make it make sense. I think Devon didn’t like Megan’s career choices, how it might make him look, and gave her an ultimatum, hence the reason why he filed for divorce and not Megan. It’s a shame but so-called church people are wild out here with the judgement. It’s only apparel!
True . But why add in the 'trying to be a good person' at the end then . Those women in 'church' are 'trying' to be good women too , but the ones you brought up are just failing . Just like Meagan could have failed but we dont see everything behind closed doors 🚪👀 If it was only apparel & he defended her on it. Then why are we here rn ?.. Also , him defending her was prolly him just trying to do the right thing in the moment as opposed to how he rlly feels . Ritious for her but prolly not genuine . Evidently . Just imo tho
Tell it! I'm getting so sick of these " Good Church Folks," thinking their better than everybody else! Most of them are doing exactly what everybody else is doing; none of us are sin free!
Marriage is not for the faint! I can’t even imagine being in the public eye. The woman who came for Megan was wrong. I’m glad her husband defended her. Prayers for them.
YOU my dear are extremely misguided and even detached from reality, LITERALLY. If you actually think and believe what you said above. Megan Good and the clown she married, both think that, and now they're divorced BECAUSE of that. Sad.
The woman was not wrong in what she said, her delivery was. The Church should've handled it differently and sadly we miss our mark too often. What we the Church should've done was welcome her and then usher her into change by example. The Church may have had a hand in the demise of their relationship...
She's worn more revealing things prior to her marriage, but she did marry someone who has a title in the church, so she would have to dress appropriately, no matter where she goes,
She just doesn’t want to be First Lady and fully commit to marriage with a pastor. She still loves the Hollywood lifestyle and doesn’t have the same convictions has her husband
I pray that they are reconciled, not only for the sake of their marriage, the commitment they made before God but for Christ’s name sake. May they go back to the truth of a Gods word and be led only by the Holy Spirit.
You love how he stood up for her unwifty was. You need help. In the name of Jesus he had a simp minute just then. When that old school was telling her the truth and they was the one with money at Sunday and started leaving and their money to. He straightening up and told her I'm out.
Sad thing is the lady is correct and whether she's s Christian or not, she needs to line up with the word of God. I would never want a husband like him. He's just a cliche pastor and needs to cut that out with in the name of Jesus but it don't line up with the scriptures just like the whole beginning of the marriage was unscriptural. Both are just two celebrities and fake Christians.
The same reason he "stood up for her", against something that is objectively WRONG and toxic, along with something that is severely disrespectful and harmful to him, and something that is completely destructive and deadly to their and any relationshop.....is the exact reason they're divorced now. And SOMEHOW they, you and many other females here, seem to not be noticing that VERY obvious fact, Lastly God is not going to deal with satanic people who want to PRETEND to be Christians, yet secretly and via their behavior and public presentations of themselves, be literal satanists. God knows the truth and is not fooled by people weak lies, deceptions and acts. Pure insanity in this comment section.
As for the woman in that audience who was trying to call Megan out for the way she dresses was foul AF! She’s the type of woman that would blame the women if they were assaulted by a man. Do better lady!!!!
@@trishonya She didn't sound drunk to me, just a heavy or lazy tongue. But either way, drunk or lazy tongue she could have kept her mouth closed. If God accepts sinners, we all have a journey and things happen in our own time. Whatever happened to giving someone grace. Sometimes in Hollywood, you don't get to make your own decisions. And that could even mean what you wear.
What I found fascinating in this was the fact that GOD told Megan, Devon was her husband but Devon didn't receive the same instruction from GOD and he is the pastor. That right there told me they were unequally yoked from the start because GOD will never instruct one partner about getting married to a specific person and NOT tell the other. I wish them both well in their new journeys.
Omg I was saying the same thing!! The scripture tells us that God hates divorce. According to the word of God you don’t divorce because you have an issue or problem. They even said no one was at fault so I’m assuming no one was unfaithful. It appears they made a decision out of their flesh and that’s not being spirit lead. That’s being flesh lead. Being married is a ministry! Not an idea or option! This hurts my heart because we need to seek God! Any time there’s a divorce, God is not at the center for one or the other, or both!
Why is it so important to some women to wear revealing clothing? It seems to be a very sensitive and contentious subject. Is it worth it? Are women wearing revealing clothes in inappropriate situations in order to cause controversy? No one is criticizing women for wearing sexy clothes to night clubs. We're talking about church and she was very visible. This is a matter of pride and a rebellious spirit.
Thank you!!! I know this video is old but I agree… and God says to dress modest. Everything Megan does is of a rebellious spirit. She loves to look sexy and turn heads. I remember when she used to wear black spandex all the time. My ex said a few times is that all she wears is spandex and tight clothes? She’s grown up in Hollywood, said that she wants to be taken seriously as an actress, like on the cover of rolling magazine but she’s on the front in lingerie… Way too many worldly Christian women keep defending her right to wear what she wants and that’s wrong. All her roles except for a few, she’s the sexy girl, the sex scenes and not love scenes. Even in the new movie with Tyler, still dressing sexy and she’s supposed to be going through something but still wants to look good in every shot. Megan is doing what promiscuous women do, saying they can have sex with however many men, because it’s their body, she’s doing that with her attire. Objectifying herself like other women, but they say they don’t want men to objectify them. She doesn’t want to be a modest chaste woman at all. She has a problem with the church because there are rules God put in place and she doesn’t to follow it, she wants to be that “it” girl. It’s like she’s uncomfortable in covering up but feels better in harlot clothing but saying she loves Jesus and God but it doesn’t reflect. She said she doesn’t feel like she’s doing anything wrong and God looks at the heart. One foot in the world and one foot in with God. It’s definitely a rebellious spirit. Not attacking her, she’s pretty but cover up. Even at Johnathan court, her outfit, her breast was out, always wanting to make sure that even in the worst situation, she looks good.
Facts people has to understand want's you get married you has to give your life to the lord.and to your spouse you can't do the same thing's that you use to
Right its only hard if you can't let go of your ways, not everyone is stuck in there ways tho so marriage/relationships comes easier because they are serious & want to please the person & spend time with them. I spend everyday with my partner & he is everything we don't care about worldy things, relgion, other people, or whatever else people get tripped up on. We care about each other period, it really has to be yall against the world & you should have respect for your partner theres things you just dont do & Megan should of gave up some of those things christian or not no matter what her man was saying.
I don’t believe marriage is “Hard” when two people are selfish it’s hard… I’ve been married 26yrs and I cringe when I hear ppl say it’s “hard” or a “struggle” I’m like not my marriage.. I didn’t get married to “struggle” did we have ups & downs Absolutely, but we love & respect each and communicate honestly. Most importantly we Keep People Out Our Business…
@@d.c.constant7731 Downs mean struggle. Life is up and down. Life isn’t easy. You proved my point. Marriage is very difficult. It’s has up and down moments. There is struggle. Dating is fun and exciting. No real problems. Everything is separate and easy.
One thing is true. While it lasted, they did appear to be a true couple, especially for celebrities. It was good to see Megan can do a relationship and it doesn't have to be all about her. So as far as "celebrities" go, they did very well. They enhanced each others image, it didn't look fake or forced.
Meagan seems like such a sweet & caring person. She’s never in drama and doesn’t bother anyone. BET really tried to play her. I don’t know what happened within their marriage but I wish them both nothing but the best. Devon more than likely wants more (family) & Meagan is getting back into her career & doesn’t want children RN.
@@SuckerPunch92 ain't no damn way a pastor can truly face his church after his wife is on national TV eating other man behind on TV. Sorry sister no man, will ever put up with that
Exactly. For example, Instagram made a whole big deal about Tahiry Jose from LHHNY saying she want a Megan and Pardi kind of love. Like how are you at your big age looking for couple goals in a couple more than 15 years your junior? 🤦🏾♀️. Any woman over 35 looking towards celebrities as couple goals need their heads checked.
@@CandieP I saw that on TSR too. I agree. I don't think we should be looking at anyone for couple goals. Create our own goals. We're all humans and have our shortcomings in one way or the other. People will put on a perfect image in public and their private life be in shambles and turmoil behind closed doors.
@@LilithsCosmicLounge i belive some people can be comfortable with women being confident in their sexuality but does that ken it should be posted every 5 seconds on social media. I love Chloe music as well as Lizzo's but I can seem to enjoy the IG page without them waving they azz up and down my timeline. Like chill and be more versatile and creative with you posts is what some of us are saying. But I don't have to follow I know that but I still love their music, so if people are pressed they need to unfollow that don't mean you don't support just mena you'll be the last to know when new ish come out.
@@LilithsCosmicLounge The word of God says nothing about anyone showing that they are comfortable in their sexuality but it does speak clearly on Modesty (1 Timothy 2:9-10, 1 Corinthians 12:23, 1 Peter 3:3-4)
I’ve been here so I’m speaking from experience, but you CAN NOT give up your entire self for a relationship. Meghan always seem sad to me. Not sure what is is but I hope she finds her happiness
So true, she always seems sad, I think she's trying to find in someone else something she hasn't given to herself. She needs to do a lot of work on herself.
I remember my hair stylist met her years ago and said how Meg was very insecure and shy. She stayed patting her face in the mirror in fear of looking “oily”… it’s crazy because they said she’s so pretty in person with beautiful clear skin
Marriage is difficult enough and love is tested in so many ways. I wouldn't wish a public relationship on anyone. Why ppl can't love and let love be, is beyond me😔 I'm sorry we put them through all that, shame on us.
They appeared to be such a lovely couple and it hurt my heart to see Meagan placed in such embarrassing and hurtful situations. She maybe was so uncomfortable in that marriage, not because of DeVon but because she would have been seen as the wife of a pastor or 1st lady of a church, the pressure maybe was a lot for her to handle.
I like to see Meagan & them as a couple dearly. And if I can remember they used to call her Gold Digger( her acting style in the movie Eva). I don't know what happen behind closed doors, but I am not that surprised about the divorce, other than it took too long to happen. I think Meagan called & attracted that attention on her. Looking at it on a corporal pt of view, regardless of your beliefs, there's a place, and time to dress & act certain way. I think that She wouldn't meet with the president, go to a job interview showing up that much skin. So why must it be acceptable as a Pastor's wife. Where's the level of classy & decency? Not all nonsense are appropriate or should be accepted as beautiful. Also, love requires comprehension, communication, compatibility or consideration; so if it was a problem for his ministry, why couldn't she adjust & made a little sacrifice for both of them. Beautiful, Gravity & priorities in life are important and needed in order to be successful. Hopefully, they can reconsider this decision, since they believe that God put them together. Because if it is a divine connection, there should not be a separation between them. GOD NEVER LIES OR GOES AGAINST HIS WORDS!
The problem is you shouldn’t dress based on what award you are giving out. If you are a true believer your walk should not be dependent on what crowd or environment you are in. I don’t think Meagan understood this therefore her being married to a preacher grew more difficult.
@@BriaBarrows True but it's a daily walk with the help of The Holy Spirit. We try because we love the LORD and without Him we can't. It took me a longgggg time to stop smoking and drinking but it is a daily walk and 5years sober now and all glory to God. Blessings to you and Happy New Year.
The lady criticizing Megan sounded like a big ole outta shape bitter lady. Women like that want other women to cover up not for religious reasons but selfish reasons aka insecurity. Beautiful women who own it make other women who are not on the same level feel a way, same as they make men feel a way. If anything cover up for your safety and evil eye than "religious" reasons. Religion is now owned by man and driven by man. They act like religion is simply how much skin u show or don't show yet they sin in every other aspect. I personally never hurt or used anyone. I'm a good member of society and have a good helpful job as a teacher. I'm also a virgin at 29! And yet people only focus on my clothes. Not because of the clothes itself either but how I look in it. And they try to bring god into it. No it's not God it's u that feels a way and has a problem with it.
Exactly, you couldn’t have said it better. I am still a virgin at 24 and I grew up super religious and I had the same ridicule as Megan from the age of 15 because I dressed in a manner to embrace my feminine energy, in clothes they would sexualize. But the funny thing was the girls who were fully covered up and seemed innocent were the ones having sex and getting pregnant. Life is all about discipline and not over indulging in self gratification. The way religious organizations choose to measure holiness, purity, wholesomeness, and goodness is warped. I blame society as a whole for socializing young women from a young age to be ashamed of embracing their unique feminine energy.
MashaAllah for waiting until you meet the one sis. While I think that my religion is definitely not owned by a man but by the creator himself I agree that a lot of people just care about people sinning outwardly rather than what others do everyday. Clothes are just clothes but all of us son everyday, people need to worry about the own sins they commit daily regardless of what we are or aren’t wearing.
I totally agree. I am Muslim so I choose to cover but I would never judge another woman for her choices because that is Allah's job. Too many judgemental hypocrites in the world.
I saw an interview where he said he wasn't looking for an actress, someone who smoked, and something else. And then him mentioning that he thought Meagan Good liked him makes me think maybe his flesh influenced him. Can't let something that's a season--celibacy (though big--espcially in Hwood) --influence a life decision. This was an experience and it seemed they tried but in reality they just wasn't equally yoked. They both seem like sweet people though.
Being just celebrated 15 years on my 2nd marriage. The Lord told us, If you love me you’ll keep my commandments. The only tough areas we have had in our marriage was obeying what God said how we should treat each other. We decided and agreed to let Gods word have the final say so. Best decision we ever made for our marriage 🙂🙂🙌🏾
@@darliciatv8040 so giving a testimony of what two people who decide to do marriage Gods way is gloating in your eyes. Please tell me how your marriage is going????
I am sorry to hear this. I do feel culture and media did take its toll on their marriage. I do believe they were unequally yoked. Although Meagan is a believer, her transformation never crossed over into the career life. I believe she made the choice to continue her persona despite her husband’s position in the church world. Unfortunately people don’t look at your heart ❤️ God does. People look at what you wear, what you project. She is a sex symbol in the world and a Pastor’s wife but you have to choose what will dominate. You can’t be both. Praying for their emotional healing ❤️🩹
Amen my sentiments exactly. The word Christian really have folks flawed in their thinking & not look at the whole picture. If folks really knew where the word Christian derived from this young lady would've been accepted the way God has.
Agreed 100% they were going in two different directions. When I saw the trailer for her new series I knew in my spirit that was not a good move for her marriage. She is not a first lady and I believe that’s what he needs/wants
Thank you for your comment. I think it's one of the most accurate. Unfortunately, she is considered a "sex symbol" and she was not trying to change that.
Lailah is so respectful- she said thanks for watching! No, thank you Lailah for doing all this hard work to present us this information, we really appreciate you 💖
@@AliLeBohemian Unfortunately, Megan did not appear to want marriage. She was dressing like a worldly woman with no respect for the church. She failed to understand that as the wife of a pastor, the first lady should be covered up or dress modestly.
People are knocking the church for having standards. Modest apparel is a Godly principle, not a church principle. But further, we all dress for our roles in life out of respect and expression. Imagine if you went to court and the judge was dressed revealing - would you trust his/her judgement? Or the doctor handing down a diagnosis while cleavage is out, or interviewing with HR personnel dressed like they were going to the club. Let alone a preacher's wife, upholding the Word of God but always dressed scantily clad and actively participating in career-driven endeavors that emulate sex with different men. Our attire is an extension of our self expression and it communicates for us to add or detract from our credibility of who we say we are and the roles we are in each day. And our actions speak way louder. Megan is beautiful and she's sweet, but let's face it, she wasn't ready for that level of commitment because it takes real maturity. She's still growing. Look at Harlem - that's the real Megan - Beautiful, intelligent, confused about love and relationships.
They’re knocking the church because those same church women be sinning and cheating and doing worse than someone just wearing something a little revealing. To me I think there’s jealously and they’re upset that she got the type of man that they wanted
Ummm notice Meagan said you can mind your business or CORRECT IN LOVE. It wasn't the correction, it was the harsh and disrespectful way they went about it, and pretty much attacked her. And honestly, they don't know her and it wasn't their place.
They were just not compatible. As a preacher's wife you are expected to have some sort of decorum. Criticism of that should be expected. You're not simply a Christian but your are wife of a "man of God." You're held to a pedestal. So, yes you're expected to carry yourself a particular way. Their problem was Devon knew that wasn't Meagan's calling and Meagan knew that too. They were a mismatch, and both of them are at fault because they knew that. If people were critiquing the way a wife of a Muslim minister presented themselves in a way that wasn't palatable, no one would question it because we hold every other religion sacred except Christianity. I'm not validating the way people critiqued her, but that fact that they did critique her because the way she shows up as a preacher's wife is expected. Similarly it would be expected that spouses of religious leaders/teachers of other religions hold themselves in a way that is consistent with the tenets of that religion. If you can't do that step down and live a life that wouldn't welcome that type of criticism in connection with religious beliefs as a leader or a spouse of a leader.
Now I understand why in the bible it’s written “a christian should not marry a non believer”. Before I thought that it wasn’t a big deal to be married to a non believer.
The church needs to stop judging. This is ridiculous. It seemed like they both really love each other and its unfortunate that this happened but I respect them both for making the decision to split instead of being miserable
When a woman chooses to dress in revealing attire, SOMETHING is driving her to do it. There is an ENERGY behind this behaviour, & it is this energy that the Bible has a problem with. If you are showing the shape & skin of your breast, the entire shape of your body, what purpose can that serve other than to elicit sexual energies from all that view you? A woman can change the entire energetic frequency of a room by entering it wearing attire that solicits sex. By their fruits you shall know them, meaning if what you want men & women to do is to enter a sexual frame of mind when they see you, you are basically a seductress, & why are you trying to seduce when you are suppose to be doing God’s work? I’m not even a Christian & I know this.
@@succatti73 it's about the truth. Forget delivery. This is not something that is new. It's not like people just started talking. We are in a world where people now define their own Christianity to fit the lifestyle they want.
No one has the blue print to doing life "right." You learn and love through experience. I still hold them both in high regards. As Christians, we have to stop trying to embarrass people. Even when we are wrong, God is empowering, His love motivates change. Many of us dress the role at church, but our hearts are so dirty, hateful and mean you can't even live a fruitful life.
I was happy for them when they got married. I’m happy for them now that they are divorcing. They are making decisions that are best for them. Good for that! Too many people do the unnecessary and are miserable. So happiness to them both!
@@jimpodolski7871 and that’s the hardest part. It is covenant with God. That is why prayer is important and for us not to judge. That’s God’s job. We are all on the outside. If a person isn’t truly anchored in God … well then how valid is the covenant!
I live by this quote in my marriage: Marriage exposes, purifies, and refines all of a couple's flaws like no other relationship can...and God designed marriage to make both people holy instead of happy. No wonder marriage can be tough!
That is a great comment and observation you made. Yes marriage will bring out all the baggage out in the open. God brings 2 people together to make them Holy not Happy! However learning to be Holy will bring Happiness! 🙌❤🙌
I agree Its all about the Lords will being done, because anything done outside his will for sure will not stand..Holiness and righteousness is a requirement not an option💯🙌🏾🙏🏾
@@adi7031 because most are doing it their way instead of the Lords way.. people now and days run off their feelings...Instead of the way God attend for it to be.. Other words they lack.. self control ,and patients
@@cierra9520 it's just life. Sometimes it works sometimes it doesnt. Even some of these great pastors have divorced at least ones. You can do it God's way but then things happen. Finances are one of the top reasons people divorce. Infedility is another one. Sometimes people just dont see eye to eye or can't compromise. It happens. Most divorced people in the church will tell you he's the one before the wedding or the Lord told them. I am sure at the time that's how they felt. Yet I know couples who have been together for decades but have never stepped foot inside a church. It's not that cut and dried. Marriage is hard work sometimes. It's just reality.
I do not think it was outside influences. I think they were simply not compatible. Their love was meant for a season. Of course Devon being a good bachelor there was no way Megan would miss out on marrying him. Of course overtime she may have realize they were not a match as they thought and that is okay.
DeVon Franklin visited Meagan Good on movie she was doing over seas in 2021 and flew 32 hours round trip to spend time with his wife when she let him know it was really important to spend time with her husband. DeVon Franklin put himself into his marriage accepted Meagan Good as she is and loved her ❤ 😍 😍♥ as she is and gave her 4 months of separation before making final decision to divorce
People have to understand that Megan is not the characters she “plays”. She seems to have a beautiful soul…..These Self proclaimed Christians that judge her, always contradict there words with their actions by not being actors. 🤷🏽♀️
After finishing the sitcom Harlem, I immediately thought about Devon and his seemingly lack of support concerning Megan's career. I think Devon bit off more than he could chew and got tired of defending his wife- whether it was her choice of dress or her career aspirations which sometimes involved sex scenes. The sitcom was probably what pushed the envelope and was too much for him to brush off or overlook. Megan doesn't seem as though she's one to be placed in a box- which I think behind the scenes Devon tried to do. He was not prepared for everything that came along with dating and later marrying Megan. Megan is a great actress and she embodies her sexiness and is quite comfortable in her skin while "Christians" wanted her to show less skin. The bottom line, I think is both of them got tired of defending their relationship/marriage to the "Church" which probably overwhelmed him because Megan is going to continue to be who she was before the marriage and during the marriage "take it or leave it". Which after nine years of marriage, he chose to "leave it"! You cannot enter a relationship/marriage in hopes of the other person changing. Megan has a successful career as an actress so her job/career was/is not going to change. Just as his career/calling as a pastor wasn't going to change. THE WAIT- can be tackled in several different ways. I think that BOTH of them were trying to WAIT the other person OUT, in hopes of them conforming to the other's expectations of what a marriage should look like. Now they both can heal without being weighed down mentally because of the Church folk opinions! IT is so ironic that he chose to file for divorce during the airing of the show HARLEM!! THE CHURCH MOTHERS ARE DEFINITELY IN HIS EAR CONCERNING HIS MARRIAGE AND PROJECTING ON HIM WHAT A WIFE LOOKS LIKE. PRAYERS TO BOTH OF THEM ON THEIR QUEST TO FINDING LOVE AGAIN!❤🙏🏽
I am not sure this is true he seems to have always supported her career at least outwardly. He even posted his support when Harlem was about to air. I don’t think it’s one thing it could be a myriad of reasons
I have always thought that they were mismatched.. but sometimes love is just that.. mismatched. It doesn’t mean the love isn’t real, it’s just not a forever love. Somethings are seasonal they are for a time and a purpose. I hope each of them had the purpose to grow and who knows if it was truly a heart and soul connection.. they will come back together after each has reached the area of life where what concerns them and what concerns their faith becomes the same thing. Two cannot walk together unless they agree. There is no way that he could have kept defending the way she looked dressed and acted and she could not change the call on his life to represent Christ in a world that is fastly forgetting Him. God bless each of them. They will never forget one another so let’s see what happens y’all🙌🏽
You nailed it.. and I’m sure in days to follow we will hear some of these things expressed by the both of them… I’m glad they stayed true to themselves.. also no children between them.. easy to walk away from.. still sad 😩
I think Meaghan not being comfortable with herself is more of the possible issues for her. It seems as if she has her own insecurities and allowed others to play upon them. Some women that have to 'be sexy' all the time are hiding insecurities. Some, not all. Not saying this is the case, just saying
It was beautiful? Is them now getting DIVORCED for the very same sick and mentally ill reasons that he stood up for her regarding her doing something bad, is that beautiful too? The MINDS of our women these days........this is getting very very sad and gloomy.
@Jacqueline, that was all fake. I think he expected her to change as a pastor's wife and be modest but unfortunately she didn't want to and he got fed up. You can't change someone who doesn't want to.
@@jahrules8674 #1- "Garcia" is not a white name. #2- THE HUMAN RACE/ HUMANS/ OUR women. If you think the answer is to only be concerned about what the males and females of your own race, is doing, then you have a very incorrect and dysfunctional perception of, and approach to dealing with, this world. What EVERYONE of EVERY race does, matters, and effects us all.
It’s really unfortunate because they both seem to be outstanding human beings with nothing but respect for one another .But this divorce also is going to do some damage to people who looked up to their example of a marriage ,especially a godly one .With that being said we all make mistakes and I feel they should be extended the same grace that we all have .I hope they learn from this period in their lives and make better decisions for themselves in the future .
People should never look up to marriages . They should only look up to the Lord Jesus Christ. He's the ultimate example of how we should live and treat people. Humans are very flawed and have too many issues and problems. They look good in public but I'm sure it's something toxic behind closed doors.
They both looked so beautiful and perfect for each other. Maybe something behind the scenes as well marital issues that got to be too much. Megan is beautiful but she knew time she married a pastor and became a First Lady she should have knew it was time to dress less revealing. God told her Devon was her husband maybe they come back together. Christ has to be the head of the church.
It is crazy though how God used the supposed “jezebel” to expose the hypocrisy within the Church tho. I love it cuz she kept it real. As a community, we all got some work to do.
I so loved the way her husband defended his wife against that form of godliness that tried to come against his wife! I know folk that dress the part and look the part but are “evil and bitter” on the inside. I’ll always love the pastor for that.
Your comment is EXTREMELY insane!! How can you DEFEND someone against GODLINESS/ Against GOD/ Against what is good and objectively/ factually correct and right? You can only DEFEND against something that is wrong and bad. By DEFINITIN! Something that is GOOD, will not harm or destroy something or someone that is good. What what actually happening there was GOOD/ GODLINESS, trying to nicely and respectfully correct, advise and guide the 2 Satanic Clowns, Megan and Devon. You saw GODLINESS trying to guide and save SATANISM/ Satanists.. See, what you have fallen into is literally the very common problem of viewing good as evil, and evil as good. LITERALLY, that's what you're doing and what you have fallen into. YOU HAD BETTER WAKE UP AND FAST BEFORE YOU END UP IN HELL. Im serious, LISTEN to what I just said. WAKE UP AND REALIZE WHAT YOU'RE DOING, before the end comes and you end up in hell. Because with your current perception, that's where you're headed. This is just like the woman in the audience, another case of someone trying to SAVE someone who is lost, before its too late. I'm gone.
Regardless of which award you were to give out, she chose that dress. Part of her felt it was inappropriate or it wouldn’t trigger her the way it did. I don’t wish for any couple to have this level of pressure and scrutiny on their relationship. Hopefully they are able to grow from this.
These Hollywood marriages are really getting on my nerves. We get so invested and are so happy about their love. But behind closed doors. It's really not greener on the other side. Sad
But Why are people so invested in someone’s relationship and not their talents? That’s where the problem lies. These are people famous for their talents not for who they date or marry.
I don’t think any relationship is greener on the other side. I think we get what God believes is best for us. I believe social media creates envy over false realities.
For me, I will always say this to my young men. There's no need to rush into marriage, especially if you're in the Christian faith. Keep working on yourself, praying and asking God to prune your rough edges daily. With the way things are these days, you need to be even extra careful, consider everything before entering because that one decision can make you or unmake you.
It's really annoying that people judge then for not having not children. Some people simply DO NOT want children and others just cannot have them. A lot of people have been turned off to church bc of judgement. I'm sad for them, the way that he defended his wife, you can tell her really loves her.
Hollywood preacher ????? He seems so fake to me. Ive said it bfore he gives me downlow vibes. Church people are so riduculous How does god expect everone to be the same. When fruits differ wonderfully. Everybody is blaming her and i cant belive it. I could prolly never trust a preacher. Its easy to seem godly when people watching. But who is he when noone is looking???? Shes been transparent. Some of them women in church are just as promiscuous. Its been awful for her. I hope she is now free Im sorry but the same people judged jesus. I hope she runs and i hope she pulls a billionaire. 😂
I sure hated to hear of this but I saw the writing on the wall years ago. They tried and it lasted as long as it lasted. It’s life and it happens. I’ll continue to be fans of them and wish them all the best…..🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Rap award or Gospel award, that dress was distasteful for a pastor's wife. She can wear whatever she wants but she cannot control the consequences of having your entire torso on display. The woman that corrected her with love (at the conference) was dismissed by Devon as well. I feel he eventually got with her cos he was starstruck or more he thought she would eventually evolve into conservative ways. Steve Harvey who isn't even a church guy doesn't accept kissing roles for movies or anything let alone a first Lady. I wish them well tho
I never felt this was going to work. Being a pastors wife is not for everyone. They weren’t equally yoked, which is exactly why they have ended up here.
Meagan is being judged by the church AND the world. Sheeesh... I'm praying for you Meagan cause I remember going through such a chapter in life. It ain't easy. Hang in there.
Laila! I love the way you approached your commentary on this subject. I don’t often like way some RUclips bloggers handle celebrity real life stories, however I thank you for how you do what you do with Grace, especially this story. I hope the couple sees your segment and decide to rethink their chance for Love!
I think Megan just got tired of being ridiculed and having to live up to this impossible standard. Nobody is perfect. Even these Christian’s who swear they are
He also wanted children, which she never wanted children of her own. Not every woman wants to be mothers. Yet she had infertility issues due to uterine cancer. Therefore she can't have children anyways. And that's OK! They've been separated for almost a year before this news to the media.
The red pill RUclips content creators are eating this up just because they’re getting a divorce they’re saying Megan is for the streets when I’ve only seen her handle herself as a lady in public but since he’s a pastor he’s the saint and she’s the sinner
That woman who stood up to ‘correct’ Megan was out of line. I’m sorry, that’s not something you do to an human publicly. If it’s that bothersome check yourself!
IDK about y'all, but that made me shed a tear! They wore poor Meagan down until she just was completely done with these hypocrites! They be the main ones "sneakin' with the deacon"!!
I wonder the same thing. Then, they didn't have children. I think he might have wanted kids because he is 43, and most men in the church have this "family man" image, but I don't think she wanted kids.
I feel like he supports her because he loves her but wasn’t fond of the roles she took. Probably also didn’t want to be controlling or portrayed as insecure.
Praying for both of them , sont know what happened but I'm sure this is one of the roughest things they've had to endure. My God strengthen them and give them peace that surpasses understanding. To the people who spoke negatively and cursed their marriage wow be unto them.🙏🏽
Lets be honest here, unfortunately this marriage was doomed from the Start!!!! anyone who really knows the word and have studied it, they won’t be any questions about the longevity of this marriage
We would never truly know why they are divorcing. None of us knows what happens behind the closed doors of someone's marriage. We can only assume. So I'm not judging.
Honestly when I heard that God gave her the message that he was her husband and not him that was a "RED" flag for me. For the Word says Whoso findeth a wife findeth a good thing, and obtaineth favour of the LORD.Proverbs 18:22 not the other way around 🙄 the Lord spoke to me in a still small voice about my wife and the first woman I spoke after 10 years of being single we got married because of the guidance and relationship I had with Christ not her. We as men must hear from God and not ourselves. Get conformation from God and not "Eve". Forever 🙏🏿 Blessed 🙌🏿
I've been with my husband for 27 years. The best advice I can offer is to keep everyone out of your business. What happens within your marriage is strictly between you and your spouse.
Beautiful ! Just curious what happened between them so the married can avoid possible pitful🤷🏾♀️
@@sistarwande6213 I have no idea.
@@sistarwande6213 from what I heard, I believe he wanted kids and she wasn’t ready at the moment. She was too busy trying to work and revamp her career.
Absolutely!!!! I said this lastnight to my sibling. THIS was hard lesson learned
Well said!!
Staying married is very difficult and tough. It’s NOT dating. Most people aren’t honest.
Yes it is. It sounds like it can exhausting even.
Gurl, you ain’t nevah lord, it’s a hard ministry!!!
@@adoredbyd 2 becomes 1. People don’t put their mate first. The Bible states this fact as well as the law.
Married to the wrong partner is hard work.
I'm divorced, marriage was so so exhausting for ME!.
It’s very unfortunate, and it doesn’t matter why we think the marriage failed. Prayers and love to them both.🙏🏽❤️
That part!
Exactly
U so right.with d joint statement both have been really very polite and matured! As much as it hurts me deeply to hear this....Prayers their way.
Exactly. Nobody really knows these people!
Amen
Marriage is hard work. My husband and I started marriage counseling before we got married. Once we got married, we decided to do post marriage counseling. This is our second marriage for both of us. Wanted to make sure I got it right this time around.
Post marriage counseling is like a family doctor 👨⚕️ . Atleast once a year check up depending on your diagnosis u may need more appointments
did it help?
I commend you both on pre and post marriage counseling. I know I and my fiance will be doing this too. God bless your marriage
@@BernicePezuzu Not sure about this… Counseling of any kind is good to have, even when you feel like you don’t need it. It’s important to have someone unbiased to talk to
Nah. Its simple. Church boy left her cause he realized she for the seewwerrs
Sometimes when two people come together who are fundamentally different both parties individually feel like they have compromised so much to the point of losing their own identity to fit others expectations. You still love that person but love isn't enough in the end.
You hit it right on the head!!!!!
Yes you hit nail on the head.i was thinking that you can only give so much
That’s good bro!!
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Which ultimately says when it is too different do not force it.
We've been married for 30 years. It's not easy. It's hard work. We were blessed to endure the challenges and the heartaches. We never gave up. It was well worth it. We couldn't have a better union. Our advice, keep folk out ya marriage.
I’m not married, yet! But my parents have always told me the same thing when I do become married. I think because they are in the spot light it makes it so much more difficult. Marriage is a ministry and it’s going to come with a level of battles especially when you’re on a certain platform.
30 years wow. That’s beautiful
30 years, thanks for sharing. Wow.
Great Advice!
🎉Congrats to 30 years!🎉 I am also hopeful for a long-lasting marriage in the future. I know it will not only be easy, but it's a beautiful thing to witness a happily married couple endure the tests of time. May God continue to bless your union with many more beautiful years to come! 😊
I don’t think people realize that covered up or not, Christian or not, divorce rates are at approximately 50%. We don’t know what happened in their marriage. Sweep in front of your own house before you start sweeping in front of someone else’s.
this is what i cant stand about this new social media generation. they really dont seem to understand everyhing isnt always what it seems. social media is NOT REAL LIFE! its a highlight reel of the great parts of life & used as a way for people to cover up whats really going on its crazy
Tell it chile!! Tell it!! That's why I only drag Porsha 😩😆🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@khrissi17 😂😂😂🤣😭
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@@JordanWilliams-ix2td I wish this comment could be posted everywhere
Jamal Bryant is more worldly than any of these ‘worldly’ women will ever be
And he is repeatedly forgiven.
The misogyny
Wayyyyyyy over here on a whole gossip channel worrying about what Dr Jamal Bryant is doing.
But yet they praise him and shame her 🤔
Nothing looks bad on a man. She needs to carry herself like a lady. Sadly her husband was trying to make a heaux a honest wife
@@ladybayoutalesthetruth6788 absolutely nothing? You sure you wanna die on this hill??
You can marry a church girl and STILL end up with a failed marriage. Relationships consist of humans which means those humans bring flaws and baggage. It's just sad that they broadcasted how great their marriage was and how everybody else should proceed. Now it looks like a sham
Eaxcatly.. church or not BOTH hage their own relationship with God and include him in the marriage for it to nw9rk. Titles mean nothing when you're imperfect
@@msatutude17 How do you know they didn’t do JUST that! Their whole movement was about “putting god first”! What are you talking about!???
It was great, until it was not.
Exactly‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️ That’s why I don’t speak or brag on my relationship
Darling it called the devil somewhere down the line they let the devil in their marriage one thing I realize these days with marriage as soon as the problems start every body quit nobody know how to hold on and fight. Sometime when problem in your life you gotta keep still and be silent and let God work it out and sometimes when you do that things will fall into place The devil don’t wanna see nobody happy and people must realize when you are a Christian the devil is going to always try to fight you for you to feel that God is not real, and him the devil is real sometime God will keep silent just to see if you’re gonna break , sometime God let the devil put us through these test to see how we will stand up in everything you do in your life you have to have faith and believe that there is a God in heaven and he will bring us out of everything.
This is why I never call these celebrity relationship “goals”. Because you just never know what’s really going on.
Exactly
Agreed! My relationship, my marriage is MY GOAL
Idolization is greed
Speak 🗣
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I so tired of people deeming who is a Christian or who is not based on how you dress or look. I know someone in my family who believes a woman will go straight to hell if she does not wear pantyhose to church. The Bible says that man looks at outward appearance but God looks on the heart. Some the most covered up, conservative women in church are scandalous. I've seen it.
Covering up doesn't mean you are a perfect Christian or that you will not fall, God does care about our Physical appearance in terms of how we dress that's why we are commanded to be modest and that's true we shouldn't judge who's Christian or not based on one thing that's against God's will cause everybody is struggling with some sin and everybody does fall sometimes, just because somebody has a problem with lying doesn't mean they aren't Christian just like somebody who's struggling with modesty but we should never make Christians feel like it's okay to be modest cause God sees their heart etc, God is clear that He wants us to be modest in His word
You haven't read the Bible, apparently.
Nah! The Bible says if a woman professes to be saved she should dress in modest apparel. Why do we act like being saved doesn’t come with rules and regulations?
I guess if we were still in the garden of Eden, people would fall flat out. Because they did not wear any clothes.
@@MeekeeKobellaDrNP and we're not so 🤷🏾♀️
I personally know that divorce is hard. But frankly, the reason they are divorcing is none of our business nor concern and we shouldn't be speculating. I wish them both health and happiness.
Amen
True. But yet here we are watching this video. Lol
That would be 100% true.............IF........................THEY didn't put all of this infront of the world to see and consume. And doing so not just once, but continually. That makes this completely different.
Meagan is such a sweetheart , from what I can see . She didn’t deserve to be ridiculed then , and she certain shouldn’t be now!
Hopefully, they both are moving forward behind the scenes in a peaceful manner.
It made sense when she stated in the interview “ I was at the tail-end of a rocky relationship, and I thought man that is the the kind of guy I wish I could marry.” Most people will not admit that sometimes what is good for you is not what you actually desire. I honestly, would not go out of my way to make myself fit in a place that does not fit my size.
I caught that too. I dont think she wanted him, but he was ideal to help her potentially heal from a bad relationship
@@Madajai88 yeah, sounds like a combination of things. She's had a good career, however is is type-casted so perhaps she wanted to be seem differently, yet that didn't happen.
You're absolutely right. And I don't force anything to happen or to try to feel a certain way. He could be a good man but maybe he is not the man for me. And that is okay.
Yup! 👏
I agree with the person who responded that you can't make something that Isn't a right fit, fit. The Holy Ghost in you will discern that. Church people can be critical that's why God says "put your trust in him". Megan Good if you get a chance to read this. God works every thing for good for those whom he loves. You have a testimony. Be Blessed. God loves you.
It’s not our business BUT when you sell books and host events about the bliss of marriage, people become invested. I really would love for people to be open in the end as they are in the beginning.
I absolutely agree!!!!! This the right comment
I agree... keep that same energy of putting all your business out in the streets...Don't go into hiding when the tides turn!
I 100% agree. We want to know this chapter too.
Exactly
yes!
Ideally this is hard, dressing provocative, do intimate scenes, and a preacher wife doesn't mix no matter how good a person is... the church community will tear it up because image is important. No telling the backlash and side eyes at church. It's unfortunate yet not surprising...
Image is important to who? Is your faith a product you are selling to an audience? You the ones wearing "ash and sackcloth"? Coz the Bible says that type has "RECEIVED YOUR REWARD ON EARTH". Just live your life in accordance to what the Spirit speaks in you and most importantly MIND YOUR BUSINESS.
It is not even just about image. Better yet, it is about serial scenes being done, is introducing evelish spirits into oneself. Even though there is no intercoursing involved. The devil is sneaky. It is an every day battle. I truly wish that they would've just separate and work on them selves and also with God separately. God will prevail.
@@jakestroll6518Let's be real. Image is important to everyone...no matter what you believe. How you present yourself says alot about you. Is it right? Maybe not but it's reality. Also the bible actually does speak on being modest in your dress/attire. So if you're the wife of a preacher but you dress sexy and provocatively, you shouldn't be surprised about ppl side eyeing you or shading you. Not right but very real.
@@TXBornNBred if I was the pastor, she's for the streetzzzzz!
The church is so Hypocritical, Judge Not .....
I mean, we’re talking about apparel, clothes that Megan was wearing, when you have modestly dressed women sitting front row at church who are sleeping with married pastors, pretending to be so Godly, and looking the other way when that happens, but these same judgmental churchgoers will try to crucify Megan for wearing what she wants, while at the same time Megan is still trying to be a good person. Make it make sense.
I think Devon didn’t like Megan’s career choices, how it might make him look, and gave her an ultimatum, hence the reason why he filed for divorce and not Megan. It’s a shame but so-called church people are wild out here with the judgement. It’s only apparel!
And their men be looking at women like Megan. Smh
True . But why add in the 'trying to be a good person' at the end then . Those women in 'church' are 'trying' to be good women too , but the ones you brought up are just failing . Just like Meagan could have failed but we dont see everything behind closed doors 🚪👀
If it was only apparel & he defended her on it. Then why are we here rn ?.. Also , him defending her was prolly him just trying to do the right thing in the moment as opposed to how he rlly feels . Ritious for her but prolly not genuine . Evidently . Just imo tho
Let's not forget the sexual abuse, child molestation and money embezzlement that also occurs too.
Tell it! I'm getting so sick of these " Good Church Folks," thinking their better than everybody else! Most of them are doing exactly what everybody else is doing; none of us are sin free!
Amen they are so fake
Marriage is not for the faint! I can’t even imagine being in the public eye. The woman who came for Megan was wrong. I’m glad her husband defended her. Prayers for them.
YOU my dear are extremely misguided and even detached from reality, LITERALLY. If you actually think and believe what you said above. Megan Good and the clown she married, both think that, and now they're divorced BECAUSE of that. Sad.
The woman was not wrong in what she said, her delivery was. The Church should've handled it differently and sadly we miss our mark too often. What we the Church should've done was welcome her and then usher her into change by example. The Church may have had a hand in the demise of their relationship...
@@DrMathOfficial From four sentences I typed, you gather that I am misguided and detatched from reality. You're weird!
She's worn more revealing things prior to her marriage, but she did marry someone who has a title in the church, so she would have to dress appropriately, no matter where she goes,
@@DrMathOfficial Tell them please 🤦🏽♀️.
I LOVE how he stood up for her when that women had her comments... He checked the shit outta her😂
At woman sounded a little drunk IMO
Amen
@@princessj658 right! She needed to be biblically checked for her alcoholism. Lol
In the name of Jesus lol
@@princessj658 a lot of drunk! Lol
She just doesn’t want to be First Lady and fully commit to marriage with a pastor. She still loves the Hollywood lifestyle and doesn’t have the same convictions has her husband
Why doesn't he become a Hollywood husband??
I pray that they are reconciled, not only for the sake of their marriage, the commitment they made before God but for Christ’s name sake. May they go back to the truth of a Gods word and be led only by the Holy Spirit.
I love how he stood up for her in that moment. I pray that God continues to heal them
Yes and that lady sound like she was drunk
You love how he stood up for her unwifty was. You need help. In the name of Jesus he had a simp minute just then. When that old school was telling her the truth and they was the one with money at Sunday and started leaving and their money to. He straightening up and told her I'm out.
Sad thing is the lady is correct and whether she's s Christian or not, she needs to line up with the word of God. I would never want a husband like him. He's just a cliche pastor and needs to cut that out with in the name of Jesus but it don't line up with the scriptures just like the whole beginning of the marriage was unscriptural. Both are just two celebrities and fake Christians.
I agree with him because this lady was out to humiliate his wife. I see many christian woman wearing clothing that unbelievable worldly.
The same reason he "stood up for her", against something that is objectively WRONG and toxic, along with something that is severely disrespectful and harmful to him, and something that is completely destructive and deadly to their and any relationshop.....is the exact reason they're divorced now. And SOMEHOW they, you and many other females here, seem to not be noticing that VERY obvious fact,
Lastly God is not going to deal with satanic people who want to PRETEND to be Christians, yet secretly and via their behavior and public presentations of themselves, be literal satanists. God knows the truth and is not fooled by people weak lies, deceptions and acts. Pure insanity in this comment section.
As for the woman in that audience who was trying to call Megan out for the way she dresses was foul AF! She’s the type of woman that would blame the women if they were assaulted by a man. Do better lady!!!!
And she sounded drunk!
@@trishonya came here to type this!! Lol sounded drunk as a skunk!
Audience lady was definitely foul!
@@trishonya She didn't sound drunk to me, just a heavy or lazy tongue. But either way, drunk or lazy tongue she could have kept her mouth closed. If God accepts sinners, we all have a journey and things happen in our own time. Whatever happened to giving someone grace. Sometimes in Hollywood, you don't get to make your own decisions. And that could even mean what you wear.
Facts
And honestly Megan seems like such a genuine sweetheart. I wish them the best
Definitely
John Gray don’t act modestly cheating on his wife but blaming it on his 13 year old self. Church folks quiet about that
Hello!!!!!!!
No they are not quiet about that at all. But if his wife accepts it. What can anyone else do.
@@msreality8120 Devon John Gray is still a pastor so they are quiet
Right 💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
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This is why people need to stop worshiping these couples and thinking they are so perfect!!! Clearly these couples are not!!
Preach
I think ppl do this with attractive couples...It's the looks they find perfect more than anything else in my opinion...
@@Tam... interesting spin on it.
@@Tam... EXACTLY! 👍
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What I found fascinating in this was the fact that GOD told Megan, Devon was her husband but Devon didn't receive the same instruction from GOD and he is the pastor. That right there told me they were unequally yoked from the start because GOD will never instruct one partner about getting married to a specific person and NOT tell the other. I wish them both well in their new journeys.
Exactly God will definitely speak to that man He got distracted. I believe
Good point. and also Devon is the one who filed for divorce.. and she was the one who had to change the most for him it looks like.
You are right. After the angel spoke to Mary, the angel later spoke to Joseph about the same situation.
Exactly....
@@tinytowz4471 Amen! Speak that word! God confirms and reaffirms his plans.
The lady that was trying to "check" Megan sounds like she's drunk and she did too much in that moment 🙄
I agree she was too pressed about megan
She's a hater....💯💯💯
She was definitely TEAM TOO MUCH 🎯🎯
Definitely sounded inebriated
Slurring n all lmaoo
If God told her those things, then divorce is not an option. They need to seek marriage counseling, and make it work.
Exactly!
HE ... wants a divorce not her. You can't be in a marriage by yourself.
Omg I was saying the same thing!! The scripture tells us that God hates divorce. According to the word of God you don’t divorce because you have an issue or problem. They even said no one was at fault so I’m assuming no one was unfaithful. It appears they made a decision out of their flesh and that’s not being spirit lead. That’s being flesh lead. Being married is a ministry! Not an idea or option! This hurts my heart because we need to seek God! Any time there’s a divorce, God is not at the center for one or the other, or both!
@@danielleceleste1811 because she said God told her that, that was her husband, God word never come back void.
@@joycecunningham8785 right!!!
Why is it so important to some women to wear revealing clothing? It seems to be a very sensitive and contentious subject. Is it worth it? Are women wearing revealing clothes in inappropriate situations in order to cause controversy? No one is criticizing women for wearing sexy clothes to night clubs. We're talking about church and she was very visible. This is a matter of pride and a rebellious spirit.
Thank you!!! I know this video is old but I agree… and God says to dress modest. Everything Megan does is of a rebellious spirit. She loves to look sexy and turn heads. I remember when she used to wear black spandex all the time. My ex said a few times is that all she wears is spandex and tight clothes? She’s grown up in Hollywood, said that she wants to be taken seriously as an actress, like on the cover of rolling magazine but she’s on the front in lingerie…
Way too many worldly Christian women keep defending her right to wear what she wants and that’s wrong. All her roles except for a few, she’s the sexy girl, the sex scenes and not love scenes. Even in the new movie with Tyler, still dressing sexy and she’s supposed to be going through something but still wants to look good in every shot.
Megan is doing what promiscuous women do, saying they can have sex with however many men, because it’s their body, she’s doing that with her attire. Objectifying herself like other women, but they say they don’t want men to objectify them. She doesn’t want to be a modest chaste woman at all. She has a problem with the church because there are rules God put in place and she doesn’t to follow it, she wants to be that “it” girl.
It’s like she’s uncomfortable in covering up but feels better in harlot clothing but saying she loves Jesus and God but it doesn’t reflect. She said she doesn’t feel like she’s doing anything wrong and God looks at the heart.
One foot in the world and one foot in with God. It’s definitely a rebellious spirit. Not attacking her, she’s pretty but cover up. Even at Johnathan court, her outfit, her breast was out, always wanting to make sure that even in the worst situation, she looks good.
Relationships are so hard. Staying married is a disciple and sacrifice, and most people don’t practice or understand.
Facts people has to understand want's you get married you has to give your life to the lord.and to your spouse you can't do the same thing's that you use to
Right its only hard if you can't let go of your ways, not everyone is stuck in there ways tho so marriage/relationships comes easier because they are serious & want to please the person & spend time with them. I spend everyday with my partner & he is everything we don't care about worldy things, relgion, other people, or whatever else people get tripped up on. We care about each other period, it really has to be yall against the world & you should have respect for your partner theres things you just dont do & Megan should of gave up some of those things christian or not no matter what her man was saying.
@@PullOverItsDaPopo You are lucky!!!!!!🍀
I don’t believe marriage is “Hard” when two people are selfish it’s hard… I’ve been married 26yrs and I cringe when I hear ppl say it’s “hard” or a “struggle” I’m like not my marriage.. I didn’t get married to “struggle” did we have ups & downs Absolutely, but we love & respect each and communicate honestly. Most importantly we Keep People Out Our Business…
@@d.c.constant7731 Downs mean struggle. Life is up and down. Life isn’t easy.
You proved my point. Marriage is very difficult. It’s has up and down moments. There is struggle.
Dating is fun and exciting. No real problems. Everything is separate and easy.
It's the way he stood up for her ♥️
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Yesss
I loved that. I love men who protect especially in times when as the woman you’re being ridiculed.
I'm praying for both of them. Sad to hear it didn't work out.
One thing is true. While it lasted, they did appear to be a true couple, especially for celebrities. It was good to see Megan can do a relationship and it doesn't have to be all about her. So as far as "celebrities" go, they did very well. They enhanced each others image, it didn't look fake or forced.
Really now
All the while it was fake
I don’t get that line about Megan I’m not throwing shade but it makes no sense to me respectfully
What do you mean megan can "do a relationship " lets not act like Devon isn't still a man.
@@customfittedinc me either sis.
GOD has HIS hands on both of them.....I wish them both strength and peace 💛🕊
Thank you for the beauty of your comment. May we all be this gracious towards each other.🙏🏾💕
Meagan seems like such a sweet & caring person. She’s never in drama and doesn’t bother anyone. BET really tried to play her. I don’t know what happened within their marriage but I wish them both nothing but the best. Devon more than likely wants more (family) & Meagan is getting back into her career & doesn’t want children RN.
This one hit different .. been rooting for them since day one…blessings to them both.. 😇🙏
People are judging Meghan so harshly as if she is the reason the marriage ended.
Thank you!
@@SuckerPunch92 ain't no damn way a pastor can truly face his church after his wife is on national TV eating other man behind on TV.
Sorry sister no man, will ever put up with that
@@MarcusTheJR I’m not saying a man should put up with that. I’m saying it’s takes two.
@@MarcusTheJR What?!! I gotta watch this!!🤣🤣🤣🤣
I hope he at least got his ass ate.
I still have faith in marriage. I have too many great examples around me.
Amen. Me too
As a man I can tell you that's a good attitude to have.
@@ramakrishnashalom9004 Aww thanks
Amen marriage is beautiful thing when God in it that's why don't need settle for anything
Just because it looks good to the public doesn't mean they might not be going through something 🤷🏾♀️
Exactly. For example, Instagram made a whole big deal about Tahiry Jose from LHHNY saying she want a Megan and Pardi kind of love. Like how are you at your big age looking for couple goals in a couple more than 15 years your junior? 🤦🏾♀️. Any woman over 35 looking towards celebrities as couple goals need their heads checked.
@@CandieP I saw that on TSR too. I agree. I don't think we should be looking at anyone for couple goals. Create our own goals. We're all humans and have our shortcomings in one way or the other. People will put on a perfect image in public and their private life be in shambles and turmoil behind closed doors.
Amen lot people looks good together don't mean for each other
I like the fact devon protected his wife though still wish nothing but happiness for the both of them
The ending of a marriage is sad no matter what the reason, I’m praying for them both🙏🏾
True, even when there’s a good reason to divorce it’s still sad.
Thats life, divorce have to take place.
I saw that divorce coming from a mile away. Now both of them can go their separate ways and be truly happy.
Yeah seemed a little phony to me!
@@LilithsCosmicLounge i belive some people can be comfortable with women being confident in their sexuality but does that ken it should be posted every 5 seconds on social media. I love Chloe music as well as Lizzo's but I can seem to enjoy the IG page without them waving they azz up and down my timeline. Like chill and be more versatile and creative with you posts is what some of us are saying. But I don't have to follow I know that but I still love their music, so if people are pressed they need to unfollow that don't mean you don't support just mena you'll be the last to know when new ish come out.
@@LilithsCosmicLounge The word of God says nothing about anyone showing that they are comfortable in their sexuality but it does speak clearly on Modesty (1 Timothy 2:9-10, 1 Corinthians 12:23, 1 Peter 3:3-4)
@Lilith’s Moon🌓 CHOLE WHO THAT YOU AINT TALKING ABOUT THE TAMPON LADY ARE YOU
@@yellowbone5751 you can't be a woman!! calling another woman tampon lady😩 And by the way it wasn't a tampon it was a tag
I’ve been here so I’m speaking from experience, but you CAN NOT give up your entire self for a relationship. Meghan always seem sad to me. Not sure what is is but I hope she finds her happiness
So true, she always seems sad, I think she's trying to find in someone else something she hasn't given to herself. She needs to do a lot of work on herself.
You're right. Even when she smiles, her eyes are sad!! I too hope she can find happiness!
That's very accurate
I remember my hair stylist met her years ago and said how Meg was very insecure and shy. She stayed patting her face in the mirror in fear of looking “oily”… it’s crazy because they said she’s so pretty in person with beautiful clear skin
@@btaylortv she’s a celebrity so it’s normal they have to always be on point as people will be judging them.
Marriage is difficult enough and love is tested in so many ways. I wouldn't wish a public relationship on anyone. Why ppl can't love and let love be, is beyond me😔 I'm sorry we put them through all that, shame on us.
They appeared to be such a lovely couple and it hurt my heart to see Meagan placed in such embarrassing and hurtful situations. She maybe was so uncomfortable in that marriage, not because of DeVon but because she would have been seen as the wife of a pastor or 1st lady of a church, the pressure maybe was a lot for her to handle.
It just is ridiculous how critical we can be.
Interesting point 🤔
I like to see Meagan & them as a couple dearly. And if I can remember they used to call her Gold Digger( her acting style in the movie Eva). I don't know what happen behind closed doors, but I am not that surprised about the divorce, other than it took too long to happen. I think Meagan called & attracted that attention on her. Looking at it on a corporal pt of view, regardless of your beliefs, there's a place, and time to dress & act certain way. I think that She wouldn't meet with the president, go to a job interview showing up that much skin. So why must it be acceptable as a Pastor's wife. Where's the level of classy & decency? Not all nonsense are appropriate or should be accepted as beautiful. Also, love requires comprehension, communication, compatibility or consideration; so if it was a problem for his ministry, why couldn't she adjust & made a little sacrifice for both of them. Beautiful, Gravity & priorities in life are important and needed in order to be successful. Hopefully, they can reconsider this decision, since they believe that God put them together. Because if it is a divine connection, there should not be a separation between them. GOD NEVER LIES OR GOES AGAINST HIS WORDS!
@@marieboost7546 interesting point 🤔
The problem is you shouldn’t dress based on what award you are giving out. If you are a true believer your walk should not be dependent on what crowd or environment you are in. I don’t think Meagan understood this therefore her being married to a preacher grew more difficult.
She never grew up Christian though, so I understand why this might have been hard for her. I’m a Christian and if we can keep it real, it’s not easy.
@Tamara, well said. Thanks
@@BriaBarrows True but it's a daily walk with the help of The Holy Spirit. We try because we love the LORD and without Him we can't. It took me a longgggg time to stop smoking and drinking but it is a daily walk and 5years sober now and all glory to God. Blessings to you and Happy New Year.
The lady criticizing Megan sounded like a big ole outta shape bitter lady. Women like that want other women to cover up not for religious reasons but selfish reasons aka insecurity. Beautiful women who own it make other women who are not on the same level feel a way, same as they make men feel a way. If anything cover up for your safety and evil eye than "religious" reasons. Religion is now owned by man and driven by man. They act like religion is simply how much skin u show or don't show yet they sin in every other aspect. I personally never hurt or used anyone. I'm a good member of society and have a good helpful job as a teacher. I'm also a virgin at 29! And yet people only focus on my clothes. Not because of the clothes itself either but how I look in it. And they try to bring god into it. No it's not God it's u that feels a way and has a problem with it.
Exactly, you couldn’t have said it better. I am still a virgin at 24 and I grew up super religious and I had the same ridicule as Megan from the age of 15 because I dressed in a manner to embrace my feminine energy, in clothes they would sexualize. But the funny thing was the girls who were fully covered up and seemed innocent were the ones having sex and getting pregnant. Life is all about discipline and not over indulging in self gratification. The way religious organizations choose to measure holiness, purity, wholesomeness, and goodness is warped. I blame society as a whole for socializing young women from a young age to be ashamed of embracing their unique feminine energy.
She sounds intoxicated
MashaAllah for waiting until you meet the one sis. While I think that my religion is definitely not owned by a man but by the creator himself I agree that a lot of people just care about people sinning outwardly rather than what others do everyday. Clothes are just clothes but all of us son everyday, people need to worry about the own sins they commit daily regardless of what we are or aren’t wearing.
Sure did
I totally agree. I am Muslim so I choose to cover but I would never judge another woman for her choices because that is Allah's job. Too many judgemental hypocrites in the world.
The death of a marriage is sad. May God heal them as they deal with the end of their time together.
What people don't realize is that you can't be worldly and serving God at the same time...." Choose ye this day whom ye shall serve"...
What is being worldly?
I saw an interview where he said he wasn't looking for an actress, someone who smoked, and something else. And then him mentioning that he thought Meagan Good liked him makes me think maybe his flesh influenced him. Can't let something that's a season--celibacy (though big--espcially in Hwood) --influence a life decision. This was an experience and it seemed they tried but in reality they just wasn't equally yoked. They both seem like sweet people though.
Exactly
I agree totally!
Exactly
Right. How do a pastor say a woman can wear anything in the name of Jesus..I am confused.
And her coming out of a rocky relationship she wanted the good guy, the innocent guy. I doubt he was everything she wanted either.
Being just celebrated 15 years on my 2nd marriage. The Lord told us, If you love me you’ll keep my commandments. The only tough areas we have had in our marriage was obeying what God said how we should treat each other. We decided and agreed to let Gods word have the final say so. Best decision we ever made for our marriage 🙂🙂🙌🏾
So you’re gloating about your marriage in the news of their divorce.
@@darliciatv8040 so giving a testimony of what two people who decide to do marriage Gods way is gloating in your eyes. Please tell me how your marriage is going????
you hit the nail on the head! It trips me out how so many ppl think they know what's going on in someone else's private life.
Love this!
Not everyone stays together forever or stays in relationships that aren’t working anymore. Shout out to them for moving on when they felt it was time
I am sorry to hear this. I do feel culture and media did take its toll on their marriage. I do believe they were unequally yoked. Although Meagan is a believer, her transformation never crossed over into the career life. I believe she made the choice to continue her persona despite her husband’s position in the church world. Unfortunately people don’t look at your heart ❤️ God does. People look at what you wear, what you project. She is a sex symbol in the world and a Pastor’s wife but you have to choose what will dominate. You can’t be both. Praying for their emotional healing ❤️🩹
Amen my sentiments exactly. The word Christian really have folks flawed in their thinking & not look at the whole picture. If folks really knew where the word Christian derived from this young lady would've been accepted the way God has.
Agreed 100% they were going in two different directions. When I saw the trailer for her new series I knew in my spirit that was not a good move for her marriage. She is not a first lady and I believe that’s what he needs/wants
Well said @Idris!
What a kind comment
Thank you for your comment. I think it's one of the most accurate. Unfortunately, she is considered a "sex symbol" and she was not trying to change that.
She’s not gonna cover up. She’s going to wear whatever she wants to wear in the name of who? Someone was very confused. That’s no man of God.
Lailah is so respectful- she said thanks for watching! No, thank you Lailah for doing all this hard work to present us this information, we really appreciate you 💖
Divorce is never easy 😔
Never
@@MsSugarDyme So sad 😔
@@AliLeBohemian Unfortunately, Megan did not appear to want marriage. She was dressing like a worldly woman with no respect for the church. She failed to understand that as the wife of a pastor, the first lady should be covered up or dress modestly.
Why do you say that? If you don’t mind answering
Divorce can be very successful for many people. I'm speaking as a licensed Marriage counselor.
People are knocking the church for having standards. Modest apparel is a Godly principle, not a church principle. But further, we all dress for our roles in life out of respect and expression. Imagine if you went to court and the judge was dressed revealing - would you trust his/her judgement? Or the doctor handing down a diagnosis while cleavage is out, or interviewing with HR personnel dressed like they were going to the club. Let alone a preacher's wife, upholding the Word of God but always dressed scantily clad and actively participating in career-driven endeavors that emulate sex with different men. Our attire is an extension of our self expression and it communicates for us to add or detract from our credibility of who we say we are and the roles we are in each day. And our actions speak way louder. Megan is beautiful and she's sweet, but let's face it, she wasn't ready for that level of commitment because it takes real maturity. She's still growing. Look at Harlem - that's the real Megan - Beautiful, intelligent, confused about love and relationships.
Yes yes yes. Amen Amen 🔥🔥
They’re knocking the church because those same church women be sinning and cheating and doing worse than someone just wearing something a little revealing. To me I think there’s jealously and they’re upset that she got the type of man that they wanted
Amen! This should be pinned, but won't be because most people aren't ready for THAT conversation
Ummm notice Meagan said you can mind your business or CORRECT IN LOVE. It wasn't the correction, it was the harsh and disrespectful way they went about it, and pretty much attacked her. And honestly, they don't know her and it wasn't their place.
Well said! Standards need to be upheld!
There is something else to this story but it's their own business not ours
I totally agree.
Right
They were just not compatible. As a preacher's wife you are expected to have some sort of decorum. Criticism of that should be expected. You're not simply a Christian but your are wife of a "man of God." You're held to a pedestal. So, yes you're expected to carry yourself a particular way. Their problem was Devon knew that wasn't Meagan's calling and Meagan knew that too. They were a mismatch, and both of them are at fault because they knew that. If people were critiquing the way a wife of a Muslim minister presented themselves in a way that wasn't palatable, no one would question it because we hold every other religion sacred except Christianity. I'm not validating the way people critiqued her, but that fact that they did critique her because the way she shows up as a preacher's wife is expected. Similarly it would be expected that spouses of religious leaders/teachers of other religions hold themselves in a way that is consistent with the tenets of that religion. If you can't do that step down and live a life that wouldn't welcome that type of criticism in connection with religious beliefs as a leader or a spouse of a leader.
That’s exactly what she is doing now. She is Stepping down
Exactly
Now I understand why in the bible it’s written “a christian should not marry a non believer”. Before I thought that it wasn’t a big deal to be married to a non believer.
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
you are absolutely right
The church needs to stop judging. This is ridiculous. It seemed like they both really love each other and its unfortunate that this happened but I respect them both for making the decision to split instead of being miserable
What's your definition of judging? When can people freely say the truth and it won't be termed judging?
@@ProfitEneh is never just about the truth, but the delivery, and whether or not GOD told you to say that!!
@@ProfitEneh WORD.
When a woman chooses to dress in revealing attire, SOMETHING is driving her to do it. There is an ENERGY behind this behaviour, & it is this energy that the Bible has a problem with.
If you are showing the shape & skin of your breast, the entire shape of your body, what purpose can that serve other than to elicit sexual energies from all that view you?
A woman can change the entire energetic frequency of a room by entering it wearing attire that solicits sex.
By their fruits you shall know them, meaning if what you want men & women to do is to enter a sexual frame of mind when they see you, you are basically a seductress, & why are you trying to seduce when you are suppose to be doing God’s work? I’m not even a Christian & I know this.
@@succatti73 it's about the truth. Forget delivery. This is not something that is new. It's not like people just started talking. We are in a world where people now define their own Christianity to fit the lifestyle they want.
No one has the blue print to doing life "right." You learn and love through experience. I still hold them both in high regards. As Christians, we have to stop trying to embarrass people. Even when we are wrong, God is empowering, His love motivates change. Many of us dress the role at church, but our hearts are so dirty, hateful and mean you can't even live a fruitful life.
You ain’t lying!
TALK TO THEM!!!!!!!!
I was happy for them when they got married. I’m happy for them now that they are divorcing. They are making decisions that are best for them. Good for that! Too many people do the unnecessary and are miserable. So happiness to them both!
Totally agree! 👍🏾
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But they made a vow in front of God not to divorce
@@jimpodolski7871 and that’s the hardest part. It is covenant with God. That is why prayer is important and for us not to judge. That’s God’s job. We are all on the outside. If a person isn’t truly anchored in God … well then how valid is the covenant!
I live by this quote in my marriage:
Marriage exposes, purifies, and refines all of a couple's flaws like no other relationship can...and God designed marriage to make both people holy instead of happy. No wonder marriage can be tough!
That is a great comment and observation you made. Yes marriage will bring out all the baggage out in the open. God brings 2 people together to make them Holy not Happy! However learning to be Holy will bring Happiness! 🙌❤🙌
Then why is there so much divorce in the church. Even among pastors.
I agree Its all about the Lords will being done, because anything done outside his will for sure will not stand..Holiness and righteousness is a requirement not an option💯🙌🏾🙏🏾
@@adi7031 because most are doing it their way instead of the Lords way.. people now and days run off their feelings...Instead of the way God attend for it to be.. Other words they lack.. self control ,and patients
@@cierra9520 it's just life. Sometimes it works sometimes it doesnt. Even some of these great pastors have divorced at least ones. You can do it God's way but then things happen.
Finances are one of the top reasons people divorce. Infedility is another one. Sometimes people just dont see eye to eye or can't compromise. It happens.
Most divorced people in the church will tell you he's the one before the wedding or the Lord told them. I am sure at the time that's how they felt.
Yet I know couples who have been together for decades but have never stepped foot inside a church. It's not that cut and dried. Marriage is hard work sometimes. It's just reality.
I do not think it was outside influences. I think they were simply not compatible. Their love was meant for a season. Of course Devon being a good bachelor there was no way Megan would miss out on marrying him. Of course overtime she may have realize they were not a match as they thought and that is okay.
I partly agree, I think they knew they were mismatched but thought things would change.
DeVon Franklin visited Meagan Good on movie she was doing over seas in 2021 and flew 32 hours round trip to spend time with his wife when she let him know it was really important to spend time with her husband. DeVon Franklin put himself into his marriage accepted Meagan Good as she is and loved her ❤ 😍 😍♥ as she is and gave her 4 months of separation before making final decision to divorce
Exactly...and I'll always respect that!
And now he’s requesting all of her financials.
I mean he needs to get half of what was made in those years right?
@@Chile_N He doesn't need half. He's a successful producer. Probably makes way more than she does.
@@filmadcamp1512 I don't think divorce work like that... he's entitled to half of what was made in the marriage just like she is
People have to understand that Megan is not the characters she “plays”. She seems to have a beautiful soul…..These Self proclaimed Christians that judge her, always contradict there words with their actions by not being actors. 🤷🏽♀️
Well said !!
Absolutely! The very thing they judge; they are. They just do it in private.
So true! I met her years ago! She was one of the sweetest celebrities I’ve ever met.
After finishing the sitcom Harlem, I immediately thought about Devon and his seemingly lack of support concerning Megan's career. I think Devon bit off more than he could chew and got tired of defending his wife- whether it was her choice of dress or her career aspirations which sometimes involved sex scenes. The sitcom was probably what pushed the envelope and was too much for him to brush off or overlook. Megan doesn't seem as though she's one to be placed in a box- which I think behind the scenes Devon tried to do. He was not prepared for everything that came along with dating and later marrying Megan. Megan is a great actress and she embodies her sexiness and is quite comfortable in her skin while "Christians" wanted her to show less skin. The bottom line, I think is both of them got tired of defending their relationship/marriage to the "Church" which probably overwhelmed him because Megan is going to continue to be who she was before the marriage and during the marriage "take it or leave it". Which after nine years of marriage, he chose to "leave it"! You cannot enter a relationship/marriage in hopes of the other person changing. Megan has a successful career as an actress so her job/career was/is not going to change. Just as his career/calling as a pastor wasn't going to change. THE WAIT- can be tackled in several different ways. I think that BOTH of them were trying to WAIT the other person OUT, in hopes of them conforming to the other's expectations of what a marriage should look like. Now they both can heal without being weighed down mentally because of the Church folk opinions! IT is so ironic that he chose to file for divorce during the airing of the show HARLEM!! THE CHURCH MOTHERS ARE DEFINITELY IN HIS EAR CONCERNING HIS MARRIAGE AND PROJECTING ON HIM WHAT A WIFE LOOKS LIKE. PRAYERS TO BOTH OF THEM ON THEIR QUEST TO FINDING LOVE AGAIN!❤🙏🏽
I am not sure this is true he seems to have always supported her career at least outwardly. He even posted his support when Harlem was about to air. I don’t think it’s one thing it could be a myriad of reasons
I love your thoughtful and well written comment. Kudos
I have always thought that they were mismatched.. but sometimes love is just that.. mismatched. It doesn’t mean the love isn’t real, it’s just not a forever love. Somethings are seasonal they are for a time and a purpose. I hope each of them had the purpose to grow and who knows if it was truly a heart and soul connection.. they will come back together after each has reached the area of life where what concerns them and what concerns their faith becomes the same thing. Two cannot walk together unless they agree. There is no way that he could have kept defending the way she looked dressed and acted and she could not change the call on his life to represent Christ in a world that is fastly forgetting Him. God bless each of them. They will never forget one another so let’s see what happens y’all🙌🏽
You nailed it.. and I’m sure in days to follow we will hear some of these things expressed by the both of them… I’m glad they stayed true to themselves.. also no children between them.. easy to walk away from.. still sad 😩
I think Meaghan not being comfortable with herself is more of the possible issues for her. It seems as if she has her own insecurities and allowed others to play upon them. Some women that have to 'be sexy' all the time are hiding insecurities. Some, not all. Not saying this is the case, just saying
They were not equally yoked period. He said she was of the world and he didn’t want a wife like that, so idk why he married her to begin with.
The way he stood up for her in the conference was beautiful!
It was beautiful? Is them now getting DIVORCED for the very same sick and mentally ill reasons that he stood up for her regarding her doing something bad, is that beautiful too?
The MINDS of our women these days........this is getting very very sad and gloomy.
@@DrMathOfficial "our women" ??
She's a white girl 🥴
@@DrMathOfficial Thank you you nailed it.
@Jacqueline, that was all fake. I think he expected her to change as a pastor's wife and be modest but unfortunately she didn't want to and he got fed up. You can't change someone who doesn't want to.
@@jahrules8674 #1- "Garcia" is not a white name. #2- THE HUMAN RACE/ HUMANS/ OUR women. If you think the answer is to only be concerned about what the males and females of your own race, is doing, then you have a very incorrect and dysfunctional perception of, and approach to dealing with, this world. What EVERYONE of EVERY race does, matters, and effects us all.
This video was very respectfully done. Great job Lailah!
It’s really unfortunate because they both seem to be outstanding human beings with nothing but respect for one another .But this divorce also is going to do some damage to people who looked up to their example of a marriage ,especially a godly one .With that being said we all make mistakes and I feel they should be extended the same grace that we all have .I hope they learn from this period in their lives and make better decisions for themselves in the future .
People should never look up to marriages . They should only look up to the Lord Jesus Christ. He's the ultimate example of how we should live and treat people. Humans are very flawed and have too many issues and problems. They look good in public but I'm sure it's something toxic behind closed doors.
Yep. Never look up to anyone. PERIOD
They both looked so beautiful and perfect for each other. Maybe something behind the scenes as well marital issues that got to be too much. Megan is beautiful but she knew time she married a pastor and became a First Lady she should have knew it was time to dress less revealing. God told her Devon was her husband maybe they come back together. Christ has to be the head of the church.
Exactly I have their books and was soo happy for them.
If you believe that, they you are extremely misguided, extremely uninformed, extremely delusional, or all of the above.
And that's sad.
It is crazy though how God used the supposed “jezebel” to expose the hypocrisy within the Church tho. I love it cuz she kept it real. As a community, we all got some work to do.
I so loved the way her husband defended his wife against that form of godliness that tried to come against his wife! I know folk that dress the part and look the part but are “evil and bitter” on the inside. I’ll always love the pastor for that.
True.
I know this personally all to well.
Even though I do dress modestly but that’s because I’m comfortable that way and I’m a teacher.
Your comment is EXTREMELY insane!! How can you DEFEND someone against GODLINESS/ Against GOD/ Against what is good and objectively/ factually correct and right? You can only DEFEND against something that is wrong and bad. By DEFINITIN! Something that is GOOD, will not harm or destroy something or someone that is good.
What what actually happening there was GOOD/ GODLINESS, trying to nicely and respectfully correct, advise and guide the 2 Satanic Clowns, Megan and Devon. You saw GODLINESS trying to guide and save SATANISM/ Satanists..
See, what you have fallen into is literally the very common problem of viewing good as evil, and evil as good. LITERALLY, that's what you're doing and what you have fallen into. YOU HAD BETTER WAKE UP AND FAST BEFORE YOU END UP IN HELL. Im serious, LISTEN to what I just said. WAKE UP AND REALIZE WHAT YOU'RE DOING, before the end comes and you end up in hell. Because with your current perception, that's where you're headed.
This is just like the woman in the audience, another case of someone trying to SAVE someone who is lost, before its too late. I'm gone.
It will be interesting to see how Shaunie O’Neal handles being a First Lady with her new husband Pastor Keion!
I said the same thing. Cause it ain’t peaches and cream. lol basketball wives definitely ain’t Christian lol
EXACTLY 💯
Shaunie is fake & phony she can handle that marriage standing on her head.
@@BriaBarrows you got that right. I've been wondering if she still going to be on basketball guys marrying this preacher.
@@LBgodchild 🎯‼️
Regardless of which award you were to give out, she chose that dress. Part of her felt it was inappropriate or it wouldn’t trigger her the way it did. I don’t wish for any couple to have this level of pressure and scrutiny on their relationship. Hopefully they are able to grow from this.
These Hollywood marriages are really getting on my nerves. We get so invested and are so happy about their love. But behind closed doors. It's really not greener on the other side. Sad
But Why are people so invested in someone’s relationship and not their talents? That’s where the problem lies. These are people famous for their talents not for who they date or marry.
Why are you invested into someone’s life though
I surely don't get invested in these ppl lives!
I don’t think any relationship is greener on the other side. I think we get what God believes is best for us. I believe social media creates envy over false realities.
@@CandieP exactly! Not once have I idolized Ciara and Russell.
This is why you should not be unequally yoked! Nobody wanna say that!
Exactly
For me, I will always say this to my young men. There's no need to rush into marriage, especially if you're in the Christian faith. Keep working on yourself, praying and asking God to prune your rough edges daily. With the way things are these days, you need to be even extra careful, consider everything before entering because that one decision can make you or unmake you.
They rushed into marriage bcz of sex
Matt 26,v 40-43 talk about spirit is willing and the flesh is weak so we have agree with the word says
The lady was right, he stood up for her because he knew he should but if he is really a man of God he should have told her the same thing.
It's really annoying that people judge then for not having not children. Some people simply DO NOT want children and others just cannot have them. A lot of people have been turned off to church bc of judgement. I'm sad for them, the way that he defended his wife, you can tell her really loves her.
Hollywood preacher ????? He seems so fake to me. Ive said it bfore he gives me downlow vibes. Church people are so riduculous How does god expect everone to be the same. When fruits differ wonderfully. Everybody is blaming her and i cant belive it. I could prolly never trust a preacher. Its easy to seem godly when people watching. But who is he when noone is looking???? Shes been transparent. Some of them women in church are just as promiscuous. Its been awful for her. I hope she is now free Im sorry but the same people judged jesus. I hope she runs and i hope she pulls a billionaire. 😂
Render your heart not your garment
@@cynthiacromwell8002 damn that’s you feel sis😭😆.. he seems down to earth but to stern and critical I said this in my video
@@dillongriffith8569 That's not the scripture means.
She said in an interview she didn't want kids like that
If they hadn't made their relationship sooooo public, none of us would have had anything to say. Move in silence.
I sure hated to hear of this but I saw the writing on the wall years ago. They tried and it lasted as long as it lasted. It’s life and it happens. I’ll continue to be fans of them and wish them all the best…..🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
The lady who addressed Megan sounds drunk 🤷🏾♀️
And at a church gathering 😂😂😂😂😂
Rap award or Gospel award, that dress was distasteful for a pastor's wife. She can wear whatever she wants but she cannot control the consequences of having your entire torso on display. The woman that corrected her with love (at the conference) was dismissed by Devon as well. I feel he eventually got with her cos he was starstruck or more he thought she would eventually evolve into conservative ways. Steve Harvey who isn't even a church guy doesn't accept kissing roles for movies or anything let alone a first Lady. I wish them well tho
She didn’t correct her with love. She embarrassed her in public which is what most old jealous gags do.
@@Sunshinestarryrose ok, if you say so.
@@ajike I agree the lady did correct Meaghan with love!
@@lucysmith8326 that's what I thought too
I never felt this was going to work. Being a pastors wife is not for everyone. They weren’t equally yoked, which is exactly why they have ended up here.
Exactly.
Meagan is being judged by the church AND the world. Sheeesh... I'm praying for you Meagan cause I remember going through such a chapter in life. It ain't easy. Hang in there.
Married 35 years. Requires commitment, mutual respect, real love.
Laila! I love the way you approached your commentary on this subject. I don’t often like way some RUclips bloggers handle celebrity real life stories, however I thank you for how you do what you do with Grace, especially this story. I hope the couple sees your segment and decide to rethink their chance for Love!
The Christian community was never invested in their marriage in a good or bad way.
I think Megan just got tired of being ridiculed and having to live up to this impossible standard. Nobody is perfect. Even these Christian’s who swear they are
He also wanted children, which she never wanted children of her own. Not every woman wants to be mothers. Yet she had infertility issues due to uterine cancer. Therefore she can't have children anyways. And that's OK!
They've been separated for almost a year before this news to the media.
I feel like their union became a product too fast. Not being on panels would have been better for them both.
The red pill RUclips content creators are eating this up just because they’re getting a divorce they’re saying Megan is for the streets when I’ve only seen her handle herself as a lady in public but since he’s a pastor he’s the saint and she’s the sinner
That woman who stood up to ‘correct’ Megan was out of line. I’m sorry, that’s not something you do to an human publicly. If it’s that bothersome check yourself!
She's the type of people that make people stop going to church
@@ZANDEELEIGH I agree! It makes me cringe
IDK about y'all, but that made me shed a tear!
They wore poor Meagan down until she just was completely done with these hypocrites!
They be the main ones "sneakin' with the deacon"!!
If she really wanted to correct Meagan she was supposed to do it privately
After watching Harlem I was wondering if he really did support her, really
I wonder the same thing. Then, they didn't have children. I think he might have wanted kids because he is 43, and most men in the church have this "family man" image, but I don't think she wanted kids.
@@angien2919 I was wondering that too, 9 years and no kids 😒 I always support Meagan hopefully she can find someone who she can be herself with.
...and hopefully Devon can find a woman that deserves him.
I feel like he supports her because he loves her but wasn’t fond of the roles she took. Probably also didn’t want to be controlling or portrayed as insecure.
@@fblavishfblavish Good point, I wouldn’t have took those roles myself knowing who I’m married too.
The story is beautiful of how they got together but we never know what’s going on behind closed doors or anyone’s battles in a relationship
Praying for both of them , sont know what happened but I'm sure this is one of the roughest things they've had to endure. My God strengthen them and give them peace that surpasses understanding. To the people who spoke negatively and cursed their marriage wow be unto them.🙏🏽
Lets be honest here, unfortunately this marriage was doomed from the Start!!!! anyone who really knows the word and have studied it, they won’t be any questions about the longevity of this marriage
Exactly
Unequally yoked from day 1 I’m not surprised
Exactly
100% Facts
We would never truly know why they are divorcing. None of us knows what happens behind the closed doors of someone's marriage. We can only assume. So I'm not judging.
Honestly when I heard that God gave her the message that he was her husband and not him that was a "RED" flag for me. For the Word says Whoso findeth a wife findeth a good thing, and obtaineth favour of the LORD.Proverbs 18:22 not the other way around 🙄 the Lord spoke to me in a still small voice about my wife and the first woman I spoke after 10 years of being single we got married because of the guidance and relationship I had with Christ not her. We as men must hear from God and not ourselves. Get conformation from God and not "Eve". Forever 🙏🏿 Blessed 🙌🏿
That is fault gospel.
Marriage is hard - even with Jesus. Praying the best for both of them. And I hope they can always show each other love and kindness.