the hidden dynamics of privileged friendships
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- Опубликовано: 17 окт 2024
- In this video, we're going to talk about the hidden dynamics of privileged friendships. What do you need to know if you want to be friends with rich kids? And what are the consequences?
We all know that being friends with rich kids can lead to a lot of advantages. But what are the hidden dynamics behind these relationships? And what are the consequences when these dynamics are put to the test?
If you're thinking about whether or not to be friends with rich kids, then this video is for you! By the end of the video, you'll know everything you need to know about the hidden dynamics of privileged friendships, and the consequences that can come from having them.
Join me on this transformative journey as I share how I navigated friendships with privileged kids when I was one of them and how I stayed friends when my family faced financial challenges. This video is a testament to the power of genuine connections and self-discovery amidst life's uncertainties. Let's engage in a supportive dialogue about friendship, privilege, and personal growth. Like, share, and subscribe to support the channel and inspire more authentic stories. #friendshipjourney #SelfDiscovery #NavigatingPrivilegeAndAdversity
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Your really beautiful ❤
Its interesting that people think, hanging out together, going to clubs, restaurants and vacations are so integral to frienship
Its very backwards, you actually make real friends by going through real shi with them
Nice point. When I think about it, books of fiction often portray friendship as going through literal hell together-- fights, hardships, deaths, complex emotions. Hanging out and vacations is just the ice cream on top and a well-needed rest instead of actually considered important to the plot.
what iff they usually ask for money and they have legit issues.
some people are so poor all they got is money bro. So thankful I grew up in poverty. I know the value of 99 cents. this girl don't
I hope that you don’t worry too much about looking “spoiled”. There’s absolutely nothing wrong with growing up wealthy. I grew up fairly poor. My siblings and I would often share a single tin of soup because there was nothing else to eat. That experience taught me a lot. I would imagine that growing up wealthy teaches you a lot too! Don’t hide yourself. As long as you’re not bragging (you really don’t seem like the type to brag) then it’s totally fine. Your stories are so fascinating to me! It’s very interesting to hear an honest perspective on the privileges and also the challenges you faced from growing up as a rich kid. Xx
Wow sharing a single tin of soup 🥺 omg
I wonder what your parents would eat in those moments probably that soup was all there was!
My father many days would go without lunch at work so that he could provide lunch money for my siblings and I 😪
@@Tionaintown876 often our parents were going out to splurge on KFC while we were at home with nothing more than stale bread 😂 they had strange priorities, but I will tell you now - I take absolutely NOTHING in my life for granted 🙏
@@dogzentraining your parents were bad parents
I teared up at your frenemy asking you to meetup at a park to walk her dog. Rich or poor, young and old, this is a true friend for life that we all are searching for. If you are lucky enough to have found one, keep nurturing this friendship for life. Thank you for sharing.
I realised you’re the same girl from the privileged few I can see you’re actually so humble and wise. Turning your life into a brand was such a wise decision, like our real life blair wardof 😂❤
Another 20 minutes and 41 seconds of relaxation in my life
Haha so happy to hear that ❤️
Same. What the heaven😊.
At uni i got friends who are very wealthy, now their birthdays are coming up and it is kind of clear we all want to gift each other something, i just am not that well off so i can not afford anything that would suit them, mind you i thought about what to gift them based off the topics we talked about and what i think they want or need in lower cost categories, long story short i am not satisfied with the presents I ended up getting for them
As an example, with one girl we talked a lot about how much we love rituals (the brand), i like the brand from the window shopping and that one little bodyspray i got after saving money for a couple of weeks, to her the brand is like an one dollar shop, j thought maybe i will still manage to get her a room perfume type of thing but that didnt work out so i just got her a regular room perfume from a different 'brand' which is unknown, i feel like there is no point to this gift, it doesnt seem luxurious, it isnt personal, there is basically nothing to this gift, no thought process at least none that she can see through and understand
I know about the "writing them a card, a personal note" and thats cool and all but we havent known each other for a very long period so we just are jot quiet on that level and eventhough we might say personal kind words are worth more, in order for the gift to be 'complete' j still feel like i need an actual physical gift
I’m sorry no one replied to you earlier. I’m also sorry because I haven’t got anything of value to contribute to your dilemma. Except that I can imagine this being a difficult situation. Ugh. I hope everything turned out well in the end.
I honestly can’t imagine how embarrassing it would be if I had rich friends that all bought me something grand and expensive and I only had modest, low cost presents. And it’s silly because I know that they wouldn’t care about that, but I would care so much I would just die of shame.
(I’m only saying this in my comment because it’s so long after the fact and I know it won’t make you feel really awkward about the situation since it’s already over 😅)
чем больше слушаю тебя на тиктоке и здесь, тем больше не могу сдерживаться написать, какая ты классная. приятно слушать такого умного, внимательного, приземленного, амбициозного человека. ты наверняка хороший друг.
спасибо большое за такие теплые слова! мне очень приятно💜
It is great that even though you lived in a bubble life, you still communicate your thoughts with so much awareness and you are so grounded when you explain things. I really like this channel, thank you for sharing your story
Yes, that's normal. That's what education does.
i like your dad, he seems wise
I love this. These human stories are not told enough to show most people why wealthy people are human and have struggles also. And they are very specific and very isolating! Lots hide their wealth and "pretend to be poor" because the hatred of wealth has been so highly stoked by the American media specifically to make us turn on each other and be unable to work together in harmony. Money is not the only struggle that matters in the world!
We have nothing in common but I love to listen to your stories. Greetings from Poland
Greetings from Kenya
Greetings from the Caribbean!
@@vanillavania. Which island are you living on?
@@EriPages It’s a US territory. :)
@@vanillavania. Why are you smiling? Do people from your island culturally smile over everything said?
I feel so freaking seen by this, your struggles are exactly what happened to me. I realized that my rich friends only wanted to be around me to do cool stuff together and my friends that didn’t grow up to similar backgrounds with constantly kept calling me spoiled and dumb from their jealousy.
I know now that I’m on the path of finding real friends by not pretending or hiding. The real friends will like you for your personality and not image
Its so interesting to see this perspective. I was an international student in a very prestigious university in Paris and it was really hard to fit in. Not only because of the money and status but perhaps also because they were Parisians 😅
its nice to hear rich person so honest
Yeah because 99.99% of them will not talk about what she is talking about, being a silver spoon. There is a literal nick name for kids like this. Silver spoons. But we all know the elite families are pulling the strings while their kids hold onto all of their mental disabilities and handicaps. I mean you can only get away with the love of money for so long before it catches up with you. You feel me ?
Didn't even know people used to go out on vacation with friends lol it's so interesting to learn about different life backgrounds
I really like the end how you pointed out reaching out on Instagram. I’ve never tried to get “rich” friends, but I do lack friends and feel a bit lost on how to find/approach people. I’ve considered DMing someone before, but I’m so afraid to look weird or creepy. Especially as a 27 y/o it can feel hard to gauge these things because you feel “out of the loop” on many social and internet norms. Although I’m not sure what exactly I would say beyond “you look cool” lol
always supporting u albina❤❤
Thank you, I appreciate you so much🫶🏻
thanks for sharing your stories 🙌
Thank you for listening 🫶🏻
Thank you for this video l, your story is very similar to mine and this video is very relatable, you literally put all my thoughts in this video!!❤️❤️
So happy I have like-minded people❤️ I hope you are doing well and surrounded by true friends
4:00- good that u double checked with your Dad abt the friends .
This content is so unique and necessary
@aliyevaalbina I have questions. First of all, I love your honesty and transparency. You talked about feeling self secure - could you please talk more about that? Like, how did you achieve it? Before the war, you didn’t feel the need to prove yourself as a rich kid. And then you realized you’ve become insecure during the war due to financial hardships. I am assuming that your parents making the money back afterwards and hence providing you with the financial security helped with you achieving self security again. Was this the case? If so, what would you advise people who are financially insecure, hence are not self secure, to do? Were there people you know who were financially unstable but were still self secured and made rich friends? Could you share more about those? Thank you!
Your pov is honestly so interesting. Ty for being so open about your experience and your learning process.
The Rawness and Realness is welcome and informative. For someone from Pluto like myself, grasping the über Earthly mindset especially of über Capitalism is now actually interesting and fun. D9d the trip to rock bottom there to grow some feet, so the next chapter is very exciting if simultaneously nerve wracking. 🎉 Your channel is appreciated much. N.
Would love more of these types of videos! Love your honesty and transparency
В запой посмотрела все видео. Спасибо огромное за труд! У меня была похожая ситуация после 2014. Я стала бедной среди богатых детей в английском пансионате. И это действительно был большой reality check
Спасибо большое что посмотрели все видео, не могу даже описать насколько мне это приятно 🫶🏻 как сейчас все? Вы оправились от этого опыта?
@@aliyevaalbina если честно, то мои родители не смогли встать на ноги как тогда. Поэтому сейчас немного другая реальность, живу в Европе но в стране с очень доступным образованием. Почти все финансы на мне. Трудно, но я верю что опыт который был у меня очень мне поможет. Я никогда не буду себя чувствовать хуже людей с хорошими финансами. Помогает не ставить себя выше/ниже других, и не судить людей по финансам. Я смогу очень легко адаптироваться к «высшему обществу» так как умею думать, разговорить и вести себя так же. Поэтому очень благодарна родителям за возможности которые были и верю смогу вернуть себя к этим возможностям но уже сама) ❤️
i discovered your channel less than a week ago and i'm hobestly obsessed, you deserve more followers
Thanks for sharing your perspectice! I grew up in an environment where material possesion didn't matter at all. So it's valuable and interesting to me to hear your story!
Your dad is wise ❤
I freaking love your honesty
I like your personality 😍 come to LA, we will go for surfing, it’s free LOL
Hi Albina! I really enjoy your content and find it incredibly helpful. It would be amazing if you could organize a Meet and Greet or some kind of community event. It would be a fantastic opportunity to connect with you and other viewers in person. Getting to know you beyond your videos would be great because you seem like such an interesting person. Plus, for you as a creator, it could be inspiring to see the real impact you have on your audience. Keep up the amazing work! 💜
Great stories, great video
Love your videos sm they are so relatable!!! The world needs to know the truth
Thank you🎉
Good that you learn human dynamics at a young age. Priceless!
And botox makes you look like 30 trying to look 2 years younger.
I love this
Remember me when you are famous
I will🫡
me too lol 😂
@@aliyevaalbinaI found you on TikTok. 😤 Your content is so relaxing and enlightening at the same time. It makes me reflect on my life too.
Materialistic teenagers turn into materialistic adults who then have materialistic children.
thank you for this video. It was very informative.
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Good shii girl💪
See I don’t like to say I grew up a rich kid but I will say I grew up heavily privileged my parents wouldn’t always just give me things but when I was younger I will admit most things were handed to me and the only reason I wanted things in school is because my friends had them and I wouldn’t fit in because I’m not wearing the new j’s that dropped but I didn’t realize this till more the end of high school because like you said it’s like a bubble your under and oblivious to what is going on around you not because you don’t care but more because you just didn’t know because your confident it’s not something you have to worry about
I’m not rich but a lot of my friends are poorer than me. And I feel like I can’t go out to places I can afford.
must be very hard
I wish I had put it politely ~ as an east Asian I always find so much proximity with Ukrainian/Russian to yellow people though you guys obviously look very white 😂 we all treasure tight-knit family and keep small circles of friends only
Hey Albina, 100 dollars or 100 rich friends?)
How stressful was this experience compared to the stress of Russia invading your homeland?
I feel like you were way poorer than you realized at the time and your parents didn't tell you how bad it was. Because usually for someone rich eating out even in fancy restaurants is not really going to move the needle on their finances. a $200 dinner is not going to help them when they lost 23 million in an oil refinery
Your parents spoiled you they've done an injustice to you by not letting you deal with reality of how the world really works. Rich people should not spoil their children. You look at Howard Buffett Warren Buffett's kid he's very well-adjusted he's civilized is not an animal. There are poor people that are animals and there are rich people that are animals. I'm certainly not perfect. There's a lot of rich people that don't appreciate money have no respect for it. You shouldn't be taking your kids to fancy elite restaurants. You're just creating a terrible human being if that maybe not even a human being. Showing your kid experiences that's not a bad thing but and certainly eating healthy food is a good thing and that's not cheap.
Lmao finally a silver spoon talking about reality. F***** A bro it only took 2,024 years
I literally can't believe you're actually talking about this. You know you're not supposed to talk about this right? What about all of the elite families? the nepotism? The Truth? oh yeah that's right it's just a cycle of super mega rich families pulling the strings above everything
Yall identify with your possessions, you can't take them to the grave. Only thing you're going to take is your relationship with Jesus Christ. Lol possessions