Thank God that someone in your generation is speaking, or else they will say it is old school belief. coming from you, the young ones are far more likely to believe that it is possible and its the best decision. The issue is that girls need to put a price on their bodies and not be cheap. Nobody values cheap articles. Thank you for this video. It sure makes sense and God will honor you for standing against the tide.
I dn't know why am still a virgin at 28, Neverthless, am enjoying being a virgin. Trusting God for the right woman to marry. If you're still a virgin the wait is worth it. If you're having sexual activities outside married, after watching this video stop that and wait till marriage. Thank you for this video. I believe it will touch alot of lives.
@@dolphinenashisako4524 really because the comment are just women women and women 😭 did the Bible just said to women to stay virgin and not mens or !!!
@@abigailyeboa6334 my dear, not all men will pressure you to have sex, that’s a big fat lie from the pit of hell. There are still godly men who believe in sexual purity and abstinence before marriage. I married one of them. My courtship period was very smooth because my husband and I believed in the same thing. You don’t have to go to a man’s house to cook or wash for him! Who made these silly rules mbok? Please my dear honor God with your body and he will send one of His sons to marry you. Cheers
I am a guy waiting on Lord for who to marry. I am a virgin, and i am waiting for my chosen woman too. It has not been easy. So many presure from friends. But i refused, and i am still going strong. Thank you for this video of encouragement. I pray God leads me to my wife, ijn.
@@geniusnationmusic for me was realising the energy transfer is real and I totally agree with that... If you're sexually active and observe yourself you'll see it...
The truth is, as a married woman I can tell single ladies that if you have made up your mind to abstain from sex before marriage the right man would NEVER pressurize you to do otherwise because once you are married you both can decide to be having sex every day and no one will penalize you for it because you are licensed now. It's because the man what's to hit and run hence he is pressurizing the lady in question..my dear sisters please don't fall for it there are still men out there who love, value and respect you enough to wait till marriage and I speak from experience
I'm 26 and still holding up but it not easy..... Sometimes I feel like having s*x but thank God for his grace hope I find the right partner one day Amen
I thank God that there are still successful women who still believe in good morals and the things that make us up as Christians and as elegant women , thank you for sharing , I believe this has to go viral and am so sharing this .
Can never be old school,it's only those who has lost theirs that present it that way so that all can be one. Fornication is fornication. There is no old school hell or new school hell. May God help every part of our lives. The ones in the secret and open please God
When i got a notification about this topic i was like hmmm 🤔, this is coming from my mentor Im 28 years old and then everyone around me suddenly sees virginity as a plague, a man would tell you i cant be with a woman im not sexing, friends tell me you could atleast indulge in other sex activities so you don't push a man away,lol does it even keep the men, i tell them i want to honor God with my body, tell me does virginity give you a good husband. I was almost giving it all up thinking its time to indulge since everyone is into it, im still in the right path and i will keep waiting till i get it right with the right person Thank you sis winnie
You must realize that obedience to Gods law is more powerful than pleasing the society even when supporting the right virtue. That willingness to obey God is power above all changes in society.
I took that decision a long time ago. My marriage is 22yrs this year and I don't regret that decision. I had infertility issues for 14yrs ,my husband and inlaws never worried me for one day. They were all supportive. Yes,it's difficult but there is pride in it. Winnie, God will continue to bless you
I used to feel very very unclean after having sex. I would really scrub my body afterwards or I would feel like leaving that guy immediately because my subcounsios mind was telling me this is unclean. I could even smell it😮. I am blessed with a very sensitive sense of smell. I would feel like throwing up even. My late parents taught us to wait until we get married. My mom was a virgin when she met my dad. That's the main reason I still respect them where they are. It's one and half year now clean single. When I look at my body I smell success❤. I smell cleanliness which is next to my Creator. I wanna honor God with my body. Wooooooow Winnie!!! I am already seeing the rewards. I don't miss out all my prayer times even at night. You are probably one of a million to raise such subject. My reason at my senior age of choosing to say no sex is, I wanna live a full Elegance lifestyle with complete confident with my clean conscious and walk with my head held high.
@gugumazibuko6275 I completely agree with you on that self-conscious unclean feeling that you're talking about in your comment I get what you mean I understand what you're saying❣️
Still a virgin at 30 years and I am proud of it... Hoping to get married to my Man very soon. I pray God sends me my husband cos it has not been easy. God has been helping 🙏🙌
Finally someone who is bold to say it. No sex until marriage. I don’t have to be a virgin It doesn’t matter what age I owe no one any explanations It’s my decision. Respect it Thank you Winnie
Yes, I also advise men to only marry Virgins. It is good to wait for marriage before having sex, it is also good to marry someone who hasn't had sex before marriage
@@creative_cooper if she ain’t a virgin but is like no action before marriage, it indicates that she actually isn’t physically attracted to you but wants to marry probably for resources or something else. Prepare to suffer in such marriage as a guy
I was once into sexual immortality but 7month and counting I have restrained myself from sex , but currently my partner is convincing me to try again but after watching this video of urs am convinced and have My Evidence God has redirected My footstep to completely stayed away from sex till after marriage Thank you Ma am so much grateful for this
My dear,I have not had sex 3years now and still counting by the grace of God 🙏..don't let anyone lie to you. If he doesn't want to wait let him go,the right man will come 🥰👍❤
Sometimes I cry out of pain that I failed myself 😢… if only I had got such videos earlier I believe I wouldn’t be so full of regrets… but am healing now… the best apology I owe God is a better life than before ❤
@@adongobennacaroline231 Everybody makes mistakes. It's best you ask God for forgiveness but also forgive yourself. Don't be to hard on yourself. Love and cherish your new and improved self. Wish you all the best🎉
I have a lot to say,wonderful video. I would like to add this. As a female never you go to a man’s house. If you want to meet a man,meet him at a public place. Don’t say you are strong,anything can happen in few seconds. Keeping yourself till marriage is good,but be watchful,smart and vigilant. Men can be tricky
For anyone out there who have had sex before you don't have to condemn yourself. It's never too late to start afresh or change for the better. Who you were, who you are, and who you will be are three different people. Pour your heart to God, let his love fill your life. He will show you a love you never knew existed before. . You are still precious before the Lord. ❤
This came timely. Just what I needed at this time of my life. Haven't had sex but I have been involved in foreplay which usually leave me feeling dirty . Thank you Winnie
I commend you for not going all the way. But speaking from experience, that foreplay can leave you so weak that, before you know it, you'll slide right into the very thing that you've been trying to avoid and then you've opened up Pandora's box and it's very hard to close it back up. It's like you enter into a weakened state to where it's harder each time after that to resist the temptations of going there again especially with that same person you went there with initially...
@@monicalangle3417 so how can I help it, how can I resist it from happening again I didn't want to have sex either but have engaged in sexual activities and I felt so dirty how can I stop it from happening again 😢😢
I still think me making this decision since I was a teenager (10yrs old) has been the best decision I've made while i was a teenager. 13yrs later I'm looking at myself in the mirror and appreciating myself. My decision has helped me move on quickly from relationships that were unhealthy, it helped me not to waste my time. As time is of great value. I bless the day I subscribed to your Chanel. You're a big sister, a friend and someone I look up to with so much gusto. God bless you Winnie and yes I love God too and I have a beautiful relationship with him🤭🌹✨
This is beautiful to watch. A virgin at 27. I'm so glad because i met Christ in secondary school and since then I'm determine to obey God with my body❤❤❤
I've been on this journey and there was a time I literally heard the HOLYSPIRIT say "I'm proud of you ". That day I bursted into tears, because that relationship looks promising, but up until now I'm still waiting and I'll keep holding on to GOD.❤❤❤ I'm 27 too, met GOD at age 13too
I chose celibacy too and seeking God afresh seriously since 2021. God is healing my heartbreak because I regret failing God in this area. We should really guard our energy and our soul, and keep away from people who don't have the same values as we do. I got pregnant and the father of my child walked away and married someone else. Now my child wonders why her father doesn’t talk to her. God is serious. I pray to God for my beautiful daughter, that God Himself will fill that gap of missing her father.
I smiled watching this video and smiled even more when i saw I wasn't walking this walk alone. I made this decision as a teenager and i must say it has saved me from a lot of heartbreak. My friends wonder how i get to move on quickly from someone i ones admired and loved so much. Anyways! This topic clearly explains why so first I'll subscribe to this wonderful channel and share this message to my friends. I can't be selfish 😊 There's nothing as sweet and peaceful like walking away with your head high up knowing God is still happy with you. Thank you ma'am for this message it's very timely. I was smiling while typing this😊😊😊😊
I remember i was waiting for a favour from God. I knelt in church oneday and said God, you said our body is the temple of God and i have kept it that way, i also need something from you please pay me back and He did it even more than i was looking for. I am 26 and im always glad for this decision i made. I AM A CHILD OF GOD AND I GO ACCORDING TO HIS WILL. I wish every youth watches this. Thank you Winnie for being on this side.
I always get excited about topics like this, it makes me think that I'm not alone in this. I always look for videos like this that encourages me to keep going. I left my previous relationship because he didn't see anything wrong with sex before marriage. I wasn't going to lose a 24 years worth journey for one person. I'm also glad I've found someone who shares in my values. Really respects you for this.
Esteemed Sister Winnyyyyuuu I love this video. God bless you. I'm a Guy and believe me I'm happy that I took this step. I don't give a damn on what people say. My peace ✌️ of mind is sacrosanct
Am 23 now and am very proud to have made the decision of no sex before marriage. The world has normalised it to the point that i started thinking that i made the wrong decision but seeing this video just inspired and lifted my spirits to stick to my decision, the word of God and what is right. Thank you so much Winnie ❤️ may God make you a global phenomenon, the world needs an elegant and God fearing woman like you.
This is so beautiful❤.Thank you so much Winnie. Abstinence is still the best. I held on for 35yrs before marriage, though it wasn't easy, but it remains one of my best decisions.
Very interesting message. I totally agree with this. However, we’ve seen multiple cases of people that stayed away from sex until married, were spirit filled, got married and still separated. In that case, what do you do? What happened with the energies? Abstaining from sex is a good personal decision, while a relationship involves two people who should share same values and belief systems and maybe even want the same things, else they cannot work. A relationship should involve two people who genuinely see beyond their bodies as the recipe for sticking together ultimately because sex abstinence is not guarantee for a successful life or marriage. We must put God first, be disciplined, pray for grace and also trust God to lead us. Thank you for sharing.
After getting pregnant in 2017, the Lord has been teaching me on the dangers of sex before marriage and that made me wish that i could turn back the time because I was not raised in a faith based home where we were taught reason why sex before marriage is not right. It has not been an easy journy as i faced many temptations but I give thanks to the Lord that since the 22 October 2017 I did not have sexand it is going to be 7 years now this year and belive me, it was the best decision i have ever made. The Lord promised me marriage and I am patiently waiting for His time and I pray my God given husband is abstaining from sex before marriage as I am until God Himself bring us together❤. Abstatining from sex before marriage is possible and it begins with you. To God be the glory🙏🙏.
I'm with you on this Winnie 100%. God's commandments are not grievous but to our advantage. There are so many advantages of choosing to save sex for marriage. You have said a lot but I just want to add this amongst many others. Saving sex until marriage prevents you from creating unneccessary soul-ties. Nothing makes you carry your head high up after a heartbreak like when u remember the person didn't get to see your nakedness after it all. Your Cameroonian fan🇨🇲
I've never been able to relate with heart breaks after a break up cos I wasn't sexually committed to anyone as a young girl and it saved me a whole lot. If we could love and respect ourselves enough to avoid premarital sex, a lot of societal ills will be avoided. I'm your Cameroonian sister btw😊
I respect you and I love the journey. I am 40 and don't believe in having sex before marriage because I don't want bad memories and attachments. I love my freedom
Even as a married woman who stayed away from sex before marriage... This still blessed me. Thank you for the last point. I'm sharing this video right away. God bless you Winnie
Same here! Married as a virgin! No single regret but I owe it to God’s grace! Married at 29. Made that God fearing decision as a young girl. It’s been the Fear of God over pressure from any human including myself😅.
Best video on sexual purity that I have stumbled on. Unapologetically speaking the truth in a world filled with moral decadence. People make it look weird when they hear you being celibate and waiting till marriage😊. God bless you for making this video.
100% Agree Winnie! I didn't even kiss my husband before marriage. We were emotionally, spiritually and mentally intimate before being physically intimate. Soooo glad i did. Sometimes when i think about women jumping into physical intimacy before truly being connected and secure, it makes me so sad. It's like eating flavored feces for chocolate...it may be good enough, but not the best. The movies, and the lyrics of these impure love songs are wrong...just look at so many of their relationships and lives.
So timely😢 I'm a 31 year old virgin and I'm traumatized by the experience of a thief who burgled into our house at 2am and attempted to rape me in my room but God took control, he never succeeded, so, I was afraid , all kinds of what ifs kept ringing in my head and so, I was ready to give it to a guy I once loved, in my head, it's better to be disvirgined by someone you atleast love, than a total stranger or even worse, a THIEF, this mindset of, what if another thief attack me again and succeeded, the trauma has been alot for me 😢😢😢😢 I haven't done it yet, I just need all the encouragement in the world at this point, honestly 😭😭😭😭
May God continue to keep you safe and protected under HIS wings Please don't let the devil scare you into making such decision May God continue to give you strength to stay pure❤❤❤❤
Thank God for His protection!! May He continue to help you through this difficult times. You’re not alone in this “ no sex until marriage”. God is our strength sis ❤
1 Corinthians 6:18 - Flee from sexual immorality. Every other sin that a man may commit is outside his body but whoever practices sexual immorality is sinning against his own body. WHOEVER
I 100% agree with this I did the same and I have no regrets. I got married at 29. I feel men have more respect for people with these values. I’ve now been happily married for 9years.
I can say it is so so so refreshing to see a young beautiful "thriving" and high achieving lady speak this way!!!! It brings me so much joy! God bless you and God continue to strengthen you to keep this perspective as you journey on. Many will come for you after watching this video but my dear chin up, hold your head high and just keep doing you! God bless you!!!🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
I admire you sweet heart. I got married as a virgin. My husband proudly declared it to his siblings/parents This earned me a lot of love and respect by my in-laws. They are wonderful regardless of that though.
I totally agree. Thank you for the video. I for myself have been celibate for 6 years plus. Amen. Man spirit is to commune only with the spirit of GOD. We are co-creators with HIM. Once that is broken. It is extremely difficult even years to get that communion back~ your internal dialogue is Always most important. Sex is energy. As is money. Everything is SPIRIT. The Spirit of GOD cannot be unequally yoked with those that are not of TRUE Spirit. You are correct Miss Winnie about the emotions, energy, and your body. I am so appreciative with my life. I Am Grateful God has given me mastery over my flesh.
@@ElizabethUchechi-wm5lftell him that you no longer want to have sex before marriage and show him bible scriptures that are against sex before marriage, if he insist on pressuring you to have sex,dump him
@@ElizabethUchechi-wm5lf tell him that you have heard the word of God and you would like to live your life according to God's standards. Tell him you feel bad to continue sinning knowing . If he us for you he will wait until " I do day " pray about it that he will understand you , if possible show him the verses too
I have been booried alot of times because of keeping my self from having sex before marriage, and I have lost several relationships because of sex rejection , but after watching this video am inspired ❤️🙏🙏🙏
A woman who has this mindset is a great national asset! Winnie, i didnt know that with all your intelligence, you were/are also God-fearing. God help us to keep being pure until marriage...🙏🙌
Kai Indeed there's nothing like elegance without knowing your creator "elegant daughter of the most high" , i love you mama and I'm glad we're many . Let's keep making God proud. More grace to you ma ❤️💝
Winnie, This video made me proud. Made me know that God still has daughters. May we continue to receive the Help of the Holyspirit, because it's not by might, but by spirit. The spirit is always willing, but the flesh is weak. May we receive strength to overcome the dirty desires of the flesh
Thank you Winnie for this video, I'm a virgin at 28 years old and I'm encouraged. I'm ensuring my lifestyle fits perfectly into the will of God as you said. Keep up the good work ❤❤❤
@@margretgodwin2856 Its very good dear. Our God is always ready to welcome us back, after all he said he came for the sinners and not really the righteous that they may be saved.❤️
In this crazy world where it feels like virgins should hide their face for being virgins. My love for you just got increased 💕💕💕 I am very proud of you ❤❤❤
Thank you so much Winnie. God bless you real good . This is really timely especially in the times we all face now. Sex appears to be normalized. Every things seems to carry sex appeal. Many young girls are pressured into this act by their friends who are already into it in order to increase their number . Those who want to opt out, are often stigmatized and those who are desperately in need of acceptance often times fall into immortality. I know a sweet lady who is in her fifties and still a virgin. She tells me what she's experienced even from the opposite sex with one telling her that he'll never marry anyone who ref uses to sleep with him and that her decision to remain chaste is the reason why she's still single . But she answered and asked him whether he ended up marrying all those he slept with and what he did with them. You see, I'm happy we have people like you speaking up. It's giving those waiting on God hope . At a time the topic about chastity became obsolete. Many churches are on prosperity issues and few talk about consecration. Thank you for building back confidence in our young teenagers. God says that our bodies are HIs Temple . Let's keep it clean for Him . Thank you . God bless you
Thank you for sharing this Winnie! I am so happy to see this. Putting a premium on my body is extremely important! Plus I am responsible for my actions and decisions, no one is.
Thank you so much Winnie, I am from breaking up relationship with a man who was convincing me to make love to him while saying that he will marry me 😢. Thanks Lord because, I won this 😊. My mind is free, my heart is free, I just feel like I won a big battle Girl!! 😂 . I don't know how would I face my Lord Jesus? Thanks again for sharing this beautiful content ❤❤❤
I made this decision when I was a teenager, expecting my wedding at 21. But today I am 28 and single. I have kept this commitment all theses years along. I am still virgin despite of all these men I met and expected to have sex with me. I voluntary accept to walk away form them because my reason is stronger than being an elegant woman : GOD.
Keep me up the good work Sis am 29 and still holding on is worth it. The freedom I feel spiritually and emotionally can’t be tainted and I am willing to let go of any guy who is not in d walk with me is difficult but the end we will be victorious
@preciousosueke2721, thanks for sharing your experience. I am very grateful to Jesus Christ, who is actually the one, through Holy Ghost, who allow us to hold on among all the temptations and our weaknesses. And indeed, we'll be victorious at the end. Not for our husbands, but for GOD, for His Glory. May GOD bless you and make your road with him safe.
Oh wow! Winnie you have done a great job on this one. I believe in waiting until marriage to engage in sex. It works!!!!! I waited and I am very thankful to God and to myself😅 for making that choice. I am happily married to a man who had made the same choice of waiting until marriage to have sex. It is a very healthy choice. No sexual baggages in the marriage and of course God is glorified. I am thrilled by this video because I am a committed advocate for sexual purity. I teach about it to the young people in schools, churches, and other gatherings here in Kenya. Well done winnie🎉
And I don’t regret abstaining because it has been the most peaceful decision I’ve ever made. Peace of mind is the best kind of soft life I can ever give myself and abstaining from sex is an A+ for that. If the Bible says “I can do all things through Christ who gives me strength” (Philippians 4 vs 13) that means I can also manage to abstain from sex. So no one is coming to tell me that I can’t survive or maybe I can’t manage to function properly without it. In as much as the world has made having sex before marriage so normal, I’m not living to the standards of this world and I do my best to live life as an individual and not as a group or some community that has adopted worldly things. So for me, if it’s seems normal to everyone then I’m going to show the world that I only have one life and I’m living it on my own terms, principles aligning with the word of God. In fact no one has ever died for not having sex before marriage, so what’s with the rush? 😂 I’m honestly not rushing for anything.
I was a virgin until 33years before I got married, i was waiting for my God ordained husband not knowing God was bringing me an abstinence husband. I bless God I'm not regret with the direction he took me through
Thanks Winnie. This is such a great video. In the present age where influent people want to say neutral concerning spiritual things or faith to God, you were bold enough to clearly declare your faith and convictions. I once watched your videos and suspected you were a child of God, today I got the confirmation. May God take you higher and higher to inspire others. ❤
Ms. Winnie, I’m a new subbie here. I appreciate your Christ based content. Your comment, “put a premium on your body”, speaks volumes. When we follow God we are cleansed by the blood of the Lamb. So often when someone chooses to live a pure life they’re discouraged and encouraged to continue the world’s path. Thank you for standing with us as we trust God for a suitable mate as well keep our bodies a Temple for Christ.
I am a strong advocate too. One thing I discovered over these years of being celibate is that once you make that decision, the grace to keep it is instantly released and you see yourself overcoming. Yes, it's not easy but it's very much attainable and I am proudly Elegant😊. Thank you for this encouragement ma'am.
Waaaaoooo be blessed i last heard someone standing on this in my primary n i kept it actually it sound in my ears everday may God bless you lady you have strengthened me I ALSO SAY NO SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE
I still believe that sex should be done in marriage and that's my decision, no sex before marriage, Incase I don't get married I'll die a virgin period.
God bless the womb that birthed you Winnie….. I stood on these principles though I missed it in my thirties but retraced my steps and asked God for mercies…. Thank you for upholding celibacy before marriage.
I really don’t know what to write. You are a sister and a friend every lady should have. Thank You so much for this video. You are a shinning star and your light will never go dim ❤
This is soo bold of you Many are shying away from such discussions I knew it was a bad practice, but had not understood why is it bad These reasons are soo true oh my God have mercy upon us and me particularly i need the grace to stay pure🙏🙏🙏
I remember meeting a guy in school that wanted a relationship with me and I told him we can not be sexually involved in the relationship and he said it’s old school not having sex before marriage 😂 Thank God I didn’t continue because I know my God given man will come 😊 People don’t really want to hear about this but I’m glad you talked about this, God’s standard for life ❤You just gained a subscriber.
Really happy someone of influence is talking about this. Also happy she is single because some persons might think it's easier for a married person to talk about this after they've lived their lives and are finally married😂. Not indulging in sexual activities before marriage saves you from a whole lot. Thank you Winnifred for talking about this❤
Oh my goodness…this is amazing! It such a comfort knowing we are many with this mindset. I’m 26, and I’m praying God gives me the strength to continue this standard till marriage . Thank you
I took up this decision as a teenager and I don’t regret it … my wedding is this Saturday and I’m doing that with my God given man 🎉 I’m glad I waited
Yes love congratulations darling 💖 ❤️ 💕
Aww congratulations now you’ll enjoy everything you denied yourself of. Happy Married life❤
Wow
Congratulations dear
Congratulations ❤❤❤
Congratulations
"No matter how the world has normalized sex before marriage,it doesn't make it right"! I love this. Thank you Winnie.♥️
My absolute pleasure!❤
I really love this
I am so happy that there's are still a true woman
Correct.
It's nice to have children within ( wedlock)a merriege setup
I agree with you 😊
I took this decision as teenager,till i got married and my boyfriend now husband agreed to it. We now married and have 2 boys 😊.
Wow! It's rare he agreed to it... how many years did you guys date for
I took that stance, celibacy is a great defense against certain spiritual wars
Thank God that someone in your generation is speaking, or else they will say it is old school belief.
coming from you, the young ones are far more likely to believe that it is possible and its the best decision.
The issue is that girls need to put a price on their bodies and not be cheap.
Nobody values cheap articles.
Thank you for this video. It sure makes sense and God will honor you for standing against the tide.
I am a Deaf lady. I'm glad i can watch your videos, thanks to RUclips 'CC' (subtitle version)...❤❤❤
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Thank you dear sis Winnie
I dn't know why am still a virgin at 28, Neverthless, am enjoying being a virgin. Trusting God for the right woman to marry. If you're still a virgin the wait is worth it. If you're having sexual activities outside married, after watching this video stop that and wait till marriage. Thank you for this video. I believe it will touch alot of lives.
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God bless you for this message 😊. I have never heard this from any man before.😢
Reading a message from a man is impressive and encouraging! Virginity is always emphasized on women than we forget our men! Good job bro
@@dolphinenashisako4524 really because the comment are just women women and women 😭 did the Bible just said to women to stay virgin and not mens or !!!
@@JaneDoane I wonder😜
I was a virgin until 27 when i got married , it was one of the best decisions I made.
How did u make it cos they say men likes sex and everyone is saying sex before marriage what steps did u take to get married before sex
@@abigailyeboa6334 By saying No to sex
@@adaugo aw okay so did u sleep in his house before cook for him wash and those kind of stuffs?
@@abigailyeboa6334 my dear, not all men will pressure you to have sex, that’s a big fat lie from the pit of hell. There are still godly men who believe in sexual purity and abstinence before marriage. I married one of them. My courtship period was very smooth because my husband and I believed in the same thing. You don’t have to go to a man’s house to cook or wash for him! Who made these silly rules mbok? Please my dear honor God with your body and he will send one of His sons to marry you. Cheers
@@abigailyeboa6334cooking and cleaning is wife privilege for husbands.
God still has daughters, and they are thriving, i am so proud
Yesssss!
Oh yes!
oh yes
Absolutely ❤
I can imagine your parents watching this video with pride ❤
Yes your 💯 right😁👌🏾
Pride is not a good thing being proud of somebody is an awesome thing🙇🏽♀️🙏🏿😇
Ohhhh wow l'm so glad to hear this
I'm pressing on
No sex, if never get married and you want children. You get children in hospitals' donors
Is called women fertility treatments
Honestly
I was a virgin until 23 when i got married to the man of my dream last year, and I'm very proud of myself.
I am a guy waiting on Lord for who to marry. I am a virgin, and i am waiting for my chosen woman too. It has not been easy. So many presure from friends. But i refused, and i am still going strong. Thank you for this video of encouragement. I pray God leads me to my wife, ijn.
Thanks to God you are waiting, I hardly see guys that can wait this days, so will even say they are addicted to sex
Sex before marriage is a destruction. I got to know this late but God is faithful to forgive
How was the experience and what was your turning point?
@@geniusnationmusic for me was realising the energy transfer is real and I totally agree with that... If you're sexually active and observe yourself you'll see it...
Sure ma, thank you so much
Hallelujah!!!
Our generation needs more women like you !!! Respect 🎩
Too much women like her!!! You right
Definitely 💯👍🏾
I couldn't agree more.
Honestly ❤
you are right
The truth is, as a married woman I can tell single ladies that if you have made up your mind to abstain from sex before marriage the right man would NEVER pressurize you to do otherwise because once you are married you both can decide to be having sex every day and no one will penalize you for it because you are licensed now. It's because the man what's to hit and run hence he is pressurizing the lady in question..my dear sisters please don't fall for it there are still men out there who love, value and respect you enough to wait till marriage and I speak from experience
Women of elegance please allow me to express this in my isiZulu language. Sikhule kuthiwa intombi nto yiyo eyakha umuzi ume ngqi. Babewakha ngempela ke futhi. Isambulo nenhlanhla nesexwayiso lemessage kaWinnie. Eyabakhethiweyo. Sikhonza uNkulunkulu onesikhwele othi gada ulwimi lwakho gada ukucabanga kwakho gcina umzimba wakho. Yazi sengincoma ilunga nelunga emzimbeni wami ngithi kuhle konke. Nansi ke imbhokodo esikhuluma ngayo.
Some men will tell you if u are no longer a virgin no need for abstaining from it, they will do everything to get u
That's more reasons we as ladies needs to have our strong why@@BlessedSharon27
Am a teenager and this speech gat me , thank you ma
I'm 26 and still holding up but it not easy..... Sometimes I feel like having s*x but thank God for his grace hope I find the right partner one day Amen
That your dream guy will come, will be praying for you
Don't throw in the towel yet
Same here 28 and still holding on
Though not easy
I’m 28 and still waiting too
I got married as a virgin at the age of 30yrs ...I thank God I was able to abstin
Were you able to catch up for all the years you didn't have sex ?
I'm so happy to see you as a representation of a beautiful, young woman who still believes in purity! I will allow my teen daughter to watch this ❤
I thank God for His work on my life and thank you Ma’am.🙏🏽
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U took the words outta ma mouth
Yes definitely same here 💯
I thank God that there are still successful women who still believe in good morals and the things that make us up as Christians and as elegant women , thank you for sharing , I believe this has to go viral and am so sharing this .
Virginity till marriage is not old school. Maintain your standards! Good job Winni
Yeah, it's God's school.
Not old school! Definitely!
Definitely not old school!
Definitely not old school and it's prioritising our body as the temple of God
Great teaching here 👍 Thank you 😊 I needed this ❤️
I'm so happy that you are vocal about this. Being Holy is possible. Abstinence till marriage is not old school. Lets normalise No sex until marriage.
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Can never be old school,it's only those who has lost theirs that present it that way so that all can be one. Fornication is fornication. There is no old school hell or new school hell. May God help every part of our lives. The ones in the secret and open please God
Yesss! Let’s normalize it
Let it be normalized
When i got a notification about this topic i was like hmmm 🤔, this is coming from my mentor
Im 28 years old and then everyone around me suddenly sees virginity as a plague, a man would tell you i cant be with a woman im not sexing, friends tell me you could atleast indulge in other sex activities so you don't push a man away,lol does it even keep the men, i tell them i want to honor God with my body, tell me does virginity give you a good husband.
I was almost giving it all up thinking its time to indulge since everyone is into it, im still in the right path and i will keep waiting till i get it right with the right person
Thank you sis winnie
I applaud you Sis for being true to yourself and not being influenced by peer pressure👏🏽👏🏽
Keep holding on sis
@@uchechiokeke9818 thank you 😊
You must realize that obedience to Gods law is more powerful than pleasing the society even when supporting the right virtue.
That willingness to obey God is power above all changes in society.
I took that decision a long time ago. My marriage is 22yrs this year and I don't regret that decision. I had infertility issues for 14yrs ,my husband and inlaws never worried me for one day. They were all supportive. Yes,it's difficult but there is pride in it. Winnie, God will continue to bless you
I used to feel very very unclean after having sex. I would really scrub my body afterwards or I would feel like leaving that guy immediately because my subcounsios mind was telling me this is unclean. I could even smell it😮. I am blessed with a very sensitive sense of smell. I would feel like throwing up even. My late parents taught us to wait until we get married. My mom was a virgin when she met my dad. That's the main reason I still respect them where they are. It's one and half year now clean single. When I look at my body I smell success❤. I smell cleanliness which is next to my Creator. I wanna honor God with my body. Wooooooow Winnie!!! I am already seeing the rewards. I don't miss out all my prayer times even at night. You are probably one of a million to raise such subject. My reason at my senior age of choosing to say no sex is, I wanna live a full Elegance lifestyle with complete confident with my clean conscious and walk with my head held high.
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Thanks for this
@gugumazibuko6275 I completely agree with you on that self-conscious unclean feeling that you're talking about in your comment I get what you mean I understand what you're saying❣️
This is quite timely❤❤❤
That's true and personally i had 2 reasons my God hates that and exchange of spirits with different people
Still a virgin at 30 years and I am proud of it... Hoping to get married to my Man very soon. I pray God sends me my husband cos it has not been easy. God has been helping 🙏🙌
AMEN IJMN🙏🏽 !!!🤗
Amen 🙏🙏 I am 24 now, and God will see us through
Amen and Amen.
Amen. God has a beautiful plan, just wait for it.
Good! Keep holding on. You're not missing anything that you can't get later. Also, you'll lose if you do now.
Finally someone who is bold to say it. No sex until marriage.
I don’t have to be a virgin
It doesn’t matter what age
I owe no one any explanations
It’s my decision. Respect it
Thank you Winnie
Yes, I also advise men to only marry Virgins. It is good to wait for marriage before having sex, it is also good to marry someone who hasn't had sex before marriage
I believe you missed the point. I hope you actually get to understand.@user-sl7dq2vy8v
"I don't have to be a virgin" 😂😂😂
@@creative_cooper if she ain’t a virgin but is like no action before marriage, it indicates that she actually isn’t physically attracted to you but wants to marry probably for resources or something else. Prepare to suffer in such marriage as a guy
Took the words right out of my mind
I was once into sexual immortality but 7month and counting I have restrained myself from sex , but currently my partner is convincing me to try again but after watching this video of urs am convinced and have My Evidence God has redirected My footstep to completely stayed away from sex till after marriage
Thank you Ma am so much grateful for this
Rooting for you! ❤❤
May God strengthen you ,y sister. Your body will be to bring our Glory to our Lord Jesus
My dear,I have not had sex 3years now and still counting by the grace of God 🙏..don't let anyone lie to you. If he doesn't want to wait let him go,the right man will come 🥰👍❤
Sometimes I cry out of pain that I failed myself 😢… if only I had got such videos earlier I believe I wouldn’t be so full of regrets… but am healing now… the best apology I owe God is a better life than before ❤
@@adongobennacaroline231 Everybody makes mistakes. It's best you ask God for forgiveness but also forgive yourself. Don't be to hard on yourself. Love and cherish your new and improved self.
Wish you all the best🎉
I have a lot to say,wonderful video. I would like to add this. As a female never you go to a man’s house. If you want to meet a man,meet him at a public place. Don’t say you are strong,anything can happen in few seconds. Keeping yourself till marriage is good,but be watchful,smart and vigilant. Men can be tricky
The Holy Spirit will definitely help you if u don't want to indulge in sex
Definitely 💯👍🏾
Men ate tricky even friends
It's really true
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"I ensure that my lifestyle fits perfectly with the instructions of God" love that statement🥰
For anyone out there who have had sex before you don't have to condemn yourself. It's never too late to start afresh or change for the better.
Who you were, who you are, and who you will be are three different people.
Pour your heart to God, let his love fill your life. He will show you a love you never knew existed before.
. You are still precious before the Lord. ❤
You're completely right amen thank you for this 🙏🏾🙏🏾🤲🏾🙌🏾🫂🫂❣️
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Amen❤
Yes indeed!
Amen ❤
I waited until marriage that was the best decision I have ever made, we are happily married for years now.
My husband is the best ❤
I tap this❤❤❤
This came timely.
Just what I needed at this time of my life.
Haven't had sex but I have been involved in foreplay which usually leave me feeling dirty .
Thank you Winnie
I commend you for not going all the way. But speaking from experience, that foreplay can leave you so weak that, before you know it, you'll slide right into the very thing that you've been trying to avoid and then you've opened up Pandora's box and it's very hard to close it back up. It's like you enter into a weakened state to where it's harder each time after that to resist the temptations of going there again especially with that same person you went there with initially...
@@monicalangle3417u don talk am finish
Same here but God is our strength 🙏
@@BlessedSharon27what is the meaning of foreplay
@@monicalangle3417 so how can I help it, how can I resist it from happening again I didn't want to have sex either but have engaged in sexual activities and I felt so dirty how can I stop it from happening again 😢😢
I'm just a teenager n I love this video it's going to make me grow as a strong and independent lady
May God grant you the same Grace and Protection He granted some us till now 🙏🏾😇
I still think me making this decision since I was a teenager (10yrs old) has been the best decision I've made while i was a teenager. 13yrs later I'm looking at myself in the mirror and appreciating myself.
My decision has helped me move on quickly from relationships that were unhealthy, it helped me not to waste my time. As time is of great value.
I bless the day I subscribed to your Chanel. You're a big sister, a friend and someone I look up to with so much gusto. God bless you Winnie and yes I love God too and I have a beautiful relationship with him🤭🌹✨
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This is beautiful to watch.
A virgin at 27.
I'm so glad because i met Christ in secondary school and since then I'm determine to obey God with my body❤❤❤
Way to go Dear!❤
I've been on this journey and there was a time I literally heard the HOLYSPIRIT say "I'm proud of you ". That day I bursted into tears, because that relationship looks promising, but up until now I'm still waiting and I'll keep holding on to GOD.❤❤❤
I'm 27 too, met GOD at age 13too
@@winniesschoolofelegance Thank you soo much..
May God see you through ❤
God bless you so much. It's such a great blessing
I chose celibacy too and seeking God afresh seriously since 2021. God is healing my heartbreak because I regret failing God in this area. We should really guard our energy and our soul, and keep away from people who don't have the same values as we do. I got pregnant and the father of my child walked away and married someone else. Now my child wonders why her father doesn’t talk to her. God is serious. I pray to God for my beautiful daughter, that God Himself will fill that gap of missing her father.
Hugs 🫂 sis!
@@tariroyashesithole3084 Thank you!🙏🏾🌹
I also failed God in that area. I wish u and ur precious daughter the very best ❤… be the reason she walks on the right path ❤
God be with you may he add in your life someone who will appreciate you and be the father your child ever longed for . It shall be well
Take heart sis ❤there is GOD of second chance
I smiled watching this video and smiled even more when i saw I wasn't walking this walk alone. I made this decision as a teenager and i must say it has saved me from a lot of heartbreak. My friends wonder how i get to move on quickly from someone i ones admired and loved so much. Anyways! This topic clearly explains why so first I'll subscribe to this wonderful channel and share this message to my friends. I can't be selfish 😊 There's nothing as sweet and peaceful like walking away with your head high up knowing God is still happy with you. Thank you ma'am for this message it's very timely. I was smiling while typing this😊😊😊😊
I remember i was waiting for a favour from God. I knelt in church oneday and said God, you said our body is the temple of God and i have kept it that way, i also need something from you please pay me back and He did it even more than i was looking for. I am 26 and im always glad for this decision i made. I AM A CHILD OF GOD AND I GO ACCORDING TO HIS WILL. I wish every youth watches this. Thank you Winnie for being on this side.
You are simply amazing. We need you as a role model for our kids. God bless you always 🙏.
One of my mentors once said “the moment you start touching, you stop talking!“
That's so true. Dating is done in the boardroom, not in the bedroom.
Are you a student of Benjamin Zulu Global?
😂 I thought so as well
Benjamin Zulu squad❤
Touching and talking cant co exist
Apostle Femi Lazarus
I always get excited about topics like this, it makes me think that I'm not alone in this. I always look for videos like this that encourages me to keep going. I left my previous relationship because he didn't see anything wrong with sex before marriage. I wasn't going to lose a 24 years worth journey for one person. I'm also glad I've found someone who shares in my values. Really respects you for this.
Yes. Makes me know that I am normal.
It makes me realize that I’m normal and that I’m not alone in this. This is so encouraging ❤️🥰
I love this comment
The right one that understands will collect me yoo
Sure Sis!
How can I love this post one thousand times...you just encouraged me more.. Thank you Winnie for this❤
This is really beautiful am not alone
28 year as a virgin getting married few months from now
It’s actually pays to stay on the word❤
Esteemed Sister Winnyyyyuuu I love this video. God bless you. I'm a Guy and believe me I'm happy that I took this step. I don't give a damn on what people say. My peace ✌️ of mind is sacrosanct
A 28yr old male virgin here as well, & I concur with you.
Hmm
I’m super proud of u
Am 23 now and am very proud to have made the decision of no sex before marriage. The world has normalised it to the point that i started thinking that i made the wrong decision but seeing this video just inspired and lifted my spirits to stick to my decision, the word of God and what is right.
Thank you so much Winnie ❤️ may God make you a global phenomenon, the world needs an elegant and God fearing woman like you.
23 is the best age to make life decisions. Be Blessed
I'm 26 now
The same thing is happening to me but I don't regret again because it made me stay focus
@@mmesomaenekwenchi577same here I'm also 26
I'm also 23 and my boyfriend 😢left me because I didn't give in, it hurts but I know God will see me through and give me a man of his will😊.
💯 right👌🏾
I wish everyone one is listening to this ♥️🙏🏾because the generation we have has regalized adultery 😭😭😭😭😭
Hmmmmmmmm serious oooo😢
That's true .
Fornication
This is so beautiful❤.Thank you so much Winnie. Abstinence is still the best. I held on for 35yrs before marriage, though it wasn't easy, but it remains one of my best decisions.
Congratulations
@@OnyinyechiAchodor 🙏 thank you. I owe it to God's grace.
Very interesting message. I totally agree with this. However, we’ve seen multiple cases of people that stayed away from sex until married, were spirit filled, got married and still separated. In that case, what do you do? What happened with the energies? Abstaining from sex is a good personal decision, while a relationship involves two people who should share same values and belief systems and maybe even want the same things, else they cannot work. A relationship should involve two people who genuinely see beyond their bodies as the recipe for sticking together ultimately because sex abstinence is not guarantee for a successful life or marriage. We must put God first, be disciplined, pray for grace and also trust God to lead us. Thank you for sharing.
After getting pregnant in 2017, the Lord has been teaching me on the dangers of sex before marriage and that made me wish that i could turn back the time because I was not raised in a faith based home where we were taught reason why sex before marriage is not right. It has not been an easy journy as i faced many temptations but I give thanks to the Lord that since the 22 October 2017 I did not have sexand it is going to be 7 years now this year and belive me, it was the best decision i have ever made. The Lord promised me marriage and I am patiently waiting for His time and I pray my God given husband is abstaining from sex before marriage as I am until God Himself bring us together❤. Abstatining from sex before marriage is possible and it begins with you. To God be the glory🙏🙏.
I'm with you on this Winnie 100%. God's commandments are not grievous but to our advantage. There are so many advantages of choosing to save sex for marriage. You have said a lot but I just want to add this amongst many others. Saving sex until marriage prevents you from creating unneccessary soul-ties. Nothing makes you carry your head high up after a heartbreak like when u remember the person didn't get to see your nakedness after it all. Your Cameroonian fan🇨🇲
I've never been able to relate with heart breaks after a break up cos I wasn't sexually committed to anyone as a young girl and it saved me a whole lot. If we could love and respect ourselves enough to avoid premarital sex, a lot of societal ills will be avoided.
I'm your Cameroonian sister btw😊
You are very right
I respect you and I love the journey. I am 40 and don't believe in having sex before marriage because I don't want bad memories and attachments. I love my freedom
Freedom very important and expensive commodity.
Even as a married woman who stayed away from sex before marriage... This still blessed me. Thank you for the last point. I'm sharing this video right away.
God bless you Winnie
Thanks Winnie, I’m now 24 and am very proud to have made this decision of no sex before marriage ☺️☺️.. SEPTEMBER is my wedding month 🎊🎉
Congratulations 🎉
Congratulations 🎉
Congratulations 🎉
Same here! Married as a virgin! No single regret but I owe it to God’s grace! Married at 29. Made that God fearing decision as a young girl. It’s been the Fear of God over pressure from any human including myself😅.
For real you're elegant not only beautiful. God bless you dear.
Best video on sexual purity that I have stumbled on. Unapologetically speaking the truth in a world filled with moral decadence. People make it look weird when they hear you being celibate and waiting till marriage😊. God bless you for making this video.
Please check out the difference between celibacy and sexual purity by Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo too - it will enlighten you more sis.
100% Agree Winnie! I didn't even kiss my husband before marriage. We were emotionally, spiritually and mentally intimate before being physically intimate. Soooo glad i did. Sometimes when i think about women jumping into physical intimacy before truly being connected and secure, it makes me so sad. It's like eating flavored feces for chocolate...it may be good enough, but not the best. The movies, and the lyrics of these impure love songs are wrong...just look at so many of their relationships and lives.
Waoooo
“Brown feces for chocolate “ thanks mama
I was just scrolling and my hand mistakenly clicked this video and now I’m glad i did because i needed this reminder.
So timely😢 I'm a 31 year old virgin and I'm traumatized by the experience of a thief who burgled into our house at 2am and attempted to rape me in my room but God took control, he never succeeded, so, I was afraid , all kinds of what ifs kept ringing in my head and so, I was ready to give it to a guy I once loved, in my head, it's better to be disvirgined by someone you atleast love, than a total stranger or even worse, a THIEF, this mindset of, what if another thief attack me again and succeeded, the trauma has been alot for me 😢😢😢😢 I haven't done it yet, I just need all the encouragement in the world at this point, honestly 😭😭😭😭
May God continue to keep you safe and protected under HIS wings
Please don't let the devil scare you into making such decision
May God continue to give you strength to stay pure❤❤❤❤
Thank God for His protection!! May He continue to help you through this difficult times. You’re not alone in this “ no sex until marriage”. God is our strength sis ❤
Warm hugs Sis, you'll be just fine. Waiting is the best and the most profitable thing to do.
Psalm 91 is your banner in Jesus name Amen
God is your strength, and your ever-present help in times of need. He will help you overcome your fears.
The first time I left everything to watch an episode even though I was busy... normally I save ro watch when I am free. Nice topic 👍
Same here
Thank you! I am so glad you found the video valuable.❤️❤️
1 Corinthians 6:18 - Flee from sexual immorality. Every other sin that a man may commit is outside his body but whoever practices sexual immorality is sinning against his own body. WHOEVER
I love this….quoted exactly from the NWT of the Holy scriptures.👍🏽
New world translation 👍
The very scripture God used in convicting me
Amen
I 100% agree with this I did the same and I have no regrets. I got married at 29. I feel men have more respect for people with these values. I’ve now been happily married for 9years.
I can say it is so so so refreshing to see a young beautiful "thriving" and high achieving lady speak this way!!!! It brings me so much joy! God bless you and God continue to strengthen you to keep this perspective as you journey on. Many will come for you after watching this video but my dear chin up, hold your head high and just keep doing you! God bless you!!!🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
I admire you sweet heart.
I got married as a virgin. My husband proudly declared it to his siblings/parents This earned me a lot of love and respect by my in-laws. They are wonderful regardless of that though.
I totally agree. Thank you for the video. I for myself have been celibate for 6 years plus. Amen. Man spirit is to commune only with the spirit of GOD. We are co-creators with HIM. Once that is broken. It is extremely difficult even years to get that communion back~ your internal dialogue is Always most important.
Sex is energy. As is money. Everything is SPIRIT. The Spirit of GOD cannot be unequally yoked with those that are not of TRUE Spirit. You are correct Miss Winnie about the emotions, energy, and your body. I am so appreciative with my life. I Am Grateful God has given me mastery over my flesh.
6 years is inspiring.
It feels so good to see others ladies on this same path with you and that you aren’t alone 🙏
Yess!❤️
@@winniesschoolofelegancehello Winnie, so do I do to stop having sex with my boyfriend or should I breakup with him
@@ElizabethUchechi-wm5lftell him that you no longer want to have sex before marriage and show him bible scriptures that are against sex before marriage, if he insist on pressuring you to have sex,dump him
@@ElizabethUchechi-wm5lf tell him that you have heard the word of God and you would like to live your life according to God's standards. Tell him you feel bad to continue sinning knowing . If he us for you he will wait until " I do day " pray about it that he will understand you , if possible show him the verses too
Great message.
Remember as we abstain from sex we also must abstain from all other sexual activities including masturbation.
True
Yes
I have been booried alot of times because of keeping my self from having sex before marriage, and I have lost several relationships because of sex rejection , but after watching this video am inspired ❤️🙏🙏🙏
The comment section is inspiring 🥺❤️19 years and still pushing ✨
A woman who has this mindset is a great national asset! Winnie, i didnt know that with all your intelligence, you were/are also God-fearing.
God help us to keep being pure until marriage...🙏🙌
so is okay for mens ?
I am an advocate too,no sex before marriage.
Wow! Can't believe you stand for this too. I'm sooo impressed. I'm a fan for life.❤️
#TeamCelibates
Me too ❤
I made this decision in my teenage years and am now 33 and still sticking to it. Still committed to my decision
I waited with no regrets, and i'm happily married today
This message is very handy because this sex before marriage has become normal and most men don't see anything wrong with that 😢
No it depends which man you are talking to, some of us are God fearing
Kai
Indeed there's nothing like elegance without knowing your creator "elegant daughter of the most high" , i love you mama and I'm glad we're many . Let's keep making God proud.
More grace to you ma ❤️💝
Thank you and Amen!🙏🏽
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Winnie, This video made me proud. Made me know that God still has daughters. May we continue to receive the Help of the Holyspirit, because it's not by might, but by spirit. The spirit is always willing, but the flesh is weak. May we receive strength to overcome the dirty desires of the flesh
Amen!!🙏🏽
Honestly ma
Amen 🙏🏻 ❤
After having 2 failed relationship with two children , my next relationship i am going to wait until I am married .
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Thank you Winnie for this video, I'm a virgin at 28 years old and I'm encouraged. I'm ensuring my lifestyle fits perfectly into the will of God as you said. Keep up the good work ❤❤❤
Every virgin n also those who have been involved need to hear this be blessed 🙏
No longer a virgin but I realized it's a bad thing and it was affecting my life all round and now I am saying No to sex till marriage
Hope it's cool?
@@margretgodwin2856it's never late hun
It is dear@@margretgodwin2856
@@margretgodwin2856
Its very good dear.
Our God is always ready to welcome us back, after all he said he came for the sinners and not really the righteous that they may be saved.❤️
In this crazy world where it feels like virgins should hide their face for being virgins. My love for you just got increased 💕💕💕 I am very proud of you ❤❤❤
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❤❤❤.... So happy there are still so many people who still believe in this.. Thank God
Thank you so much Winnie. God bless you real good . This is really timely especially in the times we all face now. Sex appears to be normalized. Every things seems to carry sex appeal. Many young girls are pressured into this act by their friends who are already into it in order to increase their number . Those who want to opt out, are often stigmatized and those who are desperately in need of acceptance often times fall into immortality. I know a sweet lady who is in her fifties and still a virgin. She tells me what she's experienced even from the opposite sex with one telling her that he'll never marry anyone who ref uses to sleep with him and that her decision to remain chaste is the reason why she's still single . But she answered and asked him whether he ended up marrying all those he slept with and what he did with them.
You see, I'm happy we have people like you speaking up. It's giving those waiting on God hope . At a time the topic about chastity became obsolete. Many churches are on prosperity issues and few talk about consecration. Thank you for building back confidence in our young teenagers. God says that our bodies are HIs Temple . Let's keep it clean for Him .
Thank you . God bless you
Thank you for sharing this Winnie! I am so happy to see this. Putting a premium on my body is extremely important! Plus I am responsible for my actions and decisions, no one is.
Thank you so much Winnie, I am from breaking up relationship with a man who was convincing me to make love to him while saying that he will marry me 😢. Thanks Lord because, I won this 😊. My mind is free, my heart is free, I just feel like I won a big battle Girl!! 😂 . I don't know how would I face my Lord Jesus? Thanks again for sharing this beautiful content ❤❤❤
Glory to God. Use Galatians to kill the lust of the flesh daily.
Ask God to give you a spouse. .avoid unnecessary soul ties.
The sisterhood is proud of this warrior
The temptation would come again
Go back to the Lord to rebuild your strength
@@ritakuampah4919❤❤
I made this decision when I was a teenager, expecting my wedding at 21. But today I am 28 and single. I have kept this commitment all theses years along. I am still virgin despite of all these men I met and expected to have sex with me. I voluntary accept to walk away form them because my reason is stronger than being an elegant woman : GOD.
Keep me up the good work Sis am 29 and still holding on is worth it. The freedom I feel spiritually and emotionally can’t be tainted and I am willing to let go of any guy who is not in d walk with me is difficult but the end we will be victorious
@preciousosueke2721, thanks for sharing your experience.
I am very grateful to Jesus Christ, who is actually the one, through Holy Ghost, who allow us to hold on among all the temptations and our weaknesses.
And indeed, we'll be victorious at the end. Not for our husbands, but for GOD, for His Glory.
May GOD bless you and make your road with him safe.
@@sarahsamake4366 u are right for God because that is the end Goal, he is the reason for this walk. 🙌
Blessings follow you
@@geniusnationmusic Amen and u too
Oh wow! Winnie you have done a great job on this one. I believe in waiting until marriage to engage in sex. It works!!!!! I waited and I am very thankful to God and to myself😅 for making that choice.
I am happily married to a man who had made the same choice of waiting until marriage to have sex. It is a very healthy choice. No sexual baggages in the marriage and of course God is glorified.
I am thrilled by this video because I am a committed advocate for sexual purity. I teach about it to the young people in schools, churches, and other gatherings here in Kenya. Well done winnie🎉
Very nice of you. I love to see Kenyans representing everywhere.
And I don’t regret abstaining because it has been the most peaceful decision I’ve ever made. Peace of mind is the best kind of soft life I can ever give myself and abstaining from sex is an A+ for that.
If the Bible says “I can do all things through Christ who gives me strength” (Philippians 4 vs 13) that means I can also manage to abstain from sex. So no one is coming to tell me that I can’t survive or maybe I can’t manage to function properly without it.
In as much as the world has made having sex before marriage so normal, I’m not living to the standards of this world and I do my best to live life as an individual and not as a group or some community that has adopted worldly things. So for me, if it’s seems normal to everyone then I’m going to show the world that I only have one life and I’m living it on my own terms, principles aligning with the word of God.
In fact no one has ever died for not having sex before marriage, so what’s with the rush? 😂 I’m honestly not rushing for anything.
I was a virgin until 33years before I got married, i was waiting for my God ordained husband not knowing God was bringing me an abstinence husband. I bless God I'm not regret with the direction he took me through
The truth the world need to hear. Very concise and straight to the point
Thanks Winnie. This is such a great video.
In the present age where influent people want to say neutral concerning spiritual things or faith to God, you were bold enough to clearly declare your faith and convictions.
I once watched your videos and suspected you were a child of God, today I got the confirmation.
May God take you higher and higher to inspire others. ❤
Amen!! Thank you so much Dear.❤️
I'm glad I have been waiting for the right time now am 20 years and still abstaining
May God see you through ❤
I thank God for the grace to keep my body. Soon to be 30 and still holding on. Let us go ladies ❤. Thank you Ms Winnie.
Ms. Winnie, I’m a new subbie here. I appreciate your Christ based content. Your comment, “put a premium on your body”, speaks volumes. When we follow God we are cleansed by the blood of the Lamb. So often when someone chooses to live a pure life they’re discouraged and encouraged to continue the world’s path. Thank you for standing with us as we trust God for a suitable mate as well keep our bodies a Temple for Christ.
I am a strong advocate too. One thing I discovered over these years of being celibate is that once you make that decision, the grace to keep it is instantly released and you see yourself overcoming. Yes, it's not easy but it's very much attainable and I am proudly Elegant😊. Thank you for this encouragement ma'am.
How old were you when you started ?
@@user-bz6oz6gt6q Since birth
I can relate with grace being released, the urges will be there but we can always overcome
The old ways of dating, and no sex till marriage.Makes the relaitonship special that you pick.
Very special
Waaaaoooo be blessed i last heard someone standing on this in my primary n i kept it actually it sound in my ears everday may God bless you lady you have strengthened me I ALSO SAY NO SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE
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I still believe that sex should be done in marriage and that's my decision, no sex before marriage, Incase I don't get married I'll die a virgin period.
Yes
God bless the womb that birthed you Winnie….. I stood on these principles though I missed it in my thirties but retraced my steps and asked God for mercies…. Thank you for upholding celibacy before marriage.
I really don’t know what to write. You are a sister and a friend every lady should have. Thank You so much for this video. You are a shinning star and your light will never go dim ❤
Amen! Thank you!
This is soo bold of you
Many are shying away from such discussions
I knew it was a bad practice, but had not understood why is it bad
These reasons are soo true oh my God have mercy upon us and me particularly i need the grace to stay pure🙏🙏🙏
I remember meeting a guy in school that wanted a relationship with me and I told him we can not be sexually involved in the relationship and he said it’s old school not having sex before marriage 😂
Thank God I didn’t continue because I know my God given man will come 😊
People don’t really want to hear about this but I’m glad you talked about this, God’s standard for life ❤You just gained a subscriber.
Really happy someone of influence is talking about this. Also happy she is single because some persons might think it's easier for a married person to talk about this after they've lived their lives and are finally married😂.
Not indulging in sexual activities before marriage saves you from a whole lot.
Thank you Winnifred for talking about this❤
Oh my goodness…this is amazing! It such a comfort knowing we are many with this mindset. I’m 26, and I’m praying God gives me the strength to continue this standard till marriage . Thank you