10 IMPORTANT Questions to Ask Him During the DATING PHASE of Your Relationship to avoid a HEARTBREAK

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  • Опубликовано: 16 сен 2024
  • The dating phase is one of the most important phases of a relationship.
    In this video I am sharing some very important questions you should ask him as an elegant woman in her dating phase to prevent a heart break.
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Комментарии • 195

  • @historiqueafricaine
    @historiqueafricaine 4 месяца назад +58

    One guy told me that a manipulative trick guys use is to talk to you every day so that you get addicted or used to it and then would not easily leave him if he doesn't turn out to be what you're looking for‼️that's why we need healthy boundaries as in not talk every day and not be isolated when we date. Talk about it to a person you prayed about and can trust with talking about this relationship💯

    • @winniesschoolofelegance
      @winniesschoolofelegance  4 месяца назад +7

      👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

    • @Ayinde_Basirat
      @Ayinde_Basirat 4 месяца назад +5

      This is so true....I am really glad I got off it before it lead to dating 😂..

    • @AgnesNuworzah
      @AgnesNuworzah 4 месяца назад

      ​@@winniesschoolofeleganceMiss Wnnie....i really need a lot of help....i wish we could get into contact .... I'm almost suicidal 😢

    • @graceolufisola441
      @graceolufisola441 3 месяца назад +3

      💯

    • @eleonoraivanova-kd2zb
      @eleonoraivanova-kd2zb 2 месяца назад +1

      Thank you 🙏 very helpful ❤

  • @happylee2297
    @happylee2297 4 месяца назад +83

    The cheapest and easiest way to this is let God choose for you, my marriage will be 20 years this December all I can say is fine God and let him lead you to who you are to get married to
    There are so many things to this that human capacity cannot carry I am sorry if I sound primitive but this is true
    I remembered I wanted a very deep Christian brother back in those days but the person God showed me was not serious with God, however by now he is the perfect Christian brother I wanted and those people I focused my eyes back then soke of them are dead some have backslided I'm just thankful to God 20 years of peaceful and enjoyable marriage

    • @emilynyambura959
      @emilynyambura959 4 месяца назад +1

      God to choose for u? Did I read it clearly? God has given u ability to make choices

    • @happylee2297
      @happylee2297 4 месяца назад

      @@emilynyambura959 no problem dearie go ahead

    • @maxmolliejoshua3174
      @maxmolliejoshua3174 4 месяца назад +3

      @@emilynyambura959at times what God wants for you might not be what you wanted

    • @maxmolliejoshua3174
      @maxmolliejoshua3174 4 месяца назад +6

      I remember when I was in a relationship in 2018 and I prayed for this guy so God can bless him and God did ,tho he’s a Christian brother so am I .When I prayed to God he told me he’s good but when I told my Mum about it I asked her to pray about it when my Mum prayed she said she saw somethings which is wrong about the guy,so I was told not to get married to him,this guy is the most honest person I’ve ever walked with little did I know he’s a cheat. And we both abstain from sexual intercourse it was all about No sex before marriage😢I was so happy he accepted so we dated for two years planning our wedding .
      Few months to our wedding I wasn’t comfortable with his movements anymore I prayed to God he was just showing me different things about him I prayed and prayed God was telling me not to go on with the marriage,eventually I heard he impregnated a lady and didn’t tell me about it. I landed at the hospital,I was admitted,received 15 drips 10 injections, I saw the red flags but I just wanted to get married cos I loved him.Thank God I didn’t I would have been regretting by now he doesn’t worth it at all.

    • @faithmbogo8049
      @faithmbogo8049 3 месяца назад +6

      @emilynyambura I would like to answer you. Yes God chooses a spouse for you. And either you or the other person will be revealed to. Ever heard of the kingdom spouse. Trust me it's very real. Especially if you are aligning with God's will.

  • @TioluwaladeOlolade
    @TioluwaladeOlolade 3 месяца назад +23

    I have becoma a better lady ever since I discovered this channel.

    • @animelorrd
      @animelorrd 3 месяца назад

      You are welcome to the elegance world babe ❤🎉

  • @amanyaleticia9969
    @amanyaleticia9969 3 месяца назад +6

    And this guy came to me in names of wanting to marry me but I told him we give and I told him we shall be communicating via voicecalls after a few weeks he asked for a video call when am necked..I told him but I thought this is leading to marriage and after marriage you will have me but that was the end of all this that I thought it was a relationship in the first place....so ladies let's be keen in these relationship things to avoid heartbreaks bkoz men know that we want marriage so they come the angle of promising us marriage to just use us ......thank you dear Auntie Winnie

  • @chiddyebube3136
    @chiddyebube3136 4 месяца назад +20

    Winnie, all I can say is THANK YOUUUU! YOU ARE SO WISE. Love you!❤😘

  • @eucariachooye1920
    @eucariachooye1920 3 месяца назад +8

    Miss Winnie please make a shoot about how to handle distance relationship.

  • @graceolufisola441
    @graceolufisola441 3 месяца назад +4

    "Girl! You better pick yourself up, and go live your full life." is super duper delicious and just the fact.👌💯

  • @Titi-wz5ve
    @Titi-wz5ve 3 месяца назад +8

    Winnie please make a video on how someone can find his or her purpose without been in a confused state

  • @chidinmmacynthiaigboko8632
    @chidinmmacynthiaigboko8632 4 месяца назад +8

    Thank you for releasing and breaking down this knowledge. I don't think anyone including illiterate won't understand.
    This is worth emulating Winnie ❤

  • @Cynthia2421
    @Cynthia2421 Месяц назад +2

    I love you Winnie I'm so happy to be part of this great channel

  • @talabimary3356
    @talabimary3356 3 месяца назад +13

    1. Are you looking for a long term commitment that would lead to marriage or a short term just for the fun of it. What are you here for exactly
    2. Tell me about your childhood. What was growing up like for you? What are your values (Trauma, childhood issues,
    3. What is your relationship like with your family (a good family experience, are you family oriented
    4. What is your purpose in life and what are you currently doing to achieve it
    5. Is what you are doing with regards to work actually what you want to do, are you fulfilled doing what you do, on a acale of 1 to 10, how happy are you with the life you are living now
    6. Why did your last relationship end and why did it end. What really happened
    7. What are your fundamental and your moral values. What are the things that are most important to you that forms part of your beliefs and existence
    8. What do you understand by the concept of emotioal intelligence. How do you resolve conflict, what are your emotions like when you are happy or angry
    9. What does marriage mean to you and why do you want to be married
    10. What is your primary love language

  • @_letsgrowtogether
    @_letsgrowtogether 3 месяца назад +5

    I don't know why? But I feel like I am part of your Family ❤

  • @berniceel3073
    @berniceel3073 4 месяца назад +7

    Lol very true; the 4th question." What is your purpose in life" - the answers I've gotten by men cracks me up till date. Some get dumbfounded when you ask that question 😅
    The 9th question is key; interestingly very few persons have a valid reason. Thanks to social media🤦‍♂️

  • @yolandaxavier5795
    @yolandaxavier5795 4 месяца назад +15

    These men can lie chaii🙌 thank you mam it's also important to check their actions 😊

  • @FlorenceOmolara
    @FlorenceOmolara 4 месяца назад +3

    Believe me, your videos are so timely

  • @Kanji220
    @Kanji220 3 месяца назад +1

    Thanks for all these tips. I'm actually socially awkward and also not good at socializing, im an introvert too. Its nice to have this much insight about all the questions to ask... I never know much about what to talk about ❤

  • @user-dw6jo4wi3s
    @user-dw6jo4wi3s 4 месяца назад +2

    You really are my sister from another Mother. Incredible word there!!!!

  • @daramolamary9563
    @daramolamary9563 4 месяца назад +2

    Thank you so much Winnie 🥰. I love the way you say that's a topic for another day, it helps you focus on what you are currently discussing and not diverting to something you remember or that pops up in your mind along the conversation 😂😂🎉❤. Much love 😘💕💕

  • @RareDiamondCEONabil
    @RareDiamondCEONabil 4 месяца назад +2

    You are value packed, thanks for always sharing great value and personal development. I love you Winnie ❤

  • @sibongilephiri4292
    @sibongilephiri4292 4 месяца назад +7

    powerful question and l think a book by Gary Chapman " things i wish id know before we got married ,it really helps to prepare for marriage

  • @anarfotawiahmary2885
    @anarfotawiahmary2885 3 месяца назад +2

    The 3 months rule really work

  • @ShekwoduzaTV
    @ShekwoduzaTV 3 месяца назад +2

    "let him figure it out and maybe meet the next person" 🤣🤣 this got me really laughing hard. Thanks for the teachings i love you ma ❤

  • @mirembepatricia5760
    @mirembepatricia5760 4 месяца назад +4

    Quick tips for free❤❤❤
    Thanks love

  • @blessingosas5372
    @blessingosas5372 3 месяца назад +3

    I will have to answer this questions myself before asking someone's son.😍😌
    .
    Thank you so much,Winnie.

  • @user-oc9by5xd4r
    @user-oc9by5xd4r 3 месяца назад +1

    Thank God i discover this channel on time

  • @chiomaikejemba2609
    @chiomaikejemba2609 4 месяца назад +1

    Thank you so much Winnie, I do not regret following your channel.
    In fact, I personally too had to answer these questions myself. Bravo 👏

  • @Ayomi-hallie
    @Ayomi-hallie 4 месяца назад +3

    400k ♥️❤️❤️❤️
    Congratulations Dear Winnie ❤

  • @JessicaNwaobilor
    @JessicaNwaobilor 3 месяца назад +1

    Can I Thank you Enough? Thanks so much for this. Much ❤

  • @victoryjackson7625
    @victoryjackson7625 3 месяца назад

    Miss Winnie has said it all! Now it's time for us ladies to be brave to ask these questions

  • @Bridget657
    @Bridget657 4 месяца назад +2

    Thanks Winnie for this insight ❤

  • @peacevictorniceone791
    @peacevictorniceone791 3 месяца назад +4

    Thank God you tell me I will have set exam for him😂😂😂😂. Thank Winnie for sharing God bless you ❤❤❤💕

  • @mondedamour4932
    @mondedamour4932 23 дня назад

    i have seen these questions before but not seen someone giving better explanation to them. Thank you Madam. I have subscribe and hope to watch the next episode. Peace

  • @dominaferuzi3901
    @dominaferuzi3901 3 месяца назад

    Thanks you my lovely sister.Upbringing and mindset is key determinant of any relationship.if a man has scacity (victim)mindset and woman has abudance mindset it will not work not matter how you try it.

  • @MissLindaCrumbBusinessLady
    @MissLindaCrumbBusinessLady 4 месяца назад

    So true Miss Winnie. My love languages are acts of service, quality time and physical touch. These are great quality questions. And I have most definitely asked some of these questions to a guy a few years ago. Let’s just say, he last was limited. Thank you for your information.

  • @oluwabamisealabi
    @oluwabamisealabi 4 месяца назад +1

    These questionsss
    Thank you so much for giving us these questions. Golden gems

  • @rebeccaahiamadzi9203
    @rebeccaahiamadzi9203 4 месяца назад +1

    Thanks Winnie.
    Very grateful.

  • @okeabimbola4398
    @okeabimbola4398 4 месяца назад +2

    Thank you Winnie ❤❤❤

  • @akuacaramel1240
    @akuacaramel1240 4 месяца назад +1

    Thank you so much dear,God bless you 🙏

  • @graceolufisola441
    @graceolufisola441 3 месяца назад

    Good Job!👍
    More power to your elbow, Winnie.🤗🤗

  • @RachealSalilika
    @RachealSalilika 4 месяца назад +1

    Take care Winnie
    I enjoyed this one ❤

  • @ImeldaUdoh
    @ImeldaUdoh 4 месяца назад +2

    Keep it up Winnie

  • @dorcasiyanujesu6954
    @dorcasiyanujesu6954 4 месяца назад +1

    👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻You are a strong woman

  • @mondedamour4932
    @mondedamour4932 23 дня назад

    I love your accent Mam Winnie
    🥰🙏

  • @OnuohaDeborah-g1k
    @OnuohaDeborah-g1k 4 месяца назад

    The questions are key but some will and even cry on top....

  • @aremuayobami6998
    @aremuayobami6998 4 месяца назад +1

    Thanks for the tips ma'am ❤️
    Your shirt looks so good on you🥰

  • @mariamasum4191
    @mariamasum4191 4 месяца назад

    I think preparing yourself helps u know what to expect

  • @AbumSampson
    @AbumSampson 12 дней назад

    Thanks so much ma'am

  • @eleonoraivanova-kd2zb
    @eleonoraivanova-kd2zb 2 месяца назад

    Very very helpful ❤ thank you!!!

  • @confidencewokeh2601
    @confidencewokeh2601 4 месяца назад +1

    You are good winnie and God bless you

  • @user-no8us9gt8e
    @user-no8us9gt8e 3 месяца назад

    May God continue to keep you and enrich you with more wisdom ❤❤❤

  • @ceciliaebubechukwu3094
    @ceciliaebubechukwu3094 4 месяца назад

    I have always respected Winnie but now I like her for this particular video

  • @winnienester656
    @winnienester656 3 месяца назад

    "your Advice is always spot on -thank you!" winnie ❤

  • @rejoiceifunanya6620
    @rejoiceifunanya6620 4 месяца назад +1

    God bless you Winnie ❤

  • @oluwaferanmiolaoluwa5873
    @oluwaferanmiolaoluwa5873 4 месяца назад

    Thank you so much Winnie 🥰 ❤️. It's quite different hearing all of these from you.

  • @cesarzowa
    @cesarzowa 4 месяца назад +1

    I had fun watching this 😹😹 thanks for sharing Winnie

  • @bridgetofodile5613
    @bridgetofodile5613 3 месяца назад

    Waah , Beautiful. Please take notes my darlings. Pray and be careful. Follow her and learn more so you don't get in the deceit. Please, please, please be careful out there to avoid all hatreds, harassment, heartbreaks divorces, lack of unconditional love, genuine love etc; the lists go on. God's blessings always ❤

  • @rejoiceaghoghoighoviroro3698
    @rejoiceaghoghoighoviroro3698 4 месяца назад

    Thank you so much Winnie, your content always bless me ❤

  • @Jus-tmysize
    @Jus-tmysize 4 месяца назад +2

    Thank you❤

  • @kaliisakaita5831
    @kaliisakaita5831 2 месяца назад

    Oh thanks Winnie i have noted in my book

  • @AliceOkoro
    @AliceOkoro 3 месяца назад

    I love this video thanks Winnie 🙏

  • @sandyfavor1203
    @sandyfavor1203 4 месяца назад +2

    Gorgeous outfit ❤

  • @AlexOyiza
    @AlexOyiza 3 месяца назад

    Thank you so much 💖 I have learned a lot❤

  • @jessidoo123
    @jessidoo123 4 месяца назад +1

    I so love my first time here❤😊
    Very important stuffs...thanks alot Winie🙏 25:36

  • @Munah01335
    @Munah01335 3 месяца назад

    I love you, miss Winnie. Thank youuuu so much. For everything.❤

  • @amarachifrancisca6075
    @amarachifrancisca6075 4 месяца назад +2

    I love you Winnie ❤❤❤
    Keep it up ma'am

    • @winniesschoolofelegance
      @winniesschoolofelegance  4 месяца назад +1

      I love you too Darln!❤️

    • @amarachifrancisca6075
      @amarachifrancisca6075 3 месяца назад

      Wow Elegant Winnie replied
      That's beautiful, am so happy right now
      I did like to see you one day
      Thank you so much for all you do , your influence has really helped me a lot, am grateful ma

  • @cherish587
    @cherish587 3 месяца назад

    Thank u Winnie for this. U're amazing

  • @lovelynclara5166
    @lovelynclara5166 4 месяца назад +1

    Well done for this piece Winnie.
    Please i have to ask... What if it's a long distance thing?

  • @Kamusiimephionah
    @Kamusiimephionah 2 месяца назад +1

    Thank you dear ...i like your content and i have learnt a lot❤💯

  • @theyoung_counselor22
    @theyoung_counselor22 4 месяца назад +1

    love this relationship videos.... keep it up

  • @britneyt9253
    @britneyt9253 4 месяца назад

    2:22 please touch more in this in a video. As a young woman, I keep getting the feeling that it would be a man that has more to offer a woman than the other way around, but I also feel like that’s not true. Please touch on this. 😅❤️

  • @HopeEdet-g9n
    @HopeEdet-g9n 3 месяца назад

    Thanks for sharing this have learnt a lot 👍👍👍👍

  • @annasteciaolumba689
    @annasteciaolumba689 3 месяца назад

    Thank you Ma for all you do for us especially me.
    You're a prayer answered when i was praying to God for a guidance to be a better person in life and God led me to your RUclips channel.
    And since then my life has changed for good and am becoming the woman i have always dream of becoming.
    But ma i have two questions to ask
    1. What do you have to say for a man that hides his financial status to test if a woman is wife material? I mean does accepting poverty defines a woman to be a wife Material.
    2. If a man is not born again and has a good quality and also a kind person that i need should i get married to him or not since i am a born again.
    This is my first time of commenting on your channel and am so happy for that.
    Thanks, I love you Ma ❤️

  • @Marvy25
    @Marvy25 3 месяца назад

    Thanks for this ❤

  • @Ephesians6ArmorOfGod
    @Ephesians6ArmorOfGod 4 месяца назад +4

    May GOD bless you Winnie!🙏🏽🙌🏽
    I pray you have an amazing week beautiful!🌹I truly enjoy your channel, I am a subscriber to BOTH!☺️Keep up the awesome work, you’re very wise! May GOD increase your wisdom! “Psalm 115:14

    • @winniesschoolofelegance
      @winniesschoolofelegance  4 месяца назад +1

      Amen!! Thank you so much for being a part of our community.❤️❤️

  • @winnienester656
    @winnienester656 3 месяца назад

    And please winnie kindly make a video on " Navigation dating and relationships in a digital age "

  • @millicentchidera6811
    @millicentchidera6811 4 месяца назад +2

    Thanks mama❤❤❤❤

  • @PrudenceAnita-c1p
    @PrudenceAnita-c1p 2 месяца назад

    Much love ma
    This is informative and enlightening

  • @confidencechiamaka4121
    @confidencechiamaka4121 4 месяца назад +1

    Thank you winnie❤

    • @winniesschoolofelegance
      @winniesschoolofelegance  4 месяца назад

      You are welcome Dear!❤️

    • @confidencechiamaka4121
      @confidencechiamaka4121 4 месяца назад +1

      @@winniesschoolofelegance Hi Winnie, I'm a young girl of 21 yrs old living in Anambra State Nigeria.My father is late,I'm left with my mum and senior brother(married)...I don't get support from my family esp financial support because they don't really have.I work but my income is low, I have a lot of responsibilities including family responsibilities...I do literally everything for myself which makes me think alot and depressed...it's too much for me, my heart is heavy..pls what should I do?

  • @Kammydesigns
    @Kammydesigns 3 месяца назад

    Winnie❤❤❤❤❤.... I really appreciate you.... You're amazing... Thanks for sharing

  • @jochrinekunda4240
    @jochrinekunda4240 4 месяца назад

    I love you Winnie❤️ I really do
    You always know what areas to give information on and when
    At 1:35 to 1:40 you just spoke to my heart.
    This is information I’ll share with my future children one day

  • @agoiobunso
    @agoiobunso 3 месяца назад

    Another great value video thank you so much sis

  • @RachealSalilika
    @RachealSalilika 4 месяца назад +3

    😂😂😂Oya am going there with my full list of questions and a notepad for answers
    Just to see him run 😂

  • @maryAmoduu
    @maryAmoduu 3 месяца назад

    Thank you so much ma'am ❤️

  • @OluwafemiAbigail-g3m
    @OluwafemiAbigail-g3m Месяц назад

    Thanks winne❤

  • @user-mp6bc3je7j
    @user-mp6bc3je7j 3 месяца назад

    I love you Winnie thank you ❤

  • @AbigailAbenaKoomson
    @AbigailAbenaKoomson Месяц назад

    Thank you very much sis

  • @Grapefruit000
    @Grapefruit000 3 месяца назад +2

    My only concern with dating for 3 months before moving forward in the relationship is that there is no exclusivity, which can lead to complications. Are we both allowed to date other people during this time? If one person becomes emotionally invested but the other does not, how do you deal with that?

    • @favouremmanuel9374
      @favouremmanuel9374 22 дня назад

      Hmmm… this is a very good question. Please Winnie can you answered this?

    • @jenifferndungu900
      @jenifferndungu900 22 дня назад

      How about we stop using this word dating and just say it's someone you are getting to know if you like him or her or not. This "dating " word is so misused

    • @jenifferndungu900
      @jenifferndungu900 22 дня назад

      Also yes you are allowed to see other people since you aren't committed to anyone yet

  • @kodangmodest5327
    @kodangmodest5327 4 месяца назад +2

    My sister... tell us ... I've suffered

  • @nancykargbo869
    @nancykargbo869 4 месяца назад +1

    Thank you ma❤❤

  • @UCHEGrace-eq3jl
    @UCHEGrace-eq3jl 2 месяца назад

    Please throw more light on the last question

  • @imeldaijeoma8806
    @imeldaijeoma8806 4 месяца назад +2

    Thank you Winnie!!

  • @sonyxpera6256
    @sonyxpera6256 2 месяца назад

    I am a Cameroonian by nationality

  • @EnjoyingGodsprocess
    @EnjoyingGodsprocess 3 месяца назад

    Marriage is for companionship ❤

  • @OnuohaDeborah-g1k
    @OnuohaDeborah-g1k 4 месяца назад

    Some will lie and cry along side the lie

  • @pjchannel1285
    @pjchannel1285 3 месяца назад +1

    Winne, what’s your advice about teenagers dating say 16 years old?

  • @AbibatuKamara-s2b
    @AbibatuKamara-s2b 3 месяца назад

    Thanks darling

  • @yackeishaweir1585
    @yackeishaweir1585 4 месяца назад

    Good Day Winnie,
    Excellent presentation ,are you able to do a presentation on age gaps the do's and don'ts for males and females in a dating relationship?. Keep up the good work.#Think elegant, Act elegant, be elegant.

  • @cassandraozue480
    @cassandraozue480 3 месяца назад

    PEARLS OF PRUDENCE.,•°❤

  • @annydee5638
    @annydee5638 4 месяца назад +1

    Thank you so much Winnie.❤️

  • @TemitayoFortune
    @TemitayoFortune 4 месяца назад +2

    What about us in long distance Relationship?😅