The cheapest and easiest way to this is let God choose for you, my marriage will be 20 years this December all I can say is fine God and let him lead you to who you are to get married to There are so many things to this that human capacity cannot carry I am sorry if I sound primitive but this is true I remembered I wanted a very deep Christian brother back in those days but the person God showed me was not serious with God, however by now he is the perfect Christian brother I wanted and those people I focused my eyes back then soke of them are dead some have backslided I'm just thankful to God 20 years of peaceful and enjoyable marriage
I remember when I was in a relationship in 2018 and I prayed for this guy so God can bless him and God did ,tho he’s a Christian brother so am I .When I prayed to God he told me he’s good but when I told my Mum about it I asked her to pray about it when my Mum prayed she said she saw somethings which is wrong about the guy,so I was told not to get married to him,this guy is the most honest person I’ve ever walked with little did I know he’s a cheat. And we both abstain from sexual intercourse it was all about No sex before marriage😢I was so happy he accepted so we dated for two years planning our wedding . Few months to our wedding I wasn’t comfortable with his movements anymore I prayed to God he was just showing me different things about him I prayed and prayed God was telling me not to go on with the marriage,eventually I heard he impregnated a lady and didn’t tell me about it. I landed at the hospital,I was admitted,received 15 drips 10 injections, I saw the red flags but I just wanted to get married cos I loved him.Thank God I didn’t I would have been regretting by now he doesn’t worth it at all.
@emilynyambura I would like to answer you. Yes God chooses a spouse for you. And either you or the other person will be revealed to. Ever heard of the kingdom spouse. Trust me it's very real. Especially if you are aligning with God's will.
And this guy came to me in names of wanting to marry me but I told him we give and I told him we shall be communicating via voicecalls after a few weeks he asked for a video call when am necked..I told him but I thought this is leading to marriage and after marriage you will have me but that was the end of all this that I thought it was a relationship in the first place....so ladies let's be keen in these relationship things to avoid heartbreaks bkoz men know that we want marriage so they come the angle of promising us marriage to just use us ......thank you dear Auntie Winnie
One guy told me that a manipulative trick guys use is to talk to you every day so that you get addicted or used to it and then would not easily leave him if he doesn't turn out to be what you're looking for‼️that's why we need healthy boundaries as in not talk every day and not be isolated when we date. Talk about it to a person you prayed about and can trust with talking about this relationship💯
Momma....I am glad I made U my life Coach! You have directed me every step on my way in various areas of life !❤. You are simply Amazing.God when will I ever see you in person....😭🥰
Thank you so much Winnie 🥰. I love the way you say that's a topic for another day, it helps you focus on what you are currently discussing and not diverting to something you remember or that pops up in your mind along the conversation 😂😂🎉❤. Much love 😘💕💕
Thanks for all these tips. I'm actually socially awkward and also not good at socializing, im an introvert too. Its nice to have this much insight about all the questions to ask... I never know much about what to talk about ❤
Thank you winnie. This content will be very helpful. My take home will be the "why you want to get married?" Because some men really just want kids and after that, they are done.
Thanks you my lovely sister.Upbringing and mindset is key determinant of any relationship.if a man has scacity (victim)mindset and woman has abudance mindset it will not work not matter how you try it.
So true Miss Winnie. My love languages are acts of service, quality time and physical touch. These are great quality questions. And I have most definitely asked some of these questions to a guy a few years ago. Let’s just say, he last was limited. Thank you for your information.
Lol very true; the 4th question." What is your purpose in life" - the answers I've gotten by men cracks me up till date. Some get dumbfounded when you ask that question 😅 The 9th question is key; interestingly very few persons have a valid reason. Thanks to social media🤦♂️
i have seen these questions before but not seen someone giving better explanation to them. Thank you Madam. I have subscribe and hope to watch the next episode. Peace
I love you Winnie❤️ I really do You always know what areas to give information on and when At 1:35 to 1:40 you just spoke to my heart. This is information I’ll share with my future children one day
2:22 please touch more in this in a video. As a young woman, I keep getting the feeling that it would be a man that has more to offer a woman than the other way around, but I also feel like that’s not true. Please touch on this. 😅❤️
Thank you Ma for all you do for us especially me. You're a prayer answered when i was praying to God for a guidance to be a better person in life and God led me to your RUclips channel. And since then my life has changed for good and am becoming the woman i have always dream of becoming. But ma i have two questions to ask 1. What do you have to say for a man that hides his financial status to test if a woman is wife material? I mean does accepting poverty defines a woman to be a wife Material. 2. If a man is not born again and has a good quality and also a kind person that i need should i get married to him or not since i am a born again. This is my first time of commenting on your channel and am so happy for that. Thanks, I love you Ma ❤️
Waah , Beautiful. Please take notes my darlings. Pray and be careful. Follow her and learn more so you don't get in the deceit. Please, please, please be careful out there to avoid all hatreds, harassment, heartbreaks divorces, lack of unconditional love, genuine love etc; the lists go on. God's blessings always ❤
Wow Elegant Winnie replied That's beautiful, am so happy right now I did like to see you one day Thank you so much for all you do , your influence has really helped me a lot, am grateful ma
May GOD bless you Winnie!🙏🏽🙌🏽 I pray you have an amazing week beautiful!🌹I truly enjoy your channel, I am a subscriber to BOTH!☺️Keep up the awesome work, you’re very wise! May GOD increase your wisdom! “Psalm 115:14”
@@winniesschoolofelegance Hi Winnie, I'm a young girl of 21 yrs old living in Anambra State Nigeria.My father is late,I'm left with my mum and senior brother(married)...I don't get support from my family esp financial support because they don't really have.I work but my income is low, I have a lot of responsibilities including family responsibilities...I do literally everything for myself which makes me think alot and depressed...it's too much for me, my heart is heavy..pls what should I do?
Good Day Winnie, Excellent presentation ,are you able to do a presentation on age gaps the do's and don'ts for males and females in a dating relationship?. Keep up the good work.#Think elegant, Act elegant, be elegant.
Greetings winnie am a student in the university trying to get into a relationship but am confused have been watching your videos and will love it if you help me with more steps and advice
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The cheapest and easiest way to this is let God choose for you, my marriage will be 20 years this December all I can say is fine God and let him lead you to who you are to get married to
There are so many things to this that human capacity cannot carry I am sorry if I sound primitive but this is true
I remembered I wanted a very deep Christian brother back in those days but the person God showed me was not serious with God, however by now he is the perfect Christian brother I wanted and those people I focused my eyes back then soke of them are dead some have backslided I'm just thankful to God 20 years of peaceful and enjoyable marriage
God to choose for u? Did I read it clearly? God has given u ability to make choices
@@emilynyambura959 no problem dearie go ahead
@@emilynyambura959at times what God wants for you might not be what you wanted
I remember when I was in a relationship in 2018 and I prayed for this guy so God can bless him and God did ,tho he’s a Christian brother so am I .When I prayed to God he told me he’s good but when I told my Mum about it I asked her to pray about it when my Mum prayed she said she saw somethings which is wrong about the guy,so I was told not to get married to him,this guy is the most honest person I’ve ever walked with little did I know he’s a cheat. And we both abstain from sexual intercourse it was all about No sex before marriage😢I was so happy he accepted so we dated for two years planning our wedding .
Few months to our wedding I wasn’t comfortable with his movements anymore I prayed to God he was just showing me different things about him I prayed and prayed God was telling me not to go on with the marriage,eventually I heard he impregnated a lady and didn’t tell me about it. I landed at the hospital,I was admitted,received 15 drips 10 injections, I saw the red flags but I just wanted to get married cos I loved him.Thank God I didn’t I would have been regretting by now he doesn’t worth it at all.
@emilynyambura I would like to answer you. Yes God chooses a spouse for you. And either you or the other person will be revealed to. Ever heard of the kingdom spouse. Trust me it's very real. Especially if you are aligning with God's will.
And this guy came to me in names of wanting to marry me but I told him we give and I told him we shall be communicating via voicecalls after a few weeks he asked for a video call when am necked..I told him but I thought this is leading to marriage and after marriage you will have me but that was the end of all this that I thought it was a relationship in the first place....so ladies let's be keen in these relationship things to avoid heartbreaks bkoz men know that we want marriage so they come the angle of promising us marriage to just use us ......thank you dear Auntie Winnie
One guy told me that a manipulative trick guys use is to talk to you every day so that you get addicted or used to it and then would not easily leave him if he doesn't turn out to be what you're looking for‼️that's why we need healthy boundaries as in not talk every day and not be isolated when we date. Talk about it to a person you prayed about and can trust with talking about this relationship💯
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This is so true....I am really glad I got off it before it lead to dating 😂..
@@winniesschoolofeleganceMiss Wnnie....i really need a lot of help....i wish we could get into contact .... I'm almost suicidal 😢
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Thank you 🙏 very helpful ❤
Miss Winnie please make a shoot about how to handle distance relationship.
"Girl! You better pick yourself up, and go live your full life." is super duper delicious and just the fact.👌💯
Thank you for releasing and breaking down this knowledge. I don't think anyone including illiterate won't understand.
This is worth emulating Winnie ❤
It’s my absolute pleasure Dear!❤️
Winnie please make a video on how someone can find his or her purpose without been in a confused state
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Winnie, all I can say is THANK YOUUUU! YOU ARE SO WISE. Love you!❤😘
It’s my absolute pleasure! I love you too Dear!❤️
Momma....I am glad I made U my life Coach! You have directed me every step on my way in various areas of life !❤. You are simply Amazing.God when will I ever see you in person....😭🥰
I love you Winnie I'm so happy to be part of this great channel
I really love this Channel right from the day one i came across this lady,winnie thank you soo much
Your videos always come handy whenever i need it. Thanks Winnie ❤
I don't know why? But I feel like I am part of your Family ❤
Thank you so much Winnie 🥰. I love the way you say that's a topic for another day, it helps you focus on what you are currently discussing and not diverting to something you remember or that pops up in your mind along the conversation 😂😂🎉❤. Much love 😘💕💕
Thanks for all these tips. I'm actually socially awkward and also not good at socializing, im an introvert too. Its nice to have this much insight about all the questions to ask... I never know much about what to talk about ❤
I have becoma a better lady ever since I discovered this channel.
Same here too
Thank you winnie. This content will be very helpful. My take home will be the "why you want to get married?" Because some men really just want kids and after that, they are done.
"let him figure it out and maybe meet the next person" 🤣🤣 this got me really laughing hard. Thanks for the teachings i love you ma ❤
You really are my sister from another Mother. Incredible word there!!!!
You are value packed, thanks for always sharing great value and personal development. I love you Winnie ❤
Believe me, your videos are so timely
The 3 months rule really work
These men can lie chaii🙌 thank you mam it's also important to check their actions 😊
Men are cold blooded liars😭😭😭
That's why u need God to reveal deep things to you
Thanks love for the guidelines
Thank you so much for this, it's really appreciated ❤❤.
Miss Winnie has said it all! Now it's time for us ladies to be brave to ask these questions
Thank you so much Winnie, I do not regret following your channel.
In fact, I personally too had to answer these questions myself. Bravo 👏
I thought so too
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Congratulations Dear Winnie ❤
Thanks you my lovely sister.Upbringing and mindset is key determinant of any relationship.if a man has scacity (victim)mindset and woman has abudance mindset it will not work not matter how you try it.
So true Miss Winnie. My love languages are acts of service, quality time and physical touch. These are great quality questions. And I have most definitely asked some of these questions to a guy a few years ago. Let’s just say, he last was limited. Thank you for your information.
Thank God you tell me I will have set exam for him😂😂😂😂. Thank Winnie for sharing God bless you ❤❤❤💕
Can I Thank you Enough? Thanks so much for this. Much ❤
Quick tips for free❤❤❤
Thanks love
It’s my absolute pleasure!❤
Thank God i discover this channel on time
Swt thanks so much for the beautiful words we r learning bt men they don't want to be asked some things about their life
Lol very true; the 4th question." What is your purpose in life" - the answers I've gotten by men cracks me up till date. Some get dumbfounded when you ask that question 😅
The 9th question is key; interestingly very few persons have a valid reason. Thanks to social media🤦♂️
I will have to answer this questions myself before asking someone's son.😍😌
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Thank you so much,Winnie.
These questionsss
Thank you so much for giving us these questions. Golden gems
Good Job!👍
More power to your elbow, Winnie.🤗🤗
May God continue to keep you and enrich you with more wisdom ❤❤❤
I love your accent Mam Winnie
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"your Advice is always spot on -thank you!" winnie ❤
Thank you so much Winnie 🥰 ❤️. It's quite different hearing all of these from you.
Ur a such amazing coach we love you so much 💓
I so love my first time here❤😊
Very important stuffs...thanks alot Winie🙏 25:36
The questions are key but some will and even cry on top....
I think preparing yourself helps u know what to expect
Thanks Winnie.
Very grateful.
I love you, miss Winnie. Thank youuuu so much. For everything.❤
I have always respected Winnie but now I like her for this particular video
Thanks for the tips ma'am ❤️
Your shirt looks so good on you🥰
i have seen these questions before but not seen someone giving better explanation to them. Thank you Madam. I have subscribe and hope to watch the next episode. Peace
Very very helpful ❤ thank you!!!
Take care Winnie
I enjoyed this one ❤
I am so glad you found this video valuable.❤️❤️
Thank you so much Winnie, your content always bless me ❤
Oh thanks Winnie i have noted in my book
Thanks Winnie for this insight ❤
I love you Winnie❤️ I really do
You always know what areas to give information on and when
At 1:35 to 1:40 you just spoke to my heart.
This is information I’ll share with my future children one day
Thank you so much 💖 I have learned a lot❤
2:22 please touch more in this in a video. As a young woman, I keep getting the feeling that it would be a man that has more to offer a woman than the other way around, but I also feel like that’s not true. Please touch on this. 😅❤️
Thank you so much dear,God bless you 🙏
Thank you Winnie ❤❤❤
👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻You are a strong woman
You are good winnie and God bless you
Amen!🙏🏽
Thanks for sharing this have learnt a lot 👍👍👍👍
Thank you Ma for all you do for us especially me.
You're a prayer answered when i was praying to God for a guidance to be a better person in life and God led me to your RUclips channel.
And since then my life has changed for good and am becoming the woman i have always dream of becoming.
But ma i have two questions to ask
1. What do you have to say for a man that hides his financial status to test if a woman is wife material? I mean does accepting poverty defines a woman to be a wife Material.
2. If a man is not born again and has a good quality and also a kind person that i need should i get married to him or not since i am a born again.
This is my first time of commenting on your channel and am so happy for that.
Thanks, I love you Ma ❤️
I love this video thanks Winnie 🙏
Much love ma
This is informative and enlightening
Thank you dear ...i like your content and i have learnt a lot❤💯
Winnie❤❤❤❤❤.... I really appreciate you.... You're amazing... Thanks for sharing
I love this channel
Thanks ma🎉
And please winnie kindly make a video on " Navigation dating and relationships in a digital age "
Thank u Winnie for this. U're amazing
God bless you Winnie ❤
Amen!🙏🏽
Very helpful ❤❤❤❤
Thanks for this ❤
Waah , Beautiful. Please take notes my darlings. Pray and be careful. Follow her and learn more so you don't get in the deceit. Please, please, please be careful out there to avoid all hatreds, harassment, heartbreaks divorces, lack of unconditional love, genuine love etc; the lists go on. God's blessings always ❤
I love you Winnie ❤❤❤
Keep it up ma'am
I love you too Darln!❤️
Wow Elegant Winnie replied
That's beautiful, am so happy right now
I did like to see you one day
Thank you so much for all you do , your influence has really helped me a lot, am grateful ma
May GOD bless you Winnie!🙏🏽🙌🏽
I pray you have an amazing week beautiful!🌹I truly enjoy your channel, I am a subscriber to BOTH!☺️Keep up the awesome work, you’re very wise! May GOD increase your wisdom! “Psalm 115:14”
Amen!! Thank you so much for being a part of our community.❤️❤️
I had fun watching this 😹😹 thanks for sharing Winnie
Gorgeous outfit ❤
Thank you!❤️
Thanks winne❤
Well done for this piece Winnie.
Please i have to ask... What if it's a long distance thing?
Keep it up Winnie
I definitely will Dear!❤
Thanks so much ma'am
😂😂😂Oya am going there with my full list of questions and a notepad for answers
Just to see him run 😂
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Ahhh😂😂😂
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Sure 😂😂 true
Another great value video thank you so much sis
Thank you winnie❤
You are welcome Dear!❤️
@@winniesschoolofelegance Hi Winnie, I'm a young girl of 21 yrs old living in Anambra State Nigeria.My father is late,I'm left with my mum and senior brother(married)...I don't get support from my family esp financial support because they don't really have.I work but my income is low, I have a lot of responsibilities including family responsibilities...I do literally everything for myself which makes me think alot and depressed...it's too much for me, my heart is heavy..pls what should I do?
Please throw more light on the last question
I love you Winnie thank you ❤
Thank you
Thank you very much sis
Thank you so much ma'am ❤
Thank you❤
love this relationship videos.... keep it up
Good Day Winnie,
Excellent presentation ,are you able to do a presentation on age gaps the do's and don'ts for males and females in a dating relationship?. Keep up the good work.#Think elegant, Act elegant, be elegant.
Marriage is for companionship ❤
Greetings winnie am a student in the university trying to get into a relationship but am confused have been watching your videos and will love it if you help me with more steps and advice
Thanks mama❤❤❤❤
I love Winnie