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Leej twg hlub niam hlub txiv thiaj tau koob hmoov
Nkim koj niam koj txiv yug koj cov nus no tib cov neeg khib nyiab xwb liam tiag2, nkag poj niam qab tiab xwb tsis yog txiv neej li
This story is becoming more and more of the norm. This is why Hmong need to value and respect their daughters/girls more!
Yo tshaj plaws li. hmoob txoj cai quav dev uas cov ntxhais muab qua mus ces txawm nrauj txiv rov los los yeej tsis pub los tua hauv tsev li lawm tabsis thaum zoo li no cas ho yuav kom ntxhais tha niam tha txiv li no thiab.
It's the norm because Hmong parents don't know how to be parents. That's why their children end up hating each other. First of all, the daughter should've never took over her brother's policy. Just let it lapse on it's own. Buy her own policy. Secondly, no matter how incompetent her brothers are, let their clan take over and deal with it. She should just tell them that she is only a daughter and has a new life with her husband. She can contribute monetarily but otherwise she is out of it.
Wow, wow, wow! Your brothers have no shame! They mistreated and disrespected you but want $10k for you and disowned you when you married a white guy. They’re the sons but wanted you as the daughter to take care of their funeral when they see you as an outsider. They should be ashamed of themselves as Hmong sons! Shame on them!!! This is BS.
You don’t need brothers like them. Love yourself and move on.
In the Hmong culture brothers can direct orders to their sisters so the brothers were not in the wrong even if they were jerks about it. She should've just smart about the whole thing. First of all, NEVER take over her brother's policy. Buy her own. Secondly, DO NOT handle the funeral no matter how incompetent her brothers were. That's why they have their clan. She should've just contributed money and then stay out of it.
Ouch, her story sure hit some people’s nerves. Be good, do good and your life will prosper. Greedy people like her brothers will suffer someday. Just watch.
We have a lot to learn from this story for sure, but we need to stop having these extravagantly expensive funerals. This is a big burden that is the cause of many family relationships to fall apart. We can still honor our parents and give them the traditional burial that they deserve but we don't need to go all out in other areas only to save face and make us look good. Funerals were done in Laos for many generations that didn't cost this much. Why can't we spend this money on them while they are still alive and not when they are gone.
Seriously! Makes no sense when the funeral home gets rich while your family gets poor.
This can only happen when Hmong people stop judging those who don’t do extravagant funerals. Unfortunately the Hmong people are a people based on reputation. Everyone knows everyone, and everyone watches what everyone else is doing. Me, I could care less as many of us are doing now. The ways are changing, just not fast enough. Change is coming, we just have to stop judging others for what they do.
Our culture funeral cost so much and that's why after the funeral the family falls apart. Sometimes most parents not being fair to their kids too. This story the brothers was so wrong...this is sad.
Well said, Amen to that!
Well said! 👏👏👏
Sister you are not alone. Greedy brothers are very common when it comes to funerals and weddings.
You're a kind person and may you continue to be blessed. Your parents were fortunate to have raised a good daughter like you.
Money for weddings and funerals will always be an issue for greedy Hmong people. Glad to be living in America where I make my own money and I don't have to deal with greedy Hmong people. Even so; I earn my own money, pay my own bills, and splurge on myself and I'm still selfish for not giving anyone MY MONEY that I work hard for. Hating on someone but always wanting their money - that's greedy Hmong People for you.
Hmoob lub siab me y tus hlub koj ces yog koj niam koj txiv xwb nyab nus ces txhob cia siab .you are strong n koj lub neej koj xaiv koj mog vim koj twb yuav hmoob hmoob twb tsis hlub.koj cov nus no siab phem cai neeg hlub txhob tu siab lawv tsis hlub los thiaj tsis tshuav lawv nqi
This is why I'm dating outside of the Hmong race. I, too, is dating a meeka. His family and him are so loving and don't judge at all. Also, I'm starting to see a lot of our Hmong girls date and married meekas. Nothing wrong with that.
This is one of the reason. I never like to date Hmong people. Hmong guys are never in my eyes.
I dont think that's a good reason, but w/e it's your life.
@@chongxiong340 Zoo kawg. May God bless you and your Family.
Do what u feel right in life sister
@@chongxiong340 never say never
Awesome story for peb Hmoob brothers and parents! Thank you God your white hubby understood you to bury both parents. If it were a Hmoob hubby, he will fight with your stingy brothers to the end, and will not let you bury your parents. 😢💪
Sad. Money will always be an issue when it comes to our love ones funeral. I fear this so much.
$$$$ is first priority
Muaj tub coob mas sib khib tsis tsim nyog yug tub tsis muaj tub los txhob tu siab
Koj cov brothers yeej tsis tau neej zoo ua li!!! Yav laus mas tseem yuav rau tsim txom thiab txom nyem siab tshaj koj mom thiab koj dad os sister aw
Ua neej nyob niam txiv yeej yus tau ib txhia me nyuam siab phem2 li ntawm thiab ib txhia nyab mas phem tshaj phis nyuj vaim lawm thiab, txhob tu siab tus neeg ua phem yeej Tsi tau zoo ib zaug li os
Absolutely agree with you, a good person with a good heart will always give and receive more. It’s the law of karma and the universe. Thank you for sharing.
Yep ntxhais yeej hlub niam hlub txiv dua. Txhob yug tub lawm nawb
Yug tau lub cev yug tsi tau lub siab, niam yug tau ib pab lo lub siab xav tsi sib xw. Peb ua me nyuam nyob leej twg hlub niam hlub txiv ce tau koob hmoov zoo koj lub neej tsua muaj yuav zoo xwb.
This day more and more daughters valued and treasure then 10 sons thanks 4 shared your story 4 all hmong parents to learn to love daughters equally as a son
You can’t blame your sister in laws. Your brothers wouldn’t be like that if they were good people themselves
What selfish sons & daughters-in-laws!!! Karma will get to them...They are just jealous of you! Live a good & happy life with your family!!!
Your brothers are at fault. Hmong people thinks that their sons are gonna bury them. Not this generation. This generation girls can do a lot better than boys now. These hmong men needs to stand up more for their parents. Yes, always be good, good always beats evil.
Whether sons stick up for their parents or not, daughters should stay out of it. Let the brothers and their clan deal with it. Otherwise, parents will need to make it clear from the very beginning that they don't have a gender preference about these things. The problems start when parents aren't clear. They want to be Hmong but then they also ask a lot from their daughters when they can't get it from their sons. I'm glad my parents were NEVER like that. They made it clear who was to play which role in our family. And if my brother and nyab fell short on expectations my parents just learned to live with it. They didn't run to their daughters and vauv to pick up the slack so that my brother and nyab feel upstaged. If they were unhappy with my brother then they went to the clan, not to their daughters. This story is messed up because of parents who to be Hmong but not.
yog kawg os yim ua zoo yim tau zoo
kuv ntseeg li ntawv tiag2
Yog lawm, tus phem yeej swb tus zoo, dej nros yeej tsis yeej dej ntshiab. Tos luag lwm haiv neeg txiav txim siab tsis yug menyuam coob lawm, ntau tus ntau txoj kev nyuaj siab txog thaum laus los yeej tsis tau kev hlub.
Ua Zoo thiaj tau zoo os mog
Tus neeg siab zoo ntuj yeej pub kom tau zoo
Tsuas muaj nto moo
Koj cov nus ntshaw nyiaj tiag2
You lucky you have your parents to support you all the way. I don't have any parents to support me.
Tham neej neeg ces nyias yeej hus nyias kwj tse xwb tab si nyaj yuav muaj me ntsis thiab tsuav ua tau me ntsis xwb yeej zoo lawm
lub ntiaj teb lwj siab lwj taw.
Tu me viv ncaus aws... kuv ces nyoo khiag cov nyab es tsis lo ua nabthib yog yu tu nyab xwb pheej lo ua nabthib yu niam mas. Nyoo tiagtiag sim neej no leej twg tsis muaj tu nyab li no mas tsis to taub li os.
Ntuj aw...peb tsis tas cia siab rau tej tub thiab tej nyab no li os. Yug tsis muaj tub los tsis tu siab lawm vim muaj los zoo li zaj neej neeg no xwb ces txaus tu siab dhau lawm. Yus los ntshe txog thaum kawg yus yuav tau pam yua niam yus txiv li no thiab. Tsis tsim nyog tej niam tej txiv no hlub thiab tu tej me tub no li.
You've are blessed and been blessed ♡
Zaj no zoo tiag2 Kuv ntseeg li ntawv thiab ua siab zoo yeej tau zoo
Menkauj hmoob aw tej nyab siabxzoo thiaj li hais txhob tu siab tseem muaj txoj sia pheevxu tus kheej mog menkauj hmoob zoo li kuv twb yog yawg nrauj tab kuv ua li kuv ua tau kuv 2 txoj hauj lwm os tu siab puas nyob os
The problem with nowadays is the old parents didn't care to take responsibility for themselves. Sure they have kids but they tend to think that all kids (sons) is responsible for their funeral expenses and not all of their sons will contribute equally or willing to contribute money. For any old parents, please buy your own policy to cover yourself so that your kids never have to fight. Some parents are very unfair too, they save their money and intend to give to their favorite child, yet they want all the others to pay for their funeral. This is why funeral always bring fight among children.
Hmoob ntshaw nyiaj tsaj koj cov nws tsis muaj cai rov noj koj ib tom tshoob lawm poj nrauj 1500 lawm xwb muaj cai kawg tshuav lawv cov mam saib mus tsis tau tuag sai tsuas yog koj cov nws xwb os txhob tu siab lawv ntse rov saib qwb lawm xwb
Ladies, when you’re divorced don’t ever go live with your parents or relatives. You must be able to live on your own and pay your own expenses so you don’t have to deal with all this BS. Try no to be a burden to anyone
Yog, Yus tsuas nyob kom nrhiav tau tsev xwb tawm. Yog yus mus nyob nrog luag kiag ces yeej nyuaj nyuaj kawg rau luag thiab.
God blessed you ❤️❤️❤️
Wow just wow! Surprised and not surprised. This makes me appreciate my brothers so much more.
Yu care if they no love u. U got good husband n kids. Who cares your brothers love u or not
Wow wow Wow! Your brothers have no shame!!
I am speechless and have no words to describe your brothers. Shame on them!!!
Good things will come to good people! Your brothers will get what’s coming to them.
I’m glad my brothers are nothing like that. They are supporting and always have an understanding.
Tus viv ncaws aw zaj no tsuas raug cov nus siab phem rau tej laus xwb yuav tsis raug rau cov nus siab zoo li koj cov thiab kuv cov li os
This is reason why I am glad I am grateful I don't have older brothers.
Good story. I’ll keep as learning process. So this won’t happen in future between siblings and money .
Wow I have brother they ain't like that. But is just My sister n law don't like our family n I'm o divorce one too. But My mom never said anything about it n my brother never said anything.
Ua neeg nyob ua zoo yeej yuav tau zoo xwb mog vim hmoob yog ib co khib2 nyhiab vim nyiam xwb txhob tu siab og ,koj cov nyab nus yog dev npua siab ntsws xwb nawb
Sister, thanks for sharing your story. Your brothers are at fault. They are not man enough to love and take responsibility for their parents. Daughters are look down upon but at the end the daughters are more responsible and loves the parents more. It's OK. You were blessed and reward for your goodness.
Yog kawg peb ua neeg nyob yeej swb tus neeg coj zoo thiab tus siab zoo coj ncaj thiaj yeej txhua yam kuv ntseeg li ko thiab tiag sister.
What shameful behavior! You’re more patient than I am. I would have disowned them first. Glad your dad ended up with you. Let karma deal with those ungrateful sons.
Awww...I admire your your kindness
Cas kuv noog yuam kev lawm
Vim yog koj cov neej tsa tsis muaj ib tug zoo thawj coj noj taus hais taus thiaj muaj cov teeb meem no los txhob tu siab mog yus ua zoo ces yuav tau zoo vam tias koj lub neej yuav muaj zoo dua koj cov nus es thov vaj tswv yawm saub foom koob hmoov rau koj nawb mog.
There’s no ending to this story
What a great story to hear. I am a daughter who married a Hmong man and had to bury my mother as well for similar reasons. Thankful for my spouse and understanding. The society is changing and everything is technically about money - while living and after death. I have seen parents who live with their daughters and hmong husbands who still adopts the old culture and their lives are filled with riches and no issues in the family. Sometimes I think these stories were created back in the days to just isolate the daughters. At the end of the day, its about kindness, compassion, and how you loved when you were living. Blessings to all.
Only hear from your side. It took both hands to a sounds
LoL speak english
Peb cov ntxhais tiam 21 no mus yuav lwm hom neeg ces yog cov coob yog cov tuag tsis muaj lub ntxa lwm tus yuav qhuas los ntshe kuv yuav tsis thov qhuas sim neej no poom pepsi twb tsis tau hau lawm na
Sister, you’ve done the right thing. I am so proud of you. Hlub cov laus thiab pub rau cov laus noj ces u muab me los lawv hais lus zoo2 rau u ces u twb tau ntau2 lawm. Khwv me los tau ntau os. Super proud of you. Tha cov laus xwb tsis txhob khuv xim li os. Peb niam peb txiv lawv yug tau peb coob2 tus coj zoo li cas lawv yeej paub tag li os.
Lawv cas tus txawj xav los kuj muaj tus tsis txawj xav los kuj muaj. Yog tsev neeg tsis txawj xav tsis txawj sib hlub mas txaus tu siab kawg
Cas peb tseem tsuav tej tsev neeg Liam ua luaj no thiab hos hmoob tsis tsim nyog yug me nyuam lawm mog.
This is why they say, money is the root of all evil.
Do good and receive good.
Money is not the root. It’s neutral.
It ‘the love of money’ that’s the root of evil
Qhov tseeb yog koj cov nus tsus meej pem thuab tsis paub tab xwb vim niam txuv tuag yig vmciv tub lub luag hauj lwm muam thiab yawm yij muaj li cas pab li ntawd xwb.
pab tub no yov tsia tau koob hmoov
lawv lub neej yov poob qab thiab txom nyem rau neej ton ntej no
What selfish money hungry brothers..Best wishes to you sister
Wow... yog muaj nyab muaj nus es zoo li pab no xwb ces kub tsis muaj nus muaj nyab los kuv tsis ntshaw os. God bless you sister. Koj cov nus mus hnav tiab tag lawm ne.
You got some effd up brothers!
Wow you got evil brothers lol
This is so sad, the same thing happened to us as well. Money changes people, it is the root of all evil for sure.
Zaj Dabneeg nov Dag nkaus xwb...
Omg this story is so sad... I feel extremely sad for the parents and the daughter!!
What ashame to those brothers!
Omg hlub koj txiv ua luaj os. Your mum passed away so she doesn't know anything but your dad. Omg it brings me tears. No parents should feel or be abandoned like this.😭😭😔
This is why you don't favor one child over the other son or daugther. Perfect example right here and living proof right here. Can not get any better than this. The older brothers try to get smart with his sister. She did it bcuz of her parents, otherwise. They collect money for her wedding not once but twice. WTH!! Greedy family.
We might not be able to change the minds of older generation because most don't want to change. But those older generation are slowly disappearing and younger generation who are still preserving the tradition, we need to change this rule of paying for the girls. This rule only apply in the old days where son wore the pants. Now the roles have changed. Anything for the son's family must be approved by his wife and those daughter in law who careless about her husband's family will hand the burden and suffering of the son's parents to their biological daughters. Let's have the daughters pay for their husbands and have him help her with Niam tais yawn txiv because he will have to listen to his wife anyway.
It’s ok os sister!!! I walked that path too. Now our big brother no longer wants anything to do with us sisters. Just move on.
What I don’t understand is why some Hmong parents depend on their children knowing how expensive a funeral cost. I’m so glad my parent don’t put that burden on my brothers, they save money for their own funeral expenses.
I understand it's up to each person to choose who they want to be with but to generalize and say that these are reasons why Hmong women date outside of our Hmong community is pathetic. As if there are not horrible people in every race, including Hmong. From what I have seen, even within my own family, Hmong people that marry outside of their own community have often tolerated more and bent over more for their non-Hmong family just to be accepted. Personally, I love my Hmong people and would choose a Hmong spouse any and every day and treat that person with the utmost respect and love.
Wow so wrong of your brothers to let you took care both funerals.
But rest assure her brothers and sister in-laws won't get away. We all know that! Lawv mas yuav npam npam kom tas tiam li os. Lawv yeej tsis dim ib zaug li os.
Woua, tus muam koj tus nus thiab tus nyab pheem dhua lawm tsis ntxawm xav li nas
That'll be the hmong culture that I so hate about.
When my dad died Sept 2020, it was the daughters and my mom that buried him as well. We know that when it's my mom's turn, it's going to be us girls again.
Nej tsev hmoob xuaj ko yog xeem dab tsi cas yuav ntshaw nyiaj ua luaj nas suaj meem ntxom ua luaj zaj dab neeg no nas koj tus nus ko Yuav liam ua luaj thov qhia seb xeem dab tsi nyob xeev twg cas yuav dhuav siab npaum no nas
Koj cov nus cov nyab mas yog zoo li ko xwb es lawv yug me nyuam ua da tsi os tsam lawv cov hos tsim lawv ntshe tseem yuav txom nyuam tshaj ob tug lawm
After I listen to the story, I don’t want to help my son anymore
Lolz don't lose hope may be your son won't be bad son like her brothers.
That’s what I hope
Cov nus tsab tsab ntse ces yeej hais lus nyuaj nyuaj nawb
tab txhawm hais tias yog yuav hmoob xwb los nim no hmoob phem phem li xyov yuav zoo li cas
Ua cas tham rov tham rais. Thaum pib ib tug nus $5000 tsam no ho tus twg Los tsis kam laj mloog dhau
Koj cov nus tsis totaub xwb thiaj zoo liko… tu siab kg, yuav tau Hloov… Yog sd Niam txiv sd yuav tsum sibpab tsis hais thaum nyob los thaum puv nyoog
nro koj tu siab uas koj tau 1 co nyab nus tsis hlub koj li no os.
I wanna know what all those old hmong leader's say about this? Let the daughter do the parent's funeral? I thought only the boy' s can do the parent's funeral only?!!!
Zoo heev li os
Shameful for your brothers and sil. You’re such a big hearted person. May god guide you all the way.
Ab ntshe kj tus nus ntawv g txawj tuag li nws txawj plhis xwb pob kj g txhob tu siab mog
Cas hmoob es thaum ua tag pheej ho yuav khib li no as.
Yam twg koj tsis txaus siab ua, yeej tsis muaj leej twg yuam tau koj ua sav, viv ncaus. Koj tsis txaus siab them nqe muag koj zaum 1, zaum 2, zaum pes tsawg los yeej tsis muaj leej twg yuam tau koj them 1 cent li sav.
Koj niam koj txiv li nqi tuag los yeej tsis muaj neeg yuam tau koj them, yog koj tsis rho nyiaj los them. Koj them koj lawm es koj ho hais ub hais no dabtsi na.
Koj mus yuav koj txiv, nrauj koj txiv, muaj koj ib pab mi nyuam es koj ho coj rov los khwv xyeem nrog lwm tus nyob dabtsi ma? You chose the man you married, you chose to have a bunch of kids, you chose to divorce, why didn’t you choose to take responsibilities yourself?
It's what happened when most hmong family spoiled their sons. Lots of hmong family spoiled their sons rotten to the core.
Peb cov ntxhais sawv daws lo yeej txawj mus ua nyab ua muam ib yam nkaus thiab es thov peb txhob siab phem2 rau cov muam thiab mas koj los yeej yog muam rau cov sab tov thiab ne cas koj yuav siab me siab phem ua luaj mas
Hmoob ruam 75 aw ca nej tseem nyob lub ntuj qub xwb os ca yuav hlub ne txoj kev ruam ualuaj li os
Koj tsev neeg yog ib tsev neeg phem xwb tabsis koj yog tus hmoov zoo tshaj lawm ces nrog koj zoo siab
I am so embarrassed for the older brother. He got face to ask for the insurance policy which is not his. Shame on the brothers.
Yus mus nyob yus mas twb muaj me nyuam claim child support ne cas tseem mus nrog lawv nyob kom mag cem thiab lau
Sawv daws thaum mloog zaj neej no tag lawm cov laus yuav tau Hlub nej cov ntxhais nawb tamsim no ntxhais Hlub niam txiv dua lawm nawb, tej tub ces lawv mloog lawv tej poj niam hais ces tej tub yeej tsis hlub cov laus lawm os
Cov brother zoo li no yeej tsis tau lub neej zoo Li os.
Tsev luam muaj ntau mus nyob tsev luam xwb tsi tas yuav mus nrog lawv nyob li o Sister aw!!!!
First of all, SHAME on the brothers that they cannot live up to their parents’ expectations. In addition, Hmong funerals need to reduce the costs. It’s way too EXPENSIVE that leave families in debts and destroy siblings apart. I feel her pains because I just went through it myself.