Dr Lub Neej Nrauj Tag Rov Yuav Dua. 7/29/21
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For a woman who got her Dr. degree, to go back to a cheating husband and the mother in law that have no respect for her. I, have no words to say.
My thought exactly.
Exactly! ruam tiag . dont care about saving parents face or disowning.
Not sure what Century she's living in!!! 🤦♀️
How can you go back to a man who treated you like nothing, never supported you? He had a child with another woman!!!! This is unforgivable. You don’t love yourself or respect yourself enough.
This lady didn't know her worth. Must've been in that toxic relationship too long to know the difference. Sad but I don't pity her at all
If she's in psychology/memtal heal field like she claimed, she's enabling her husband behavior.
Don't blame her for not loving herself. It's that fact that she was raise in our sexist hmong community to allow the pain and suffering. To turn a blind eye and deaf ear. To pretend that it was nothing and to "strive above all that" and "be strong" you have a strong mind and stronger will because your grown into a society where women are starting to take a stand and be strong. She wasn't and so, even though you disagree with her. It is what it is. Hmong women have been raised in the past to allowed the abuse and toxicity. They're raised to learn to put up with it and push everything under a rug. They're too afraid to "lose face". It's a mindset. It's a prison that they put themselves in. I know your angry because by her going back she is accepting and allowing him to do this to her. And so she tells her story in hopes to lighten her burden. Maybe it does or it doesn't. But it's the life she chose. One day her mindset may change and she may let go of the shackles of our hmong cultures that ties her down. Until then, to each their own.
True this! Guess she missed his 🍤😆
@@Maiosmai you sound more like a SHRINK then her. She should just give you her degree. SHE OBVIOUSLY DIDN'T LEARN ANYTHING IN HER 10 YEARS STUDYING.. HA HA HA
Sounds like you have a degree, but still have no sense. He and his family only want you now because they know they can benefit from you.
My thought exactly!
This story must be makeup by her husband lol
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Mloog lus ua dab tsi os. Lub neej no luv luv, tsis tas nkim sij hawm los ua tus ntxhais mloog lus.
I never missed any of May Vang’s stories. However, this has got to be one of the dumbest story. You’re a Doctor, use your BRAIN Doctor!!! why do you make such a poor decision? What a WASTE of time listen to this story
Agree, she’s the dumbest lady of this century 😐!!!
Ditto!
I’m not sure if she a Dr or not sound like it not a Dr.. maybe just RN lol
Cov no yog cov lawv hu tias kawm txawj xwb tsi ntse naj.. lol
Sounds like you earned a degree in counseling or therapy but you learned nothing about self respect, self care, or self love. I would not want anyone to come to you for professional help.
I agree! 😂
I think it’s psychiatry.
That's how Hmong womens is.
Agreed. Who is she so that she can be avoided.
Waste my time listening. Lol you said once women had enough, they will never turn back. But you’re not one of them. You made it sound like you’re so strong throughout but at the end, you’re not. Know your worth.
For real! My same thought, could not agree more lol
Thanks I can stop listening now! 😀
This one should be titled, "Kawm tiav DR los tseem ruam!" LOL
Lol😂😂
AGREE 💯
Right. 😂😂
DR=Doctor Ruam
Why did you go back! Wow! I would never forgive him... I can never have a life with someone who cheated on me continually
Heck yeah!! Leave that loser, he's only wanting her back so he can reap the rewards off of her. She's doesn't seem too intelligent to know it.
For a person with a Drs degree she isnt smart at all.
@@bluewhisper5008 100% agreed
She cheated on him too so she’s not a honest person either, maybe she just make up story I believe she’s the one who cheated
It's amazing the amount of judgment and disgust there is in the comments. It's apparent that we all have so many opinions and advice, but if it's not your life, you probably wouldn't understand and it's really easy for the rest of us to listen and judge. I got really triggered at all the things I thought she should've done, but also more sad and disappointed and angry at how strong patriarchy exists and continues to exist in our community. That's what you all should be targeting your words and anger and fight against.
For the author of this story, regardless of anyone, you are such a strong woman. Life isn't one direction and there are so many times we make decisions and actions that we're not 100% sure why or how. I hope this is a lesson for all of the folks who judged you and didn't support you. I hope you live the rest of your life choosing happiness and choosing yourself as much as you can.
I second this! 💯
I was rooting for you up until….wow 🤦🏻♀️ smh good luck woman
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You're just ruam for letting others manipulate you. To save your father's face he rather sacrifice your happiness and sanity, that's not what you call love. Don't waste any of your time and life on people who only sees your worth after throwing you under the bus everytime. HATE HATE hmong old folks who still pratice this shady beliefs on their daughters. These are the people who rathered their daughter return in a body bag. Disappointed!!
What a headache listening to this story. The life of having multiple wives belong to your parent and grandparent generations. All I hear are excuses after excuses to justify her reason to go back to a loser. She may be a doctor but lacks true intelligence. This lady must've like the drama in this messy and toxic life. Nothing to learn and nothing to teach her children or grandchildren. Based on her story and how controlling her husband and in-laws are, I wouldn't be surprised if they don't last. Should've moved on and close that door long time ago. Find your own path and future, leave that cheater and his toxic family behind. 😡🤬
Well said!
Maybe the toxic one or drama queen is her because it's her side of the story
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I'm so confused by the title, why the need to put "Dr."? I'm so tire of people feeling the need to put their status as their title. You are dumb for accepting him back, you both deserve each other
Exactly, should of put $10k nyab will always stay brainwashed lol
Hahaha! My thought exactly!!
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She should have left him long time ago and just made him pay child support so she can continue on with her degree. What’s the point in staying married to a cheating husband and hateful family? You’re in charge of your life don’t let anything get in your way. You’re still young why are they demanding you go back to their son when they hated you and encourage their son to cheat? Such bullshit! Girl I don’t know why you go back too.
I'm SMH thinking about the same thing. Being an obient daughter doesn't mean jump off the bridge when your parents tell you to. She must've love a life where her husband have multiple wives. Lady, it's time to stop that cycle, if women don't put our foot down, who will?
That’s what I love about Hmong women. They’re just so 🤪🤪. Especially if it’s a Dr. one🤣🤣
Koj pauj tau peb sawv txoj kev chim lawm zoo siab peb muaj cov me ntxhai muaj peev xwm li koj thov qhuas os me ntxhai aw
Wow I would never go back no matter what anyone said. He married another woman already! He already gave his body to another woman. That's too much. I would never go back to a man who gave his love to another woman.
It's always easier said than done, but you're book smart, not street smart.
Not Life Smart!
I thought too.
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I feel you girl, may god be with you and continues to give you strength and bless your new start to the fullness without the same hardship and may god wash his soul to be good to you forever and learn from his wrong doing, to not do again and don't hurt you or other anymore.
For a second there I thought this story would be a happy ending
I could tell right from the beginning that it would end up like this because of the title, "Dr Lub Neej Nrauj Tag Rov Yuav Dua"
Cas mloog2 txog thaum kawg kuv yuav mob siab chim siab qhov kj niam kj txiv tseem kom kj rov mus yuav naw
She got a Dr degree in ua siab ntev. 👌🤦♀️
For sure. If she can endure all that years of schooling, she thinks she can endure a miserable marriage. SMH.
You’re educated. Why do you tolerate this man?? Why do your parents keep telling you to go back? You can not keep going back to thinking about why you love him in the beginning. You were 13 at the time! That was puppy love. You both have grown and obviously he doesn’t love you anymore. Us Hmong women need to value ourselves more.
Nws ua zoo rau koj txoj kev yuav khwv tau nyiaj ntau los yug nws. Txiv neej siab liam
Txiv neej hmoob mas liam tshaj plaws in neej no.
So sad that your heart was still not hard enough to leave your good for nothing husband. They only wanted u because of your degree and income you will be providing. Sad that the hmong community shamed you into a toxic marriage.
Omg, 13 yrs old.. should've played niam & txiv.. nay nay nay..
Koj ua yog kawg li lawm os sister
Not gonna judge sister. It's hard being a good Hmong daughter periodt! Good luck on your marriage!
sib yuav hluas dhau lawm os
I don’t understand this story. Wasted my damn time!
Wow... she be acting like he is the only man in the world
Cov txiv neej zoo li ko ntxim ntxub tiag tiag
Ruam dhau lawm os.
Koj hmoov tag lawm koj thiaj rov qab los yuav koj tus txiv dev nawb...
Tu siab heev li os 😥😥😥😥
Tej zaum koj tus txiv yeej haib dua nawb
Me txhais tos koj tas dr los koj yeej yog ib tug me ntxhais ntse heev li kuv zoo siab nrog koj os me ntxhais thov qhua koj os
Omg cas tseem rov qab yuav thiab os
Wow..I cannot believe after all that and you take him back
Ruam Tiag.....Tiag..
I’m trying so hard not to judge since it’s your life but girllllllll. They only want u for ur degree. **eye roll** Your son’s already grown, not like he needs his father now. His father wasn’t there when he really needed him. Should’ve stayed with the med student. Lol
Oh yo, you aren't very smart. Going back is going to your biggest mistake sister. Wasting your life away on a man who already has already proven to fail you already. They only want you because of your doctor degree. Everyone smart knows that.
You are in charge of your own life, your own happiness. Why do you let them disrespect you this way? When a person is ready, they will learn and walk away from toxic. May you and your husband's love for each other grow deeper and better.
Tus niam tsev kv tseeg tau tias kj yog tus yeej npluav rog no lawm, kj kob rog no complicated kawg tabsis kj very capable pulled it out with good balance with out causing big problem for your other people remember this only smart people can do what u did. A good commonsense will serve your purpose I know many people may not see the way I see in u I want to let u know that u are exceptional cleaver person. May god bless u and your family.
Twb kawm tag doctor tseem cia lwm tus control yus lub neej, txoj sia thiab kev kaj siab ntawm yus tus kheej thiab. (Siam tiam lawm lau koj na sister awd)
They just need to use you. Don't be the ball they kick, you should be the one kick the ball.the man love never makes you hurt, cry.
Nco ntsoov, qoob neeg qub siab mog. He will not stop cheating but firstly make u believe n trust him then back to same step, cheating. . . . . Till he die
Txiv liam laib, zog , nyiaj siv tag rau poj laib, hnub no zog tag, ntshaw nyiaj chaw zoo ces tias yov rov hlub kj. Cov tsov noj nyoos no yog trash xwb. Txhob khaws trash cias tsi vam meej tab rw lwj ntxhiv xwb
You belong together...!!!
You sooo determined, dedicated, and such strong heart with your education. I wish you had the same heart and mind set with your self and marriage! Set goals and achieve them just like you schooling.
Nyob ntawm neeg xwb os, kuv tus txiv wb sib yuav hluas2 thiab tabsis cas kuv tus txiv ib txwm hlub2 kuv thaum pib los txog niaj hnub niam no. Laus zus nws haj yam hlub yus. Ib sim niam txiv nws yeej tsis tau tsa nws sab tes ntau kuv, nws tsis ua hluas, nws tsis cem yus tej lus phem2 li. Nyob ntawm tus txiv neej siab zoo xwb os. Kuv niam pog lawv tsi nyiam kuv los kuv tus txiv yeej hais tias niam lawv tsis yog kuv lub neej. Txawm lawv yuav hais li cas los lawv hais lawv, twb yeej tsis hloov siab ntawm koj mus in sim neej. Kuv cog lus yuav hlub ib leeg mus txog hnub tsis muaj kuv. Niaj hnub no wb twb laus lawm, menyuam yeej loj2 tag los nws yeej coj li qub
It’s easier said than done but you have to be stubborn. Sometimes the grass is on other side bc that other grass will help water you. I wouldn’t listen to my parents bc it’s not their life it’s your life. At the end of the day none of these people pay your bills or endure your pain except for you. Don’t ever used your kids as an excuse to stay in a toxic relationship.
Only you will know what’s best for you. I’m happy for you
Wow this is the reason why they always called us hmong women "siab poj niam", I would never ever forgive that a**hole husband's of yours after what he put you through. He switch back and forth from you to the other woman and now since you got the degree you're in and she's out.
Siab poj niam indeed!
Koj txiv tsis nrog koj ua neej tag 1 sim neej nawb yog koj niam nkawv hlub koj mas nkawv yeej txiv tu nrho tsis pub koj mus yuav lawm nas txawm hais tias koj niag txiv dev yuav pe hauv av ti saum ntuj los tsis muaj nqi lawm mog teb chaws no tsis muaj neeg yuav tau koj ntshe txiv tag lawm es koj txiv ntawm thiab koj txiv nkawv ntshaw ntshaw koj niag txiv dev ua vauv nkawv thiaj yuav koj rov qab xwb os tus sisters txhob ruam ruam es koj daim Dr. Thiaj muaj nqi mog
Txiv neej yog khib nyiab.
Wasted my time listening to this. Woman!!! He was cheating on you and had a niam yao?! You freaken went back!
Cas mloog tau mob thau hai ua luaj zaj neej neeg no xwb.
What a painful path you've been on. Remember to choose you always and not what parents & elders want. You would just be hurting yourself more. It's your life your future your happiness. You were young and didn't know what love means, didn't know what you were getting yourself into. You have to learn from mistakes, grow, and you became strong. You did your best!!! You went back to school and you gave him and his family way too many chances. Your a pure honest heart. You deserve better. No one ever deserves to live miserably and unhappy.
Tu qub ib ua txwm ua rau yu mob ib txwm tsim yu rov yuav ce txoj kev mob siab yeej mob tsi ploj li twb nrauj tag ca tsi mu yuav tu tshiab es txoj kev mob siab thiaj txawj ploj mu.leej twg taug txoj kev no thiaj paub tia mob li ca 😭😭😭
It is sad story if it is true. Hope it is anew beginning for your family. Past is history, but tomorrow is new opportunity. Niag Hmo yog dab neeg taig kis thiaj yog txog kev ua neeg. Cias yav tag los lawm ua kev kawm cia taig kis qhia txoj kev ua neej lawm yav tom ntev
Yes, not all doctorates are smart minded! Cant stand to continue listening to this story any longer...
Well she said it herself, she just wanted him to love her.
Koj cov neej neeg zoo mloog tshaj li os kuv nyiam koj cov neej neeg vim koj hais tau tej txoj neej neeg tu siab heev kuv kua muag kuj lo lo thiab hos
poj niam ce thaum chim lawm yog ib tug lej
Luag twb tsis hlub yus naj ua cas tau mus es ho tsis mus tseem yuav rov los thiab ua dab tsi thiab koj niam koj txiv lawv tsis yog koj lub neej tus mob tsis yog lawv mob naj tus mob yog koj mob ua cas koj ho tsis txiav txim siab ntawm koj tus kheej xwb
Perfect example of do as I say, not as I do 🤦♀️.
txhua yam ces yog tim yus xwb
Koj tus txiv cia nws ua dev nkag los nws thiaj ris siab os
Quav dev tiag tiag os Dr. Aws ! 💆💆
Only book smart.
Leejtwg tsis tau ua menyuam mloog lus ces leejtwg tsis tau-taub nws txoj me kev chim xwb.🙏 Thov kom koj tus txiv hlub♥️ taus koj mus kom txog hnub tuag xwb nawb!..
Koj hnov lawm los os!! nws tus txiv😅
Yog tsis li ces tiam neej no yuav nkim koj li sijhawm ua neeg ntau heev li lawm💔💔😡
Tsis zoo mam nraug
This part of our Hmong culture needs to stop. Parents can not force their daughter or son to marry someone they chose. Let ur kids choose freely. No matter what happens, please SUPPORT ur child and their decisions. This is why there is so many domestic violence cases among the Hmong community.
Oyo tos nej cov txiv pheej muab nej tsuj lo av li xwb los nej yeej yeem nej thiab os. Nws twb ua muaj npaum koj hais kom lawm los txog thaum kawg koj tseem yuav nws rov qab thiab es ua cas nws thiaj tsi ua na.
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Just cus u book smart dont make you life smart.
Sister aw..koj mas ua tau yog tshaj plaws lawm nawb tus txiv tsis hlub ces txhob los yuav lawm tsam nws lam dag xwb nws twb npaj lub tsim yus xwb ov..nrauj zoo dua mog
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Zoo kawg me muam koj lub coj tau koj mus zoo kawg me muam nrog zoo siab tsaj os
Wow- what a strong woman? You are awesome person! Thank you for listening to your father’s advice. May Heavenly Father stay in your life and protect you forever and may you continue to love and cherish your husband. He is probably your soulmate this life for sure. I am sure you did this for your father and your son. Blessed your heart lady and may you succeed in everything!
You're a doctor and you can't decide for yourself?
Good story and be a leson for everyone.
Ladies, no mater how smart you are you will bend to us men. We will make up rules and laws that benefit us only. We are right and you are wrong. This woman is tough but in the end she got smart.
I don't know what to think of this story. Now that you are highly educated, they "see your worth". Remember when you were 13 years old and had nothing? They treated you so badly and your husband was such a jerk continuously cheating on you. If I were you I probably would've never go back. And what the hell?! I feel kinda sad for the second wife too being send back like an animal? Some will say it's her karma but still that just show how heartless the husband is.
Having a degree doesn’t mean you’re smart. It means you’re educated in a certain field.
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OMG, at 13! WOW That's very young! Your parents shouldn't even allowed you to have a boyfriend at that age, but again they probably can't even stop you anyway.
Right, she was brave enough at 13 to disobey her parents but not strong enough to kick that cheater to the curb.
He doesnt love you...he loves your degree! 😆
This story is so frustrating. You have high education but where's your brain? You make stupid decisions and you're going to be helping people with depression? What's wrong here? I'm lost for words. Just admit you can't let him go and stop making all these pathetic excuses. Jesus!!!! What a headache story. Can you toss your degree out the window?
I was hoping you’d move on with the opportunity you had. But you went right back into the trap. You claim to be educated with a doctorate degree, but still npab nauj to allow polygamy..
This is such a great story for ppl to learn from..learn to forgive and move on for a better future..for those who think it’s a bad story really don’t appreciate life to its fullest and god made be with you.. only the strong will accomplish what she did and forgive..we can’t judge ppl life not knowing what the future holds.. what if she marry the other guy and he does the same thing and didn’t give her husband that second chance.. if her husband change and love her to the fullest then she made the right choice.. ppl learn from mistake and change for the better.
Oh God, 13 Years Old??? That's crazy woman!
Koj tseem rov Los yuav tus txiv Neej quav Dev uas nws yeej twb tsis hlub koj ntev lawm ...koj tseem tsis hlub koj thiab ...koj tseem TSO Tus neeg hlub hlub koj tseg ...ces tag lawm tsis tsim nyog Tus neeg ua thaum koj quaj nws hlub thiab txhawb koj li .Tus neeg uas nws ib txwm tsim koj lub siab koj ho tseem rov Los nws nyob ces Tim koj tsis hlub koj xwb
Ruam! You think you’re smart but you are not! A man run over you over and over yet you still cater to him.
Everything about this story is bad. But the one thing that bothered me the most was: why did the mother in law made such a rude comment about the green lady for? She said to her nyab "You are a nyab 10K, so this green lady (big girl) should work fine (for the wedding process)." So is the MIL implying that big girls are intended to be green ladies for nyabs (in this case) who are not worthy enough? OMG, what an ignorant mother in law. The least she can do is appreciate the green lady. They asked her to do them a big favor so no need to be such a rude BEEZY. Does she think her own daughters are perfect down to their bones? I don’t think so. Ua li ZooHlub hais “Malakapee cov Niam Poj zoo li no!”
It's too bad you went back
I understand you have 1 child together but that shouldn't be your reason. It's just too bad
Kuv ces nyob nrog koj txhua22 hnub li os nyab ntsuab teev mloog koj lub suab lus es kuv kaj222 siab
Ib tug neeg es kawm tau doctor degree es ruam2 tag npaum li. Cas yuav tuaj muab txoj nyiag kev ruam tuaj tham hauv no lau.