Females have at least 200 simps with cash secretly lined up waiting for her to fall and take care of her soo you are better off not playing her game and get with a who is into you.
Wrong. Its call the art of seduction. You must provide what the other need to seduce. Nobody is just gonna love you for you. Best seducers understand that. People are narcissistic by nature. If you cant provide to a women a need to miss you she just wont
There's a book called Casanova Playbook of Magnetism, and it talks from body language and conversaton starters to dark mind tricks and flirting through texts, it's the real deal
there's a book called whispers of manifestation on borlest , and it talks about how using some secret tehniques you can attract almost everything in life it's not some bullshit law of attraction, it's the real deal
Once the girl senses that a guy is not afraid to lose her or he is willing to let her go, she becomes even more attached and she's likely to stay 'cus in their nature they can't handle rejection
This is the comment. The tips this chick is giving are a surefire way to attract a toxic chick that loves to engage in power struggles. Also, why would you want someone that didn't want you to begin with?
What percentage of women wont play mind games though? I aint never met a woman in any relationship capacity friend, relative, associate that didn't exercise some sort of mind games. I think its innate and part of being a woman, like evolution if they didn't play mind games they'd have a hard time in society its not like they can conquer by brute strength.
7 Ways to Make a Woman Miss YOU 🥰 1. Don’t contact her 2. Show her you’re still living your life 3. Don’t give in to the attention bait 4. Don’t be eager, be vague 5. Create jealousy 6. Nickname her 7. Teach her something new
I can't lie, when she left me, I reflected on the relationship. In the beginning I was heartbroken, but now, I am sooo damn relieved and happy. I didn't just dodge a bullet, I dodged a missile.
@alv2232 That's not how it works. I am currently going through divorce. If anyone tells you it will take time before the pain goes away. Or at least you start having waaay more good days then bad. Depends on a number of factors. I will end up having to see my wife (soon to be ex) at least once a week for the rest of my children's lives (until youngest is 18) so I am sure I will experience different types of pain. But mostly it will the pain of missing my kids. As they're with a mother who clearly doesn't give a shit
@@alv2232 It's up to you. I was with her 5 years and since I made that post, I don't really think of her any more. It took me 6 months to get over her. Don't supress your emotions, just ride it out, the pain, grief, feeling betrayed, more sadness then finally, reflection. Once you get to the reflection phase, you are ready to let go. Forgive the other person (in your mind) and mainly, forgive yourself. Go and live your life and make it a great one!
Stay single men. You can get everything you need from a woman just being a friend with benefits. Starve them of relationships and their behavior will change over time. Don't give in to this non sense and games. A woman that acts this way does not deserve a relationship from you
Friends w/ benefits is just adding to the problem in dating. ( hooking culture ) Just innocently and genuinely be friends and wait for God to bless you with the right person for you
A woman’s way of thinking is ridiculously skewed . I’m happy to take this advice because I would have never imagined I would have to pretend not to actually like my lady in order to show her that I actually like her 🤷🏾♂️😂
If you are trying to get rid of her repeatedly text her about how much you miss her. Express how much you adore her and be really nice to her. The trick to understanding women and to keep them from driving you crazy is to not spoil them and don't feel responsible for how they think and feel. Let her figure her shit out. She is not your daughter and you are not her baby sitter. Make sure you marry a woman who is emotionally mature and educated. Don't fear losing a chance with her, instead, use that fear to fear making a mistake with her.
Thats actually brilliant. Being emotionally unavailable is how most of us get anyways after years of playing their head games. An Emotionally mature Women, thats great advice, I would have phrased it "A woman who's emotionally mature most of the time". they go thru too many biological, Hormonal & chemical changes to be constantly emotionally mature its not a permanent state of being. Menopause, Ovulation, Cycles, Changes in physical appearance, Baby fever .. all of which could turn your emotionally mature women into a tantrum throwing child and you wont know why.
Of course they will move on 2024 dating is just a silly GAME to play. No one really cares about anyone anymore in the social media era The lady in this video basically layed out a GAME plan based on self absorbed shallow insecure people
Advice to other Guys - be yourself whether single or not. Don't waste your time with whose checking your social media, don't try to impress anyone. Send only one message or voicemail, if she doesn't respond this is Girl Code which means my interest in you is 100 % Zero. Beta males argue, Alpha males communicate. Beta males raise their voice, Alpha males raise their game. Don't respond to insults or negative people, Stay healthy, be optimistic. Get yourself a hobby or develop a talent. Dont insult anyone and don't partake in gossip. What others do is none of your business and be content with your own company. Be honest, dependable and genuine, live a simple life and don't over analyse things. Show interest in others who you meet and make them feel valued.
This is a really strong promotion for being single. If you’ve gotta jump through all these hoops to impress someone, trust me, you’re better off alone. These kind of women are meant for the streets. Just be you, and the right one will come your way. If they don’t say what they mean, and mean what they say, they’re trash. Any mind games, no matter how insignificant, leave, immediately. They’ll just break your heart bro.
That's some bullsh1t advice, if you need to do X, Y, Z like these or she won't be even interested in you, she's a b1tch and eventually after 3 years she'll get bother cause you won't be able to keep this some sort of "game" for years straight, later it's gonna be a pain even after marriage she'll be filtring with guys at work.. Do not to girs like these srsly and find a very sad, emo girl who doesnt have many friends and she'll like you very much just for who you are but u propably need to look for some younger teenage girls cause this generation was raised often lonely online etc. and I think there are more sad girls right now that there were like 10 years ago.
@@LilXancheXfacts bc I’m dealing with that bullshit now bc let those females miss you I was texting dms and calling not blowing her phone up now I’m giving that same energy I’m going to make her miss me
The key to living with a woman is to know her monthly cycle. Week 1 is a fresh start, week 2 it’s all fun and roses, week 3 she starts to ignore you, week 4 stay the hell away. Make the most of the good days in weeks 1 & 2 then back off during week 3 when you sense the change. Week 4 is basically a game of survival where only the strong survive. Stay safe.
Man, 8yrs I lived that emotional rollercoaster... The first month I split from my Ex that was one of the things I felt so relieved from. I did not miss planning my life around scheduled mood swings & anxiety.
Worst part was her cycle was synced with the 1st of the month when bills were due and I also had to plan the rest of the month for my business... I could never focus from the 30th till around the 4th it was just petty, distracting, irrelevant arguments like clock work. First couple a years I tried to work thru it, last 4 or 5 I just wrote the entire week off the books.
@@qubes8728 To each his own, these formulas that self help guru's & experts shell out like anecdotes dont work for everyone & every situation. Truth is, if a person cant divide his/her own problems and find a solution executing someone else's advice & plan wont work either.
This is how we get women being mad at men because they dreamt he cheated SMH Sad part is it actually works, saddest part is why does it have to? I watched my dad cheat on my mom, leave for days on end and not give us attention just to come back with a toy for me one day, then leave for another week. I don't wanna do that to someone. I don't wanna HAVE to. All these games sicken me. The idea a woman will leave or lose respect because I care enough about her sickens me.
@@metalmagerin3 That's just the way life is, most women love drama. Your best bet is to just focus on yourself and forget about women like I've chosen to do. You'll save so much money not dealing with women, and you also get to keep your peace of mind.
I disagree with the social media thing. I deleted Instagram and never felt more masculine or independent. I feel like also deleting social media is a good way to be strong and show you are.
It's a way to protect yourself. You are not impressing anyone online. You are only making yourself a target. The more unknown that you are the better and safer you will be. Her advice on that is petty and stupid. Once you leave you leave. You don't try to make them miss you. You want them to forget about you.
Its better to know than show . you have nothing to prove to anyone . no validation or acceptance from others just pure self confidence and self respect
I don't have social, RUclips is all I have and watch. I am a firm believer that relationships nowadays cannot survive with social media. Temptation is a motherfuker. Remember the devil is out to kill and devour anything that is going good!!! God Bless y'all.
Again, all of this stuff ONLY works IF she thinks you're hot and is already truly attracted to you, otherwise if you "distance" yourself from a woman, she will just go find another guy who pays more attention to her.
Men are not the catch. Men are basically worthless if women make money. Just an average attractive woman can have the pick from many men while the average guy has a hard time dating in general. Women are the selectors of who they date and who gets sex. They are the ones rejecting men and not the other way around.
In my opinion: Number 1. Carefully scrutinize the relationship advice you seek. Number 2. Work hard on improving yourself, in all facets of your life. Get your own life in order and on track before you decide to share it with someone else. Number 3. If you want to be in a relationship, expect it to be a tremendous amount of work for BOTH of you. You are always responsible for your own happiness and success. Other people only help with that. Keep the ones that are helpful and dump the ones that are not. Always move forward in your life. Try to make yourself better than you were yesterday. Take care.
I could tell u don't get alot of 🍑 to be honest because she got this down to the tea. I used alot of these tactics b4 but she actually organized it. Protect her at all cost!
@Daniel Mendoza Hey Daniel. You could have made your point without the insult. I had over 4 decades with my wife before she passed away suddenly. I got more than you ever will.
Smh. I'm not playing games to make her want or miss me. She's either interested or not. I'm either interested or not....no one should make anyone do anything...if it's not mutual move on with your life. No one should have to chase after anyone.
I don’t want to make a woman miss me or manipulate her in these manors. If a woman misses me for who I am, then that’s more beneficial than trying to make her miss me. It’s her choice
I agree with everything she said except the "even if she's not interested" part. If a woman isn't interested in you, at least a little bit...then she isn't going to do any of the things that Alexa mentions here. There has to be some type of interest...otherwise you won't even come to her mind...so why should she care what you are doing?
She might not be interested in you but still craving for your attention and validation, especially when she sees you below her. So if you apply this points Olivia mentioned it might drive her crazy and start to be obsessed with you because she might realis that she was wrong about her judgement on you.
@Travis Samuels what she says in the video is she can get validation and likes from all the other guys but if its not coming from specifically YOU, Then she has a problem. Women always check to see who likes/watch their stories. They know who always liking and watching.
My female friends were the ones who hurted me the most when I was down. I realised that It's a biological response of their feminine side to mine. Lesson learned. Never ever will I rant or complain or share feelings with any women. I wondered why women that were close to me were the ones who really put my confidence down (regardless of their appearance). Saying things like "attraction is subjective" , "I'm not attracted to you" even after protecting them from injury from other men and they know I have balls, they know I have a back bone but when I'm only with them, they feel so safe that they just emasculate me. I really will never get that but I understand it now. Also being nice for no reason is a no no for me now.
They call guys like you 'NICE GUY'. Unfortunately they're not looking for a nice guy until they're ready to settle down. In addition, if you let them keep you in RESEARVE, or in the FRIENDSHIP ZONE, then you're guaranteed never to see them naked. You'll be in that dead zone until you find yourself a girlfriend elsewhere who's going to get you laid regularly
@@charlesben9104 When you display emotional weakness as a man, women have a biological response to put you down even further because they hate emotional weak men. It's not something they can control.
Just some lesson to learn about the opposite sex. Never mind just take care of your business personally more and if you need to talk to some body?? it has to be a friend (tested confidant) Just like exercise routines if it don't kill you it makes you stronger! Cheers!
Once again from Playa to Playa, Olivia is dropping GEMS. Whenever I didn't follow these guidelines when dealing with a female, I ALWAYS come out looking and feeling like a LAME. Females are cold. If you show weakness, they will NOT give a shoulder to cry on, they'll ATTACK. 😂
Not all women 🙏🏽 some would appreciate every single nice gesture you do. There are some bad apples but don’t stop looking for the good ones in the bunch. We do need you, love you and appreciate you. 😊
@S. i believe you're well intentioned in your response but I'm beginning to believe these traits are in all women. Some women have more than others of course. I say this because every time I get too emotionally invested in a woman, things eventually go bad and I suffer greatly as a result. Their attitudes tend to change, and they get more distant and argumentative. It's almost as if they know they have me so they stop trying to keep me but instead push me away. It makes no sense to me because not to brag or anything but I'm a hell of a catch! I can get and keep many women but choose not to. Every relationship where I didn't care much or was into myself more, they worked out fine and when they didn't, I was still at peace. Again, I believe you and you're right but there are certain mindsets that men have to employ in order to have a successful relationship.
@ddraft234 I concur with your outlook. I also understand what parker mentioned. Looking back at my Past relationships. I gave the women options and choices thinking we were equal in the relationships. I was very soft and they were very selfish. I lied to myself for YEARS. Bwahahaha soon as I start doing me and careless about what they think, half wanted to become a sneaky link. That showed me their true colors. Long story short, I was wanted more than I was liked when I didn't care.
None of this works if she never liked you much to begin with. There are plenty of people, women and men alike, who I'd have back and forth conversations with over the phone or online, or I'd see in person once in a while, but who'd never initiate anything with me. As soon as I stopped hitting them up I never heard from them again! They never checked on me, they never missed me, their imaginations never 'ran wild'. Don't delude yourself. If there isn't enough initial intrigue or admiration, they will forget about you.
that's your experience, not everyone else's .. because ive def had girls miss me who i stopped giving attention too. just depends on your relationship/history with said person.
They will care when you become successful person have plenty money hundred thousands or millions dollars or a business man they will chase you like crazy money works.
Again, everything you stated in your comment sums it up! It was perfect, factual and straight to the point! If a person is NOT into you, NONE OF THIS MATTERS! EXCELLENT!!!!
Being an Introvert and Loner most of my life very private person who disappears from the earth I can go days and weeks with hardly anyone hearing from me at times
Hi Guys... I've been making content like this since 2015 and I want to thank all of my supporters. Especially the ones who have been there from day one.
I agree 100%. She, @Pearlythings and many other woman who telling the truth and dismantling the lie of feminism are targets. I pray The God protects them and gives them all male righteous spouses.
1) Challenge works on a woman’s mind 2) Be busy and mysterious (also a challenge variant) 3) Challenge 4) Be vague and mysterious (again) 5) When you got one woman interested, you can have them all 7) have a hobby, show you have a life, and be good at it … all of these agree with Doc Love and his Dating Dictionary
That's some bullsh1t advice, if you need to do X, Y, Z like these or she won't be even interested in you, she's a b1tch and eventually after 3 years she'll get bother cause you won't be able to keep this some sort of "game" for years straight, later it's gonna be a pain even after marriage she'll be filtring with guys at work.. Do not to girs like these srsly and find a very sad, emo girl who doesnt have many friends and she'll like you very much just for who you are but u propably need to look for some younger teenage girls cause this generation was raised often lonely online etc. and I think there are more sad girls right now that there were like 10 years ago.
At the end of the day, most of the advice is about making her think you're ignoring her. It isn't wrong but since the beginning of time, women compete for attention. Give her too much of it and she'll think you're boring, ignore her too much and she'll want the attention from a guy she doesn't even like just for validation. For SOME men, this is an indication that she will NEVER be serious with you.
I disagree. Women are very fickle. One day They like you, the next day they turned off by you.I learned a long time ago that women are attracted to men who do not need them. and this woman explains it perfectly.
@@deepshotone if thats how she is, then that women isnt taking you seriously...You are just a game for her. A woman who seriously likes a guy doesnt play games and will try to be their best version for a guy she likes.
This is nuts but also it's true. This is why so many men struggle. Because society told us to be attentive and nice. When we need to be mysterious, ignore women, focus on our mission.
Many woman (including myself) would LOVE to have a man show excitement without fear of it turning me off, but actually increasing my attraction for him! So rare now because everyone is watching videos like this.
@@Parkerv12 U read my mind! This video is horrible advice in my experience. What is needed is divine feminine and divine masculine nrg.. No games. Str8 & direct communication .......Empress & Emperor nrg.
You go girl. 😊 Dont "listen" to any of the negative comments re what you are doing. EVER!!!! You are putting truth out there. The bad girls will hate you for it.😢😢 The good ones the opposite... ❤
I miss the days when people just led with reality. Meaning introductions, hanging out and going from there. These days dsting and socializing seems like a math equation or trigonometry. If you vibe with someone let the commonality lead you .......let shared value lead it.....let god lead it too. Olivia you are great... i dig your insights...just that current dating is stupid.
Olivia is spot on! But you are exactly right, dating has become a total game of manipulation, gaslighting, and passive-aggressiveness. It's not fun anymore. In past decades, dating was what you said: introduction, social hang outs, getting closer, first kiss, etc. It's now a bizarre chess / poker game where no one wants to show their true intentions.
@@ollie267 is that you Olivia? I need to do it because I been single 7 years......I don't talk to women no more for the most part because when I try...it goes wrong. Let me get my bullet points and thoughts together. Thanks
There is a saying that “you don’t ask a fish how to catch a fish” but Olivia is the exception to the rule. She gives men undiluted Advice. Olivia is the Truth 💯 💯 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Actually you should always ask a woman about catching a woman. Dude only give advice based on what works for them but doesn't work with every guy but a woman knows another woman absolutely. So I don't understand why dudes go to other dudes when they are giving them wrong advise.
I say, figuring out on your own is the best bet, but a little advice from another woman and or man doesn't hurt and depending on who that person is and the relationships that they experienced.
The problem is, however much a woman may try, she will probably end up giving advice that benefits women somehow. It seems like a woman always advises a man based on what will be best for the women in his life.
Don't aim to make a woman miss you. Go deep within yourself and focus on improving yourself. Let the world see your change and value while treating relationships with women as secondary and a distraction. That way, all these tips would come naturally.
I let her do all the work because if she really wants u she will find a way! Not easy to do because I want to chase her but u get to a point where all u do is chase and u get tired of the run around is all. 😊
Guys, simply put, be the most successful you can be in every way you're wanting to be. Everything will click into place once you're doing you on your best day.
As a man who suffers from perpetual singularity, it makes sense not to make women think you are desperate. Men with something she wants has options and she may wanna prove she is the one.
If she requires all this as stated in the video she's definitely a manipulator and will never be the one. This lady is showing you how to manipulate back that's all. I don't think anyone who is a good person would want to lower themselves to destroy their own identity of being raised in a great home and with qualities like great manners and a caring nature. This is making as evil as the person your pursuing
I've practiced almost all of these and they can be very effective and dangerous. If she is insecure or have low self-esteem (or both) it just becomes drama
@@Balk_69 mind games like this don’t bring peace, they bring drama which is what you’re experiencing. This kind of mindset will result in a short-term illusion of “getting her” BUT, this won’t result in long-term trust, respect, loyalty and admiration that having a genuine connection with the right woman can bring. Getting her obsessive energy because you’ve triggered her insecurities and childhood abandonment issues, or a genuine long-lasting connection with trust and loyalty that avoidance games can never bring. You choose.
A woman misses you, because you are on her mind for some selfish reason. If you are on her mind, it's because those reasons have a place in her heart. Do you, nothing more, nothing less. "Passports Up"
I swear 🤞🏾 you are saying how it is for me and what im going thur. These vids help me with what i knew already but was stubborn to myself and just hearing you say what is true in human nature. Helps me know im not the only one 👍🏾💯
if a woman rejects me im done with her I dont get why you would ever want to win her back or do anything to even try, like a bitch.. theres tons of women in this world
Facts, play that game once, you'll play it forever. give me the silent treatment or the I need time a part game, I'll give her a limitless supply of both permanently
A righteous and humble man walks in his own truth and never has to play games to win in life. If you want a 304 or a confused situation, I beg you to follow this backwards hustling advice. So many women out here are built like Chevy pick-ups. Stay safe, Stay smart and Stay blessed.
We don't want them to miss us. When it's over, we are gone. Making them miss you is "simping" psychology. Grow up and move on. More than enough women in the "world."
This just happened to me yesterday. My girlfriend said we were done out of nowhere. I did everything I could for her. Now she's been using social media to contact me. After the fact we told me "We're done have a great life"!
Ignore it. Delete her off all your social platforms. Delete her pics and videos off your phone. Never speak to her again. Don't ever let anyone disrespect you or play with your time like that. If she can break up with you and come back into your life whenever she wants, she will never respect you
There is more to life than just a woman. Why would you want someone to miss you as if your life depended on that person. Focus on you. Do not do things to incite jealous. Pursue pease! Work on your goals. As a man you just need to build yourself, if she is not worth the wooing, definitely she is not worthy the keeping. ✌️
@@fhaze10 all do respect you is right on that... But at the same time you must not be hitting it right fam... I can't speak 🗣️ for no other man but I gets busy in that bed room bro on my MOMMA #IM HIM"
Amen!......hey, I got dumped, then, like a fool I groveled for a time.....THEN I "stood up and grew a set" and said "Now it's MY turn"! I moved, changed my number, got a new job, bought a beautiful Bad-Ass Harley and just started taking care of ME!!! Get strong guys, be the lone wolf, fuck what THEY have to post and say on SM and become a monster of independence and CUT that "shit" OUT of your life completely for GOOD!!! ...... there's way too many boats to choose from to just "settle" for a life preserver!!!!
Getting her obsessive energy because you’ve triggered her insecurities and childhood abandonment issues, or a genuine long-lasting connection with trust and loyalty that avoidance games can never bring?
Finally! Someone on the same page with me. Everything she listed are true but only works on toxic women, a good woman who doesn't give an f about you won't be bothered. If you play these mind games with a good woman, you are gonna lose her 💯
@@thompsonhassan3832 as a good guy myself the so called good girls are the ones that reject me the most. I honestly believe the rachet chick will reject me less, than those so called good girls. Think I will start approaching the rachets instead.
They care when you become successful man who builds his future and have hundreds thousands or millions dollars or successful business man later they will chase you like crazy woman looking man have financial better who can provide her what she needs. Women loves money
having to play all of these mind games is insane just work on yourself. fellas if they go they go. You better believe the more success you obtain, the more you work on your looks, the more you start standing on business the less likely they are to want to leave.
Work on yourselves men, she's just a addition to you, this a former toxic woman giving advice on how to play mind games. Leave that to the women and get on your purpose stay strong kings! #PROTECT MEN AT ALL COSTS
I hate the fact in order to stoke attraction and maintain it with a woman, you must be cold towards her. Irrationality like this will never cease to unnerve me. Why must women innately want drama? Subscribing to these tactics is tiresome in itself.
This is pure facts although the social media thing is for the under 30 crowd. Not all of us are social media addicts and can operate a few weeks to a month without posting. Basically all I hear is how to make a narcissist obsessed with you
The social thing I don’t totally agree with, sometimes keeping your life off social can create mystery and curiosity as people will not know what you are up to or what type of life your are living so when they see you in real life they will more than likely be prone to want to engage in conversation with you and ask questions
So much of the dating advice we get from the internet is benevolent yet toxic. A genuine connection is undeniable. A genuine desire is undeniable. As one commenter already similarly stated; if you need to make her miss you, she probably ain't the one for you. If you need benevolent yet toxic dating advice to be with someone, your time may be better served placing your efforts in other things and eventually other people.
You know what women want, and you also know what men want. To the point, practical, oraganized points. Not vague and long story and beating around the bush. And that's exactly how you deliver you content as well. I do not feel the need to speed up or skip parts of your video, yet I am so hooked to your style of delivery. I can see you put your knowledge to practise. Glad to discover your channel. Gonna subscribe now. Your name truly suits you, Alexa. You are definitely the Alexa for every man, where he can get all his answers.
while I do agree with this you left out one very important piece of information. These tactics will only work if she has some level of attraction to you to begin with. It won't work if she don't like you or is ignoring you period. You're basically just air to her.
Your pretty intuitive, I've been using these techniques all my life, and I happen to be in my 60s. Unfortunately I'm not dating anyone at this time. I do have a partner I'm close to but not romantically. Thanks for solidifying what I already was aware of.
Crazy to see the amount of other bros saying positive things about you. Thank you for such genuine advice without any click baits. Milly subs coming your way in no time 👊
I wish I plant a whole field of Olivia’s cause she speaking facts. Getting a hobby or hobbies are important because your energy is going to something more beneficial. Best feeling in the world is taking her number out forgetting it months later get a text and replying WHO IS THIS😂💯. That is the start all end all
This makes me think all women are far more interested in insanity and stupidity, games and petty bullshit than they are in getting - or even having the first idea - what she wants. Sad…very very sad.
There was something about this video the first time I watched it that didn't sit right with me. I took a few days and marinated on it. This is part of what I came up with, all the information contained within is about being deceptive and not being your true self. It's about using a woman's nature against her to get what you want. The sad part is that I believe every word of this video. For all of my life, I have believed that if I let my true self come through that the woman of my affection would see me as worthy of her time, but that approach has failed more often than not. I had heard at a young age that ignoring a woman and showing disinterest would somehow garner her attention but I believed in honesty and integrity and I never used that approach. I believed, and still do, that the truth is always the better solution. I understand that ignoring the advice in this video lessens my chances of success but I have to live with myself every day. I have to understand what kind of world am I helping to create and the one depicted in this video is not one I want to live with.
And people wonder why a MGTOW movement is even a thing today. These strategies and tactics are EXHAUSTING for men. BUT... Thank you for honestly putting us on to game, Sis. ONE
@@willthiswork8 it's not anti-woman. It's akutamatata. You mate with women if it's meant. It's like Juvenile said. P come and it go, but it's gone stop here for a little while.
This explains why the majority of my sisters friends had crushes on me. I have a personal rule not to date any of my sisters friends so I basically put them all in the friend zone and treated them accordingly, this must have triggered them to like me even more quite funny.
So much advice. So many games to be played... The most effective way to get a woman attracted to you is not to share your feelings. If a man's "in the friendzone" it's because he treated her like a friend and shared everything he was feeling. If she doesn't know what's in your mind she will be curious and fascinated. Talk about any subject you like or anything she wants to talk about, but without revealing your true state of mind. I've found that even women who didn't seem at all attracted to me initially started to seem interested when I did this.
@@shaunhunterit342 do u think she can change as in become more emotionally available or is it a waste of time? Keep in mind she is that wat because of childhood trauma with her narcissist mom
Olivia. Olivia....this just popped up, as if you know me.....I am a compassionate Junky but no punk, sometimes we think keep checking on women is ideal but unfortunately it isn't...I'm glad I don't and this message confronted me and confirmed my strength...mwah!!!!!
I'm really going through it right now because I have needed more from my partner and she won't reciprocate all I do for our family our relationship is just not equal and your videos have been nothing but helpful as I go through this so ty again for your message and hard work ❤️ 🙏
Start taking care of yourself. Start going to the gym, give her less attention, be more cold. Heck, I'd even say start dating around. Your girl is supposed to be useful tonyou and she isn't. Are you supposed to be miserable for life?
Long story short women are forever children in their minds. 😑none of this shit is worth taking notes. If you gotta constantly play games just to keep anyone. They a child at heart. 👌🏾and thats why society is how it is now.
When you do stuff like that and you do it because it's true and not running game that's when it's real. When you do it to manipulate really and truly you're the one That's obsessed with the person. So only do this when it's real not for manipulation
Wow, as a woman this deeply saddens me. To paint every woman with one brush is the same as saying “all me are dogs”. There are bad apples on both sides. Many woman (including myself) would LOVE to have a man show excitement without fear of it turning me off, but actually increasing my attraction for him! So rare now because everyone is watching videos like this. Where are the people looking for REAL relationships? This kind of mindset will result in a short-term illusion of “getting her” BUT, this won’t result in long-term trust, respect, loyalty and admiration that having a genuine connection with the right woman can bring. What does it actually mean to “get her?” Getting her obsessive energy because you’ve triggered her insecurities, or a genuine long-lasting connection with trust and loyalty that avoidance games can never bring.
Because you don’t understand what it takes to be attractive to women AS A MAN. What she’s saying isn’t necessarily anything bad about women it’s just a harsh truth that y’all don’t like hearing. Most of this shit is stuff that y’all do subconsciously. And it may hurt you to hear it, but these things that she expounded on exist in all women. Some of you are just way better at tempering it than others. It’s all biology. The harsh truth is, women are deeply aroused by stoicism. Pretty much the guy that “doesn’t give a f*ck.” And a lot of us as men have trouble with this not because we can’t do it, but because we’re logical. And we view things through that logical lens. In our eyes (because we’re the protectors and providers, both of which REQUIRE a degree of care), it doesn’t make sense. Because we think, “Hmm, well they always say they want a guy that listens, that tries, that puts forth efforts, that asks about her day. I do all of that and I get curbed quicker than the guys that do none of it.” It’s because of what I said earlier and what olivia said, it’s that we’re too available. And whether you believe it or not, you and the sisterhood see that as weakness. It might not actually be, but that’s how y’all view it, and by extension are turned off by it. And a woman who is not turned on, you have no hope of a relationship with.
Oh wow... Olivia I've been doing this since my freshman year in high school 1994 and it's a method that still works today. I remember being at track practice when a girl who I thought liked me was messing with someone else so I left her alone and she just couldn't take it. 🤣 I encouraged all brothas to do this when they tell me about their issues with a female. Then in the era of social media this method sinks them all the time as I shutdown my inbox from em and even put them as restricted then forget I've got them restricted when they comment on a post they feel calls them out but they won't directly say it. The longest I've ignored women was 5 months. I mean they took to Instagram looking for me and but yet Couldn't get me. I laughed at their panicking dramatic inbox messages once I took em off my restricted list. Then after that I still stayed away from saying anything for an extra month. ONE WOMAN EVEN WENT AS FAR AS TO MAKING A PAIR OF SOCKS WITH MY FACE ON EM AND SAID PANTIES WERE NEXT JUST TO PULL ME OUTTA MY SADDAM HUSIEN STYLE HIDING AS SHE SAID. SMH 🤦🏾♂️. Once again You nailed it. Thanks again
Listen I appreciate all the feed back and everything you just said makes so much sense but man I’m over all those games. I don’t have time to be playing games I need me a real woman that is not going to be around the bush. When she wants to go out we will go out, when we want to see each other will see each other. Etc..
I followed your steps and she came back. You the boss🎉🎉🎉
No she didnt.
@@RAM-ft3gk😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂 I use to believe in her till I saw this comment pinned.😢
@@RAM-ft3gkComment of the year. 👍
Hahahhaah@@AMUN_M4P
Moral of the story brothers is:
To get her to miss you, all you have to do is move on.
...nice and quiet ...bye Felicia ................✈
💯💯
@@dareo25 😂😂😂
Walking is also an indicator of high value. So yeah.....couldn't agree more. 😉
@@TheWMBWLife keep coping buddy
If I have to "make a woman miss me," she probably ain't the one for me
Fax
🎯
Thank you
Females have at least 200 simps with cash secretly lined up waiting for her to fall and take care of her soo you are better off not playing her game and get with a who is into you.
Wrong. Its call the art of seduction. You must provide what the other need to seduce. Nobody is just gonna love you for you. Best seducers understand that. People are narcissistic by nature. If you cant provide to a women a need to miss you she just wont
There's a book called Casanova Playbook of Magnetism, and it talks from body language and conversaton starters to dark mind tricks and flirting through texts, it's the real deal
700 likes and no comments the book aint selling dawg 😂😂😂😂
there's a book called whispers of manifestation on borlest , and it talks about how using some secret tehniques you can attract almost everything in life it's not some bullshit law of attraction, it's the real deal
1k likes and no comments 😂😂😂 yall trying anything to sell that bullcrap book huh?
Also add this crucial piece of advice. Never ever ever be afraid to lose a woman
Take an L
-PatriceOneal
BIG FACTS
True, wish I knew this 5 years ago and earlier
Brother it’s never too late. At least now you know what’s up
Once the girl senses that a guy is not afraid to lose her or he is willing to let her go, she becomes even more attached and she's likely to stay 'cus in their nature they can't handle rejection
"Don't try to understand women, women understand women, and they hate each other."
-Al Bundy
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Perfect...Yes ..it's true
Facts!
✍️ check that. This should have a 1000 likes.
Classic!
Never tell a woman you can't imagine you life without her or you would do anything for her, otherwise you're done.
Not these days. 2000’s were the last decade you could say that shit lol
SUPREME KAVEER GOD 🙏🙏🙏
True
what if the damage is already done?!
@@shivanshsaini5275 run from her . Your only chance is to become a bad boy and act like you don't care
I'm 40yo and iv learned the ones u gotta do this to are toxic and u need to move on. But what she's saying is spot on if u wanna be toxic back
This is the comment. The tips this chick is giving are a surefire way to attract a toxic chick that loves to engage in power struggles.
Also, why would you want someone that didn't want you to begin with?
@marisolascencio937 exactly I just went through 2 years with a narcissist I don't want to be toxic or be toxic at all
You preached to the choir!
Excellent absolutely right!
#1 just find a woman who loves and appreciates you without the mindgames. Then live happy.
I swear bro
Lol that's a good way to get nothing in life
@@Golden_Ghoulspeaking from experience?
What percentage of women wont play mind games though? I aint never met a woman in any relationship capacity friend, relative, associate that didn't exercise some sort of mind games.
I think its innate and part of being a woman, like evolution if they didn't play mind games they'd have a hard time in society its not like they can conquer by brute strength.
Good luck
Olivia needs to be protected at all cost. She be exposing female nature and she keeps it a 💯 We don't find women like this in the media space often
You think there's a hit out on her? Lol
Definitely Olivia you are a hidden gem 💎 God protect Olivia always 🙏🏻
Right!! Lol
@@beardedsoul7845 😸😸😸😸😸
I’m the hardest working mexican.. i do food reviews while puffing Za on my RUclips channel
7 Ways to Make a Woman Miss YOU 🥰
1. Don’t contact her
2. Show her you’re still living your life
3. Don’t give in to the attention bait
4. Don’t be eager, be vague
5. Create jealousy
6. Nickname her
7. Teach her something new
Thank you chief 🙏🏻
@@thvtsydneylyf3th077 very welcome 🤗
No time for all these BS!!!
Traveling works great too.
Kinda toxic
I can't lie, when she left me, I reflected on the relationship. In the beginning I was heartbroken, but now, I am sooo damn relieved and happy. I didn't just dodge a bullet, I dodged a missile.
Very relatable. This was refreshing to read. Glad you got away safe and found better things in life.
@@jeremyotten5137 I made that comment 7 months ago. Things do get better trust me.
@@bassinbluehow long did it take?
@alv2232 That's not how it works. I am currently going through divorce. If anyone tells you it will take time before the pain goes away. Or at least you start having waaay more good days then bad. Depends on a number of factors. I will end up having to see my wife (soon to be ex) at least once a week for the rest of my children's lives (until youngest is 18) so I am sure I will experience different types of pain. But mostly it will the pain of missing my kids. As they're with a mother who clearly doesn't give a shit
@@alv2232 It's up to you. I was with her 5 years and since I made that post, I don't really think of her any more. It took me 6 months to get over her. Don't supress your emotions, just ride it out, the pain, grief, feeling betrayed, more sadness then finally, reflection. Once you get to the reflection phase, you are ready to let go. Forgive the other person (in your mind) and mainly, forgive yourself. Go and live your life and make it a great one!
Stay single men. You can get everything you need from a woman just being a friend with benefits. Starve them of relationships and their behavior will change over time. Don't give in to this non sense and games. A woman that acts this way does not deserve a relationship from you
💯 women these days act like they the man , such lack of inability feminism such a women suppose to be ,
Disagree, you'll damage yourself further in the long run
Being a fu*k boy ruins you, deep down no fu*k boy is happy.
Friends w/ benefits is just adding to the problem in dating. ( hooking culture ) Just innocently and genuinely be friends and wait for God to bless you with the right person for you
@@miss_mlu 50/50
Say no to social media
I mean. I don't entertain that s***. Nor do I muster the interest to post anything personal, trivial or otherwise, just to get her attention.
I dont even have social media
Exactly. Too many Social Media specific tips.
Yeah keep that social media shit😂
A woman’s way of thinking is ridiculously skewed . I’m happy to take this advice because I would have never imagined I would have to pretend not to actually like my lady in order to show her that I actually like her 🤷🏾♂️😂
If you are trying to get rid of her repeatedly text her about how much you miss her. Express how much you adore her and be really nice to her. The trick to understanding women and to keep them from driving you crazy is to not spoil them and don't feel responsible for how they think and feel. Let her figure her shit out. She is not your daughter and you are not her baby sitter. Make sure you marry a woman who is emotionally mature and educated. Don't fear losing a chance with her, instead, use that fear to fear making a mistake with her.
😂😂😂
Well that would work
Thats actually brilliant.
Being emotionally unavailable is how most of us get anyways after years of playing their head games.
An Emotionally mature Women, thats great advice, I would have phrased it
"A woman who's emotionally mature most of the time". they go thru too many biological, Hormonal & chemical changes to be constantly emotionally mature its not a permanent state of being.
Menopause, Ovulation, Cycles, Changes in physical appearance, Baby fever .. all of which could turn your emotionally mature women into a tantrum throwing child and you wont know why.
No contact often doesn't work unless the interest is very high. More likely then not they will move on.
Of course they will move on
2024 dating is just a silly GAME to play. No one really cares about anyone anymore in the social media era
The lady in this video basically layed out a GAME plan based on self absorbed shallow insecure people
If it doesn't it doesn't...but a Man shouldn't be begging no one...a Man needs a Woman not a scrub..
Exactly
Advice to other Guys - be yourself whether single or not. Don't waste your time with whose checking your social media, don't try to impress anyone. Send only one message or voicemail, if she doesn't respond this is Girl Code which means my interest in you is 100 % Zero. Beta males argue, Alpha males communicate. Beta males raise their voice, Alpha males raise their game. Don't respond to insults or negative people, Stay healthy, be optimistic. Get yourself a hobby or develop a talent. Dont insult anyone and don't partake in gossip. What others do is none of your business and be content with your own company. Be honest, dependable and genuine, live a simple life and don't over analyse things. Show interest in others who you meet and make them feel valued.
This comment is underrated straight gem 💎
Good points, only if you do those things,after that your life will be so boring and you will die because of depression😢
Best advice 👌 👏
You deserve the M.V.P award
And I couldn't agree more 👌
This is a really strong promotion for being single. If you’ve gotta jump through all these hoops to impress someone, trust me, you’re better off alone. These kind of women are meant for the streets. Just be you, and the right one will come your way. If they don’t say what they mean, and mean what they say, they’re trash. Any mind games, no matter how insignificant, leave, immediately. They’ll just break your heart bro.
That's some bullsh1t advice, if you need to do X, Y, Z like these or she won't be even interested in you, she's a b1tch and eventually after 3 years she'll get bother cause you won't be able to keep this some sort of "game" for years straight, later it's gonna be a pain even after marriage she'll be filtring with guys at work..
Do not to girs like these srsly and find a very sad, emo girl who doesnt have many friends and she'll like you very much just for who you are but u propably need to look for some younger teenage girls cause this generation was raised often lonely online etc. and I think there are more sad girls right now that there were like 10 years ago.
AMEN!
Any mind games, no matter how insignificant, leave. Immediately. Well said.
I hate mind games. They’re annoying. Good thing I never play the game 😂 and they just leave, game over.
@@LilXancheXfacts bc I’m dealing with that bullshit now bc let those females miss you I was texting dms and calling not blowing her phone up now I’m giving that same energy I’m going to make her miss me
The key to living with a woman is to know her monthly cycle.
Week 1 is a fresh start,
week 2 it’s all fun and roses,
week 3 she starts to ignore you,
week 4 stay the hell away.
Make the most of the good days in weeks 1 & 2 then back off during week 3 when you sense the change. Week 4 is basically a game of survival where only the strong survive. Stay safe.
Man, 8yrs I lived that emotional rollercoaster... The first month I split from my Ex that was one of the things I felt so relieved from.
I did not miss planning my life around scheduled mood swings & anxiety.
Worst part was her cycle was synced with the 1st of the month when bills were due and I also had to plan the rest of the month for my business... I could never focus from the 30th till around the 4th it was just petty, distracting, irrelevant arguments like clock work.
First couple a years I tried to work thru it, last 4 or 5 I just wrote the entire week off the books.
@@Peakfreud It takes a man to accept defeat then move on with his life and happiness that comes with it. I for one are not one of those men.
@@qubes8728 To each his own, these formulas that self help guru's & experts shell out like anecdotes dont work for everyone & every situation.
Truth is, if a person cant divide his/her own problems and find a solution executing someone else's advice & plan wont work either.
The key to living with a women is don’t do it sorry
Being with someone should never be difficult. Our society has plunged in morals
This is how we get women being mad at men because they dreamt he cheated SMH
Sad part is it actually works, saddest part is why does it have to? I watched my dad cheat on my mom, leave for days on end and not give us attention just to come back with a toy for me one day, then leave for another week. I don't wanna do that to someone. I don't wanna HAVE to.
All these games sicken me. The idea a woman will leave or lose respect because I care enough about her sickens me.
Hmmm 🤔
@@aaronthomas6926 Hmmm 🤔
@@aaronthomas6926 should you tell him the real truth or should i lol
@@metalmagerin3 That's just the way life is, most women love drama. Your best bet is to just focus on yourself and forget about women like I've chosen to do. You'll save so much money not dealing with women, and you also get to keep your peace of mind.
@@mellogic Lol. Tell him what?
I disagree with the social media thing. I deleted Instagram and never felt more masculine or independent. I feel like also deleting social media is a good way to be strong and show you are.
Same here. Not using social media also makes you more mysterious.
It's a way to protect yourself. You are not impressing anyone online. You are only making yourself a target. The more unknown that you are the better and safer you will be. Her advice on that is petty and stupid. Once you leave you leave. You don't try to make them miss you. You want them to forget about you.
@@DamienYuen7718 that's not the topic. The topic was how to make a woman miss you.
I don’t do social media , it’s very distracting and chaotic. Been great without it
Its better to know than show . you have nothing to prove to anyone . no validation or acceptance from others just pure self confidence and self respect
I don't have social, RUclips is all I have and watch. I am a firm believer that relationships nowadays cannot survive with social media. Temptation is a motherfuker. Remember the devil is out to kill and devour anything that is going good!!!
God Bless y'all.
True, social media has made women unbearable.
Again, all of this stuff ONLY works IF she thinks you're hot and is already truly attracted to you, otherwise if you "distance" yourself from a woman, she will just go find another guy who pays more attention to her.
As a man you must realize you are the goal you are the catch never chase a women stay committed to the goal never be afraid to lose a women ‼️🤝🏽
Facts we always the prize
Men are not the catch. Men are basically worthless if women make money. Just an average attractive woman can have the pick from many men while the average guy has a hard time dating in general. Women are the selectors of who they date and who gets sex. They are the ones rejecting men and not the other way around.
In my opinion:
Number 1. Carefully scrutinize the relationship advice you seek. Number 2. Work hard on improving yourself, in all facets of your life. Get your own life in order and on track before you decide to share it with someone else.
Number 3. If you want to be in a relationship, expect it to be a tremendous amount of work for BOTH of you.
You are always responsible for your own happiness and success. Other people only help with that. Keep the ones that are helpful and dump the ones that are not. Always move forward in your life. Try to make yourself better than you were yesterday.
Take care.
Solid game.
Very correct , she's a good speaker but she's still a female trying to get validation and likes
I could tell u don't get alot of 🍑 to be honest because she got this down to the tea. I used alot of these tactics b4 but she actually organized it. Protect her at all cost!
@Daniel Mendoza Hey Daniel. You could have made your point without the insult. I had over 4 decades with my wife before she passed away suddenly. I got more than you ever will.
She is talking about modern women. Today's women in the era of social media
Smh. I'm not playing games to make her want or miss me. She's either interested or not. I'm either interested or not....no one should make anyone do anything...if it's not mutual move on with your life. No one should have to chase after anyone.
nt all females will buying this missing game
Facts
On point man!💯💯💯
@@raymondharris6158 not all but most of them will
@@raymondharris6158 true..especialy if you are a fat and ugly guy..no girl is going to miss you no matter what..lol
I don’t want to make a woman miss me or manipulate her in these manors. If a woman misses me for who I am, then that’s more beneficial than trying to make her miss me. It’s her choice
I agree with everything she said except the "even if she's not interested" part. If a woman isn't interested in you, at least a little bit...then she isn't going to do any of the things that Alexa mentions here. There has to be some type of interest...otherwise you won't even come to her mind...so why should she care what you are doing?
Same could be said of a man also..
She might not be interested in you but still craving for your attention and validation, especially when she sees you below her. So if you apply this points Olivia mentioned it might drive her crazy and start to be obsessed with you because she might realis that she was wrong about her judgement on you.
@Travis Samuels what she says in the video is she can get validation and likes from all the other guys but if its not coming from specifically YOU, Then she has a problem. Women always check to see who likes/watch their stories. They know who always liking and watching.
I dont agree with the social media part
@@similemsimang4222🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
My female friends were the ones who hurted me the most when I was down. I realised that It's a biological response of their feminine side to mine. Lesson learned. Never ever will I rant or complain or share feelings with any women. I wondered why women that were close to me were the ones who really put my confidence down (regardless of their appearance).
Saying things like "attraction is subjective" , "I'm not attracted to you" even after protecting them from injury from other men and they know I have balls, they know I have a back bone but when I'm only with them, they feel so safe that they just emasculate me. I really will never get that but I understand it now.
Also being nice for no reason is a no no for me now.
Use them for what they're good for, you dont use a hammer to cut wood 👍👙
They call guys like you 'NICE GUY'. Unfortunately they're not looking for a nice guy until they're ready to settle down. In addition, if you let them keep you in RESEARVE, or in the FRIENDSHIP ZONE, then you're guaranteed never to see them naked. You'll be in that dead zone until you find yourself a girlfriend elsewhere who's going to get you laid regularly
what do u mean its a biological response to hurt you?
@@charlesben9104 When you display emotional weakness as a man, women have a biological response to put you down even further because they hate emotional weak men. It's not something they can control.
Just some lesson to learn about the opposite sex. Never mind just take care of your business personally more and if you need to talk to some body?? it has to be a friend (tested confidant) Just like exercise routines if it don't kill you it makes you stronger! Cheers!
Once again from Playa to Playa, Olivia is dropping GEMS. Whenever I didn't follow these guidelines when dealing with a female, I ALWAYS come out looking and feeling like a LAME. Females are cold. If you show weakness, they will NOT give a shoulder to cry on, they'll ATTACK. 😂
"They'll attack" 🤣
Ur showing weakness right now brown nosing her booty hole no flame
Not all women 🙏🏽 some would appreciate every single nice gesture you do. There are some bad apples but don’t stop looking for the good ones in the bunch. We do need you, love you and appreciate you. 😊
@S. i believe you're well intentioned in your response but I'm beginning to believe these traits are in all women. Some women have more than others of course. I say this because every time I get too emotionally invested in a woman, things eventually go bad and I suffer greatly as a result. Their attitudes tend to change, and they get more distant and argumentative. It's almost as if they know they have me so they stop trying to keep me but instead push me away. It makes no sense to me because not to brag or anything but I'm a hell of a catch! I can get and keep many women but choose not to. Every relationship where I didn't care much or was into myself more, they worked out fine and when they didn't, I was still at peace. Again, I believe you and you're right but there are certain mindsets that men have to employ in order to have a successful relationship.
@ddraft234 I concur with your outlook. I also understand what parker mentioned. Looking back at my Past relationships. I gave the women options and choices thinking we were equal in the relationships. I was very soft and they were very selfish.
I lied to myself for YEARS. Bwahahaha soon as I start doing me and careless about what they think, half wanted to become a sneaky link. That showed me their true colors. Long story short, I was wanted more than I was liked when I didn't care.
That's absolutely right. Give them the gift of missing us. As absence makes the heart grow fonder.
None of this works if she never liked you much to begin with. There are plenty of people, women and men alike, who I'd have back and forth conversations with over the phone or online, or I'd see in person once in a while, but who'd never initiate anything with me. As soon as I stopped hitting them up I never heard from them again! They never checked on me, they never missed me, their imaginations never 'ran wild'. Don't delude yourself. If there isn't enough initial intrigue or admiration, they will forget about you.
Exactly
that's your experience, not everyone else's .. because ive def had girls miss me who i stopped giving attention too. just depends on your relationship/history with said person.
They will care when you become successful person have plenty money hundred thousands or millions dollars or a business man they will chase you like crazy money works.
Again, everything you stated in your comment sums it up! It was perfect, factual and straight to the point! If a person is NOT into you, NONE OF THIS MATTERS! EXCELLENT!!!!
100%
Being an Introvert and Loner most of my life very private person who disappears from the earth I can go days and weeks with hardly anyone hearing from me at times
Hi Guys... I've been making content like this since 2015 and I want to thank all of my supporters. Especially the ones who have been there from day one.
I agree 100%.
She, @Pearlythings and many other woman who telling the truth and dismantling the lie of feminism are targets.
I pray The God protects them and gives them all male righteous spouses.
Thanks alot , I'm really learning much about female nature since I discovered your channel...good job Olivia.
you're very good. I agree with all of your content. Thank you for having a clue
yea, way before there was Kevin Samuels
Number one only working if the girl really likes you
1) Challenge works on a woman’s mind
2) Be busy and mysterious (also a challenge variant)
3) Challenge
4) Be vague and mysterious (again)
5) When you got one woman interested, you can have them all
7) have a hobby, show you have a life, and be good at it
… all of these agree with Doc Love and his Dating Dictionary
wdym challenge
@@saadderaiya Ask any honest woman in your life... or read the book ;)
@@n-9249 no i mean what kind of challenges do you mean
That's some bullsh1t advice, if you need to do X, Y, Z like these or she won't be even interested in you, she's a b1tch and eventually after 3 years she'll get bother cause you won't be able to keep this some sort of "game" for years straight, later it's gonna be a pain even after marriage she'll be filtring with guys at work..
Do not to girs like these srsly and find a very sad, emo girl who doesnt have many friends and she'll like you very much just for who you are but u propably need to look for some younger teenage girls cause this generation was raised often lonely online etc. and I think there are more sad girls right now that there were like 10 years ago.
I had a few women at work who were into me but I wasn't into them. And the one I did like probably didn't like me. Lifes cruel irony! Haha
At the end of the day, most of the advice is about making her think you're ignoring her. It isn't wrong but since the beginning of time, women compete for attention. Give her too much of it and she'll think you're boring, ignore her too much and she'll want the attention from a guy she doesn't even like just for validation. For SOME men, this is an indication that she will NEVER be serious with you.
1. If you as man have time to play all these little games with a woman, you don't need her
2. You still have a LOT of growing up to do 💯🤦🏿♂️
Dude I was thinking the same. All these mind games for real!
@@JoelHernandez-yl6yw yes sir it's interesting
I disagree. Women are very fickle. One day They like you, the next day they turned off by you.I learned a long time ago that women are attracted to men who do not need them. and this woman explains it perfectly.
@@deepshotone if thats how she is, then that women isnt taking you seriously...You are just a game for her. A woman who seriously likes a guy doesnt play games and will try to be their best version for a guy she likes.
@@deepshotone Play games and don't cry later when she plays them back. When it's over grow up and move on.
The point in time, don’t really care , just hope the best for her
This is my ENTIRE Playbook. But I got called “TOXIC”. 😂
Lol right..but apparently alot of them love it. This is proof women dont want a good man. They love the confusion and chaos.
Exactly
If a Women not complaining about you she don’t want you.
@@commonsense3921 woman*
@@blah9664 ah no, only immature women loves confusion and chaos.
This is nuts but also it's true. This is why so many men struggle. Because society told us to be attentive and nice. When we need to be mysterious, ignore women, focus on our mission.
Many woman (including myself) would LOVE to have a man show excitement without fear of it turning me off, but actually increasing my attraction for him! So rare now because everyone is watching videos like this.
@@Parkerv12 U read my mind! This video is horrible advice in my experience. What is needed is divine feminine and divine masculine nrg.. No games. Str8 & direct communication .......Empress & Emperor nrg.
@@Parkerv12 As a man I thought it got even harder than what it is
I'm a man born with a femenine face and women treat me like shit
@@Sabr_82what you talking about? Explain what you mean and how can I do that as guy in my 20s?
@@rasheemthebestfirstone3274 How can u do wat? Lemme know wat u wanna do so 👁🗨 can respond clearly.
You go girl. 😊 Dont "listen" to any of the negative comments re what you are doing. EVER!!!! You are putting truth out there. The bad girls will hate you for it.😢😢 The good ones the opposite... ❤
💯
I miss the days when people just led with reality. Meaning introductions, hanging out and going from there. These days dsting and socializing seems like a math equation or trigonometry. If you vibe with someone let the commonality lead you .......let shared value lead it.....let god lead it too. Olivia you are great... i dig your insights...just that current dating is stupid.
100 %
Olivia is spot on! But you are exactly right, dating has become a total game of manipulation, gaslighting, and passive-aggressiveness. It's not fun anymore. In past decades, dating was what you said: introduction, social hang outs, getting closer, first kiss, etc. It's now a bizarre chess / poker game where no one wants to show their true intentions.
Matter fact.....I don't have a video on my channel focused on this. I'll make one...maybe a series. The dating realm is too fickle.
@@jamestateIII please do. I would subscribe
@@ollie267 is that you Olivia? I need to do it because I been single 7 years......I don't talk to women no more for the most part because when I try...it goes wrong. Let me get my bullet points and thoughts together. Thanks
There is a saying that “you don’t ask a fish how to catch a fish” but Olivia is the exception to the rule. She gives men undiluted Advice. Olivia is the Truth 💯 💯 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Actually you should always ask a woman about catching a woman. Dude only give advice based on what works for them but doesn't work with every guy but a woman knows another woman absolutely. So I don't understand why dudes go to other dudes when they are giving them wrong advise.
@@kevhos1000But asking women for advice on women could also fail. Sometimes, asking a guy is better.
Goofy logic lol
I say, figuring out on your own is the best bet, but a little advice from another woman and or man doesn't hurt and depending on who that person is and the relationships that they experienced.
The problem is, however much a woman may try, she will probably end up giving advice that benefits women somehow. It seems like a woman always advises a man based on what will be best for the women in his life.
Don't aim to make a woman miss you. Go deep within yourself and focus on improving yourself.
Let the world see your change and value while treating relationships with women as secondary and a distraction. That way, all these tips would come naturally.
Did you even watch the video? You can employ a couple of ythe techniques to indicate that youre an independant man with your own goals and desires.
You wild yo
@@ghostrecon755came dropped the 2 cents and left
In summary, ghost her and move on.
@@hakeem4099 it’s hard to be friends with a female nowadays bc you don’t know what you’re going to get specially if she got a boyfriend
One way gents (and studs); Get on your purpose and stay on it. That’s it ! Have a good day.
I let her do all the work because if she really wants u she will find a way!
Not easy to do because I want to chase her but u get to a point where all u do is chase and u get tired of the run around is all. 😊
Guys, simply put, be the most successful you can be in every way you're wanting to be. Everything will click into place once you're doing you on your best day.
Very true Umar
🧢
As a man who suffers from perpetual singularity, it makes sense not to make women think you are desperate. Men with something she wants has options and she may wanna prove she is the one.
If she requires all this as stated in the video she's definitely a manipulator and will never be the one.
This lady is showing you how to manipulate back that's all. I don't think anyone who is a good person would want to lower themselves to destroy their own identity of being raised in a great home and with qualities like great manners and a caring nature. This is making as evil as the person your pursuing
I've practiced almost all of these and they can be very effective and dangerous. If she is insecure or have low self-esteem (or both) it just becomes drama
She will stalk you!
😂 True
I’m in the same situation she is creating drama what do I do i just want peace I’m not even contacting her
@@Balk_69 mind games like this don’t bring peace, they bring drama which is what you’re experiencing.
This kind of mindset will result in a short-term illusion of “getting her” BUT, this won’t result in long-term trust, respect, loyalty and admiration that having a genuine connection with the right woman can bring.
Getting her obsessive energy because you’ve triggered her insecurities and childhood abandonment issues, or a genuine long-lasting connection with trust and loyalty that avoidance games can never bring. You choose.
@@Parkerv12 Someone's spitting facts!!!! Well said man!
Show no weakness, and always keep it mysterious.
Olivia drops gemz
A woman misses you, because you are on her mind for some selfish reason. If you are on her mind, it's because those reasons have a place in her heart. Do you, nothing more, nothing less. "Passports Up"
I swear 🤞🏾 you are saying how it is for me and what im going thur. These vids help me with what i knew already but was stubborn to myself and just hearing you say what is true in human nature. Helps me know im not the only one 👍🏾💯
for real, though. I'm just going with the flow, more L's than wins. I'm still pushing.
The best way to make a woman miss you after she rejected you is by not wanting her anymore and hooking up with someone else.
Works everytime!
if a woman rejects me im done with her I dont get why you would ever want to win her back or do anything to even try, like a bitch..
theres tons of women in this world
Facts, play that game once, you'll play it forever.
give me the silent treatment or the I need time a part game, I'll give her a limitless supply of both permanently
*Stops contacting crush *
*Never speaks to her ever again *
Exactly
A righteous and humble man walks in his own truth and never has to play games to win in life. If you want a 304 or a confused situation, I beg you to follow this backwards hustling advice. So many women out here are built like Chevy pick-ups. Stay safe, Stay smart and Stay blessed.
How can a woman miss what she is not interested in 😂😂😂. I'm glad guys have awoken and have no time for these gimmicks. Guys simply don't care anymore.
We don't want them to miss us. When it's over, we are gone. Making them miss you is "simping" psychology. Grow up and move on. More than enough women in the "world."
she is right.basically the power of your indifference to her speaks volumes to her.
This just happened to me yesterday. My girlfriend said we were done out of nowhere. I did everything I could for her. Now she's been using social media to contact me. After the fact we told me "We're done have a great life"!
@whatsapp8907 Hi send me the number again
I meant on telegram
Ignore it. Delete her off all your social platforms. Delete her pics and videos off your phone. Never speak to her again.
Don't ever let anyone disrespect you or play with your time like that. If she can break up with you and come back into your life whenever she wants, she will never respect you
There is more to life than just a woman. Why would you want someone to miss you as if your life depended on that person. Focus on you. Do not do things to incite jealous. Pursue pease! Work on your goals. As a man you just need to build yourself, if she is not worth the wooing, definitely she is not worthy the keeping. ✌️
This is the type of honesty you need to make a relationships work. 💯💯💯💯💯💯
A better way would be if people stop playing games with relationships
Another way to make her miss u is put that mean STROKE GAME on her have her screaming in shidd 😭💀🔥💯
You can do all that and more and she’ll still leave your ass. Remember she’s not yours, it’s just your turn
@@fhaze10 all do respect you is right on that... But at the same time you must not be hitting it right fam... I can't speak 🗣️ for no other man but I gets busy in that bed room bro on my MOMMA #IM HIM"
This is exactly what kats need. A good woman on our side giving us all their secrets
Amen!......hey, I got dumped, then, like a fool I groveled for a time.....THEN I "stood up and grew a set" and said "Now it's MY turn"! I moved, changed my number, got a new job, bought a beautiful Bad-Ass Harley and just started taking care of ME!!! Get strong guys, be the lone wolf, fuck what THEY have to post and say on SM and become a monster of independence and CUT that "shit" OUT of your life completely for GOOD!!!
...... there's way too many boats to choose from to just "settle" for a life preserver!!!!
Mess around and get the wrong woman obsessed with you💀. Be safe with this knowledge fellas😴
😂😂😂😂😂
Getting her obsessive energy because you’ve triggered her insecurities and childhood abandonment issues, or a genuine long-lasting connection with trust and loyalty that avoidance games can never bring?
@@Parkerv12 Definitely the latter. Never been a player but still had an obsessed gf. No games. But I know how bad obsession gets hence my warning.
Number 1 is only if she has intrested in you. If she's not interested in you she's not going to care if you do not contact her.
Finally! Someone on the same page with me. Everything she listed are true but only works on toxic women, a good woman who doesn't give an f about you won't be bothered. If you play these mind games with a good woman, you are gonna lose her 💯
@@thompsonhassan3832 as a good guy myself the so called good girls are the ones that reject me the most. I honestly believe the rachet chick will reject me less, than those so called good girls. Think I will start approaching the rachets instead.
Yeah this works on immature stupid women the ones that will be single in their 40s 50s saying where the good men go
They care when you become successful man who builds his future and have hundreds thousands or millions dollars or successful business man later they will chase you like crazy woman looking man have financial better who can provide her what she needs. Women loves money
@@thompsonhassan3832 but if you have money the good women she will chase you. Women loves money so much no matter she is a good or bad
having to play all of these mind games is insane just work on yourself. fellas if they go they go. You better believe the more success you obtain, the more you work on your looks, the more you start standing on business the less likely they are to want to leave.
Work on yourselves men, she's just a addition to you, this a former toxic woman giving advice on how to play mind games. Leave that to the women and get on your purpose stay strong kings! #PROTECT MEN AT ALL COSTS
I hate the fact in order to stoke attraction and maintain it with a woman, you must be cold towards her. Irrationality like this will never cease to unnerve me. Why must women innately want drama? Subscribing to these tactics is tiresome in itself.
Only stupid women think like this
Yep. That's why I gave up on dating and I'm only 35. All that b.s ain't worth it in my opinion.
Yup, it's stupid. But it's Western society that enables this behavior. You don't see chicks behaving like this in places like the middle east.
yup even if ur solid in other areas it all must be perfect all the time.
@@michaelykwon they’ll even find flaws in perfection
This is pure facts although the social media thing is for the under 30 crowd. Not all of us are social media addicts and can operate a few weeks to a month without posting. Basically all I hear is how to make a narcissist obsessed with you
The social thing I don’t totally agree with, sometimes keeping your life off social can create mystery and curiosity as people will not know what you are up to or what type of life your are living so when they see you in real life they will more than likely be prone to want to engage in conversation with you and ask questions
So much of the dating advice we get from the internet is benevolent yet toxic. A genuine connection is undeniable. A genuine desire is undeniable.
As one commenter already similarly stated; if you need to make her miss you, she probably ain't the one for you.
If you need benevolent yet toxic dating advice to be with someone, your time may be better served placing your efforts in other things and eventually other people.
You know what women want, and you also know what men want.
To the point, practical, oraganized points. Not vague and long story and beating around the bush. And that's exactly how you deliver you content as well. I do not feel the need to speed up or skip parts of your video, yet I am so hooked to your style of delivery.
I can see you put your knowledge to practise. Glad to discover your channel. Gonna subscribe now.
Your name truly suits you, Alexa. You are definitely the Alexa for every man, where he can get all his answers.
while I do agree with this you left out one very important piece of information. These tactics will only work if she has some level of attraction to you to begin with. It won't work if she don't like you or is ignoring you period. You're basically just air to her.
This lady is a genius, I like her
Your pretty intuitive, I've been using these techniques all my life, and I happen to be in my 60s. Unfortunately I'm not dating anyone at this time. I do have a partner I'm close to but not romantically. Thanks for solidifying what I already was aware of.
Crazy to see the amount of other bros saying positive things about you. Thank you for such genuine advice without any click baits. Milly subs coming your way in no time 👊
I wish I plant a whole field of Olivia’s cause she speaking facts. Getting a hobby or hobbies are important because your energy is going to something more beneficial. Best feeling in the world is taking her number out forgetting it months later get a text and replying WHO IS THIS😂💯. That is the start all end all
This makes me think all women are far more interested in insanity and stupidity, games and petty bullshit than they are in getting - or even having the first idea - what she wants.
Sad…very very sad.
There was something about this video the first time I watched it that didn't sit right with me. I took a few days and marinated on it. This is part of what I came up with, all the information contained within is about being deceptive and not being your true self. It's about using a woman's nature against her to get what you want. The sad part is that I believe every word of this video. For all of my life, I have believed that if I let my true self come through that the woman of my affection would see me as worthy of her time, but that approach has failed more often than not. I had heard at a young age that ignoring a woman and showing disinterest would somehow garner her attention but I believed in honesty and integrity and I never used that approach. I believed, and still do, that the truth is always the better solution. I understand that ignoring the advice in this video lessens my chances of success but I have to live with myself every day. I have to understand what kind of world am I helping to create and the one depicted in this video is not one I want to live with.
Had a great woman friend that let me in on this over 25 years ago..and I've found it to be true.
You're right on
Dont focus on emotional creatures. Focus on your goals, they will need u eventually
all women are emotional and fickle creatures.
I don’t have time to play games. Either we gonna be together or not.
Smart
And people wonder why a MGTOW movement is even a thing today.
These strategies and tactics are EXHAUSTING for men. BUT...
Thank you for honestly putting us on to game, Sis.
ONE
So is that anti- woman ? So who do you mate with?
@@willthiswork8 with no one. Maybe call an escort once in awhile to fulfill your sexual desires, but that's it.
@@willthiswork8How is going own way anti-woman? You can mate with prostitutes.
@@willthiswork8 it's not anti-woman. It's akutamatata. You mate with women if it's meant. It's like Juvenile said. P come and it go, but it's gone stop here for a little while.
@@willthiswork8 Are you anti-intelligent? Because that presupposition was the epitome of REACHING.
This explains why the majority of my sisters friends had crushes on me. I have a personal rule not to date any of my sisters friends so I basically put them all in the friend zone and treated them accordingly, this must have triggered them to like me even more quite funny.
So much advice. So many games to be played...
The most effective way to get a woman attracted to you is not to share your feelings. If a man's "in the friendzone" it's because he treated her like a friend and shared everything he was feeling. If she doesn't know what's in your mind she will be curious and fascinated. Talk about any subject you like or anything she wants to talk about, but without revealing your true state of mind. I've found that even women who didn't seem at all attracted to me initially started to seem interested when I did this.
Examples???
@@kayochambers9418 off the top of my head, watch how James Dean interacts with his love interest in Rebel without a Cause
@@shaunhunterit342 what u kno about a woman thats emotionally unavailable
@@kayochambers9418 I'm not sure what it is you want to discuss, could you please elaborate
@@shaunhunterit342 do u think she can change as in become more emotionally available or is it a waste of time? Keep in mind she is that wat because of childhood trauma with her narcissist mom
Olivia. Olivia....this just popped up, as if you know me.....I am a compassionate Junky but no punk, sometimes we think keep checking on women is ideal but unfortunately it isn't...I'm glad I don't and this message confronted me and confirmed my strength...mwah!!!!!
I'm really going through it right now because I have needed more from my partner and she won't reciprocate all I do for our family our relationship is just not equal and your videos have been nothing but helpful as I go through this so ty again for your message and hard work ❤️ 🙏
Start taking care of yourself. Start going to the gym, give her less attention, be more cold. Heck, I'd even say start dating around. Your girl is supposed to be useful tonyou and she isn't. Are you supposed to be miserable for life?
Your wisdom is so impressive to me. You are beautiful and i can ‘feel’ you understand us. Keep up the good work!!!
Long story short women are forever children in their minds. 😑none of this shit is worth taking notes. If you gotta constantly play games just to keep anyone. They a child at heart. 👌🏾and thats why society is how it is now.
When you do stuff like that and you do it because it's true and not running game that's when it's real. When you do it to manipulate really and truly you're the one That's obsessed with the person. So only do this when it's real not for manipulation
If a chick is really feeling you you don't gotta play these dumb ass games
Wow you get it....
All facts.
And to do all of that, they better have some value, because you cant miss nothing.
Wow, as a woman this deeply saddens me. To paint every woman with one brush is the same as saying “all me are dogs”.
There are bad apples on both sides.
Many woman (including myself) would LOVE to have a man show excitement without fear of it turning me off, but actually increasing my attraction for him! So rare now because everyone is watching videos like this.
Where are the people looking for REAL relationships?
This kind of mindset will result in a short-term illusion of “getting her” BUT, this won’t result in long-term trust, respect, loyalty and admiration that having a genuine connection with the right woman can bring.
What does it actually mean to “get her?”
Getting her obsessive energy because you’ve triggered her insecurities, or a genuine long-lasting connection with trust and loyalty that avoidance games can never bring.
Because you don’t understand what it takes to be attractive to women AS A MAN. What she’s saying isn’t necessarily anything bad about women it’s just a harsh truth that y’all don’t like hearing. Most of this shit is stuff that y’all do subconsciously.
And it may hurt you to hear it, but these things that she expounded on exist in all women. Some of you are just way better at tempering it than others. It’s all biology.
The harsh truth is, women are deeply aroused by stoicism. Pretty much the guy that “doesn’t give a f*ck.” And a lot of us as men have trouble with this not because we can’t do it, but because we’re logical. And we view things through that logical lens.
In our eyes (because we’re the protectors and providers, both of which REQUIRE a degree of care), it doesn’t make sense. Because we think, “Hmm, well they always say they want a guy that listens, that tries, that puts forth efforts, that asks about her day. I do all of that and I get curbed quicker than the guys that do none of it.”
It’s because of what I said earlier and what olivia said, it’s that we’re too available. And whether you believe it or not, you and the sisterhood see that as weakness. It might not actually be, but that’s how y’all view it, and by extension are turned off by it. And a woman who is not turned on, you have no hope of a relationship with.
She right about everything she said......this is a skill set that is 100% accurate
Oh wow... Olivia I've been doing this since my freshman year in high school 1994 and it's a method that still works today. I remember being at track practice when a girl who I thought liked me was messing with someone else so I left her alone and she just couldn't take it. 🤣 I encouraged all brothas to do this when they tell me about their issues with a female. Then in the era of social media this method sinks them all the time as I shutdown my inbox from em and even put them as restricted then forget I've got them restricted when they comment on a post they feel calls them out but they won't directly say it. The longest I've ignored women was 5 months. I mean they took to Instagram looking for me and but yet Couldn't get me. I laughed at their panicking dramatic inbox messages once I took em off my restricted list. Then after that I still stayed away from saying anything for an extra month. ONE WOMAN EVEN WENT AS FAR AS TO MAKING A PAIR OF SOCKS WITH MY FACE ON EM AND SAID PANTIES WERE NEXT JUST TO PULL ME OUTTA MY SADDAM HUSIEN STYLE HIDING AS SHE SAID. SMH 🤦🏾♂️. Once again You nailed it. Thanks again
Man I loved reading your comment, fuldtræf!
That is why you are still single🤣
I love this woman right here her advice is a life saver
Listen I appreciate all the feed back and everything you just said makes so much sense but man I’m over all those games. I don’t have time to be playing games I need me a real woman that is not going to be around the bush. When she wants to go out we will go out, when we want to see each other will see each other. Etc..
To sum it up in 3 words; Scarcity creates value.
I immediately blocked her on social media because if we ain't friends in real life, we ain't friends on social media either