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  • Опубликовано: 2 ноя 2023
  • Undrea feels rejected by her own mother. Her mother, Raylene, claims that she and her friend had babies at the same time and she believes she brought the wrong child home from the hospital. Undrea is devastated by Raylene's insistence that they are not mother and daughter. Can Karamo help this family solve their DNA mystery?
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  • @Taurche
    @Taurche 8 месяцев назад +2252

    How can we petition for Karamo to have hour long segments with the guest because baby 15 min ain’t a lot. I need a whole HOUR of this 😩😩

    • @vongirlvnpnk
      @vongirlvnpnk 8 месяцев назад +6

      😮

    • @supersassy9441
      @supersassy9441 8 месяцев назад +60

      the original videos are a lot longer, this is the cut version

    • @maryanngeline
      @maryanngeline 8 месяцев назад +54

      Nosey channel has full length episodes (about 45 min)

    • @rhondaminter7532
      @rhondaminter7532 8 месяцев назад

      So now the baby is a product of rape....this is so sad

    • @q-onxy7095
      @q-onxy7095 8 месяцев назад

      He has a full show that plays around 4 am to 7 am in the morning on black channels- Bounce/ tvone

  • @ShadowMor00
    @ShadowMor00 8 месяцев назад +2981

    There ain’t no way she called them boys light skinned… and idk if I’ve ever seen colorism so deeply rooted into someone’s soul

    • @ariamason9324
      @ariamason9324 8 месяцев назад +107

      I was thinking the same thing

    • @LeshaFBaby
      @LeshaFBaby 8 месяцев назад +44

      Right

    • @Kaylolynn
      @Kaylolynn 8 месяцев назад +79

      I was very confused

    • @cristina-dk4vo
      @cristina-dk4vo 8 месяцев назад +206

      None of them are even close to being light skinned. The mother needs therapy

    • @marsallefrancisco4851
      @marsallefrancisco4851 8 месяцев назад +36

      Facts! We're a doomed race!

  • @jngome
    @jngome 8 месяцев назад +1980

    Even if she was not her daughter, she deserved to be respected as a human being.

    • @annastasia248
      @annastasia248 7 месяцев назад +20

      Exactly

    • @_almondjoy
      @_almondjoy 7 месяцев назад +16

      That's what I can't get over

    • @Msjamariabrown
      @Msjamariabrown 7 месяцев назад +6

      Amen😢😢😢

    • @M.Campbell-Sherwood
      @M.Campbell-Sherwood 7 месяцев назад +10

      My thoughts too. The case with the two girls in the 80s…the mother sensed the baby wasn’t hers but she still loved her and treated her like her other children. Even after finding her bio daughter she still loved the girl and had fond memories of her life with them and considered her, her child.

    • @JenniferBX-NY
      @JenniferBX-NY 3 месяца назад

      👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @ashley78910umerah
    @ashley78910umerah 7 месяцев назад +581

    I strongly believe she knew it was her daughter, but because the child was a product of rape she sent her away so she wouldn’t have to be reminded of the tragedy that occurred that night. I feel for the both of them I pray they get the help they need.

    • @timoteooo94
      @timoteooo94 7 месяцев назад +14

      That daughter is something scary….I would be saying Yes Ma’am to her ass😂

    • @Queen-wc2yg
      @Queen-wc2yg 6 месяцев назад +38

      @@timoteooo94she had to be strong she ain’t had her mother to be there for her

    • @deejay136
      @deejay136 6 месяцев назад +29

      I feel like she probably spent the pregnancy convincing herself that it was her partners child, and not the product of the rape. When the child came out she could see that the baby definitely was the rapist's child and so she completely rejected her and convinced herself (and others) that her child was switched at birth to hide from the shame of it all.

    • @CandiceGoddard
      @CandiceGoddard 5 месяцев назад +12

      I'm sorry but I don't believe her and her reaction seemed fake with no emotion in it. Her eyes were blank in my opinion and I've been studying the crazy eyes of abusers all my life in order to survive.
      I just don't believe her.

    • @tuesdayjohnson3890
      @tuesdayjohnson3890 5 месяцев назад +1

      That was my thought too

  • @happymo-pitt5587
    @happymo-pitt5587 7 месяцев назад +111

    I still wouldn't want her to be my mom. Baby you made it this far without her.

  • @EssSolo93___
    @EssSolo93___ 8 месяцев назад +3827

    Somebody give Mama Dee an Oscar. She knew that was her kid. Please

    • @dmartezd995
      @dmartezd995 8 месяцев назад +232

      😂 the way I just holladdd 😂😂

    • @SardiB
      @SardiB 8 месяцев назад +221

      Lmfaoo I was about to cry til you made me laugh 🤣🤣🤣😭

    • @kristinajacksonmichelle6772
      @kristinajacksonmichelle6772 8 месяцев назад +189

      Omggggg I swear this is what I was looking for bc I swear that lady knew that was her daughter

    • @msTia41
      @msTia41 8 месяцев назад +128

      😂😂😂😂😂😂 she do look like momma D

    • @kellymcclendon2162
      @kellymcclendon2162 8 месяцев назад +38

      I was looking for your comment. It all came back just like that in front of the whole internet🙃 Oh My GAWD 🤣

  • @stacyjpoliticscommunityfai359
    @stacyjpoliticscommunityfai359 8 месяцев назад +2455

    This COLORISM issue has to be CANCELED in OUR COMMUNITY...its SICK!

    • @meme-fs1jn
      @meme-fs1jn 8 месяцев назад +58

      It’s mainly dark skinned women that are the colorist

    • @summerdowlig
      @summerdowlig 8 месяцев назад +71

      IDK why if she has 3 other kids she doesn't know babies can change skin colors.....Like what.

    • @nthompson7760
      @nthompson7760 8 месяцев назад +86

      ​@@meme-fs1jnno its only people who don't love themselves who are colorist. You can't generally a whole subculture. Speaking as a dark-skinned woman who grew up with a colorist mom.

    • @pecanbrown2006
      @pecanbrown2006 8 месяцев назад +25

      ​@meme-fs1jn My experience is the Red Bones are colorist.

    • @juanitaquinonez1483
      @juanitaquinonez1483 8 месяцев назад +7

      You a lie

  • @theuniquenessofme7825
    @theuniquenessofme7825 7 месяцев назад +254

    Hi, watching from The Netherlands. Im a social worker and work mainly with clients who have been through severe trauma. The mother dissociated herself from what happened to her at 16. She wasn't faking. The repetitive OMG's, the staring, that's the trauma box opening and flowing out. There is so much healing to be done here. Prayers for them. Hope after the show, they get the help thats needed to find a way to a connection.🙏

    • @Tylee30
      @Tylee30 6 месяцев назад +1

      I agree. So sad

    • @KhadijahsMamma
      @KhadijahsMamma 4 месяца назад +3

      Als ze echt dacht dat dit niet haar kind is had ze een dna test moeten doen om dat te bewijzen. Het gaat hier om een kind hè. Niet een laptop uit de media markt.

    • @dadajulius6489
      @dadajulius6489 3 месяца назад +1

      Well said.🥺

    • @shank1er
      @shank1er 6 дней назад

      That was acting

  • @unarinemutheloramabulana2505
    @unarinemutheloramabulana2505 7 месяцев назад +107

    If Karamo was South African he would've been Karabo which means "an answer", he heals people by giving them the answers they need, he supports them and shows them grace. Big ups to you Karamo!!

  • @BhindHerCamera
    @BhindHerCamera 8 месяцев назад +1987

    Once she mentioned her being raped, it all made sense. Trauma is a real thing. I have so much empathy and sympathy for them both.

    • @LoganTaliaferro
      @LoganTaliaferro 8 месяцев назад +41

      It looks like the daughter is the real mom to her actual mom

    • @MirriamSofe-yj9pq
      @MirriamSofe-yj9pq 8 месяцев назад +42

      As Black people we need to study Psychology just for empowerment and to assist in the community! I cant speak for the ills of other races for i may be biased or outrightly out of line.I wish to keep to the lane I was born in.Karamo is gullable to assist but since this show its a tip of an icebag,many are going to fall through the cracks😢😢😢😢.For him to approach the hospital and birth records,for me that paralyzed Mom.'even hospital records are in' just paraphrasing from the little I could hear😮😮😮.May God intervene and they should start as a family and Mom to shower'babygirl' with 😍.

    • @Mrszhersheyy
      @Mrszhersheyy 8 месяцев назад

      @@LoganTaliaferrolook she was RAPED. Nobody cares about that other shit you talking about. My daughter who’s giving me fucking issues and I KEPT her was conceived the same way then her dumb ass dad kidnapped her and raped and beat her and now we are dealing with the shit so stop with that. The mom needs compassion TOO. I’m sick of people never having love for the moms and we go through some shit

    • @islandgirlruby2750
      @islandgirlruby2750 8 месяцев назад +83

      I have zero empathy for the mother, she’s lying through her teeth, why not take a DNA test.

    • @BhindHerCamera
      @BhindHerCamera 8 месяцев назад +51

      Not saying that the mother has no fault, but even the son saying she's been waiting for a long time. The DNA isn't the issue. She knew this was her daughter. It's the trauma response that had her deny the blatant truth.

  • @kellyprioleau7567
    @kellyprioleau7567 7 месяцев назад +1321

    This lady was truly shocked this was her daughter! This proves how strong the mind is; when you tell a lie long enough, you actually start to believe it.

    • @MissBaby404
      @MissBaby404 7 месяцев назад

      Bullshit. If she legitimately thought her kid was “switched” at birth, they would’ve contacted the FBI and the Center for Missing and Exploited Kids to report it at which time they would’ve conducted testing, opened a case, and filed a fat a$$$ lawsuit against the hospital for such a mistake. She know damn well there was never no light bright baby who vanished for three days or switcharoo. She a delusional colorist

    • @JodysTurf
      @JodysTurf 7 месяцев назад +23

      🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽 the mind is very powerful

    • @marijayne4799
      @marijayne4799 7 месяцев назад +20

      But if they presented her with a nine pounder at first and came back telling her the six pounder was her baby instead, that is vey confusing. Most women would be very concerned about that, because it would seem that there was some kind of mixup with the babies. Every woman wants to return home with the very baby she birthed usually. If they tell you and show you two different babies and have claimed both were yours, there is deep cause for concern. Babies weight and color flectuate. Black babies are a lot of the time born very light skinned to almost white in coloring, and begin to darken after a while, but in two to three days time, going from nine to six ponds leaves huge cause for suspicion.

    • @shonbenson3580
      @shonbenson3580 7 месяцев назад

      Where are the damn tears mom is just embarrassed because she made as ass out of herself

    • @birthdaybirdy-555
      @birthdaybirdy-555 7 месяцев назад +16

      ​@@marijayne4799no not really baby could have just lost weight and got darker and even with suspicion to treat this young lady is evil

  • @DonnaMariaDixson
    @DonnaMariaDixson 7 месяцев назад +20

    Mama is the best actress ever, she couldn’t even say nothing but ‘Oh My God’

  • @alexj165
    @alexj165 6 месяцев назад +110

    i respect karamo for explaining to the audience what was happening. people are always so quick to judge, but trauma looks different on everyone.

  • @lifewithyana2924
    @lifewithyana2924 8 месяцев назад +2574

    Oh my god!!!! This was so hard to watch how the daughter was disrespected because of her skin color, the colorism, and everything wow. I feel for her. I feel for the mother too after realizing what happened. Trauma is such a real thing. This was an intense episode.

    • @michellej4289
      @michellej4289 8 месяцев назад +60

      it really was very intense, high emotions..and extreme brokeness...I felt everyone of those spirits

    • @meme-fs1jn
      @meme-fs1jn 8 месяцев назад

      Most colorist are Dark skinned

    • @IAmBeautyFlawless
      @IAmBeautyFlawless 8 месяцев назад

      You're missing the bigger picture she was raped so she did not want to associate herself with that child

    • @johnblagrove5177
      @johnblagrove5177 8 месяцев назад +39

      Why NOT DO A BLOOD_ DNA TEST TO VERIFIED IF THE BABY WAS HER's? I felt her pains because of her mother's REJECTION and BIasness about the colour of the skin BABY'S skin.🙄🇯🇲

    • @johnblagrove5177
      @johnblagrove5177 8 месяцев назад +17

      The mother TRULY BELIEVED THAT THE BABY WAS SWISTED. MAYBE NOW THEY CAN GET SOME THERAPY TO HRLP MEND THEIR RELATIONSHIP.👍🇯🇲

  • @DaFoxy01
    @DaFoxy01 8 месяцев назад +506

    It’s crazy because she kept talking about her daughter being too dark but, her siblings aren’t that much lighter… I feel so sorry for the daughter.

    • @kristataylor8829
      @kristataylor8829 8 месяцев назад +81

      How about she's the same complexion as her daughter lol

    • @Hereigns62
      @Hereigns62 8 месяцев назад +11

      I’m glad someone said it😂😂😂

    • @Vibewithkeara
      @Vibewithkeara 8 месяцев назад +14

      Tbh they all the same
      Complexion

    • @esotericenigmamelaninshe1253
      @esotericenigmamelaninshe1253 8 месяцев назад +19

      My eyes must be failing me because they all look the same complexion to me including the mother

    • @itsariannamm
      @itsariannamm 5 месяцев назад +2

      Exactly, and could of been the dad genes too

  • @Yahuah222
    @Yahuah222 7 месяцев назад +40

    “God is with me, He always been with me” yes ma’am 🙌

  • @moons4363
    @moons4363 7 месяцев назад +102

    The pain she caused her daughter is crazy

  • @AndersonLissa284
    @AndersonLissa284 8 месяцев назад +1009

    The way the mom looked at her after hearing the results and said ”omg” was like she seen a ghost or for the first time she actually saw that girl. Its sad.. It all made sense after hearing the full story. She dissociated herself. And so many people in the comments don’t understand trauma and how it shows up and takes it as a joke is what’s even sadder.

    • @eyeswideopen2442
      @eyeswideopen2442 8 месяцев назад +65

      Nah that bih wanted a light skinned baby. We gotta stop letting women get away with these types of lies.

    • @rideoutyourstorm1769
      @rideoutyourstorm1769 8 месяцев назад +74

      I think many caught up in the colorism that they miss that she was holding on to something in her trauma. It seemed like she was with a biracial male but was raped. It wasn't so much that she is a colorist but saying the child was lighter because of who in her head he father was as she was in denial of the rape. She also kept saying that the baby was 9 pounds and they brought her a thinner and darker baby. It was the trauma of it all and how she disassociated. This was really deep and trauma can be real damaging. Being raped was even more traumatic in those days...she was 16 and didn't have a support system. Many got distracted because she said her baby was lightskinned but missed the cues of the trauma in how she spoke.

    • @janettewright3467
      @janettewright3467 8 месяцев назад +12

      I didn't miss the clues because she said she talked to her and she said she seen her but she had so much trauma she didn't realize she was taking about her own daughter

    • @brokenchainsofsatan2817
      @brokenchainsofsatan2817 8 месяцев назад

      @@rideoutyourstorm1769nah this lady f’d up

    • @brokenchainsofsatan2817
      @brokenchainsofsatan2817 8 месяцев назад +11

      @@eyeswideopen2442exactly she made the R story up to take attention off the hurt of the child

  • @moeokoye9915
    @moeokoye9915 6 месяцев назад +23

    Mother is faking that shock. Something tells me she rejected that pregnancy from the jump 🤷🏾‍♀️ It's self-hate and now you're the victim? She's delusional!

  • @KatZwe
    @KatZwe 6 месяцев назад +13

    Sitting next to your Mother, while she adresses that unknown fake daughter with so much love... that must hurt sooooooo much.

  • @drunkcookinwithballhead3363
    @drunkcookinwithballhead3363 8 месяцев назад +1628

    This was hurtful... Although the mother sounded delusional she genuinely felt shocked. Karamo was right.

    • @Montana1015
      @Montana1015 8 месяцев назад +62

      Where was this trauma before the results ? She was ready to walk off before she knew that was her daughter im not buying the fake rape story she had NO tears while crying loudly smh

    • @Montana1015
      @Montana1015 8 месяцев назад +30

      She said she found her daughter and communicates with her man she was faking for tv

    • @malikastone
      @malikastone 8 месяцев назад +60

      @@Montana1015 I think she was gonna walk off before the DNA results were read because she knew the truth she's been running from all these years was about to come out. Literally a last ditch attempt to escape the truth she just couldn't face.

    • @Montana1015
      @Montana1015 8 месяцев назад +10

      @@malikastone EXACTLY !! Where was this trauma before the results ? She was ready to walk off before she knew that was her daughter im not buying the fake rape story she had NO tears while crying loudly smh That audience would’ve hated me frfr

    • @malikastone
      @malikastone 8 месяцев назад +66

      @@Montana1015 I actually am leaning towards believing that she was raped. I think it was so traumatizing for her that she disassociated for nearly the last 40 years and convinced herself that the rapist's baby couldn't possibly be hers. She was about to walk off the stage because she didn't want to hear that the baby was hers, because then she'd have to face the fact she was raped. And face the fact that she mistreated this innocent girl for decades because she couldn't accept what happened 😞

  • @no-ux6jg
    @no-ux6jg 8 месяцев назад +1179

    You can tell the mother is in shock; they have a lot to process as a family.

    • @Queensofafrica8
      @Queensofafrica8 8 месяцев назад +123

      She wasn’t in shock… she was disappointed that she wasn’t right!!

    • @lurker616
      @lurker616 8 месяцев назад +38

      Yeah. It’s like she just now realized that this is her daughter. They both need therapy.

    • @1991Meka
      @1991Meka 8 месяцев назад +59

      She saying "oh my God" because she's now realizing she gave up her daughter and treated her like sh*t.

    • @PLEASURE_MeMe
      @PLEASURE_MeMe 8 месяцев назад

      She was not shocked at all. Stop the Pump faking. She was playing victim. The play victim at the end saying he r*ped me. If you were r*ped she would’ve said it from the very beginning. She’s a horrible person.

    • @ceeceeceecee5515
      @ceeceeceecee5515 8 месяцев назад +1

      🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @sherilynharper9597
    @sherilynharper9597 7 месяцев назад +35

    Mama didn’t shed one tear. My heart goes out to the daughter💜

    • @daniellebosket5441
      @daniellebosket5441 7 месяцев назад +8

      She was truly shocked, she couldn’t shed a tear. She truly didn’t believe that was her daughter

    • @redvixo
      @redvixo 4 месяца назад +2

      It’s possible to not cry when in shock. So much emotion you can’t even process it correctly

  • @keyonajones841
    @keyonajones841 7 месяцев назад +20

    Chillllle…did y’all see the son laughing at the end..he knows his mom is crazy af🤣🤣🤣

  • @HTAnderson76
    @HTAnderson76 8 месяцев назад +195

    When the Mom said the Police told her "That can't be your baby, she's too dark' ... I've never rolled my eyes so hard in my life. smh

    • @daniellebosket5441
      @daniellebosket5441 7 месяцев назад +7

      😂 thanks for the laugh cause I’m pissed

    • @primadar
      @primadar 6 месяцев назад +2

      😂😂😂😂😂

    • @darealxsheshe3813
      @darealxsheshe3813 4 месяца назад +1

      😂😂😂😂

    • @whatsupariiiii
      @whatsupariiiii 3 месяца назад +1

      Yeah just like so many people in the audience 😭☠️

  • @angel123456789164
    @angel123456789164 8 месяцев назад +674

    This was a true psychological episode. The mother is in shock. She couldn’t process what was happening and finally she realized her trauma and remembered the cause of it. Recounting the story of the baby being taken away sounds like she wasn’t mentally stable and the woman that raised her daughter stepped in. The mom, being raped, had a mental breakdown Karamo sensed that. Unfortunately, her mind processed her daughter not being hers due to the violent way she was conceived.

    • @endyssketch7818
      @endyssketch7818 8 месяцев назад +5

      No mama look at it again she only tried true emotion when it came to her somebodies who is actual delusional would had have tht emotion when finding out that was her daughter an she wasn’t even crying just yelling

    • @miamonroe1054
      @miamonroe1054 8 месяцев назад +18

      i saw it on her face when it went full circle i was like yoooooooooo she really went through something fucked and made her self forget

    • @angelacooper8973
      @angelacooper8973 8 месяцев назад +9

      She probably wasn’t even r4p3d she probably got knocked up by her dad and was ashamed

    • @seanettecoaxum3269
      @seanettecoaxum3269 8 месяцев назад +7

      No she wasn't raped she did something f***** up and got caught up and didn't know how to get out of it and now she wants to make up that she was raped my biological mother live for 52 years that she never had a child I just found her and she called me a fake and a fraud but I am her first born and then she turned around and had another child three years later so to me that don't feel that you was raped go you not going to go and have another child right after a major rape by your father and you still went to the funeral that means you have loved your father but not love the first child you you had if you look at this woman you can tell she didn't have no tears trying to strain to bring some she's a fake she know what she did I felt bad for the girl because she she that girl no I just had to tell you how I feel because I'm going to the same thing

    • @destinymorris4004
      @destinymorris4004 7 месяцев назад +8

      @@seanettecoaxum3269Im sorry you're mother abandoned you, but sometimes people process a lot differently especially if they're the victim. Someone once told me the more you look for closure the more you turn into the person your looking for closure from to figure out why they did what they did. You'll never truly know the truth, don't let your assumptions stop you from potentially building a relationship with her and your sibling...or just moving on all together.

  • @GloriaSmith0328
    @GloriaSmith0328 7 месяцев назад +26

    Its sickening to doubt your own child because she doesn't look how you wish. A DNA test back then would've eliminated years of hurt. That lady is so wrong

  • @LadyCrone
    @LadyCrone 7 месяцев назад +17

    It's called disassociative amnesia and it's very real. It's also very scary to witness someone you love go through it and take it out on you. ❤

  • @TalissaRenee
    @TalissaRenee 8 месяцев назад +262

    The mother looks so shocked. She truly looks like she realizes how much she pain she cause her child!

    • @toyab3437
      @toyab3437 7 месяцев назад +10

      Think she had a mental breakdown because how you forget who your baby is at birth

    • @basicallyv9873
      @basicallyv9873 5 месяцев назад +8

      Chile she knew. I think she's faking it.

    • @lanadoyle7110
      @lanadoyle7110 5 месяцев назад +5

      Hurt people, hurt people 💔 😢

    • @HeyTexasItsMe
      @HeyTexasItsMe 5 месяцев назад +5

      Trauma is real

    • @johnadams-km9wm
      @johnadams-km9wm 2 месяца назад +1

      She faking wtf you ppl believe anything

  • @MommaMomo
    @MommaMomo 8 месяцев назад +813

    Colorism is SO PREVALENT in the Black community... its SO sickening!

    • @meme-fs1jn
      @meme-fs1jn 8 месяцев назад

      Looks who’s perpetuating it! Dark skinned women

    • @deevillarreal9475
      @deevillarreal9475 8 месяцев назад +38

      👋🏽Mexicans the same. I see it as disrespectful to God as he marveled at all his creations, than people try to over ride his creation. 💯 Horrible thinking!

    • @Octaviamorris77
      @Octaviamorris77 8 месяцев назад +3

      Facts

    • @KumaBuoy
      @KumaBuoy 8 месяцев назад +4

      Sadly colourism is not exclusive to the black communities or black race however it’s origins is definitely based on black Africans

    • @ClayMastah344
      @ClayMastah344 8 месяцев назад +8

      It’s prevalent in all communities unfortunately

  • @shaylincrosby3262
    @shaylincrosby3262 7 месяцев назад +27

    I hope they can heal things, it seemed like all of those “oh my gods” from the mom was not only her remembering that trauma, but her realizing how she inflicted so much pain on her child, a big step in the right direction but she still has A LOT of work to do.

  • @MrButterballishome
    @MrButterballishome 5 месяцев назад +9

    This entire segment was very emotional and I wasn't prepared for this. My prayers going up for this family to get therapy and grow closer together.

  • @Suddenlyshon
    @Suddenlyshon 8 месяцев назад +481

    Somebody give Karamo a big hug because even this was a lot for him. You could see it all over him. Prayers for this family.🙏🏾

    • @ashleyrobinson7125
      @ashleyrobinson7125 4 месяца назад +3

      That's my little sister and she has been battling this every since she was about 5-6 years old.

    • @Suddenlyshon
      @Suddenlyshon 4 месяца назад

      @@ashleyrobinson7125 Your sister is more than an overcomer, first, she could've been given up on life itself but she didn't, second, she sought help, so I commend her for taking such a step of faith. Overcoming something does not means just overcoming one battle but many battles and she has endured many battles and yet she is still pushing forward! I pray supernatural healing from the inside out and may she not only be healed but may she be made whole and complete in every way. From this she will help many! Tell her don't stop, keep RISING!!❤

    • @cardolynward4856
      @cardolynward4856 5 дней назад

      ​@ashleyrobinson7125 who is your sis?

  • @naomieadair5635
    @naomieadair5635 8 месяцев назад +273

    Mom’s eyes looked so haunted after she heard the result I could tell the moment the event of the trauma started to replay in her mind 🥺
    It almost physically knocked her off balance
    the moment coming out of a dissociative shock this severe is another form of trauma in itself… there’s so much healing needed for the mom and the rest of them🥺😢

  • @TeeCup22
    @TeeCup22 7 месяцев назад +31

    Thank you so much for doing this not only for the daughter, but the mother as well. She probably didn’t even know she needed the help she needed until her daughter brought her on the show. I’m so glad we have different ways to be able to talk about trauma, especially as black people. I pray for healing for everybody. They need it so bad. I hope counseling is in their future. 🤎🙏🏾

  • @Butterfly-lf9xc
    @Butterfly-lf9xc 6 месяцев назад +54

    The way she was pretending to be shocked 😂😂😂😂 she knew . This lady is a witch for doing that to her daughter. She genuinely does not want her own daughter it’s sick and when she started crying with no tears 😂😂😂

    • @V1S10N.
      @V1S10N. 5 месяцев назад +7

      EXACTLY THOSE FAKE TEARS ANND SHE LOOKED AT THE CAMERA WHILE “Crying” 😂😂

    • @KeishaNoCole
      @KeishaNoCole 5 месяцев назад +2

      @@V1S10N. totally agree with yo. that mf was faking the whole time.

    • @angelicsimpson8308
      @angelicsimpson8308 3 месяца назад

      😂😂😂

    • @lifewithnaika_
      @lifewithnaika_ 24 дня назад

      😂😂😭

  • @lovelight8722
    @lovelight8722 8 месяцев назад +676

    Dissociative amnesia is definitely a real mental health issue. I wish a professional psychiatrist had been on board to help transition the mom. And to prove or disprove the diagnosis in the first place. I see some people say she’s acting but I don’t feel like she is… And man the daughter has me crying buckets, you can just feel the pain. I pray healing over her 🥺

    • @ktreshamickens4670
      @ktreshamickens4670 8 месяцев назад +79

      This girl just learned that her mom was dissassociating and her father is a rapist all in one day

    • @sosobeautiful7
      @sosobeautiful7 8 месяцев назад

      Yessss

    • @Montana1015
      @Montana1015 8 месяцев назад +15

      Man please she said she found her daughter then made a speech saying “I’ve been looking for you and you know who you are” while staring in the camera and she knew she was embarrassing herself so she was about to walk off the stage nah she had bad acting like she’s starring in a tubi movie 😂😂

    • @lovelight8722
      @lovelight8722 8 месяцев назад +30

      @@Montana1015 People with either dissociative amnesia or DID can present with changing memories and identity confusion so their brain can protect them from the trauma. They’ll “recall” things that never happened in the first place, it’s called confabulation.

    • @youmakemehappy7
      @youmakemehappy7 8 месяцев назад +2

      ​@@lovelight8722wow, that's extremely interesting! I was researching about multiple personality disorder and its similar to what you're sayinf

  • @brownsugaewing
    @brownsugaewing 8 месяцев назад +409

    I think the mom is definitely suffering from this sort of trauma. The story she created was so real to her that she couldn't find the words to say something to this "biracial daughter" it was like she's been wanting a light skinned baby so long that she invented one. This is so sad and I hope this woman heals from the pain she's endured

    • @brokenchainsofsatan2817
      @brokenchainsofsatan2817 8 месяцев назад +13

      Nah she lied to get the sympathy off her

    • @Yuxxuo
      @Yuxxuo 8 месяцев назад +12

      As a biracial darkskin. I’m Dominican Filipino and Jamaican I’m the darkest in the family and constantly get told by my mom I’m not her kid when I grew distant from her she says “my kid wouldn’t act like this” I know how it feels for this woman

    • @LL-zw2qb
      @LL-zw2qb 8 месяцев назад +17

      A lot of black babies are light skinned when they are first born but quickly turn their actual color. She was so stuck on that she had a light skinned baby that she did not bond with her actual daughter.

    • @jeffrey-Epstein00
      @jeffrey-Epstein00 7 месяцев назад

      😂😂 stop making excuses! Dark skinned blk females are the biggest colorist

  • @sunnydays1423
    @sunnydays1423 7 месяцев назад +9

    I’m so sad for her, my goodness. This is so PAINFUL to even watch. She deserves a happy home and to be loved and embraced

  • @JessicaCalliste-tn3xi
    @JessicaCalliste-tn3xi 7 месяцев назад +3

    I’m literally crying 😭 wish I could hug her

  • @PRECIOUS_PURPOSE
    @PRECIOUS_PURPOSE 8 месяцев назад +645

    That mom knew the truth this whole time. She’s embarrassed and only embracing her to not seem evil but she is. She made it all about her in the end. What a piece of work she is. I see her for what she is. Her trauma made a monster out of her.

    • @aevideos1474
      @aevideos1474 8 месяцев назад +62

      I was definitely looking for this comment she knew that girl was her baby she was just embarrassed of her own daughter smh and on top of that she didn’t even console her right smh a true Narcissist

    • @moniquehandy3764
      @moniquehandy3764 8 месяцев назад +59

      Not a tear drop in sight....😒

    • @pwillis7732
      @pwillis7732 8 месяцев назад +18

      These are the comments I was looking for. I zoomed in looking for the tears too. Wish the best to all involved though, especially the daughter.

    • @proudmganda1159
      @proudmganda1159 8 месяцев назад +5

      No tears 😭 nowoooooooooo for this woman

    • @kaybase6967
      @kaybase6967 8 месяцев назад +29

      Even if there were tears coming from her they would be for herself. The woman is selfish. Most of these comments are defending her. What about the daughter’s trauma?

  • @oceanbella
    @oceanbella 8 месяцев назад +207

    Postpartum depression on top of that type of SA trauma, getting pregnant by the person that violated you and being still a child herself I can't imagine. I feel so deeply hurt that the daughter had to go through all of this 😢

    • @lykasmith2336
      @lykasmith2336 8 месяцев назад

      I wouldn’t give a fuck!! That’s no reason for her to deny her for her skin color!! It’s like she wanted her daughter to have her so called abuser’s skin complexion!! Her tears are fake, and honestly, I don’t think that she was Rxpxd!! She’s using that shit as sympathy, cuz she’s feels ashamed for rejecting her daughter for all this time. That woman was probably out there doing HoeActivities

  • @Lifewithnp1
    @Lifewithnp1 7 месяцев назад +3

    🤣🤣it was the omg for me like girl , yu knew yu came inner telling lies yu knew that she was yo damn baby 🤣

  • @Lifestylebyluna
    @Lifestylebyluna 5 месяцев назад +4

    When she started looking at her after reading the results I lost it🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣lady bye

  • @bbq9777
    @bbq9777 8 месяцев назад +217

    maybe the mom is colorblind because all your kids are light-skinned? 💀

  • @brynnk2518
    @brynnk2518 8 месяцев назад +48

    Was anyone else searching for the light skin when she brought up her other kids ???

    • @RoseTarot1
      @RoseTarot1 8 месяцев назад +2

      Two of them only

    • @michellej4289
      @michellej4289 8 месяцев назад

      yes! 🤔 like where they at?

  • @latoriunvigne3684
    @latoriunvigne3684 6 месяцев назад +4

    She crazy af she knew that girl was her child .

  • @elizabethmumba4756
    @elizabethmumba4756 6 месяцев назад +3

    Immediately she starts crying i wanna enter the screen and hug her

  • @l0rdapophis
    @l0rdapophis 8 месяцев назад +331

    Gonna go out on a limb here for the mother. She GENUINELY seemed shocked, and we not gonna sit here and pretend like crazier things haven't happened before. We've seen the Lifetime movies. We've seen the media coverage. It happens.

    • @kayleegutierrez3513
      @kayleegutierrez3513 8 месяцев назад +33

      She really didn’t seem that shocked, and when she was pretending to cry, there was no tears coming out and then proceeded to say let me tell you some thing to the audience. I can see straight through that shit she is not shocked. What she didn’t want was the responsibility of that baby. That’s 100%

    • @l0rdapophis
      @l0rdapophis 8 месяцев назад +21

      @@kayleegutierrez3513 agree to disagree

    • @deevillarreal9475
      @deevillarreal9475 8 месяцев назад +2

      Absolutely

    • @juliebowes3977
      @juliebowes3977 8 месяцев назад

      ​@@kayleegutierrez3513She was raped at 16,and obviously,blocked it,as when she looked at her,she saw her rapist..That was REAL TRAUMA..on both of them...

    • @jennybell1909
      @jennybell1909 8 месяцев назад +4

      So it’s ok just to give your child up like that instead of finding out sooner

  • @thesugarcase7431
    @thesugarcase7431 8 месяцев назад +261

    The mom looked like me when I lost my brother. I couldn't process anything. All i could do was stare. Shock is something unexplainable. I can't stop crying. May God bless this family.

    • @annatanna3780
      @annatanna3780 8 месяцев назад +10

      Sending you lots of love and hugs. 🫂 I’m so sorry for your loss. I can only imagine and even that’s tough cuz I’d definitely be the same shocked and numb.

    • @thesugarcase7431
      @thesugarcase7431 8 месяцев назад +1

      ​@annatanna3780 thank you ❤

    • @happyme2989
      @happyme2989 7 месяцев назад +2

      I was the same way when my dad died. He past August 30, 2023. His bday would have been Sept 7. His funeral was 2 days after his bday on September 9th. I was in total shocked until I was fainting this lady saw me and came over and fan me, my husband couldn't do nothing because he was in shock 😮

    • @thesugarcase7431
      @thesugarcase7431 7 месяцев назад

      @@happyme2989I’m so, so sorry for your loss. That’s horrible. Grief and loss is something I wouldn’t wish on anyone!!!

    • @jeniselett-stovall6067
      @jeniselett-stovall6067 7 месяцев назад +1

      Me too. I also lost my brother, My sincere condolences for your loss.

  • @HeyTexasItsMe
    @HeyTexasItsMe 5 месяцев назад +1

    Mr. Karamo, the best part of this is that you are offering the family after care. They are going to need it. 😢

  • @meb777
    @meb777 7 месяцев назад +4

    Even if she thought that child wasn't hers, she shouldn't have rejected her in that manner.
    The mother needs counseling too. Damn that child is carrying pain and rejection.

  • @terrypi4758
    @terrypi4758 8 месяцев назад +181

    Hats off to Karamo for this one! The mother had a mental block due to the trauma of her childhood experience, which caused her to reject her daughter. This is why her daughter never got the attention she craved and wanted because, to the mother, that was not her child.

  • @musicmusic6299
    @musicmusic6299 8 месяцев назад +363

    Faceing trauma, shocked and denied her child for years, and then it hit her about what happen to her at 16 a flashback, I though she was going to pass out.
    Kudos to you Karamo you recognize the sign of trauma right away and didn't allow the audience to pass judgment .

    • @jaylaw.6181
      @jaylaw.6181 8 месяцев назад +25

      Yeah her mind over loaded with the thoughts of the past, present, and future. Everything hit all at once

    • @alethiacampbell1365
      @alethiacampbell1365 8 месяцев назад +1

      👏👏👏👏

    • @Antonieojackson60
      @Antonieojackson60 8 месяцев назад

      That lady just doesn't like her because she's big bs she wasn't raped

  • @samanthamudarikwa1100
    @samanthamudarikwa1100 6 месяцев назад +15

    I apreciate the mother's reaction after hearing the the DNA results. She is full of regret...thats a true Mother's love there ❤.

  • @KENJISTORMPRODUCTIONS03
    @KENJISTORMPRODUCTIONS03 7 месяцев назад +31

    This lady did not shed a tear even after seeing how much pain her daughter was in... she starts crying when she switched it up to her own "trauma". Her brother actually looked sad for her.

  • @robinthomas2637
    @robinthomas2637 8 месяцев назад +103

    Not a tear fell down the mothers face

    • @sabrina21clark
      @sabrina21clark 8 месяцев назад +7

      Exactly what I said.

    • @nicoleraheem1195
      @nicoleraheem1195 8 месяцев назад +5

      😂

    • @belizadiakite9938
      @belizadiakite9938 8 месяцев назад +15

      The theatrics 🙄

    • @natashamcwhite916
      @natashamcwhite916 8 месяцев назад +2

      Not one!!! That’s sad

    • @IvanananaM
      @IvanananaM 8 месяцев назад +27

      She's in shock I believe, sometimes tears doesn't come, it happens. She was scanning the daughter face because she couldn't believe it

  • @jazminh1988
    @jazminh1988 8 месяцев назад +95

    not even 5 minutes in and my heart aches for the daughter. i just wanna give her a hug😢

  • @illtrovert
    @illtrovert 6 месяцев назад +1

    Wow, this was such an emotional episode. I hope that the mother and daughter both got the help they needed 💜

  • @zoekingj8686
    @zoekingj8686 7 месяцев назад +3

    The daughter is so beautiful 😍 her mama doesn’t deserve her 💔

  • @Joi004
    @Joi004 8 месяцев назад +402

    Karamo...this episode is a case study in and of itself. I'm in shock from witnessing it! You handled it with so much love, professionalism, patience... This one goes to the top of your best episodes. Thank you for showing us the effects of hiding our skeletons in the closet. My prayers are with those families.

    • @mariahoeven1468
      @mariahoeven1468 8 месяцев назад +2

      Ameen❤

    • @jaylaw.6181
      @jaylaw.6181 8 месяцев назад +23

      In her case, I think the trauma of it caused her to dissociate from the skeleton at all (being so traumatized that her mind wanted her to deny it happened at all). Basically if the daughter actually is hers, then she'd have to accept that the assault did happen.

    • @FREEFORM_LOCS90
      @FREEFORM_LOCS90 8 месяцев назад +1

      YESS

    • @alethiacampbell1365
      @alethiacampbell1365 8 месяцев назад +5

      He done fantastic! Handled this extremely well

    • @Livie_Locs
      @Livie_Locs 8 месяцев назад +2

      Totally agree!

  • @DVWMT96
    @DVWMT96 8 месяцев назад +110

    It was wrong for the Mother to do this but if she really didn’t know or thought her daughter was someone the truth is out now. Her mother was raped and lost her mind and didn’t realize the baby girl she was looking for was right here. 😢😭😢😭

  • @trinafuller5076
    @trinafuller5076 7 месяцев назад +2

    It totally blocked from her memory, that was a coping mechanism, and now it’s its all coming back to her now,praying 🙏🏾are with this family.. raw emotion

  • @invadazim7364
    @invadazim7364 5 месяцев назад +2

    This one touched my SOUL. Bless this beautiful woman Lord. Heal her! Give her YOUR peace and YOUR comfort. Thank you in advance. AMEN! Keep your head up gorgeous. We’re praying for you!

  • @Lelebanks
    @Lelebanks 8 месяцев назад +27

    When she looked in the camera and said that speech LADY YO DAUGHTER RIGHT IN YO FACE😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @ashleyj7011
      @ashleyj7011 8 месяцев назад +3

      That Speech was so fake 💔🙏

    • @lisamichelle6280
      @lisamichelle6280 8 месяцев назад +2

      And she knew it all the time

    • @ayanajohnson2687
      @ayanajohnson2687 8 месяцев назад +2

      😂 Exactly..she started off saying she already found her “daughter” then mins later looking in the camera talking about “you know who yu are” and telling this “daughter” to contact her. Which one is it lady??

  • @erikanorman928
    @erikanorman928 8 месяцев назад +101

    My heart broke when she stared at Karamo for a moment… she felt safe looking at him and even telling him what really happened once she remembered. Praying for this family.

  • @Canadianlove
    @Canadianlove 7 месяцев назад

    This is the best show ever.I don’t need a therapist with karamo I am open to learning right here right now.Trauma is a beast the real devil !God please bless these family 🙏🏾

  • @user-gk6ub1sh5x
    @user-gk6ub1sh5x 5 месяцев назад

    I LOVE Karamo!! He deserves ALL of the awards for his professionalism, expertise and ability to bring families together!!! He DESERVES an HOUR LONG SHOW!!! ❤❤

  • @wiletrastewart
    @wiletrastewart 8 месяцев назад +222

    Wow this story really made me cry the pain from the daughter and the mother genuinely looked shocked but I love how she hugged her daughter even while processing the results I pray healing upon this family 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @ivyonherjourney444
    @ivyonherjourney444 8 месяцев назад +80

    when she said help me Jesus, broke my heart. Been there before ! I hope she heals ❤

    • @michellej4289
      @michellej4289 8 месяцев назад +10

      she is headed in the right direction, she is calling on the right one!

    • @Cheshire_Cat05
      @Cheshire_Cat05 8 месяцев назад +1

      @@michellej4289yesss and he will come through ❤

    • @cinderella2548
      @cinderella2548 8 месяцев назад +4

      Took me right out😢whew chile

  • @JRenee-Sings
    @JRenee-Sings 7 месяцев назад +3

    Ive never seen anything like this!! Just when you think you hsve problems!! Lord, please help navigate this family through this tumultuous storm!!!🙏🏾💕😔
    This is too much!!

  • @pacojoediaz2277
    @pacojoediaz2277 4 месяца назад

    My heart is heavy because it soo close home and I know people dear to me who have been experiencing this trauma. Karamo your a God sent to help people. 😢

  • @JuseeJuice
    @JuseeJuice 8 месяцев назад +73

    I thought the mom was really on that bull ESPECIALLY that speech in the camera. But we literally watched her go right into the very moment her daughter was conceived and that broke my heart for her. It's crazy and so sad how trauma literally is swept under the rug and never to be spoken on EVER. Undrea my heart truly goes out to you and your mom

  • @veneyshiasteele7258
    @veneyshiasteele7258 8 месяцев назад +59

    The mom didn’t even drop any tears. Prayers to that family.

  • @gsanders8535
    @gsanders8535 2 месяца назад

    This had me ugly crying! Karamo handled this with such love and respect for ALL concerned. I hope this family heals from their trauma ❤️

  • @esthermpamba6668
    @esthermpamba6668 5 месяцев назад

    This is by far the most emotional iv seen... i wish them all the best
    Thanks Karamo for doing this for them

  • @feliciawilliams936
    @feliciawilliams936 8 месяцев назад +86

    I think when the mother gave birth mentally, she was ready to love on that baby, but when the hospital gave her her baby back the “UGLY TRUTH” took over her mind so anything associated with the trauma was “UGLY” and she wanted no parts of it. I think if she had a dark skin 6 lb baby even if they would’ve brought her a light skin 9lb baby she would’ve disassociated herself from it. She had a whole mental block, she even contacted someone else telling them she was their mother. I don’t think that was an act. I think that was a mind blowing experience. I think they will heal together because the daughter although she was “unwanted” I think she can now have some answers that can help her heal as well and they can do it together. The mother wasn’t in denial after the results she instantly hugged her even tho she was reliving a traumatic time right before our eyes and the daughter received it with openness.❤️🙏🏾❤️

    • @yasmekawhite2209
      @yasmekawhite2209 8 месяцев назад

      I think she maybe was in a relationship with a light skinned individual and was raped by someone different because she was looking g for the right baby

    • @user-ye5ku2ws6s
      @user-ye5ku2ws6s 8 месяцев назад

      What trauma? That woman wasn't raped, she just wants her best friend's lightskinned baby. She needs mental medication and some truth serum.

  • @Rejynah
    @Rejynah 8 месяцев назад +139

    Mental illness.. trauma.. it’s real.

  • @GoldenAngel-
    @GoldenAngel- 7 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you for saving and reuniting families, God Bless you Sir , please update on this Dear Family ❤

  • @anniebelle5143
    @anniebelle5143 6 месяцев назад +1

    I love this show. This man is the best person to host a show like this. Not just some Steve Wilkos shit where they're encouraging anger and fighting and turning family trauma into a big circus for entertainment. this show is actually helping families and coming to calm solutions. Or at least trying to. Its so good to see someone who cares about the people on his show and actually get them help

  • @myvillagehasnoelders
    @myvillagehasnoelders 8 месяцев назад +198

    I thought this was colorism at first, but once they peeled the onion all the way back, it's clear this mother was telling the truth about the events the way she saw them.
    Her son has the same complexion as her daughter. And she clearly didn't deny him. I don't think this was colorism. She had blocked out the assault, and you can tell the mother realized the assault produced this baby girl, and she can not block the assault out any longer.
    I was so angry with the mother at first, but this particular story goes deeper than what we see at first glance. This is a sad, sad story.

    • @kameralkutie5594
      @kameralkutie5594 8 месяцев назад +27

      This is a prime example of why I’m pro choice.

    • @zeuspagan5946
      @zeuspagan5946 8 месяцев назад +5

      I believed the mom the minute she spoke. This shit is straight out of a lifetime movie

    • @myvillagehasnoelders
      @myvillagehasnoelders 8 месяцев назад +6

      @@zeuspagan5946 This was one of the hardest things to watch that I have seen in a long time. I am so heart broken for the entire family.

    • @destinyani
      @destinyani 8 месяцев назад

      Now it makes sense…

    • @TrajaeBJones
      @TrajaeBJones 8 месяцев назад +1

      @@kameralkutie5594 facts! I agree!

  • @SaidiLouise
    @SaidiLouise 8 месяцев назад +28

    This poor young lady! I'll adopt her. I'll be her mom. I'm only 45 but I'll wrap my arms and heart around her and love her like a mom should.

    • @katrinaholden8183
      @katrinaholden8183 8 месяцев назад +3

      Awwww ❤❤❤😢😢

    • @SierraP
      @SierraP 8 месяцев назад +4

      Well I’m 20 if you wanna adopt me too.

  • @janicecain3746
    @janicecain3746 4 месяца назад

    This show has been doing a very great job helping people connect through DNA

  • @tareslong
    @tareslong 5 месяцев назад +1

    That smirk on her face tells me she enjoys others pain bcuz the pain she holds. No ones pain is pleasure especially if u can empathize.

  • @JordanKeuna
    @JordanKeuna 8 месяцев назад +121

    The mother face after she said “ I’m your daughter “ 😂😂😂😂 she knew the whole time 😂😂😂😂 like give this lady an Oscar 😂

    • @ash00001
      @ash00001 8 месяцев назад +5

      I’m done bro 😂😂

    • @lisamichelle6280
      @lisamichelle6280 8 месяцев назад +4

      For real!!

    • @kayb21
      @kayb21 8 месяцев назад +10

      Maneee this lady was pushing tears out like 💀 she was so dramatic

    • @keniciapatillo5032
      @keniciapatillo5032 8 месяцев назад +7

      Swear she knew the whole time

    • @JessRare
      @JessRare 8 месяцев назад +9

      She didn’t want to look like the bad guy for the whole world to see..yesss she had it planned out and that’s why the daughter was like oh now your story is changing. Just like you said she knew

  • @lalaafleeky1792
    @lalaafleeky1792 8 месяцев назад +10

    Her mother is lying so badly to the point she believe it.

  • @phyllistinetinker9076
    @phyllistinetinker9076 6 месяцев назад +1

    You can tell the mother is in shock, I pray the mother and the daughter gets help🙏🏾

  • @daniellebosket5441
    @daniellebosket5441 7 месяцев назад +2

    I’m so sorry for the girl. I’m in tears cause I can feel her pain

  • @Iamanadover
    @Iamanadover 8 месяцев назад +172

    We need karamo on a bigger platform. He’s literally a angel gifted to the world. I cry every episode now . This episode was the absolute hardest thing to watch😢

    • @taidilla
      @taidilla 8 месяцев назад +2

      I love his show

    • @foxyluee
      @foxyluee 8 месяцев назад +1

      wheww that’s what im saying he’s touched by God honey ! i cry every episode as well i love the compassion ❤

  • @HAZYHEAUX
    @HAZYHEAUX 8 месяцев назад +13

    The brother just didnt know what to do when he went on stage 😢 i felt so sorry for the daughter . Wow this is crazy

  • @Kayla-Lanae
    @Kayla-Lanae 6 месяцев назад +1

    The switch up is crazy😂😂😂😂😂😂 but happy you came to your senses through this 💯

  • @liricoofficial6389
    @liricoofficial6389 7 месяцев назад

    This women is so strong and so beautiful 🥺😭 she has made me cry so much i feel her pain from her Voice and Her Body Language god bless her ❤️❤️🙏🏼

  • @nicoleboger9633
    @nicoleboger9633 8 месяцев назад +185

    Honestly, Ive been through something similar with my mother to the point where my paternal grandma raised me. I am too dark for her and her immediate family. They freeze me out a lot. My brother gets treated like a king because he's lighter. When i was younger it hurt really bad but as ive grown...i realized what the issue is and i just stay away from them. Nobody deserves to be treated like that. There's no excuse. People know what they're doing , they just lack accountability.

    • @jayeb4494
      @jayeb4494 8 месяцев назад +8

      🫂

    • @bohlalenchabeleng1370
      @bohlalenchabeleng1370 8 месяцев назад +5

      🫂🫂

    • @annatanna3780
      @annatanna3780 8 месяцев назад +8

      Sending you lots of love and hugs 🫂 you’re so right to distance yourself. For your own sanity it’s the best thing. I am sorry that’s your reality. I pray it turns around one day. ❤

    • @juliebowes3977
      @juliebowes3977 8 месяцев назад +6

      Not in this case hun...I wish it was different for you..that poor girl,found out she was her mother,and her father is a rapist...

    • @ClayMastah344
      @ClayMastah344 8 месяцев назад +1

      I understand your pain 🫂

  • @Maryxxiii
    @Maryxxiii 8 месяцев назад +40

    😭 I’m so happy, that she grabbed her and hugged her.

    • @lt6664
      @lt6664 8 месяцев назад

  • @e.wilson9613
    @e.wilson9613 7 месяцев назад +1

    His segments are so interesting. I don't know any other way to put it. He comes off like a Therapist or in that arena, it's very soothing, You can see he emphasizes with them, even if he has not experienced what they have experienced. You don't see often in television with Talk Show Hosts. It's healing to watch. :)

  • @NkiruBanjoko
    @NkiruBanjoko 7 месяцев назад +8

    I cried a lot watching this. My mum got pregnant with me while she had a fling with my dad though she was engaged to be married to someone else. Her fiance found out, the marriage was called off. She couldn't stay with my dad because he was married. She wanted an abortion but didn't realize she was pregnant till she was over 4 months. Her period was still flowing normally. She was 20 years old, from a royal Yoruba family and pregnant for an Ibo doctor. An abomination in the 60's then. Having me ruined her chances of getting a good husband. She never did and she took all her frustrations out on me.
    My mum hated me with a passion and didn't hide it. She never accepted me as her daughter. I was a constant reminder of her failure in life. She couldn't finish school, had 6 kids from 5 different men and died 10 years ago lonely.
    My father was my anchor and took responsibility for raising me. It wasn't easy but we coped. I tried connecting with my mum after I finished from the University and got married. It was hell. I was everything she wanted to be and couldn't be because she stupidly had a fling with my dad and lost the love of her life.
    God has been good to me. I'm an elearning consultant, married with 3 lovely children who have all finished university now. It took me a while to get over my mother's rejection and her maltreatment and abuse. I did because I became a christian at a very young age. I struggled with unforgiveness for the pain her actions brought me for a long time. 3 years before she died, I sent her a letter, telling her I wanted to be close to her. I was tired of the friction between us. My children knew her and always wanted to go visiting with her.
    We made up but death took her away 3 years after then at the age of 69. I'm just grateful to the Lord for being there for me. My life would have been in pieces if not for God.

    • @swillztv4052
      @swillztv4052 5 месяцев назад

      Wooow....sis! I can't imagine how that must have been for you. Thank God for Jesus the healer who restores!

  • @bellbadass3771
    @bellbadass3771 8 месяцев назад +48

    I know Undrea personally she is the kindest soul you could ever meet but, you know what they say about kind souls; because of all the hurt and trauma and unkindness she has went through has made her so sweet. The unlearning she is doing and has had to do has not been easy for her but I assure you Pinky baby it’s all gonna be okay, I’m so proud of you keep going your adopted cousin- Andrell❤

    • @iamgabrielhutchinson
      @iamgabrielhutchinson 8 месяцев назад +4

      This is a beautiful message to her. I pray she gets to read this. You’re very blessed to have such a beautiful woman in your life!

    • @user-vq8vs8tg8c
      @user-vq8vs8tg8c 8 месяцев назад +2

      please tell she got people here in africa that heard her story praying for her ..

  • @naomigibson4178
    @naomigibson4178 8 месяцев назад +67

    i've never seen this show, never heard of him... But the amount of compassion had for that family was perfect. Also the way he explained to to audience what was happening was Tier !!!!

  • @sheridandunn234
    @sheridandunn234 7 месяцев назад

    This was so powerful and the best one i seen yet!

  • @2luvdistrini
    @2luvdistrini 2 месяца назад +2

    That mother's shock reaction seemed very real to me. Deep