My wife and I have been married for 33 years ... 11 of that in the Army. Here is what I've learned. Take a break - remember what’s important - stop trying to win or be right (which is the reason most folks can’t let things go) - and learn to laugh at yourself.
"I'm probably going to look like a bum for the rest of 2017 because my husband is going to be gone" I don't think I've ever related to a sentence so much. 😂 my husband just left again after a 10 day leave after a 3 month deployment. we literally got into a fight the next day as well😂
My boyfriend went on deployment two months ago. Sometimes it seems like we don't even talk enough to get into arguments! It seems like people don't understand that we are both doing our best...thank you for your videos. It gives me a sense of community.
you're officially my new friend lol I just found your channel yesterday and ive been watching you non stop and I can relate to a lot with my boyfriend being a Marine thanks girly I know I'm not dramatic when I feel alone yes Jesus is here 😊
Hey Brit, my boyfriend has been at boot camp for 3 weeks now and we have been together for 6 months and I am going college soon. we are serious and I can see a bright future for us. A video of how you know you're ready for a military marriage and when a good time is, would be great!
Was about to comment to let you know I posted one for you haha but realized you commented on it! (: Let me know if you have anymore requested or want me to talk about something more in depth!
i LOVE your videos!! I don't know if you've already done this, I never see ads before your videos though. You should really monetize them since your channel is really growing. I'm only mentioning this since I didn't know to do it years ago when I made my first videos that now have a lot of views. It takes a while to make money really- but why not. You have such great content, and I really love watching your videos. If you've already thought about this and don't want to- I get it, just throwing it out there! Again, great content!! I get so excited when I see you've uploaded.
Haha that's so thoughtful of you to think about that! My videos are actually monetized. I never monetize them when I first upload them to give my subscribers and ad free experience and then I will add some later on. I don't want to be the channel where people are annoyed by the ads but I do have them! Thanks again 😊
My boyfriend is away in Japan we've been arguing the past couple of days after watching this video I just said sorry to him and he did as well Thank you so much
Binging all your videos to help prepare myself. Boyfriend is at basic right now in Missouri. I’m preparing myself for his deployments and all of that now so I won’t be as stressed then. Thanks for the advice. I try to avoid arguing with him when I’m not around him, though.
You’re actually super beautiful au natural!! But I’m the same way xD because my boyfriend is on deployment, I’m just like “heh... don’t really feel like looking pretty until my boyfriend comes home.” lol!
Best thing you can do is write out your feeling in a email that way there’s no screaming or being mean. And it doesn’t waste your short time that he has on the phone That way he can read it and process it and then write back.
😂😂 I thought I was the only one oh my life I know the feeling but I just have a big verbal rant about it, this rant is to myself lolzzz 🤦🏽♀️then I'm over it, then I think to myself gosh so dramatic and laugh about it 🤣🤣 I tell him what I did being angry and ranting out I'm so gonna show my love this he's gonna burst out laughing because that was our first argument over him having no charger 😂😂🙈 but I hate arguing when we are apart so I just remind myself of why I love him and everything feels much better. This is awesome thanks love your videos helps a lot. Soon to be militiary wifey ❤️ #FortRucker#Alabama 😍😍😍
Subscribed to your vlog couple days ago & I been watching all of your videos :). My bf is away for his deployment which is his 3rd or 4th deployment. This is my first deployment while my bf is away & it is hard but I am trying to district myself & do things & watch your vlogs for tips. :)
Hey Brit my mans been gone for nearly 1year now and we had a huge fight yesterday because he said he would be home for my birthday and now he says he can't he said some things that upset me so much and now he's not texting me it's hurting because I want to talk it out with him what should I do I'm not mad at him but feel like he's mad at me
I am sorry that happened. I know how sad you must feel. He may just need sometime to cool down. Something I would suggest for you (because I have seen your other posts) is learning to conquer your emotions without him making you feel better. Sometimes we rely too much on our significant other to make us feel better when really we need to be strong and conquer our emotions on our own. Whether is he gone, sad, mad at you. Decide if you are going to let YOUR sadness control you, or are you going to choose to be happy. If you only have joy when he talks to you, you are going to go on a roller coaster of emotions. Be joyful because you choose to be joyful! Easier said then done of course haha but you've got this!
"You're supposed to be missing me, not getting angry at me" that was the greatest line of this video!
I leave for bootcamp in 9 days... my girlfriend already argue too much over texts... this will help a lot. Thanks!
Haha Glad I could help!
@@BritCon2 can you reply to me please
My wife and I have been married for 33 years ... 11 of that in the Army. Here is what I've learned. Take a break - remember what’s important - stop trying to win or be right (which is the reason most folks can’t let things go) - and learn to laugh at yourself.
"I'm probably going to look like a bum for the rest of 2017 because my husband is going to be gone" I don't think I've ever related to a sentence so much. 😂 my husband just left again after a 10 day leave after a 3 month deployment. we literally got into a fight the next day as well😂
hahah glad we are on the same page😂
oh no! Wishing yall the best!
My boyfriend went on deployment two months ago. Sometimes it seems like we don't even talk enough to get into arguments! It seems like people don't understand that we are both doing our best...thank you for your videos. It gives me a sense of community.
This is my first military relationship . And we meet online and haven't met in person.
you're officially my new friend lol I just found your channel yesterday and ive been watching you non stop and I can relate to a lot with my boyfriend being a Marine thanks girly I know I'm not dramatic when I feel alone yes Jesus is here 😊
My husband came home yesterday from a two year deployment and I'm super excited to be moving to Kanas
I needed this. My husband left on deployment a month ago.
Hey Brit, my boyfriend has been at boot camp for 3 weeks now and we have been together for 6 months and I am going college soon. we are serious and I can see a bright future for us. A video of how you know you're ready for a military marriage and when a good time is, would be great!
if you ever wanna talk about that let me know!! my fiancé and I got engaged over the summer and I'm a freshman in college :-)
awesome! thank you so much for commenting, I appreciate it so much!
Was about to comment to let you know I posted one for you haha but realized you commented on it! (: Let me know if you have anymore requested or want me to talk about something more in depth!
Awesome!! I appreciate it more than you know and it was so helpful!
Thank you for these tips they do help I’m engaged to my sweet fiancé that is on deployment
i LOVE your videos!!
I don't know if you've already done this, I never see ads before your videos though. You should really monetize them since your channel is really growing. I'm only mentioning this since I didn't know to do it years ago when I made my first videos that now have a lot of views. It takes a while to make money really- but why not. You have such great content, and I really love watching your videos. If you've already thought about this and don't want to- I get it, just throwing it out there! Again, great content!! I get so excited when I see you've uploaded.
Haha that's so thoughtful of you to think about that! My videos are actually monetized. I never monetize them when I first upload them to give my subscribers and ad free experience and then I will add some later on. I don't want to be the channel where people are annoyed by the ads but I do have them! Thanks again 😊
Hahaha that's so nice of you to do that! lol sorry to be a weirdo. Thanks for all the videos. Hope you're hanging in there!!
My boyfriend is away in Japan we've been arguing the past couple of days after watching this video I just said sorry to him and he did as well Thank you so much
Oh that is awesome! Glad that happened 💕 😊
You are the cutest! My guy just came back from deployment.
YAY! SO exciting!
Binging all your videos to help prepare myself. Boyfriend is at basic right now in Missouri. I’m preparing myself for his deployments and all of that now so I won’t be as stressed then.
Thanks for the advice. I try to avoid arguing with him when I’m not around him, though.
Found your videos recently and it really helps me... thank you Ms. Britanni ♥️
“Boom!”
You’re actually super beautiful au natural!! But I’m the same way xD because my boyfriend is on deployment, I’m just like “heh... don’t really feel like looking pretty until my boyfriend comes home.” lol!
Thank you! Glad you could relate though 😄💛
my favorite channel! my husband got off deployment not long ago and we are out in washington also!
KeeLee Ellen yay that's so exciting (: awesome! What base?
oak harbor!
Wanting to do a meet up soon with Washington peeps!
Best thing you can do is write out your feeling in a email that way there’s no screaming or being mean. And it doesn’t waste your short time that he has on the phone That way he can read it and process it and then write back.
😂😂 I thought I was the only one oh my life I know the feeling but I just have a big verbal rant about it, this rant is to myself lolzzz 🤦🏽♀️then I'm over it, then I think to myself gosh so dramatic and laugh about it 🤣🤣 I tell him what I did being angry and ranting out I'm so gonna show my love this he's gonna burst out laughing because that was our first argument over him having no charger 😂😂🙈 but I hate arguing when we are apart so I just remind myself of why I love him and everything feels much better. This is awesome thanks love your videos helps a lot.
Soon to be militiary wifey ❤️ #FortRucker#Alabama 😍😍😍
You're amazing!!! I argued with bf.Your video great help to me Thank you.
This really helped me I'm definitely gonna take your advice
You’ve helped so much
needed this. thank you!
I went to that same Kirk Cameron conference at my church in Ft Lauderdale!!! 😍😍😍
That's awesome! He is so great!!
Thank You Girl☺️ i love your videos❤️
Subscribed to your vlog couple days ago & I been watching all of your videos :). My bf is away for his deployment which is his 3rd or 4th deployment. This is my first deployment while my bf is away & it is hard but I am trying to district myself & do things & watch your vlogs for tips. :)
Such👏🏼good👏🏼advice👏🏼
Weve learned arguement puts us to no sleep nights so we highly highly avoid it and TRYYYYYYY to fix things fast. Ugh 😫
I love you omg exactly
Omg baby Samuel in the background
How do you color your hair because my hair is really dark at the top and light naturally at the bottom and nothing seems to blend with it.
I'm fixing to be a military wife and I don't understand why they can't call there wife or send pictures to there wife and can you explain it to me
How long is your hubby gone? Mine is leaving in August for 9 months, so nervous about it!
Mine will be gone for the next two months, be back for 1 month and then gone for 6-8 months. The navy is being cruel to my emotions haha.
Brit+Con they never care about our emotions haha
Are you going to use Space-A while he's deployed? It's free.
WOW! Just looked up what this is! Had no idea it was a thing. Good call.
Hey Brit my mans been gone for nearly 1year now and we had a huge fight yesterday because he said he would be home for my birthday and now he says he can't he said some things that upset me so much and now he's not texting me it's hurting because I want to talk it out with him what should I do I'm not mad at him but feel like he's mad at me
I am sorry that happened. I know how sad you must feel. He may just need sometime to cool down. Something I would suggest for you (because I have seen your other posts) is learning to conquer your emotions without him making you feel better. Sometimes we rely too much on our significant other to make us feel better when really we need to be strong and conquer our emotions on our own. Whether is he gone, sad, mad at you. Decide if you are going to let YOUR sadness control you, or are you going to choose to be happy. If you only have joy when he talks to you, you are going to go on a roller coaster of emotions. Be joyful because you choose to be joyful! Easier said then done of course haha but you've got this!
Laura Wrigley
What was the argument about tho??
how long is his deployment this time? Be strong ❤️💕💃🏻
After this two month one it will be 6-8 months!