10 Tasks We DON'T ALLOW Our Househelp To Do!!
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- Опубликовано: 2 авг 2024
- In this video I share 10 tasks we don't allow out househelp to do.☺️ Enjoy!
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I tried to be a super mom and almost died from backache and creating a habit of being taken for granted where certain chores were concerned. Just what you can and allow help for your health.
Normalise luxury,hakuna trophy 🏆kwa being gd housewife. Enjoy life and do your best for family. Bt don't kill yourself ladies 💘
Thank you....
Absolutely!
Ooh yes
Some people who are just creating content to show off should learn from you. You're educating, enlightening and entertaining.
The learning and the laughing I get from this channel, wacha tu
What about some of these women reel out of their draws and leaving them on the floor and don't even care how soiled they are, and on top of that the husband's draws also in the wash.
How do they show off….
@@MamaChanie love your videos
@@hafsarakki9966 wooow serious,thank you so much,really appreciate it,im still a newbie though 🙏
I love it when you emphasize on kids doing whatever they can on their own
You're just the best
#Motherhood goals
You guys are blessed . I worked as a nurse went to school after work , raised 4 kids, took them to baseball and soccer practice, cleaned the whole house cooked meals everyday and was in the Air Force Reserves with tour of duty one weekend a month and was on call at night for dialysis patients . Sometimes working 24 hours when needed to dialyze a patient emergently. I am 68 and I am finally worn out and was thinking of getting someone to mop my floors and dust since I have a bad back . I really do not feel comfortable with it but I have trouble walking after doing the floors. I hope to get the courage to get help. It is hard letting people in your house . I understand you being careful too.
Best advice ever. Now, how do you help a couple who doesn't change bedsheets for a whole month.. Yes! a whole month. I just felt uncomfortable and changed them... Am a house girl and some of these clean and classy women you see in the streets...... If it were not for househelps 🤔🤔🤔🤔God nifundishe kunyamaza
But it’s not your place to “ feel uncomfortable” for the couple.. it’s their bed. Their house..their filth.. you don’t sleep on that bed. Shouldn’t be your problem
I'm glad you have stated it's some of them,, but there is a way you can introduce them to cleanliness, without undermining or competing with the wife, though I understand some are criminos
N ukweli niliona maajabu in a house
Why are you taking as if it's not normal to feel disgusted? Everyone has the right to feel, is this something that you need to be told?@@user-ho3iz3ig3v
I don't see why you need a househelp since you do everything but your points are good
Don't you just love this lady? Gosh! Her teeth is like wow! So well packed and sparkling. Thanks for the tips my dear.
My mum has always told her daughters and daughter in laws never let your house help enter your bedroom, clean it, clean under wears or cook for your husband. Major 🔑 👌🏾
Don’t wash the panties🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
How do you even give someone to wash your private things 🤔🤔🤔
Believe me I’ve witness this myself… she let the maid wash her husband’s boxers
This is how we're tought from a young age. But some people
Change to the easy life
They think is helping
But destroying their lives...
Thank you so much for
Creating this video.
You cannot compromise these points
Do not allow a househelp to
1. Wash your (husband and wife) clothes
2. Bath your kids
3. Sleep in your matrimonial home
4. Clean your room
5. Cook your meals
6. Sleep in the same room with your kids
7. Clean your bathroom
8. Lay your bed
9. Clean your kids room
10. Check up on your kids at night
Very key.....
Prov 31 spells this out perfectly well.
Kudos for this insightful reminder
Mummy,I concur with you 101% times, we have to start letting our children learn at tender ages!...my 8yrs and 5yrs old twins,also do their own bed, brush shoes, wash their inner wears n fold their own pajamas,... among other things it's good as they learn and grow up more independent in future...
You are such a clever lady and your children are so lucky. Blessings and light to you all.
Thank you Delia!🌺
Well well I can see myself in you .. thank you girlfriend you're so on point .. as you know this word is not for everyone but for that one person .. I tell my daughter's that learning doesn't end until 6fit under .
God bless you and your family ❤️💯
Tell them I'm a house maid and all you are saying I have been doing and you know what girl I always say God is my strength one day it will be a testimony keep speaking you never know who might change much 💕
Team gulf 💪
Mmmmmm, na vile huku they don't care thinking that it's your responsibility to do everything...... imebaki kuwaogesha aki.
God is our strength.
@@gladysmamatwins1019 🤣🤣🤣
Wow! A woman who speaks what I totally believe in! I am definitely going to subscribe and continue watching this channel! Great content and great values!
This is nice for you. If I myself can get washed I will get washed. 🤣🤣🤣🤣
You are under a good rock, everything you said makes perfect sense 🧡💚
You are right on spot my dearie. That is the way it should be, you are showing your hubby love. The rest is the bonus.
When I cook for my family and wash the kids and know where their clothes are na kuprepare clad for husband I feel I am the queen of that household. I don't want to ask hse help stuff concerning my house. I guess am a control freak🤷🏽♀️ but it works for me. Kazi ya help ni usafi tu. Clean house, clean dishes, clean clad. I'll pick the clad from her room and nizipange vizuri kwa room yetu.
Normalise luxurious, hakuna 🏆for being a better woman. Jst enjoy life and do your best
Great video. Some family things are sacred and should not be exposed to others. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Thank you my sister... even though the world is full of... good...bad and the indifferent... you, us...we can still find time to be kind. Love and blessings always
Thanks for emphasising body safety Suzy. No-one should easily touch our baby's bodies. From infancy to teenage hood. They need to know they are respected and valued. You just don't know other people's intentions.
First time viewing your channel, you're a realist, don't mind what people think, it's your life, it's your house, they're your family, you do what you think is best for them. I have watched nannys raise children that aren't theirs and their biological parents don't even know them. Some people for the lack of knowledge is oblivious to what is going on in the real world.
Keep it real sis, you're doing a great job.
Love from Barbados 🇧🇧 ❤
I'm just new here in this channel as a new mum and am loving the content. Thanks Suzy, am learning a lot
Suzzy you've found a lifetime follower here. Yaaani as I'm watching this I'm seeing my complete exact self in you.
In agreement with everything you have said,especially inner wear,bedding
Thanks Mary! 🌺🌺
I just found your channel and I’m already hooked. Apart from cooking in large batches, I’m already doing all the other points. House helps are there to help and not to take on the responsibility of the parents completely. I love your content and you’re so entertaining and pretty.
Thank you Lucy! 😊 Welcome to the family! 🤗💐
Thank you for educating most of us we think we get the help and take them for granted by misusing them to do our personal duties
So true Nancy! 🎉🎉
God bless you mama, am deeply grateful to God for your encouragement 🙏 thank you
5years into my marriage with a similar househelp history, I have learnt so much from this channel and I resonate with so much of your content. These rules are all in my home too. Much love from Zambia. ❤️
Thanks Chimwemwe! 🌺🌺
Everything you said is spot on! Those rules are perfect sense. If everyone saw their children as gifts / treasures from God, then they would probably all treat their children with respect & dignity too. I appreciate your videos so much!! Your such a beautiful woman inside and out!!
Just watched your new home video as well, it's so gorgeous! And I know this probably sounds crazy to you, but your toilets are so pretty too, so decorative!! I live in the US, Michigan......and our toilets are plain white.
And all those beautiful windows! So much bright light, I loved the house tour, so glad you have a beautiful new house to live in!!! Thank you for sharing!💞
Thank you Heather!🤗🤗
You are blessed with a partner who is hands on. Not every one has this privilege.
Very true, some husband's will never ever help out their wives with house chores.
You have clearly had a good upbringing. All of these rules applied in my home and I was blessed to have the same housekeeper for 25 years. Loved this video.
25 years? Woi, what's the secret Kathy.
Suzzy, your suggestions are wonderful and practical and grounded in common sense….which is not so common any more. Keep up the good work!
I grew up with my mom having these same rules for our help. I never had any body even the help make my bed. And I 100% agree about the master bedroom/bathroom.
Awesome Jodee! 🌻🌻
That is true wama ma wangine mpaka towels there husband's underwear hand achieve that is the work of the mother of the house
Great stuff. I like that you are giving a disclaimer.. Because for people who live in small houses two bedrooms where should the helps sleep? Kitchen??????? Many people cannot afford the luxury of Day bug either because of the nature of their jobs.
I advise that beds should not be shared even in small houses. If possible get extra mattresses but let each child sleep alone. When I used to live in a small house I ensured I had a small bed, decker and extra mattress. At some point we( My hubby and I moved to the smaller room so that all the others can be comfortable in the bigger room. I think this is more practical especially when the house is not ensuite and even if it is what is the harm to let your children and people in your house be comfortable.
Well said dear
I agree totally with you suzzy. Very helpful indeed
It is liberating to no longer need a House Help once kids are grown
Totally,
Oh yes Nesa!! ☺️☺️
@@suzyshomestead most of all I enjoy the privacy. Your day will come.
Oh yes can't wait for my babies to be big.
Shukran Suzan for emphasizing this. I also subscribe to the same rules , thanks to my dear mum who also had the same rules while we were growing up. The thing I need to work on is a meal plan...
Most welcome Elizabeth! Your mom sounds great! 👏🏾👏🏾
Sometimes I wish this content existed in the 1990s and 1980s. This definitely fuels my vision to add nurseries, daycare & preschool at the workplace.
Wow this is so human because people if they get the chance they would killed their house help with if they get the chance they would even ask their househelp to wipe their but too an everything you say his true God please help the house help to get someone like you to work with bless you
Suzzy I totally agree with you 100% ...same rules kwangu since this year...I thank my mum for teaching me these rules...I prefer a dayburg
Thanks Ann! 🌻🌻
I just came across this channel and I love it, you sound like you treat your househelps with all the respect they deserve. I wish everyone treated them like this. I like how you say that what you do is your contribution towards the household. I think these women and girls deserve to be treated with love and respect. Good job 👏🏾
The best content have watched in such a long time...keep up mama..am learning alot
Indian women will never do that,it's house help works
I agree with you 80% of the things you mentioned 👍💯 very informative video❤️
Just bumped into your video for the 1st time! Love your energy & humor. And a big FAT Amen to ALL of your points here!
Newly retired teacher in USA. 💗
Thank you Barbara! 😊 Welcome to the family. 💐🤗
I'm not married neither do I have children but I enjoyed this video. You speak with so much passion when you speak of your children. New Subbie from South Africa
Thank you! 😊 Welcome to the family! 💐
Different strokes for different folks . Mine have been with me for years . We even go on holiday together . They are part of my family .
Yes different strokes for different folks
Agreed
Now that's how you treat people...like human being, God bless you..
Beautiful!! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Agreed!!! My mum raised us differently in dealing with househelps and in 3 decades, we only had 3 househelps .. all of whom we are still in touch with .... Out of the points Suzy has said, I only agree with one or two ... the rest I will say ... Do you ... Run and manage your household with respect, love and for those who are christians, with the love and fear of God ... Househelps are human beings whose destiny has crossed paths with ours .... they are a member of the family .... if you can, invest in their children's education, teach (and pay for them to learn) a skill, empower them as individuals and trust me , it will also trickle down in how they are with your children ... its not rocket science ... Strive to be the best human being for your household and the seeds will repay decades to come .... children will learn how to treat helps and even the helps will learn how to work with you, your rules and your children (even if at times they dont get it) ... So yes, different strokes for different folks.
Totally agree with all these, as much as one can its best to apply this :)
Thanks for tips. Very helpful to educate the kids and to avoid problems💯
Awesome , i totally agree on master bedroom being a secret place
Very true girl. 🌻🌻
Wow,,,,l love this l wish everyone is thinking like you..some see househelps like they don't get tired ,some treat them horrible ..they are helping and we need to understand that they are human beings like any one else... thanks for this dear
I love the content and you absolutely got a new follower. I agree with everything there apart from food for the whole month. I am just not so sure how Safe that is. Everything else is just 👌💯
Same here,food staying in the freezer for that long is a no...
This has been my first video i have watched from you. You're sooo interesting. I can't skip watching the meal planning and batch cooking. You win a subscribe already😘
Thank you!😊 Welcome to the family!💐
Great minds think alike 😊
I totally agree with you and that's exactly what I think about househelps
We have to keep boundaries for the love of respect
My dear you are so so right bless your heart say it loud ooo
Wow!thank you so much for this teachings
Wow! How am I just finding this channel? I love what am hearing...also, can't get over how perfect your teeth are!
valid points ..totally loved your content..Interesting
Thanks Tracy! 🌺🌺
Girl! , you are making a lot of sense. Thanks.
Good one. I love your system. But I believe everyone should do what works for. Them
As always Esther 👍🏾👍🏾
Great insights right here. Thanks so much, love you from Uganda
Thank you too Rehemah! 🌟🌟
Mama you are amazing and everything you said is real and very true
We live and learn, I will tryyyyyyyyyy so hard!!! I have been doing all these apart from one or two which am willing to do... Batch cooking is a deal!! Sometimes I come home feeling like an elephant that has been on the rampage!!
I find this video very helpful the fact that I even train househelps and there's been a great transformation on how I treat my househelps-Zambia
Thank you Sabata!🌺
Good video! 👍🏼We are alike in many ways. All these help the kids have great memories about their parents doing things for them n not Maud's or helps doing it. It also promotes bonding. I don't even do live in helps. Househelps never enter or clean my bedroom or anything there. I wash my stuff n beddings too. She can then spread them to dry while to rush off to work or wherever. I cook main meals too. She can do accompaniments like rice or pasta for the stew or sauce I've made for kids when they return from school if I'm away
I love u so much. Commenting from Jamaica u are one in a million . Your house help must be very appreciated of you. Never find anyone real as you
hi suzzy thanks for this..i am a mom to one boy,i have always told my hubby that i will never let my baby share a room with anyone including relatives.. he says i am paranoid and for this reason i have never had a stay in nanny
Already love you ...mum of twins homeschooling and family woman with amazing tips
You deserve a medal girl love your stories
All you are saying is true
Thank you!😊
On bed issue, i make my own bed or leave it that way.
But I also don't think it is such a big issue, we sleep in well made hotel room ,plus the beddings r washed by the housekeeping staff with no much grudges
Hotel staff don't know you personally.
They've never made my bed and yes I don't allow total strangers to sleep with my Precious, Priceless Jewels from Heaven!
Hahahahahah don't wonder
Thanks Suzy. You have nice tips on batch cooking. I liked your wholesome meals preparation videos. On what you don't allow your househelps to do in your house, I agree with most of your practices. Some of us have very tight work schedules, and at times we work 50% away from home. So some work chores we are forced to delegate to househelps. About the master bedroom, safety& security of our children, I agree with you 200% ❤❤❤.
Thank you Justine! ❤️
God bless, tell them, you're the only sensible woman i have seen
I agree with you 100%. Do some things yourself and it helps.
With all what I have heard from your video,allow me take this time to say that i have nothing to say but to pray for you may you live longer to educate them I have a lot to write but let me stop there.stay blessed mama
Wow Suzy,thank you for your teachings,I liked everything you said from 1_10👌👌👌👏👏👏👏I hope you'll come up with more teachings .
I agree with you most especially on the day burg. I grew up having different house helps at home, to cater for my needs as my mum was always busy,that really instilled in me a low esteem and i think i have never been able to heal from that. Thanks for educating us. With my experience, i think am a bit guarded with house helps
Wow , Thanks young Mom for sharing such wonderful tips with other women . I can clearly understand your upbringing was excellent and I honestly salute your Mom figure .Good manners have been instilled in you and I wish all women can learn from such lovely tips . Your tips are highly appreciated and it's what I taught my daughter . Soooo glad to hear such wonderful education from such a young Mom . Well Done !!!!!!!!!!
U r amaizing,be blessed girl u r the best for me.
Thank you so much! 🌟🌟
Chile at this point just write a book 📚! I’m captivated by your practical plethora of happy habitable home 🏡skills !! You are golden 🤩! I’m a one ☝🏾 woman show and true I attest my bedroom and shower /clothes/food are my business . I get day bugs as I get busy/ lazy and that is how it goes on folks ! Great 👍🏾 job ! Jaber !! Oh and the lip colour you are wearing, and your teeth !! Sparkle ✨ white perfect teeth ! Can we take a moment for the face !!!! The hair …. Uuuugh huuuu …, much love ❤️ across the pond 🇺🇸!
Hi I'm from Angola i'm loving you channel são educativos e estou aprendendo muita coisa bjs😘😍😍
Thanks Jedalia! 🌼🌼
I have had a houseboy for four years since i got married . Yaani am very okey. He does everything , cook ,clean etc.
Do you have children? Daughters?
If so....very bad idea to have a houseboy. Bad idea
You are 100% correct on this!
Waw I Love The Way You Think of Your Help as a Person,I'm Jamaican and I've Had some horrifying experiences working with Nigerians
Susy Best lady's Teacher indeed...this clip need be shared vastly... Very informative
Thanks Sakari! 🎉🎉
Bravo you're a blessing
Good job there Suzy if people learnt this...this world would be a better place to live in .
Am really learning alot, am taking notes. This channel should have being there years ago.
Thanks for empowering us especially us that we are going to be married soon...nice content
Thanks Suzy for information, have learnt many things
Finally a channel that makes sense 💝
Y’all with the help are bless, but I do understand I agree
I totally agreed with you.
I agree with you totally 💯 in everything. Pple think I'm weird having a house help n cooking
I 100 percent agree with you Suzzie
Thanks Amina! 🎉🎉
Am 40 wks pregnant n we share the same rules. I even thot am not ok.thenx God you have encourage me more
Niko 28 weeks and you should see me nikipiga duster on my knees na kamimba kamehang NAMI nahema kama mbwa. Hubby anacatch coz anafeel naoverwork Hadi akirudi home from work mapema anamop hiyo room ili nisiifanye. Hse help hutushangaa Sana. But that's the one place in the house where I can have total privacy.
Absolutely correct.
Totally agree with all your rules, coz I do nearly all of them. Except cleaning my room - I spread the bed and tidy up all surfaces, but the help cleans the floor. Great work mama! Yours is common sense management of your household and I love it.
Am feeling to call someone here and hear all this,great advice. I fear these people called househelp, Maina am here to listen to your amaziiiiiiiingggg (your voice 😂🤣) content
They are just human being like you
I love your views and how much respect you have for your help. Your values and excitement for everything you do and for your children is absolutely beautiful. I love ALL your videos, Suzy!
Thank you so much! You're so kind. 🤗🤗🤗
I jst love your contents,always straight to the point.Very educative👊👏
Thank you Gladys! 💐🤗
Great video,very helpful..God bless you ❤