Evil step father seeks parole | the survivor speaks out at his parole hearing
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- Опубликовано: 2 июл 2024
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I am a survivor of child s*X abuse having suffered at the hands of my stepfather from the age of 3 to 12 yrs old. I didn't get justice bc he drank himself to death. This has affected me my whole life and only recently these past few yrs have I come to grips with it. I told my mom but noone believed me. How can a man look at an innocent little girl in such a way. It is repulsive that these men think they can go on with their lives like nothing yet leave the victims life in shambles. Please do not release this man, he has no remorse and looks bitter that he can't get out..
Prayers for complete healing and peace ❤
As somebody that can relate, except one was my adoptive "father" and his brother. Both died one of staph infection and the other of a painful lung cancer death.. I'm so sorry you had this happen to you 😞 *cyberhugs* 🫂 even after 30 years (I'm 34 1/2) its hard sometimes. I know you don't know me but I'm always here to talk ❤🙏🏼
I'm sry.. there's no words that can express my empathy.. I truly wish u can find the peace u deserve
I hope you have the best life now ❤
Are you ok I just want you to know that your more than the crime against you stay strong you will get through this
This man has no clue what he’s doing. He is dangerously ignorant and needs to stay locked up for life.
Waste of a parole hearing, this guy is a lost cause.
how about the 10 years on the list. any child crimes should be a lifetime. this is beyond
Who cares about his hobbies?? What about her mental health?!?!?
She is a survivor😂
She is not
Her mental health will not be affected by his release. This is not about the "victim", this is about returning a citizen to society so that he may turn his life around and be successful and law abiding.
@@tracyt.2534 Right! Like he is going to do this on the outside? Um no!
@@Nightmarefuel66 which he won’t!!
I believe that he will abuse another child. This parole board is out of their minds. It’s disgusting.
Oh my, it sounds like the board member thinks that " treatment" for child sex offenders, works...Unbelievable.
I agree all these stupid programs these parole board are trying to push are meaningless
The fact you think they can't shows how ignorant you and people with your view are... pretty sure there are bad things you have learned from or do you just continue with the bad behaviour? 😅
@@BohemianLifer oh yes programs! Then they ask about well what did you learn and they stutter and stammer! STFU! PERVO!
He’s way off… Somethings off with that dude…
No One home
What is wrong with this board, he lied, he not taking responsibility and they think he is safe in the community. Ridiculous. When he reoffends, they should be sued
1000% agree
The look on his face when they are reading his daughters statement, tells me everything I need to know!! He has ZERO REMORSE
“Were you and the mother having problems?” What kind of bullshit question is that?!!
I bet if this was their 10yo daughter that this happened to, they'd feel differently.
I can't say what i really want to, because you know... RUclips.
He should be under the prison!
Edit: they all have the same pat answers. They talk to other prisoners and know how they should respond ahead of time.
We agree with what you can't say...
Im 59 years old. I was 4 when it happened to me. The trauma will impact every aspect of her life. Im so sorry for her 😢
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@@madamaurore3563 55 years and you are still dwell8ng on it...🤣
@@WoodysOpinion101Abused people don't need to 'dwell on it'---- it's there regardless!!!
@laragara it's an easy way out to play victim for the rest of your life... I myself know that doing that changes nothing and only prevents us from growing as dwelling on the past changes nothing... we grow by facing our fears and dealing with them...
@@laragara@WoodysOpinion101,csa victims do not dwell on the assault,but when a child/young adult is violated in such a manner it will effect them the rest of their lives. It's not something that will ever go away, and each victim will have "triggers " unexpectedly and that is what SA victims have to learn to overcome. The evil of "S.A triggers" " is never knowing when,where or how severe the panic,fear,despair,hate, anger,depression, etc will be. SA victims have to learn to live in a "fight or flight " mode and it gets very exhausting. Some victims get better and adjust as they get older, some gets worse. You or no one can tell a sex*@l trauma victim how to deal,act, think or feel. G*@pe by family or friend against a child is the most vile and disgusting act that can ever be committed. I hope you seek help for your evil act/grape against the one's you are suppose to love and protect. One day you should beg for their forgiveness .
Namaste
What's wrong with his daughter, bringing him into her 4 and 11 year olds' lives??
They're probably in the cult too. If they are JWs also then they believe he fell victim to the child seducing or tempting him. A 10 year old girl that sits too close to a man or has her dress accidentally ride up is just Satan out to get the men in their church.
Sexual abuse is acceptable in this family . That is why she wants him around her children.
@@ursulatroxler7428 noooooo egads horrible
@@ursulatroxler7428you are a clown😂
Denial.
The board didn’t take the victim into consideration. That’s sad!
But she is a survivor😂
@@WoodysOpinion101 That’s supposed to be funny to you I assume. Glad it helps you to feel better
What is up with these parole board members? There's multiple videos of child sex offenders being unremorseful, entirely denying guilt or saying some of the accusations are false. Victim statements wishing for no parole. And these people grant them parole almost every time.
Wish there was an answer to that question.... It's as if the victim's statements do not mean anything of value. I see it as a slap to the face of the victim.
The parole board job is to lookout for the best financial interest of the prison/jail system. Too many prisoners makes it difficult for the prison system to be profitable. That's why they really don't care about the victims, punishment or rehabilitation.
22:15 he has NO idea what this weirdo board member just asked him. I'm just as confused 😊
@@zarbon700 No. Private prisons are paid per inmate.
This is why I don't trust anybody around me. I found 10 molesters at my company. Albeit there are over 1000 employees, it's still sickened me, knowing I joked around and talked to some of these sick men.
As a survivor of CSA, I am absolutely appalled that this sex offender is already considered and discussed for parole...are you kidding me? He would benefit services within the community? Beyond disgusted by this board...and the "review" (if that's what you can call it) process. You can't make this insanity up. This is an inept board!!!! He was confused? Lonely? To the survivor...I am SO SO sorry...you were not served ANY justice...and please, PLEASE forgive yourself whatever you need...you truly have nothing to forgive...as a child, you did the best you could. Wishing you an abundance of loving blessings.
The look on his face during her statement
They make me sick
Me too
My stomach just turned many times with this total insanity! 10 years old omg!!!! I pray for peace for the victim. May God grant you healing. My heart goes out to you. This man is a very sick person and should never be let out!
He will do it again. He will be back
Says who? You? Your opinion means nothing.
@@Nightmarefuel66I think you are just trolling, nobody is that dumb.
That is an absolute slap in the face to the survivor. She was slapped twice by the prosecution and now by the board, this makes me sick as hell.
These “programs “ seem to only teach how to say what they think the parole board will believe. I have not seen one offender sound or look sincere in their answers. This guy had me losing brain cells listening to him. Wow
Another example of what I always say, Wait till the victim statements & get a glimpse of the true evil lurking in these individuals! He was making faces and so angry! Because she’s in power now not him!
This parole board is PATHETIC!
His scoping skills are better…Fruedian slip
I caught that too😳
Omg, I have to rewind to make sure I caught that correctly 😳
@Mandoo I loved you speaking to the Survivor. It's possible nobody has ever told her that, "it wasn't her fault!"
I hope that her or anyone else that need to hear those words, will find your channel and reslly listen.❤
Amen, she was a little girl, she didn't stand a chance against him. None of it is her fault and it was someone else's job to fix it for her. But, this is what every victim of these crimes feels. Abusing a child this way permanently alters their there way of seeing things. It is so sad, but I hope people believing her helps.
I hate evil stepfathers 🤬😡😡
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Maybe you should just hate evil and stop putting a qualifier on it.
I hate evil stepmoms
@@DC4L_86same here!!
@@christking85 hillarious that you would say that when Christians are the biggest ones who use hate and fear as tools to get follower's
Granted … wtf just happened this is cruel to the victim .. this board should be SACKED ASAP.. how do they sleep with that decision and it was the dam MALE who granted in favour first I hope you do not have daughters sir what a let down if so
I’m crying for the victim right now .. to let you know I am outraged as many many more people are at this moment…
Wait…. So a cockroach in prison can get SSI but I had a ruptured aneurysm and I’m still waiting for an answer after three years?
Sadly we see this all too often.
Sorry to hear that
@@sdkkreations3689 ty for the kind words. It was a hard road back.
@@Mandoo_TWO it’s a little infuriating
@@sdkkreations3689 thank you. It was tough but it taught me a lot about myself and other people.
THAT KILLED ME! When the poor victim blamed HERSELF! And they ALL LET HER! She was an innocent little girl! I'm so upset that no one told her to stop! BLAME HIM! Not the poor little girl.
They shoulda read this guys paper and sent him back to his cell
This parole board just created another victim who has no idea what’s headed her way
This is infuriating and mind blowing in so many ways. The one board member says he seems to have some insight...🤨 Insight!?? One of the first things this creature said was something like..this was the first time something like this happened to me..happened to you!!?? And he accused the victim of lying! Plus his face and body language while she was speaking!? But yet he is a good candidate. He should have had a longer sentence to begin with! This just breaks my heart for the victim. It seems like she may have some unresolved guilt and anger towards herself the way it is. This isn't going to help at all.
And yeah..the ss thing 🤬 they are saying by 2035 there will be significant cuts across the board that will mainly affect those who are retired. Yet they are still taking it out of our paychecks so roaches like this can sit on their lazy butts living off the gov and preying on some poor working single mom who needs child care..🤬 bloodboiling. And they think its ok for this creep to go out in society. 🤦♀️. Hats off to the victims grandfather who gave her such wonderful advice. Hats off to her aunt who tried to intervene where she could.
He says his excuse is “he was lonely”??? And they let him out. I pray for this young lady, I pray her healing is empowering.
I don’t trust that guys look’s he’s just blowing and shrugging his shoulders like he doesn’t care .
It’s like they aren’t even listening! At this point I’m convinced they let people out for other reasons than what we think.
BINGO, Fruit! I'm thinking the state does not want to expend the $$$ to house him. What do you think?
Abuse a child = Parole
Yup
If someone is eligible for parole, so be it.
@@Nightmarefuel66The point is---- they shouldn't be
@laragara On what grounds? Thieves, robbers, murderers, drug dealers, etc can be eligible. But not people who do sex crimes? How hypocritical of you.
@@Nightmarefuel66 There's no hypocrisy in a single comment with a single view on single subject---- you're making assumptions
Children are not important.😢
Oftentimes, neither are women.
He’s slimy and gives me the creeps. Un-frickin-believable.
Did he just say NEXT TIME it happens he will JUST SAY NO?!?
I'm getting "he is Legion" vibes from this demon. He just keeps repeating his memorized all-purpose response.
I have to say the interviewer seems to be an unpleasant person in comparison to the Louisiana board members, and I'm totally fine with that in this instance.
That child is in danger. Did they not see the look on his face during her statement?...
Why does he need to work if he is on Social Security Disability?
@@app1mxh I think it is a parole condition that he have a job. Probably an "idle hands are the devil's workshop" sort of reasoning.
You can work part time on SSI.
Absolutely despicable.
I felt like as tho I've been living in a twilight all by myself for so many years. I practically drove myself crazy for my young 7 - 9 year self that actually took the stand. He got 6 yrs was out on "good behavior" in less than 24 months.
This was in the early 90's. He reoffended 2 months later after be released. One would children ARE the most "vulnerable" and the State/ prosecutor would not only prosecute to the fullest extent of the law, but keep these POS in there to complete their full sentence. I'm a new subscriber and I appreciate you forcing us to take the blinders off and look at the complete injustice and f**ry that these people get met with. Unbelievable, really.
Are you kidding me. They granted his parole???? We women gon' have to demand our congress to do something. These men dont gaf about us. We stand idly by while they control our lives. This has got to stop. Now!!
Remember that when you vote. They don't want to protect us. They don't want us to control our own bodies, and if they get their way, we will have fewer rights than a dog. Go look up Project 2025. Look at the Republicans who want to eliminate birth control!
Wait until the "fake christian-nationalist" get their way. You think we have no rights now we'll have absolutely none then.
How does this have anything to do with men? There were two women on that board. One of which, spoofed him the appropriate responses when he could not elaborate what he had learned in his sex offender treatment program.
I've watched a number of these videos and I notice that the boards are often comprised by a majority of women. So perhaps you should be looking at women and saying the same things about them?
There were two women on this board.
How is this somehow men's fault?
Don't get with these types of people then or make your original relationships last and you won't have this problem...
Its actually disgusting how these boards will deny parole for people who committed crimes in their teens or early 20s & have been in prison for over 20yrs for theft or drugs, yet grant parole to grown adults fathers, teachers, priests etc who've only spent less than 5 yrs on sentences that were already so outrageously minimal
The common factor I've noticed among the majority of these offenders is the lack of empathy. The men usually don't seem to see their crimes from the perspective of their victims. They say things like, I was lonely, we were both taking our meds as though they were 2 adults together but it's a child--for whose safety the offender was responsible. How is it a little girl turns him on? Why not adult women? When the victim made her statement, Andreas shook his head and snorted. It was obvious he didn't take responsibility for his actions. But in general, these men seem to have NO real understanding or feeling for the horror and wounds their actions have caused. Why? What is it that prevents them from seeing these kids as little humans as valuable as they are?
I literally just found your chnl today and I sit here shocked. Stunned, honestly. My ex had a horrific upbringing, but it was a child that saved him, his ex who already had a little one, it was him basically caring for her, protecting her and being the father figure she didn't have. He is very protective over children, it's adults he's not very patient with. And because of that he got himself into trouble, a lot. He also struggled with addiction forever.
That being said, he recently had a case he was closing out that had to do with a man not being very nice to his mother, long story, but my ex got fed up...and in the end, he got himself a case and ended up in jail for half a yr. He said he has NEVER seen anything like what he seen this last time around. He had kept himself out of trouble for a good 10 years & back then there was a good amount of these kid touchers, but they were kept in PC & you would be charged with a hate crime if you messed with any of them. This time he said basically every other person is child diddler or skinner (nonpermissive penitration, if you know what I mean)...he was shocked bc they're also in general population with everyone else and you WILL get put in the hole & possiblly charged if you touch one in an unfriendly way. He found out bc he didn't care and gave street justice to one of them & was put in solitary for 2 WEEKS! He just couldn't believe HOW MANY people are just gross. He said it was to the point where you just couldn't even talk to anyone bc eventually someone else would ask why you're talking to a diddler bc they also lie about their charges....it's just mind blowing, like .....wtf is happening to society?
It always makes me think of Rat Utopia experiment 😮 and that's a scary thought.
Welcome to the family and thank you for sharing. ❤️🩹
Cannot believe he was granted parole. He didnt even accept responsibility for his actions! Hes a disgusting child abuser and should never be released 🤬
Poor poor girl who suffered at his hands. I feel for her so much. She is a beautiful being ❤
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His daughter is his accountability partner. He's CLUELESS.
Why would his daughters need HIS help?
More than likely he needs them and wants to use them.
Because he's her father? Duh
@@Nightmarefuel66more like HE needs HER help!
Child care? Heaven forbid!
Did he say he will attend a Kingdom Hall? If so, he will have easy access to children. His history will very likely be covered up as per JW rules. Scary.
Yep, that's what he said. Pedo paradise, they will welcome him back and he will find another single, lonely sister with little girls. I'm sure it is not his first or last time. The cycle will continue.
Yup. As long as he doesn't molest a child in front of another person.
That's what I hated to buy im not familiar
@@Mandoo_TWO Unfortunately yes. I don't know if he was part of the religion when this happened or converted in jail, but they have have doctrine and policy that makes it very easy for the roaches to do what they do. If you want a glimpse, look up Jehovah's Witnesses and CSA.
My many rants on here come from two places. My wife, who was not a JW, was a victim of her father. Ironically, in CT. But you won't see him on here, they never prosecuted him. Secondly, I was a JW and witnessed multiple times where these people hurt kids and got away with it. Sorry I'm not as good at censoring my language as you but it really pisses me off to see this
@@Mandoo_TWO What @willj1598 said... Also, there is a huge investigation in PA that has been going on a long time. The cover-ups are horrific and destroying of documents/evidence has been going on and is taught by the organisation. One of the biggest investigations was by the Australian Royal Commission in 2015 which included JWs but JWs (in general) will say the court videos and transcripts are doctored and that they are being attacked. This is brief but there is a whole can of worms when you really examine what they say and what they actually teach. The public in general won't catch on to this stuff as they don't understand how high control groups/cults work and indoctrinate.
Does anyone really believe sexual offenders can change their behavior?
NO. Personality disorder are fixed
The core person 🧍 never change.
They can manipulate or manage the sex addiction. But it’s life long situation
I don’t
Absolutely not
No
they can through mechanical therapy if you know what i mean
I never thought the first one would get parole especially because he got such a short sentence.
This dude said he violated his step daughter because he was lonely. He is going around people that have protective orders against him. He is a habitual. Offender he will not change.
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His facial expressions during his step daughter s impact statement tell us how he REALLY feels….deny
Wow, just wow. The board is freaking insane.
I'm sure he laughed the whole way to his cell.
Criminal history should not matter! This one charge is ALL YOU NEED TO KNOW!
He is a monster and if you parole him your as guilty as he is.
If you lonely go get a pet…
R u serious!?!?! Hide your kids everyone. There should be criminal charges for the parole board and DA when he does it again! THIS IS CRAZY!
“And like I said, I have a lot of scoping skills that I have developed”. Sir we believe you
I understand everyone’s concern here but I think the issue is not with the parole board. The sentence was offered from the District Attorneys office and signed off by the judge. The parole board has no say in that. They can only do what the feel is best for the community. Since this guy only has 2 years left, he can literally just say, “screw all treatments” and get released without being required to address his mental health issues. That’s definitely more dangerous to the community than to parole him now and require him to continue treatment. I fully understand what he did was wild but remember that the parole board cannot increase his time. He had just two years left and he’s out if he decides to refuse all treatment that the prison has to offer (which is not much).
No I am not defending him… These are just my thoughts. Please do not attack me…..
WTF!!! Were they not looking as his facial expressions when the victim was talking. He had no empathy, remorse, he was agitated that she was even speaking. They need to lose their jobs. They need to look at body language as well as what he says and doesn't say. Simply horrible.
Thanks for bringing these hearings to us.
He was confused & lonely!? He SA'd a child because he was confused & lonely!?? Get a pen pal, take a walk, take a nap! Don't SA a child!
This is the first time this has happened "to me".
This didn't happen "to" you.
You're not the victim.
They clearly have a quota! He will reoffend!!! To the SURVIVOR: it’s NOT your fault! It’s 100% his fault!
He said he was “confused”
Oooookay👌👌👌👌👌😂😂😂😂
Thank you Mandoo. 💖
This hearing, I'm appalled.
Life. No parole. Period.
That was horrible
No hope for this bloody monster
"I WAS REALLY LONLEY AT THAT TIME"!? WTF REALLY? *NOPE*
Using a 10 yr old to satisfy his "loneliness"!!!
It makes me so sad that a CHILD feels that they should have 'noticed the signs'!!! NOTHING should be further from their innocent minds!!!
Sont worry pal, nobody is going to ask you to babysit on Friday nights
They have to ask him if he completed the offender program and they take his word that he completed it? Unbelievable - absolutely unbelievable. And many of the other questions are painfully dumb or show utter incompetence. The one moron asks him about the trauma inflicted on her - how about the trauma inflicted on her by this board treating him with kid gloves and clearly not caring about her? Where does the state of Connecticut find these people? They must give some kind of test and only take the worst scores - somehow Ms Turner slipped through because she is the only one with a lick of sense. I worked with some pretty dumb and stupid people in my life - even they were more intelligent than the people on this board, other than Ms Turner.
I'm disgusted by their decion and by the sentence he received. In Louisianna if one board member votes against parole its not granted. That should be across the board for all states. Why isnt it?
I have to agree I would not let this man go. It’s way too soon!
U can see the childishiness, secretivness, and greediness all over his face
"This has never happened to me before". Not acknowledging that he is the one that has done something horrible to an innocent child.
Disgusting. No rehabilitation possible. Period.
If I was that girls, father, he would be safer in prison I would let it be know if you come out of prison I’m gonna be ready to lay down forever
We need to reopen the mental hospitals to protect the community and make sure they take their medicines. I do believe the mental hospitals need to be scrutinized a lot more just like every other government agency.
🌺🌸❤Mandoo l love your Passion you have for these innocent children. I Hope you Catch The Ear Of Someone Read what you have especially on this Guy
Dudes Family is Gonna Find Out how HARD ITS GONNA BE KEEPING HIM ON THE 😢 NARROW LOVE YOU MANDOO AND THANK YOU RICHARD FOR ALL THE HARD WORK YOU DO I REALLY APPRECIATE ALL,THE INFO 👍👍👍👍
Way to tell a victim that she doesn't count---- disgusting!!!
Infuriatingly this is all too common
Wtf is the point of victim statements if they’re clearly not going to take them into consideration?
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He believes this happened to him. That says it all.
He is what nightmares are made of.
Pent, repent, pentitentury penance
Prison
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Come on you guys, cut em a break. He was confused.🙄😒
That is unbelievable that is a slap in that little girl face and her parents face that is a slap in the face
I am so angry and just shocked at the ignorance displayed here. Why does this happen for them but the nonviolent people are kept in prison!! When he does it again, it will be THEIR fault and they should be in there with him!!! This isn't a game!!!!
They actually GRANTED him parole???!!!😡. They’re getting as bad as LA and it’s a slap in the victims face!!!!!! Shame on you Parole Board!!!😡
Holy shit! I’m almost speechless at the way these parole interviewers think. They either really believe these monsters change or they are idiots. I can’t believe what I’m hearing right now! This is beyond crazy to me! It’s hard to watch because it’s making me so angry!
He was so not interested in what he did. What about the next time he gets "lonely"? Zero accountability. I'm a 71-year-old woman who was sexually assaulted in my 20s and to this day, I am still haunted as my mom was and my sister is. No one really gets it unless they are a lucky survivor as I am.
Did u catch when he said ,when i got caught. Like as if he offended before.
He said the R only happened once and the victim said the abuse on on for quite awhile. I believe the victim.
❤ for the survivor
He lies like they all do
Are you f-ing kidding me!?!! Oh this one pissed me completely off!!! I'm pissed!!!!
Go cry and blog about it turd. He's getting out. Tough crap 😆
"This never _happened_ to me before"---- makes me soo angry!!!
This was outrageous!
And he wasnt even trying to hide it!!!!! They KNEW they were going to let him out! It didnt matter what he said or did!!!!! There is some kind of motive for them to keep letting these people out and keeping the nonviolent behind bars. This is insane