Honestly the type of dude that hangs around a girl when they’re in a relationship “waiting their turn” are actual scum bags. Especially if they act like your friend, learned that the hard way when me and my ex broke up and dude started acting real different towards me.
Thats how some of my old friends acted towards me. They started saying stuff like PDA when I was walking with her during PE. I think this is a good example on how to find the friends , they get along with ur friends, but they also understand that you are devoted to the girl, but will still spend time with them.
This describes my so-called friend Josh to A T even though she claims she's not attracted to him (he is noticeably ugly and a slob tbh) I'm not buying it other unrelated females that claimed they weren't attracted to him banged him and probably for money or out of desperation or pity. 🤔
@@Sodainspace yea bruh she said zero. then shes like well im friends with all your friends. what she saying zero for then😂. guess she never came across a guy before
At the end of the day it’s about respect. There are some female friends I’m kinda attracted to but I know we wouldn’t be a good match and realize it’s human to be attracted to other humans
Same red flag for when a man has too many women friends - it goes both ways - the measure is to heal toxic wounds and ways - grow up before entering into an exclusive relationship and /or marriage Then you develop trust and true friendship that will support your efforts to remain honest in love - whatever that honesty looks like for you two
A girl can have 1 or 2 guy friends if they've known each other for 5,10,15 years & he's proven himself to be a solid respectable dude & got his own thing going on i.e a girlfriend/wife kids etc but if it's just some guy she's known for 10 minutes then that's not acceptable.
Don’t fall for this. I have a friend that’s a guy for 7 years and 2 years ago he confessed that he wanted to be more than friends and had been feeling this way for a long time.
I was the only guy friend to a really good girl friend. We knew each other since we were 4 years old. Her ex didn't want her to talk to me. I never understood why. But oh well me and her are getting married soon :). " Guy friends" don't exist
Yess when I fell in love, I automatically stopped going to guys where I felt there was some tension coz I got my guy. I wanted to 100% give him my attention and he deserved to be secured so all doubtful, mixed signals were out of the door.
Good girl & it's best 2 not have guy friends when in a relationship or married & I have a boyfriend myself & I don't have guy friends either & i have some tomboy ways
Yeah I have a ex-girlfriend who thought it was cool to have guy friends and thought it was okay that she hung out with them alone and thought I should be okay with it then when I speak up about it she tries to Gaslight me about not trusting her well bye bye to her
@codyhahn9849 She posted a video with a guy on her WhatsApp status blushing and smiling and wishing him a birthday and calling lovely friend. I complained, and she called me insecure and humiliated me emotionally. I have never recovered from it
If a girl has guy friends she hangs out with 1 on 1 dump her and don't even second guess yourself. I'd rather be single than the mental torture of wondering if she is gaslighting me and cheating on me or not.
This is right, I saw a girl upset at one of her guy friends for trying to ask her out and did things for her, by the way the girl already had a boyfriend
I got used one time when I was younger. Like 19. And it was just like the way you said. She was in deep but never committed. She wound up dating and pretty much marrying a guy that she had always said was ugly. And a donkey too. ❤😂
Lol I hate the “They have never tried to sleep with me” or “they never tried anything with me” and that’s when I say “Yet.” And guess who’s right 😎 stay up my brothers!
Exactly man you are so right. I have one right now saying she known this guy for 10 years I don’t give a fuck. And I told her you shouldn’t be running to this guy if we have an issue about anything. I’m the guy and I don’t trust him at all. She said don’t worry about him Um no fuck that. I’m not stupid.
@@joanderson4568 I guess my rule was not severe for now we are still together but like , guy friend u know for a while before i meet you i am okay they didn't manage to get you so not a real threat , but the new one after u are dating me is a no no
So id say i struggle with building up the confidence to be more friendly with them cause I’m friendly always yah know but I feel like i need to build my mental toughness when it comes to knowing what i want and going after it yah know, also being more confident in myself like if she says no and doesn’t want to go out how to get myself around other masculine guys and build up my support or yah know build up my mentality
This girl asked me out to lunch. I liked her and we had some good conversation and laughs. One day I visited her fb page and knew this would go nowhere. She had a lot of male friends, and I figured I was just another guy.
@@RomaRodriguez-oh8gj in this generation yes!!! Too many people getting cheated on left to right! Same goes for us, we have a female friend, it could potentially be a red flag 🚩
@@RomaRodriguez-oh8gj and this is just my personal opinion about it! Once im in a relationship… im gonna treat my girl like a queen!!! And I’m not gonna have ANY female friends around me because its disrespectful and inappropriate as a relationship
@@YoGordon actually I did that I removed lots of male friends but still he left me but my ex has a lot of female friends on social media 🤣🤣even if he didn't know them still he added them😅
Personally I’m a girl best friend I’ve known him for since preschool and people always think it’s weird that I’m friends with him and that he’s my best friend but I’m bi so THE SAME LOGIC CAN BE USED WITH MY GIRL BEST FRIEND but nobody ever comments on that
Man i have been fr tha exact piece of the puzzle, I didnt like ur views much but this is golld, i think ur content is getting real now. GOLDEN QUESTION: what to do if gf is like that, leave her or what
this issue is a little touchy. I have seen girls be friends with a guy for 5 years and once she gets a man she completely dumps the friendship. when she breaks up with her boyfriend she comes back trying to be friends again (this also happens with guys). I feel like if we're looking at it like this even your friends are waiting to get with you girl lol
She doesn't need outside guy friends when your guy friends are her guy friends she's got the same pool, but now they're even closer to you and you know the other guys yourself. So they're both bad scenarios, and on top of that it's even worse that the selection she has, is from your own friends.
Okay you’re probably 17 now…don’t let this scare you but I’ll share a statistic with you. Before the age of 30 women tend to be more promiscuous/non-committal. After the age of 30 the trend flips to men…
My gf of 3 years started talking to a guy behind my back as "friends" that I knew wanted to get with her and I told her. 6 months later she breaks up with me for being toxic when asking her to block him. She's with some other dude now
That's not a male friend dude he was a backup option, if they don't know them before they meet you or have not known them for a few years prior then can't be classed as any type of friend.
That’s number one in my book because that was biggest regret trying to respect her but not putting hands on him even tho the situation itself was disrespectful to me lol
Oftentimes I be at my parents house and she'll video call me and put my 'friend' on the phone who is also her 'friend' he's ugly AF and she claims she's not attracted to him but always get this funny feeling like something ain't right 🤔
I’ve seen it with so many women. And I’ll admit I’ve been there as the guy. We don’t just want female friends. We are looking for a partner. Just gotta be honest.
My bestfriend is a girl! 👌 i just love listening to her talk about boys, playing tennis/football with her, and letting her spill her emotions to me now and then! Im know other men will think less of me, but im sorry! Talking about "the game" in the same stupid pub every weekend doesnt appeal to me! Helping my bestie pic cute outfits ETC just appeals to me more! My male friends would joke if i passed away, my girl friend would cry for weeks! Think what yall want, theres no romance betweem us! Nd i wouldnt drop my bestie cas any man thought i was plotting 🙂
Why do you want these female friends for? You think it’s disrespectful to be hanging out with a female friend even though you have a girlfriend/wife? It is.
Be happy to be with a woman or men that feels disgusted by friend that feels they have a chance with you aka not a real friend with genuine intentions.
Idk I like having girl friends, they usually wingman with their hot friends, but yeah if she has guy friends that are basically waiting for their chance - it's a red flag
i have one guy friend that hang out w here n there but we don’t talk often as someone i always be around w. hes definitely not onto me as he is sleeping w another girl
she still talks with her ex because she wants him to do tattoo for her for free. They broke up 4 years ago and he got a fiance now but this is fuxked up for me, she told me she will dump him after this tattoo but like wtf. She has like 2-3 guy friends, but one of them literally told her he wants to be with her, she openly friendzoned him but they still talk and hang around. I asked her 'what if your future boyfriend would want you to cut off these relations with your ex and guy friends?' and she answered with 'He should take me as I am, and relationship is about trust' we've been seeing each other for 2 months now, shes nice and cool but these fuvkers stand in the way. I want to state my intentions clear that if this is going to be a serious relationship between us, she needs to cut them off, otherwise I wont care as much, just keep banging her from time to time and keep it a casual 'situationship' if even so. I dont know if 2 months isnt too soon to make these kind of statements, and should I wait a little bit longer to see how the things will work out?
I figured this one out the hard way, but I'm thankful he took her off my hands because now I'm doing far better than before Less stress and can focus more on myself
I cannot say I agree... men and women can be friends in a non sexual manner. Yes, many men do wait to see if a woman breaks up with her man person, but it is not always the case.
I have to disagree with you on this one. Friends are friends, while partners are partners. If loyalty exists in a relationship, having friends from each gender is totally fine and shouldn’t raise any worries. It just doesn’t seem right or mature to end your friendships, guys or gals, just because you’ve entered a relationship….
How naive can you be? If your girl's guyfriends secretly want to fuck her, waiting their turn to make a move on her, that's not "friendship" to begin with. I wouldn't want my girlfriend constantly hang around people that would be happy to replace me. A woman like that is just a bad investment.
Yep men and women just cannot be friends! There are just some guys that hang around for an opportunity to get with the woman. They even wait years and think that if they stay long enough then they will be able to wear her down and she will cave eventually. Instead of counting their losses and moving on, they hang around. Men know other men and if she has guy friends then she shouldn't be in a relationship. You can be acquaintances and cordial towards to guys, but it doesn't mean you should be their friend.
You are so wrong 😂 I have mostly only guy friends and they have zero romantic interest in me and I have zero romantic interest in them, we are buddies and I love my long-term boyfriend, plus these guys all have great girlfriends, also my boyfriend knows these dudes very well and there has never been a problem
I got 2 girls that are “j friends w me”. So we j cuddle as friends they show me they bodies as friends and yk drop the casual “yk I’m dtf whenever” AS FRIENDS. I mean they ain’t taken but if u were a guy tryna get w them I’d be terrified. Difference with that is if Ik they in a relationship I ain’t helpin then cheat. I have respect for my fellow man and would never. But I mean if they both single… I see no issues😂😂
I mean it could just mean she's really social and yet just really attractive, but if you have any girl friends. She's going to vet every single one of them and you should vet all her guy friends and make sure she doesn't have any creepers waiting their turn. I'd be real straight with her, look all your guys friends are cool but this guy looking real sus and I don't trust him.
Got some news for you sunshine. If your girl is hot enough then ALL her “boyfriends” are waiting their turn. Whether she reciprocates isn’t even the issue. This is why men who have “friends” w women, especially those in relationships are basically low character creepy POS. There really aren’t enough exceptions to this rule for it to not be applied broadly.
@@JerryC26 The "vetting process" should start by it being a red flag if she keeps "befriending" other men while in a relationship with you. I would make it real simple for her, drop ALL males not related by blood or I'll drop you.
I’m in highschool and I’m talking to this girl and she’s part of our friend group and friends with a good amount of guys, so am I, at what point is having guy friends no longer okay
This was me, my ex had guy friends. Not even a week after we broke up, her guy friend swooped in and they started dating. Stay the fuck away from women with guy friends I can’t stress it enough
A HUGE RED FLAG is if the girl has male friends!! 🚩🚩🚩 And this is something that everyone MUST understand!! I have ended two relationships for this very reason...
Honestly the type of dude that hangs around a girl when they’re in a relationship “waiting their turn” are actual scum bags. Especially if they act like your friend, learned that the hard way when me and my ex broke up and dude started acting real different towards me.
Thats how some of my old friends acted towards me. They started saying stuff like PDA when I was walking with her during PE. I think this is a good example on how to find the friends , they get along with ur friends, but they also understand that you are devoted to the girl, but will still spend time with them.
I 100% agree, guys like that are pure scum
Frfr
This describes my so-called friend Josh to A T even though she claims she's not attracted to him (he is noticeably ugly and a slob tbh) I'm not buying it other unrelated females that claimed they weren't attracted to him banged him and probably for money or out of desperation or pity. 🤔
Thats every guy friend
Notice how your mother and grandmother dont have male best friends?
He was struggling to speak at the end 😂
Yes because he knows his friends are ready to swoop in
@@Sodainspace 😂😂😂kakakaka
he know she smashing em
@@Sodainspace yea bruh she said zero. then shes like well im friends with all your friends. what she saying zero for then😂. guess she never came across a guy before
This guy is an utter simp and he doesn’t even know it
its called loyalty not alot of people have it men an women
At the end of the day it’s about respect. There are some female friends I’m kinda attracted to but I know we wouldn’t be a good match and realize it’s human to be attracted to other humans
He wasn't ready for that answer at the end 😅😅😅
ikr that sold the video for me lowkey jkjk lol😂
Same red flag for when a man has too many women friends - it goes both ways - the measure is to heal toxic wounds and ways - grow up before entering into an exclusive relationship and /or marriage
Then you develop trust and true friendship that will support your efforts to remain honest in love - whatever that honesty looks like for you two
Yeah obviously
It’s still women that do it overwhelmingly more than men.
A girl can have 1 or 2 guy friends if they've known each other for 5,10,15 years & he's proven himself to be a solid respectable dude & got his own thing going on i.e a girlfriend/wife kids etc but if it's just some guy she's known for 10 minutes then that's not acceptable.
Don’t fall for this. I have a friend that’s a guy for 7 years and 2 years ago he confessed that he wanted to be more than friends and had been feeling this way for a long time.
I was the only guy friend to a really good girl friend. We knew each other since we were 4 years old.
Her ex didn't want her to talk to me. I never understood why.
But oh well me and her are getting married soon :).
" Guy friends" don't exist
@@EYBeatsso you’re the guy we need to be worried about
@@Imagine960 😂 not particularly but my point is that guy friends can always turn into something else
Don't be so naive. Don’t poison your relationship or marriage with male friends. Don’t do that..
Yess when I fell in love, I automatically stopped going to guys where I felt there was some tension coz I got my guy. I wanted to 100% give him my attention and he deserved to be secured so all doubtful, mixed signals were out of the door.
You're a good woman for this.
@@huestonbryant112facts
Good girl & it's best 2 not have guy friends when in a relationship or married & I have a boyfriend myself & I don't have guy friends either & i have some tomboy ways
And guess what happens when you two break up?? She’ll be going after your friends.
Homeboy stuttering at the end 😅
That ending tho lmao 😅
same goes for guys with girl friends!
Yup
@@Merzilasaysrepent you Christian?
Yes as a man I agree it's weird either way
@@mindstein2823 man...but its common everywhere
ofc, as a guy I find it weird to be friends with a girl
Remember it's all in the tension!!! All you need to do is eliminate your friends that looks for tension outside their relationship
Wut
@@Floppytots ooo yea
Lol.. I think this was the only video he made for the Intention to just ask her how many guy friends she has..😂😂😂.. smooth....
100% true!!!
I have been in this situation a few times before and never again from the past experiences.
Yeah I have a ex-girlfriend who thought it was cool to have guy friends and thought it was okay that she hung out with them alone and thought I should be okay with it then when I speak up about it she tries to Gaslight me about not trusting her well bye bye to her
They all do that shit when they know how the guy feels about them
That's what they do and if you try and stop it your controlling or insecure they don't see there actions as damaging
@codyhahn9849 She posted a video with a guy on her WhatsApp status blushing and smiling and wishing him a birthday and calling lovely friend. I complained, and she called me insecure and humiliated me emotionally. I have never recovered from it
If a girl has guy friends she hangs out with 1 on 1 dump her and don't even second guess yourself. I'd rather be single than the mental torture of wondering if she is gaslighting me and cheating on me or not.
Happened to me, paid the consequences later,
Ex walked away like I was rubbish in a trash can
He is the rubbish who treated you like that
This is right, I saw a girl upset at one of her guy friends for trying to ask her out and did things for her, by the way the girl already had a boyfriend
I got used one time when I was younger. Like 19. And it was just like the way you said. She was in deep but never committed. She wound up dating and pretty much marrying a guy that she had always said was ugly. And a donkey too. ❤😂
Lol I hate the “They have never tried to sleep with me” or “they never tried anything with me” and that’s when I say “Yet.” And guess who’s right 😎 stay up my brothers!
Exactly man you are so right. I have one right now saying she known this guy for 10 years I don’t give a fuck. And I told her you shouldn’t be running to this guy if we have an issue about anything. I’m the guy and I don’t trust him at all. She said don’t worry about him Um no fuck that. I’m not stupid.
@@joanderson4568 I guess my rule was not severe for now we are still together but like , guy friend u know for a while before i meet you i am okay they didn't manage to get you so not a real threat , but the new one after u are dating me is a no no
You have to know ho is your friend and ho wants you more then friends😊 you can tall just look at there actions around you.the way thay look at you.
So id say i struggle with building up the confidence to be more friendly with them cause I’m friendly always yah know but I feel like i need to build my mental toughness when it comes to knowing what i want and going after it yah know, also being more confident in myself like if she says no and doesn’t want to go out how to get myself around other masculine guys and build up my support or yah know build up my mentality
This girl asked me out to lunch. I liked her and we had some good conversation and laughs. One day I visited her fb page and knew this would go nowhere. She had a lot of male friends, and I figured I was just another guy.
Is that really a thing in western? Having a male friend of a women is red flag?
@@RomaRodriguez-oh8gj in this generation yes!!! Too many people getting cheated on left to right! Same goes for us, we have a female friend, it could potentially be a red flag 🚩
@@YoGordon oh wow this generation is really dead.. sorry to hear that..but to me as a woman I got you..
@@RomaRodriguez-oh8gj and this is just my personal opinion about it! Once im in a relationship… im gonna treat my girl like a queen!!! And I’m not gonna have ANY female friends around me because its disrespectful and inappropriate as a relationship
@@YoGordon actually I did that I removed lots of male friends but still he left me but my ex has a lot of female friends on social media 🤣🤣even if he didn't know them still he added them😅
Look at the perfect picture crumble at the end 😂
Sadly sadly sadly girls don't or don't want to understand this it makes me frustrated
Personally I’m a girl best friend I’ve known him for since preschool and people always think it’s weird that I’m friends with him and that he’s my best friend but I’m bi so THE SAME LOGIC CAN BE USED WITH MY GIRL BEST FRIEND but nobody ever comments on that
One of the reasons I broke up with my ex is because everyone in my grade can agree her step brother is mad into her
Broooo
If the guy friend wants to chill with me without the girl there, then I know he's just chillin
I literally just broke up with my gf bc she was talking to my teamate
And now they're definately smashing.
i left this one chick because she said she knew this guy since kindergarden they ended up getting married and divorced...i felt like i dodged a bullet
😂😂
@@abbz23🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Man i have been fr tha exact piece of the puzzle, I didnt like ur views much but this is golld, i think ur content is getting real now.
GOLDEN QUESTION: what to do if gf is like that, leave her or what
I know this is a year late, but if you’re still with her leave her.
Sometimes you just need a lot of friends because you never know what's going to happen because sometimes thay use you for there own convinces
this is literally the third video i see on this, first it was playing with fire pickups video and then some other dude and now you
this issue is a little touchy. I have seen girls be friends with a guy for 5 years and once she gets a man she completely dumps the friendship. when she breaks up with her boyfriend she comes back trying to be friends again (this also happens with guys).
I feel like if we're looking at it like this even your friends are waiting to get with you girl lol
She doesn't need outside guy friends when your guy friends are her guy friends she's got the same pool, but now they're even closer to you and you know the other guys yourself. So they're both bad scenarios, and on top of that it's even worse that the selection she has, is from your own friends.
Yall two are the best to take notes from im a 16 year old boy taking notes😂😂😂❤❤❤
Okay you’re probably 17 now…don’t let this scare you but I’ll share a statistic with you. Before the age of 30 women tend to be more promiscuous/non-committal. After the age of 30 the trend flips to men…
childhood FAMILY friends, at that. closest to actually being true that he’s only like a brother.
I learned the lesson hard way. Ex broke up with me cause of her guy friends lol #bestbreakupever
I'm so sorry for you but your a top G so you got it bro good luck
@@toxicality7752 Thanks brother, I'm Stronger than ever. I wish you the best too.
same
Do u know if she is tlk to one of her guy friends 🤔
Sameeee
Red flag on the play.. why have ur wife be friends of ur friends . Oh hell no
My gf of 3 years started talking to a guy behind my back as "friends" that I knew wanted to get with her and I told her. 6 months later she breaks up with me for being toxic when asking her to block him. She's with some other dude now
That's not a male friend dude he was a backup option, if they don't know them before they meet you or have not known them for a few years prior then can't be classed as any type of friend.
🤦🏽♂️ bro right after you found out that info I would have just beat her to the punch and broke up with her first
As someone that had my girl cheat on me for my best friend, I wouldn’t even introduce her to my friends
Well. Remember. In the stories. Always the girl cheat with a best friend of bf friends
Sometimes it fine to have guy friends if you know she is loyal and hangout with her guy friends so they know why she is with you
Forget loyal. Its disrespectful.
That’s number one in my book because that was biggest regret trying to respect her but not putting hands on him even tho the situation itself was disrespectful to me lol
Thank you my bro you and your misso helped alot 🤜🤛
100%% my ninjas!!
No it’s weird when she’s friends with your friends without you there.
I feel it’s just weird if they friends at all just speak cordially and move on lol
And that's how opps it just happened when two are left alone. Trust
Oftentimes I be at my parents house and she'll video call me and put my 'friend' on the phone who is also her 'friend' he's ugly AF and she claims she's not attracted to him but always get this funny feeling like something ain't right 🤔
Imagine having a bunch of females as friends. Sounds fn exhausting and distracting.
I’ve seen it with so many women. And I’ll admit I’ve been there as the guy. We don’t just want female friends. We are looking for a partner. Just gotta be honest.
My bestfriend is a girl! 👌 i just love listening to her talk about boys, playing tennis/football with her, and letting her spill her emotions to me now and then! Im know other men will think less of me, but im sorry! Talking about "the game" in the same stupid pub every weekend doesnt appeal to me! Helping my bestie pic cute outfits ETC just appeals to me more! My male friends would joke if i passed away, my girl friend would cry for weeks! Think what yall want, theres no romance betweem us! Nd i wouldnt drop my bestie cas any man thought i was plotting 🙂
I have many female friends. After your logic, is it really nessecary to drop all those long term friendships?
Probably. Are they all attractive?
No, you just have to understand that it would be disrespectful if she got into a relationship (assume you too don't go way back or something)
Why do you want these female friends for? You think it’s disrespectful to be hanging out with a female friend even though you have a girlfriend/wife? It is.
@@javo10fulbecause they’re my friends and I like hanging out with them….
@@HistoryOnTV they are ugly or overweight that’s for sure. You can’t tell me you wouldn’t sleep with them if the opportunity arose
Be happy to be with a woman or men that feels disgusted by friend that feels they have a chance with you aka not a real friend with genuine intentions.
The fumble in the end
And vice versa especially unless we all a group cuz that’s important to have
Idk I like having girl friends, they usually wingman with their hot friends, but yeah if she has guy friends that are basically waiting for their chance - it's a red flag
Just ended it with a girl who had gut friends, she was a gem of a human but very misfortunate. Upwards and onwards.
i have one guy friend that hang out w here n there but we don’t talk often as someone i always be around w. hes definitely not onto me as he is sleeping w another girl
Thanks for the help
Bruh my girl got 4-5 guy friends met them last year
Run!
Definitely run!
I have 2 female friends likeeee
This is a red flag for both the guy and the girl being friends with there ex
lol at the veneers
She not really friends with your friends, she’s an acquaintance with your friends and you can trust her around your friends
New fear unlocked.
Why does this guy have so nice teeth wtf
Not always.
I think this “red flag” should be higher than 7; like maybe 1.
she still talks with her ex because she wants him to do tattoo for her for free. They broke up 4 years ago and he got a fiance now but this is fuxked up for me, she told me she will dump him after this tattoo but like wtf. She has like 2-3 guy friends, but one of them literally told her he wants to be with her, she openly friendzoned him but they still talk and hang around. I asked her 'what if your future boyfriend would want you to cut off these relations with your ex and guy friends?' and she answered with 'He should take me as I am, and relationship is about trust' we've been seeing each other for 2 months now, shes nice and cool but these fuvkers stand in the way. I want to state my intentions clear that if this is going to be a serious relationship between us, she needs to cut them off, otherwise I wont care as much, just keep banging her from time to time and keep it a casual 'situationship' if even so. I dont know if 2 months isnt too soon to make these kind of statements, and should I wait a little bit longer to see how the things will work out?
Break up wiith her
Runnnn
Dip from the relationship
You are in a cuckhold
I figured this one out the hard way, but I'm thankful he took her off my hands because now I'm doing far better than before
Less stress and can focus more on myself
He wasn’t her “friend”; he was her side piece. Girls rarely if ever get with friendzone friends. They just use them for validation and security.
I have two female friends. Zero sexual attraction either way. We just trash talk each other and laugh
If one of them open their legs you'd be in it, stop the cap.
Besides this point….them mf’n teeth are out of line 🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤣🤣🤣
It would be best if my gf has no friends.
Till she gets it on with your friends
That won’t be weird
100% facts.
This is kind of true, but also has a lot to do with age. These kind of friendships are much more common for people that are under 25.
Experience
??
I cannot say I agree... men and women can be friends in a non sexual manner.
Yes, many men do wait to see if a woman breaks up with her man person, but it is not always the case.
What if your'e just allowed to check her guy friends out. 1. maybe she has friends for you and, 2. maybe she just wants you to meassure up.
I have to disagree with you on this one.
Friends are friends, while partners are partners. If loyalty exists in a relationship, having friends from each gender is totally fine and shouldn’t raise any worries.
It just doesn’t seem right or mature to end your friendships, guys or gals, just because you’ve entered a relationship….
🧢
That's the biggest cap I've ever heard! 🧢
How naive can you be? If your girl's guyfriends secretly want to fuck her, waiting their turn to make a move on her, that's not "friendship" to begin with. I wouldn't want my girlfriend constantly hang around people that would be happy to replace me. A woman like that is just a bad investment.
Yep. A relationship isn’t supposed to replace your friendships; It’s supposed to add onto them.
Yep men and women just cannot be friends! There are just some guys that hang around for an opportunity to get with the woman. They even wait years and think that if they stay long enough then they will be able to wear her down and she will cave eventually. Instead of counting their losses and moving on, they hang around. Men know other men and if she has guy friends then she shouldn't be in a relationship. You can be acquaintances and cordial towards to guys, but it doesn't mean you should be their friend.
You are so wrong 😂 I have mostly only guy friends and they have zero romantic interest in me and I have zero romantic interest in them, we are buddies and I love my long-term boyfriend, plus these guys all have great girlfriends, also my boyfriend knows these dudes very well and there has never been a problem
We do not care! 🧢
What are you waffling about, heebowitz?
Both of you are red flags because that's how you guys feel😂
Flight got all that money he cnt get a phone upgrade
I have more male friends than girlfriends, and I don’t like it
The fact that you don't like it is a sign of normalcy
Quick question. What if her guy friends are your friends and there is feelings between them 🤔
Naw u need to drop her ass frfr
It’ll be your guy friends sneaking in if they see low value.
I got 2 girls that are “j friends w me”. So we j cuddle as friends they show me they bodies as friends and yk drop the casual “yk I’m dtf whenever” AS FRIENDS. I mean they ain’t taken but if u were a guy tryna get w them I’d be terrified. Difference with that is if Ik they in a relationship I ain’t helpin then cheat. I have respect for my fellow man and would never. But I mean if they both single… I see no issues😂😂
Your friends will go behind your back don't think for two seconds don't get it twisted
Why this guy has the haircut of a 15 years old tiktoker?
I mean it could just mean she's really social and yet just really attractive, but if you have any girl friends. She's going to vet every single one of them and you should vet all her guy friends and make sure she doesn't have any creepers waiting their turn. I'd be real straight with her, look all your guys friends are cool but this guy looking real sus and I don't trust him.
Sounds like a 2nd job. I’m sure your instincts for “vetting” are great too 😅
@@RM-jb2bv Well if you know how to read body language, social ques, and have good attention to detail it's pretty much just second nature
@@JerryC26 Lmfao. That’s future cuck talk. We’ll all see you on r/relationshipadvice soon enough. You may be a cuck already and not know it.
Got some news for you sunshine. If your girl is hot enough then ALL her “boyfriends” are waiting their turn. Whether she reciprocates isn’t even the issue.
This is why men who have “friends” w women, especially those in relationships are basically low character creepy POS. There really aren’t enough exceptions to this rule for it to not be applied broadly.
@@JerryC26 The "vetting process" should start by it being a red flag if she keeps "befriending" other men while in a relationship with you. I would make it real simple for her, drop ALL males not related by blood or I'll drop you.
I’m in highschool and I’m talking to this girl and she’s part of our friend group and friends with a good amount of guys, so am I, at what point is having guy friends no longer okay
When either the friend or the girl thinks of each other sexually rather than platonically
It’s still wierd if they are your friends
I think we can't do is read ppl minds without a pattern.
Fuck he talking about. I will never be friends with my homies girlfriend and vice versa
This was me, my ex had guy friends. Not even a week after we broke up, her guy friend swooped in and they started dating. Stay the fuck away from women with guy friends I can’t stress it enough
I feel like they can have very few guy friends, but def not talk to them too much or hang out alone with them
You said it be weird lol? I don’t usually hangout with my friend while I’m with my girlfriend, but that’s my opinion everybody do it differently.
A HUGE RED FLAG is if the girl has male friends!! 🚩🚩🚩 And this is something that everyone MUST understand!! I have ended two relationships for this very reason...
Or if ALL her friends are males - something is up with that...
I also been through this a four-month relationship I was engaged
So girls cant be friends with boys?
So girls cant have male friend?
What can I do😭
They are never friend let me tell you 😂 like never . They either like each other or did like each other.
I have a guy best friend we have know each other our whole lives and if u can’t be friends with him I can’t be in a relationship with that person
Nah fuck that, good luck telling your husband I’m hanging out with my guy best friend 😂 oh wait he doesn’t exist
Don’t trust a woman who has a male friend because that woman knows what she wants and she knows fucking well what she does WAKE UP GUYS
My wife has guy friends who are gay and I don't a problem with that I think a lot of men are insecure about their relationships
I used gay method too hookup bro. Always get all the time even im not gay 🤣
its rare for woman to have just female friends now a days.
Bro Check her messages with your guy freinds 🤣
toxic
Hmmm okay I know her password I'll just do it while she asleep