Life Update - Where have I been? Am I still making videos?

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  • Опубликовано: 8 мар 2019
  • Hey guys! I'm finally bringing you a life update! I'm answering all the questions on where have I been, am I still making videos, what's going on?? All of that! I appreciate you all so much and even though I'm very nervous to open up this much, I'm excited to be back.
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  • @fijigoya1236
    @fijigoya1236 5 лет назад +1533

    Okay your dog jumping up when you started crying is one of the cutest things I’ve seen omg

    • @cheerallyear
      @cheerallyear 5 лет назад +12

      I know right 😭 what a sweet & caring pup 🥰

    • @marykeerasmus4817
      @marykeerasmus4817 5 лет назад +16

      I love how dogs feel your sadness ❤️ so beautiful

    • @Jade-kt3mj
      @Jade-kt3mj 5 лет назад +12

      Ikr he’s just like I’ll kiss you till ur happy

    • @teresawise7331
      @teresawise7331 5 лет назад +8

      Dogs are the best companions when you are hurting. They are so tuned in to our emotions.

    • @lifeofjohannafrida
      @lifeofjohannafrida 5 лет назад +4

      Fijigoya 123 the cutest! And it was so immediate ❤️

  • @elsagaxiola8431
    @elsagaxiola8431 5 лет назад +908

    Letting go of the idea of what you thought your life was going to be like is the hardest part of divorce. You mourn the separation of your partner but letting go of your dreams of your future is devastating in my opinion. Especially since it's part of us even before we meet the "one". It doesn't feel like it now but at the end of this chapter of your life you are going to love the women you will become even more so than before. Sending you a giant hug.

    • @apocalypticlove
      @apocalypticlove 5 лет назад +10

      Elsa Gaxiola yes! Thank you for this. I’m currently going through a separation myself and this is helpful to read.

    • @meghanborrasca3900
      @meghanborrasca3900 5 лет назад +9

      Exactly what she said ^ I went through a divorce at 26 and it’s exactly what she said above.... the idea of what your life was gonna be is what I mourned mostly...

    • @ashleerees807
      @ashleerees807 5 лет назад +3

      Agree 100%

    • @katyavolkov4089
      @katyavolkov4089 5 лет назад +7

      Elsa Gaxiola This is a beautiful, insightful reply. How wonderful the world is when women reach out to other women in such a kind, nurturing way. Thank you.

  • @ferishakhan5919
    @ferishakhan5919 3 года назад +65

    Two years later, you’re the happiest you’ve ever been. I’ve been following you since your green background days Kayley and I’m soo happy for you

  • @lunix3562
    @lunix3562 5 лет назад +431

    I have never commented on your channel but have followed it for many years. You are not a failure. Life takes so many twists and turns that you can never be prepared for what is ahead. I remember when I watched How I Met You Mother, Barney had a quote about marriage that stuck with me....
    "This isn't a failed marriage: it was a very successful marriage that only lasted three years."
    The three years part was for the purpose of the show but you can apply your marriage years to it. My point is you are not a failure.

    • @looksidewalkpenguin
      @looksidewalkpenguin 5 лет назад +5

      I'm the same as you! I've never commented but I agree with this 110%. We're here for you! And sending all our love!

    • @noaarianna5750
      @noaarianna5750 5 лет назад +3

      lunix 356 what a nice comment😊

  • @cookie04031991
    @cookie04031991 5 лет назад +264

    You getting a divorce in no way makes a bad person, bad role model etc. You respecting you ex side of the story not dragging anyone down that makes you a good role model. It is normal to feel that sense of failure you are losing something you loved and worked on, but it does not mean you are one or are defined by this.
    I hope you feel better soon, but it takes time so patience is key.

  • @janetp.7827
    @janetp.7827 3 года назад +53

    watching this after her coming out video hits so different
    I'm so happy Kayley got to grow and find herself, she deserves nothing but the best

  • @luisadelatorre5960
    @luisadelatorre5960 5 лет назад +498

    I've been here since the green background and I will stay for as long as this channel exists. I'm sending you all my love and support and positive vibes!

  • @marcyc7204
    @marcyc7204 5 лет назад +255

    Kayley, like many others have said, you’re not being a bad role model by getting divorced, you’re being an AMAZING role model by respecting someone you’re no longer with and not dragging him through the mud. Also, a great book to read to deal while in a tough situation is “It’s not supposed to be this way” by Lysa TerKeurst. Love you and your channel!

    • @liviadiana178
      @liviadiana178 5 лет назад +1

      Agree! She handled this situation so well! Kayley, if you read this: You are an amazing role model.

  • @lynnyuxin
    @lynnyuxin 5 лет назад +214

    Beyond being curious to what happened to you, I think everyone were more concerned about your well-being and safety (though I did notice you were still active on Twitter, so that was a good sign). I am so glad you decided to open up with us even though you don't have to! I recently went through a breakup which was hard, and I'm sure you've had it harder, but I can at least somewhat understand/relate to what you're going through! It took me a few weeks to function properly, and 3 months later I am only still starting to try and get my life together. So, take your time and please take care of yourself! Above all, welcome back! We missed you and we will always love and support what you do ❤️

  • @maryruff4725
    @maryruff4725 5 лет назад +420

    I have followed you since I was 13, and here I am looking at my role model and realizing that it’s okay to not be perfect. I am a older sister to a younger brother and two younger sisters and I’ve always strived to be perfect and happy. you have taught me how to braid and in return I’ve taught my sisters. you are an inspiration to me, I always wait for a new video and this one truly tops them all. keep your head up high and keep pushing because girl you are amazing 💖

  • @AngelaPags
    @AngelaPags 5 лет назад +278

    OOOOMG I melt at your dog's reaction to your emotions. Dogs are seriously the best!!!! I wish you true happiness, Kayley.

  • @Wemills1285
    @Wemills1285 5 лет назад +280

    This is the first time that I have ever commented. On anyone’s video. But this spoke to me on such a personal level that I had to say something. I split with my husband of 13 years in October. I cried every day for weeks after I made the decision to leave him and move my son and I in with my mom. Divorce is very much like a death and you have to give yourself time and permit to grieve. I so empathize with everything you said here. I felt like a failure and that I was going to end up screwing up my son. But it gets better. I am happier now than I have been in years and I know you will get there too. Your channel was the first channel I subscribed to on RUclips 8 years ago. I have loved your content since then, even when I cut my hair off and couldn’t do most of the styles in your tutorials. I still loves watching them because of your genuine joy in doing what you love. Keep it up, girl!

    • @cozypillow638
      @cozypillow638 5 лет назад +1

      Beth Mills this is a wonderful comment❤️

    • @dgroskurth
      @dgroskurth Год назад

      I’ve been through divorce and it is horrible, be strong

  • @MrsBellaBrunette
    @MrsBellaBrunette 5 лет назад +27

    The way your dog comforted you when you started crying 😭...he truly loves you! Wishing you much happiness in the future

  • @JahairasMission
    @JahairasMission 5 лет назад +207

    Literally JUST thought of you, you are deeply missed! Please don't lose sight of the value you bring to RUclips! We love you, sis. 💖

  • @LinkinParkLover2012
    @LinkinParkLover2012 3 года назад +34

    And 2 years later you’re finally at peace with yourself 🥺🤩

  • @magnolias__
    @magnolias__ 3 года назад +30

    just came back to this after today's video and can i just say congratulations for getting out of your previous situation and finding one that's so much healthier and kinder to you. 😭💕

  • @anniallerlei440
    @anniallerlei440 5 лет назад +180

    Love the Support your dog gives you and you can be sure that your viewers will support you too 😘😍

  • @HilBG
    @HilBG 5 лет назад +165

    KAYLEY my heart. We have missed you so much and I am so glad you're back on your own terms! I also got divorced in the last year (after having gotten married around the same time as you) and moved back across the country closer to my family. (twinsies) Every situation is different, but I definitely understand the difficulty of having to explain when there was no clickbait ~event~ that signaled the end. You should be so proud of yourself for making the right decision for both of you, and you should be extra proud of yourself for having the courage to open up to us. I can't imagine what it's like having these fans who feel like we know you and definitely love you, but you don't know us as individuals. That's a scary crowd to be vulnerable in front of! You are amazing and strong. Keep taking care of yourself. We're not going anywhere! Also PS I am so happy you have Pippin and your sister. You deserve all the support you get and more!

  • @MirandaScully
    @MirandaScully 3 года назад +7

    Rewatching this after the engagement video because I remember my heart breaking when you first posted it - as someone who has learned so much from you to the point where actually caring for my hair and feeling pretty helped my mental health and my social anxiety. And now knowing that two years from when this video was posted you finally found happiness and love and a relationship that makes you feel good and appreciated? It's a real testament to 'It does get better'. Also your lil pup continues to be the most emotionally intelligent dog I've ever seen!

  • @Twistmepretty
    @Twistmepretty 5 лет назад +44

    Girl you had me in tears. I just felt all your emotions during that video and I hope you know I think you are incredibly brave for coming here and opening up. Giving us a piece of your heart and just being so vulnerable. You’re a light in this world and I’m so sorry to hear about your split but you’re gonna get through it and come out the other side so much stronger. I love you. Keep your head up, we are all cheering for you!

  • @MonicaMettert
    @MonicaMettert 5 лет назад +104

    Oh, Kayley. 😢 I have watched every video of yours since the green sheet days. I went through a divorce about 3 years ago and it was so, so hard. I lost so much hope. But it got better. I grieved and healed and met the man of my dreams and we just got married and we are SO better matched than my ex and I were. You are a passionate, beautiful, successful woman and you WILL find love again. Divorce is not failure. It is learning and growing. It is going to be okay, sweetheart. 💕

    • @mayssarmini6917
      @mayssarmini6917 5 лет назад +2

      Same exact story here 😊 just keep pushing

  • @curlsandnodes8886
    @curlsandnodes8886 5 лет назад +136

    Oh, girl. I noticed that you weren't wearing your ring but I didn't want to push the subject. *hugs* You are such a big role model to me. That hasn't changed a bit. You did the right thing by respecting his privacy. You're not a failure! I miss you and I hope you will feel better soon!
    I really hope to meet you one day

  • @BollywoodMediaOnline
    @BollywoodMediaOnline 3 года назад +5

    3:39 "My entire life I've been a by the book, goody two shoes, do everything perfect, color inside every line, follow every rule kind of girl... I could have written my life 500 times and I would have never written it this way."
    Love this quote... completely relatable as hard as this time was for you, thank you for sharing. You are helping so many of us

  • @joyarose2801
    @joyarose2801 5 лет назад +61

    Your dog is precious! Literally just knows that you need comforting at that time😭😭😍

  • @trishpipkins
    @trishpipkins 5 лет назад +198

    I went through a really really horrible divorce. It gets better. I at first hated the fact that it happened. But staying in a marriage that shouldn't be would be the true failure. And now I'm married to an amazing man and I am so glad. Don't be so hard on yourself. 💖💖💖

    • @Fuckaroundandfindout101
      @Fuckaroundandfindout101 5 лет назад +5

      Trish Pipkins reading this mad me so happy! Congratulations on finding the right one!♥️

    • @trishpipkins
      @trishpipkins 5 лет назад +2

      Amber Renee thank you! He's wonderful. I have learned so much through all of this and want to encourage everyone to find what makes them happy. It's so worth it.

  • @brookelew3237
    @brookelew3237 5 лет назад +278

    No judgment at all sweet lady! This must be so hard for you! So sorry for your pain. 💛
    Praying for your comfort and healing dear lady. There is such FREEDOM in realizing we do not have to be perfect. I hate the pain that you have had to go through, but I deeply appreciate thIs Video and YOU!

  • @racheltheclumsy
    @racheltheclumsy 5 лет назад +1

    Pippin is such a good pupper. You have been through it my girl. It’s okay to not be okay sometimes. You are such a sunshine filled, beautiful person and you have changed everything about how I do my hair for the better. I lost more than half of my hair due to a medication and since then have struggled to feel alright about my hair but a lot of your videos have helped me cope with that and love my hair again. You are so pure and sweet and that is so hard to come by on RUclips, and honestly the internet in general. There is very little you could do that would make us love you any less. I’m glad you are healing and I’m happy to see that you are being loved and taken care of by your family and your excellent pupper. Love.

  • @magdalenasofiasalgado5458
    @magdalenasofiasalgado5458 5 лет назад +58

    I've been following you for ever, you taught me to braid my hair all those years ago 🤭
    I hope you overcome this hard chapter, you are so great and full of light, keep your head high!!!

  • @carolinatrindadeferreira3169
    @carolinatrindadeferreira3169 5 лет назад +178

    I don't know even how to start... I cried with you the whole video - not because i'm sad, but because i'm so, so, so proud...! I don't know you, but for some reason I really love you in a level that see you hurt makes me wanna go there and feed you with love... And ice cream! These moments in life make us grow, and i have to believe that is for the better, as I know what is like to be depressed, to be hopeless, to struggle to get out of bed, have to come back to the family nest and re-build the life from scratch. It took courage to put this video out here, we can see it, and don't worry about us, we are loyal, and you deserve the loyalty for being this amazing beam of light in the world. When I am down, few things put me back on my feet like your videos, how long and I'll wait as you rise again, supporting you in everything.
    By the way, I am a child of divorce, and like with many friends of mine, the rupture made both mom and dad to flourish into happier and better people.
    Oh, and I loved your ideas for the channel, can't wait to watch!

    • @katyavolkov4089
      @katyavolkov4089 5 лет назад +3

      Carolina Trindade Ferreira Wonderful comment! So poem and honest and supportive. I'm so sorry you've suffered from that kind of debilitating depression. And so brave of you to tell the world like this. I hope you're doing better. I just felt I needed to reach out to you and give you a big Bravo for being who you are!! ❤️

  • @martinastefancova67
    @martinastefancova67 5 лет назад +42

    When I saw the thumbnail I knew you were going to announce a divorce. I saw myself on that bed. I'm not divorced but I went through a terrible breakup. You are an amazing person and a divorce doesn't define you. You are still a role model for so many girls. And now even more, for standing up for yourself and doing what's best for you. Be strong, the pain will pass. Looking forward to new videos ❤️

  • @projectmunchkins
    @projectmunchkins 5 лет назад +14

    Kayley, don't apologize for what has happened or for taking time to heal. Your true fans/ friends will remain true... views and followers come and go... you need to take care of yourself and be healed. 💕

  • @karishi11
    @karishi11 5 лет назад +67

    I've honestly been thinking about you for the past couple of days. You were one if my first discoveries on RUclips back when you had the green background. I'm sorry this is happening to you and I'm sending love and positive energy your way. Just remember that you're exactly where you're supposed to be even if it's not where you want to be and that's okay. You're loved and not alone 💛💛💛

  • @camilla1708
    @camilla1708 5 лет назад +13

    I never comment on videos, but I feel it's time to make an exception. I've been watching your videos for the past 7 years. I started when I was in the middle of a depression, and learning how to have fun and be creative with my braiding really helped me focus on something else. You came across as a such a lovely person and you almost felt like a friend. I especially appreciated when we got to see a glimpse of you life, like when you decided to go in to cosmetology school, got married, moved, told us about your depression, and now this. There isn't such a thing as a "perfect" life, and I think you're incredibly brave for sharing your story and I think that is a big part of why I've almost consider you as a friend for so long. I sure I'm not talking just for me when I'm saying, don't be scared of being yourself in front of the camera! I'm really looking forward to watch your videos, just make sure you don't get too stressed about it. We can wait if you're not feeling well!
    Lots of love from Sweden

  • @1stAmbientGrl
    @1stAmbientGrl 5 лет назад +31

    Kayley, Kayley, Kayley, Kayley! I'm middle-aged and one thing I have learned is life rarely ever works out the way you think it will or should. Right now I'm dealing with my mother having dementia and I never imagined she would because no one else in her family had it, that I'm aware of. I never married or had children. I don't have a career or any savings because life keeps throwing curveballs at me. I've learned to see it all as an adventure and to be flexible with my plans/goals. I've also learned that there is something good in each difficulty and that the quality of my life depends on focusing on the good rather than the bad. I know how you feel about hating to make mistakes because I've always been that way, but guess what? Making mistakes is inevitable. So, embrace it all and be kind to yourself. God loves you more than you know regardless of what happens in your life.

  • @ProfessorWeasley
    @ProfessorWeasley 3 года назад +2

    Hey Kayley! I first came across your videos when I was in middle school. I really wanted a French braid but didn't know how to make one and my mom was too busy to do one for me. I decided to take it to RUclips and found your channel. I absolutely loved watching your videos when I was in school and yours was one of the very first channels I ever subscribed to. And I went from zero knowledge about hairstyles to the girl in class everyone asks to do their fancy hairstyles for. I can't tell you how many times I was told that I should open a hair salon when I grew up (I didn't, I went on to study medicine but I hope that's a testament to the skills I acquired watching your videos) I haven't watched a lot of hair videos since school to be honest, but I just came across this and I thought I should write something. It really saddens me to see you cry. So I suppose I'm writing all this (rambling, really) to let you know how absolutely amazing your presence in my life was. I hope you're feeling much much better now, and if not that you will soon! Lots of love!

  • @VSanchez43
    @VSanchez43 5 лет назад +28

    Take your time! We’ll always be here for you💕

  • @everythingmusicgirl
    @everythingmusicgirl 5 лет назад +53

    Sending much love. As the oldest sister of four girls I have deep sympathy for the feelings of being a good big sister, but you are one. You help me with my hair, you're super kind, respectful to all, and full of the character that makes you a good role model. I know it's hard when life shakes us up hard, but please know the best parts shine through, and imperfections are something we all share too. Much much love!

  • @mindyrardin9934
    @mindyrardin9934 5 лет назад +70

    Nothing can keep a good channel down! We will always love your channel. We love your videos whenever we can get them thank you for all the videos you’ve given us already!

  • @Rhaemyra
    @Rhaemyra 5 лет назад +3

    I found your channel about three or four years ago and I was in the deepest point of my depression after my dad died. It was a very rough moment, hard to wake up and do things and found no reason to take care of myself. Finding your channel gave me motivation and a reason to try new things because I always loved my hair so through your tutorials I started to remember how much I loved styling. At first, I was only watching your videos, then started trying the styles (and failing hehe), kept going, bought a curling wand, bought an iron, sooo many bobby pins and finally, after months of feeling terrible I started to look at myself, feel pretty and capable of doing something well, like I actually liked myself a bit again and at that moment that was HUGE.
    So I am forever grateful to you and your channel. We all go through painful moments in life, moments when we fall and find it harder to stand and that's ok. It doesn't make us weak, just reminds us we are humans facing life and that is never easy. You are not alone and again, thank you forever for being here and sharing yourself with all of us. :)

  • @PlantBasedBride
    @PlantBasedBride 5 лет назад +4

    I cried through this whole video. Sending so much love your way ❤️❤️❤️❤️ you will heal eventually, love. And we’ll be here for you through it all!

  • @unakarengumundsdottir3837
    @unakarengumundsdottir3837 5 лет назад +28

    Omg i just want to hug her trough the screan this is so heart breaking 😔😭💔

  • @ayjamay
    @ayjamay 5 лет назад +11

    Meh, my sister has been divorced 4 times. I’ve learned more about marriage from her than my siblings who haven’t divorced. It’s not being a bad role model, a bad role model stays in a bad marriage. Take time, lick your wounds and you’ll get there when you get there. ❤️

  • @serenakelly3619
    @serenakelly3619 5 лет назад +5

    Also, being real and showing vulnerability is the bravest thing you could possibly do, and so powerful. I think just posting this video alone makes you a fantastic role model to anyone scared to deal with darkness. Your strength is inspiring 🦋

  • @andielangemeyer
    @andielangemeyer 5 лет назад +51

    From one recovering perfectionist to another... the most liberating thing I've experienced in my 28 years was loving myself enough to unlearn the BS myth that perfectionist exist and see it for what it is: an unending trap that sets us up to be chronically dissatisfied with yourself, and be stuck in a place of "never enough". You DO deserve support. Perfection isn't human (and also pretty boring, haha); who you are in this video is HUMAN and beautiful, and so much more relatable. We think the armour of perfection protects us, when it really weighs us down, down, down. We're here as digital sisters to help each other learn all the way we will never be unloveable. Now as Meryl Streep once said, "Take your broken heart, and turn it into art". Don't doubt if its good enough. It is.

    • @milkbread5036
      @milkbread5036 4 года назад

      I needed to hear this too as I also am a struggling perfectionist to the point I went through depression because I would often compare myself to others and feel never good enough. I think the best life lived is one where you live like a child. They only focus on the moment and not get caught up on the past or future, not self conscious allows them to have fun in every little thing and every little moment. If you do your best with the time you had right now and the strength you have right now that's all that matters. Your mental attitude reflects in the outcome. A dancer on stage who is terrified and afraid to fall and look dumb will inevitably look awkward and stiff. But one who loses herself in the moment and enjoys every second of it as it passes looks way better and feels better. One day at a time we have to watch our thoughts and believe... Soon we will be and achieve. To change the external we must first change the internal

  • @andreakevresian1429
    @andreakevresian1429 5 лет назад +9

    I also divorced young, and I identified with so much of what you said -- Being a perfectionist, everything "by the book", never in my life imagining something like that would happen to me, and consequently feeling like a failure on so many levels.
    But what I can tell you is that it is so hard and will be painful for a long time, but it DOES get better, you WILL heal, and you are NOT a failure. This doesn't define you even if it feels like it right now. Praying for comfort for you during this time ❤️

  • @VictoriaBC610
    @VictoriaBC610 5 лет назад +50

    So, i've watched your videos since the forrest green backdrop you had.. :D and did see you get engaged and then get married...then move to LA.. Yes, been following for years.. :) and when you posted on IG yesterday that a "life update" video will go up tomorrow... i just knew.... It is indeed a devastating thing..divorce, i mean... unfortunately, i went through a divorce too and know all to well how you feel.. :(( When you said that you "could've written your life 500 times and would've never written it this way" i burst into tears... It just hit home so hard for me... Anyway, it's been years for me now.. and i'm ok for the most part.. it's just seeing videos like this really brings back the emotions so hard, because i can actually relate... Kayley, i wish you a speedy recovery. You did the right thing moving back closer to home - i did the same and it helped a lot! Sending big, bear hugs your way. You're not alone.

  • @kuchareczek
    @kuchareczek 5 лет назад +28

    You deserve support :) I wish you all the best! You don't have to be perfect, no-one is!

  • @MissSeaworld8
    @MissSeaworld8 5 лет назад +21

    When you started to cry and Your dog looked up at you like that….. omg

  • @friendofafriend94
    @friendofafriend94 5 лет назад +9

    You know I watched Captain Marvel yesterday, and I thought she looked familiar. I couldn't figure out why, because I had never seen her before. I see you now, and I saw you in her! Stay strong! It's okay to be hurting, it's okay to not be okay!

  • @theqashah
    @theqashah 5 лет назад +87

    Dogs are the cutest. As soon as you started sobbing Pepper seems so concerned. I lowkey want to adopt him ❤

    • @marykeerasmus4817
      @marykeerasmus4817 5 лет назад +4

      The Qashah my dog does the same. They sense your sadness. So precious ❤️

  • @PixelMusing
    @PixelMusing 5 лет назад +24

    Man, it must have been tough.
    I’m glad you took the time off to recenter yourself after all you’ve been through. I will admit I was like “hmm … it’s been a while. I hope everything is okay.”
    Something tells me you wouldn’t want to do this unless you had to.
    I’m sorry to hear things didn’t work out and in some cases, divorce is a solution. I know you tried and I know it’s not ideal but it may be best for both of you to be better people apart then together. I thought it was very professional when you decided not to go into the details and truly appreciate it.
    It must have taken a lot of courage and inner strength to come to this conclusion and then to go back to doing what you love.
    My heart goes out to you and I look forward to your next video when you’re ready.

  • @goldibynoella
    @goldibynoella 5 лет назад +3

    "to my let my channel die a little so that I could heal, that in itself was a hard thing"....Thank you for being a role model for so many out there, and taking time for yourself when you need it!!! That's what people need to see more of, and I always have admired your continuous authenticity. My heart is with you and I'm sending a big hug + so much love to the beautiful, strong woman that you are!!! Thank you for sharing Kayley ❤️

  • @christinaangel787
    @christinaangel787 5 лет назад +6

    Praying for you sweet girl! I'm sorry you are going through this. Sending you all the love ♥️

  • @vickyw6178
    @vickyw6178 5 лет назад +16

    Awww, your dog is so sweet & knew right away you needed support! It is hard but you are a woman & stronger than you know! This moment will pass and it will get easier every day. 💪🏻👊🏻👍🏻❤️🙏🏻

  • @lucibell7119
    @lucibell7119 5 лет назад +2

    Melissa we love you. Be strong and keep smiling! You deserve better!

  • @ellemisa
    @ellemisa 5 лет назад +2

    Lots of loves and hugs, you will get through it Kayley and will be doing great!

  • @lindsey5365
    @lindsey5365 5 лет назад +22

    Everything will work out in your situation, you are beautiful inside and out!! stay positive and do what makes you happy.

  • @crystgh
    @crystgh 5 лет назад +18

    Amidst the painful parts in life, family and God are always with you. And so are we, your subscribers, we love you! ❤️

  • @mayaowen6557
    @mayaowen6557 5 лет назад +11

    After such a huge life change, a recovery period is definitely much needed, and with all the hard work you put into building this channel, was a well deserved break. Your videos always give me joy and inspire me to try new things with my hair, and it's because of you that I can do some really beautiful hairstyles that give me confidence. I'm so glad you're back, and I can't wait to see what you come up with next!

  • @taptitecaro
    @taptitecaro 5 лет назад +13

    Hey Keyley you’re a beautiful human, inside and out. You deserve all our support and more! Wish you to feel better soon ❤️

  • @mariarapti6207
    @mariarapti6207 5 лет назад +4

    Always here for you Kayley!! Sending love and thoughts your way!!!! 💞

  • @elainesutter5761
    @elainesutter5761 5 лет назад +4

    So many good vibes and prayers being sent your way!

  • @jodiehenry4334
    @jodiehenry4334 5 лет назад +3

    Sending tons of happy vibes your way! You got this, Kayley! (HUGS)

  • @rebeccas9488
    @rebeccas9488 5 лет назад +19

    No one is perfect and I don't think anyone expects you to be. To be honest, I really love the bloopers at the end of your videos. And what a sweet puppy. And what a good sister you have too. Sending you love during this time of transition.

  • @rocacore
    @rocacore 5 лет назад +11

    I havent even finished watching tje video, but dont feel like a failure honey, you are not. You are strong and the fact that you decided to open up this much makes me happy and proud. You got this.

  • @cande.callejac
    @cande.callejac 5 лет назад +15

    You are stronger than you think and we still love you 💕

  • @tarawhite24
    @tarawhite24 5 лет назад +10

    I just want to hug you!
    Life is a journey, with many roads and bumps along the way. Keep moving forward :)

  • @diibadaa
    @diibadaa 5 лет назад +1

    I actually found you today and have binge watching them. I think you seem super talented, your videos look awesome and they are some of the most inspirational hair videos I've ever seen. This video is now at least 2 months old so I'm sure you have healed a bit. I just want to let you know that people still stumble upon your channel and follow you cause' your videos are good. So it is good to give yourself time and make better quality content.
    Thank you for this video even tho idk much about your ex and life at all. It still shows you're a human.

  • @itsoliviaaa18
    @itsoliviaaa18 5 лет назад +14

    So brave of you to share this with us. Take your time to heal! No pressure to come back straight away. Looking forward to see more of your videos once you’re feeling better. ❤️

  • @thenightingale3347
    @thenightingale3347 5 лет назад +35

    Oh Kayley stay strong! You dont have to always be the big sister or the role model, be yourself and happy :) im sending you lots of love from Slovenia
    Also Pippin is amazing, props to him

  • @kristakula4899
    @kristakula4899 5 лет назад +6

    Thank you so much for being so honest and mature about the situation! I can’t wait to see your personal growth and I am wishing you a future full of happiness! Much love 💕💕

  • @techygirl999
    @techygirl999 5 лет назад +2

    Love you! You have taught me everything I know about hair. I’m so sorry you are going through this time in your life. Can’t wait to see more from you as you are able.

  • @catherine_dong
    @catherine_dong 5 лет назад +4

    Making sure you're okay always comes first-that said, it's wonderful seeing you again 💜

  • @TwiggysDollHospital
    @TwiggysDollHospital 5 лет назад +7

    I am so sorry to hear about all you've been going through. I love you and admire you sharing this with us. Thank you for letting us know what's been going on. You're amazing. Take all the time you need. We will all still be here with open arms when you're ready to be here again. I love you.

  • @michelele859
    @michelele859 5 лет назад +5

    Your dog loves you so much and it melts my heart when it looks at you!!! Stay strong girl! You’re very clearly a fighter and beautiful inside and out ❤️

  • @WonderfulHayden
    @WonderfulHayden 5 лет назад +8

    I'm so sorry to hear this, Kayley, I'm so so sorry. My heart breaks for you. My condolences.

  • @meganclaire3651
    @meganclaire3651 5 лет назад +6

    You’ve got a whole bunch of people rooting for you and that will be here whenever you’re ready. Take any time you need. We are here for you.

  • @bigcitydreams23
    @bigcitydreams23 5 лет назад +6

    I’m very sorry this has happened. Sending my love your way💕

  • @auntiej1961
    @auntiej1961 5 лет назад +3

    Sending healing and blessed thoughts to you. All the best to you and your ex as your navigate thru this transition. I am sorry. Your channel has always been fun, spirited, great ideas and I have enjoyed your videos. You GO Girl!

  • @ginaa.4539
    @ginaa.4539 5 лет назад +6

    Stay strong. Thank you for your honesty. You didn't need to bare your soul but since you did, I'm sure it will help a lot of people going through a hardship.

  • @estebritt9555
    @estebritt9555 5 лет назад +6

    You're one of the first people I ever subscribed to, and this was yeeeeears ago. I'm so sorry for what you've been going through, but you're so strong for sharing it with us. ❤️❤️❤️

  • @renaterondeel2794
    @renaterondeel2794 5 лет назад +7

    Im so so sorry! Please take care of yourself first, we can wait.
    You are perfect the way u are,u are good enough!!!!
    Pippin! You rock puppy🐶you take very good care of you're mommy.

  • @nrosejohnston
    @nrosejohnston 5 лет назад +4

    Kayley, PLEASE don't see yourself as a failure! Everyone has curveballs thrown at them in life, and they don't define you in the slightest. What does is how you handle them, and from this update, you seem to be handling everything with so much maturity and grace. It took me a long time to work up the courage, but something that's really helped me with the rough patches in my life is seeing a therapist. It has helped me a million time more than I ever could have imagined. Since August, I've learned not to shoulder all the blame that I've been carrying, and I understand now how much better off I am when I leave unhealthy relationships (of any type) behind. I can also tell her the things I'm too embarrassed to tell my friends and family about, which has been so nice to get off my chest.
    I've looked up to you since I started watching your videos in 2012 (back in the green sheet days!), and that has never changed. I wish you the best, and I look forward to sticking with you in the years to come!

  • @simibelle
    @simibelle 5 лет назад +1

    omg this is the most amazing thing i've seen in a long time... when the dog looks at you when you start crying. another proof that dogs notice when you're sad and want to help you. i can't get over it how he acts when you get really emotional.
    i wish you all the best and thank you for sharing your story.❤️

  • @Anni1208ka
    @Anni1208ka 5 лет назад +6

    You deserve it all! Take your time to recover we'll be right here waiting! 💐🤗

  • @andrearenatagomez5992
    @andrearenatagomez5992 5 лет назад +4

    Oh my God Kayley!!!! Love your channel and we get it!!!!

  • @stephaniecarmichael453
    @stephaniecarmichael453 5 лет назад +1

    You’re amazing. I’m a hair stylist and I’ve always loved how real and chill you seem. So sorry you’re going through this. You’re going to get through this 💓. We will be here

  • @dinachristine
    @dinachristine 5 лет назад +7

    healing takes time. there are no short cuts. grieving is a process, and the best thing is to deal with it.
    moving back home to be closer to family and friends is a very wise move. i think you’ll be fine. looking forward to your next video.
    😊✌🏼❤️❣️😊

  • @cozypoisons
    @cozypoisons 5 лет назад +5

    I'm so sorry you're going through this darling. I can see you're really hurting, and I am sending you all the love and light. Your dog loves you so much and is trying to remind you as much as possible every moment how wonderful you always are. I am inspired by your strength and grace i this situation. I've gone through a similar divorce, but you are handling it the way I think is the best way. I'm proud of you. Time will bring healing, you will come out of this stronger and happier. I promise. Don't give up, love you!

  • @aastha7350
    @aastha7350 5 лет назад +3

    Girl! I loved this channel every since I was 13 and still love it till this day!! Hope things will get better for you and you become stronger person out of it! You are good, kind and hard working cinnamon roll!! 😙💖And don't worry, us fans have got your back!! Love you sooooo much!!! 😘😘😍😄

  • @sharezerglazedilao2329
    @sharezerglazedilao2329 5 лет назад +4

    Take as much time as you need Kayley. We will wait for you! And thank you for sharing with us, even when its really hard. Stay strong. We'll be here for you!

  • @blueprint-edits
    @blueprint-edits 5 лет назад +242

    Kayley.. here comes big sister talk. I'm older so that works. I hope you'll read this. You don't have to be perfect, life isn't perfect. Letting go of the plan that you had for your own life is the HARDEST thing! It feels like disappointing your child self. I've been there, I am there. My concrete plan was to be a missionary with a husband and 4 kids. Now I'm in a gay marriage and it couldn't be more different. But that's OKAY! You'll grow SO MUCH from that. To see that you're not perfect and that life isn't. It's actually so librating! And exiting too! Just live one day at a time!! Be yourself and don't judge yourself for being human and vulnerable!!!! I'm so proud of you for the way you made this video, not throwing shade and just being such a kind human! You are brave and strong! And amazing the way you are!! Don't let yourself tell you otherwise! You'll come out sronger, just take my word for it

    • @carriea4046
      @carriea4046 5 лет назад +9

      I just want to let you know that what you have done has shown a tremendous amount of strength and courage to come out to the public and bare your soul and show your vulnerability shows me and should show everyone else what an amazingly strong woman you really are

    • @Cubitoo18
      @Cubitoo18 5 лет назад +3

      blueprint. Thank You For This ❤️

  • @jenarichelle92
    @jenarichelle92 5 лет назад +4

    oh kayley. you are loved. you are so strong! we will always be here for you whenever you're ready to come back full swing. focus on your health, and surround yourself with love. if i was your friend i would hug you! ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @selinaluk5291
    @selinaluk5291 5 лет назад +26

    Kayley stay strong!You are doing great!😘😘Everything is gonna be fine.

  • @CrazyhouseV2
    @CrazyhouseV2 4 года назад +1

    I found your channel not long after my divorce 6 years ago. You were the reason I got out of bed on the days I didn’t have my kids home, the reason I felt human when everything else felt like it was stacked on top of me. To that I say, thank you. Divorce is hard, finding your new normal is hard. But in 2, 5 or 10 years from now, you’ll look back and be proud of yourself for overcoming every adversity that was thrown your way. Hang in there, it gets easier.

  • @anavaldez7330
    @anavaldez7330 5 лет назад +1

    Love you Kayley! Everyting happens for a reason and all will fall into place for you! We are here for you! :) 💖💖💖

  • @MZ31394
    @MZ31394 5 лет назад +12

    I've been watching you for years I still remember your olive green background. You are amazing and I am sending you lots of love ❤❤❤ the most important thing is for you to heal and be 100% ❤❤❤

  • @owllilly5535
    @owllilly5535 5 лет назад +5

    Sendung you a big hug! 💜
    You are so strong and wonderful! 💚

  • @aleguzman4203
    @aleguzman4203 5 лет назад +2

    I've followed you ever since your channel started and loved you since then. You'll get through this and I hope you can see us as a way of support. We don't personally know you but we love you.

  • @charlottedeudonne4479
    @charlottedeudonne4479 5 лет назад +4

    Hey, no worries sweetie. In fact, not posting allowed us to rewatch favorites and catch up on ones we missed. Only with you for 4-5 years now. But as your students, we are collectively better and ready to move forward with you. 💕 from a single mother and little girl