Thanks for having this discussion! Really helpful to reflect on. So hard to be on first thing right away in the morning time. Something I’m learning about is expressing my desires, but letting go of how they get achieved. That’s up to my partner on how he could make what I’m expressing happen. Maybe he’ll think of something completely new I hadn’t. Seems like the misunderstanding was around the rushing. It was stated it seems you didn’t want to rush so you saw the only option as we have to go at 9. Understandable because that’s what you had to do in the past for you not to have to rush. Maybe what confused was you stating your desire and telling how to achieve it. It’s a new skill not easy I’m still learning it. Yeah and I can so see both of your sides and you both are doing so good! Good job finding what was underlying issue ❤
Thanks for having this discussion! Really helpful to reflect on. So hard to be on first thing right away in the morning time. Something I’m learning about is expressing my desires, but letting go of how they get achieved. That’s up to my partner on how he could make what I’m expressing happen. Maybe he’ll think of something completely new I hadn’t. Seems like the misunderstanding was around the rushing. It was stated it seems you didn’t want to rush so you saw the only option as we have to go at 9. Understandable because that’s what you had to do in the past for you not to have to rush. Maybe what confused was you stating your desire and telling how to achieve it. It’s a new skill not easy I’m still learning it. Yeah and I can so see both of your sides and you both are doing so good! Good job finding what was underlying issue ❤