I'm glad that those young women had the self-esteem to defend themselves from those ugly attacks. And that guy who stood up for that young woman on the plane is a hero.
If you're two seats wide, how about booking two seats? She was stealing his space, squeezing him into a corner and then shaming him despite him taking it with humor.
Especially since that woman wasn't skinny herself and her outfit didn't help her either. And had the gall to insult the other woman like she was a patron saint of the church.
@@xen8717 it’s part of the culture unfortunately. If you’re not considered “skinny”, most of the time you’ll get comments about your body no matter what.
As a Christian, I am so sorry about what happened to the first woman. That is not how anyone should be treated ever (biblically or morally). This is disgusting behavior and I hope she found a new church home (if she felt like leaving the church).
The woman who was shaming her had a name tag on makes me wonder if she was a guest. Still she shamed her yet she was big herself. Then told her not to wear shorts, well mam u shouldn't be wearing sleeveless.
You realize this is COMMON in churches right? Especially with the elder members... after a lifetime of living a "godly" life, many start to act entitled and forget they have sins too. 🤷♀️
Society confuses me, first you get shamed for being heavy then you get shamed for being thin... sorry I have a slow metabolism and sorry I have a fast metabolism..
Right that is true. If you gain weight then some busy body will make a nasty comment about it. If you then go and lose a bunch of weight that same busybody will call you an anorexic.
Right! Just be you and try to be healthy (however that may look). My husband has always dealt with weight issues and when people look at him weird I swear I just make a stupid face at them lol like seriously worry about yourself people! No matter what you do someone will always have a problem with it.
I was shamed countless times for breastfeeding. So I stopped covering up, baby didn't like it anyway, and we just ignored people and kept on our merry way. 🤷♀️
Woman tells kids -"If you keep eating samples you'll be fat like her" Next day - "I don't want my kids thinking that'll be fat if they eat too much icecream" Tf??
Well she was saying she should be fired for being a bad influence like this girl is the one making them think that way. No... MOM you're the one putting those thoughts in their heads.
Arisha Ahmed Because a lot of people would take offense to that. I tried that before with this kid at my school because he was lazy, ate to much, and never worked out and I even offered to work out with him. He got super mad at me claiming I was fat shaming him because I was encouraging him to exercise. I’m not saying it would be like that for everyone, if your willing to eat healthy and exercise than I’ll encourage you, but if your just going to be lazy and do nothing about it, then that’s a whole different story. That’s the problem with a lot of people these days, they treat themselves terrible and get mad at people who try to help them.
I know men get body shamed but this is the perfect example of how much more pressure people put on women to look a certain way. As someone who is fat, I hate the way I look, I want to be healthy and I’m trying to make changes but I don’t get the hatred. Smoking cigarettes is unhealthy but people don’t have hatred for smokers because people don’t care if you’re unhealthy. They care if you’re sexually attractive and that’s truly disgusting!
As someone who's overweight I have to agree....legit there's nothing wrong with pointing out that carrying on more weight than you should is not good...but people point it out for the wrong reasons Because they want people to fit in their own standards of beauty...and not because of health factors....yet other spectrums of unhealthy aren't pointed out...like I'll see people who say they skip a meal in front of their acquaintances or starve themselves for the sake of losing weight and no one bats an eye or point out how unhealthy it is... Or someone who may smoke may not be berated as much because in pop culture it's seen as attractive when it has many health risks such as lung cancer and COPD later in life... Or on the psychological spectrum when people insult themselves such as calling themselves 'idiot' we don't see people pointing out how psychologically and spiritually unhealthy that is...or mentally beating themselves up... We see people encouraging disordered eating behaviors...such as dieting which encourages you to limit your caloric intake severely without discretion from a medical professional which is very dangerous if you don't know what you're doing...instead of making lifestyle changes and a balanced diet that is nutritional and in a healthy caloric range Being underweight as a result of eating disorders, or being at any weight in general and limiting foods/starving, smoking, binge eating, sedentary lifestyle, obesity.... it's all unhealthy... And insulting people because of their weight isn't healthy... because it makes them lose weight for all the wrong reasons for other people who have insulted them.... We have to discern the difference between insulting people because of their weight and pointing out how unhealthy obesity and being overweight can be...but we can't ignore other unhealthy factors in not just America but in the world Sir there's nothing wrong with trying to be healthy but do it for the sake of health because you're amazingly created by God no matter what...not because of your outward appearance:) God Bless you sir
Every where I look I see a cigarette or vape in someone's mouth and no one bat's an eye, but when someone has a body that looks anything other than a barbie doll people complain. I have been a skeleton my whole life and I'm constantly being looked at or told to eat more or compared to other people. I have been assumed to be a drug addict or having an eating disorder but I can't gain enough weight. If I do gain weight I don't look healthy either
I think it also goes back to parenting, this is behavior that is learned and not corrected as children, I have always told my children if you don't have nothing nice to say then shut your mouth! Be respectful of other people's attributes and keep it moving
@@mrbeast6008 Jealous that those people were happy with their bodies. Some people aren't happy about their bodies and use bullying to cover up their jealousy.
@@RockDay-wv8jq Being too skinny and being overweight isn’t good for your health, you shouldn’t shame people, but normalising being overweight and being underweight isn’t safe.
Your dad never did anything except emotionally abuse your mother and you, that man was drinking and didn't even do that to her. Yes, he was rude AF but he didn't tell her anything, he wrote it in a msg that wasn't directed to her. She was offended because she read his offensive message that was sent to someone else. On the other hand, you dad actually did something to you which is a lot worse than him not telling you anything but you reading his private messages
Thank you for sticking up for yourself! It lets the rest of the world know that it is indeed not OK to treat people like this. Thank you so much for your courage
I would’ve just said wear less makeup cause she’s very pretty even without it but yeah your a very twisted kind of person if you ever shame a woman for breastfeeding her kid
Be careful when you use animals breastfeeding in the wild as a defense for women breastfeeding in public....it can blow up in your face. Animals also have sex in the wild. 😉
Oh lord I can’t believe you’d think that’s grose and unhealthy, It’s not unhealthy it’s called humanity humanity does this because we’ve done that long before they ever had bottles to feed their baby’s, so yeah it’s called being human and being a lady too It’s cute to see anyone or anything breastfeeding their children, I don’t get what so grose about it or unhealthy about that, milk from the breast comes naturally so that’s the most healthiest type you can get is something that comes naturally,
This is just really sad to know how there can be people this cruel out there, I was shamed once by a man who called me out pregnant and he apologized when I told him that I wasn't because he said that I was 'kinda' fat.
A man once said that to me well he asked me if I was pregnant and laughed and I replied with ' you know what I'm not sure myself , lets both take a pregnancy test and find out if I am ' ..made him feel so uncomfortable. Sometimes you gotta kill them humour lmao
Bruh that church lady is so rude! Who follows someone just to insult them? And the lady who was insulted needs to calm down, the one thing you never do is show bullies that their words affect you.
I agree, that lady was so rude to insult the girl who is giving her gift of singing to that Church. But I understand how the girl couldn't control her crying, I once had to stand up to bullies right after having an anxiety attack. Sometimes you can't control the tears and the trembling, but to stand up for yourself anyway is strength.
RA4gjack Jack well I don’t think losing weight should be glorified. I think if you’re unhealthy, getting healthy again is just the obvious thing to do. But if you wanna orgasm over it, be my guest
@@cheesy4582 Cheesy 45 Life is hard and changing things can be difficult. I think it's just fine to praise people when they accomplish something that betters their lives, regardless of what it is.
@@cheesy4582 look just because someone lost weight and the other person is proud doesn’t mean you have to be angry or resentful. Sometimes it’s healthy to loss weight and other times not. But it’s also peoples choice to loss weight or not. Just because you feel the person doesn’t deserve to get recognized for their hard work doesn’t mean that someone else can’t recognize them
I’m not a woman, but if I was and had a child, I would never whip it out to breastfeed in public. It makes zero logical sense. Just have something prepared when in public so you don’t have to waste time doing it. And what is the point of posting it online. What if that child grows up and doesn’t want a picture of them breastfeeding. It’s rather selfish if you ask me
The worst part is she probably did it because someone did it to her... I never had the urge to insult anyone until some people pointed out my flaws. I was able to resist the urge, however. Break the cycle.
The body builder is so beautiful! And breastfeeding is a beautiful thing as well! So way to go! To all the women on this episode! So proud of you all! Finding the courage to stand up for yourself is remarkable!
What a great guy sticking up for a complete stranger! Good on you chase and that poor lady who was treated in that matter I'm very sorry and you're beautiful if you read these comments.
john probst or maybe don’t be like that. Weight doesn’t matter and you should love yourself. People shouldn’t be saying stuff like that at all. And to call people fat you must be a very sad person.
Never ever shame over weight people, they have hearts of gold! My hubby is overweight and I love every bit of him and I'm skinny. He tells people I'm skinny cos he eats all the food 😂😂💚💚💚
Wait a minute - the troll who wrote the Yelp review said she didn't want her children thinking that if they ate a lot of ice cream, they would end up like the woman who worked there? SHE'S the one who told them that! While it's true that many samples would be enough ice cream for any person in one sitting, this horrible woman was essentially complaining about herself.
Ok what grown adult calls someone "smelly fatty" that sounds like something a 5 year old would say because they don't know how to process someone bigger than them
I’m not defending the “rude” texters here but does no one else realize if the people had minded their own business and not look over to begin with, the problem would’ve never occurred?
Yeah I wandered that too like doesn't everyone have their own phones to look and not at others??? Like I lessen the brightness on my phone so people won't see me reading yaoi in public and if they complain about me doing it then excuse me don't look.
I'm in my 30's and I honestly don't remember being in my teens or 20's and there being this common attitude of thinking it's acceptable to voice your opinion about everything and everyone, it seems to be encouraged and disguised as being "confident" or "honest" but you can possess both those virtues without hurting someone's feelings or being downright rude and offensive.
Those were truly appalling and insulting people but I dont get why anyone would want to peek into other's private texts. Thats rude and disrespectful as well. Remember those who listen into other's conversations seldom hear good about themselves.
@Element 406 yeah but she didnt need to record him. Still her fault. That was a private message. She could have just moved on. He is only think worse of her now.
Heavens Animals who accidentally looks over at someone else’s phone and reads a series of text messages? I mean I know it was wrong for him to say those things but you shouldn’t be snooping around in other peoples business. It’s just like someone said a few texts up, don’t go looking or you will find what you’re looking for. Those comments were very rude but the whole situation could’ve been avoided if she wasn’t looking in other peoples things.
this is an example of how people project their own insecurities onto other people. it's really sad. everyone deserves to feel comfortable in their own body.
I don't look at people enough to actually read what they're typing. That's rude in itself. Gotta stop being nosy lol. If I don't read their texts I don't know what they're saying lol.
While people texting nasty things about people is awful and rude, it's also quite rude to be reading the text messages of the person sitting beside you.
These women call themselves fat and hate it but don't do nothing about it. I love when people critizize me. It gets me going to reach the "better outcome."
Body shaming is unacceptable If your too skinny Judged If your a little over weight Judged Muscular and fit Judged You can’t be yourself and love yourself without hearing the hurtful opinions of others it’s pretty sad
I’ve experienced this myself. As a kid, my parents and my sisters told me that I was too skinny. Then when I hit puberty, they said that I looked fat and was eating unhealthy (even though I was eating whatever they would buy) Now at the age of 24, they tell me that I’m too skinny again. I can say now that I’ve learned to just not listen to them and to only work on my body for myself, but I can also say that growing up, I felt super pressured to meet their standards and I felt like I never could
"Don't come back in those shorts" sounds more like modesty concerns than concerns about her being overweight. However, the lady's tone was really harsh and not the best way to share any concern.
Its possible she tried saying nicely but this girl was getting in her feels and started recording when she had made the situation bad enough. I am not a religious person even i wear decent clothing to any religious place as a sign of respect for others fate.
Bikini models always look older right before a competition, it’s from all of the extra tanning, saunas and dehydration...Honestly they look better when they’re taking care of themselves, they look younger and happier, but all the judges care about is the tan and the abs
Kevin Bowers Agree with the comment above. Body builders have to lose tons of fat and also dehydrate themselves right before competition so their muscles will stick out. This also means they look much older than usual. I recommend watching body building documentaries on here, they’re pretty interesting.
To be honest I don't agree with posting a picture of you breast feeding your child I feel it should be a private thing and not something you wanna share to the world.
fidgety ant I just don’t get seeing it as that. I mean it’s a mother feeding their baby. We don’t stop other humans from eating in public, so why should we stop babies from eating?
That lady didn’t want her children thinking they would look like that if they ate too much ice cream. Yet, she is the one who told her kids that and put that thought in their head.
It’s completely human lol, humans belong to the animal kingdom and it’s like humans don’t see themselves as an animal species anymore. Breastfeeding is giving food to your baby. Food that creates a bond between baby and mother
to the person who said “feeding your baby is private and should be an intimate time with you and your baby” maybe you shouldn’t be going to restaurants and eating in public, because that baby eating from her mother is like you getting a bite to eat. so if you think it’s “inappropriate” for her to feed her baby in public, then maybe it’s inappropriate for you to eat in public.
In a restaurant, when your eating, your not exposing private body parts to do it. Modesty, modesty, modesty. They make cute, breathable cover-ups to allow you to breastfeed in public but keep it modest as well. Many of my friends have used them.
@@GardenJensJourney yeah these aint it if you live somewhere hot. anyone whos upset over breastfeeding is just an imbecile vigilante who needs to step on others to feel important
I don’t think we should praise being over weight in America, we should praise being healthy and living longer I am not going to shame anyone but we should encourage being leaner and fitter
Stephanie Marie well we need to start encouraging weight loss in the U.S. because nearly half of the U.S. will be obese by 2030 which is a major health issue
@@averageboi5195 yeah we do need to encourage healthy weight but we also should not shame people for their weight. I gained weight fast just from starting a new depression/anxiety medication. I have never really been fat but I have been struggling to stay thin my whole life. My body is supposedly healthy yet my metabolism seems very slow. If they truly care about that person then why would they make horrible insults about them? You have no idea how much a person suffers about their appearance.
Yah being overweight is a bad thing and I accept it for other people but it Dosent mean that they shouldn’t change there is zero positives to being over weight and I think if we encouraged it more and America would be a lot better
@@SNOWQueen87-v1g its his private message. He can say what he wants. And she probably was crossing into his side withher extra mass. No one wants that. Lol she had the nerve to say "im very active, i just happen to be fat" 🤣🤣 delusional woman
Ok the second guy might have been wrong but looking in his phone and taking pictures of his messages is violating his privacy, I’m pretty sure it’s illegal
7:18 wdym? It’s not unhealthy exercising even when you’re pregnant. I swear people think that when you’re pregnant you can’t do anything, like pregnant people aren’t crippled. Another thing I don’t understand why people have to sexualize breast feeding, it’s not inappropriate she’s feeding her baby it’s perfectly natural. I swear people get offended about everything these days, they need to calm down and worry about themselves. 🤦♀️
"Don't come back...I'm warning you.."- that woman has a dominant critical parent personality She should be ordered to go for sessions with a councelor ,teaching her TA so that she can see where her rudeness comes from
People suck. But I’m super proud of these women for standing up for themselves. And the wonderful dude that put his arm around a crying woman whilst defending her.
So many people reading other people's texts... that's a pretty big intrusion. Not saying they should be saying mean stuff, but don't read other people's texts and you'll feel better.
@@mikaelkahwaji2108 fr, he was telling the truth. girl was pretty much a fatass, sure it sucks that he was sending messages, but he was basically minding his own business.
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This First Lady is bigger than her she shouldn’t say anything like that. And at CHURCH??!
Preach rewatching this video
As a black woman we do not claim her
@@wetfetus5791 lmao
The offender should be kicked out of both God's & her own home.
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That first woman doesn’t own a mirror. And she’s probably just jealous that she’s not young anymore.
Your low IQ is showing.
That's was the first thing that came to my mind.
doubtful.
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The First Lady wasn’t even skinny herself why she taking
She said the girl shouldnt be wear shorts on stage. The girl made it about her weight. But the way the old woman handled it was wrong
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Oh cmon don’t act stupid, you know what the lady meant when she said not to wear those shorts
@@barcode1512 yeah, she means dont wear shorts on stage. Dress code.
Governor Greenlight
Okay, I guess you’re just going to act stupid then
Ikr
I'm glad that those young women had the self-esteem to defend themselves from those ugly attacks. And that guy who stood up for that young woman on the plane is a hero.
If you're two seats wide, how about booking two seats?
She was stealing his space, squeezing him into a corner and then shaming him despite him taking it with humor.
@@MrCmon113 maybe there weren't any seats left? Besides the one
@@MrCmon113 how do you know that she was in his bubble?
I’m not defending the rude person, but wondering if that is ok to read someone’s text messages? So probably she did read other text messages.
I'm glad they love themselves. Doesn't change there fat though
"Don't come to the stage like that. I am warning you."
Literally a threat in a CHURCH
Especially since that woman wasn't skinny herself and her outfit didn't help her either. And had the gall to insult the other woman like she was a patron saint of the church.
Who does she think she is??
@@rosanchez9715 she looks bigger than the woman she's insulting.
I'm sure it's more don't wear shorts in church than the size
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It’s always nice to see people standing up for themselves
Yea ikr
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This is heart broken…
As an Asian, just like body shaming, racial shaming is daily.
im so sorry you have to deal with that ):
@@xen8717 it’s part of the culture unfortunately. If you’re not considered “skinny”, most of the time you’ll get comments about your body no matter what.
Same I'm a chubby Asian girl so it's hard to deal with
Oh yeah cause race is unhunching just like being fat. It's not like fat people can control what they put it their mouth or anything!
Bruh I thought in church you should go pray not trash talking to other people Omg thanks for the likes
Bruh i tought in fortnite you should cry not trash talk
They're some of the most judgmental people I have ever met.
Nope. Ur brain dead
Nope. (I* thought* ) you’re clearly 12.
No in church you 1v1 on nuke town
“Smelly fatty” is a first grade argument come back
LMAO
lol
What does lmao mean
DINO KING1313 “laugh my ass of”
LMAO TRUE
As a Christian, I am so sorry about what happened to the first woman. That is not how anyone should be treated ever (biblically or morally). This is disgusting behavior and I hope she found a new church home (if she felt like leaving the church).
The woman who was shaming her had a name tag on makes me wonder if she was a guest. Still she shamed her yet she was big herself. Then told her not to wear shorts, well mam u shouldn't be wearing sleeveless.
You realize this is COMMON in churches right? Especially with the elder members... after a lifetime of living a "godly" life, many start to act entitled and forget they have sins too. 🤷♀️
This makes me sad
Why should you be sorry at the first place
As a Christian, I am sorry about wat happened to ALL of these people.
Chase, the man who stood up for this woman he didn’t even know, that’s a wonderful human being right there. we all need to be more like chase!
“Smelly fatty” sounds like something my 5 year old cousin would say to someone
RIGHT💀🥴🤣
LMAO
The person who bodyshamed her is INDEED A TODDLER
@@nursayban.7445 true
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Society confuses me, first you get shamed for being heavy then you get shamed for being thin... sorry I have a slow metabolism and sorry I have a fast metabolism..
Right that is true. If you gain weight then some busy body will make a nasty comment about it. If you then go and lose a bunch of weight that same busybody will call you an anorexic.
Yea
Right! Just be you and try to be healthy (however that may look). My husband has always dealt with weight issues and when people look at him weird I swear I just make a stupid face at them lol like seriously worry about yourself people! No matter what you do someone will always have a problem with it.
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That’s why you ignore these idiots and do you, Boo Boo 😘💪🏻💪🏻💃💃😎😎💁🏻♀️no matter your size, your a DAMN PRIZE.
I could hear the 1st girls pain in her voice 🥺
ewww
Jesus whattt
I could hear her being over dramatic.
shush karen.
@@jamiemohan2049 Yeah, you must be the perfect size and have never been body shamed.
I was shamed countless times for breastfeeding. So I stopped covering up, baby didn't like it anyway, and we just ignored people and kept on our merry way. 🤷♀️
GREAT FOR YOU! 💯💜 It's amazing how triggered people get about something that is just as natural as the ability to give birth. 💔
@@GiftFromGod4U it just shows ppl insecurities. 🤷♀️🤣
wow, so brave...
Woman tells kids -"If you keep eating samples you'll be fat like her"
Next day - "I don't want my kids thinking that'll be fat if they eat too much icecream"
Tf??
Right, which one do you want🙁
Well she was saying she should be fired for being a bad influence like this girl is the one making them think that way. No... MOM you're the one putting those thoughts in their heads.
Lol that's what I was thinking
I picked up on that too!
Did you mean “that I’ll” instead of “that’ll” ?
It’s always nice when people stand up for themselves! Not as easy as it seems
Fat shaming is awful. What's next heart disease shaming, high blood pressure shaming, or early death shaming
Matthew M well fat people cant consider themselves beautiful because obesity is a disease
Peter Griffin yeah, instead of shaming them, why don’t you encourage obese people to lose weight?
Arisha Ahmed Because a lot of people would take offense to that. I tried that before with this kid at my school because he was lazy, ate to much, and never worked out and I even offered to work out with him. He got super mad at me claiming I was fat shaming him because I was encouraging him to exercise. I’m not saying it would be like that for everyone, if your willing to eat healthy and exercise than I’ll encourage you, but if your just going to be lazy and do nothing about it, then that’s a whole different story. That’s the problem with a lot of people these days, they treat themselves terrible and get mad at people who try to help them.
Peter Griffin well you do have a point there
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@Lyzette De La Cruz finally lmao
I know men get body shamed but this is the perfect example of how much more pressure people put on women to look a certain way. As someone who is fat, I hate the way I look, I want to be healthy and I’m trying to make changes but I don’t get the hatred. Smoking cigarettes is unhealthy but people don’t have hatred for smokers because people don’t care if you’re unhealthy. They care if you’re sexually attractive and that’s truly disgusting!
As someone who's overweight I have to agree....legit there's nothing wrong with pointing out that carrying on more weight than you should is not good...but people point it out for the wrong reasons Because they want people to fit in their own standards of beauty...and not because of health factors....yet other spectrums of unhealthy aren't pointed out...like I'll see people who say they skip a meal in front of their acquaintances or starve themselves for the sake of losing weight and no one bats an eye or point out how unhealthy it is...
Or someone who may smoke may not be berated as much because in pop culture it's seen as attractive when it has many health risks such as lung cancer and COPD later in life...
Or on the psychological spectrum when people insult themselves such as calling themselves 'idiot' we don't see people pointing out how psychologically and spiritually unhealthy that is...or mentally beating themselves up...
We see people encouraging disordered eating behaviors...such as dieting which encourages you to limit your caloric intake severely without discretion from a medical professional which is very dangerous if you don't know what you're doing...instead of making lifestyle changes and a balanced diet that is nutritional and in a healthy caloric range
Being underweight as a result of eating disorders, or being at any weight in general and limiting foods/starving, smoking, binge eating, sedentary lifestyle, obesity.... it's all unhealthy...
And insulting people because of their weight isn't healthy... because it makes them lose weight for all the wrong reasons for other people who have insulted them....
We have to discern the difference between insulting people because of their weight and pointing out how unhealthy obesity and being overweight can be...but we can't ignore other unhealthy factors in not just America but in the world
Sir there's nothing wrong with trying to be healthy but do it for the sake of health because you're amazingly created by God no matter what...not because of your outward appearance:) God Bless you sir
Jesus loves you very much brother:)))
Every where I look I see a cigarette or vape in someone's mouth and no one bat's an eye, but when someone has a body that looks anything other than a barbie doll people complain. I have been a skeleton my whole life and I'm constantly being looked at or told to eat more or compared to other people. I have been assumed to be a drug addict or having an eating disorder but I can't gain enough weight. If I do gain weight I don't look healthy either
Is it just me or the girl in red says she’s fat acting like she ain’t fat lmao
shes just projecting
But she is am not fat shaming its just true
She looks pregnant but is too old to be pregnant. And WHAT is that shirt??
Shame on those people for shaming people. Jealously is such a horrible poison.
I think it also goes back to parenting, this is behavior that is learned and not corrected as children, I have always told my children if you don't have nothing nice to say then shut your mouth! Be respectful of other people's attributes and keep it moving
@@angeliabrooks4387 good mama
Jealous of what?
@@mrbeast6008 Jealous that those people were happy with their bodies. Some people aren't happy about their bodies and use bullying to cover up their jealousy.
@@RockDay-wv8jq Being too skinny and being overweight isn’t good for your health, you shouldn’t shame people, but normalising being overweight and being underweight isn’t safe.
"I was drinking."
My father drank but he never did anything except emotionally abuse my mother and I. Get some help if drinking does that.
I’m sorry 🥺❤️
to be honest should've have read his private texts everything would've been fine if she didn't read them now that flight will be long and weird
Your dad never did anything except emotionally abuse your mother and you, that man was drinking and didn't even do that to her. Yes, he was rude AF but he didn't tell her anything, he wrote it in a msg that wasn't directed to her. She was offended because she read his offensive message that was sent to someone else.
On the other hand, you dad actually did something to you which is a lot worse than him not telling you anything but you reading his private messages
Agree
That's not any better
Thank you for sticking up for yourself! It lets the rest of the world know that it is indeed not OK to treat people like this. Thank you so much for your courage
"A human Breastfeeding ILL GROSS that is unhealthy"
but when other animals like cows do that
*Aww So Cute*
Ikr. Women have breasts for a reason.
I would’ve just said wear less makeup cause she’s very pretty even without it but yeah your a very twisted kind of person if you ever shame a woman for breastfeeding her kid
Be careful when you use animals breastfeeding in the wild as a defense for women breastfeeding in public....it can blow up in your face. Animals also have sex in the wild. 😉
Obviously. *Babies don't just randomly come out of nowhere.*
Oh lord I can’t believe you’d think that’s grose and unhealthy,
It’s not unhealthy it’s called humanity humanity does this because we’ve done that long before they ever had bottles to feed their baby’s, so yeah it’s called being human and being a lady too
It’s cute to see anyone or anything breastfeeding their children, I don’t get what so grose about it or unhealthy about that, milk from the breast comes naturally so that’s the most healthiest type you can get is something that comes naturally,
Body shaming is bad. Everyone can't be a size 0.
@white guy of narnia You need to RE READ my COMMENT. I didn't say ME. I said EVERYONE! You just trying to start something.
@ Did i say that?
Vintage Girl fatties need to be gone
@@anishheda You probably ain't skinny. You trolls needs to be gone.
@ Go away troll.
The First Lady actually looked great even if she was a bit bigger. Ps: That old woman should look in a freaking mirror.
This is just really sad to know how there can be people this cruel out there, I was shamed once by a man who called me out pregnant and he apologized when I told him that I wasn't because he said that I was 'kinda' fat.
A man once said that to me well he asked me if I was pregnant and laughed and I replied with ' you know what I'm not sure myself , lets both take a pregnancy test and find out if I am ' ..made him feel so uncomfortable. Sometimes you gotta kill them humour lmao
The lady was probably jealous of her singing abilities and her inner beauty so she had to bring her down by her using her appearance
Probably, it's sad that because of insecurities they feel that they have to try to make themselves look good but actually. Akes them look horrible.
“hopefully she didn’t eat mexican food” “I think she ate a mexican” I’m sorry but wtf😂
That was pretty funny lmfao
HunchoJack ikr
thats not funny you know thats rude and its really mean if i were to say that you ate a mexican you would feel unwanted
As for someone who is overweight I find that insulting. Sorry. Not funny at all.
HunchoJack what he said was wrong but she was being nosy it was HIS text not hers she needs to look at her own phone
I felt so bad for the First Lady. Also that’s beyond creepy to follow someone into the bathroom like that itself is nuts
Bruh that church lady is so rude! Who follows someone just to insult them?
And the lady who was insulted needs to calm down, the one thing you never do is show bullies that their words affect you.
I agree, that lady was so rude to insult the girl who is giving her gift of singing to that Church. But I understand how the girl couldn't control her crying, I once had to stand up to bullies right after having an anxiety attack. Sometimes you can't control the tears and the trembling, but to stand up for yourself anyway is strength.
4:14 - 4:34 Nice to hear that he was a upstander rather than a bystander. Her expressing her appreciation brought tears to my eyes.
Body shaming is like level one insults literally a 3-year-old could do better
The first lady needed to shut the whole in her face. She’s calling someone fat when she isn’t even skinny herself.
This.
She probably felt the need to bring her down because someone else did the same to her, and so the cycle of envy and bullying continues.
Chase, I send you so much love for comforting a crying stranger. Thank you for putting kindness out there.
“I think she ate a Mexican”
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Theres one thing standing up for yourself but then to loose the weight after is just AMAZING
RA4gjack Jack well I don’t think losing weight should be glorified. I think if you’re unhealthy, getting healthy again is just the obvious thing to do. But if you wanna orgasm over it, be my guest
Cheesy 45 do think gaining weight should be glorified
@@cheesy4582 Cheesy 45 Life is hard and changing things can be difficult. I think it's just fine to praise people when they accomplish something that betters their lives, regardless of what it is.
Cheesy 45 really??? I think losing weight should absolutely be glorified.
@@cheesy4582 look just because someone lost weight and the other person is proud doesn’t mean you have to be angry or resentful. Sometimes it’s healthy to loss weight and other times not. But it’s also peoples choice to loss weight or not. Just because you feel the person doesn’t deserve to get recognized for their hard work doesn’t mean that someone else can’t recognize them
Let's normalize breastfeeding. As a trans dude, I think it's stupid that people judge women for keeping their baby alive.
Since when were you trans? Did you forget to put it in the Bible?
@@melonnationxp LMAO!! I forgot that my username was God. I meant irl I'm trans.
@American Badass yeah I agree, posting your whole life just isn’t right in general
I’m not a woman, but if I was and had a child, I would never whip it out to breastfeed in public. It makes zero logical sense. Just have something prepared when in public so you don’t have to waste time doing it.
And what is the point of posting it online. What if that child grows up and doesn’t want a picture of them breastfeeding. It’s rather selfish if you ask me
The breastfeeding is not the problem, it's doing it in public and posting it on social media.
This is how eating disorders begin. I’m so proud of these BEAUTIFUL women for standing up for themselves! 💫
Everyone in the comment section angels now
F8 Drody Good grammar bud
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MericaMan43 Gamer It do be slang doe 😳
Go stream gta kid
A Boat well let me think. Don’t be idiotic.
Wow. Getting body-shamed in a church. That’s just wrong.
It's wrong anywhere and there's people like that everywhere.
I cant believed the first one
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Psycho Cookie it’s not English class.
Iso Zay is fine
John Galatti ight💯
Lock x Zay u souls like that one person that forgets they had homework. 💀
2nd woman is completely and utterly in the wrong. You don't snoop strangers' phones and take a picture of them. Wtf
Imagine being so insecure that you have to make somebody’s day just to feel better about yourself
** ruin or worsen someone’s day
The worst part is she probably did it because someone did it to her... I never had the urge to insult anyone until some people pointed out my flaws. I was able to resist the urge, however. Break the cycle.
You should always stand up for yourself. That will boost your confidence immediately
Well that’s not easy for everyone
Nice pfp. Terrific album
The body builder is so beautiful! And breastfeeding is a beautiful thing as well! So way to go! To all the women on this episode! So proud of you all! Finding the courage to stand up for yourself is remarkable!
That first guy on the airplane was actually pretty humble and apologetic
Also bad liar and childish
Childish af
What a great guy sticking up for a complete stranger! Good on you chase and that poor lady who was treated in that matter I'm very sorry and you're beautiful if you read these comments.
My question is why is she reading someone else text
Moral of the story dont let people read you're message on airplanes😩😩
I went to her crappy Instagram she lost 4000 followers when she posted text messages on the dudes phone
Girl have some privacy ok it's a private conversation. He didn't even mind you in the plane he just texted his friend ok
Amen
john probst or maybe don’t be like that. Weight doesn’t matter and you should love yourself. People shouldn’t be saying stuff like that at all. And to call people fat you must be a very sad person.
mari jazzy or don’t say mean things
Never ever shame over weight people, they have hearts of gold! My hubby is overweight and I love every bit of him and I'm skinny. He tells people I'm skinny cos he eats all the food 😂😂💚💚💚
Period 😍😍 we love a thicky Nicki
Andrew Venegas so it does not mean to go and say offensive or rude things to other people about there weight.
Rhona K My brother: *I AM THICC*
Me: *I AM TOO*
Not all of them
And they got moves McGregor
Love it when someone says ‘Im sorry’ and then immediately proceeds to make the situation worse
I'm guilty of that
Wait a minute - the troll who wrote the Yelp review said she didn't want her children thinking that if they ate a lot of ice cream, they would end up like the woman who worked there? SHE'S the one who told them that! While it's true that many samples would be enough ice cream for any person in one sitting, this horrible woman was essentially complaining about herself.
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If she thinks like that don't take them to ice cream place ignorant woman
The first sign of insecurity is to attack others.
We need more men like chase he warms my heart
Yes we need more weirdos who read peoples private messages on airplanes!! Exactly what the world needs. Or maybe the world needs a diet too
Ok what grown adult calls someone "smelly fatty" that sounds like something a 5 year old would say because they don't know how to process someone bigger than them
“I think she ate a mexican” BRUH 🤣
cjXinfinity not gonna lie that one got me
@@squamman631 lmaooooooooo
That was a great roast
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Alex M. That because you don’t know how to roast
I’m not defending the “rude” texters here but does no one else realize if the people had minded their own business and not look over to begin with, the problem would’ve never occurred?
Thank you.... i agree
Commander Blakay I can’t help it dude I’m curious i always try to be respectful but I slightly fail now with my paranoia this makes it worse
Yeah I wandered that too like doesn't everyone have their own phones to look and not at others??? Like I lessen the brightness on my phone so people won't see me reading yaoi in public and if they complain about me doing it then excuse me don't look.
@Yeet Oofz YAAY FELLOW YAOI FANS!!
Shouldn't be thinking like that to begin with but whatever y'all probably SALTY
Why can’t we live our own lives and leave other people alone to live theirs?
Yes, why can't you leave other airplane passangers alone and book two seats if you're two seats wide?
Exactly
Karen alert
@@MrCmon113 go cry
I'm in my 30's and I honestly don't remember being in my teens or 20's and there being this common attitude of thinking it's acceptable to voice your opinion about everything and everyone, it seems to be encouraged and disguised as being "confident" or "honest" but you can possess both those virtues without hurting someone's feelings or being downright rude and offensive.
Those were truly appalling and insulting people but I dont get why anyone would want to peek into other's private texts. Thats rude and disrespectful as well. Remember those who listen into other's conversations seldom hear good about themselves.
I agree. If they hadn't been snooping they wouldn't have gotten offended. That's what you get for being nosy.
@Element 406 yeah but she didnt need to record him. Still her fault. That was a private message. She could have just moved on. He is only think worse of her now.
I have to agree. Dont go looking or you will get what you're looking for simple
Have any of you been on a plane? Its easy to look over and see what your seat mate is doing especially if it's a long ass flight hun
Heavens Animals who accidentally looks over at someone else’s phone and reads a series of text messages? I mean I know it was wrong for him to say those things but you shouldn’t be snooping around in other peoples business. It’s just like someone said a few texts up, don’t go looking or you will find what you’re looking for. Those comments were very rude but the whole situation could’ve been avoided if she wasn’t looking in other peoples things.
this is an example of how people project their own insecurities onto other people. it's really sad. everyone deserves to feel comfortable in their own body.
We have to stop caring about what strangers think of us! Offense texter?Who gives a F what he’s texting his wife.
The person who was insulted by him
I don't look at people enough to actually read what they're typing. That's rude in itself. Gotta stop being nosy lol. If I don't read their texts I don't know what they're saying lol.
Rahel M. I agree 100%. If everyone was minding their own business they wouldn’t have to waste time with storylines like this.
bloodyhair If she was minding her own business and not looking on peoples phone she wouldn’t have been insulted.
@@Rahel63 Exactly what I thought. Why was she reading his private texts?
While people texting nasty things about people is awful and rude, it's also quite rude to be reading the text messages of the person sitting beside you.
smelly fatty
I'm so proud that these women for standing up for themselves. We need more of this❤❤love y'all
I'm so confused!! The first lady looked bigger than the Woman she was body shameing!!
No views, 5 likes.
RUclips better go to rehab.
sometimes the title is all it takes 🤷♀️
These women call themselves fat and hate it but don't do nothing about it. I love when people critizize me. It gets me going to reach the "better outcome."
Seriously. Is it just me that's weirded out that she's so insecure she has to check strangers phones on airplanes to see their messages?
Body shaming is unacceptable
If your too skinny
Judged
If your a little over weight
Judged
Muscular and fit
Judged
You can’t be yourself and love yourself without hearing the hurtful opinions of others it’s pretty sad
Yeah, theres no way to satisfy anyone these days
I’ve experienced this myself. As a kid, my parents and my sisters told me that I was too skinny. Then when I hit puberty, they said that I looked fat and was eating unhealthy (even though I was eating whatever they would buy) Now at the age of 24, they tell me that I’m too skinny again. I can say now that I’ve learned to just not listen to them and to only work on my body for myself, but I can also say that growing up, I felt super pressured to meet their standards and I felt like I never could
can we just appreciate that the first girls voice is absolutely beautiful
If you cannot say anything nice, do not say anything at all.
Anniekins MishkaMouse agree
Anniekins MishkaMouse technically, that was not nice.
Well, the only thing nice that someone ca;say is a compliment, so what u just said isn’t nice.
He did.. She read his private message. ;/
@wooper shooper was he not rude? She was right next to him.
"Don't come back in those shorts" sounds more like modesty concerns than concerns about her being overweight. However, the lady's tone was really harsh and not the best way to share any concern.
Its possible she tried saying nicely but this girl was getting in her feels and started recording when she had made the situation bad enough. I am not a religious person even i wear decent clothing to any religious place as a sign of respect for others fate.
small fat people:STOP BODY SHAMING ME.
Sumo wrestlers:Thats cute.
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The last girl that was the breastfeeding bodybuilder was not the same person they just interviewed 10 year age difference
I'm not trying to be rude but they just don't look the same.. the one in the bikini is 10 years older
Bikini models always look older right before a competition, it’s from all of the extra tanning, saunas and dehydration...Honestly they look better when they’re taking care of themselves, they look younger and happier, but all the judges care about is the tan and the abs
Kevin Bowers Agree with the comment above. Body builders have to lose tons of fat and also dehydrate themselves right before competition so their muscles will stick out. This also means they look much older than usual. I recommend watching body building documentaries on here, they’re pretty interesting.
To be honest I don't agree with posting a picture of you breast feeding your child I feel it should be a private thing and not something you wanna share to the world.
fidgety ant I just don’t get seeing it as that. I mean it’s a mother feeding their baby. We don’t stop other humans from eating in public, so why should we stop babies from eating?
That lady didn’t want her children thinking they would look like that if they ate too much ice cream. Yet, she is the one who told her kids that and put that thought in their head.
Breastfeeding is normal in Asian. I don’t see anything wrong with it.
It’s completely human lol, humans belong to the animal kingdom and it’s like humans don’t see themselves as an animal species anymore. Breastfeeding is giving food to your baby. Food that creates a bond between baby and mother
@@truehappiness4U so do your bonding in private
@@shirmeymckamey9386 Western men started fetishizing them and ruined everything. What next? Women cover up their feet because men fetishize them?
@@shirmeymckamey9386 Move to Saudi Arabia
Don't see anything wrong with the pic she put up. It's her pic. They need not look.
The person body shaming the lady in Church is a hypocrite
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The First Lady was jealous lol her husband probably wouldn’t stop admiring her on stage lol 😂
Omg, SERIOUSLY?! Whatever happened to “Thou shalt love thy neighbor as thyself“ & “Judge not, that ye be not judged”?? 🤨⚖️🤷♀️
They shouldn't block or blur their faces, they deserve to be exposed
to the person who said “feeding your baby is private and should be an intimate time with you and your baby” maybe you shouldn’t be going to restaurants and eating in public, because that baby eating from her mother is like you getting a bite to eat. so if you think it’s “inappropriate” for her to feed her baby in public, then maybe it’s inappropriate for you to eat in public.
In a restaurant, when your eating, your not exposing private body parts to do it. Modesty, modesty, modesty. They make cute, breathable cover-ups to allow you to breastfeed in public but keep it modest as well. Many of my friends have used them.
@@GardenJensJourney how would you like to eat with a cloth over your head? You dont have to watch.
@@mirandapriest4934 exactly if you don’t like it then don’t look. Simple.
@@GardenJensJourney if guys can walk around with their nipples out why can’t a mom feed her damn baby???
@@GardenJensJourney yeah these aint it if you live somewhere hot. anyone whos upset over breastfeeding is just an imbecile vigilante who needs to step on others to feel important
I don’t think we should praise being over weight in America, we should praise being healthy and living longer I am not going to shame anyone but we should encourage being leaner and fitter
Yeah but that's also none of your business what they do.
Stephanie Marie well we need to start encouraging weight loss in the U.S. because nearly half of the U.S. will be obese by 2030 which is a major health issue
@@averageboi5195 yeah we do need to encourage healthy weight but we also should not shame people for their weight. I gained weight fast just from starting a new depression/anxiety medication. I have never really been fat but I have been struggling to stay thin my whole life. My body is supposedly healthy yet my metabolism seems very slow. If they truly care about that person then why would they make horrible insults about them? You have no idea how much a person suffers about their appearance.
True I'm all for body acceptence. But its not ok to encourage obese people
Yah being overweight is a bad thing and I accept it for other people but it Dosent mean that they shouldn’t change there is zero positives to being over weight and I think if we encouraged it more and America would be a lot better
The first woman that is yelling at that girl in the church bathroom is overweight too, so she's one to talk.
Notice how the first girl called the other girl fat she got saggy arms look at them jiggle
Wiggle wiggle wiggle
This comment makes me uncomfortable.
I mean I get it but the description...
imagine getting you and your kids ice cream (you know, its junk food) and fat shaming people
"I think she ate a Mexican." I'm sorry but I lol'd on that. Shame on these people who thought it was alright to shame a stranger.
You laughing is doing the same 🤔. Don't be HYPRICRITICAL.
@DAVID ALLEN He should've covered his phone up. And he only apologize because he got caught.
@white guy of narnia Idk....Ask her 🤷
@white guy of narnia I don't agree with what happened but there's a difference between a private text and saying that to her
@@SNOWQueen87-v1g its his private message. He can say what he wants. And she probably was crossing into his side withher extra mass. No one wants that. Lol she had the nerve to say "im very active, i just happen to be fat" 🤣🤣 delusional woman
Ok the second guy might have been wrong but looking in his phone and taking pictures of his messages is violating his privacy, I’m pretty sure it’s illegal
Thats what I’m saying. People who eve’s drop rarely find anything good about themselves.
The first one needs to check in the mirror herself. She ain't Victoria Secret thin.
Damn. Why is this world so judgmental?
6:21 this is what high school teachers think boys think about when we wear shorts 💀
Or when we show the forbidden shoulder
DONT LOOK AT OTHER PEOPLE'S PHONE
The girl on the plane is at fault. She should not be looking at his phone.
Peter Griffin FINALLY SOMEONE AGREES
Much less take photos of it
Yeah and the man is kinda right about sitting in the exit row
My mother has a MS and I’m happy that she is being represented by people!
7:18 wdym? It’s not unhealthy exercising even when you’re pregnant. I swear people think that when you’re pregnant you can’t do anything, like pregnant people aren’t crippled. Another thing I don’t understand why people have to sexualize breast feeding, it’s not inappropriate she’s feeding her baby it’s perfectly natural. I swear people get offended about everything these days, they need to calm down and worry about themselves. 🤦♀️
Exactly. People getting pressed cause a woman is feeding her baby 🤦♀️
"Don't come back...I'm warning you.."- that woman has a dominant critical parent personality
She should be ordered to go for sessions with a councelor ,teaching her TA so that she can see where her rudeness comes from
People suck. But I’m super proud of these women for standing up for themselves. And the wonderful dude that put his arm around a crying woman whilst defending her.
So many people reading other people's texts... that's a pretty big intrusion. Not saying they should be saying mean stuff, but don't read other people's texts and you'll feel better.
That’s what I was thinking
Right?! I don't understand these nosy people 😕
Don't send text messages insulting others and you 're good
@@claire_code101 bruh you have a right to your own business and opinions.
@@mikaelkahwaji2108 fr, he was telling the truth. girl was pretty much a fatass, sure it sucks that he was sending messages, but he was basically minding his own business.
The first girl has a beautiful voice and it doesn’t matter how your body image looks like everyone’s body is unique by one little or more
Respect for all these people who were shamed and fought back. You should never shame anyone, no matter how they look.