Our Obsession with Depression

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  • Опубликовано: 26 дек 2024

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  • @jmc8076
    @jmc8076 Год назад +10

    Science shows childhood trauma can manifest as physical dis/ease incl depression. FWIW: Ancient beliefs pain and pleasure (avoidance of one and seeking the other) is a self feeding loop. Mental numbness also pleasure. Feel what you feel and observe yourself. But w/o analysis, shame, or guilt. Just very aware of rxns (body/emotion), thoughts, beliefs etc. Puts light on past shadows. Face and accept them as part of you to be whole. Helps break pain/pleasure loop incl depression. Best to all.

  • @GritToGrace
    @GritToGrace Год назад +28

    I totally agree with this! I mentioned it in one of my videos that we as a society are addicted to depression. And, don’t feel embarrassed about your breakup, it’s a learning lesson for you to better yourself until the right girl comes along. I was in the same situation, got dumped by a loser that didn’t deserve me, but now I’m better and happy God protected me from him. Great videos and perspectives! Keep it up! 🙌

    • @malikpeace_
      @malikpeace_  Год назад +3

      I really do think we are, it just seems like something half the people have and it's completely normal.
      But yeah that break up was really tough and embarrassing lol. At that time i was fat, had no friends, no life, no plans, no schedule, literally nothing but a phone, food and video game addiction. But then of course i got tired of it and decided to change. Now I'm in a much better position with a girl i love :)
      Pain is unfortunately one of the best teachers.. nothing comes from being comfortable, the only time we really see change is their strong emotional pain. which sucks. but hey that's how it works :)
      anyways I'm really glad you enjoyed the video :)) i really do appreciate the encouragement

  • @Closterfy2257
    @Closterfy2257 Год назад +18

    I thought about this topic so many times. I have a lot of friends who flex their illnesses and such. I don't even know how I find these underrated videos. This is the second one I remember. You deserve more subs man!

    • @malikpeace_
      @malikpeace_  Год назад +5

      its so annoying whenever i see it. I honestly don't spend much time on social media at all anymore (other than youtube) but i can think back to the past and a few people i know and how they're always talking about depression or how they have something going on with them that they need to take mediations for and its just so frustrating. Like you can't expect me to believe that HALF the people walking around are actually depressed and sad for some reason that's out of their control. It's becoming a flex, a trend, label whatever you wanna call it and its sad. Because if all you do is talk about how depressed you, your friends and how terrible the world is then no wonder you're depressed!
      (don't do this if you don't want to cuz this might be shitty advice) but next time you're talking to a friend who say's their depressed, ask them about their screen time on their phone and if they have any meaningful direction in their life. That right there will make the root of the depression very easy to spot

  • @menijna
    @menijna 5 месяцев назад +16

    Hi, I watched one of your videos a few days ago (about money and retirement), and as an easily impressionable girlie i went into full enlightenment mode. Im reorganizing my balcony and tending to my flowers listening to you rn. Thank you for the impulse to reawaken my 9yo energy.

  • @nico7819
    @nico7819 Год назад +1

    5:32 that thing that you have when you think that, like, you can’t explain how much fear you have to *not exist*, and you realize you’re not gonna be conscious or feel alive, you’re just not gonna exist, that thing scares the shit out of me

    • @malikpeace_
      @malikpeace_  Год назад

      its honestly one of the most scary but freeing feelings ever.. like what the fuck is death??? What is Life??? what happens when its all over??? like death isn't even something you can experience because it can't be experienced.. And not only does it mean you no longer experience anything it also means all your memories are gone and literally EVERYTHING is gone. EVERY single thing. Trying to wrap our small minds around the idea of something that can't be experienced breaks the brain. And the fact that is going to happen for a 100% fact and we can't stop it at all is just terrifying... but also free because once you realize we all gonna die, everything just becomes a.. "why not" because why not?? (don't know if that made any sense)

    • @nico7819
      @nico7819 Год назад +1

      @@malikpeace_ absolutely, i agree with every single thing you said, in fact once you start caring about the fact that someday you’re gonna die you start doing things you never wanted to do, it’s like a test, where you HAVE TO do something before the time runs out

  • @dtariushale2511
    @dtariushale2511 4 месяца назад +6

    As someone who was diagnosed young with severe clinical depression(i also have epilepsy so that plays into it)and actually has a chemical inbalance this video really helped me with perspective. Its helped me see again that yes i have no control of being disabled or going through depressive states, but i dont have to take it lying down by wallowing in it and letting it consume me. Today im getting up and gonna try to clean my house get my self cleaned up and try to get back to regular exercise and better hygeine as a first start to get the ball rolling. And will replace some if my screen time with something productive. If the points made in video can help someone like me then someone without the actual imbalance doesn't have an excuse either. I feel this video and this channel came to me at the right time as i was certainly in a spiral again mentally. Excited to check out the rest of the content as i need the motivation💯

  • @gillie-gils
    @gillie-gils Год назад +5

    Brilliant! Preach! Focusing on gratitude and curiosity can get you through so much-
    I was a lonely kid, longing to be part of some family or community for as long as I can remember- but because I was alone I spent much of my free time in childhood playing in the forest, living any adventure I could imagine in my head and became independent very young. I haven’t been able to sate that longing for connection and it hurts so badly sometimes that I truly don’t want to be here another moment but it is tempered by an unshakable belonging to myself and to this beautiful world. I’m grateful in a way for my bad circumstances because of the perspective and tenacity they gave me :^)

    • @malikpeace_
      @malikpeace_  Год назад

      gratitude is one of the most important things most people can do. I actually ran into it on accident. Whenever i was really depressed i didn't really care about anything until i stopped and looked around and just realized how lucky i am to even exist. And once you realize how low the chances of you ever taking your next breathe is, it literally makes every second of life a miracle.
      I'm really interested in your story tho, I'm glad you're able to look at life and find something beautiful from it cuz majority of people can't unfortunately :/

  • @BigisCheese
    @BigisCheese Год назад +12

    keep going bro, this quality of videos will make you succeed eventually

    • @malikpeace_
      @malikpeace_  Год назад +3

      That means more than you know, thank you :)

  • @frankramisch
    @frankramisch Год назад +2

    I loved this, thank you for making it. Everything you said made a lot of sense, and this felt very insightful and relatable from beginning to end. To me, it really captured how disgusting these problems feel, on a deep level, a lot better than any other docs/think pieces/personal stories I've seen. I was struggling pretty recently, not really with what you'd call depression, but just at a loss of what the hell is going on in life today and why it sucks so much, and I think this just put a lot of what we're all feeling into words. I really appreciate how honest you were and how you're willing to question anything and stick to what makes sense. I'm glad I found your channel, you're doing great.

    • @malikpeace_
      @malikpeace_  Год назад

      Welcome! I'm really glad this video was able to relate to you on some level :) it's so strange how many people feel this way. I hope whatever you are going through gets better and you're able figure how to live the best possible life for yourself :)

  • @landowizz6852
    @landowizz6852 Год назад +5

    havent seen this level on content in a while im happy to know im an OG subscriber dude cos ur gonna blow up within a day

  • @sophia9671
    @sophia9671 Год назад +2

    I'm about halfway through this but this sounds a lot like Maslow's hierarchy of needs and self-actualization! It's a really awesome video btw I'm enjoying it and relating to it a lot.

    • @malikpeace_
      @malikpeace_  Год назад +2

      Yes i've heard about it but didn't really look into it much for this video.. i was mainly just talking from personal experience but yes! most people are very comfortable and don't really have to worry about anything other than existing. And because the only thing that we have to worry about is existing, it leaves a lot of time on our hands and most people use that time to distract themselves which leads nowhere. Back in the past we had purpose, we know what we we're doing and what our roles we're, today it's a free for all. OH! i just thought about something. its like when you're playing a video game and you hack the game and are able to get unlimited materials kinda like sandbox mode in Minecraft. That's how most people are and it gets really empty after a while filling your inventory with diamonds and gold. The part a lot of people forget is that the thing that makes the game fun is the building part of it not the filling the chest up with gold. It's very easy to fall into depression when you have everything you need and don't have any purpose or reason for existing other than to exist.
      No idea if that was a good example or not but anyways, I'm really glad you enjoyed the video and we're able to relate to it :) have a good day

  • @zerpy2306
    @zerpy2306 Год назад +19

    Ur entertaining as hell bro even tho your talking abt depression 💀

  • @erickonami1
    @erickonami1 Год назад

    I was looking through youtube to find a video to play while i was working out and i found this. what excellent timing, glad i watched this!

  • @Zelyr
    @Zelyr Год назад +2

    You have a calming voice to listen to, thank you for posting this

    • @malikpeace_
      @malikpeace_  Год назад

      It's calming?? I never really realized lol thank you :)

  • @camdenherrick1807
    @camdenherrick1807 Год назад

    I watched one of your videos a couple weeks ago and loved it but it had almost no engagement and I was shocked crazy to see how much you’ve grown so fast

  • @Jath2112
    @Jath2112 Год назад

    This is absolutely beast. I am glad the algorithm shoved this lovely new item in my face. Great job on this man. I like the way you think and speak, and your presentation is mesmerizing. I'll be following. Cheers to you! -Jazz

    • @malikpeace_
      @malikpeace_  Год назад

      Thank you :) i really appreciate the nice comment :)

  • @leighready248
    @leighready248 Год назад

    This is exactly what I needed. Thank you so much for sharing this! Very much relatable. I might listen to this every day for a week, it was very insightful, inspiring, and motivating. Now to get started on those pushups!

    • @malikpeace_
      @malikpeace_  Год назад

      It means a lot hearing that thank you :) also I apologize for the late ass response

  • @WatchtheWaters12
    @WatchtheWaters12 Год назад +1

    What a brilliant video!! Well done on this presentation, so we’ll done 👏🏽

  • @newhealingfunandknowledge7785
    @newhealingfunandknowledge7785 Год назад

    You are what you consum!
    So learning from your or other life lessons can be up or down lifting.
    Knowing what you like and don't want to have is easier when there aren't so many "new" things popping out every second.
    Trends/ads/stars/crisis are money pressing methods.
    Man made bubbles are out there waiting to get popped,
    Exchanging wealth losing health,
    What a self destructive time (since human settlements) we live in and still we can strive to be better.

  • @norbertsozolins8664
    @norbertsozolins8664 Год назад +2

    I agree with this. Really needed a reminder to keep pushing. :)

  • @Pejaysaidit
    @Pejaysaidit 5 месяцев назад +2

    Bro you’re 23?? Ain’t no way dawg! You’re gonna be someone special bro! Good Job, Keep going 🍊😎

  • @newhealingfunandknowledge7785
    @newhealingfunandknowledge7785 Год назад

    I still want to end child abuse (my own, I did by masking and using excuses)
    and tried to figure out why it's out there.
    I learned everything in school and at home about our world.
    I figured,
    money/power is making many blind to real happiness.
    My purpose is to stay alive,
    so that I can help more like I automatically did and still do,
    But have more control and respect to my and other boundaries.
    Thx,
    for your words,
    even if my life was horror in a paradise,
    I always learned how great it is to be alive,
    Because we are helping each other ☯️
    Talking, laughing, creating, working, feeling and eating together is key to a fulfilling life.
    I only had fun with friends and family.
    I Hated bullying and tried to balance everything so everyone is doing better than me, cause I knew my head and shoulders can handle more.
    But I never thought of myself as someone good, because I survived and covered it up, to have a "normal" crazy life.
    I came out in 2019
    Time skipping is one of the worst feelings, but knowing that I worked hard gives me hope, that I will never give up,
    and somehow our bipolar world will heal slowly but savely ☯️☮️💚

  • @jesusv5169
    @jesusv5169 Год назад

    We on the same plane of existence bro, wish u nothin but the best on your path💪

  • @beach2787
    @beach2787 6 месяцев назад +2

    Being in a developed country only means you the potential of having a better life even beyond your imagination but the cost in being from such countries is the constant STRESS.

  • @eec8128
    @eec8128 Год назад

    I love love loved this video. Very motivating :) and you do it without being overly aggressive or shaming or condescending

    • @malikpeace_
      @malikpeace_  Год назад +1

      yeahh i realize that whenever i am recording these i start to get more aggressive towards the end so I'm glad it didn't come off to harsh 😅 i never wanna shame anyone tho, i just want people to know that they can achieve more in their life and to really get the most out of their existence cuz there isn't time to waste

  • @Theuncletoeticklingtoddler
    @Theuncletoeticklingtoddler 4 месяца назад

    Flexing illness ISN’T COOL. I used to have depression and it sucked. It’s not a flex, it’s not something you want at all and it’s not desirable or admirable. Same with anxiety. I have a whole bunch of fears that build into anxiety. feeling panicked, the heavy breathing and such, the confusion, the tears- it’s not cute and it’s not something you want at all, I wish I could get rid of it.
    I don’t LIKE having my disorder at all. I wish I wasn’t visually impaired, I wish I didn’t have HPS, I wish that I didn’t have anxiety and a feeding aversion. Those aren’t things you want. I don’t hate myself for having these anxieties and problems, I embrace them because they, of course, aren’t ‘curable’ and they won’t go away. They’ll stick with me forever and that is why I accept it.
    Flexing it is a whole different story though and that’s what I don’t do. I feel like flexing it would just be a pathetic way to get attention. I don’t care how much attention my problems give me. I hate not being able to see what everyone else sees, I hate not being able to eat what everyone else eats. I bet there’s someone out there who fakes blindness or being visually impaired. I bet there’s someone out there that fakes ADHD. And for those people? You have ZERO idea what it’s like to not be able to play sports, sit down and cry because you can’t read your favorite book, hate yourself just a little bit because you’ll never get to see this beautiful world like everyone else can. You’ll never know what it’s like to have to re-read passages over and over and OVER because you can’t focus. Having to repeat and repeat, and being frustrated because you just. Can’t. Focus. Having to write things down and constantly keep from being disorganized or late for school/work.
    My brother is the one with ADHD and another condition, but he’s the best 18 year old brother I could ask for. He’s made it in his life so far and you wouldn’t even know he had ADHD or other conditions if you looked at him. He’s this handsome and charming boy with the love for computer science. I myself excel in school, won multiple completions and things like that, and I finally got a device so I could read without eye strain being terrible (infinitely grateful for). I love to read, so finally, FINALLY being able to read print without a big machine in front of you (or a small one where you still get eye strain) is something that almost made me tear up.
    My brother and I don’t let our disorders and stuff govern our lives or consume us. There’s this saying my mom always tells me “It doesn’t mean you can’t do it, it just means you have to do it differently.” I can’t wait for tech to advance and maybe there will be a day where I can finally see at least a lil like everyone else

  • @morplagro1545
    @morplagro1545 Год назад

    This channel is gonna blow the hell up

    • @malikpeace_
      @malikpeace_  Год назад +1

      Glad you can catch it early :)

  • @dillonshea4268
    @dillonshea4268 3 месяца назад

    what's weird for me is that I am doing more and then i'm being hard on myself because i feel like I have to achieve more. I'm stuck in some cycle. I suffered from a big depression and it keeps coming back and forth in 2016. Now it's 2024 and it keeps coming back. Though now I'm also fighting weight, acid reflux (too much acidic drinks). This is kinda hard.

  • @kriticalysin7925
    @kriticalysin7925 Год назад

    This account needs more subs and views it’s too slept on

  • @MS-ku6uw
    @MS-ku6uw Год назад

    I needed this video! Thank you

    • @malikpeace_
      @malikpeace_  Год назад +1

      im glad this video could help 😌 that was the goal and I'm glad this was able to help you

  • @closuz1
    @closuz1 Год назад

    I really didn't intend to watch this..but...great analysis💪🏼👌🏽

  • @emill1e
    @emill1e Год назад

    Wow ur video is amazing,so underrated!keep it up⭐️

    • @malikpeace_
      @malikpeace_  Год назад +1

      will do 🤝 thank you so much

  • @jello_-dv5sz
    @jello_-dv5sz Год назад +1

    How do you only have 200 subs, most def derserves 30k at least

  • @ghostophelia2245
    @ghostophelia2245 11 месяцев назад +44

    The thing is, only people who are online experience this kind of depression. If you try to talk about this stuff with people who have lives and spend time with family and friends and walk around, they wont relate. Get off the phone and touch grass. Its ok to have social media and keep up to date on the news, just dont be chronically online.

    • @beidousimpd5309
      @beidousimpd5309 5 месяцев назад +6

      Not true at all?

    • @ghostophelia2245
      @ghostophelia2245 5 месяцев назад

      ​@@beidousimpd5309 go toch grass, friend

    • @dtariushale2511
      @dtariushale2511 4 месяца назад +9

      Definitely not true for those with a true chemical imbalance. Someone whos never been online can get depression. This is another issue is how generally uneducated our society is on mental illnesses. So many people can't seem to spot the difference between what he's talking about with the terminally online "depression" and real depression/anxiety disorders. That said a lot of what he says in the video imo is helpful for both groups of people. Just if you have an imbalance it'll be a bigger wall to get over.

    • @victim21
      @victim21 4 месяца назад

      What a dumb comment. My dad has suffered with depression his whole life. He was in his 40's when the internet became a thing.

  • @Holsp
    @Holsp 3 месяца назад

    Goated RUclipsr going places

  • @alfredoromero7356
    @alfredoromero7356 Год назад

    I like your point of view

    • @malikpeace_
      @malikpeace_  Год назад

      My point of view is the best if I do say so myself

  • @1benk
    @1benk Год назад

    this was great bro keep it up!

  • @wantedsavage7776
    @wantedsavage7776 7 месяцев назад +1

    Time is cruel and is against you… My love My love… If not for yourself than Live for me… Live for God…
    -She kissed me on a cheek. I put down my phone and see nobody there in this dark room. I resume scrolling on my phone.

  • @krn5142
    @krn5142 5 месяцев назад

    great underrated content

  • @karolinawisniewski562
    @karolinawisniewski562 Год назад

    Awesome video, man.

  • @Therealbigsaya
    @Therealbigsaya Год назад

    You deserve a million subs

  • @morresnorre5021
    @morresnorre5021 Год назад

    very entertaining video, keep up the work

  • @jimgr1487
    @jimgr1487 4 месяца назад

    You have cracked life

  • @LucidityRemains
    @LucidityRemains Год назад

    To the 600 people potentially reading this, hamza can lead you to your purpose.
    For your purpose, what would you do for your life? Helping your parents retire early? Being financially free? Owning a house?
    Beyond that, without multitasking think about what you would like to do after those first goals. As the youtuber said, make it bigger than yourself as a wise man once said "The world prospers where Men plant trees whose shadow they know they will never dwell under."
    Edit: (paraphrasing) "Self-improvement is masturbation, self-destruction is the real deal" means self-improvement without action is mental masturbation and self-destruction is the removal of your old fat, weak, undisciplined self.
    And hamza's the only positive redpill youtuber as he focuses on quality as he wants others not to suffer as he did and he wants people like his older self not to suffer like he did and get better fast with a no BS guide.

    • @malikpeace_
      @malikpeace_  Год назад

      Hamza is great but please don't worship him. The only way you can improve your life is by actually doing the actions it takes

  • @cholm2070
    @cholm2070 4 месяца назад +1

    “You’re depressed? Go outside and do push-ups” aight well… poor wording. Lends to the issue of not being able to talk about what’s making you feel that way.

  • @btheo8403
    @btheo8403 4 месяца назад

    This dude deserves atleast +100k subs. You're going places

  • @Faith_Chi
    @Faith_Chi Год назад +1

    Too much internet is bad for you, I've been online since late 2000. And, yes it can easily become an addiction. Western people too easily GET FED by the media, and other than their jobs have no other interests, which is sad. You're right about when sitting around doing nothing that FEEDS the depression.
    Why not try this for a moment? Imagine you can't walk for 3 months and you don't know whether you will ever walk again. Your job is gone, your social life is gone and you really have no money any more to do anything. Depressing isn't it? Now, start counting your blessings -
    1. Roof over your head;
    2. You don't go hungry;
    3. The loved ones you have in your life;
    4. Your beloved pets that are loyal and loving;
    5. You're warm when you need to be, and cooler when you need to be;
    6. You're able to physically move about - wash yourself, dress yourself, exercise, do your daily tasks etc etc.
    7. Have the freedom that so many don't have in other parts of the world.
    I live in a modern country yet have had too many obstacles. When I became crippled from an accident with unrelenting pain in my back, leg and migraines I almost took to the bottle. At the store I said to myself: Do you really want to go down this route? No, I replied. I don't have much support from those who should support me. But, I decided there and then I WILL NOT BE BITTER because of everything that was bad happening around me. I knew that drinking too much would only make things worse for me in the long run. Yes, I was(still am) chronically ill and then still young but I made a conscious decision to make the best of the bad things dealt to me.
    You can do it too.

  • @wytch8369
    @wytch8369 Месяц назад

    listen to a Fyodor Dostoevsky audiobook with kai cenat open , it midigates the brainrot

  • @Xandercheney
    @Xandercheney 4 месяца назад +2

    Great video. The true meaning of life is finding Jesus Christ and putting your faith in Him and your life in His hands. The same trust you had when you were little; running to your parents for safety when there was a storm outside. That faith and trust sparks love, and when you love something, you work for and towards it; and knowing His sacrifice for you brings assurance of life, not fear of death. God bless ✝️

  • @chiriviscospower
    @chiriviscospower Год назад +1

    What is this AI bs 😂😂😂

    • @malikpeace_
      @malikpeace_  Год назад

      Ai is the future. Does it take you out the video??

  • @cautious-agency8
    @cautious-agency8 Год назад +1

    i felt the same shit. my younger self would be dissapointed I am not living in my purpose.

    • @malikpeace_
      @malikpeace_  Год назад

      Ong, one of the things i've been thinking about picturing my younger self right by my side. I feel like whenever we're young we are curious about the world and always want to go out and do all these amazing things but as we grow up we allow our dreams to die. Imagine if you're your self was watching you as a role model. Imagine they could see your life, your habits, your thoughts; would they be proud and excited or disappointed for their future?

  • @Pejaysaidit
    @Pejaysaidit 5 месяцев назад +1

    Bro you’re 23?? Ain’t no way dawg! You’re gonna be someone special bro! Good Job, Keep going 🍊😎