How To Be Talkative And Less Shy
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- Опубликовано: 16 май 2021
- In this video, you'll learn how to be talkative and less shy.
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I’m an introvert but I get my energy from people I like I be hella boring when I spend too much time alone
You're probably a shy extrovert and not an introvert.
Have you taken an online personality test yet?
@@SocialConfidenceMastery yes I did I’m an ISTP
@@SocialConfidenceMastery I mean I don’t have a problem with people looking at me or eye contact but it’s hard for me to make friends I’m just weird
@@Foodie1d same. I'm also very funny, talkative and playful with my brothers but never with my school mates. I would say that I'm a 5/10 in terms of making new friends and a 10/10 in being funny in my family
The problem is not the shyness
It's more about what do I talk about?
Fair enough!
How are things socially on your end?
@@SocialConfidenceMastery my mind is clouded whenever I talk to someone new or those popular girls that talk about up to date stuff
Same omggg
Lean new things and try new hobbies, go out there and just hang out outside, you can live though some interesting stories or do something interesting
in middle school i was very talkative and not shy at all but now in high school i have become very shy. i’m shy even around friends that i’ve known for years
Sorry to hear that!
Me too, and i don't like this. It's sad and very hard to connect with my partner in vedio call
me too!
We are same bro I'm very talkative too when I was in middle school,but when I go to high school I'm super shy and quiet it's all start when coved 19 comes,but I will change my self forever and I never think about it anymore
Exactly me
Ive been in such a toxic loop of hating being around people when I’m in public, and wishing I can talk to anybody when I’m at home feeling lonely and bored. I can’t even laugh, have fun, or communicate with people anymore, as I feel like an alien. This situation has lasted for far too long, and I honestly don’t have any idea on how to take the next step.
Damn bro why did you have to describe me like that?
Being talkative is easy. The hard part is do small talk with co-worker at work while focusing on others tasks and do it with a second language 😂
These videos are helping me overcome being socially awkward. Recently, I got so socially awkward that I developed a mindset that "maybe I'm just not meant for friends" or "maybe you're just a loner" and isolated myself. Then one day I searched up how to be more socially confident, and you showed up. I've always thought that making friends was hard, but maybe I just needed to be my true self around people.
idfk why 😭 whenever i’m in school i just shut downnn. like i’m all talkative everywhere but oml
Sorry to hear that!
How are you gonna fix this issue?
Army mee too
@@Meenarawat11230 thanks for sharing that!
same 🙁 i just worry to be judged LOL
I remember when you said this on a podcast episode, when you said "we just never learned and it mind boggles me that this stuff isn't taught in school".
I believe the topic of discussion that was going on was storytelling, or just how to tell a great story when talking to or interacting with someone.
I totally agree with you!
@@SocialConfidenceMasterycan this help with social anxiety too
@@RicardoReyes-hl6be it will for sure!
Any quiet Virgos,Scorpios and Sagittarius here?
I'm a Virgo actually!
When is your birthday?
Scorpio✋🏼
sag
Sagittarius
i have all the confidence and wanna talk, the only problem i have is being dry and not knowing what to talk about
Sorry to hear that!
What have you tried so far to fix this issue?
@@SocialConfidenceMastery telling stories about things i did and asking more questions or responding when my friends tell stories, that okay?
I have exact same problem.. its killing me mentally
@@paperbagmask3409 it really sucks
I began introvert since I grown up
But was a very lively at childhood ages 4-10
These days I feel happy being alone
Thanks a lot for the tip
Watch this other video to help you talk more:
👉 How to become more talkative as an introvert: ruclips.net/video/ocv68BsL8mg/видео.html
I’m hopping to help myself to not to be so unapproachable I’m super nervous and shy, I saw a couple of your videos and I saw a change on how I look when I’m being nervous and shy and just overall unapproachable and then I saw how I looked when I’m trying to be Approachable I even asked my self if I were someone else I would want to interact with the person who looks slightly happy and open. So I’m hoping if I continue to practice and step out of my shell that I will soon see some changes in me and maybe I might make some new friends.
Thanks for the great tips! I just found myself being at my first party this weekend and these tips would really help if i knew them beforehand. Especially the tip to stop filtering myself will really help, as i very often overthink what i should say next.
I'm so happy to hear you found the video helpful!
How was the party overall?
@@SocialConfidenceMastery overall the party was great. Even though I was a little quiet, I did find some new friends.
Thank you so much, some how I never realized I was just trying to hard to fit in, this video really helped!
Glad it helped!
Any requests for future videos?
My zodiac is cancer and I grew up as introvert due to my mom “holding my hand and talking for me my entire life) I never really learned how to just hold a simple conversation with others and now that I’m 30 I still don’t know how to be talkative whether that’s with new people and people I’ve known for years
Yes. I don’t usually join extra activities. And I never become talkative in class.
I just saw this video and I’m now one of the most social people at my school now! I really appreciate your wonderful tips
That's really cool to hear!
Which tip did you find the most helpful?
@@SocialConfidenceMastery I liked all your tips they all helped me! :)
@@IcedChicago81Compilations That's awesome! What would you say is your biggest social goal at this point?
@@SocialConfidenceMastery just to make more friends probably
I can try smiling at people but I don’t know how I look like. It’s hard to do this without being observed
❤ thank you so much for the tips ❤❤
You are so welcome!
Which tip did you like the most?
While checking out at the store i can banter with the clerk no problem. At a party i would be paralyzed.
My problem is that, I’m not shy i just don’t like to have small talks about average stuff
I hear you for sure!
Making small talk isn't that exciting but necessary to get you to the next step.
If you think about it, it's weird to ask a person you don't know well yet such a big question, right?
i can relate to that, like i see people talking about normal stuff and i keep wondering how the hell they continuing this convo man 💀
I don’t know how did I become an introvert. Maybe because of school. Unlike other my classmates, I spend more time studying rather hanging out with my classmates. I also used to spend time in our yard, however now I don’t feel like for example going for a walk…
Now I hope that everything will be fixed
Let me know how it goes for you!
Keep me posted!
I'm actually really Quiet so this video was very helpful , It will definitely build up my social life🤭
That's great to hear!
Which tip did you find the most helpful?
I even dont know what topics to talk with my friends🥺I only talk of they talk about a topic that i like
Most people usually talk about their work, upbringing, places they've been to, events they've attended and their interests.
I’ll try thanks man I know I need to be more social
You're so welcome!
Where are you getting stuck?
The problem with me is I'm an extrovert. I love talking to people and being in groups and hanging out in groups.
But I'm afraid to talk because of high school trauma. And because of high school trauma, I didn't connect with anyone after the pandemic ended.
So, I didn't know how to approach people and talk with them.
I have a friend who always walks up to me initiating conversation with me. I’m currently trying to brave it up and reciprocate the conversation back with him because I don’t want him to feel like I’m not interested in talking or think I’m being one-sided all because I’m just being shy. 😣
How do I do that without feeling so nervous? Is this another way of me accidentally filtering myself?
I'm actually not shy but I don't know how to carry a conversation, I can't tell interesting stories like others, I only speak short sentences and ask generic questions. 😢
Accept your self and not compare to nobody
Body language confindent
Planeje interações e prepare assuntos
Que se lixe o julgamento de outros, accept quem vc é. Ninguém é melhor ou mais interessante that you
Pratique everyday, parte por parte -
Ask for motivation and how the things make them feel
Nunca dê respostas curtas, sempre forneça mais detalhes no que diz para permitir que outros criem assuntos e vc também.
Ache sempre pontos em comum.
Qual é a pior coisa q pode acontecer por tentar?
Vergonha? Ótimo! Pelo menos não morreste. Eles vão esquecer de ti em 30segundos e voltar para única coisa que lhes interessa mais do q vc, a vida delas.
Pare de se filtrar, fale o q te vem em mente sem medo, pensando no que as palavras e assuntos lhe fazem lembrar.
Se filtrar, tentar agradar ou dar good impression have the opposite effect, just have fun.
I am not shy of people but I don't know what to say ... That's why I don't talk more
Thanks for sharing that, solving that problem is quite simple actually.
Here's a video you might like: ruclips.net/video/lCRotTUxvRw/видео.html
I have a dead spot on my frontal lobe so memory is an issue. I work, drive, do Juijitsu. Yet, my confidence in meeting others is lagging. I enjoy your input so much.
I'm happy to hear you're getting value from the video.
What are you doing right now to build social confidence?
@@SocialConfidenceMastery I’m a my gym right now. My ex we we’re together for 2 years. She broke up with me 1/4. So I work at a Super Market place. So I’m talking more at work. I do jujitsu 2-3 times a week. So I live by routine?
@@michaelhaney5452 I appreciate you sharing that!
When I'm shy, I'm not just afraid to say something, my prefrontal cortex is totally blocked and I can't even think about anything. I lose all my thoughts, that's why I'm not saying anything. Thoughts stop flowing in my head, there's just a blank slate. But as soon as I get home and the anxiety goes away, I have words, thoughts and ideas that I would like to say, but it's too late.
People looking this video to get friends and a partner, I’m looking at it to talk to my interviewer and not stutter or start blanking when they asked me a question 💀💀
Have you seen my other video on how to express yourself better verbally?
I met some moms in a mom group and I honestly was just sitting there unable to talk or be heard. They were all so loud and talkative… when I tried to talk they couldn’t even hear me 🤣🤣🤣 its so awkward but I really need to improve
Have you seen my video on how to master group conversations?
My social skills are actually pretty good, i just have a hard time be likeable in the longevity of things. In a sorts of course. Who knows? I'm probably over thinking it, lol.
Why do you think you're having a hard time being likeable?
humor, everyone gravitates to it men or women
I am not scared to talk, i just feel like my mind goes blank in the middle of conversation. Like brain fog. Especially after Covid era.
My shyness even makes me uncomfortable posting my pictures on my social pages
Sometimes my friends asked why didn’t you post these pictures they look 👀 cute 🥰
Amazing video dude. It helped alot thanks
I'm glad you found it helpful!
Which one was your favorite tip?
Definitely accept who you are,i just began to talk what’s on my mind I removed the filter and it worked instantly👌🏻
@@j____h-420- I'm so happy to hear that!
@@j____h-420- how are things socially now for you?
To be more confident and to be more relatable.
That's great to hear!
Do you know now how to do that or do you still need help with it?
@@SocialConfidenceMastery I know how too, thanks.
Oh to be confident
I'll start from 'Plan ahead of time'.
That's great to hear Shahed!
True
Glad to hear that!
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I used to be so outgoing, I was constantly making people laugh and I could always talk. But with my wife’s family I absolutely cannot talk and Idk why. It’s like I have a block, i can’t think of anything to say
I just need this for volleyball
Why is that?
Liked this one most..
That's rad!
How are things socially on your end?
I always keep smiling cause if I don’t I’ll be so cold
Fair enough!
Look, I am confident, I love myself, it's just that I don't know what to do
What to do about what?
I’ll be more so social planning ahead
That's great to hear!
What type of events do you like to go to?
I used to be really talkative as a kid as a result I was always getting in trouble at school 1 grade my mother beat me after having a conference with the teacher and after that I became a loner at school I couldn’t talk in school or make any friends except out of school I did a friends now as an adult I’m struggling on making conversation and making new friends will this still help me?
I get so much anxiety and over think when trying to speak
Sorry to hear about your experience!
I can relate to you for sure!
Have you seen my video on how to stop ruminating about past mistakes?
Can you help me?
Basically I try and talk but I get left out I can’t act confident I can’t leave toxic situations. But here’s we’re I need help,I have a friend group and they’re chatty and confident so I wanna be like them so I’m not left out. Please help
Sorry to hear that! What have you tried so far to solve this issue?
I try to be myself and not someone else, but I just don't know my interests or who I really am. Any suggestions?
Take an online personality test.
Make a list of your strengths and weaknesses.
Ask feedback from people who know you well.
How do you overcome social anxiety for immigrants? I think I have anxiety speaking English, I only speak when I am confident with what I am saying
I can relate for sure!
My advice is to prepare what you want to say as much as you can.
Also, keep practicing instead of avoiding social interactions.
I was born in USA and have 1 white parent and 1 Mexican parent and when I learn and speak Spanish I also feel anxiety when I do it, so I don’t have any advice for but just know you aren’t alone with the anxiety of speaking another language!
not sure if you'll respond (or anybody rlly) but can someone give me tips to talk about with a person? I'm not shy or anything but when someone approaches me I just don't know what to talk about and it gets really awkward 😅
The most common topics people talk about are work, upbringing, places you've been to, events you've attended and your interests.
Try to come up with some stories regarding those and you'll feel more confident interacting with anybody.
This video is helpfull
I usualy come up with stories that are half-truths, but i guess i need to be more authentic
I had problems at school, i got into fights, i had only 1 girlfriend despite beign almost 25 years old, so i feel like i dont have much to say most of time.
I'm so happy to hear that!
Where are you getting stuck socially?
@@SocialConfidenceMastery Bar's, caffe's, sometimes i struck conversations at my job but there are only 2 girls in my entire company , 3d one is like 40 years old so i dont count her...
@@Lawrance_of_Albania I hear you for sure! What do you do for work by the way?
@@SocialConfidenceMastery I am warehouse clerk
My close friend is avoiding me for my boringness but I respect her as my best friend from but she doesn’t. When I stand with her outside of class then most of the time she goes to her other friend she doesn’t care I am alone what can I do?
Sorry to hear that! What have you tried so far to fix this issue?
@@SocialConfidenceMastery sir I have done the same behaviour which she has done with me then she comes to me and tell me to stop that. She convinces hole situation in a way where I am the most emotional man in the world but she fixing this situation by keeping me and she continues her behavior. What can I do as this situation?
Do you have any course? How can I contact with you?
I do have an online coaching program.
Email me at info@socialconfidencemastery.com
Hi
from my birth only i am shy and quiet.
i want to become a talkative person but I am not able to so what can i do
What have you tried so far?
I had the self awareness, I could always connect and relate to people and emphasize with them but I COULD NEVER ACCEPT MYSELF AS A PERSON. I always had to act a certain way around people but the moment i stopped filtering it truly felt like i was social and a bit more happier.
Thank you for sharing that!
What are you doing to solve this issue?
@@SocialConfidenceMastery I'm just trying to let myself heal and not criticize/overthink everything others or even myself do. Thank you for asking!
@@auspiscious4012 You're so welcome!
@@auspiscious4012 Have you seen my videos on how to overcome inferiority complex and raise your self-esteem?
What to talk
When you meet new ppl?
The most common topics people talk about are work, upbringing, places you've been to, events you've attended and your interests.
I talk way too much. I see my wife's eyes rolling as i yack away. Stranger or not i talk and soeak my mind. My eldest son has gotten this habit from me since i see him talking to complete strangers sometimes. He's far from shy.
I don’t talk much cause I just feel like I don’t have anything important to say, or even something nice to say. “ if you don’t have anything nice to say don’t say anything at all “ 😶
Why do you think so?
I used to not talk much and now i talk but still they make fun of me as quiet kid i hate it
Sorry to hear that!
What are you doing to help you improve your conversation skills?
@@SocialConfidenceMastery i am trying to be casual and be myself and i also make comedy in the middle of the conversation now i am also interacting with strangers
My problem is I just feel awkward
Sorry to hear that!
What do you think is causing that for sure?
@@SocialConfidenceMastery I don't feel like my self in front of people it's like I don't know what to say
Nobody needs to become more Social
Thanks for sharing your opinion!
I dont know about that, i definitely do.
i just have a stutter so i just dont talk
Sorry to hear that!
What have you done so far about it?
@@SocialConfidenceMastery I started having faith and realized we’re created in his image, I stutter for a pretty good reason soon to find out but I’m at peace with it now
I found myself a wife even so I stopped caring and Accepted it
Imagine taking advantage of someone's social insecurity to make a course which you have to pay monthly.
I'm sorry to hear that you feel that way.
How are things going on your end?
Mate sort your life out!
@@ACE-fm9tk I appreciate you stopping by!
Lmao agree...
I talk very less and bad boys make fun of my name
Sorry to hear that!
How are things going for you now?
Be interested, not intresting!
You're so right!