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When The Narcissist Turns People Against You, THIS IS WHAT YOU SHOULD DO

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  • Опубликовано: 28 май 2024
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Комментарии • 58

  • @NarcSurvivor
    @NarcSurvivor  2 месяца назад +1

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    • @kerstitekko2257
      @kerstitekko2257 2 месяца назад +1

      I have left when i am not supported, i have not been supported by partners, they got more money then they deserved from me. That is just me. No thank you from somewhere, i think i do not help anyone anymore, it seems i have helped bad people, what a big mistake. They have not given me money.

    • @vivasurvivor
      @vivasurvivor 2 месяца назад +1

      I needed this message today @NarcSurvivor 💜💜💜Thank you!

  • @marijkevandermeer2772
    @marijkevandermeer2772 2 месяца назад +11

    Narc Survivor..you have 182.000 lovers..❤

  • @marijkevandermeer2772
    @marijkevandermeer2772 2 месяца назад +11

    I never wanted revenge...i wanted peace and quiet and time to restore my finances ...

  • @coffeegirl6854
    @coffeegirl6854 2 месяца назад +8

    I feel they do not deserve an explanation. Period. They DO know what they have done and then some.
    NS thank you.

  • @coffeegirl6854
    @coffeegirl6854 2 месяца назад +8

    None of the many enablers who yes infact jumped on the bandwagon. Are you kidding me!?! NOT ONE ASKED ME IF WHATEVER WAS SAID TO THEM WAS TRUE???? The abusers themselves must have done a really great job huh? . I am laughing now. But it stole away most of my life...
    It is sadder for them really. It shows them up for what they really are. Now if we can survive long enough to recognize it. Oh yeah. If this all was done to them?...They would Never be able to cope. Woooo! I passed that most horrid test. On my own with our Creators help. ( And with some help and encouragement from you NS😊)
    I had a "woooo!" moment there...I hope it will last a bit. 🌄

    • @trinitristant3527
      @trinitristant3527 2 месяца назад +1

      Same here.
      Maybe some of the enablers are cowards and were afraid of what might of happened to themselves if they were not on the narc's side.
      Narcs are specialists at getting stuff that they can use against people.
      Some of the enablers are just stupid and gullible.
      Other enablers rejoice in chaos, loving to observe what horrors happen to us.
      Some like ganging together, it makes them feel powerful (primitive people).
      And some of them feel too stupid, later on, when they realize they were wrong, to admit it was an error to side with narc. They don't dare come to us and apologize.

  • @susanbittner2095
    @susanbittner2095 2 месяца назад +12

    Christopher, you remind me of my son! He was empathic, kind, caring, and smart. He was your age when he passed away from personal issues Yiu are family and a friend Christopher. I really appreciate all of your support and help with this topic!Christopher, keep up all of your good work on this topic helping people!❣️

    • @kerstitekko2257
      @kerstitekko2257 2 месяца назад +4

      I am sorry, still young, very sorry.

    • @Stormy624
      @Stormy624 2 месяца назад +1

      God bless you! Not many people are brave enough to stand up for the truth.

    • @lindalonsbury5362
      @lindalonsbury5362 2 месяца назад

      This is what I am suffering right now. So I am desperately needing this advice and preparation and this support.

    • @roseblues
      @roseblues 2 месяца назад +1

      So sorry for your loss

  • @marijkevandermeer2772
    @marijkevandermeer2772 2 месяца назад +11

    It is a spiritual battle...we are Chosen Ones

    • @NinaBoston
      @NinaBoston 2 месяца назад +2

      Thank u so much I really appreciated the information I cried so hard everything u said touched me so very deeply thank u ,,oh u are very handsome by the way like a model😊 but thank u so very much for being brave enough to ,make these videos ,, u are greatly appriated

  • @kat-75
    @kat-75 2 месяца назад +4

    Sit back n wait on my Lord, and that's all. Those people obviously never mattered, and I didn't matter to them either. No big thing as my life has always been that way when it comes to majority of people. I guess if you actually enjoy people, it might be different for you so I'm not one that ever really has. It's always been just me n my Lord for the most part.

  • @brianf9615
    @brianf9615 2 месяца назад +5

    Wow, this is by far the deepest one I ever heard from Christopher. I wish I could invite Christopher for a bbq at my house, I live in Canada. God bless you and keep you always Christopher.

    • @NarcSurvivor
      @NarcSurvivor  2 месяца назад

      Thanks for listening. If you need more support, you can book a call with me here - www.narcsurvivor.co.uk/book-online

  • @eastendchick7704
    @eastendchick7704 2 месяца назад +2

    Everything discussed in this video has happened to me from different groups of people and an ex narc husband. Narcissists are on the rise, so many out there, every other person is one or very toxic. I keep to myself. Thank you for bringing awareness about this. I can relate to your videos.

  • @RJ-pu6nc
    @RJ-pu6nc 2 месяца назад +3

    Spot on stuff

  • @Mandooze
    @Mandooze 2 месяца назад +3

    Thankyou

    • @NarcSurvivor
      @NarcSurvivor  2 месяца назад

      You’re welcome 😊 If you need more support, you can book a call with me here - www.narcsurvivor.co.uk/book-online

  • @sherri-be5pw
    @sherri-be5pw 2 месяца назад +2

    Thank you Chris for all you do to help us narc survivors. I listened to others soeak but noone was resonating with me bc you have been through it and still going through it and also you are a great influence and support. I hope that you are also being supported, you definitely have mine amd many others. No matter what these gangstlalkers say or do real ppl are not easily fooled amd genuine ppl wont join in. Nice ppl will be appalled amd see through a narcs smear campaign. Stay strong all you survivors❤!

  • @coffeegirl6854
    @coffeegirl6854 2 месяца назад +2

    Thank you for your encouragement. Thank you for sharing what you have been through to help others. I needed to hear a lot of this and it gets me to a better day now. ( Usually😊)
    NS. Empathy and compassion will never ever go out of style. We are in the last days. It is visible in the world around us. We must stand strong and NOT behave as hurtful as those like abusers in the world. It is swimming against- the -tide. And there is a helper for us all. And some along the way
    Stay Awake. ♥️♥️

  • @sherri-be5pw
    @sherri-be5pw 2 месяца назад +4

    These ppl make up complete Lies and they don't ask or even care to listen to my side bc they enjoy hating and stalking me. It's not about me it's actually a reflection if them. They actually know that I'm a nice person but they are so mental and abusive that they enjoy gangstalking me and even some I know who've joined in. One guy is so pathetically jealous and the lengths he's gone to to gaslight me are disturbing. He already caused 2 women to end their lives. I would never go out with him and he knows it and is so jealous of me and even admitted it one day. He has bipolar and had a bit of insight and says he thinks he's having a manic episode. Well he was an acquaintance through another friend but I can't hv either around me after seeing who they truly are. They are very close and both are bad and do bad onto others while I thrive. They continue to join the jealous haters which are growing far less bc ppl are realizing that I'm an innocent person and a victim of a viscious smear campaign

  • @lindalonsbury5362
    @lindalonsbury5362 2 месяца назад +3

    Christopher this is an amazing video. I am being cruelly treated and this one has prepared me to let this period of time roll off of me. Until the time I can be free ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @coffeegirl6854
    @coffeegirl6854 2 месяца назад +2

    Thank you for reminding me about "👍" I double checked! I had forgotten! Definitely do that.

  • @ginaparker3310
    @ginaparker3310 2 месяца назад +2

    Amen all you say has been going on thank you.

    • @NarcSurvivor
      @NarcSurvivor  2 месяца назад +1

      You are so welcome. If you need more support, you can book a call with me here - www.narcsurvivor.co.uk/book-online

  • @jesusacruz8165
    @jesusacruz8165 2 месяца назад +1

    I'm happy that I saw the big picture that I was reverse discarded .I thought I discarded my ex first but I realized that's their intentions so I left on my own will ,I abandon my family but it's not I can't take the gaslighting join forces with my kids .I almost breakdown down . I'm ok my kids are all adults I abandon my ex.but that'd the set up that's look like he's the victim
    .rest is history I'm more happier now.thank you Lord.

  • @marijkevandermeer2772
    @marijkevandermeer2772 2 месяца назад +2

    My family never talked to me on the subject..i let it that way..i unplugged my emotions...i suspect that they are envious of me their whole life

  • @thename9552
    @thename9552 2 месяца назад +1

    At first I thought he was an AI . Never seen such perfect skin. But also great messages.

  • @coffeegirl6854
    @coffeegirl6854 2 месяца назад +2

    NS. You are very very part of what can only explain for lack of a better word "the real". What is true.

    • @coffeegirl6854
      @coffeegirl6854 2 месяца назад

      NS! I had not finished watching this video before I made any comments. You discussed many things that were crossing my mind. I am sure a lot at here "on-line-stream-land" feel the same.

  • @brendabaskin4670
    @brendabaskin4670 2 месяца назад +2

    ❤ SAD BUT TRUE ! AMEN!! ❤

  • @user-zp1sr8kn6k
    @user-zp1sr8kn6k 2 месяца назад

    I look forward to each one of your videos. They strengthen and confirm so I can help others caught in narc relationships. I was told to let go of what they were doing to me and move on. But they were family and church. They didn't know what it was like to finally have them and not be alone. Even now when I'm living alone away from them, others don't understand. They urge me to return to that nightmare life. Others tell me I have so much more to give. They don't add anything positive. You advice is precious. You support us greatly by helping us understand by being a true friend. We can share our hearts with you and this community and not be put down. We feel better and can bring happiness to others😂

  • @chosenonpurpose489
    @chosenonpurpose489 2 месяца назад +2

    👼MAY 29, 2024👼
    “I AM WITH YOU, watching over you constantly. I am Emmanuel (God with you); My Presence enfolds you to radiant Love. Nothing, including the brightest blessings and the darkest trials, can separate you from me. Some of My children find Me more readily during dark times, when difficulties force them to depend on Me. Others feel closer to Me when their lives are filled with good things. They respond with thanksgiving and praise, thus opening wide the door to My Presence. I know precisely what you need to draw nearer to Me. Go through each day looking for what I have prepared for you. Accept every event as My hand-tailored provision for your needs. When you view your life this way, the most reasonable response is to be thankful. Do not reject any of My gifts; find Me in every situation.”
    (JESUS CALLING)

  • @marijkevandermeer2772
    @marijkevandermeer2772 2 месяца назад +7

    Maybe they are personality disordered..the psychologists say that so that must be true..given the amount of research...but the devil filled that void...this behaviour is not human

  • @Mike-fd7dq
    @Mike-fd7dq 2 месяца назад +1

    I just want you to know that I love you bro!! *hug*

  • @KelliC-rn9lj
    @KelliC-rn9lj 2 месяца назад

    No one I mean no one stands up for me !!! Even when it's as clear as day

  • @KelliC-rn9lj
    @KelliC-rn9lj 2 месяца назад +1

    One of these days I'm going to have enough and walk out even if I'm homeless ! I've HAD IT

    • @speakeasy9429
      @speakeasy9429 2 месяца назад

      Times a wasting!

    • @KelliC-rn9lj
      @KelliC-rn9lj 2 месяца назад

      @@speakeasy9429
      Your right maybe I should go find me a long stick stuff my belongings into a hancachiff tie it to the end of the stick and hit the road !
      Thanks for reminding me times a waisting !
      Wow I fill so much better well id better get busy Mr. Speak easy

    • @KelliC-rn9lj
      @KelliC-rn9lj 2 месяца назад

      @@speakeasy9429
      I wouldn't give them the SATISFACTION

  • @KelliC-rn9lj
    @KelliC-rn9lj 2 месяца назад

    It's crazy absolutely everyone is afraid of him because of his size and he uses that to enhance his bulling !!
    I'm the only one who's not afraid !! Give me a break all you men out there ! I don't mean here , but you get my meaning! One of these days he will run across someone who will stand up to him a MAN

  • @Kersti-p8u
    @Kersti-p8u Месяц назад

    I love you my friend.

  • @Kersti-p8u
    @Kersti-p8u Месяц назад

    You are great.

  • @coffeegirl6854
    @coffeegirl6854 2 месяца назад +2

    NS...the video freezes up occasionally then starts up with audio not insinc with video. Just periodically. Great video though! Thank you so.

  • @maritzatorres8332
    @maritzatorres8332 2 месяца назад

    Que hombre tan hermoso ❤

  • @Underrated7777
    @Underrated7777 2 месяца назад +2

    After 45:00 half your vid got muted and it’s mostly when you speak, it cuts off when you speak and comes back on when you pause. You’re being net stalked

  • @coffeegirl6854
    @coffeegirl6854 2 месяца назад +2

    🙌

  • @kerstitekko2257
    @kerstitekko2257 2 месяца назад +1

  • @maritzatorres8332
    @maritzatorres8332 2 месяца назад

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤