ONCE BETRAYED ….THE PAINE NEVER GOES AWAY …DOES NOT MATTER OF THE “ SKILLS”….TRUST IS BROKEN FOREVER …SO THINK TWICE WHEN BETRAYING OTHERS . STAY SAFE OUT THERE .
My husband feels attacked and becomes defensive any time I have a problem either with a current behavior or a trigger because of his betrayal. I am asked what’s wrong and then when I try to say what it is, it’s met with blame shifting and being told how I feel and then criticized. It’s been over a year and this is still the dynamic. I don’t think he wants or cares to know what his porn has done to me. The years of lies, gaslighting and treating me like I’m crazy even in therapy. Has caused so much pain. I am tired of his bad attitude / shame cycling and lack of empathy. Will I ever be safe? He has stopped watching porn, has Ever Accountable on his device and we talk to someone twice a month for an hour. I don’t feel it’s enough and I don’t know that he truly cares enough to even want to become the healer. I feel so unloved. 😢
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ONCE BETRAYED ….THE PAINE NEVER GOES AWAY …DOES NOT MATTER OF THE “ SKILLS”….TRUST IS BROKEN FOREVER …SO THINK TWICE WHEN BETRAYING OTHERS . STAY SAFE OUT THERE .
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My husband feels attacked and becomes defensive any time I have a problem either with a current behavior or a trigger because of his betrayal. I am asked what’s wrong and then when I try to say what it is, it’s met with blame shifting and being told how I feel and then criticized. It’s been over a year and this is still the dynamic. I don’t think he wants or cares to know what his porn has done to me. The years of lies, gaslighting and treating me like I’m crazy even in therapy. Has caused so much pain. I am tired of his bad attitude / shame cycling and lack of empathy. Will I ever be safe?
He has stopped watching porn, has Ever Accountable on his device and we talk to someone twice a month for an hour. I don’t feel it’s enough and I don’t know that he truly cares enough to even want to become the healer. I feel so unloved. 😢
THIS IS THE NR 1 REASON WHY WOMEN GET DIVORCED….AND STAY AWAY FROM MEN IN GENERAL …BETRAYAL COUNTS .
NR 1 why WOMEN GET DIVORCED …..PORN WATCHING OF THE “ husband “ …..YOU ARE NOT ALONE !