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Thank you Dr Rob and Tami… Dr Rob the info regarding the science of the DNA markers for alcoholism addiction is very interesting and helpful to understanding human problems. Interestingly- there is this story analogy that when Dr Carl Sagan the scientist climbs the mountain of knowledge, he finds the theologians standing there… the Bible explains that the “sins of the fathers are passed on to their children”. In the ancient Vedas they call it karma you inherit from family. Thank you for being the examples of self acceptance, and dedication to being healthy to encourage others to follow your example that healing can happen.

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You guys are helping so many people. Thanks

For information on the progression of pornography use, look up dr Jon uhler .

After all the lies about what they were doing and HIDING from us, and THEM deciding what MY reality is, I WILL DECIDE what I want/need to know, no one else. Unfortunately not everyone can afford thousands of dollars for therapy to help make a safe place for a formal disclosure so i have to decide what's best for me. ❤

Thank you for these videos.🙏🏻

Thank you for all you do!

If you lead the women’s empowered retreat, Dr. Eddie, I’m in

Dr Eddie please take care of your health, we need you .... My unfaithful also developed diabetes due to stress and eating badly. I hear it now more and more. At 1st it was hard but now he likes eating healthy. Also I am very surprised your because you look very good, lots of hair, nice skin etc. I hope your wife will support you and start cooking good food for you. 🍅🫑🥒🥬🥦🫛🍋

Thanks, Tami and Eddie, for doing this. Very much appreciated!

They act out sexually because they want to, because they know that they can use excuses like “ my mom wouldn’t let me go to the store with her one time because I was in trouble for lying about finding my dads playboy, and now I can’t attach or trust another woman ever again because she hurt my feelings, so it MAKES me cheat and “ act out”. Stop it, just stop it already. They cheat because they want to, because they think they can get away with it, because they are entitled, disrespectful people who give themselves permission to have no self discipline, and ruin the lives of generations to come. There’s no such thing as acting out, their not a child, it’s called cheating. Also, to talk to a spouse that has been cheated on, the way you did to the woman who said that he can’t talk to any women is completely disgusting. To shame her in the tone you did was nothing more than victim blaming and shaming her instead of helping her, and you godd*mn well that her cheating perv husband is now going to use the sh*t you just said as justification to now tell his wife to basically “sit down and be quiet, because the sorry excuse for a therapist said your being a controlling idiot, he’s on my side” no wonder these men keep cheating and lying, because people like you Shane the victim. I understand that it’s not practice for him to do what she told him to do, but check your fuc*ing tone and stop enabling theses creeps to hurt people and pass on their disgusting character to their kids.

I told my husband the same thing, that I didn’t get to enjoy my kids when they were little because he always acted like he was irritated, and it made me feel like I was doing something even though he said he was fine or that it wasn’t anything I had done or that I didn’t do. He wasn’t mean, not abusive or anything, so I’m not trying to imply that he just never seemed like he was ever happy. So I spent alot of time like during events or holidays trying to make every thing as “perfect” as I could, instead of being able to enjoy what was going on. Then after the kids were in their teens I discovered his porn addiction, a severe one. What he was watching disturbed me and I instantly realized why he was so bitter acting all the time and I became furious. The fact that he allowed me to essentially suffer with all the emotional bulls*it over the years was unforgivable to me. Since he wasn’t who he had claimed to be, hadn’t been faithful, and had lied pretty much about EVERYTHING, I couldn’t stay with such a selfish, deceitful, and quite frankly disgusting person. He was the be who took care of all the bills since I had been a stay at home mom, and at that point no amount of money or providing for was worth putting up with what I consider a con artist that used me for domestic labor and child care. So I removed him from my life. I’d rather be poor and struggle and live in reality than stay with some perverted creep that could do that to me or anyone else.

Haha, this made my day brighter! So uplifting! 😄 🍆🍆🍆💦💦💦

A lot of young men who look at pick-up artistry content could really, really benefit from this instead. I'm off my soapbox now -- thank you so very much for what you do!

My mom pished me to be my Dads

My brother, my Dad

I cant use poppers they stop me from breathing & moving a massive headache. Several people have had dangerous reactions. How come this has drug has been sold in joke shopes and news agents and being sold to teenagers over the counter. The houses of parliament wont ban it probably as they want it for there gay sex parties xx 😂

Kristen! Sorry I have no questions regarding your specialty, but I am just curious! I know you are living in California, but are you originally from Canada? I seem to detect a Canadian accent in your speech!

Bummer it just cut off at the end

This was one of the most valuable sessions

Kristin! Are you originally from St. Catharines, Ontario? And was your mother called Barbara Chadwick?

This is amazing info thank you so much. This dove tails in very well with Sam Vaknins take on narcissism, hustrionic mothers, and emotional incest. Between bith these sources of info i finally feel as if i mostly understand the issues and trauama i have experienced. Its cathartic, horrifying, and humiliating at the same time. I both love and hate my mother.

How do you make your face go back to normal ? I used poppers and made my face yellow ! Also made my face stuffy I can’t breath well right before sleeping :(((

Your videos on shame and trauma are very elucidating. How on earth do I find a therapist who can help me unpack these issues? I’ve had some really bad experiences with therapy. The thought of going through the process again only to be disappointed is overwhelming.

“Break free from your mother‘s perception of your dad, form your own opinion of the guy. You can hate him. As long as you hate him on your terms “

“We tend to surround ourselves with dynamics. We have the tool kit for”

And divorce with a malignant narc is one of the worst life experiences you will ever have. Get prepared.

In my experience and life- it is best to leave as soon as possible. If they truly want to change and heal- they need to do it on their time and not drag and take the loyal authentic empathic partner down a road of more complex inducing trauma rollercoasters, false hopes, jekyll/hyde behaviors. In the end after 32 year marriage to a community respected leader and his covert, malignant s.a. narcissism- the person that needs the most therapeutic healing- is me. The cortisol inducing health risks of staying with these addicted people is not worth dedicating your whole entire precious life to someone who cannot respect or love in a healthy way. Staying in these relationships will ruin your whole life while it barely impacts their heath or ability to meet another objectified love-bombed partner at all. The SA narc partner’s behaviors depletes your dopamine and rewires your brain. It is a health risk to stay in these relationships. They need to be on their own. If they truly believe they are in the wrong- they will change after divorce. But they respect you less and less the longer you stay. Because in reverse, they would not stay. Its a crazy making merry go round with someone who did not even have the ability to deeply and intimately connect.

After being married for 32 years to an extremely covert malignant Machiavellian narcissist SA, MD, with Borderline, Histrionic, liar, bordering sociopathic tendencies with me - once caught… over and over and over - I went through this “dance” years of money wasted on marriage therapy and eventually my own complex ptsd that occurred from so much gaslighting and mind games, victim excuses that turned out to be more lies- he only used therapy and healing practices to learn the “language” to get better at hiding his darkness. Eventually when I heard what my therapist kept telling me- “worked on me”- and when he saw that I was growing, healing on my own, ignoring his toxicity - it made him physically, emotionally, and spiritually abusive. He triangulated and spread lies and rescripted his narrative of our community, who he served and was admired by, where I became more isolated and alone, depressed, and eventually my cortisol levels were so elevated, developed an autoimmune disease. I am sharing this because- in my personal experience as well as 10 plus years of hearing many stories of DV that co-occurs with these people- when a sex addict/narcissist is found out- the best thing to do is leave. They steal your entire LIFE, physical and mental health wealth, community, and ability to trust and have the life we deserve to have- life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness. There is alot of money to be earned by this “treatment” and if they are serious about “healing” then they will do that when you are divorced and while the safe, loyal, authentic, partner can continue to live in integrity without a toxic partner. I wasted 10 years more of my life he was caught being lied to more. They only get better at lying and covering up and saying what you want to hear. Lack of trust and betrayal is not a healthy holistic way to live. It really only hurts the partner who has given their entire life to a lie.

Thank you for this.🙏🏻

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My husband calls you “the neighbor” cause our next door neighbor looks just like you.

For me, it comes down to replying versus reacting. There's been way too much reacting == too much selfishness. Thanks Dr. Eddie!

I love your loving practical approach to the most difficult human relational challenges

Congratulations, Eddie Capparucci! You finally became a sex addiction therapist.

Praise Tami! " Saying you're going to do something is a promise, not just a throwaway comment!" That's absolutely true, Tami! Thank you ❤

Inconsistency is a major downfall. A cycle continues that includes zero consistency when in good graces. Completely halts all forward movement once he regains access to the home. Checking boxes 📦 is not consistent self recovery for the sole purpose of becoming a healthy person for self and others. Great video. Amazing topic. Much needed.

Incredible value in all your videos!

The beginning talk with Eddie is always the best part!❤

This is spot on! You nailed it Eddie!

Thank you. ❤Summer

How much is the 2 hour consultation with Dr. Rob?

Always good to learn from Dr Weiss expert knowledge and experience … few therapist understand this area of human health

Some of this is RIDICULOUS!!!! Most women NEVER EVER FEEL ATTRACTED TO THEIR SON!!!! A lot of this is BULLSHIT!!!!!!!!

As a betrayed partner we might go through a severe dis regulation and distress and go into our own maladaptive coping mechanisms, and the addict definitely doesn’t deserve poor treatment and should have boundaries against these behaviors IF they are in recovery. But if they continue to act out and gaslight us then guess what all bets are off, imo. Not right i know but im fed up at this point

This is deep 🌿

Great to see David again on this channel. Seems to be less frequent these days but always appreciated.

Mr. Capparucci, let's see what your degrees are in. Doctor of Philosophy - PhD Christian Counseling (wonder what your original thesis was) BA in Journalism Marketing, MPA Healthcare Administration, M.A. Master of Arts , Counseling phycology. Aidan University is a e-learning, which employs 11 to 50 employees and on LinkedIn only 7 people claim to work there. Founded 2004 the address in a suite number in an office building in Jacksonville Florida. This all says to me you really do not have the qualifications to treat Sex addiction of any kind. As of yet you have found no way to help addicts with the inner children you throw out there, besides talk to them. You don't teach them how to manage them. Yet you say sexual addiction should be managed, and sexual addiction comes from childhood issues with unmanageable inner children. 😮

Wow, you are part of the problem with getting the medical communities to recognize sexual addiction. While alcohol addiction, opioid, gambling, and others are readily to recognize. None of the above are curable, and neither are depression or other mental disorders. Learn more than what your small brain tells you, Mr Capparucci .

Thank you