FINDING OUT I’M PREGNANT AFTER YEARS OF INFERTILITY | PCOS INFERTILITY JOURNEY

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  • Опубликовано: 17 июл 2020
  • This baby is the product of hundreds, maybe thousands of prayers. Prayers prayed by myself, my husband, our family, friends, and several of you who have been following our journey. Thank you for petitioning the Lord on our behalf...He answered!
    I will continue to pray for those of you still in this battle. Though being pregnant does not erase every scar infertility has left on me, it feels freeing to move into the next chapter of our lives until it’s time to face trying for our other future children.
    Thank you for watching!!
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  • @carmenmorris580
    @carmenmorris580 4 года назад +54

    When you thanked Jesus 🥺

  • @celenejones3227
    @celenejones3227 3 года назад +51

    Congrats!!!! I also have PCOS and was trying for 3 years the doctors told me I couldn’t get pregnant unless I was on fertility medications and it’s been 1 year since my last dose and I stopped trying. Recently haven’t been feeling good and thought nothing of it until I took a random pregnancy test and I got a BFP!!!! Currently 10 weeks 💜 GOD HAS A PERFECT TIME FOR THINGS.

  • @helenphillip2638
    @helenphillip2638 2 года назад +18

    Congratulations 🎉🎉 I also have pcos, I’ve been on clomid for 2 months but the clomid wasn’t working alone so the obgyn prescribed metformin an clomid together for 3 months got my period in March .. took a pregnancy Wednesday an saw 2 lines , I couldn’t believed it
    I’m now 5 weeks pregnant
    Don’t give up ladies .. it will happen ❤

    • @zainyslsnb9600
      @zainyslsnb9600 4 месяца назад

      Omggg, same prescription but I'm in 1st month of treatment, I'll fly back to my country after 2nd month treatment does it help with ttc

    • @zainyslsnb9600
      @zainyslsnb9600 4 месяца назад

      For how many months u continue ur treatment

  • @jaclynshutack4373
    @jaclynshutack4373 4 года назад +27

    It says a lot about the person that you that you find out you’re pregnant after years of infertility and you’re worried about others and how they feel. You truly are an amazing woman and you are SO deserving of this ❤️ I’m so happy for you.

    • @Blessingsbeautyandbravery
      @Blessingsbeautyandbravery  4 года назад +5

      I have just been really supported and uplifted by so many women with the same battles. It’s hard to think about hurting any one of those ladies! Thank you so much for that 🤍 that was really kind.

  • @camillewestlund7978
    @camillewestlund7978 4 года назад +29

    GOD IS GOOD. Currently sobbing. My heart is so happy for you guys. THANK YOU JESUS FOR BLESSING THIS FAMILY.
    😭😭❤❤🙌🏼🙌🏼

  • @kennykatt23
    @kennykatt23 4 года назад +4

    Oh love, dont ever apologize for your journey. Its good too be mindful but ENJOY this time. Everyones journey is different. You have struggled too, and now are starting a new chapter in your journey to a little. I am praying for you. 💛

  • @llanacallsmith5929
    @llanacallsmith5929 3 года назад +1

    You have such a sweet and caring spirit! (Thinking of all the women still waiting while processing your exciting news). You will have a special place in your heart and an understanding that not everyone has for times others find themselves waiting. ❤️ Prayers for you and your growing family and those of us still waiting appreciate your prayers as well.

  • @racheloxley8287
    @racheloxley8287 3 года назад +9

    Thank you so much for acknowledging those of us who continue to try. We are just so so thrilled for you!

  • @chantalrodriguez5269
    @chantalrodriguez5269 2 года назад +4

    It doesn't hurt honey , I'm so happy for you really!!!😊😊😊😊 7 years of infertility for hubby and I

    • @Blessingsbeautyandbravery
      @Blessingsbeautyandbravery  2 года назад +1

      You’re so sweet 😭 I’ll say a prayer for you both!! Hoping all the blessings are sent your way!

  • @LittleCheekySmile
    @LittleCheekySmile Год назад +2

    I know the struggle of trying for a baby. I cry everytime I take a test. I can’t afford treatments or anything. But we’re trying. You are such a sweet soul. I’m so happy for you honey. I may not be Christian anymore, but I am so glad the god you believe in blessed you with a baby.

  • @alisondehart6618
    @alisondehart6618 2 года назад

    Thank you for making this video. I’ve been struggling to have hope after over a year of trying and one miscarriage. This helps give me hope!

  • @sarahfontana5795
    @sarahfontana5795 4 года назад +15

    I have my first fertility appointment next wednesday after trying for 3 years. I also have PCOS. Praying for you, your husband, and baby 💜💜💜

    • @Blessingsbeautyandbravery
      @Blessingsbeautyandbravery  4 года назад

      Thank you so much!! Congratulations on starting your treatments. I pray this brings you so much closer to your baby too!!

  • @kathrynbuller8314
    @kathrynbuller8314 8 месяцев назад

    What an absolute empathic person you are ❤❤❤

  • @MsCrazyClassic
    @MsCrazyClassic 4 года назад +1

    So so happy for you!

  • @l.knight6786
    @l.knight6786 4 года назад +1

    Congrats!!! U deserve this ! ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @danelledebeer4640
    @danelledebeer4640 3 года назад +4

    Omw, I am so happy for you! We have been trying for 3 years now and this gives hope, so thank you for this inspirational message! May God bless you and your family 👪

  • @quitababy89
    @quitababy89 4 года назад +16

    God bless you, I am so happy for the two of you! I'm hoping for my miracle to happen for me ❤❤❤

  • @alexisallen1433
    @alexisallen1433 4 года назад +2

    Congrats omg I'm soooooo happy for u congrats congrats congrats !!!!

  • @lexxyoucute
    @lexxyoucute 4 года назад +2

    So happy for you!!!❤️❤️❤️❤️ sending you blessings your way.

  • @PrettyColorfulVideos
    @PrettyColorfulVideos 4 года назад +2

    Best feeling ever to see that line. Congratulations! Sending you positive vibes for a healthy and happy pregnancy.

  • @LadyAuston
    @LadyAuston 3 года назад

    So happy for you 💙

  • @reynaromero1175
    @reynaromero1175 2 месяца назад

    God bless you and Thank you for giving me hope! I'm about to start my first treatment🌈

  • @user-xh7ug9ch6z
    @user-xh7ug9ch6z 4 года назад +1

    birth is such a beautiful thing so happy for you ! jesus works in mysterious ways . continue to pray and have faith! we love you and omgggg congratulations on your bundle of joyyy 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @KarahShah
    @KarahShah 4 года назад

    Congratulations. You give me hope 🙌

  • @AC-li2pj
    @AC-li2pj 4 года назад +1

    so so so happy for you!!! enjoy every step of this new journey!!m

  • @michelleswaggerty1479
    @michelleswaggerty1479 2 года назад +1

    I’m so happy that the treatments worked for you and your finally pregnant. I know all about not being able to get pregnant. Me and my husband have been trying for another baby for over 5 years with no success. So we had to do ivf back in may and I only got 5 embryos I have low ovarian reserve. Out of the 5 I only got 1 good embryo. Had my transfer in august but unfortunately the transfer failed. So now it’s onto round 2 but this time I’m going to a new clinic because of my new job at Amazon I get amazing fertility benefits. So good luck on everything and hope the baby is healthy.

    • @Blessingsbeautyandbravery
      @Blessingsbeautyandbravery  2 года назад

      IVF is such a hard thing to go through. You are so so strong!!! I’ll say a prayer that you are blessed with a miracle baby soon ♥️

  • @jadorecoco875
    @jadorecoco875 3 года назад

    Congratulations hun!!!!❤️

  • @FabricatorShiner
    @FabricatorShiner 4 года назад +6

    I am so happy for all of us! I am so proud of you both. This gives hope to those that are having a hard time. Love you kids. I am a proud father and now going to be a proud Grandfather. God bless your household.

  • @Nganz157
    @Nganz157 3 года назад +3

    God is so Good. Congrats to you both ❤

  • @stephanyscorner23
    @stephanyscorner23 4 года назад +2

    I just came across this channel. New subbie. I too have been trying and I got pregnant earlier this year on our first try but had an early miscarriage. Been trying ever since and nothing happened but this video gives me more hope inside my heart. Thanks for sharing this precious moment. 💖💖🙌🏾🙌🏾

    • @Blessingsbeautyandbravery
      @Blessingsbeautyandbravery  4 года назад

      I am so so sorry for your loss. I will say a prayer for you over this journey you are on!

  • @isabellapezzato3784
    @isabellapezzato3784 4 года назад

    This is the first video of yours I’m watching (after you posted on AFMMH Facebook page) and I don’t know you but this video made me so happy! Congratulations mommy, may God bless your beautiful family!

  • @moonsdrawing9189
    @moonsdrawing9189 3 года назад

    Congratulations! I’m so happy for you..

  • @kimberlydickinson651
    @kimberlydickinson651 3 года назад

    Awww how sweet and congrats so happy for u

  • @kenziright7511
    @kenziright7511 4 года назад +1

    Congrats god is good !

  • @paigepham7352
    @paigepham7352 3 года назад

    I have pcos and have been ttc for about 8 years . I havent given up hope that my time will come! It can get extremely hard at times. Congratulations I'm so happy for you! ❤. I got chills and cried watching because I can only imagine how happy you are!! 😊😊

    • @Blessingsbeautyandbravery
      @Blessingsbeautyandbravery  3 года назад +1

      That is so hard and I’m so sorry you have been going through this for so long. I hope things will change for you soon 🤍

  • @tamijhey
    @tamijhey 4 года назад

    CONGRATULATIONS💖

  • @aeyshahafeez8822
    @aeyshahafeez8822 4 года назад

    Congrats!!!❤❤❤
    You made me cry...

  • @MariahTravis
    @MariahTravis 3 года назад

    I am so happy for you and sending you love and cyber hugs 🤗 ❤ we are still trying and it has been so hard so I know your pain. We had a early miscarriage September 2019 and a stillbirth April 2020. We are just trying to find our way. This video was so sweet and definitely made me smile. Sending you all the best wishes ❤

    • @Blessingsbeautyandbravery
      @Blessingsbeautyandbravery  3 года назад

      That is so incredibly hard. I’m so sorry for you losses. Thank you for your kind words....i will say a prayer for you 🤍

  • @leenalkhayat3581
    @leenalkhayat3581 4 года назад +1

    This is my first letrozole cycle you gave me a tons of hope ❤️ congratulations ❤️❤️

    • @Blessingsbeautyandbravery
      @Blessingsbeautyandbravery  4 года назад +2

      I’ll say a prayer for you!!! Congratulations on taking the next step towards your little one 🤍

  • @charlottebarros5773
    @charlottebarros5773 4 года назад +4

    God knew you had faith in him and trust in him may god give you a healthy baby and mommy congratulations

  • @pineapplemama807
    @pineapplemama807 4 года назад +1

    awweee your reaction made me tear up! congrats!!!

  • @rebeccabarrow125
    @rebeccabarrow125 3 месяца назад

    Congratulations 🎉🎉

  • @ThePaulyFamily
    @ThePaulyFamily 4 года назад

    So happy for you guys. Love you so much.

  • @naomigarrett5087
    @naomigarrett5087 4 года назад

    So happy for you beautiful girl!

  • @999chocolate9
    @999chocolate9 3 года назад

    You deserve it mommy enjoy your moment

  • @tsholofelomokoena915
    @tsholofelomokoena915 4 года назад

    You have a beautiful heart. Your video just made me cry so much. Also suffering with PCOS and this is the first month iv done fertility treatment. Currently on my tww. Praying I get a positive as well

  • @Unfilteredcuts25
    @Unfilteredcuts25 3 года назад

    CONGRATSS OMG 😭

  • @chinmayikamath824
    @chinmayikamath824 4 года назад

    May God bless you ❤️

  • @tarasimpkins7381
    @tarasimpkins7381 3 года назад

    Congratulations I hope all goes well with you and your new little one!!!

  • @gabriellam7061
    @gabriellam7061 3 года назад +1

    My first infertility appointment is in 6 days, so nervous. i’m tired of seeing one line on a test.. i’m tired of crying over it all the time, i’m ready to have a little one and make my partner a daddy. your video was so touching and i cried with you! congrats ❤️

    • @Blessingsbeautyandbravery
      @Blessingsbeautyandbravery  3 года назад +1

      I know that is cute a hard feeling...i hope your appointment goes well! You are one step closer to your little one 🤍

  • @ivetteb8364
    @ivetteb8364 3 года назад +2

    God is great, nothing is impossible for God 🙏

  • @samanthaquinlanedwards1315
    @samanthaquinlanedwards1315 4 года назад

    Congratulations!! GOD BLESS YOU and your family.

    • @Blessingsbeautyandbravery
      @Blessingsbeautyandbravery  4 года назад

      Thank you that means a lot 🤗

    • @samanthaquinlanedwards1315
      @samanthaquinlanedwards1315 4 года назад

      @@Blessingsbeautyandbravery your welcome! I've been having difficulty even getting a positive for over a year for our first. My faith has been tested and I'm really trying to keep praying. I'm hoping my prayers are answered this month.. its so uplifting to see that God heard you and blessed you guys!

  • @lizzy_90
    @lizzy_90 11 месяцев назад +1

    Been trying for 10 years, I can understand every disappointment. I have PCOS. I'm tired of trying, my body is sadly giving up on having bio kids

  • @asmarashid9227
    @asmarashid9227 4 года назад +13

    I'm also crying too with you😣 my heart desire i wanna be a mom... Pryr for me too plz dear xxx

    • @Blessingsbeautyandbravery
      @Blessingsbeautyandbravery  4 года назад +1

      I will definitely say a prayer for you. I’m so sorry you are struggling!

    • @megber7897
      @megber7897 3 года назад

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  • @michellemarie9073
    @michellemarie9073 3 года назад

    It’s not okey to cry in these situations but trust me it is okey to know that u not alone never was !! I’ve been ttc for 4 years and nxt month i will start treatments !! #Faith

  • @desireeperham7093
    @desireeperham7093 4 года назад +1

    What a beautiful, selfless woman. Congratulations. From a midwife in New Zealand.

  • @shevellscott6756
    @shevellscott6756 3 года назад

    So happy for you sweety, you will make a great mom.

  • @annabellbaker81
    @annabellbaker81 2 года назад

    I am so happy for you

  • @oluchiehirim1074
    @oluchiehirim1074 3 года назад +2

    Congrats luv, u will carry to full term in Jesus name.

  • @alimatouful
    @alimatouful 4 года назад

    YES AND AMEN 💖🙏🏽

  • @kimberlyclark8322
    @kimberlyclark8322 3 года назад +2

    Congrats. I know the feeling of wanting to be a mom but having pcos but I’m happy to say after many year I’m finally going to be a mom to a little girl, I’m 30 years old and pregnant with my first she’s due in January 😁

    • @Blessingsbeautyandbravery
      @Blessingsbeautyandbravery  3 года назад +1

      That is AMAZING. Congratulations!! We are also having a baby girl 🥰

    • @kimberlyclark8322
      @kimberlyclark8322 3 года назад

      @@Blessingsbeautyandbravery that’s so awesome 😁😁😁😁

  • @brendazepeda1613
    @brendazepeda1613 9 месяцев назад

    God is so good❤

  • @Captianshooter69
    @Captianshooter69 3 года назад

    You have such a beautiful soul ❤️❤️

  • @alexisallen1433
    @alexisallen1433 4 года назад +4

    May god be with u through this journey u will be a great momma love u soooo much can't wait to see the beautiful baby

    • @Blessingsbeautyandbravery
      @Blessingsbeautyandbravery  4 года назад +1

      Thank you!!! ❤️

    • @alexisallen1433
      @alexisallen1433 3 года назад +1

      @@Blessingsbeautyandbravery can u post a video of the gender reveal please

    • @Blessingsbeautyandbravery
      @Blessingsbeautyandbravery  3 года назад +1

      I will soon!! Sorry for the lack of content, pregnancy has kicked my butt- i do have footage stocked up though!

    • @alexisallen1433
      @alexisallen1433 3 года назад +1

      @@Blessingsbeautyandbravery thank u love u and hope u are doing good!

  • @tifflovemyfamily2160
    @tifflovemyfamily2160 4 года назад

    Congratulations ❤️🍼👣🙏

  • @essentiallylau
    @essentiallylau 3 года назад

    God bless your pregnancy. 🙏

  • @londonshroyer4807
    @londonshroyer4807 3 года назад +1

    Congratulations! I just got my first BFP about 2 weeks ago after trying for 2 1/2 years. We had a previous pregnancy but I miscarried. So this has been a difficult journey! We are 6 weeks 5 days today so I hope things go well for you as well!

    • @Blessingsbeautyandbravery
      @Blessingsbeautyandbravery  3 года назад +1

      Congratulations!! That is so amazing! Thank you for sharing 🤍

    • @nancy.5890
      @nancy.5890 3 года назад

      9 months later. How’s everything so far? I hope you gave birth to a healthy baby❤️

    • @Blessingsbeautyandbravery
      @Blessingsbeautyandbravery  3 года назад

      I did ♥️ thank you! I just uploaded my birth vlog too. How are you?? Did things turn out okay for you?

  • @shiannacumberledge57
    @shiannacumberledge57 4 года назад

    Congrats so happy for you god bless

  • @jessicak5246
    @jessicak5246 4 года назад +1

    I'm so happy for u congrats. I'm on my second cycle just starting but this time I'm doing the trigger shot with clomid so exciting to see if it works

  • @elenasworld
    @elenasworld 3 года назад

    Wow!! I am so happy for you!!! Just find your channel and subscribe at once. Congratulations 🎈🍾🎉

    • @Blessingsbeautyandbravery
      @Blessingsbeautyandbravery  3 года назад +1

      Thank you so much that means a lot!! 🤍

    • @elenasworld
      @elenasworld 3 года назад

      I have done the same method that you did.. and I am waiting for days to pass and see the results if I am or not 🤩🤩

  • @MRS.Caruana
    @MRS.Caruana Год назад

    🙏😊❤
    Congratulations 🎈🎈
    We are trying for 2years. I will get to know this friday if my treatment worked 🙏 Please pray for us ❤
    Love and Peace to All and hope your Angel will arrive also ❤

  • @BLE75
    @BLE75 3 года назад

    Im waintig this moment 5 years... God bless you.. I hope one day i have the same moment 🥰

    • @Blessingsbeautyandbravery
      @Blessingsbeautyandbravery  3 года назад +1

      The wait is so hard. I’ll say a prayer for you 🤍

    • @BLE75
      @BLE75 3 года назад

      @@Blessingsbeautyandbravery 🥰 thank you darling. Kisses from Croatia

  • @TheCpaz12
    @TheCpaz12 4 года назад

    Congratulations 🎉

  • @susanmcdermott8147
    @susanmcdermott8147 3 года назад

    Hello from another pcos lady. It took me 4 years to get pregnant with my daughter after having my son.

  • @emmag867
    @emmag867 3 года назад +2

    After 5 year of me and my husband try we are finally have a baby is December so I know how good it feels to be pregnant after try for so long

  • @johneysgirl4life972
    @johneysgirl4life972 2 года назад

    I got pcos and been trying since 2018 had a miscarriage in 2019 and got diagnosed with pcos this year and no luck yet I wanna congratulations to u guys

  • @sgyxp
    @sgyxp 10 месяцев назад

  • @lakotabeck4579
    @lakotabeck4579 2 года назад

    I have pcos and I've been trying for 2 months and still nothing idk if I should keep trying or give up or try fertility treatments

    • @Blessingsbeautyandbravery
      @Blessingsbeautyandbravery  2 года назад +1

      I believe it takes 6 months on average for a person to conceive. Definitely keep trying! I know waiting is so so hard. If a year passes, your doctor should be okay with referring you to a fertility specialist. Hopefully you conceive long before that, though!

  • @nakeciavance3307
    @nakeciavance3307 3 года назад

    Wht kind of treatment did u take? We’ve been struggling for a year. I’ve wanted to give up hope I’ve questioned God

    • @Blessingsbeautyandbravery
      @Blessingsbeautyandbravery  3 года назад +1

      We tried for 2.5 years and ended up doing timed intercourse with fertility drugs and follicle monitoring (or “medicated cycles”). I know it can be so discouraging and it’s incredibly easy to have your faith shaken when it feels like everyone around you is growing their family...i know it’s hurts and I’m so sorry. I would recommend you read up about the “infertile” women of the Bible and read some of those stories. They encouraged me so much...i saw that God had an intention behind each woman’s “wait” and they ultimately served a greater purpose. Lean into God through it 🤍 he will get you through whatever journey lies ahead!

  • @Patty968
    @Patty968 8 месяцев назад

    Pray for me sis I've been trying almost 2 years now😢🤦‍♀️.

    • @Blessingsbeautyandbravery
      @Blessingsbeautyandbravery  8 месяцев назад

      Praying right after i hit send ♥️ if you need comfort, reading 1st Samuel helped me a lot!

  • @intannurfairuzbintiahmad8311
    @intannurfairuzbintiahmad8311 2 года назад

    im crying 😭. Im also pcos fighter. please pray for me.

  • @haileylatayette891
    @haileylatayette891 2 года назад

    I have PCOS and I remember how l felt when the doctor toid me it would be hard for me to conceive I now have 4 children very successful pregnancies God blessed me with use of herbs!

  • @alisalaska1786
    @alisalaska1786 2 года назад

    Thank you for being empathetic towards others trying. You went through a lot too to get here, though. When I see a “how I got pregnant with pcos on the first try” video, it makes me angry. It’s not helpful to anyone when people like that make advice videos, and they have to know that.

    • @Blessingsbeautyandbravery
      @Blessingsbeautyandbravery  2 года назад +1

      You’re right.. everyone’s bodies are different and not every person with PCOS has issues conceiving so it’s not very helpful. Unfortunately a lot of doctors jump the gun and tell women with PCOS that they might not be able to have children and then some of those women try and find out they have no issues in that department! So much misinformation and unhelpful advice 😬

  • @beauty.southern.belleco.9098
    @beauty.southern.belleco.9098 4 года назад

    What medicine did they prescribe you? I have PCOS too ever since I was 13... so anything helps😂

    • @Blessingsbeautyandbravery
      @Blessingsbeautyandbravery  4 года назад

      I did a baseline ultrasound, then took letrozole, then did follicle scans until I had mature enough follicles, then did a trigger shot with ovidrel, then after I ovulated I was put on progesterone. I take the progesterone till 12 weeks pregnant. I hope this helps!

  • @bluemermaid7695
    @bluemermaid7695 4 года назад

    When are you going to post a new video!!! U can’t just leave us hanging🤪

  • @cks7548
    @cks7548 18 дней назад

    Honestly, I don't see why any woman would want to get pregnant. Pregnancy puts a lot of strain on a woman's body, and it is very dangerous, and it has a lot of risks, and a pregnancy lasts 9 months. Also, childbirth is very painful. And also, raising children is very hard.
    Personally, I think being childfree would be a lot better than having children. It's been proven that single childfree women are happier. Studies prove single, childless, women are the HAPPIEST demographic. Women are the happiest when single and focused on themselves.

    • @Blessingsbeautyandbravery
      @Blessingsbeautyandbravery  18 дней назад

      Uhh… lol. You’re certainly entitled to your opinion! Not sure why you opted to watch this if that’s your mentality. My little family is my whole life and the joy they bring me is unmatched with anything else. I think the goal should be to be happy/content in your circumstance, whatever you choose, not to coax women into “one over the other”.
      Being a mother is (yes) the hardest, weirdest, best, most rewarding, beautiful, joyful thing i have ever done. Is it even harder and more tiring than i ever realized it would be? Yes. Was birth more painful? Yes. Would i do it again? Yes, yes, and YES. Over and over again. Why? Because that’s what brings me joy and if i get blessed with another pregnancy and child, that’ll bring me more joy. More trials? Yep, those too. But the love and joy are so much more constant, grounding, and rooted so much deeper than the temporary trials that come along with the experience. That’s my “why”. Maybe that helps you understand a bit, maybe not, but either way i think it’s great that you get to choose what’s best for you and i get to choose what’s best for me. Some feel called to singleness, and that’s okay!

    • @cks7548
      @cks7548 18 дней назад

      @@Blessingsbeautyandbravery But studies have shown that single childless women are much happier than married women with children are.
      How does having children make your life better?
      Pregnancy and having birth can be very risky. Many women have problems for life regarding incontinence, PTSD from the pain of the delivery, sleep deprivation for a few years.
      And some women actually die or end up in ICU during childbirth. Not to mention, some of the consequences of giving birth are lifelong.

    • @Blessingsbeautyandbravery
      @Blessingsbeautyandbravery  18 дней назад

      @cks7548 i did a little research to see if the study you mentioned popped up- i can only find articles alluding to it. However i easily found an article explaining there was an error with the study you mention when women were asked if their spouses were present. Some women interpreted that as “present with them” and some interpreted that as “an ex-spouse”. That’s a large interpretation difference and can very very easily impact a study of that nature. If someone is not currently your spouse, you’re very likely to be happier without them. There are also other studies saying the exact opposite of that study, and those are not hard to find. I have no clue how the study you mentioned surveyed women, but there have to be geographical, cultural, and age factors. There’s a lot to this conversation and i don’t see it at black and white. I think the fact that men and women actively seek family building all over the world says a lot. I don’t personally see your arguments as logical as you think they are- in order for the human race to continue we have to have children. So suggesting women should all just stay single and they’d be happier? It’s a very bizarre generalization. I’m assuming you haven’t had children based off of the way you’re wording things, but i have actually been single, married, had a child, had postpartum depression, and i can still say I’d choose her and this life and do it all over again in a heartbeat. That’s something most mothers can understand, but not something i can easily explain to you if you don’t have children/don’t want your children/ don’t want children. It’s not a “my child meets my needs and makes me happy” sort of scenario. It’s a purpose and fulfillment that goes beyond what others can do for you and rewards you by what you can do for them in turn. You can call it illogical- i call it human nature. Best wishes 🤗

  • @quitababy89
    @quitababy89 4 года назад

    God bless you, I am so happy for the two of you! I'm hoping for my miracle to happen for me ❤❤❤

    • @Blessingsbeautyandbravery
      @Blessingsbeautyandbravery  4 года назад +1

      Thank you so much. I’ll say a prayer for you 🤍

    • @quitababy89
      @quitababy89 4 года назад +1

      @@Blessingsbeautyandbravery thank you hun, that really means a lot to me!!!