Here is the combined list of all the INFJ affirmations, numbered: 1. As an INFJ, I am enough. 2. I am an INFJ, and I love the person in the mirror who's been through so much but is still standing. 3. I am worthy of respect. 4. I am an INFJ, and I have the curiosity to learn about myself and the courage to be myself. 5. I am not responsible for fixing other people. 6. I am not responsible for other people's mistakes in life. 7. I am powerful. 8. I am love. 9. I am an INFJ, and INFJs move the world forward. 10. I am an INFJ, and I love myself and my unique personality. 11. I am creating the life that I want to live. 12. I am aligned with my inner INFJ power. 13. I am accepting of who I am. 14. I am safe. 15. I am capable. 16. I am ready. 17. I am a part of the greater whole. 18. I am capable of controlling my thoughts. 19. I am capable of rejecting thoughts that don't help me and selecting new thoughts that do help me. 20. I am replacing my concern over how others feel about me with my efforts to better understand and master myself. 21. I am capable of selecting who I think about and for how long. 22. I am an INFJ, and I know that difficult times don't define me or diminish me; they develop me. 23. I am an INFJ, and I have gifts and skills that other personality types do not have. 24. I am the one who stands for those who are less powerful. 25. I am capable of deep connections with others, and it is not wrong to want that in a relationship. 26. I am an INFJ, and any mistakes that I make are not failures but opportunities to learn. 27. I am able to withstand all of the persecution and judgment that I might receive. 28. I am worthy of having people who love me in my life. 29. If someone does not like my unique actions and personality, then they are not the person for me. 30. I am willing and able to let those people go, and I will not waste my INFJ energy on them. 31. I am able to reveal who I am to others at a steady and controlled pace because who I am is worthwhile and valuable to the world. 32. I am able to give my true opinion on things without over-explaining because my opinions are as valuable as any other person's on Earth. 33. I am able to say no. 34. I am an INFJ, and I am aware that self-love is not selfish. 35. I am whatever I decide to be, and I can change. 36. I am in service. 37. I am fun. 38. I am complete. 39. I am not the doubts, fears, or worries that I have. 40. I am letting those thoughts go and replacing them with the more beneficial thoughts of confidence, hope, and assurance. 41. I am able to forgive everyone, including myself. 42. I am an INFJ, and I embrace it. 43. I am thankful and grateful for myself, for my inner being, for who I am as an INFJ. 44. I am able to trust myself and my thoughts and opinions. 45. I am protective of my INFJ self and will not allow myself to be bullied or treated improperly. 46. I am strong and have definite boundaries that I will not let others cross. 47. I am receptive to others' energy, and because of this gift, I remove or control how much time I spend with toxic people. 48. I am aware that negativity in one area of my life invades all of the other areas, and I will not allow that. 49. I am strongly in the present moment. 50. I am strength. 51. I am energetic. 52. I am powerful. 53. I am open to receive. 54. I am accepting of who I am. 55. I am accepting of my inner INFJ powers and gifts. 56. I am vibrant. 57. I am making the most of today. 58. I am aware of my body and its needs. 59. I am aware that I need rest. 60. I am aware that I need alone time. 61. I am aware that I need to eat well and treat my body well. 62. I am now starting today making it a priority to get these things because I am worthy of them. 63. I am able to separate my feelings from the feelings of others. 64. I am under no obligation to always put others' feelings before my own. 65. I am abundance. 66. I am appreciative of all that I have. 67. I am happy. 68. I am in the flow of life. 69. I am here to grow and expand. 70. I am responsible only for my own feelings. 71. I am responsible only for my own behavior. 72. I am allowed to put myself first when needed because it is the only way that I can truly help others. 73. I believe in myself. 74. I am motivated. 75. I am dedicated. 76. I am interested in humanity, and this is the right way to be. 77. I am an independent thinker. 78. I am one who will not be manipulated. 79. I am in command of my life. 80. I am loving my life. 81. I am gratitude. 82. I am healing. 83. I am peaceful. 84. I am not responsible for helping those who do not want to be helped. 85. I am an INFJ, and I use my precious energy and skills to aid those who need my help, those who want my help. 86. I am an INFJ, and when my cup is full, I stop pouring. 87. I am a dreamer. 88. I am an action taker, and I am taking action today. 89. I am persistent. 90. I am strong. 91. I am loving all that I am. 92. I am not responsible for my being misunderstood. 93. I am worth understanding, but I am willing to let go of those who do not put forth the effort to know me. 94. I am not responsible for those who do not want to be in my life. 95. I am not responsible for those who are no longer in my life. 96. I am not responsible for these people even if they call me with a problem years after they have abandoned me. 97. I am not responsible for all of those who in the past have rejected me. 98. I will use no more of my precious INFJ energy on them. 99. I am balanced. 100. I am positive. 101. I am love. 102. I am letting go. 103. I am humble yet confident and secure. 104. I am worthwhile and profitable regardless of what the world says about me. 105. I am poised and centered no matter what is going on around me. 106. I am co-creating my own magnificent existence, and my thoughts are growing more centered, useful, and positive every day. 107. I am comfortable. 108. I am choosing my life moment by moment. 109. I am an INFJ, and my opinions and preferences are just as important as anyone else's. I will let them be known with confidence. 110. I am capable of changing the world and of making it better by my being in it. 111. I am able to cut toxic people out of my life, and I will do so when necessary. 112. I am strong and able to cut ties when needed, be that with a job, a habit, or a relationship. 113. I am a powerful tree in a storm, and no storm can last forever. 114. I am honoring my higher self. 115. I am soul. 116. I am truth. 117. I am accepting of change. 118. I am introverted. 119. I gain energy when I'm alone, and I have a right to enjoy my alone time. 120. I am allowed to have the hobbies I enjoy despite what anyone around me thinks about them. 121. I am capable of being here now. 122. I am aware that this moment is the only moment of my life that I'm truly experiencing. 123. I am free. 124. I am open. 125. I am wise. 126. I am letting go. 127. I am loving and accepting of my personality. 128. I am an INFJ, and there are others out there like me. 129. I am an INFJ, and I am enough.
Discovering I'm an INFJ was a amazing discovery, watching various vlogs on mbpi types and every on on INFJ s it's as if they were describing me. I've done numerous on online tests and every one confirmed I'm an INFJ, and as I discovery more I feel I'm slowly unlocking the inner me.
Just repeating a comment I left on another video … Thank you, THANK YOU for giving me an explanation for why I’ve struggled so much in life that isn’t mental illness or autism. Discovering this channel feels like a gift from the universe. I’ve never hit the subscribe button so hard. ❤
The images of God’s creation in this are wonderful, Jay. His peace and love infuse me, especially reading my Bible. He gives me wisdom and rest. He made me the unique, compassionate person I am and have been since being an aware little girl. God bless you for being my friend! Jae 🇦🇺🧡✝️
Hello. I hope you don't mind me bringing to your attention that while reading the Bible on my own, I've found that it never once says that Jesus is God. If you look for a plain scripture where Jesus says, "I am God," you will not find it. Nor will you find anyone saying "Jesus is God." The vast majority of churches in the world teach that Jesus is God, which according to my recent discoveries, is a doctrine based solely on interpretation. That's very dangerous, especially since God says he will not share his praise and glory with another (Psalm 42:8). Remember, this is Satan's kingdom we're in right now, and I believe this is the enemies booby trap under the church waiting to go off at judgment. Look at 2 Peter 1:1-3... "just as there will be false teachers among you, who will subtly introduce destructive heresies, even denying the Master who bought them... many will follow their shameful ways, and because of them the way of truth will be spoken evil of... they will exploit you with false arguments and twisted doctrine." "Denying the Master," how? As shown above, by taking the glory and praise due to God and placing it upon his Son, and exhalting him as God when he's a man like you and me, who has the same God and Father as you and me (John 4:22, John 17:3). To say again, detracting from the work of who and what Jesus is and did, which is his rightful glory, and putting God's glory as Father and creator on Jesus. This worship is causing the Son to eclipse the Father. Jesus never said "I am God." We shouldn't put words in his mouth.
I think I have finally realized that I hate being an INFJ. Life is so hard - and I'm the one making it hard. I can fix others but it's hard fixing myself.
I'm sorry you're struggling ❤ but if it makes you feel any better, it actually WILL get better… and it will be worth it a trillion fold. I feel as if every INFJ goes through this phase once they realize how complex they are. It's disheartening because we genuinely mean well and work hard but yet we never really fit in and most things have always been harder for us in comparison to others but we never knew WHY. We are authentic and intense about everything and that scares, triggers, those who live by cultural norms and traditions because it's all they have. The INFJ remorse lays in the irony of who we are and how it's affected us for the worst- how open minded & understanding we are of others but yet we are constantly misunderstood and miatreaded, how compassionate we are vs how little compassion others give us, how we value harmony & connectedness vs the existential isolation we’ve grappled with since childhood etc. We each thought we were alone in this experience but it gets better once we realize there are others like us!! I found so much solace and healing in connecting with other INFJ’s online. I usually get the best outcomes when I google search my current thought with the keywords “reddit” and “infj” lol. I hope this ramble helps you somehow. You deserve so much love!
It helps me! Just recently I managed to get through a really tough transition and I landed on my feet in spades. I have mixed emotions about it because I’m still alone but it’s a new beginning. If I can settle my heart I know there’s infinite potential. Thank you for the encouraging words dear one. It’s the calm after the storm
Trying to help peep who don't want your help leads to burnout. You're not alone. What INFJs Think They Want: 🤝 Meaningful Connections: You crave intimacy and understanding in your relationships. 🌟 Idealistic Goals: You're driven by a sense of purpose and want to make a difference. 🏆 Recognition and Validation: You want to feel seen and appreciated for your unique insights. 🛠 Perfection and Order: You seek harmony and detest chaos, desiring a structured environment. 🌿 Solitude for Reflection: You need time alone to recharge and maintain your mental and emotional balance. What INFJs Actually Need: ⚖ Balanced Relationships: You need supportive connections that also allow for space to avoid emotional burnout. 🧭 Practical Steps Towards Goals: You need to ground your aspirations in reality with realistic, achievable plans. 🌈 Internal Validation: You need to cultivate self-acceptance and inner confidence, reducing your reliance on external validation. 🌱 Flexibility and Adaptability: You need to embrace changes and imperfections, as perfectionism can be paralyzing. 🕰 Engaging with the Present: You need to practice mindfulness and presence to fully enjoy your experiences. As an INFJ, understanding the difference between what you think you want and what you actually need can be a powerful step towards personal growth and fulfillment. Remember to balance your ideals with practical self-care and embrace the beauty of the present moment.
Thank you for sharing, the root of struggle for me is often perfectionism. When INFJs have such a powerful insight it feels real, and while this insight isn't yet infront of our eyes it feels like its a matter of time before this insight will be infront of our eyes. With inferior extraverted sensing, we're not in reality so its easier to miss reality which often is more comforting than our incredible insights. This can lead to perfectionism, and I realise even if i reach the top level of something, id still feel like I need to push harder because i'm not at the top level of something else. From one INFJ to another, I think and can almost guarantee that you're doing great in life. I bet if another type knew what we do, they would realise that we're great.
Yesterday I was feeling discouraged, and this video is exactly what I needed to lift my spirits and give me the motivation I needed to keep going. Deep down I know all these things to be true, but it is so good to hear it. Thank you so much for this. Thank you for all that you are doing to make life better for all INFJs. You are truly making a difference in people's lives. Yesterday I read your newsletter and you mentioned getting out for a walk, and It motivated me to do so and It felt great. It feels so good to feel understood and valued. Thank you. Please keep these amazing videos coming.
Its so wierd...this has some nuances of "energy and chakra" vibes, which don't match my personal beleifs. BUT the words themselves hit home so quick that I started tearing up. Thank you for posting this
I AM grateful for these affirmations, when I felt really needed to hear them. I AM my own biggest supporter, and embrace my uniqueness as a guilt-free INFJ me. Thank you so much Jay for posting this. ❤❤❤ From India🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳
The greatest gift I give myself is a thank you prayer to the Lord , a quiet morning coffee and the rest of the day "is just what it is"; take them as they come...tomorrow has yet to happen and the past is the greatest teacher. Have a great day all.
Omg. First of all I love this! Second, it’s hilarious some of the stuff: “I am capable of revealing myself to others at a slow and steady pace.” It reads like a guide to managing my trauma responses - and I’m guessing all our trauma responses. 😂. Seriously tho I really enjoyed this and wrote almost all of them down.
I squealed at that exact part hahah ahhh the trauma responses are so real! The lifelong abuse and consistent gaslighting really disoriented my idea of what “normal” conversations are like… the fear of the other person misunderstanding and mistreating me made me do weird things ahhg. It compelled me to overexplaina if my life depended on it (because that's what my body felt like) which always led to me awkwardly oversharing my lore to every person I spoke with. I thought I was talking about my life just like others do lol I quickly realized most people don't relate and therefore I was actually trauma dumping lololol. We live and we learn ❤
The way each affirmation simultaneously empowers me and evokes every emotion I've ever experienced 😂❤ crying because each point was once a journal entry, a serious struggle in my life…. the tears are both happy and sad because those lessons were bruising and arduous but so profound and meaningful. Thank you for creating this video ❤
Wow this was incredible! Thank you so very much for this. I will indeed practice this INFJ mantra everyday. This video has come at a critical time in my life. And I don’t believe it was by chance. I appreciate and respect you sir. Thank you. 😊🙏🏻
Thank you for this beautiful, relaxing video full of insights. I appreciate your work so much, thanks for sharing the wisdom you have gained throughout the years with all of us. Be blessed, dear Jay!!! 😇☺💛
Note to myself- What INFJs Think They Want: 🤝 Meaningful Connections: You crave intimacy and understanding in your relationships. 🌟 Idealistic Goals: You're driven by a sense of purpose and want to make a difference. 🏆 Recognition and Validation: You want to feel seen and appreciated for your unique insights. 🛠 Perfection and Order: You seek harmony and detest chaos, desiring a structured environment. 🌿 Solitude for Reflection: You need time alone to recharge and maintain your mental and emotional balance. What INFJs Actually Need: ⚖ Balanced Relationships: You require supportive connections that also allow for space to avoid emotional burnout. 🧭 Practical Steps Towards Goals: You need to ground your aspirations in reality with realistic, achievable plans. 🌈 Internal Validation: You need to cultivate self-acceptance and inner confidence, reducing your reliance on external validation. 🌱 Flexibility and Adaptability: You need to embrace changes and imperfections, as perfectionism can be paralyzing. 🕰 Engaging with the Present: You need to practice mindfulness and presence to fully enjoy your experiences. As an INFJ, understanding the difference between what you think you want and what you actually require can be a powerful step towards personal growth and fulfillment. Remember to balance your ideals with practical self-care and embrace the beauty of the present moment.
Thanks a lot✨ I would like your opinion, I met a woman that I really like and I would like to try to go further but there is a problem. Obviously I have no problem with everyone's beliefs but my love of betterment and improvement but above all of the strength of wanting something and going in the direction of obtaining it means that I am in conflict with its passivity in its potential. Indeed, like each of us, I deeply believe that everyone can improve as much as they want. But she thinks that God will bring the perfect man directly to her. I asked her what if she had to improve for a man, what would she do and she says he will have to love her the way she is otherwise it just won't be the right one. And obviously this answer does not suit me, this fate cannot follow me in my projects and everything. So I would like to ask you, according to you and your experience. Should I try again to discuss it with her or should I give up and move on with my life? Thanks✨
Hint: she does not have to improve for a man. She is correct in saying that the Lord will bring to her the man who’ll love her for who she is. From the bible: But with God all things are possible~Matthew 19:26
Well it's correct in this perception of things. If God brings her that man then YES, all will be okay. And she is probably correct. Only problem is that I think in this life, we must move as strong as we want to get what we want and I trust God has always give to us what we need. All is already a gift so go get or stay still. That's my opinion no grief. Thanks for your answer mate✨@@artistchristos
hey, sry to leave this here but didn't see a DM option. I heard recently that being an INFJ is envious...as much as I struggle for meaning and relationships in this world I can't understand why any one would want to be like me. I'm thinking that maybe people are just wanting to be unique and rare. Possible future topic for you, would INFJs choose to be INFJs, or would they rather be another personality type. Knowing we can never change what or who we are, but would we choose to be as we are, if we had a choice? edit: I meant that people are envious of the INFJ personality type.
Of all your videos, I think this one is a bit exaggerated and maybe even ridiculous. I mean, the INFJ personality is not that amazing. It has many flaws, and I don't think the personality comes close to any kind of perfection, as most people think, but the interest in it is mostly there because it's rare.
I think you're misunderstanding the video? This is supposed to be a self help guide for INFJs, because we're so used to supporting to others, but refuse to keep any positive affirmations for ourselves. Accepting ourselves for who we are isn't easy IMO. I'm still in therapy for it.
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Here is the combined list of all the INFJ affirmations, numbered:
1. As an INFJ, I am enough.
2. I am an INFJ, and I love the person in the mirror who's been through so much but is still standing.
3. I am worthy of respect.
4. I am an INFJ, and I have the curiosity to learn about myself and the courage to be myself.
5. I am not responsible for fixing other people.
6. I am not responsible for other people's mistakes in life.
7. I am powerful.
8. I am love.
9. I am an INFJ, and INFJs move the world forward.
10. I am an INFJ, and I love myself and my unique personality.
11. I am creating the life that I want to live.
12. I am aligned with my inner INFJ power.
13. I am accepting of who I am.
14. I am safe.
15. I am capable.
16. I am ready.
17. I am a part of the greater whole.
18. I am capable of controlling my thoughts.
19. I am capable of rejecting thoughts that don't help me and selecting new thoughts that do help me.
20. I am replacing my concern over how others feel about me with my efforts to better understand and master myself.
21. I am capable of selecting who I think about and for how long.
22. I am an INFJ, and I know that difficult times don't define me or diminish me; they develop me.
23. I am an INFJ, and I have gifts and skills that other personality types do not have.
24. I am the one who stands for those who are less powerful.
25. I am capable of deep connections with others, and it is not wrong to want that in a relationship.
26. I am an INFJ, and any mistakes that I make are not failures but opportunities to learn.
27. I am able to withstand all of the persecution and judgment that I might receive.
28. I am worthy of having people who love me in my life.
29. If someone does not like my unique actions and personality, then they are not the person for me.
30. I am willing and able to let those people go, and I will not waste my INFJ energy on them.
31. I am able to reveal who I am to others at a steady and controlled pace because who I am is worthwhile and valuable to the world.
32. I am able to give my true opinion on things without over-explaining because my opinions are as valuable as any other person's on Earth.
33. I am able to say no.
34. I am an INFJ, and I am aware that self-love is not selfish.
35. I am whatever I decide to be, and I can change.
36. I am in service.
37. I am fun.
38. I am complete.
39. I am not the doubts, fears, or worries that I have.
40. I am letting those thoughts go and replacing them with the more beneficial thoughts of confidence, hope, and assurance.
41. I am able to forgive everyone, including myself.
42. I am an INFJ, and I embrace it.
43. I am thankful and grateful for myself, for my inner being, for who I am as an INFJ.
44. I am able to trust myself and my thoughts and opinions.
45. I am protective of my INFJ self and will not allow myself to be bullied or treated improperly.
46. I am strong and have definite boundaries that I will not let others cross.
47. I am receptive to others' energy, and because of this gift, I remove or control how much time I spend with toxic people.
48. I am aware that negativity in one area of my life invades all of the other areas, and I will not allow that.
49. I am strongly in the present moment.
50. I am strength.
51. I am energetic.
52. I am powerful.
53. I am open to receive.
54. I am accepting of who I am.
55. I am accepting of my inner INFJ powers and gifts.
56. I am vibrant.
57. I am making the most of today.
58. I am aware of my body and its needs.
59. I am aware that I need rest.
60. I am aware that I need alone time.
61. I am aware that I need to eat well and treat my body well.
62. I am now starting today making it a priority to get these things because I am worthy of them.
63. I am able to separate my feelings from the feelings of others.
64. I am under no obligation to always put others' feelings before my own.
65. I am abundance.
66. I am appreciative of all that I have.
67. I am happy.
68. I am in the flow of life.
69. I am here to grow and expand.
70. I am responsible only for my own feelings.
71. I am responsible only for my own behavior.
72. I am allowed to put myself first when needed because it is the only way that I can truly help others.
73. I believe in myself.
74. I am motivated.
75. I am dedicated.
76. I am interested in humanity, and this is the right way to be.
77. I am an independent thinker.
78. I am one who will not be manipulated.
79. I am in command of my life.
80. I am loving my life.
81. I am gratitude.
82. I am healing.
83. I am peaceful.
84. I am not responsible for helping those who do not want to be helped.
85. I am an INFJ, and I use my precious energy and skills to aid those who need my help, those who want my help.
86. I am an INFJ, and when my cup is full, I stop pouring.
87. I am a dreamer.
88. I am an action taker, and I am taking action today.
89. I am persistent.
90. I am strong.
91. I am loving all that I am.
92. I am not responsible for my being misunderstood.
93. I am worth understanding, but I am willing to let go of those who do not put forth the effort to know me.
94. I am not responsible for those who do not want to be in my life.
95. I am not responsible for those who are no longer in my life.
96. I am not responsible for these people even if they call me with a problem years after they have abandoned me.
97. I am not responsible for all of those who in the past have rejected me.
98. I will use no more of my precious INFJ energy on them.
99. I am balanced.
100. I am positive.
101. I am love.
102. I am letting go.
103. I am humble yet confident and secure.
104. I am worthwhile and profitable regardless of what the world says about me.
105. I am poised and centered no matter what is going on around me.
106. I am co-creating my own magnificent existence, and my thoughts are growing more centered, useful, and positive every day.
107. I am comfortable.
108. I am choosing my life moment by moment.
109. I am an INFJ, and my opinions and preferences are just as important as anyone else's. I will let them be known with confidence.
110. I am capable of changing the world and of making it better by my being in it.
111. I am able to cut toxic people out of my life, and I will do so when necessary.
112. I am strong and able to cut ties when needed, be that with a job, a habit, or a relationship.
113. I am a powerful tree in a storm, and no storm can last forever.
114. I am honoring my higher self.
115. I am soul.
116. I am truth.
117. I am accepting of change.
118. I am introverted.
119. I gain energy when I'm alone, and I have a right to enjoy my alone time.
120. I am allowed to have the hobbies I enjoy despite what anyone around me thinks about them.
121. I am capable of being here now.
122. I am aware that this moment is the only moment of my life that I'm truly experiencing.
123. I am free.
124. I am open.
125. I am wise.
126. I am letting go.
127. I am loving and accepting of my personality.
128. I am an INFJ, and there are others out there like me.
129. I am an INFJ, and I am enough.
Discovering I'm an INFJ was a amazing discovery, watching various vlogs on mbpi types and every on on INFJ s it's as if they were describing me. I've done numerous on online tests and every one confirmed I'm an INFJ, and as I discovery more I feel I'm slowly unlocking the inner me.
Just repeating a comment I left on another video …
Thank you, THANK YOU for giving me an explanation for why I’ve struggled so much in life that isn’t mental illness or autism. Discovering this channel feels like a gift from the universe. I’ve never hit the subscribe button so hard. ❤
So glad it’s helping you! Thank you for being a part of the circle.
Jay
Thank you, needed to hear this. Its rough being a cheerleader for everyone else. We forget to do it for ourselves. ❤
The images of God’s creation in this are wonderful, Jay. His peace and love infuse me, especially reading my Bible. He gives me wisdom and rest. He made me the unique, compassionate person I am and have been since being an aware little girl. God bless you for being my friend! Jae 🇦🇺🧡✝️
Yes it is truly beautiful Jae, thank you for watching!
Jay
Hello. I hope you don't mind me bringing to your attention that while reading the Bible on my own, I've found that it never once says that Jesus is God. If you look for a plain scripture where Jesus says, "I am God," you will not find it. Nor will you find anyone saying "Jesus is God." The vast majority of churches in the world teach that Jesus is God, which according to my recent discoveries, is a doctrine based solely on interpretation. That's very dangerous, especially since God says he will not share his praise and glory with another (Psalm 42:8).
Remember, this is Satan's kingdom we're in right now, and I believe this is the enemies booby trap under the church waiting to go off at judgment. Look at 2 Peter 1:1-3... "just as there will be false teachers among you, who will subtly introduce destructive heresies, even denying the Master who bought them... many will follow their shameful ways, and because of them the way of truth will be spoken evil of... they will exploit you with false arguments and twisted doctrine."
"Denying the Master," how? As shown above, by taking the glory and praise due to God and placing it upon his Son, and exhalting him as God when he's a man like you and me, who has the same God and Father as you and me (John 4:22, John 17:3). To say again, detracting from the work of who and what Jesus is and did, which is his rightful glory, and putting God's glory as Father and creator on Jesus. This worship is causing the Son to eclipse the Father.
Jesus never said "I am God." We shouldn't put words in his mouth.
I think I have finally realized that I hate being an INFJ. Life is so hard - and I'm the one making it hard. I can fix others but it's hard fixing myself.
I'm sorry you're struggling ❤ but if it makes you feel any better, it actually WILL get better… and it will be worth it a trillion fold. I feel as if every INFJ goes through this phase once they realize how complex they are. It's disheartening because we genuinely mean well and work hard but yet we never really fit in and most things have always been harder for us in comparison to others but we never knew WHY. We are authentic and intense about everything and that scares, triggers, those who live by cultural norms and traditions because it's all they have. The INFJ remorse lays in the irony of who we are and how it's affected us for the worst- how open minded & understanding we are of others but yet we are constantly misunderstood and miatreaded, how compassionate we are vs how little compassion others give us, how we value harmony & connectedness vs the existential isolation we’ve grappled with since childhood etc. We each thought we were alone in this experience but it gets better once we realize there are others like us!! I found so much solace and healing in connecting with other INFJ’s online. I usually get the best outcomes when I google search my current thought with the keywords “reddit” and “infj” lol. I hope this ramble helps you somehow. You deserve so much love!
It helps me! Just recently I managed to get through a really tough transition and I landed on my feet in spades. I have mixed emotions about it because I’m still alone but it’s a new beginning. If I can settle my heart I know there’s infinite potential. Thank you for the encouraging words dear one. It’s the calm after the storm
Trying to help peep who don't want your help leads to burnout. You're not alone.
What INFJs Think They Want:
🤝 Meaningful Connections: You crave intimacy and understanding in your relationships.
🌟 Idealistic Goals: You're driven by a sense of purpose and want to make a difference.
🏆 Recognition and Validation: You want to feel seen and appreciated for your unique insights.
🛠 Perfection and Order: You seek harmony and detest chaos, desiring a structured environment.
🌿 Solitude for Reflection: You need time alone to recharge and maintain your mental and emotional balance.
What INFJs Actually Need:
⚖ Balanced Relationships: You need supportive connections that also allow for space to avoid emotional burnout.
🧭 Practical Steps Towards Goals: You need to ground your aspirations in reality with realistic, achievable plans.
🌈 Internal Validation: You need to cultivate self-acceptance and inner confidence, reducing your reliance on external validation.
🌱 Flexibility and Adaptability: You need to embrace changes and imperfections, as perfectionism can be paralyzing.
🕰 Engaging with the Present: You need to practice mindfulness and presence to fully enjoy your experiences.
As an INFJ, understanding the difference between what you think you want and what you actually need can be a powerful step towards personal growth and fulfillment. Remember to balance your ideals with practical self-care and embrace the beauty of the present moment.
Thank you for sharing, the root of struggle for me is often perfectionism. When INFJs have such a powerful insight it feels real, and while this insight isn't yet infront of our eyes it feels like its a matter of time before this insight will be infront of our eyes. With inferior extraverted sensing, we're not in reality so its easier to miss reality which often is more comforting than our incredible insights. This can lead to perfectionism, and I realise even if i reach the top level of something, id still feel like I need to push harder because i'm not at the top level of something else. From one INFJ to another, I think and can almost guarantee that you're doing great in life. I bet if another type knew what we do, they would realise that we're great.
I think Ni is idealising the future and Se is stopping to see how far we've come
Excellent, thanks Jay! Love the mountain and forest scenery too. Been through so much, and still standing-this resonates with me today.
You’re welcome! Glad you enjoyed it!
Jay
We appreciate all that you do for our community!
You are welcome 🙏
Jay
I am going through a really rough patch dealing with grief. This video made me cry so hard. Thank you.
Yesterday I was feeling discouraged, and this video is exactly what I needed to lift my spirits and give me the motivation I needed to keep going. Deep down I know all these things to be true, but it is so good to hear it. Thank you so much for this. Thank you for all that you are doing to make life better for all INFJs. You are truly making a difference in people's lives. Yesterday I read your newsletter and you mentioned getting out for a walk, and It motivated me to do so and It felt great. It feels so good to feel understood and valued. Thank you. Please keep these amazing videos coming.
Its so wierd...this has some nuances of "energy and chakra" vibes, which don't match my personal beleifs. BUT the words themselves hit home so quick that I started tearing up. Thank you for posting this
I AM grateful for these affirmations, when I felt really needed to hear them. I AM my own biggest supporter, and embrace my uniqueness as a guilt-free INFJ me. Thank you so much Jay for posting this. ❤❤❤ From India🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳
You are so welcome, and yes, we must often affirm ourselves as INFJ’s. Glad this video helped you.
Jay
I feel so much better now knowing I'm not mental but infj... it's hard but we remain positive and change the world ❤
The greatest gift I give myself is a thank you prayer to the Lord , a quiet morning coffee and the rest of the day "is just what it is"; take them as they come...tomorrow has yet to happen and the past is the greatest teacher. Have a great day all.
Thanks for sharing, gratitude is so important. Sounds like you have a fantastic system there.
Jay
*I AM Stayin' Subscribed, & I'm an INFJ To the Max*
Great, thanks for watching!
Jay
Omg. First of all I love this!
Second, it’s hilarious some of the stuff: “I am capable of revealing myself to others at a slow and steady pace.”
It reads like a guide to managing my trauma responses - and I’m guessing all our trauma responses. 😂.
Seriously tho I really enjoyed this and wrote almost all of them down.
lol. Us INFJs know each other well! Thanks for watching, hopefully it will help you!
Jay
I squealed at that exact part hahah ahhh the trauma responses are so real! The lifelong abuse and consistent gaslighting really disoriented my idea of what “normal” conversations are like… the fear of the other person misunderstanding and mistreating me made me do weird things ahhg. It compelled me to overexplaina if my life depended on it (because that's what my body felt like) which always led to me awkwardly oversharing my lore to every person I spoke with. I thought I was talking about my life just like others do lol I quickly realized most people don't relate and therefore I was actually trauma dumping lololol. We live and we learn ❤
I love this-thank you. I am an unapologetic INFJ!!!
You are very welcome!
Jay
Somehow.. I cried twice after watching your channel. I feel, I am being understand by someone else.. which I never felt before. Thank you. another me.
I’m glad the channel is helping you! Thanks for watching and welcome to the circle!
Jay
The way each affirmation simultaneously empowers me and evokes every emotion I've ever experienced 😂❤ crying because each point was once a journal entry, a serious struggle in my life…. the tears are both happy and sad because those lessons were bruising and arduous but so profound and meaningful. Thank you for creating this video ❤
Hallelujah praise God thank you Jesus Hallelujah
Wow this was incredible! Thank you so very much for this. I will indeed practice this INFJ mantra everyday. This video has come at a critical time in my life. And I don’t believe it was by chance. I appreciate and respect you sir. Thank you. 😊🙏🏻
So glad it helped you! Thank you for watching!
Jay
Thank you for the encouragement 🙏
Your voice, visual, an message 🤗 #ThankYou JAY🎉🎉🎉 🔥🔥🔥
❤*JSS
You are welcome!
Jay
You are such a beautiful man, in all the ways. Thank you for this wonderful video. I feel So understood
Thanks so much, I appreciate that. Glad you enjoyed it!
Jay
As an INFJ from the desert land. I salute you and I deeply appreciate the effort you do and share with us ❤
This helped a lot recenter me today I was feeling anxiety and this helped me undo that anxiety.
So glad it helped you! Thanks for watching!
Jay
I’m feeling all of this and love it ❤!
Awesome, thanks for watching!
Jay
Thanku so much for this wonderful video ❤❤
My pleasure 😊
Jay
Thank you! Love from Serbia❤
You are welcome!
Jay
I just love this. How unique ❤ - fellow INFJ
Thank you, glad you enjoyed it!
Jay
This was an answer to prayer. Thank you 🌸
You are welcome, I’m glad it helped you!
Jay
Another great video, thanks! This was a nice way to start the day
Thank you, glad you liked it!
Jay
Thank you 🙏
You’re welcome 😊
Beautiful ❤️
Thank you! 😊
Jay
Thank you for this positive affirmations!
You are welcome!
Jay
Thank you for this beautiful, relaxing video full of insights. I appreciate your work so much, thanks for sharing the wisdom you have gained throughout the years with all of us. Be blessed, dear Jay!!! 😇☺💛
You are so welcome 🙏 thank you for the comment and for watching!
Jay
One of the best affirmations I have ever heard, and there have been many of them :) THX
Note to myself-
What INFJs Think They Want:
🤝 Meaningful Connections: You crave intimacy and understanding in your relationships.
🌟 Idealistic Goals: You're driven by a sense of purpose and want to make a difference.
🏆 Recognition and Validation: You want to feel seen and appreciated for your unique insights.
🛠 Perfection and Order: You seek harmony and detest chaos, desiring a structured environment.
🌿 Solitude for Reflection: You need time alone to recharge and maintain your mental and emotional balance.
What INFJs Actually Need:
⚖ Balanced Relationships: You require supportive connections that also allow for space to avoid emotional burnout.
🧭 Practical Steps Towards Goals: You need to ground your aspirations in reality with realistic, achievable plans.
🌈 Internal Validation: You need to cultivate self-acceptance and inner confidence, reducing your reliance on external validation.
🌱 Flexibility and Adaptability: You need to embrace changes and imperfections, as perfectionism can be paralyzing.
🕰 Engaging with the Present: You need to practice mindfulness and presence to fully enjoy your experiences.
As an INFJ, understanding the difference between what you think you want and what you actually require can be a powerful step towards personal growth and fulfillment. Remember to balance your ideals with practical self-care and embrace the beauty of the present moment.
Love it, Jay!
Thanks my friend!
Jay
This is awesome💕💕
Thank you!
Jay
Thank you so much for this! 🍀
You are so welcome!
Jay
Lovely! Thank you! ❤
You are welcome!
Jay
I love this so much.
Awesome, glad it helped you!
Jay
This is excellent. Love the specificity and how relatable it all is❤
Luv this! I’ll listen to this often.
Thank you : )
Welcome!
Jay
So encouraging words 🤝
I am Monad ❤😊
Wow, that was so beautiful. Thank you so much. Sending you love.
You are so welcome
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You should collaborate with Lavendaire, she is also INFJ.
I am
Yes, you are!
Jay
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Am I the only INFJ slipping into nihilism?
How do you keep yourself hopeful as you look out at the world today?
Love this ❤
Thanks ❤
Bedankt
Thank you so much for the donation! means a lot 🙏
Jay
Thanks!
Thanks so much! I appreciate the donation my friend. Means a lot. 🙏
Jay
I am an INFJ and I am enough.
Thanks a lot✨
I would like your opinion, I met a woman that I really like and I would like to try to go further but there is a problem. Obviously I have no problem with everyone's beliefs but my love of betterment and improvement but above all of the strength of wanting something and going in the direction of obtaining it means that I am in conflict with its passivity in its potential. Indeed, like each of us, I deeply believe that everyone can improve as much as they want. But she thinks that God will bring the perfect man directly to her. I asked her what if she had to improve for a man, what would she do and she says he will have to love her the way she is otherwise it just won't be the right one. And obviously this answer does not suit me, this fate cannot follow me in my projects and everything. So I would like to ask you, according to you and your experience. Should I try again to discuss it with her or should I give up and move on with my life?
Thanks✨
Hint: she does not have to improve for a man. She is correct in saying that the Lord will bring to her the man who’ll love her for who she is. From the bible: But with God all things are possible~Matthew 19:26
Well it's correct in this perception of things. If God brings her that man then YES, all will be okay. And she is probably correct. Only problem is that I think in this life, we must move as strong as we want to get what we want and I trust God has always give to us what we need. All is already a gift so go get or stay still. That's my opinion no grief.
Thanks for your answer mate✨@@artistchristos
hey, sry to leave this here but didn't see a DM option. I heard recently that being an INFJ is envious...as much as I struggle for meaning and relationships in this world I can't understand why any one would want to be like me. I'm thinking that maybe people are just wanting to be unique and rare. Possible future topic for you, would INFJs choose to be INFJs, or would they rather be another personality type. Knowing we can never change what or who we are, but would we choose to be as we are, if we had a choice?
edit: I meant that people are envious of the INFJ personality type.
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Jay
Of all your videos, I think this one is a bit exaggerated and maybe even ridiculous. I mean, the INFJ personality is not that amazing. It has many flaws, and I don't think the personality comes close to any kind of perfection, as most people think, but the interest in it is mostly there because it's rare.
I think you're misunderstanding the video? This is supposed to be a self help guide for INFJs, because we're so used to supporting to others, but refuse to keep any positive affirmations for ourselves. Accepting ourselves for who we are isn't easy IMO. I'm still in therapy for it.
I AM so satisfied with this video, thanks! 🪄
Awesome! Thank you!
Jay
Thank you so much for this!
Thanks!
Thanks so much for the donation! Really means a lot to me :)
Jay
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